Miranda Kerr wed Snapchat CEO and Founder, Evan Spiegel, about two months ago in an intimate ceremony set in the pair's very own backyard. The fairytale event was kept fairly well hidden from the public until now.

Kerr shared three perfect posts on her Instagram last night that have left us all pinning like maniacs on our Pinterest wedding boards. Her custom-made Dior wedding dress (#goals) was nothing short of stunning, and gave off classic Grace Kelly vibes.

In each photo, Kerr's beauty is radiant and the natural, floral background only adds to the glamour and whimsy of it all. Even her ex-husband, Orlando Bloom, couldn't resist double tapping on Instagram and neither could we! Here's hoping we see more photos of these newlyweds soon.

Taking a break from school to tan by the pool may be a quintessential summer pastime, but you can do better than that. Why not head to a music festival instead? The perfect environment to make lasting summer memories—but make sure you have the right outfit first.

One of the most important aspects of festival season is the fashion. While your first instinct may be to throw on a pair of denim shorts and a flower crown and call it a day, picking out festival-worthy apparel that’s stylish and functional is actually a lot harder. You need something that will last you from dancing to iconic headliners in front of the main stage through the long trek back to your campsite.

Luckily for you, we’ve partnered with Hunter to give one winner a $500 gift card, so you can bring fashion week to your festival. Renowned for their iconic connection to music festivals, Hunter, a classic British brand, has been kitting out festival goers with rain boots for years. Their weatherproof footwear, lightweight jackets and bright backpacks are sure to make you stand out from the crowd, so consider Hunter your key to being festival ready.

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Here's some news to brighten up your otherwise boring Monday: Mindy Kaling is reportedly expecting her first child, and yes, we're totally serious.

E! News reports that multiple sources have confirmed that The Mindy Project actress is pregnant, saying that it was an "unexpected surprise" - and if you ask us, it's a very welcome unexpected surprise.

While insiders told E! that her pregnancy won't affect any of her upcoming projects, we unfortunately don't know too many other details as of yet. (Other than the fact that, obviously, she's going to be an even more badass mom IRL than she is in The Mindy Project.)

Mindy herself still has yet to confirm the news, but naturally, the Internet is already just as over the moon as we are:

And pretty much everyone is wondering what we did to deserve two amazing celeb pregnancies in one year.

The obvious next question involves who the father might be - and since she last dated Benjamin Nugent in 2012, it's a total mystery, and we kind of need to know the answer.

Congratulations Mindy!

Eyebrows are either a girl's best friend or her darkest, hairiest enemy. Sometimes, they're trendy accessories—and other times, they look more like illustrations from Eric Carle's The Very Hungry Caterpillar than facial features. When the going gets tough, we turn to the innovations of modern makeup, beauty treatments and experts who tend to know our brows better than we do.

Here are the thoughts every girl has before, during and after getting their eyebrows waxed.

Before getting your eyebrows waxed

1. WAIT. When was the last time I even got these done?

You know it's bad when you can't even answer that question.

2. Since when did two become one?!

I swear, they looked fine three days ago.

3. How could I let this happen?!

It's time to take back the brows.

4. *Hyperventilating while making an appointment at the salon* "Yes, 9-1-1, this is an emergency."

A *beauty* emergency.

During the brow waxing

5. Does Beyoncé ever have to get her eyebrows done?

Why can't *I* be automatically flawless?

6. What about Cara?

She sets the brow bar way too high.

7. Aside from the pain, it's kind of nice having so much time to think.

In between the skin-ripping, you debate the meaning of life.

8. They really should consider providing some sort of snack during these things.

Can counter-side Chipotle become a thing?! We could call it "Brows and Burritos."

9. I hope my breath doesn't smell bad.

Oops.

10. I wonder what I look like with my eyes closed.

How I think I look:

How I really look the entire time:

Is it over yet?!?!

11. It's 2017 and they still haven't come up with a better alternative to waxing.

C'mon, people. Let's get on this advancement pronto.

After you get your eyebrows waxed

12. I am a new woman.

*Tells self that from now on, you'll actually keep up with your plucking in between waxing*

13. I feel so... free.

So fresh, so clean.

14. Is this how Elle Woods felt when she got into Harvard?

Everything has suddenly fallen into place.

15. Let me just take 923748918290 selfies.

Breaking news: The brows are back, baby!

16. *Doing a double take in the rearview mirror like*

*To eyebrows* Hello, friends.

17. I'm ready to take on the world.

Everything is 500 times better with brows that are on point.

Ever feel like you can't quite find the exact emoji you feel will express your feelings the right way? Then get excited, because Apple just unveiled the 56 new emojis they're going to release later this year.

Some noteworthy additions to the new emojis will include a breastfeeding woman, an exploding head, a zombie, a woman in a headscarf, and more, HelloGiggles says.

Apple says these emojis will include more animals, mythical creatures, and new smiley faces. After seeing all these new additions, we can't even imagine what else could possibly be added - but apparently, there are still plenty. Jeremy Burge, head of Emojipedia and creator of World Emoji Day, told Hello Giggles there are many more highly-requested emojis left to create, including a redhead, curly-hair and bald person.

The emojis will be released this fall with iOS 11.

We have preferences for just about everything in life—pizza toppings, music genres, brands of toothpaste, types of milk—but when it comes to how we want to receive love (aka how we want other people to show they love us), the options may not always seem as crystal clear as skim, soy, cashew or almond.

It’s one thing to talk with our partners about what candies we like on our froyo or which Netflix movies are our favorites, but talking about how we both want to show or receive love isn’t exactly casual conversation. However, when we don’t talk about the things we wish they’d say or do more often (or less often), the relationship can easily spiral into a passive aggressive mess.

But, wait—are we supposed to automatically know how we want to be showered with love? Or even give love, for that matter?

The solution? Understanding the different languages for how we all express and receive love. According to relationship expert Gary Chapman, who wrote “Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate,” there are five different “languages” of expressing love to someone. Chapman believes that by discovering which language speaks to you, you can find out what makes you feel the most fulfilled and happy. Additionally, by learning your partner’s love language, you can understand their preferences and better cater to their needs.

If you think you’ve taken every type of personality quiz on the planet (or BuzzFeed), think again. Inspired by Chapman’s book, the Five Love Languages Quiz is a love life game-changer; by filling out the simple questionnaire, you can learn exactly how you understand the language of love, giving you crazy insights into what you want in a relationship. The quiz results rank your love language preferences from strongest to weakest, and a video on the site even illustrates visually how each language can be expressed.

Check out these descriptions of each love language:

Words of Affirmation

For you, it's all about talking the talk. If this is your language, you think it's most meaningful when your loved ones compliment you and tell you not only that they appreciate you, but why they love you and think you're so special. You're also not one to easily forget insults or negative comments.

Acts of Service

You're the kind of person who feels most loved when someone close to you helps out with responsibilities and chores that consume your time and energy. Whether your SO lends a hand with the laundry or helps with a project without being asked, acts of service give you major heart-eyed emoji feels. On the other hand, you'll be pretty crushed if your partner is lazy or backs out of commitments.

Receiving Gifts

For you, receiving a thoughtful gift shows that your partner knows you inside and out. You value gift-giving, as well as any sacrifices that went into the experience of presenting the gift. This also means you value relationship milestones, and you'd have a hard time shaking off a forgotten anniversary, birthday or thoughtless gift.

Quality Time

You're happiest when you and your SO get to spend time together—just the two of you. In your opinion, the ultimate grand gesture is when someone you love carves out time to see you outside of noisy restaurants or bars, crowded gatherings or big parties with other people. And if someone bails on plans or is constantly more interested in their phone than in what you have to say, it's over.

Physical Touch

Hugging, holding hands with someone you love and meaningful touches on your arm, shoulder or face mean the world to you. If this is your language, you feel most loved when you are physically close with your SO. Likewise, you'd be crushed if you felt neglected or ignored by your partner.

These descriptions may sound like they came straight from an overly cheesy anniversary card, or they may just seem obvious. (I mean, who doesn’t want their partner—or anyone else for that matter—to do the dishes for them?) However, by knowing the love language of you and your partner, you gain insight into how you want to receive love and how you can best show your special someone that you appreciate them.

Related: 4 Scientifically Proven Ways to Communicate Better With Your SO

According to Cosmopolitan, it’s important to address the fact that you receive love in a way that might be different than how your partner receives love, and the Five Love Languages Quiz is a surefire way to confirm your love-receiving preferences.

So, once you know your language, how can you put it to use? We talked to a dating expert and a number of collegiettes who swear by love languages to resolve conflicts and enhance their relationships.

1. You’ll find out what makes your partner happy

Once you know your partner’s love language, you can start making more of an effort to show them affection based on their preferences—and this will undoubtedly bring the two of you closer and show that you care about what makes them happy. 

Devin O’Connell, a University of Florida senior, says that she and her boyfriend have been dating for almost two years, and that knowing each other’s love language has enhanced their relationship by allowing them to understand each other’s preferences. “In the very beginning, I told him that 'Quality Time' is my love language,” the 21-year-old says. “Through that, he always makes an effort to spend time with me, even if it’s just seeing each other for 10 minutes a day.”

The act of taking the quiz with your partner, or even suggesting that he or she take the quiz, shows that you are interested in finding the best way to love them—and that is pretty valuable in and of itself.

“If you can find out the best way to love your partner, I think that’s very special and shows that you really care about that person,” Devin says.

If your partner is a “Words of Affirmation" person, you can show them love by complimenting them, telling them you’re proud of them for something they accomplished, or that you love that they’re so passionate about a project they’re working on. If they speak the “Acts of Service” language, you can lend a hand with a task they’re dreading or offer to help with small but meaningful chores; this will really show them that you care about making them feel loved and fulfilled.

2. You can learn a lot from your ‘secondary’ languages

The Five Love Languages Quiz tells you more than just your primary love language; it ranks your other languages from strongest to weakest, which can offer valuable insights into what else you want from your partner and how much or how little each language matters to you when receiving love. 

Marla Manes, a University of Florida junior, says that she learned a lot about herself just from discovering her secondary love languages.

“I already knew that my language would be ‘Physical Touch’ going into the quiz because I love hugging and cuddling and holding hands with anybody that I’m close with,” she says. “But the quiz gave me new insight into my secondary languages—the ones that I still value or use but at a lower level. Those results surprised me, but the more I thought about them, the more I considered the results to be true. It showed me my relationships in a new light.”

Manes says that she and her boyfriend have been dating for almost four months, and that taking the quiz side-by-side was a beneficial experience. “By taking it with a partner, you also learn about them and about your relationship,” she says. “We learned about what each of us value so that we can express our love effectively…all of the languages are valid, and I think it’s just another tool that you can use to strengthen your relationships.”

Love, like any emotion, is not always clear-cut. The love languages concept reflects this notion with the secondary languages, which represent nuances or “dialects” of how you want to be loved.

3. Discussing your love languages as a couple can help the two of you communicate better

Samantha Daniels, author of “Matchbook: The Diary of a Modern Day Matchmaker” and creator of the dating app “The Dating Lounge," says that discussing your love language with your partner is a simple but beneficial exercise that can make it easier to talk about your preferences.

“A lot of people have a hard time telling their partner that they wish they’d say ‘I love you’ more often than they do, or that they wish they’d show their appreciation in a different way because they’re not feeling loved,” Daniels says. “But having these set categories or ‘languages’ makes it easier for people to explain not only what they want from their partner, but how and why they feel connected to that type of language.”

Taking the love langauges quiz can spark an important dialogue between you and your SO and can make it easier to talk about other topics or issues that you may not have been as open to discussing previously. 

4. Love languages can benefit other relationships in your life

Love languages are not limited to romantic relationships; discovering your language—and the languages of those around you—can make you a better friend, family member, roommate and team member.

“One night at dinner, a group of my friends took the quiz together and shared our results. It really made us such stronger friends because we’re able to know what the other ones need in order to feel that sense of belonging,” says Jacquelin Sheehan, a sophomore at the University of Florida. “I know one of my best friend’s is ‘Words of Affirmation,’ so I make sure to always tell her things I appreciate about her...because I know she’ll benefit more from it.”

Telling friends and other loved ones in your life about how you like to receive love—and taking the time to learn about their personalities and preferences—gives you more opportunities to show them that you care about them in a way that best suits their wants and needs.

Related: 6 Ways to Show Your Significant Other You Love Them

So, the next time you feel misunderstood by your partner or feel as though you aren’t understanding what makes someone in your life happy, consider doing a little soul-searching and discovering your love language. Whether you appreciate a quality hug, a compliment, spending time with someone close to you, receiving a special gift, or getting help when you need it most—each language of love is special and valid.

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Apparently, much like the rest of us, Paris Hilton has really been feeling nostalgic for the early '00s lately - and she posted some amazing #TBT-worthy photos of her and Kim Kardashian's 2006 vacation to prove it.

"Good Times in Ibiza with @KimKardashian & @CarolineDamore #GirlsTrip2006," she tweeted on Sunday night, along with some photos that cannot be described in any way other than as PURE GOLD.

In the photos, Kim, Paris and and their friend Caroline can be seen doing a variety of typical early-'00s activities, including but not limited to: posing for digital camera selfies in massive sunglasses and rocking Louis Vuitton monogrammed bikinis with teeny purses. Need I say more?

Of course from there, the floodgates of footage from Paris's former show The Simple Life were opened, and things only got better.

And then there's this gem - we have no words.

Kim was clearly here for the nostalgia, responding to Paris's tweet, "Best trip!!!" I don't know about you, but I'm hoping the good vibes between the two means there's a reunion vacation in the works.

We all know that President Trump has gotten some heat for sexist remarks made both during his campaign and his time in office, and he hasn't shown any sign of stopping. He recently took criticism for his comments about MSNBC's Morning Joe co-host Mika Brzezinski, but that didn't stop him from making similar comments about French President Emmanuel Macron's wife, Brigitte Macron. While she has no "official" title, the wife of France's president is seen in a similar light to the First Lady in the USA.

But don't worry, no one is letting Trump's comments fly under the radar, especially not Reebok. The athletic-wear company had some things to say to the President over Twitter about this incident, Refinery29 shares.

When Trump visited France this past week, he obviously spent some time with President Emmanuel Macron and his wife, Brigitte Macron. When he met Brigitte, he said to her "You're in such good shape," then turned to President Macron and told him, "She's in such good physical shape. Beautiful." This left people everywhere questioning how Trump could possibly believe this is an appropriate comment to make to (and about) someone who is basically a First Lady.

Reebok posted their opinion about the incident in a Tweet which pointed out, in an easy to follow infographic, when such a comment can be made appropriately. The infographic, below, points out that there is only ONE situation in which this comment is appropriate, and it is most certainly not when you are "a world leader greeting the spouse of a head of state."

In case it wasn't obvious, here's a quick spoiler: it's pretty much never appropriate. So let's start complimenting women on something other than their appearances, okay?

Stores like H&M and Forever 21 are great for budget-friendly finds, but after a while, they can start to get a bit old—especially when you and your friends end up realizing you've all bought the same dress. So what’s a girl who wants to stand out without breaking the bank to do? It turns out that there are tons of amazing online shopping destinations (that you’ve probably never heard of!) with super chic finds. In need of some retail therapy? Read on.

1. Tobi

Our pick: Theresa Shift Dress ($46)

With frequent sales and a coupon for 50 percent off your first order when you sign up for emails, Tobi is basically every college girl’s dream when it comes to getting on-trend pieces at a price that won’t make you totally freak out the next time you check your bank account.

2. Oak + Fort

Our pick: Blouse 1377 ($68)

If you’re a minimalist who likes simple looks in neutral hues, you’ll love Oak + Fort. Think cool-girl slip dresses and flowy, oversize pieces that resemble Theory or Helmut Lang… without the sticker shock, of course.

3. BNKR

Our pick: The Fifth Above and Beyond Pant ($100)

Who knew Australian fashion was so great? BNKR offers up some of the best indie Aussie fashion designers at prices that are great for when you want to treat yourself to something extra nice.

4. Society6

Our pick: Leggings in Beverly III ($39)

The concept behind Society6 is pretty simple: the site allows you to get artwork from tons of super talented artists printed on pretty much anything, and the possibilities are endless. We’re talking leggings, tank tops, hoodies and even home décor like rugs, bedspreads and shower curtains.

5. Pixie Market

Our pick: Strappy Off The Shoulder Shirt ($105)

Their former Lower East Side boutique was once the best-kept secret of plenty of stylish NYC girls, but Pixie Market has shifted to being exclusively online. Luckily for those of us not based in NYC, this means plenty of opportunities to pick up pieces that look way more expensive than they actually are.

6. Lulu*s

Our pick: White Crow Austin Brown Corduroy Mini Skirt ($58)

For those of us who love to hit up Forever 21 but don’t feel like swimming through racks and racks of clothes in store, Lulu*s is the place to go. The pieces are on-trend, but shopping online allows for a much calmer shopping experience.

7. Storets

Our pick: Raura Ruffled Sleeveless Blouse ($62)

If Oak + Fort is a minimalist’s dream, maximalist dressers will fall in love with Storets. The site offers plenty of unique pieces that you won’t exactly find at your nearest H&M.

8. GoJane

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There are few things better than finding the perfect pair of shoes—and GoJane has seemingly endless options, whether you’re looking for comfy flats or killer pumps.

9. Genuine People

Our pick: High Waisted Mini Skirt ($61)

Slightly random name choice aside, Genuine People genuinely (ha) offers edgy, fashion-forward pieces that look straight from the runway. If you’re a Zara addict (and who isn’t?) Genuine People is one you should bookmark ASAP.

When your go-to destinations start getting a little old, these amazing online finds have you covered. Happy shopping!

Being a women in today's society is ROUGH. One day you feel like you're too curvy, and the next you feel like you don't have enouhgh. Suffice it to say, it's not always easy to accept every inch of yourself––let alone love every inch of yourself. These six models are making waves in the fashion industry, and proving to the world that every body is beautiful no matter your size. So if you aren't following them already, I suggest you do that now.

1. Ashley Graham

Ashley Graham is a model who has appeared on the cover of Sports Illistrated, Elle and many more. She has revolutionized the fashion industry by being one of the most noteworthy body activists in the modeling field.

2. Georgia Gibb 

When Georgia Gibb shared a photo of herself and model best friend, Kate Wasely, followeres were shocked to see two best friends that were so far apart in size. “It was eye opening how people reacted, being very quick to call the image ‘photoshopped’ instead of looking at it for what it was — two best friends having fun on a night out,” Gibbs, 23, tells People. In hopes of changing society's views on body image, the two best friends started a body positivity Instagram Page where health comes before being the "right size."

3. Barbie Ferreira

Barbie Ferreira is a Me and You model who has not been silent on her views on the term "plus sized." In an interview with i-D she said, "The words 'curvy' and 'plus size' have no connotation to me other than beautiful thick women."

4. Jordyn Woods

Jordyn Woods is a social media superstar that landed a modeling contract via Instagram. Since getting a start in the modeling industry, Woods has spoken over the importance of self-love and body positivity. In an interview with The Cutshe said, "Once you're past a size 8, you're considered plus-size

. Everyone has different body shapes, heights. It's unfortunate because sometimes a curvy girl will say, ‘I'm a model,’ and people will look at her sideways. Then she'll have to say, ‘I'm a plus-size model.’ That's just society, you know? Hopefully, if we stop using the term plus-size we can just create a broader definition for what a model is."

5. Whitney Thompson

Whitney Thompson made a huge impact on the modeling industry when she became the first plus size model to win America's Next Top Model in cycle ten.

Creating beauty looks in the summer can be a bit of a complicated situation. Not only do you have to worry about protecting your skin from harsh UV rays while still looking glam, but you also have to worry about it all melting off with the heat! Luckily, there are a few hacks you absolutely need to know to keep killin' your summer beauty looks. 

1. Use products with SPF

This hack should be used year-round, but it's especially important throughout the summer since you'll likely be spending extra time outdoors. Stock up on products like the No. 7 Protect & Perfect Intense Day Cream SPF 15 (ULTA, $24.99), the IT's Cosmetics Your Skin But Better CC Cream with SPF 50+ (ULTA, $38) or the EOS Active Protection Lip Balm with SPF 30 (EOS, $3.29). You'll be protecting your skin and using great products, so it's a win-win.

2. Cover up your inevitable sunburn

Mistakes happen; sometimes you forget to apply sunblock or use products with SPF and you end up resembling a lobster. It's alright–we have a solution! Beauty guru, Sir John, recommends using the L’Oréal Paris Infallible Total Cover Foundation  (L’Oréal, $12.99) along with the green shade found in the L’Oréal Paris Infallible Total Cover Color Correcting Kit (L’Oréal, $16.99). Make your life a little easier by picking up one of their Blend Artist Concealer Blenders (L’Oréal, $7.99) while you're at it to make blending it all out a breeze. 

3. Set your makeup

Honestly, one of the most important things you can do in the hot summer months is set your makeup so it's ready for all of the insane weather conditions you're about to face. Urban Decay's All Nighter Long-Lasting Makeup Setting Spray (Sephora, $32)  is a fan-favorite, but you can always use Maybelline's Master Fix Wear-Boosting Setting Spray (Target, $9.79) for a more affordable option. You can also use a few tricks of the trade to keep your makeup on all day. Sir John recommends spraying a bit of hairspray on a spoolie and running it through your eyebrows before filling in yours brows with products like the L’Oréal Paris Brow Stylist Definer(L’Oréal, $8.99). This is genius! 

4. Refresh throughout the day

Even though some makeup advertises that it can last all day, it's just hard to really find a batch of products that stand up to the test. If you find yourself needing a little bit of extra refreshing during the summer months, go for a light refreshing mist like the Mario Badescu Facial Spray With Aloe, Herb and Rosewater (ULTA, $7) and the NYX Blotting Papers (ULTA, $3.99). With these products in stow, you'll be able to refresh your face without having to apply even more products.

5. Add some extra bronzed glow

Bronzed looks are basically the epitome of summer, but the risk of developing skin cancer makes it way too dangerous to achieve it naturally. Instead of laying out in the sun for hours on end, opt for a safer solutions and apply a self-tanner like the L'Oreal Paris Sublime Bronze Self-Tanning Serum (L'Oreal, $10.99), You can also add a little summer glow with a powder bronzer like the Physicians Formula Butter Bronzer (ULTA, $14.99). Step up your look and become a bronzed goddess with a little extra highlight, which can be achieved with the Balm's Mary-Lou Manizer Highlighter & Shimmer Compact (Kohl's, $24). 

Using these simple hacks will definitely update your summer beauty routine in all of the best ways. Say goodbye to dreading walking outdoors with makeup on, and hello to a flawless face that lasts all day long! 

Okay, I’m going to come clean: When I saw the preview of this week’s Bachelorette hometown dates episode and Dean’s dad popped up, I was fully expecting a comical edit of Dean and Rachel’s visit with his family. I’ve seen enough of The Bachelorette to know that the producers love to play up a family’s eccentricities (remember the taxidermist dad?). Those fleeting shots of Dean and Rachel meditating with his family totally seemed like a gold mine of footage. Dean clarifying that he wasn’t disregarding his father’s Sikh faith prior to their visit also made it appear that, no matter how odd that preview may have looked, viewers could still expect a weird but heartwarming visit.

However, after seeing Dean uncomfortably rush through his explanation of his dad’s name and visibly clench as he and Rachel approached his house, it became clear that this was far from a kooky hometown visit. Even before his family appeared on-screen, Dean’s body language alone told me that this was not a situation he was okay with. What was even more uncomfortable was the fact that, as a viewer, I felt almost as uncertain as he did. Bachelor Nation has a tendency to overly romanticize marriage and family life, so it’s easy to see these contestants solely as entertainment and forget how real their lives are, even when they visit their hometowns.

Whether or not it was intentional on the producers’ part, seeing Dean’s hometown date was a blunt reminder that people on The Bachelorette aren’t untouchable. They aren’t just rolled out for a stint in the Bachelor mansion and then kept in limbo until they’re deemed suitable for Paradise. They have brutally real lives like the rest of us do, and just like in real life, some contestants have difficult family situations. I don’t know how the Bachelorette team avoided a hometown date with such intense family circumstances for this long, but Dean’s experience was a perfect example of when reality TV takes things a step too far.

Dean’s one-on-one talk with his father was vulnerable, painful and unsettling. The two were together for the first time in two years, and Dean, his siblings and dad hadn't all been under the same roof in eight years. Not only was Dean’s dad clearly uncomfortable with cameras there, but Dean also seemed torn between releasing his true feelings and remaining hyper-aware that America was watching. As Twitter pointed out, his confrontation of his father's faults was one of the most realistic things we've ever seen in this franchise—so much so that it felt wrong watching this intimate moment.

Given that the show promoted Dean's hometown date as odd and dramatic rather than heartbreaking, it's safe to say that fans' suspicions of ABC using his situation for ratings is pretty true. I'm also willing to bet that reality TV producers are so accustomed to getting away with showing such extreme situations that the Bachelorette staff may not have even seen this footage as being vastly different. 

Although broadcasting Dean's situation so unabashedly showed a more sensitive side of Rachel and made me admire Dean even more, this hometown date makes me nervous about how the Bachelor in Paradise controversy will be presented. If a production team splashes a family's fraught relationship on TV so easily, how can we expect them to treat what almost became a franchise-ruining matter? 

If anything, Dean's hometown date taught Bachelor Nation that, as painful as it can be, it's okay not to have a traditional, happy family. Seeing what a kind, positive person Dean is regardless of his family experience is proof that you can move beyond this kind of situation. More unsettlingly, it was also an intense lesson in what we have allowed reality TV to deem "okay." 

After making a cameo in the Games of Thrones Season 7 premiere, Ed Sheeran temporarily deleted his Twitter account, and fans were desperate for an explanation.

According to Mashable, Sheeran's Twitter account disappeared Monday afternoon, less than 24 hours after the GoT premiere aired. There's been no explanation from the “Shape of You” singer. So WTF happened?! Billboard and Mashable report that fans speculated that Ed deleted his account because of the negative reviews and hate he received after appearing on the popular HBO series. As of Tuesday, though, his account seemed to be up again, with sparse promotional tweets populating his feed.

Sheeran is no stranger to taking a break from the internet. Less than two weeks ago, Ed admitted he couldn't look at Twitter anymore because of the awful comments directed at him, but he also reassured fans that he wasn't quitting the platform altogether. And in 2015, he took a temporary social media hiatus so he could focus on his third album, ÷, according to Billboard. After that, he returned to social media, but when his Twitter page vanished, fans started wondering if he was gone for good. This, of course, caused a storm of people to tweet about the singer, his appearance on GoT and his abrupt absence from Twitter.

Even if Sheeran is done personally posting to his Twitter account, we haven’t seen the last of him on social media, as Ed posted a photo on Instagram yesterday of him and his girlfriend on top of a mountain in Peru.

So what if the haters didn't like his GoT character?! He's still an angel and deserves to be treated as such. We’ll always love you, Ed.

When it comes to falling in and out of love, it sometimes feels like you’re literally just falling for the same type of guy again and again…and again. If you’re the girl who gets out of a relationship that you know was wrong for you and begins fawning over the next wrong guy who comes your way, then you are a serial bad boy dater. You inevitably find yourself constantly going for the guy who is just like the last one, and thus are stuck in a never-ending circle of repeated relationships. But it isn’t always easy spotting your “bad boy” type. He can come in many forms, from basketball shorts and cutoffs to khakis and polos—this boy is versatile and not always easy to spot. So we’ve spoken to Dr. Carole Lieberman, Media Psychiatrist and bestselling author of Bad Boys: Why We Love Them, How to Live with Them and When to Leave Them, as well as some collegiettes with first-hand experience to create a guide that will break your bad boy pattern.

1. Identify your bad boy type

Unfortunately, these boys have some sort of invisibility cloak that makes their not-so-good personalities stay hidden underneath a smile or six-pack or whatever it is that makes you swoon. The key to spotting one is recognizing some characteristics that blind you from seeing a less than perfect personality. Take the time to think about the traits that are truly important to you. Rock hard abs will eventually fade to flab, but a guy who can make you laugh will last forever.

Dr. Lieberman also suggests that “when you find yourself at a party or in class, checking out the guys, and one of them gets your attention, ask yourself why you’re attracted to him. Does he seem cocky or flirty or self-absorbed? Does he seem like the usual type you’re attracted to, who ends up breaking your heart? If he seems like a player and you find yourself wondering whether you could be the one to tame him, it is not a good sign.”

Recognizing the telltale signs is what prevents you from pursuing a bad boy in the first place, which can prevent all the heartache and emotional turbulence that occurs once you get in too deep. If you can spot one early, then you're off to a good start.

2. Distinguish between bad boys and boys that are bad for you

This is important to understand, because according to Dr. Lieberman, “Bad boys are heartbreakers. Boys that are bad for you may just be a wrong fit, such as being from a different background, living far away, having dreams that are incompatible with yours, wanting a different lifestyle, and so on. They don’t want to break your heart, but they are just not right for you.”

The former are the ones who you can sometimes spot in the wild and avoid at all costs, based off of rude mannerisms, or excessive selfies, but the second are harder to spot because they might be a great guy, but not a great guy for you. Sometimes finding out that they’re not right may take longer to see, but if they are immediately impolite or emotionally draining, then throw them in the first category and kick 'em to the curb.

Peyton, a freshman at James Madison University, agrees. “[I think] bad boys are the ones that want to change you,” she says. “They might tell you to change how you dress or wear your hair. If you’re going out and he says something like, 'Ooh, you’re wearing that tonight?' then I feel like that’s a bad sign. But if he’s just not a good fit it might be because you just don’t have many things in common.”

Determining the difference between a guy who just doesn't care and a guy who just doesn't fit is key. Like Peyton says, look for warning signs that he is disrespectful or trying to change you into someone you're not. If that's the issue, you're probably dealing with a not-so-great guy. But if he's just not into Sunday brunches and doesn't fit into your lifestyle, then he might just be a bad fit.

Related: 5 Things That Shouldn't Matter If You're With the Right Person

3. Determine why you're attracted to them

Figuring this one out is more complicated than you'd think. In a perfect world, we would see all of the red flags and realize that relationship deja vu is inevitable, but instead, we seem to be attracted to the exact type of guy we just swore off of. So what makes them such a temptation?

Some pyschologists would attribute the attraction to underlying father-daughter issues. Dr. Lieberman believes that "the type of relationship you have with your dad determines what kind of bad boy you will be attracted to. And if you have had more than one 'dad,' that is, a biological father and a stepfather, for example, you may be attracted to more than one type of bad boy.” 

However, there are some who believe it's simply our desire to change a person, or go for the guy you know is a bad fit just for the attention. Marie Knoll, a junior at the University of South Carolina, also thinks that “a lot of other people go for guys who seem hard to get or 'out of their league' just because the chase is fun and a challenge, but then in the chance they end up liking you back, you end up not even liking them.”

Both situations are definitely plausible, and in either event, the key to understanding the attraction is to realize that it’s okay to fall for a bad boy once in a while, as long as perpetually going for the wrong guy isn’t your MO. Dr. Lieberman even says that “most of us are attracted to bad boys at least some of the time.”

4. Assess if he's a bad fit

This can be hard to determine because it’s easy to get lost in the moment. But it’s important to determine if he is building you up or breaking you down, and there are a few ways to determine which it is. Dr. Lieberman says that one of the biggest patterns to recognize is the interaction you have with said boy. 

"If you are always trying to please him and feel like you’re always walking on eggshells, he isn’t the right fit," she says. "A bad boy likes to keep girls a little off-kilter so that he can be in control. But, a good relationship is one that you feel comfortable in and where you are treated with respect."

Sarah Westbrook, a junior at the University of South Carolina, agrees and believes that one of the ways to know a guy isn’t right for you is to see how he affects your confidence.

“I’ve gotten into situations where the guy I like is not someone who makes me feel good about myself,” she says. “I guess I came to realize it when I felt like I needed to change lots of things about myself and didn't feel as confident.” 

The most important thing to keep in mind is whether you are happy more often than not. The right guy will make you feel safe and confident in yourself. If you feel smothered or unimportant, then it's probably time to move on.

5. Break out of the bad boy cycle

The torturous pattern of heartbreak always leaves you thinking: “How did this happen again?” The repeated mistakes are always caught too late, and you find yourself in the same situation you know all too well. Some psychologists, like Dr. Lieberman, attribute the continuous cycle to tumultuous parenting relationships, but this isn't always necessarily the case. 

Allie, a junior at the University of Michigan, says that once she removed herself from the situation, she was able to see why she kept going for the wrong guy:

“Ben would do this super manipulative thing—when I was very, very drunk once, he took care of me all night and was very kind and sweet. And then he'd always joke whenever I drank anything after and said, ‘I call not taking care of her’ and everyone would laugh. It made me feel so guilty. When I confronted him about it he said, ‘I was just joking, I'll always take care of you, but I doubt anyone else would.’ [Now I] look back at all the guys and realize wow how did I fall for the same kind of guy? It's because it always starts great and it always starts with respect and kindness. It's so so so important to understand that you should keep receiving the same respect and kindness the whole way through, and you should do that for the guy as well."

Allie’s story is a great example because it shows that those snide comments and little digs do matter. You shouldn’t stand for it and you should recognize that you deserve better, because your guy should be the one to build you up, not tear you down.

6. Accept that you are moving past the bad boy stage

Sometimes this means going to others for help. Dr. Lieberman says that going it alone isn't always the best route, and seeking help from a therapist is a good way to resolve your bad-boy-bad-habit. Therapy can be a great way to express feelings that you might not feel comfortable sharing with others. Although this is only for the girls who are unable to break the habit, it’s a good option to have. Sometimes talking to another person in general is also a good way to rifle through your bad boy issues. The input of an outsider is a great way to get a second opinion and an unbiased point of view.

If you don't feel like therapy is right for you though, then reach out to someone close to you. Whether it's your mom, best friend or sister, having someone else to provide that outside perspective will make it easier for you to accept what changes need to be made and finally work toward finding the guy who's right for you.

7. Recognize why it's scary to move on and overcome it

Once you’ve found the source of your problem, the next step is to tackle it, but that’s easier said than done. Dr. Lieberman attributes this to the fact that “girls are often afraid of moving past the bad boy stage because they are afraid of the intimacy that a relationship with a good boy brings. Bad boys keep the girl at an emotional distance, which is frustrating, but also comforting in a way.”

Opening up to another person is scary and uncertain, which makes these guys perfect because they don’t provide an emotional connection. But to find a relationship that you are happy and comfortable in, the emotional aspect is imperative. It’s totally terrifying to reveal your worst and best parts to your SO, but having the ability to do so means that you’re with the right type of guy. An even if you haven’t found the right guy yet, that’s okay too. Allie reminds us that “it’s far better to be single than be with someone who doesn’t give you the utmost kindness and respect.”

Falling for the bad boy isn’t always easy to prevent, but keep in mind that you deserve to be with someone who enhances your life. That doesn’t mean that it will always be rainbows and butterflies, but if you feel happy and respected, then he isn’t one of the bad eggs—keep him around.

Taylor Swift has been keeping a pretty low profile the past several months, even passing on hosting her annual Fourth of July bash. But is she so camera shy that she's now being carried out of her apartment in a suitcase? No, that's just as insane as it sounds. 

On Monday, Splash News shared a paparazzi picture of some men moving a large suitcase out of Taylor's Tribeca apartment with the caption, "Is Taylor Swift being transported in a huge suitcase from her Tribecca [sic] apartment??", and T. Swift fans flipped out.

According to Cosmopolitan, Splash News has since retracted the statement. Cosmo reports that an Irish radio station, Spin 1038, was the first to question the Splash News caption that claimed Taylor was in the suitcase. "I literally just put the phone down from someone on Taylor’s camp. We’re having to actually retract that,” a Splash News rep told Spin 1038. “The report stated it as a fact, which we actually don’t know. How could we?" 

Even though the story is now debunked, fans were momentarily and understandably obsessed with the idea that Taylor Swift was actually leaving her apartment in a suitcase.

Now that we know Swift was not in the giant suitcase, we'll just have to keep waiting for signs of life from T. Swizzle.

People using an ATM in Corpus Christi, Texas, last Wednesday got a surprise along with their cash: a scribbled "help me" note pushed through the receipt slot. "Please help," read the note. "I'm stuck in here and I don't have my phone. Please call my boss at 210-***-****."

Most thought it was a prank, but after one concerned user flagged down a police officer, they discovered a man had been trapped inside the ATM for hours. "We come out here, and sure enough we can hear a little voice coming from the machine," Officer Richard Olden told CNN affiliate Action 10 News. "So we are thinking this is a joke. It's got to be a joke." It wasn't. 

According to The New York Times, while the ATM itself was functional, the bank it was attached to was closed for construction. A repairman had been repairing the ATM from a room behind it when he accidentally locked himself in—with no phone and no bank employees around to hear his cries for help. When he heard people making transactions on the ATM, he would slip them a note but most customers just ignored them or thought it was a practical joke. "He was kind of upset," Gena Pena, a spokesperson for the Corpus Christi Police Department, told the Times. Um, yeah—I would be, too.

Someone did eventually call his boss and once he arrived on the scene, police officers kicked down the doors of the closed bank in order to rescue the man. Though he came out of the experienced unhurt (probably just in need of a bathroom break), Ms. Pena said he was "mortified." Understandably, neither he or his repair company wanted to be interviewed. At least since he was trapped inside the ATM, people won't recognize him as "that guy."

Here's hoping this man's pride recovers—and we're pretty sure he'll never forget his phone in his car again.

While fraternities are known for their tight brotherly bonds, two Delta Phi Upsilon members turned that bromance into romance and have never looked back. On April 15, the 10-year anniversary of their first date, Adrian Homer and Harrison Guy tied the knot in Houston in a joyous, colorful and oh-so-chic ceremony. 

The two met when Adrian was pledging Delta Phi Upsilon at Prairie View A&M University outside of Houston, Texas, and Harrison, a fraternity alumnus, was assigned as his mentor during the pledge process. While Adrian was pledging, Harrison explains they "weren't able to speak romantically," but after he was initiated, they began texting, and Adrian soon confessed he had developed feelings for Harrison. Despite their nine-year age gap, "it was history from there," as Adrian told The Houston Chronicle. "We hung out throughout the week and every weekend. The relationship just kind of happened."

Though some might find their bond as both fraternity brothers and boyfriends taboo, Harrison said, "I don’t think it was weird for either one of us." He added, "I think people would love to be able to say we have this 
organization of black gay men, and we are never are romantically involved with 
each other, because we are brothers. I don’t share that idea. I’m on the other end of the spectrum, where I believe if this is a cohort of the best men
 available, then why not?” 

Delta Phi Upsilon is a national fraternity whose mission is to "build better brothers by encouraging intellectual achievement, improving the public stature of gay people, promoting unity among gay men and support a progressive interest in the social and civic welfare of such men." Harrison told NBC News that "organizations like Delta Phi Upsilon allow black gay men a space
 where we can explore empowerment, which I think is really important." Adrian added, “I wanted to join an organization where I can be comfortable 
with my actual sexuality." That acceptance and empowerment led to a decade-long (and counting!) love affair.

The wedding was three years in the making, after Harrison proposed to Adrian on their seventh anniversary. Harrison told NBC News, "We went to eat at a jazz restaurant, and we got on a 
horse and carriage, and once we got to the gazebo, Adrian saw the rose petals on 
the floor. The rose petals led up to the gazebo, and there was a guy 
singing a John Legend song with an acoustic guitar and two male dancers. I 
proposed to him in that moment.” According to the Chronicle, neither can remember what John Legend song it was exactly, but we don't blame them for being too wrapped up in each other to notice—or care.

When the big day finally arrived at the University of 
Houston’s A.D. Bruce Religion Center, they were surrounded by 250 of their friends and family. "There was so much emotion," Adrian told the Chronicle. After their mothers walked them down the aisle, Harrison surprised Adrian during their vows by pulling out a frozen cookie he'd saved after one of their first dates. "If a fragile cookie could sustain 10 years, then our love can last forever," he told Adrian. Delta Phi Upsilon also played a special role that day—six of their fifteen groomsmen were their fraternity brothers.

In a time of seemingly endless bad news and discord, this story renews our faith in humanity—and in love. Now we just can't wait for someone to make a rom-com based on this real life fairytale. Neighbors 3, anyone?

A young woman in Saudi Arabia has been arrested for "suggestive clothing" after she posted a video on Twitter wearing a cropped shirt and a skirt, according to The Washington Post.

Khulood, a popular user on social media, originally posted the videos on Snapchat, showing her strolling through an ancient fort in Najd. Laws in Saudi Arabia require women to remain covered up—they wear a loose-fitting cloak, along with a hijab or niqab to cover their head or face. Foreigners are usually exempted from this rule, and some Saudi women try to find other ways around them. In the video, Khulood doesn't wear a headscarf or a cloak, which is considered scandalous. Religious police will sometimes harass women for showing off skin or wearing too much make-up.

The videos sparked controversy on Twitter. While some offered support for her bravery, others said she should go on trial for her clothing choices. Crowds on Twitter also argued that the people behind the camera should have the same fate as Khulood. “Just like we call on people to respect the laws of countries they travel to, people must also respect the laws of this country,” Ibrahim al-Munayif, a Saudi writer, tweeted. 

Saudi Arabia has some of the strictest rules when it comes to women. In addition to the modest dress code, women cannot get driver's licenses, so they cannot drive—a rule that Khulood has also broken. Women need permission from a male guardian, such as a husband or father, before doing many basic tasks. In September 2016, 14,000 women signed a petition to get rid of the restrictive guardian system, which prevents women from getting a passport or traveling without male consent. Some public buildings like banks and universities have separate entrances for men and women. Women can't even use shared swimming pools! "This traditional system should be removed completely as demanded by women activists and it should not be continued as a culture or custom," wrote Saudi columnist Abdullah Al-Alweet.

Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman has been creating a new social system for the country, called "Vision 2030." Whether he'll be addressing the issues of gender inequality is still unclear, according toThe Washington Post. However, he issued an order earlier this year that would allow women to receive government services like education and healthcare without getting permission from a man. "Now at least it opens the door for discussion on the guardian system," said Maha Akeel, a women's rights campaigner. "Women are independent and can take care of themselves."

Some women in the U.S. choose to wear modest clothing of their own accord, but we should feel lucky that our dress code isn't required by law. "Saudi Arabia is the world's most gender-segregated nation, but amid changes now under way, multiple generations of women are debating how to be truly modern and truly Saudi," according to National Geographic. You go, girls!

Minneapolis police shot and killed an Australian yoga teacher and bride-to-be on Saturday night after she called 911 to report a possible sexual assault near her home.

The Washington Postreports that Justine Damond called 911 after she heard a sound in the alley near her home, which she shared with her fiance. When the police arrived, things turned deadly. She had approached the driver of the police car while wearing her pajamas, and then the cop in the passenger seat shot her through the driver's side car door.

Minneapolis police have yet to explain the circumstances surrounding the shooting, according to CNN. A medical examiner ruled her death a homicide, because she had a gunshot wound in her abdomen. 

The officers were wearing body cameras at the time of the shooting, but they were not turned on. What's more, all Minneapolis police officers have had to wear body cameras since the end of 2016. Why? Because in July 2016, an unarmed black man named Philando Castile was fatally shot by a police officer during a traffic stop. It's sounding like the city has a problem with police accountability here. 

An investigation is now taking place to determine the cause of the shooting and is being handled by the Minnesota Department of Public Safety. The Bureau of Criminal Apprehension said authorities are trying to learn what happened that night. The police department has not released the name of the officer who shot Damond, but sources identified him as Mohammed Noor, according to NBC. The two officers involved are on paid administrative leave, which The Washington Post calls "standard procedure."

CNN reports news of Damond’s death made headlines in Australia, where Damond was originally from. Damond was also a U.S. citizen and had lived in the States since April 2014. She and her fiance were going to get married in August. Even more heartbreaking is that Damond's stepson-to-be, Zach, was devastated by losing his stepmother because they were already so close. 

“Basically, my mom’s dead because a police officer shot her for reasons I don’t know ... I’m so done with all this violence,” Zach said in a video made by Women's March Minnesota. “She was a very passionate woman, and she probably—she thought something bad is happening ... Next thing I know, they take my best friend’s life.” Later that weekend, Zach was watering plants and neighbors came up and hugged him, according to the Post. The sidewalk was covered in chalk messages and flowers for Damond, a woman who was just trying to help keep her community safe. 

On Sunday, a vigil was held for Damond by members of Women’s March Minnesota. "This should not have happened… that could’ve been me, that could’ve been you, that could’ve been any of us," one woman said. "And we’re gonna talk and we’re gonna work as a community to make sure this doesn’t happen again.”

Minneapolis mayor Betsy Hodges spoke out about Damond's death in a Facebook post, saying she was “deeply disturbed” by the shooting. “This is a tragedy—for the family, for a neighborhood I know well, and for our whole city,” Hodges said. “There is a long road of healing ahead, and a lot of work remains to be done. I hope to help us along that path in any way I can.”

We're hoping we get answers on why Damond had to die in an alley while just trying to be a good person. 

Sometimes people throw around the phrase “I love you" like Oprah giveaways. Other times, it takes a little longer for someone to reach that point—and that’s exactly what happened for Peter Kraus on TheBachelorette. 

On Monday night’s episode, contestants had their hometown dates. Peter and Rachel had the most adorable date in Peter's hometown of Madison, WI. The couple meandered through a farmer’s market, met Peter's friends and had a down-to-earth conversation with Peter’s mom. (I'm not crying, you are!) During this date, we learned that marriage is scary to Peter and that he’s definitely got some emotional walls up. But hey, he and Rachel have only known each other a few weeks, and who’s ready for marriage that soon?

Peter didn't drop the love bomb, which caused "fans" to leave death threats in the comments of Peter's Instagram. Not cool, guys. Now Peter has responded to let people know their words hurt.

According to Refinery29, in an Instagram comment, Peter wrote, “All I can say is that I am sorry to those who wanted me to tell Rachel that I was in love with her tonight after what was essentially two dates. As I stated many times on the show before, I do not take those three words lightly, as once they are said they can never be taken back, and to the person that you choose to say them to, they can hold enormous weight.” He’s so thoughtful!

He went on to say, “So rather than race to say something that is of such GREAT importance to me, and I wish was of more importance to others, I chose to take my time in getting to know this woman as much as I possibly could before choosing to express those three words to her.” That’s kind of the sweetest thing ever.

“I did not realize that being honest and forthright with my feelings and emotions and allowing her to make an informed decision based off of me being as open as possible, as hard as it was for me to go through, would warrant such hate and anger and even now death threats via social media and email," he continued. "I have always been one to encourage the spread of love, but giving your heart to someone for the rest of your life is not something that I take at all lightly or for granted and I wish that people could see that, rather than take me down so violently and without regard to the fact that I am still human." Yeah, he's only human. Hateful and threatening comments are absolutely ridiculous responses to a person not saying "I love you" to someone they've only known for a short period of time.

"I hope that people will take a moment to look within themselves and at their own lives to find compassion and understanding rather than forming judgment and spreading hate. And that goes for the awful things that are being said to other cast members of mine as well," Peter wrote. "I am so happy to have been able to share this experience with you all, but know that your words do TRULY hurt and affect me AND them. Thank you for those who have had my back throughout and for all the understanding and kind words that have also been said. Much love to you all.”

He’s just not ready to say it, and honestly, I can’t blame him. Much love to you, too, Peter!