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15 Easy & Inexpensive DIY Planters for Your Dorm

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Spring has arrived! While you're avoiding your spring cleaning, why not do something a little more fun and lighten up your home with some greenery? One of the best things about adding plants to your living space is putting them in adorable planters, but those tend to add up. That's where we come in—we've rounded up the cutest (and easiest to make) planters so you can give your new plant babies their own stylish homes.

1. Clothespin Planters

You can make this planter entirely from items you already have lying around. Now, you can give them new purpose and get a minimalist planter in return.

2. Handmade Clay Pots

The possibilities for these planters are endless. Luckily, they're easy enough to make that you can try every single variation! Plus, buy clay in different colors to further personalize your creations.

3. Milk Carton Hanging Planter

This planter nails the shabby-chic look without breaking the bank, and there's room for personalization, too. The hanging aspect allows your plants to grow out of the planter, making your room feel like the canopy of a forest.

4. Tea Tin Herb Planters

If you're secretly a grandma who can't get enough tea, why not give the cute tins a fresh function once they're empty? They certainly look like something you would buy at Urban Outfitters but without the steep price tag; your friends will be totally fooled!

5. Mini Wine Cork Planters

For your baby plants, like smaller succulents and cacti, try these adorable miniature planters. You can even add magnets to the back and display them on your fridge!

6. Instant Herb Garden

Turn your tabletop into a rustic herb garden (or a desert full of cacti—whichever you prefer!) with a DIY that's incredibly easy to tackle. This is definitely a craft that Lauren Conrad would approve of.

7. Plastic Animal Planters

Liven up any bookshelf or desk by dressing up a few of your favorite animals with some flora. These also make for a great gift.

8. Floppy Disk Planters

This one's for the lover of all things retro! How cool is it to make a home for your plants out of the ghosts of past technology? Guess you'll have to find out.

9. Tea Cup Planter

Here's one more DIY for the tea addicts out there. These are just too adorable to pass up. Use your favorite chipped teacup or buy some from antique shops for a bargain!

Related: 15 Ways to Customize Your Spring Break Bottle

10. Bike Planter

While this technically isn't a DIY, you can definitely use this product as inspiration to deck out your bike with a cute plant buddy—one that can join you while you run errands or ride around campus!

11. Book Planters

The next time you see a pile of old, dusty books, grab them and make these super unique planters. 

12. Ice Cream Dish Planters

These will make your plants look like royalty. You can only fit one plant in each, but this definitely works as an accent piece, especially when you spray paint the dishes.

13. Shell-Potted Succulents

This is like making your own mini terrarium without the hassle or massive amount of supplies. The next time you take a beach trip look out for this type of shell. It's the perfect souvenir—you'll remember your trip while giving your plants a cute place to thrive.

14. Spray Paint Succulent Pots

If you're more of a painter, grab your spray paints and some plain planters and go crazy! This geometric style will fit in just about anywhere.

15. Marbleized Planter

This DIY screams springtime, and it's surprisingly easy to make with just spray paint and water!


19 Looks Your Best Friend Knows Too Well

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Thank goodness for besties. Who else would share their clothes, dance the night away or binge-watch Netflix with us? We love our best friends, mostly because they know us better than anyone else (and won’t judge us for eating a whole jar of Nutella). Your bestie just gets you, so much so that you two don’t even need to speak (don't need, but certainly want!). Sometimes one look just says it all.

1. That look when you see your crush at a party and need her help to be cool:

2. Or when someone creepy is hitting on you and you need to be rescued:

3. When your favorite song comes on in the bar:

4. And then when she suggests late night pizza:

5. If you live with her, you know the look you give when it's her turn to wash the dishes:

6. Or when you realize that you both bought the same dress at the mall:

7. When you’re bored in class, you know you can shoot her this look from across the room:

8. She's an expert at recognizing your post-all-nighter look:

9. Your bestie knows you have a secret to spill when she sees this:

10. Or when you absolutely hate her outfit:

11. She can tell when you’ve messed up:

12. And you hate it when you know she’s right:

13. Some nights you’re down to go out:

14. But she also understands when you want to stay in:

15. You can’t help giving her this look when she texts her ex:

16. But you’re totally pumped when she tells you she hooked up with her crush:

17. Everyone can tell when you two have an inside joke:

 

18. Sometimes she can get on your nerves:

19. But at the end of the day, you’re so thankful to have her in your life. 

Justin Bieber Cancels Meet-And-Greets Due to Depression

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Justin Bieber announced on Instagram yesterday in a heart-wrenching post that he will no longer be hosting meet-and-greets for his devoted Beliebers. The pop star revealed that the events are very emotionally taxing on him and he feels constant pressure to live up to superfans’ unrealistic expectations. 


 

Love u guys.. I'm going to be canceling my meet and greets. I enjoy meeting such incredible people but I end up feeling so drained and filled with so much of other people's spiritual energy that I end up so drained and unhappy.. Want to make people smile and happy but not at my expense and I always leave feeling mentally and emotionally exhausted to the point of depression .. The pressure of meeting people's expectations of what I'm supposed to be is so much for me to handle and a lot on my shoulders. Never want to disappoint but I feel I would rather give you guys the show and my albums as promised. Can't tell you how sorry I am, and wish it wasn't so hard on me.. And I want to stay in the healthy mindset I'm in to give you the best show you have ever seen ;)

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Back in 2015, Bieber proved to the world that he still had something great to offer when he made a successful and unexpected comeback with hit songs like “Where R U Now” and “Sorry.” But now the star says he feels like he might be slipping again, writing on Instagram, “I want to stay in the healthy mindset I’m in to give you the best show you have ever seen.” 

The post, which received more than a million likes, welcomed mixed responses from fans—some expressing support and concern, others extremely disappointed. But it’s okay, Justin. We understand. You should go and love yourself first. 

This Vending Machine Sells Plan B and Lube Along With Candy

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Many times vending machines are the best part of a building—when they're working, that is. But so many of them just aren't living up to their potential, when they could sell so much more than food! There's one guy who gets it—The Huffington Post reports that at one Brooklyn laundromat, there's a vending machine that sells pregnancy tests, Plan-B (the morning after pill) and lube, right next to M&Ms and Snickers bars.

Peter Rose, the owner of Sunshine Laundromat and Pinball, explained his motivation for choosing the items to DNAinfo: “I was just bored one day perusing the aisles of CVS,” he said. “I saw [the Plan B] and thought, ‘That doesn’t belong in a vending machine,’ and so I bought some.” According to DNAinfo, both the pregnancy test and lube cost $10 each, while the Plan B sells for $35. Tech Insider reports that all three items are cheaper than they are at other drug stores, where a Plan B ranges from $40 to $50.

And in case potential buyers are worried about impending regulations, Food & Drug Association spokesperson Andrea Fischer told DNAinfo: “There is no provision in the Federal Food, Drug, and Cosmetic Act that prohibits the sale of over-the-counter drug preparations in vending machines or in places other than drug stores.”

After this, who knows what'll be in the vending machine next? Perhaps Beyonce tickets?!

This Waitress Quit Her Job after Criticism of Her Natural Hair

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When you get a real, paying job, the feelings of relief and happiness are amazing. Akua Agyemfra, a 20-year-old living in Toronto, didn't get to experience those feelings for long, however. Agyemfra had to quit her job after being asked to leave work by a manager due to her hair style, Cosmopolitan reports.

Agyemfra told CBC News that when first hired by Jack Astor’s Bar and Grill in Toronto, she wore her hair in a bun, but was asked if she could wear it down for the job, to which she agreed. She wore extensions during her first two training shifts, but then decided to take them out. "After I took out my braids, my Afro didn't not comply to the 'straight hair' rule. To maintain it and look presentable, I had to put it in a bun," she said in a Facebook post on the incident.

This was seen as unacceptable by the restaurant, and the assistant manager later asking Agyemfra to go home, because her hair was not styled straight down. In an interview with BuzzFeed News, Agyemfra said she tried showing the manager that her hair couldn’t hang straight down, but was still asked to leave. “I’m not a confrontational person,” Agyemfra said. “Then I realized when I went home that it was a violation of my rights. You can’t send me home based on my hair.”

The Daily Mail reports that a spokesperson for the bar and grill says waitress can wear their hair down or in a "stylish up-do"—though clearly Agyemfra's bun was not considered stylish enough.

Agyemfra, who is of Ghanaian descent, says her hair is a staple of her culture and that rightly, it's an important part of her identity. "I personally choose to braid it down sometimes or wear out in a bun," she told BuzzFeed News. "I refuse to be discriminated against because of my hair. That’s my DNA. I cannot change that."

Adele Has Some Choice Words for Brussels Terrorists

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At her London concert last night, Adele dedicated a moving rendition of her hit song “Make You Feel My Love” to the victims of recent terrorist attacks in Brussels, Belgium. Speaking to the crowd before her performance, Adele said, “We’re all here for the same reason…we’re all united. So that makes us much better than them fuckers.”

The British pop star also had a few choice words for the attackers: “You’re on your own, you fucking loners.” 

Leave it to Adele to tug at our heartstrings and tell it like it is within a single performance.

What do you think of Adele's tribute to Brussels, collegiettes?

Birth Control Has a Perk You Probably Didn't Know About

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There comes a time in almost every girl's life when she has to decide whether or not to use birth control. Whether it’s because of complaints of harsh periods, bad acne or just not wanting to get pregnant, many women decide to go on the pill.

According to a new study published in the current issue of Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise, another excellent outcome of using birth control is fewer sports injuries. Yes, you read that right. According to Refinery29, after puberty women are about two times more likely to have an ACL, or "anterior cruciate ligament" injury compared to men. That's a nasty injury that can put you out of commission for months.  It's likely that estrogen is a key factor in the difference between men and women getting this injury. When a woman goes on birth control, the study suggests, their estrogen levels are regulated, which helps prevents injury.

Researchers looked at personal insurance claims and prescription information for 23,428 women between the ages of 15 and 39, and found that women on birth control were less likely to get serious injuries that required surgery.

So although this benefit may not be totally relevant to women who don't participate in rigorous physical activity, it's still great to know that birth control can keep you healthy and safe, from your ovaries to your ligaments.

Elizabeth Olsen Puts That Michelle Tanner Rumor to Rest

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When Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen declined to return as Michelle Tanner for Netflix’s Fuller House reboot, fans hoped that their sister Elizabeth Olsen would fill the role. But the younger Olsen is going on the record to say she is not making an appearance on the show any time soon. In fact, she wasn’t even offered the part.


Olsen has nothing against the new Netflix series: she watched the first episode and said it was "great.” But when asked how she feels about the beloved sitcom making a comeback, she simply laughed and refused to make further comments about it. Cleary she’s not all that interested in talking about her older sisters' work. After all, she was only an infant when they were filming the original Full House.

When the interviewer brought up the rumor that she would be taking on the role of Michelle, Olsen looked genuinely confused, shifting her glances from side to side. She set the record straight and said she didn't get offered the part. "If I did, I'm pretty sure no one on my team heard it… I don't know where that [rumor] started."

It would be interesting to see Michelle all grown up, but it's safe to say none of the Olsens will be showing up on Fuller House.


Here’s Who's Winning After the "Western Tuesday" Primaries

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Primary and caucus results continued rolling in this week on “Western Tuesday.” Idaho (Democratic only), Arizona, and Utah residents voted on who they thought should be the next President of the United States. With only two candidates for the Democrats and three for the Republicans, the race for the presidency getting narrower as we move closer to November every day. If you haven’t stayed caught up on your political news lately, here’s what you missed on “Western Tuesday”:

Clinton and Trump Keep On Winning


Unsurprisingly, the presidential frontrunners continue winning more and more delegates, outpacing their competition. According to the The New York Times, Donald Trump won in Arizona, taking all 58 of the state’s Republican delegates and adding to his lead over Cruz and Kasich. He now has 738 delegates (you need 1,237 to win the GOP nomination). Arizona, known for its issues with immigration, turned out to be an easy win for Trump’s “Let’s Build a Wall!” policy. Sheriff Joe Arpaio, known for aggressively arresting illegal immigrants, was one of Trump’s many supporters in the state.

Hillary Clinton won in Arizona, too, pushing her lead over Bernie even higher. The New York Times reported that Hillary captured 75 delegates in Arizona—she now has 1,223 of the 2,383 needed to win the nomination. Although that was her only win of the night, the state had far more Democratic delegates at stake than Idaho and Utah.

Clinton’s victory speech addressed Donald Trump instead of hitting Sanders, her competition in the primaries. “This is not just a contest between different candidates,” she said, according to CNN. “This is a contest between fundamentally different views of our country, our values and our futures.” CNN set Hillary’s odds of winning the nomination at 97 percent after last night—giving Clinton something to celebrate.

Bernie Sanders Isn’t Done Yet

Even though it is likely Hillary will get the nomination, the race isn’t over yet, folks. Bernie Sanders won the Idaho and Utah caucuses—He usually does much better in caucuses than in closed primary voting. “I’m not predicting victory, but I’m not predicting defeat, either,” Sanders' campaign manager Jeff Weaver said, according to CNN. “We have a path to victory. It’s not an easy path, but it never has been an easy path.”

Cruz Picked Up Utah…and Jeb Bush

Ted Cruz easily won Utah’s caucuses with 69 percent of the vote, according to The New York Times. Utah is known for having many Mormon and other religious voters. Trump’s loss shows that he still hasn’t quite appealed to the heavily religious and conservative portions of the Republican party.

In addition to winning half of the states up for grabs for the GOP on Tuesday, Cruz picked up a powerful supporter: Jeb Bush. “Ted is a consistent, principled conservative who has demonstrated the ability to appeal to voters and win primary contests," said Bush to CNN. "Washington is broken, and the only way Republicans can hope to win back the White House and put our nation on a better path is to support a nominee who can articulate how conservative policies will help people rise up and reach their full potential." After all of Trump’s bullying of poor Jeb, we’re not surprised he decided to support Ted Cruz a month after dropping out of the race.



Kasich Was Behind Everyone—Including People Who Dropped Out


John Kasich, who remains in the presidential race with 143 delegates, didn’t win any states during “Western Tuesday.” What might have been sadder than not winning any states was that Kasich was behind Marco Rubio for a while in terms of votes from Arizona…even though Rubio dropped out of the race last week. CNN reported that Kasich is throwing his efforts into California, where a loss would probably end his campaign. Can the candidate stay in the race?

There Were Tons of Voters


Apparently, the results weren’t the only headline in Arizona. A record number of voters showed up at polls, leading to chaos. According to AZ Central, hundreds of people were still in line to vote in Phoenix at 11 p.m.—four hours after polls closed. For voters who showed up at 7 p.m., some of the lines reached out over four blocks. Maricopa county, one of the largest in the state, had only “one site per every 21,000 voters,” allegedly because county officials wanted to save money. I don't know about you, but to me a huge presidential election doesn't seem like the best time to be cutting costs. 

The Candidates Showed Their Support for Brussels

In the midst of Tuesday’s voting, a more tragic and much more important event occurred in Brussels, Belgium. At least 31 people had been confirmed dead, with nearly 200 injured, after multiple explosions went off in an airport and subway station there. The city has been shaken up by the deadly terror attacks, which ISIS (Daesh) claimed as their own doing. The world took notice of the event—and so did the candidates.

According to ABC News, Ted Cruz called for President Obama to return to America instead of “spending his time going to baseball games with the Castros.” Donald Trump also announced on Good Morning America that he would be taking ISIS out if he were president.

Similarly, Hillary Clinton and Bernie Sanders tweeted out and announced their solidarity with Brussels in the wake of the primaries.

Saturday holds three more Democratic caucuses, while Republican voting picks back up in Wisconsin on Tuesday. Happy Voting! 

New Ads Have Been Released Slut-Shaming Melania Trump

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An anti-Trump Republican group has released an ad that slut-shames his wife, Melania, Vox reports. While the fight against Trump is one plenty of people can get behind, blatant sexism isn't the best strategy.

The ad, which features a nearly naked Melania Trump, uses a photo from a GQ shoot she did back in 2000. It reads: MEET MELANIA TRUMP. YOUR NEXT FIRST LADY. OR, YOU COULD SUPPORT TED CRUZ ON TUESDAY.

The ad was targeted at Mormons in Utah, who, while very conservative, don’t like Trump for his radical policies and ‘unchristian’ behavior. What’s perhaps most concerning about this ad is that it was released by a female Republican political strategist, Liz Mair, for the Super PAC Make America Awesome. Why is a powerful woman trying to tear down a candidate through his wife, a totally separate person?

Because Melania is so beautiful, many people don’t realize how accomplished she is. She studied architecture and design at the University of Ljubljana in Slovenia, speaks five languages, and heads her own jewelry and cosmetics lines, according to Vox.

The story of an accomplished woman being slut-shamed is all too familiar. The idea that her choice to pose naked makes her somehow less of a person is ridiculous—and it's silly that her former modeling should somehow reflect on her husband's politics, as terrible as those may be. It’s also worth noting that while Melania should support her husband, that doesn’t necessarily mean she has to agree with him. Plenty of couples have varying political opinions and that can be good and healthy for a relationship.

Mair told Vox that the ad is not slut-shaming Melania, but is rather pointing out that the picture "sends an implicit message of female subservience" because she looks vulnerable and is handcuffed to a briefcase. That excuse doesn't really ring true, as you can barely tell there are handcuffs in the picture, and the ad's still implying Melania's photo shoot choices say something about Donald Trump's governing abilities.

Ultimately this issue goes beyond politics. It’s about doing the right thing for women, and this ad is definitely not doing the right thing for women. 

5 Things You Should Look for On Admitted Students Day

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Entering college for the first time can be stressful, scary and most of all--- hard. With the flurry of transitioning between the halls of high school to the green campuses of college, it can be difficult to decipher if the school of your dreams is really the fantasy you originally thought. So, incoming freshman, get your checklist ready! With the help of some professionals, we figured out the five things every student should watch out for on Admitted Students Day.

1. Equal treatment of all students

It may be 2016, but (unfortunately) that doesn’t mean that inequality has vanished completely, especially on large college campuses!

“A huge red flag to look out for if you, or someone that you know or see is in the minority/diverse group in any way, is to make sure that your or their needs are being addressed and respected just as much as everyone else,” says Lori Maas, a guidance counselor at Eastwood  High School in Ohio. Do everyone’s questions get answered? Is there any discrimination among the students or staff members? Making sure that everyone is treated with equal respect is huge.

Kortni Montag, a freshman at the University of Toledo, says that equal treatment goes a long way when attending an Admitted Students Day for the first time. “I think that equal treatment to all students makes individuals feel as if their education and experience matters just as much as the next person’s,” says Kortni. “That makes for a better environment in classrooms and [on] campuses in general.” Equality creates a healthy learning environment from the first day!

Inequality can be experienced for many different reasons. If you see disrespect or a certain privilege that is being given to students because of gender, race, wealth or anything in between, it can be a telltale sign that a university or college may be biased towards its students. When everyone is on the same playing field, it can become much easier to focus on education and feel more at home on campus!

2. The vibe of the student body 

We get it, soon-to-be collegiettes. Coming to college for the first time can be an extremely daunting experience in itself, which is why having friendly people along the way is super important.

Although you shouldn’t base your college decision on first impressions, it is useful to sense a clear vibe when determining if the people you will be going to school with have the best intentions. Admitted Students Day will allow you to meet some of your peers!

Mimi Doe, co-founder and president of Top Tier Admissions and co-author of the book Don’t worry you’ll get in! says that it is important to make positive connections with other students on Admitted Students Day. “Especially for young women, it is really critical when selecting a college [to have] a heightened awareness of what kind of support is in their peer and supervisor groups,” she says. While it’s not a huge deal-breaker, trying to feel a connection between you and your peers early on can mean more than you might think!

Maas agrees with Doe. “It can help you make trusted friends of the same gender, as well as see who is not trustworthy," she says. "You want to make sure that the student body is open and kind. It limits bias and makes everyone feel more comfortable.”

Admitted Students Day is a great chance to see if you could fit in with the students around you. So, take advantage of getting to know other students as much as you can!

Related: This is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Prepare for College

3. If the college gives back to new students

Whether a college gives back to its new students on Admitted Students Day or not does wonders to show how excited the college is about potential students.

Do they offer free food? Are they putting on awesome events? Do they give away coupons and merchandise? Whatever it is, a college that makes its environment fun and enjoyable to new students on Admitted Students Day is a college that cares about the future of its newcomers. “One sure way to show students that the college is also interested in their attendance is to offer free things that will show they care about garnering the interest of new students,” Maas says. Make sure on Admitted Students Day that your college will go the extra mile to provide gratitude and excitement to its new students for attending.

4. The resources available

When it comes to its students' successes, a college needs to contain a number of resources that are readily available to its students during their college career. On Admitted Students Day, incoming students should be made aware of these resources and how to access them.

Doe says you need your mind, body and spirit to be satisfied by the resources that should are provided by your college campus. “Mind: are their intellectual needs offered through tutoring? Body: is the health center opened to a young woman’s needs and OBGYN checkups? Are there co-ed locker rooms and are the gyms safe? Spirit: is there a place where a young woman could feel comfortable with like-minded people, and groups she can be a part of?” she asks. Making sure that all three aspects are nurtured on Admitted Students Day will prove to be a huge plus––especially when you are deciding if you will be comfortable and safe at a potential new school!

Additionally, make sure that all your safety needs are met! “Whether its flashing blue lights and/or a campus security you can call, the university you are attending should always have safety resources easy to access in case of an emergency,” Maas says. It is super important to look for these resources on Admitted Students Day to make sure the college of your choice can provide for your most important needs.

5. Your gut feeling 

Regardless of how many things have caught your attention on Admitted Student Day, nothing is more important than your natural instinct during the experience!

The reality is, if something just doesn’t feel right to you, it probably isn’t! Trusting yourself, your surroundings and your feelings when choosing the right college is valuable, and always something to be aware of when attending Admitted Students Day. “We, as women, need to honor our inner choice––its our North Star,” Doe says. “Once you are sure that your mind, body and spirit are going to be attended to, don’t let anything hold you back and pay attention to your gut feeling. Your true north star will always guide you.”

Relying on your intuition on Admitted Student Day––above all else––can tell you if you are really where you are meant to be.

Related: 6 People Who Shouldn't Have a Say in Your College Decision

Let out that breath—we’ve broken down the five major things that you should keep your eyes peeled for on Admitted Students Day. From treating all students equally to having a friendly student body, giving back to new students, having trusted resources and relying on your natural instinct, you can feel confident that the college you chose will help you rise to the top. 

17 Reasons To Date An Alpha Female

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The Alpha female -- she’s assertive, driven, passionate and purposeful. She’s self-confident and demands respect, and while her attributes make her a great leader, she is often seen as “too-assertive” or too intimidating to date. While many are unable to handle the dominant and go-getter nature of the alpha female, those who are able to rise up to the challenge will quickly realize why dating an Alpha female is a far better experience than seeking a submissive, “ladylike” partner.

1. She will challenge you

An Alpha woman will make you work harder, think more, and do better than you ever have before. She will constantly want you to rise to her growing standards and expectations. If you’re up for the challenge, she will turn you into a better partner, professional and overall better person.

2. She has ambitions

She’s career-oriented and self-driven, and she’ll push you to be the same.

3. She knows what she wants

Whether it be where to eat, or when it comes to defining the relationship, the Alpha woman knows what she wants, and she’s not afraid to admit it.

4. She doesn’t require your validation

She appreciates your compliments, but she doesn’t live off of them. The Alpha woman is a self-loving individual who finds confidence and validation from herself and her accomplishments, not from others. Tell her she’s beautiful, tell her she’s amazing -- but know that she understands she’s beautiful and amazing without you telling her too.

5. She’s more difficult to impress

Women like her are easily entertained, but seldom impressed -- know the difference. If you’re trying to win her heart, know it’ll take more convincing than dinner and a movie, and if you can rise to the challenge, you’ll quickly find out why the Alpha woman is always worth it.

6. She lives with purpose

She doesn’t talk for the sake of talking or “do” for the sake of doing. The Alpha woman is always on a mission, and she seeks fulfillment from her busy, productive lifestyle.

7. She embraces change

Change is the norm for an Alpha woman, who is always looking ahead to the next phase in her life. Spontaneity and change doesn’t phase her, but does it phase you?

8. She’s a risk taker

Because she understands that life begins at the end of your comfort zone.

9. She’s confident

While insecurities are difficult to completely eliminate, the Alpha female gets pretty damn close. She’s naturally confident, and why wouldn’t she be? She’s an empowered, goal-oriented individual who lives with poise and purpose.

10. She’s passionate

She gives 100 percent to her passions, interests, relationships and hobbies. Everything an Alpha female does is with passion and for a purpose.

11. She’ll intimidate you a little

But that’s okay. Her intention isn’t to threaten you, it’s to show the world that she isn’t to be messed with. While her go-getter personality and headstrong attitude will turn away the weak, if you treat her with respect and admiration, you’ll find her demeanor more attractive than intimidating.

12. She craves stability

In her hectic life, the alpha female craves stability in her all of her relationships. She’s decisive, communicative and she knows what she wants.

13. She doesn’t let someone take advantage of her

The Alpha female knows how to stand up for herself. Expect her to be confident and well-spoken, don’t expect her to meaninglessly apologize.

14. She’s straight to the point

Because she doesn’t understand the need for small talk, conversations full of “fluff” or passive-aggression.

15. She demands respect over affection

Because respect lasts longer, anyway.

16. She won’t fight with you, she’ll debate

Arguing with an alpha female is fruitless. If you want to prove your point, you’ll have to debate.

17. She values your loyalty

Because at the end of the day all the Alpha female really wants is someone to consistently support and uplift her.  

10 Times Tom Haverford Said What You Were Really Thinking

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Even though Parks and Rec ended with its seventh season last year, it's still fun to binge watch on Netflix and quote all the time. Tom Haverford is one of the best characters of all time, and he's constantly saying what we're all thinking. Here are some times Tom did just that...

1. On desserts: “You can’t say your favorite kind of cake is birthday cake. That’s like saying your favorite kind of cereal is breakfast cereal.”

2. On morality: "I have never taken the high road, but I tell other people to 'cause then there's more room for me on the low road."

3.  On taking the next step: "Think about how much better our friendship would be if we added 'doing it'!"

4. On our favorite middle-school read: "Twilight is dope. I couldn't put it down. It was like she was peering into my soul."

5. On every exam question: "I don't know how to answer that."

6. On finding a balance: "Sometimes you have to work a little, so you can ball a lot"

7. On the importance of love: "Love fades away. But things? Things last forever."

8. On your music taste: "Every song I download has to pass a series of rigorous tests to answer one simple question: Is it a banger?"

9. On avoiding ~certain people~: "If all goes well, this might be one of the last times I get to speak to you."

10. And of course, on going to sleep: "My usual bedtime routine: Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Instagram 'til I slowly drift off"

The show may be over, but Tom Haverford is forever in our hearts. 

4 Things You Can Do to Prep for Finals Now

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Finals week can be an absolute mess, especially when you’re trying to write several papers, study for multiple exams and pack up your belongings at the same time. But did you know that there are ways to get ready for finals even if you’re a month or two away from that terrifying time? Her Campus talked to collegiettes about their best practices for getting ready for finals—even in the month of March!

1. Talk to your professors if you need special accommodations

It may seem obvious, but it’s crucial to look at your academic calendar before it’s actually finals week! Since professors give out syllabi at the beginning of the semester, you should already have the due dates for most, if not all, of your final assignments. Start looking at what will be your most stressful points during finals week. Do you have three papers due in a 24-hour period? Do you have two finals scheduled at the same time? Now is the time to start looking at your options!

Megan Lucas, a junior at Wesleyan University, made the mistake of not looking over her calendar last semester, and it led to her most stressful finals week ever. “I really procrastinated seeing when my assignments were due, and when I made the realization that all four of my final papers needed to be turned in on either Thursday night or Friday morning, it was already too late to make alternative arrangements,” she says. “Many of my professors had told us earlier in the semester to contact them at least one week in advance to ask for paper extensions, and I felt so stupid for not taking the time to see if I needed these arrangements.”

Because of her experience, Megan encourages collegiettes to take time to map out what their last couple weeks of classes look like. “It doesn’t take much time to see how many papers and exams you have and when they’re due over the last two or three weeks of class,” she says. “Doing so will save you from having to pull two all-nighters fueled on stale coffee and Easy Mac!”

To avoid having a situation similar to Megan’s, start talking to your professors at least a couple of weeks in advance if you notice some conflicts in your schedule. Professors typically provide instructions for accommodating students in their syllabi, so be sure to consult that document first. Megan also recommends chatting with a professor during his or her office hours so that he or she will be able to write down your arrangements on the spot instead of rushing off after class.

Additionally, check with an administrator or professor to see if your college has any formal processes you need to go through to get a paper extension or an exam time change. It’s better to do this as far in advance as possible instead of getting frustrated during finals week!

2. Come up with study strategies and start your study guides early

Do you know off the top of your head how exactly you’re going to study for each of your classes or how you’re going to tackle each of your papers? If not, writing down your plan of attack should be something you do ahead of time in March before the finals week stress sets in! Make sure you nail down your study habits and strategies way before your exams.

Julie*, a sophomore at the University of Texas at Austin, tried to wing it during her first semester of college and felt totally lost in the process. “I hadn’t thought about how I was going to study for all the different exams I had,” she says. “Instead, I panicked, kind of just read everything over once or twice and went into all of my exams feeling completely unprepared and stressed.” Julie felt like her finals week was out of her control, and her grades suffered.

Following that experience, Julie decided she needed to save herself that same stress during her second semester in school. She researched different study strategies and talked to both her professors and a dean about how to better go about preparing for her exams. “I created study ‘road maps’ in late March and during the first couple weeks of April,” she says. “These included outlines of all the materials I’d learned thus far, schedules for how I was going to study everything and contact information for professors, TAs and tutors in case I had any questions.” Julie’s second-semester finals week went way better than her first one!

Want to get prepared like Julie? Talk to professors in their office hours about their suggestions for studying for their exams or tackling their papers. Julie also recommends talking to other students who’ve taken your classes in the past to see if they can offer any insights you can’t find anywhere else. How did they prepare for those exams? What information is the professor more likely to test you on? These are things to figure out before finals week to make your study time more effective and less stressful!

In addition for coming up with a plan for her finals preparation, Julie also started working on study guides for her exams even though it was only late March. “Some professors were nice enough to let me know what to start studying a month and a half before the final,” she says. “By the time finals week rolled around, I had most of my study guides complete!”

Julie also started organizing her notes and compiling her own study guides and outlines for her other classes. “I scribble a lot of stuff down in classes, and it was so nice to go back over my notes and decipher everything I’d written so far over the course of the semester,” she says. “It’s much easier to see what you have questions on when it’s March than when it’s the night before an exam!”

3. Find your study spaces well in advance

If you like a particular environment to study in, figure out where those spaces are or reserve them (if you need to)! What kinds of places do you work best in? Are there particular accommodations you need? For example, do you need an absolutely silent space like a library or empty classroom, or are you more productive with the ambient noise in cafes and coffeehouses? It’s better to get your study space in order now instead of waiting until the last second.

“During my freshman year, I found empty classrooms to do work in throughout the semester and just assumed that they’d be there during finals week,” Megan says. “However, little did I know that so many students like to use these classrooms when exams roll around, and since rooms have to be reserved through a request system, I kept getting booted out of classrooms by people who’d claimed them weeks ago.” Megan felt stressed about having her study environment change right before the most important time in the semester.

Not sure where your favorite places to study are? Use the rest of the semester to figure it out! It’s better to go into finals week with a plan instead of being stressed and unsure of how your week will work out.

It’s also a great time to reserve rooms if you have to. Colleges have different processes for reserving spaces (some make you go through your online student portal, others make you sign up for a time slot in person), so ask your peers, academics deans or professors to see how to reserve a room if you haven’t before!

4. Don’t forget to factor in all of the non-academic work you have to do

It’s so easy to get caught up in the finals week mayhem that you forget all of the other tasks you have to complete during your last week of school, like cleaning out your dorm or apartment. Packing seems simple; don’t you just throw everything into boxes and leave? But when you’re exhausted and stressed from exams and papers, trying to figure out how to pack everything up can be a gigantic hassle.

Jessica Pearl, a junior at the University of Florida, learned how difficult packing at the last second is the hard way her freshman year. “I had to move out less than 24 hours after my last two exams, and I just sort of assumed that I’d box everything up during that time,” she says. “Little did I know, packing is the biggest nightmare ever! I was extremely sleep deprived, hungry and fatigued, all while trying to pack a grand total of 11 boxes.”

When sophomore year rolled around, Jessica knew better. She started slowly packing up her room during the last week of March, putting away non-essential items that she never used in suitcases and boxes under her bed. “By the time finals week rolled around, I had around 85 percent of my room packed up,” she says. “I only left out clothes, toiletries and other small items I used on a daily basis, like my water bottle and hand sanitizer.” Jessica’s parents also visited her a couple weeks before school ended, so she had them bring some of her boxes home with them.

If you don’t live close to your campus, start looking at storage options for the summer. Many storage businesses send information to students via snail mail or email, but talking to the residential life staff, your RA or older students also helps (since they’ve gone through the process of summer storage before). Lots of colleges also provide information on these storage companies in their student centers or residential life offices, so those are definitely good places to check out!

If you don’t want to spend big bucks on these services, try storing items with friends or people in your dorm. The sooner you get your storage and moving situation set up, the less stressed you’ll be come finals week!

The end of the school year can either be incredibly stressful or totally doable if you start planning early. Follow these steps and keep that last-minute exam cramming to a minimum this spring!

*Name has been changed.

Win a Chromecast Streaming Device and Magic Mike XXL Goodies

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We’re all for the “classics”: The Titanic, Clueless, Mean Girls… but what’s better than Channing Tatum with his shirt off? Yeah—we’re drawing a blank, too.

For those of you who have maybe been living under a rock, Magic Mike is an American comedy-drama following the life of Michael “Magic Mike” Lane (nude, beefy Tatum) as he enters the world of male stripping for the first time. The sequel, Magic Mike XXL, follows Mike and his friends on an impromptu road trip years after their first adventures stripping together.

This month you can have a double dose of six-packs, as Magic Mike and Magic Mike XXL are both available to stream on HBO NOW, the standalone streaming service from HBO that gives subscribers access to all of HBO simply through internet connection. New subscribers can sign up for a 30-day free trial to watch both Magic Mike movies and discover even more of the latest hit movies and addictive original programming from HBO.

To help you celebrate all of the eye candy, HBO NOW is giving away a Magic Mike Gift Pack that contains a variety of HBO and Magic Mike-themed goodies: a Chromecast Device for easy streaming access, a Magic Mike XXL CD Soundtrack, a Magic Mike XXL Dog Tag, a HBO NOW Screen Cleaning Cloth, and an Alcide Herveux True Blood Funko Figure (played by Joe Manganiello, who’s also in Magic Mike)! Enter now for all the essentials to throw your very own Magic Mike viewing party!

 

 

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Zayn Malik is Only Friends with This Member of One Direction

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It has been almost a year to the day since Zayn Malik quit One Direction. While time does heal most wounds, that concept doesn’t seem to apply to Zayn’s split with the band.

In an interview with NME, Zayn reveals that he is still in close contact with Liam. “I'm still probably the closest to Liam. We talk on the phone…We haven't met up in a long time so we want to meet up.”

Alas, it seems like Liam is the only one making Zayn’s hotline bling these days. When it comes to his other former bandmates, “I tried to have contact but nobody’s reached out. So...whatever.” 

We're going to go cry into a pillow now, mourning the love lost between these five guys.

6 Ways to Support Your Partner Through Their Gender Transition

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Relationships are hard and one of the hardest things about them is learning to handle your partner’s emotions. This is true of any relationship, but even more so when your partner is going through something as emotionally tolling as a gender transition. No matter how much you love and support your partner, the process of transitioning can cause emotional strain for both of you. We compiled a list of a few tips to help you out when you find yourself needing to support your SO through their transition.

1. Do some research

Even if you are transgender yourself, it can never hurt to do some more research and fully understand the process that your partner will be undertaking. You might have plenty of very normal concerns about what the transition process will imply for you, your partner and your relationship. Will the hormones change their personality? Will your relationship change? What about your level of intimacy and chemistry? 

Remember: your worries are not fact. Of course you will have concerns; change is hard for everyone. However, doing a thorough investigation of the process will help to prepare you for what is to come and allow you to support your partner from a place of knowledge and understanding, rather than from one of guesses and hunches. 

With that being said, it’s important not to rely on your partner to be your educator on the subject. They are are your partner, not your teacher.  It can be overwhelming for both you if every conversation between the two of you becomes consumed by their transition. You should feel free to ask questions and show your interest, but do the bulk of your research on your own.

Here are some informative and approachable sources, to help you understand the gender transition process and curb your anxieties:

2. Mind your language

Maybe your partner has been going by their gender-identification pronoun for a while now. If that is the case, this part is easy for you — just keep doing what you’re doing. If your partner has only recently come out to you about their gender identification, it can be difficult to change the words you use to describe them. 

Chloe*, a sophomore, said that “one of the hardest parts of my transition for my friends, family and partner, was adjusting to the use of female pronouns.” This is also one of the things that she found most frustrating. “I felt like they were not respecting my choice to transition and trying to discourage me when they continued to use masculine pronouns,” Chloe says. “I understood making mistakes with pronouns in the beginning of my transition, but after several months, it just started to hurt.”

The first step in this adjustment is to talk to your partner and find out what they want to be referred to as. Learn whether they want to be called your girlfriend, your boyfriend, or if they prefer a neutral term and want to be referred to as your partner. It is also important to make sure that friends and family know which pronoun they should be using for them. If you notice them slipping up, talk to them, and make sure they know how imperative it is to be mindful of the language they use when talking about your partner. 

This is essential to do at ALL TIMES. Only using the proper pronouns in front of your partner, but not when they aren’t around, is disrespectful and will also make it more difficult to avoid slip-ups in front of your partner. Using the proper language for your partner is critical in making them feel accepted and comfortable during their transition.

Related: 6 Things People Who Use Gender-Neutral Pronouns Are Sick of Hearing

3. Realize that you are going to be a big part of the process

It is a given that you should be there for your partner, emotionally. What many people don’t realize is that you may need to be there to help in other ways, as well. This is especially true if you are living with your partner. You may need to help them with injections, daily treatments and other daily medical obligations that they might need. 

This probably seems pretty difficult. Sticking your partner with a needle every day will be hard at first, especially for the squeamish. Don’t let this scare you away. Taking on this role will not only make your partner feel supported and loved, but it will bring the two of you even closer than before. Don’t be afraid to offer your partner help with their medical routine and other aspects of their transition that are challenging for them to do on their own.

4. Go the extra mile

It is common for someone going through a gender transition to feel more vulnerable than before. If you want to ensure that your partner knows that you are there for them and supporting them, it is important to go the extra mile during their transition.

Christina Spaccavento , a qualified sex and relationship therapist who regularly works with the LGBTQ+ community, says that one way to really show your transitioning partner that you are there for them is  to “go along with them to support meetings or to an appointment with their doctor and/or therapist. This shows them that you are also engaged in  this process.” She also suggests doing things like going shopping with your partner, if they need new clothes for their new appearance. “Going shopping with them can be really helpful,” Spaccavento says. 

Additionally, make sure that your partner knows that you are there for them emotionally. “If there are any issues that they are worried about…you are there to talk about them,” says Spaccavento. Building up their confidence is important as well. "My partner complimenting my more feminine features during my transition made a huge difference," says Phoebe*, a freshman collegiette. "Making an effort to note the progress I had made and reminding me that I was beautiful really let me know that my partner was there for me.”

5. Don’t make your partner feel like an outsider

Try to avoid constantly talking about the fact that they are transitioning and be careful not to badger them with constant questions. It can be easy for someone who is transitioning to feel ostracized from their friends and family and reminding them that they are transitioning can increase this feeling.

Try your best to not act any differently than you did before, especially when socializing with friends and family. It is crucial to make sure that your partner feels like nothing in terms of their social life has changed due to their decision to go through the process of transitioning. According to Transgender Mental Health, it is common for transgender people to worry about how their transition will impact their friends, family and relationships, so do your best to let them know that nothing has changed.

If you catch yourself constantly bringing up their transition in conversation, or find yourself treating your partner any differently, be sure to stop yourself. You may not be able to do much to control how your partner’s friends or family will act, but you can do you best to remember that nothing about your partner has changed and that treating them differently could cause them to feel shunned.

Related: The Ultimate Guide to Coming Out in Your 20s

6. Support yourself, not just your partner

The process of a gender transition will be emotionally tolling on both you and your partner that is going through the process. It's easy to become consumed with supporting your partner and making sure that they know they are loved and supported. What a lot of people forget is that one of the best ways to support someone else, especially emotionally, is to make sure that you are in a good emotional state yourself. "If you have any concerns, issues or worries about the relationship, being open and honest with your partner is best,” Spaccavento says. "You can discuss concerns with them in an arranged 'couple meeting' so that the two of you can work through any issues together. It is okay to feel confused, confronted, worried and even [grieved] for the aspects of your partner that are changing.”

It is important to remember that your feelings matter and that you are able to talk to your partner about them. It is normal to feel worried, sad, confused or overwhelmed by their transition. Be honest about your feelings, don’t hide them in order to coddle your partner. However, be sure to do this in a way that is respectful and supportive of your SO.

*Names have been changed.

Win Yoga Pants for Life from Fabletics and MeetMeOutside!

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There’s nothing like the end of winter and the impending rising temperatures to force you out of hibernation and into workout hysteria. While winter is a safe haven for hiding under your covers, sipping hot cocoa, and completely discounting whatever snowstorm is underway, winter brings out the lethargy in us all, and soon it will be time to peel back your puffer jacket and face the very real reality that you skipped three months of treadmill time amidst the glum winter season. Oops. RIP endorphins?

The good news is that there’s more than enough time to channel your inner athlete and start feeling physically—and mentally—toned in time for the sunny summer months—and we’ve got all the details on two incredible outlets that will help you reach your greatest lifestyle and fitness goals. Bonus: They want to set you up with a $2,500 gift card to Fabletics so that you can own yoga pants to last you a lifetime! 

Active lifestyle dating app, MeetMeOutside, matches users with shared passions for health, fitness and adventure and uses their locations to offer personalized date ideas: local bike paths, skating rinks, nearby yoga studios and more. Singles build profiles by sharing bucket list items, selecting locations and choosing their favorite wellness-related activities; in return, MMO picks a tailored “Daily 7” matches per day for each individual. MeetMeOutside solves your dating struggles by pairing you with people and places that it already knows you’ll enjoy, so the only tough choice left is finding something to wear, right?

Collegiettes, meet Fabletics, a top quality and stylish women’s activewear brand co-founded, designed and inspired by actress, athlete and mother, Kate Hudson. Fabletics products are created for on-the-go women and are styled for the gym and beyond. Users sign up and take a quick and easy online fit quiz to allow Fabletics to learn their activewear preferences. Then Fabletics recommends complete activewear outfits that perfectly suit their lifestyle. Between MeetMeOutside and Fabletics’ inspiring services, every difficult dating decision is removed so that you are free to simply live your passion.

Ready to win Yoga pants to last a lifetime? Just download the MeetMeOutside dating app to enter!

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Here Are The Selfies Kim Took While Khloe Was On Her Way to Jail

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Of all the memorable moments that have come out of Keeping Up With The Kardashians, the one we love most is the scene where Kris Jenner snaps at Kim for taking selfies while the family is driving Khloe to jail for violating her probation. It's a moment that will never stop being iconic:

Whatever, nothing gets in the way of a good selfie when you're looking cute af, right? Though this moment has given us this gem of a gif, what we've really been missing all these years are the actual selfies that came out of this car ride. Thankfully, Kim hasn't forgotten; in May, shortly after Selfish was published, she tweeted that she had just unearthed the selfies.


We've been waiting eagerly to see them, and she's clearly heard our prayers. She recently published the photos to her website and they absolutely did not disappoint. 

We can all sleep a little better tonight knowing that the mystery surrounding these photos has been solved. #blessed.

University of Washington Student Killed By Her Boyfriend While He Was on LSD

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A student at the University of Washington died Tuesday after her boyfriend attacked her while he was allegedly high on LSD. Katy Straalsund, 22, suffered life-ending injuries several days earlier when her boyfriend and fellow UW student attacked her.

The boyfriend, 21-year-old Casey Henderson, allegedly choked and beat Straalsund after the two took LSD together earlier Sunday, according to Jezebel. Neighbors reportedly called police after they heard Henderson yell, “I will kill you” and “You wanna die?” to his girlfriend. The Seattle Times reported that officers broke into the apartment and pulled Henderson off of Straalsund, who was unresponsive.

Henderson is being held on $1 million bail for suspected homicide and domestic-violence assault. According to the Tri-City Herald, Seattle PD detectives said, “Several times during the interview, Henderson stated, ‘I thought I killed her,’” in addition to asking if his girlfriend was alive or not. He alleged that the two bought the LSD off of a person on the street, took the drugs, walked around the UW campus and finally headed home to the apartment before the attack occurred.

“Things started to get weird,” Henderson stated, according to the Tri-City Herald. Apparently, Henderson began to get paranoid that Straalsund was plotting against him. The Seattle Times wrote that he began to punch her in the face and head, kicked her, and strangled her. Both of the students grew up in Richland, Wash. Formal charges were expected to be filed on Wednesday.

Straalsund’s Instagram and Facebook depicted a happy and optimistic girl who enjoyed hiking, food, and nature.

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