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These Shoes Look WAY More Expensive Than They Really Are

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For those of us who are both collegiettes and fashionistas, it’s no secret that we’re on a bit more of a budget than some of our favorite style icons—but just because you have to opt for H&M over Hermès doesn’t mean you can’t look just as luxe! Proof? These under-$50 shoe picks that look way more expensive than they actually are.

1. Faux Leather Chelsea Booties ($32.90 at Forever 21)

The simple, clean lines and pointed toes on these classic ankles booties make them look like an investment piece—and only you have to know that they weren’t!

2. ASOS Leather Lace Up Sandals ($45 at ASOS)

Is there a single fashion blogger who doesn’t have super chic boho sandals like these this season? Plus, the real leather straps make these look extra luxe.

3. Slingback Snake Print Plaform Heels ($44 at Boohoo)

Maybe it’s just the snake print, but these look exactly like something the Olsen twins would pick out.

4. Suede Fringe Dress Sandals ($28 at LuLu’s)

Fringe was seen all over the runways this season, and the faux suede material on this pair totally had us fooled.

5. Rivet Point Toe Flats ($26.67 at Romwe)

Is it just us, or do these totally scream Valentino? Gold studs make anything look a little extra luxe.

6. Block Heel Sandals With Metallic Detail ($29.99 at Zara)

Zara seems to be a pro at making pieces that look like they cost big bucks, but are totally budget friendly—and these mid-heeled, wear-with-everything sandals are no exception.

What are your secrets for looking chic on the cheap, collegiettes?


How to Make the Most of Your Second-Choice Internship

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There’s nothing worse than applying for your dream internship and getting a “no” after your interview… or worse, never hearing back at all. Just like when you were dying for your college acceptance letter, the search for the perfect internship can be exhausting. So what happens if the internship of your dreams doesn’t pan out?

Don’t let it weigh you down! A second- or even a third-choice internship can be just as rewarding and educational as your first choice could have been. It could even turn out better than you thought it would! Check out these stories from college students and experts about how to make the most out of your internship.

Don’t be bummed that it wasn’t your first choice

Don’t make the mistake of letting disappointment weigh you down. Instead of seeing your internship as a letdown, look at it as an accomplishment. Remember: if you’re there, then your bosses must think you’re qualified and capable of handling the job. That’s a reason to be proud!

“I think a lot of people think that if they don't get their first-choice internship, that they'll never get their dream job or never break into the career they want,” says Devon, a junior marketing student at The College of New Jersey. “These fears are totally irrational! Every internship should be taken as an experience, the good and the bad. Internships that aren't your first choice can be seen as places to challenge yourself, personally develop and also learn what kind of work/industry you don't want to work in after graduation.”

Instead of dwelling on disappointment, focus on the fact that you have an internship – something that other students covet.

“If you don’t get your first choice, the main thing is to never give up,” says B. Desmond Murray, associate director of field experience at Marist College Career Services. “There’s always going to be some other opportunity out there, and you have to go after that opportunity. I would tell students that once you get one ‘no,’ you have to go after the next employer.”

So instead of wallowing in self-pity, take your “no” and turn it into the grit and determination you need to get the work experience you want. You got your new internship for a reason, and you should seize this opportunity to learn and grow as a professional.

Network to get where you want to be

Wherever you intern, it’s always a good idea to reach out to your superiors and ask them to get coffee or lunch sometime; it shows them you’re interested and engaged in your work. But when your internship placement isn’t exactly what you were expecting, it’s even more important to put yourself out there and connect with the people you want to work with in the future. It may help you out the next time you’re looking for an internship!

“I was able to get in contact with people in [different] departments and do small tasks in those departments,” says Laura, a sophomore at the University of Wisconsin - Stout majoring in professional communication and emerging media. “For example, my internship was in advertising and I got to work with some marketing and human relations people to do other tasks aside from my normal advertising work.”

If your second-choice company doesn’t have any opportunities that look appealing to you in the future, always be on the lookout for events you can attend after work that can put you in touch with people more in your line of work.

“The key thing is trying to go to … business meetings within your field of study,” Murray says. “Try to go through career pages and resources and try to see if there are free events that exist within your field of study because when you leave college and you try to go to events and you become a young adult, you’re generally going to have to pay for events that you go to. So while you’re in college, go to free events and network.”

Learn some new skills

If you wind up with a second-choice internship, take that time to learn new skills that your new job is calling for. It may help out once you have your dream internship or job!

“There have been times when I wasn't totally enjoying something and I just kept thinking of the skills that I learned and how to apply them to the things I really love doing,” says Sydney, a junior at Washington University in St. Louis who interned within the public relations and communications field and is majoring in film and media studies. “For instance, if I had to go through and organize photos in an archive or press from an event, I would think of how I was improving organizational skills and how I could apply that to other things in the future.”

By looking at your internship as an opportunity to branch out, you can embrace some new educational experiences and use them to your benefit like Dale Lavine, who is majoring in sports communication and broadcast journalism and has interned in the editorial field.

“Journalism is a constantly changing world, and up until that point I had gotten almost no training in digital journalism or SEO work—two things that this internship was offering,” says Dale, a Ferris State University junior. “How could I not take that? The work was tedious, yes. I dreaded having to upload pictures and search for keywords, sure.”

But focusing on everything he was learning helped Dale make the most of his internship.

“I'm glad I stuck with it because now I have a set of skills that a lot of other young writers like myself don't have,” Dale says. “If anything, I've got a leg up on some of my competition.”

Your second-choice internship could surprise you and give you a new set of skills you could use again in the future!

Know that your internship will help lead you to where you want to be

Everyone has a lousy job at one point or another in his or her life. Whether yours was a fast-food-chain job in high school or your current second-choice internship, know that it will be over soon and you’re not stuck there forever. And when it’s over, it might be that extra special something that makes your resume stand out.

“I'm currently doing an internship that wasn't my first choice, but I'm having a positive experience with it,” says Katherine, a junior majoring in English at the University of Rochester. “Even so, I know that I don't want to go into this type of work after I graduate. I think it's important to remember that internships are temporary, and it's better to do one internship and find out that something isn't for you than it is to begin a career in that field and have to be financially dependent on it.”

Take your internship for what it is and just remember that it’s valuable experience that you’ll get to put on your resume. Your time at your second-choice internship is time well spent. No matter where you are, you’re stepping into the professional world, and you’ll have an experience that a lot of students don’t have.

It’s not all doom and gloom!

You have to remember that you have an internship! An employer thought that you were awesome and wanted you out of all the other applicants. If that’s not enough, think of all of the perks an internship, first- or second-choice, presents.

“I made friends at my editorial internship that I never would’ve made unless I’d stuck it out,” says Nicole, a junior majoring in English at Hofstra University. “We still hang out and keep in touch. It may have not been my dream internship, but I was paid and I got awesome things from my company’s freebie table, and I have no complaints about that!”

No matter what work you’re doing, it’s always going to be something that you can talk to future interviewers about. Always keep track of what important tasks you’re accomplishing so you can talk about them in future interviews.

“As an intern, write down everything you do each day when you get home so at the end of the internship you have a clear list of specific tasks you completed to include on your resume or cover letter,” says Steph, a junior majoring in communications with a dual concentration in advertising and public relations.

Just because an internship was your second choice doesn’t mean it’s going to be awful. Remember when you dreaded taking a certain AP class in high school because you knew it was going to be super tough, and then it magically turned into your favorite and best class? That could be the case with your second-choice internship! Don’t write off your opportunity just because it wasn’t exactly what you wanted; it could turn into the experience of a lifetime.

“I accepted an internship on Capitol Hill that wasn't my first choice, and I was a bit apprehensive about it, but it turns out it has been the most amazing learning experience,” says Ana Maria Baez, a junior at the University of Puerto Rico, Rio Piedras majoring in political science. “I came to understand that my first choice maybe just wasn't the right fit for me (at a congressional office), but the one I was picked to work at (a press office) has been amazing—the type of work that I'm doing now has proven to be more useful and better suited to what I want to work towards.”

The key is accepting your situation and always trying to be positive and open-minded. As Ana says, a second-choice internship could lead you down a better road than your first choice would have.

“I kept challenging myself every day to be better than the day before and I kept asking questions,” Ana says. “Before I knew it, coming to work was exciting and I lost that feeling of fear I had at the beginning. I guess what I'm really trying to say is learn to embrace what life puts in front of you, even if it's a challenge—it's the only way to learn and grow.”

If your dream internship doesn’t become a reality this summer, don’t fret! Collegiettes (and Dale) have been through the same situation and know that this could be an amazing learning experience for you. Stay positive and keep on reaching for your dream career; this internship is just another step in the right direction!

This Device Could Finally Bring an End to Drunk Driving

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Can technology truly eradicate drunk driving? American car companies have been working hard to answer this question, and they may have finally reached a conclusion. The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration has recently released a prototype for an innovative piece of technology that prevents cars from operating under a driver whose BAC is over 0.08. This new program, called the Driver Alcohol Detection System for Safety (DADSS), can determine a driver’s BAC in under a second, and will shut off if the driver is over the legal limit. In some cases, it can even be programmed to shut the car down if a driver under the age of 21 has any amount of alcohol in their bloodstream.

The prototype includes two noninvasive methods of determining a driver’s BAC: a breath-based sensor and a touch-based sensor. The breath-based sensor is located in the steering column or in the driver’s side door, and it uses a beam of light to analyze the contents of the driver’s breath. Carbon dioxide and alcohol molecules absorb different amounts of light, so the system is able to identify the level of alcohol in a driver’s breath. The touch-based sensor would be placed in the ignition button or in the gear shift. Again, by using a beam of light, the sensor can analyze the alcohol content in the blood just beneath the skin. If the driver’s BAC is over the legal limit, the car will shut down and will not start again.

 

Users might expect such intricate technology to be pretty pricey, but the NHTSA has made sure that most, if not all, users can afford it. Altogether, the sensors are expected to cost only $150 to $200, which is the same price as an airbag. At such an affordable price, it would appear that DADSS would become a staple in the motor industry.

 

It will be a few years before DADSS makes it to the markets, and we may see a change in federal requirements during this time span. Either way, this new product has the potential to save thousands of lives. The NHTSA may have finally created the device that will significantly lower drunk driving death rates across the country, and our roads may finally become a much safer place.

Guys Weigh In: How to Score a Second Date

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From the pre-date butterflies you get when trying on what feels like a million different outfits to finally sitting down and getting to know your date a little bit better, a first date is full of exciting (and even nerve-racking) moments as you think about what to say, what to do and what he’s thinking.

Once the date is over, the highlights of your night race through your mind as you suddenly wonder if he had the same great experience that you did. Did he really think your jokes were funny, or were those pity laughs? Should you have ordered that dessert?  Is there a second date in your future?

Stop worrying! HC asked guys to weigh in on the first-date moves that leave them wanting more.

1. Take initiative

Have you ever had your phone glued to your hand after a first date, waiting for him to text you? Save yourself the stress and don’t be afraid to make the first move, collegiettes!

“It’s super cool when girls don’t just wait for you to make a move, whether it’s hooking up or even just sending that first text after the date,” says Alex, a sophomore at the University of Delaware.

When James, a junior at Trinity College, had a busy day after an awesome date the night before, he was excited to see that the girl he went out with texted him to let him know she had a great time.

“I was so happy that she had a good time and that she let me know it,” he says. “A lot of girls seem to think that I’ll think they’re clingy if they make the first move, so it’s great to see a girl who’s confident in herself.”

Nobody likes to play the waiting game – guys included – so don’t be nervous about letting him know that you enjoyed your date!

2. Be yourself

It may sound obvious, but the guys we interviewed all agree that their best dates happen with someone who is upfront about who they are: likes, dislikes and everything in between.

When Harry, a junior at Colgate University, was on a first date, he mentioned that he was a huge baseball fan. The way his date reacted surprised him and immediately convinced him to ask her out again the next weekend.

“She looked me straight in the eye and said, ‘When I watch baseball on TV, I think it’s so boring because I have no idea what’s going on,’” he says. “But then she went on to say that she would like to go to a game because it would a fun way to hang out with someone and learn about the sport. I liked that she didn’t lie about her interest and offered to get involved anyway.” 

As long as you’re respectful about your opinions, having conflicting interests or opinions can make for an even better, more interesting date conversation. Pretending to be interested in something that you’re not or vice versa will not only hurt your relationship if it progresses, but will probably be noticed by your date.

“It’s so obvious when a girl is putting on an act about something she cares about or doesn’t like,” says Mike, a sophomore at the University of Delaware. “I don’t want to date my twin, so there’s no reason why someone should say she likes or dislikes everything I do. I see right through that.”

3. Dig in at the dinner table

Whether you’re going to a restaurant, the movies, an arcade or a sporting event, if part of your date plans include a meal, don’t be afraid to eat in front of your date. In fact, if you decline, he’s probably not going to understand why.

“I can’t stand when I take a girl out for a meal and she doesn’t eat or just picks at a side salad,” says Adam, a senior at Lehigh University. “If we plan to get a meal and then she doesn’t eat, it makes me think she’s too self-conscious. Everyone’s nervous on a first date, but confidence is important. Why would I want to go out with someone who can’t be herself around me?”

It’s important that you’re comfortable on a first date. So while your guy may expect you to eat at dinner, don’t be afraid to speak up if he wants to do something that’s outside of your comfort zone.  For example, if you’re a vegetarian and he’s suggesting his favorite steak house, he’ll totally understand if you speak up and let him know you don’t eat meat.

4. Be adventurous

There’s no reason to do anything that will make you uncomfortable, but don’t be afraid to take a risk and do something off the first-date beaten path!

Luke, a sophomore at Hofstra University, says he loves when a girl is game to do something a little more fun than the typical dinner date. He also adds that if you’re on a more active date, you should get involved with the activity! “I took a girl to an amusement park once, and she wouldn’t go on any rides because she didn’t want to mess up her hair,” Luke says. “If you’re too high maintenance to enjoy the date, the first date will definitely be the last.”

Sitting back and watching your date have fun isn’t going to result in a fun first date for either of you, so get involved!

5. Leave your cell phone to the side

Let your friends know you’ll be unavailable for a couple of hours and keep your phone in your bag. Spending your date scrolling through Instagram, tweeting or texting makes you look uninterested and rude.

“There is nothing worse than trying to get to know someone and not even making eye contact because they’re staring at their phone all night,” says Frankie, a senior at the University of Maryland.

Use these tips to score that second date – without the stress of wondering how it went! No matter what you’re doing, be yourself and be enthusiastic about what you’re doing. Enjoy your first (and second!) dates, collegiettes! 

You Can Now Take Yoga With Your Favorite Feline Friends

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Yoga lovers and cat lovers alike, head on over to Decatur, Illinois for the ultimate fitspiration and kittenspiration (kitten inspiration, of course). A local yoga studio, Yoga at Connie's, recently held a purr-filled event in partnership with no-kill animal shelter Homeward Bound. The reason why will warm your heart.

According to Elite Daily, animal lover, shelter volunteer and utter genius Jeanette Skaluba was looking for ways to help get her beloved kitties adopted when she came up with something completely unique and totally adorable. Recognizing the world's universal love for cats, Skaluba had a hunch that bringing the shelter cats to Connie's would cause quite a buzz, and the event did just that!

With the goal of raising funds for Homeward Bound and the hope of connecting cats to future owners, the flexible felines were given complete freedom to roam the studio and show off their peaceful personalities. The yogis present quickly fell in love, smiling as the cats paw-sed on their mats to get in on the exercise. Check out that purr-fect form! 

All in all, approximately $500 was raised for the shelter, and one lucky cat was even adopted on the spot. And if yoga and cats are your two favorite things (same), you're in luck—Skaluba and the studio were so pleased with the results that they're hard-set on making cat yoga a regular occurrence. For those of us stuck somewhere other than Decatur, Illinois, fear not. Considering the tendency for cat-related content to go viral, we're keeping our fingers crossed that other studios and shelters will be inspired to host similar events of their own.

 

3 Professionals Share Their Best Tips for Natural Makeup

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Makeup can be tricky – apply too little and you might feel uncomfortable with your blemishes on display, but apply too much and you risk looking like Ursula from The Little Mermaid.

But don’t worry! You’re not alone in trying to find ways to apply makeup that looks natural. Three professional makeup artists shared their tips for applying makeup that doesn’t look made up.

1. It’s all about the base


Béke Beau, a professional makeup artist, says paying attention to your foundation is essential. “The more neutral and matte the shades you use, the more dramatic your makeup can be without looking obvious,” Beau says. “Shimmer and shine are not as subtle. Bronzer (matte or close to it) can be used as a contour without looking obvious.”

To avoid the matte from looking too flat, use a fan brush and apply it very lightly near your hairline and across your cheekbones. COVERGIRL’s Clean Pressed Powder will give you a natural look for only $6.99! Just remember to use a sponge instead of a brush to get more coverage.

2. Use eye shadow instead of eyeliner


Emily Aznavourian, owner and lead artist at Cheekadee Makeup Artists, says, “If you want your eyes to appear more awake but not look like you have liner on, then apply brown eye shadow with a small, pointed eye shadow brush around the lash line. Just be sure to clean up with a little concealer afterwards.” Choose from Urban Decay’s range of eye shadows ($18), which come in 77 shades.

3. Highlighter is your new best friend

 
Elizabeth Terenchin, a professional makeup artist based in Philadelphia, says, “One of the greatest [subtle] things you can add to your makeup kit is a highlighter.” It turns out that highlighter can be used for many facial features without overexaggerating any of them. For best results, “add it to the inside corner of your eyes, the top of the cheekbone, the brow bone and, depending on skin condition or facial structure, the middle of the chin or the middle of the forehead,” Terenchin says. “It adds life to the face and makes you look awake and hydrated!”

Stila All-Over Shimmer Duo ($22) is a versatile product that gives your skin a glow without making you look fake. Another great product is Benefit Cosmetics Watt’s Up! Highlighter ($30); dab a little on your cheek and brow bones and voilà! Your skin will brighten up without looking too shimmery.

4. Choose matte lipsticks over gloss ones

 
If you’re going for a natural look, our experts suggest you opt for matte instead of gloss lipsticks. Besame’s Lipsticks ($22) come in a variety of colors for all skin tones and last for hours on end!

5. Wear a lip and cheek tint

 
If your makeup mantra is “less is more,” use a lip and cheek tint! This multipurpose product will not only give your cheeks a rosy glow, but also add a subtle color to your lips. Tory Burch’s lip and cheek tint ($38) and Benetint by Benefit Cosmetics ($30) will give you just the quick fix that you’re looking for.

 
Now that you know how to rock the natural look, what are you waiting for? Try these awesome techniques and products! They’ll bring out your natural glow in no time, so you can shine inside and out – without looking overdone.
 

11 Things We Expect From the 'Mean Girls' App

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Watch out Kim Kardashian: Hollywood, word on the street is that Regina George is on her way to the App Store and we hear she’s a life ruiner. She ruins people’s lives.

Pocket Gems is bringing the iconic movie that we all know and love to quote right to our mobile devices (Four for you Pocket Gems, you go Pocket Gems). The free-to-play mobile app will be available later this year. Unfortunately, though, you won’t get to watch The Plastics'“Jingle Bell Rock” performance or share your feelings with Ms. Norbury and your peers in the gym because the game actually picks up where the movie left off. The game’s spokesman, Jameel Khalfan, says that, "What clothing you are wearing, what you do, the characters that you talk to—every choice you make will affect what happens in the story.” If you are a fan of the movie, you will already know the choices to make to get on Regina’s good side and be able to sit with The Plastics at lunch.

The screenwriter behind Legally Blonde and 10 Things I Hate About You, Kirsten Smith, will be writing the storyline for the game. With those kind of credits under her belt, we have no doubt that she will be able to capture Mean Girls in all of its 2004 glory.

While we are sure that Smith is more than capable of writing a “grool” storyline. If she ever has a bit of writer’s block, we definitely have some suggestions of our own.

1. The ability to make fetch happen

It’s been 11 years, can we at least try to make it happen for Gretchen’s sake?

2. The chance to let out our frustrations in the Burn Book

We have a lot of pent up feelings about our roommate not washing the dishes, okay?

3. The ability to go shopping with Regina

We don’t appreciate her calling us losers, but her ’00s fashion sense was on point and we don’t want our character’s skirt to visually displease the queen.

4. Being able to choose who to sit with at lunch

Even though we all know there is only one right choice.

5. The chance to perform in a Winter Talent Show

Because outshining The Plastics'“Jingle Bell Rock” choreography at a talent show has been an unfulfilled goal since 2004.

6. The opportunity to meet Regina’s “cool mom”


We also wouldn’t mind jamming to “Milkshake” with her little sister.

7. We would like to meet Glen Coco

One of the most memorable teen movie characters and we have never even seen him. Unacceptable.

8. Attend at least one Halloween party

Maybe Smith will pay homage to Legally Blonde and we will have the ability to go dressed as a bunny like Elle (but probably not because Regina might just have a problem with that).

9. The ability to tell Aaron Samuels what day it is

Because our friends and family don’t quite seem to understand the significance of us telling them what day it is on October 3rd every year.

10. The opportunity to see if we would survive a three-way calling attack

Except, we might opt for Skype instead.

11. And of course, the ability to change our character’s outfit every Wednesday in order to abide by one of The Plastics' most sacred rules

As if pink isn’t already our go-to Wednesday color.

Get in collegiettes, we’re going to the App Store.

Bath & Body Works is Bringing Back Our Childhood Faves!

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They say that smells can foster the fondest of memories, and nothing proves that theory more than the nostalgic love for our childhood that anything cucumber melon instills. Bath & Body Works defined our adolescense, and if you didn't flaunt one of their signature scents, you were totally out of the loop. Lotions, creams, and shower gels filled our Christmas stockings and birthday wishlists, and we simply couldn't get enough of those fresh and fruity fragrancess.

Now, Bath & Body works is giving you the chance to reclaim your signature scent and relive your delicious smelling childhood. Thanks to fan requests (we love you, whoever you are!) Bath & Body Works has decided to unveil #FlashbackFragrance, releasing six of its trademark scents. White Tea and Ginger, Country Apple, Plumeria, Juniper Breeze, Cucumber Melon, and Pearberry have all made the cut, and as of last week, Bath & Body Works lovers everywhere have gained access to each of the six classics in lotion, cream, shower gel, and mist options. 

So if you get a flashback of your middle school locker room the next time you enter the gym, embrace it! This summer is going to be scent heaven, full of cool, refreshing, and memory-inducing fragrances. 

Which scent have you missed the most?


8 Ways to Move Past Coffee & Copies at Your Internship

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We all know that interns are the lowest employees on the company totem pole, which means that trips to both the local Starbucks and the Xerox machine are probably inevitable. However, that doesn’t mean you should resign yourself to a “coffee-and-copies” type of internship if a couple weeks have gone by and you still haven’t been asked to do anything meaningful. Rather than complaining to all of your friends about your wasted summer and spending all of your mental energy daydreaming about Zac Efron, here are eight ways you can transform a “meh” internship into a super-productive experience.

1. Talk to your supervisor

Although it may seem obvious that you didn’t sign up to be an intern so you could spend all of your time doing mindless chores, your supervisor might have no idea she’s not using you to your full potential. However, if you’re considering going up to her and saying, “I’m bored,” abort mission! That’s the number one thing you should never utter at work.

"Avoid putting yourself in the victim role, but be honest and forthight," says Lisa Orrell, author of Your Employee Brand is in Your Hands: How Any Employee Can Create & Promote Their Own Personal Leadership Brand for Massive Career Success! "Your adviser will probably assume you have things to do if you don't say anything."

Orrell recommends asking for a meeting with your boss and respectfully asking for more responsibilities. She also says this is a great time to restate your strengths.

“Are you strong at Excel, PowerPoint or another type of software? Are you good at social media? Even if you brought those things up during the initial interview, your supervisor may have forgotten,” Orwell says. “You’ll jog their memory and they’ll remember other tasks and projects they can have you do.”

For example, you could say, “During the interview, we discussed my research skills. Is there anything I can help you with that would utilize those skills?”

Maybe you’re a talented writer and your blog is your baby. Ask your supervisor if you can help work on the company newsletter. Or maybe you’d like to help out with the company’s Twitter page (you’re so great at clever tweeting!).

Don’t think you can’t use this strategy if you have the opposite problem: being too busy, but with busywork. You should still respectfully ask for more higher-level tasks by reiterating your strong suits. Succeeding at these will have a domino effect: your supervisor will see that you’re capable and responsible, which will lead to more challenging projects. This will further prove your potential!

2. Manage your time

If, even after talking to your supervisor, you’re still bogged down with chores that require approximately 2 percent of your mental capacity to complete, than try to do them as quickly as you can without sacrificing quality. In other words, don’t make the time “go by faster” by checking Facebook at every consecutive 10-minute mark, as tempting as that may be. The faster you complete the boring tasks, the sooner you can get to more stimulating ones.

“There will always be a juggling act at work that tests your ability to complete the things that need to get done and those you would prefer to be doing,” says Joan Snyder Kuhl, founder of Why Millennials Matter, a Gen-Y speaking and consulting company. “If you approach your internship with a project-management mindset, then it will help you organize your time to execute the top priorities set by your boss and allocate time for developmental opportunity projects.”

This may require writing copious to-do lists, blocking social media on your phone and laptop and arriving at the office early and staying late. But even if you have to buy an extra cup of coffee and sacrifice a couple sushi nights with your girls, it will be worth it. Your boss will notice what a strong and dedicated worker you are, which will — hopefully — lead to projects that actually require some thinking.

3. Come up with your own project

“Taking initiative” is a career buzzword, but there’s a good reason for that: it’s super impressive. There’s no better way to show your supervisors you can think for yourself, find areas for improvement and develop solutions.

According to Snyder, the first step in creating your own task is to understand the business model of the company you’re working for.

“You need to ask yourself, ‘How do they make money? What’s important to them? What drives their results?’” she says. “Any project you devise should help them get their results faster.”

There are also projects that apply to almost every industry.  For example, if you notice that meetings are run inefficiently — they always run over their scheduled times, people become restless, no one stays on topic, etc. — you could research ways to run meetings more effectively and then share the info with your supervisor or team.

“Sometimes, especially at small companies, employees are out of touch and relying on antiquated ways of doing something,” Orrell says. “They’re so busy doing their jobs, they don’t have time to re-organize their processes.”

If nothing jumps out at you to fix, the last approach is sitting down with your supervisor and other team members and asking them what niggling problems they have at work.

“It could even be something like, ‘our storage room is incredibly disorganized, and none of us want to deal with it, but we complain about it all the time,’” Orwell says. “Even if it doesn’t directly pertain to your major or your career, you’ll look like a rock star for solving an ongoing problem.”

4. Go to other departments

If you still don't have enough to do, you can go to other departments — but tread carefully. Walking over to another wing of the building and volunteering your help may seem vastly preferable to sitting at your desk and idly swiping through Tinder to pass the time; however, doing so without asking your boss first is a serious faux pas.

“You don’t want to alienate your supervisor by unintentionally making them look bad,” says Jason Dorsey, author of My Reality Check Bounced! The Gen-Y Guide To Cashing In on Your Real-World Dreams.

Instead, go to your supervisor and tell him or her you’re interested in helping out, say, the marketing department, because you took a couple of marketing courses in college and would like a chance to learn more about the field.

“When you ask, don’t forget to say that the work that they have assigned you obviously comes first and you’ll get that done before helping the other department,” Snyder says.

You can also find opportunities for work by sitting in on company meetings (with your supervisor’s permission) and listening carefully. If someone is assigned a project he or she seems less than enthusiastic about, he or she would probably jump at an offer for an extra pair of hands. And even if the employee does accept a task with a smile, he or she may still want your help! After the meeting, send him or her an email saying, “I’d love to contribute to X project. Are there any tasks I can do for you?”

Stay alert and you won’t have to resort to swiping right and left for entertainment. Meanwhile, your go-getter attitude will impress the whole office.

5. Network

Whether you’re doing grunt work or helping out on a major project, you can definitely make connections so that even if you walk away with nothing else, you’ve still gotten a lot of value out of your internship. According to Dorsey, an intern should network every single day, but not just at work.

“If you’re in a small office, there may simply not be that many people, and you’re already getting to know them,” he says. “If you’re in a big company, there may be hundreds or thousands of people at your location, so meeting all of them is impossible and a waste of time.”

Dorsey advises building a core group of contacts by consistently getting meals with your coworkers and holding friendly conversations. After that, you can expand your network outward.

“Make new friends when you go to get coffee, eat lunch, take a break or [are] in areas of the building where people naturally congregate,” he says. “Be the person who says ‘hello’ first, and your network will naturally build.”

In addition to making connections organically, you also can — and should! — request an informational interview with professionals in the company or area where you’re working.

“Interns should send polite emails asking for 15-minute coffee meetings to learn more about that person’s career path, field or just any advice they may have,” Snyder says.

Take advantage of the one time in your life where you can pull the “student card.” And thankfully, you can schedule meetings outside the 9-5 workday, so even if you’re busy unjamming the copier, networking is totally doable. To learn more about informational interviews, read this comprehensive guide.

6. Develop your skills

If you’re still a little bitter about how your internship expectations differed from reality, look at this as a fantastic opportunity to broaden your skill set. Start by observing what’s highly valued at your workplace and then find areas for self-improvement.

“Maybe you aren’t really strong at Excel, but the company uses it quite a bit,” Orrell says. “You could ramp up your skills within a couple days, and that would open the door towards people asking for your help.”

Teaching yourself how to code, reading tutorials on SEO (search engine optimization), practicing your Photoshop and image-editing skills, improving your writing and even learning practical business skills are all great uses of your time that you can do for free and on your laptop (YouTube, anyone?). Plus, they’ll look way better on your screen than Facebook’s characteristic blue-and-white page, should your supervisor should happen to walk by.

7. Research the competition

By examining the competition, you can improve your knowledge and potentially help your company. Try looking at other companies in the field and figuring out what they do differently than the one you’re interning for. What works? What doesn’t? If you find anything yours could change to increase its competitive edge, summarize your results in a Word document or PowerPoint and send them to your supervisor. Your employers will love that you recognized such an essential part of being a successful business.

8. Request to job shadow

For a hands-on learning experience and a way to get a feel for different roles in the company, see if there’s anyone willing to let you shadow him or her. Dorsey says asking to job shadow is a good idea as long as you don’t request a whole day.

“Make it more manageable by asking if there are specific blocks of time that work well for them for you to tag along,” he says. “That way they don’t feel obligated, and it increases the likelihood they’ll say yes.”

According to Orrell, you should shadow someone at the level above you as well as someone above that person, if possible.

“That gives you a really good picture of what to expect and what skills you will need as you move up the ladder,” she says. “In addition, it can help you determine if that’s even a career path you want to pursue.”

Orrell also advises starting in your own department and then branching out. For example, if you’re interning with marketing, start there, then move to sales, and then move to the next related tiers, such as distribution, customer service or manufacturing.

With a little creativity and effort on your part, virtually any internship can be productive! Today, you’re making friends with the baristas at Starbucks and filing documents ceaselessly; tomorrow, you’ll be taking over the world.

Order our Book, The Her Campus Guide to College Life, NOW!

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Hey collegiettes!

We know you love reading HC on your laptops, your smartphones, and your tablets... but now you can truly curl up with HC because our first-ever book, The Her Campus Guide to College Life, just hit stores!

Order your copy online here or head to your local Barnes & Noble! And be sure to check out our upcoming schedule of book signing events and see if we're coming to your area!

The Her Campus Guide to College Life: How to Manage Relationships, Stay Safe and Healthy, Handle Stress, and Have the Best Years of Your Life covers everything you need to know to rock college, from how to get along with your roommates to how to avoid the 'freshman 15', deal with tough professors, snag internships, decide whether to study abroad, and much, much more.

Whether you're already an upperclassman or are just getting ready to go off to college next fall, this book has everything you need to survive and thrive on campus when it comes to all aspects of your life. Our book also includes handy resources like a template roommate contract, dorm room grocery list, and more.

Want a sneak preview? Read an excerpt from our book here then order your copy!

I can't wait to hear what you think!

HC Love,
Stephanie Kaplan Lewis, Co-founder, CEO & Editor-in-Chief of Her Campus

This Company Sizes its Clothing With Flowers, Not Numbers

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When we shop for workout gear, we’re used to simple size charts that designate garments as small, medium, or large. Rachel Blumenfeld, however, decided there was a better way to do things, so she founded her own company, Manifesta. She realized that athletic clothing was sized with smaller sizes in mind, and that adjustments for large sizes weren’t done thoughtfully. The result was that larger sizes simply didn’t fit right. Blumenfeld knew because she herself was tired of working out in things that clearly weren’t made for her body.


 

Awesome write-ups in the June issues of Main Line Today and Delaware Today!! So excited :-)

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It's not just fit Blumenfeld wants to change—she also wants to change the way we think about sizes. Instead of having an “inherent order” of sizes that imply some are better than others, she “just wants you to get what fits.” When shoppers arrive at the Manifesta website, they are prompted to select sizes ranging from everything from “poppy” to “dahlia,” and can determine which flower they are by using a measurement chart. It’s about more than just cute names. Blumenfeld told Buzzfeed, “I didn’t want letters or numbers or even adjectives because I want the sizes to be absolutely neutral.”

Do you think changing a name can change people's additudes? Let us know!

The Origins of Pride: Stonewall 101

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With the long-awaited arrival of summer (and summer vacation!), June is one month that everyone’s sure to get excited for. This is especially true for the LGBTQ+ community, with pride festivals popping up in big cities all around the world. There are rainbow flags fluttering in the breeze and music pumping through the streets—and we can’t help but get excited.

Few people know how pride really got started, or even why June is the time of year when pride festivals happen. When people celebrate pride, it’s not just a celebration of identity. Pride marks the anniversary of history’s first queer rights demonstration at the Stonewall Inn. Here’s the breakdown on some Stonewall History 101, the events, the facts, and why they’re important to the LGBTQ+ community today.

How it All Started

Let’s throw it back to the late 1960s. At this time, expressing any “homosexual tendencies” in public was outlawed. People were forced to stay in the closet for the majority (if not the entirety) of their lifetime due to the dangerous stigma that was attached to coming out. Many private gay bars, clubs, and other establishments were frequently raided and shut down. That is, until one fateful summer night when the one crowd of queer partygoers had had enough.

On June 28, 1969, the police raided the Stonewall Inn, a popular gay bar in New York City’s Greenwich Village. Gay men, lesbians, and drag queens alike were violently dragged by the police out of a place that was supposed to be a safe haven. The officers rallied them up like criminals into the back of police cars. But all of a sudden, bottles flew through the air, aimed at the policemen who were arresting owners and patrons of the bar. Two officers were injured before reinforcements were called to contain the angry mob of people who arose to defend what was rightly theirs: A safe space to be who they were.

The Start of Something Bigger

This one fateful night was the beginning of many others to come. The police returned to Stonewall the following night to find that the crowd had become even larger than before. For days following, there were many protests and discussions that came about concerning the civil rights of the country’s queer community. From these discussions came not only the word “gay” to define the queer community, but also the formation of the first advocacy groups, publications, and general support for within the community. Some of these include the Gay Liberation Front and a citywide newspaper called Gay.

On the first anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, big cities across the country such as New York, San Francisco, Los Angeles, and Chicago, celebrated their first annual pride parades. Within the first two years of the riots, gay rights groups had been formed in almost every big city across the country.

Why it Matters

Pride weekend is so much bigger than just a festival, a parade, or a bunch of parties. It is a celebration of triumph over years of discrimination, hardship and straight-out bullying. Why a parade? It’s a whole other level of empowerment when there’s an actual parade to celebrate. It’s when people from all different walks of life can come and celebrate love in all its beautiful and unique forms.

Even in revolutionary historical events such as these, we also must be able to critique how they were carried out. While the Stonewall movement was started by drag queen and other genderqueer people, the protests and demonstrations lead afterwards were mostly policed by gay white men. Voices like that of trans woman activist Sylvia Rivera were silenced and booed whenever they tried to speak up. While the world today is getting to a more trans-inclusive space with figures like Caitlyn Jenner, Janet Mock, and Laverne Cox, we can all agree that there is always more work to do.

So if you find yourself in the bustle of New York City this summer for pride, be sure to make a pit stop by the Stonewall Inn to see where it all began. For those of you who will be celebrating pride in your own cities, make sure to remember the great significance of all of those who fought for your right to rock the rainbow proudly.

Feel the Burn (All Over!) With This Full-Body Workout

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Bikini season is here, collegiettes! Whether you've been focusing too much on core and totally forgot to tone your arms and legs, you have been too busy studying to get your beach bod back at all, or you simply want to tighten and tone your already bikini-ready body, this full-body workout will have you feeling the burn all over in no time.

'Pitch Perfect 3' is Officially Happening!

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Get ready, pitches! The Barden Bellas will be returning to the big screen, as Universal revealed Monday that Pitch Perfect 3 is officially happening.


 

Happening #3

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The news doesn't come as a shock to us though, as the first two films have been solid blockbusters for Universal, with the 2012 original grossing $113 million worldwide and Pitch Perfect 2 grossing $69.2 million on its debut weekend alone. 

The threequel is already set to be released on July 21, 2017. And if that news isn't already exciting enough, our favorite Barden alumni, Anna Kendrick and Rebel Wilson have already signed on to reprise their roles as Beca and Fat Amy. 

No information has been released regarding the official plot of the third installment but we can only assume that there will be a focus on the newest generation of Bellas as well as life after graduation for Beca and the other alums. 

15 Things Ian from 'The Bachelorette' Said that Left Us Speechless

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We all fell for Ian when he showed up on The Bachelorette. He seemed like one of the only guys that was actually looking for love. He was even well-educated and mature with a predictable but touching sob story. So, when he turned on Kaitlyn this week, we couldn’t help but feel a tinge upset. Below, we’re recounting the 15 most shocking things Ian said during his strange rant.

1. “I think a lot of women like me. I don’t think that that’s ever been an issue for me.”

Uh huh. You keep telling yourself that.

2. “I don’t understand why Kaitlyn wouldn’t want a Princeton graduate, former model that defied death and has been around the world a couple of times.”

Hmm…maybe it’s the terrible personality. Just guessing, though.

3. “I think that’s why I would make a great Bachelor. I think if I was on the other side of the coin, that if I had 25 options, that it would be something that could definitely work out for me.”

Even Nick looked shocked by this one.

4. “I don’t find Kaitlyn interesting. Like I don’t think that’s something wrong with me. I think that’s something wrong with her.”

You really know how to compliment a woman, don't you? 

5. “I don't think that Kaitlyn understands the full extent of who I am, and who I am is a catch.”

Okay.

6. “Against all of my logic, Kaitlyn doesn’t want someone like me, and it’s just making me look bad for trying.”

Does this have anything to do with your failed attempt at mariachi?

7. “If one of these lames is better than me, then just pick one of the lames.”

After this statement, Ian went on to reiterate his enviable looks and brains combo.

8. “I could be the Bachelor. I think I am a very eligible bachelor in this country and in this world.”

Weird joke, man.

9. “Who I am is a gift that you unwrap for life.”

Even though it doesn’t seem like it, we’re really happy for you.

10. “I’m not here just to have a good time. Like, I have a good time with my own life. And I meet chicks. And I have a lot of sex in my own life.”

Sure you do.

11. “It’s really difficult for me hanging around a group of guys that are just making fart jokes, making poop jokes, making sex jokes…And that’s what works for you but that’s not what works for me.”

Because being demeaning is totally the right move here.

12. “I came here expecting to meet the girl that had her heart broken and was devastated by Chris Soules, not the girl that wanted to get her field plowed by Chris.”

Quit while you’re (somewhat) ahead. Please.

13. “I feel like you’re here to make out with a bunch of dudes on TV.”

And you know what? Maybe she is, and maybe she isn't—and either way it's okay.

14. “She's not half as hot as my ex-girlfriend.”

Well, both she and Kaitlyn really dodged a bullet there, didn't they?

15. “I really see you as a surface level person at this stage. And I wonder if you’re really that shallow because I don’t see anything beyond the surface.”

And unfortunately this awful conversation will carry into next week’s episode. Super!

Do you think Ian was genuinely as terrible as he was portrayed, collegiettes, or is crafty editing to blame? 


The 8 Most Memorable TV Wedding Dresses

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Wedding episodes are some of the best—and most memorable!—parts of our favorite TV shows. Aside from the touching dialogue, the inevitable funny mishaps, and the (hopefully!) happily ever after endings, we can’t get enough of the outfits. From traditional white to handmade, here are the 8 TV wedding dresses we love the most.

1. Blair Waldorf (Gossip Girl)

Though this is the second wedding dress Blair dons in the course of the show, this time we actually want her to go through with the marriage. She looks stunning in an unconventional light blue gown, and her trademark headband really ties the look together.

2. Pam Beesly (The Office)

Jim and Pam are the definition of #relationshipgoals. When they tie the knot, Pam is gorgeous in a simple white dress and short veil.

3. Leslie Knope (Parks and Recreation)

We love Leslie and Ben, and we like Leslie and Ben. In the episode, Leslie’s wedding dress is hand crafted by BFF Anne Perkins. The top is elegant and classic, and the skirt is made up of literal documentation of Leslie’s career. The result is so Leslie Knope it hurts. Plus, she kills it in those red heels.

4. Monica Gellar (Friends)

*Cue the tears* The two-parter, “The One with Monica and Chandler’s Wedding,” is definitely on our short list of all-time favorite episodes. Could she be a more beautiful bride?

5. Meredith Grey (Grey’s Anatomy)

This. Dress. The show’s producer and costume designer chose it because they wanted a gown that they thought would be every girl’s fantasy. We have to say, they did well. Just look at that beaded tulle!

6. Robin Scherbatsky (How I Met Your Mother)

The marriage might not have lasted very long, but we could look at this dress forever. Robin rocks the slim cut, and the skirt is amazing. Plus, we’re totally into the sleeves.

7. Charlotte York (Sex and the City)

For her second wedding, Charlotte chose this sophisticated white silk get-up. The veil with the beaded edge is our favorite part. Could we really expect anything less from SATC?

8. Temperance Brennan (Bones)

We’ve been rooting for Booth and Bones since the very beginning, and their wedding episode does not disappoint. In fact, it was more than we could have ever hoped for. This includes Temperance’s dress. The top is intricate and shows just the right amount of skin, while the bottom is simple but perfect. And we love her hair!

Which one is your favorite, collegiettes?

Will Your Relationship Last Through Summer?

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Exams, final papers, summer internship searches, travel plans—there are tons of end-of-year stresses for every collegiette, and deciding whether or not to stay with your boyfriend over the summer is definitely one of the worst. If you’re fortunate enough to be from the same place as your partner, you probably don’t have much to worry about. But for those of us who aren’t so lucky, it can be tough to figure out if it’s worth sticking it out for the whole summer.  Here’s what to do!

Know What You Want…

We always change our mind about which fro-yo toppings we want or our feelings about Miley’s behavior, but when you’ve figured out what you want your relationship to be like over the summer, you shouldn’t keep changing your mind.

It’s easier said than done, but before beginning a conversation with your SO, be sure that you’re at least leaning in a certain direction about what you want to do.  Take some time before you have the talk and really think about what you want and what would be best for you.

Lauren*, a sophomore at McGill University, has to decide soon if she wants to stay with her boyfriend or not. “I think I do, but I keep going back and forth thinking about positives and negatives,” she says. “One minute I’m sure I want a summer free of commitment, and the next I know I’d be happier staying with him.”

Ramani Durvasula, a licensed clinical psychotherapist, suggests you try not to make any unnecessary sacrifices on either the job end or the relationship end of the spectrum.  

“College is such an important transitional time… [Pursuing both goals and relationships] can be a tough balance,” she says.

It’s important to be honest with yourself about where you see the relationship potentially going in the future. If you see a future together in the fall, try to keep the fire burning while you’re apart. On the other hand, if you’ve been having a great time but your interest in the relationship is waning, there’s no point in dragging out the ending. Have the conversation before you head out for the summer to give both of you the freedom to pursue other interests.

…But Keep an Open Mind

While it’s great to have a strong idea of what you want to come out of your conversation with your SO, it’s important to stay open to possibilities and to listen to what your SO has to say on the topic.

April Beyer, matchmaker and dating and relationship expert, says you should always listen to what the other person has to say, because it could influence your decision to stay in the relationship or get out of it.

“Unless you’re 100 percent sure you don’t want to maintain that relationship… having a conversation with your boyfriend might lead you to a completely different [decision],” she says. “It takes two to tango.”

Jessica, a junior at the University of Michigan, says that last year she wasn’t sure she wanted her relationship to continue over the summer.

“We have a really long summer break, like four months, and I was pretty sure I wanted to try long distance, but I wasn’t sure about his commitment, so I was preparing myself to tentatively bring up the breaking-up option,” she says. “We finally had the talk, and the amount of dedication and love he showed me in that conversation made me much more confident in our mutual ability to deal with the distance.”

Evaluate the Quality of the Relationship so far

So how do you know if you should be staying together? Unfortunately, it’s different in every case, and there’s no surefire way to know that your relationship can withstand the summer. However, there are important things everyone should consider, like the amount of time you’ve been together, the amount of trust you’ve built and how deeply committed you are to each other.

Carole Lieberman, M.D., psychiatrist and author of Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets, suggests you ask yourself some questions.

“The longer he’s been sending you loving texts, giving you romantic gifts and saying ‘I love you,’ the more reassured you can be that it will last,” she says.

If you can’t make up your mind one way or the other, Beyer suggests writing down a list of pros and cons of staying together over the summer. She says you should try to figure out why you’re unsure about it: “Is it that I want freedom? I’m not sure how I feel? The relationship feels unstable? Is it too much pressure?”

Beyer says that relationships take a lot of thought and care. “Nothing is ever black and white in relationships,” she says. “If you question why you’re questioning, that will lead you to the answer.”

Beyer also notes the importance of the quality of the relationship and the time that’s been invested in it. “If both [of you] feel that [you] have a relationship [you’re] both invested in and it’s working really well, the summer is not that long,” she says.

She also makes an important point in her advice about potentially deciding to stay together: “It has to be mutual,” she says.

There’s no point in guilt-tripping, bribing or even convincing your guy against his will that the two of you should stay together for the summer. Respect his own views about the relationship, because chances are if you have to convince him to stay in the relationship (or vice versa!), it won’t last very long.

Think About the Logistics

It’s obviously crucial to make sure you’re taking both your feelings and his feelings into account when making the “are-we-going-to-try-long-distance” decision, but you also have to think about potential long-distance logistics.

“Long-distance relationships can be emotionally challenging, expensive and frustrating,” Durvasula warns. “It may be … impractical to keep seeing each other.”

If you do decide you want to continue the relationship, Durvasula suggests you make a plan for it. “Tensions can rise when neither of you know what happens next,” she says.

Some possible plans include setting up Skype dates and finding a weekend to visit each other during the break, which helps you get to know each other on new turf and explore cities and childhood hangout spots together.

Spontaneity and surprises are always great, too. Spur-of-the-moment phone calls or FaceTiming can help you both stay connected. Surprise him with care packages full of his favorite treats and mail him thoughtful letters to keep the spark alive while you’re not together.

Tackling a long-distance relationship is no easy feat, but at least you can breathe easy knowing you’ll be back in the same place in the fall. Everyone’s situation is totally different, so in the end, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer—it’s on you two to make the decision for yourselves. Make a joint decision that will make you both the happiest in the short term and the long term!

 

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Former NAACP Official Rachel Dolezal Speaks Out

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Rachel Dolezal, the former NAACP chapter president, resigned yesterday amidst controversy surrounding her race. This morning, she appeared on TODAY in an exclusive interview where she said that she identifies as black and never intended to deceive people. The interview raises questions about racial authenticity and appropriation, as well as the implications and consequences of transracial identity. In her article titled "Why Comparing Rachel Dolezal To Caitlyn Jenner Is Detrimental To Both Trans And Racial Progress," Zeba Blay explains that "transracial identity is a concept that allows white people to indulge in blackness as a commodity, without having to actually engage with every facet of what being black entails - discrimination, marginilzation, oppression, and so on."

Dolezal's narrative - apparently that she is part black, white and Native American - began to unravel following local police and journalism investigations into several hate crimes she reported against her. Soon, Dolezal's parents - from who she is reportedly estranged and has accused of physical abuse - came forward and accused her of lying about her race and changing her appearance. They produced photos of her as child with a pale complexion and straight, blonde hair, as well as her birth certificate as proof. That conflicted with Dolezal's previous claims that her father was black, which she firmly confirmed when confronted by reporters. 

But in her interview, the closest Dolezal came to admitting any fault was to say "There are probably a coupe interviews that I would do a little differently if circumstances, in retrospect, I knew what I know now." When Matt Lauer of NBC's TODAY show asked, "When did you start deceiving people?" Dolezal would not admit that she had done so. She explained that her identification with black people went back as far as when she was five years old. "I was drawing self portraits with the brown crayon instead of the peach crayon, and the black curly hair," she said. When Mr. Lauer repeatedly asked whether she had used her racial identification as a way to gain advantage, either against Howard University or in enhancing her credibility as a civil rights advocate, she declined to answer. She stated that her experience was too complex than identifying as black, or answering the question of 'Are you black or white?' While some defend her by pointing to her activisim and efficacy as a leader, the majority questioned her integrity and inabiliy to acknowledge the truth. Dolezal admits the controversy, especially the timing of it caught her off guard, but her hope is that some good comes out of it, if it changes how some people think about identity. "The discussion is really about what it means to be human," she said. "And I hope that really can drive at the core of definitions of race, ethnicity, culture, self-determination, personal agency, and ultimately, empowerment."

 

10 Taylor Swift Songs That'll Get You Through Any Breakup

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Going through a breakup can be tough. Luckily, Taylor Swift has all of the healing power you need to get you through every type of heartache you may be experiencing. We've come up with ten songs that are bound to get you on the road to recovery!

1. I Knew You Were Trouble

What happens when you date someone you know isn't good for you? Taylor Swift tells us in this "I should've known better" ballad about the consequences of being with someone who's no good!

2. We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together

Ah, the bittersweet phenomena of the on-and-off relationship. We can smell the freshly typed 50th breakup text already! If you're a victim of this dreaded scenario (for the third time this week), this song will definitely help you make a final decision.

3. All Too Well

Or... maybe you've been single for a few days and it's just now sinking in. Your mind is wandering to that first date... and for a little while you're wondering where it all went wrong. This song is for those moments.

4. Begin Again

So you're feeling like you'll never find your souldmate. Things may seem pretty tough right now and you've probably been through 3 tubs of cookie dough already, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel! Let Taylor serenade your ears with some feel-good tunes.

5. Bad Blood

Although it's one of Taylor's newer songs, its message is just as clear: your ex was a jerk. And there's no way you two will ever be able to be on good terms again, hence the phrase bad blood.

6. Dear John

Another great song to get over the less-than-good guys in our lives. If your ex constantly played with your emotions, which eventually lead to the demise of your relationship, this song is for you.

7. Fifteen

Admit it, at one point in your life you belted this song with all of your heart no matter what age you were. Don't feel ashamed—we still sing it! Taylor knew exactly how our fifteen-year-old selves were feeling after our first crush. 

8. Picture to Burn

If you've ever have any thoughts about trashing your ex's house or just ruining his or her life altogether, play this song immediately—but do think twice about the house-trashing part. You don't need anymore problems, you know!

9. I Almost Do

Before you think about picking up your phone and texting your ex, try taking a breather and check out this song. We think it will make you feel a whole lot better than talking to the dreaded ex. 

10. Should’ve Said No

So your ex cheated on you. You're beyond hurt and extremely angry, but don't fret! Taylor has all of the words you want to say... maybe minus a few not-so-nicely-put ones!

Now We Have a Scientific Excuse to Eat Chocolate

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There’s no doubt about it, chocolate holds a special place in our hearts. Not only does it have the power to figuratively fix a broken one, research shows that chocolate is literally good for our heart health! 

According to a recent study done by researchers in Scotland, chocolate lovers are more protected against heart disease (11% lower risk!) and have a decreased risk of strokes as well (23% lower risk.) This current study supports other research about the correlation between chocolate and heart disease, which included data from almost 21,000 people. Needless to say, it’s pretty legit!

Beyond that, the study concluded that people who ate chocolate tended to be younger and exercised more, leading to lower BMIs, waist-hip ratios and blood pressure. Want to hear the best news? These health benefits aren’t exclusive to just dark chocolate. Most of the study’s participants preferred milk over dark, yet they too showed positive health improvements.

As if we needed another excuse to eat it, chocolate has officially been proven to be good for us. No more feeling guilty for giving into our chocolate cravings! 

 

 

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