MuslimGirl.com, the largest online platform for Muslim women in the U.S. and Orly, a badass nail company, have teamed up to create #HalalPaint, which is a breathable nail polish made from 100 percent halal-certified ingredients. Being breathable means that the nail polish allows oxygen and moisture to pass through it and touch the nail, according to InStyle. This is crucial for the wudu ritual, which requires the person to wash their whole body with water, including the nails. Where regular nail polish would prevent the water from actually cleansing the nails, #HalalPaint allows practicing Muslim people to wear polish while still abiding by tradition.
“This line is important because there are so many girls and young women who aren't represented in mainstream beauty,” Azmia Magane, the chief of staff at MuslimGirl.com said. “This is our way of bridging that gap.”
Each nail polish is named with Muslim girls in mind: the clever names include “Haram-bae,” "Wallah Bro Wipe Out,” “What the Fatima,” “Ig-Noor the Haters,” and “The Perfect Amani-cure” which is named after MuslimGirl.com's founder, Amani Al-Khatahtbeh (one of the keynote speakers at this year's Her Conference).
This line is just the beginning of making beauty options available for all women and making it possible for people to practice beauty however they please.
Gossiping about your exes with your BFFs is juicy and usually hysterical, but outside of your group, it can get weird. Leave it to James Corden to get Katy Perry to spill about her exes in a special segment of “Spill Your Guts or Fill Your Guts” during her three-day livestream.
“From best to worst in bed, rank John Mayer, Diplo and Orlando Bloom,” James commanded. Katy immediately yelled "no" while James laughed away. After more giggles, Katy said, “They’re all amazing lovers, and I would have sex with all of them after I get out of this place.”
With more prodding, Katy finally admitted that John Mayer takes first place, Orlando Bloom takes second and Diplo is a strong third.
Her exes are all big names, but Katy threw a big surprise our way when she revealed that Josh Groban inspired “The One That Got Away.” He’s one of her good friends now, but our minds are still blown that her 2011 hit is about him.
Watch the video (she talks about her exes around the 2:25 mark) and see Katy's awkward-yet-hilarious confession for yourself. And don't miss the adorable puppy who's napping in her lap!
Two U.S. attorneys general, one from Washington D.C. and one from Maryland, announced that they will sue President Donald Trump for accepting money from foreign countries and violating anti-corruption clauses in the Constitution, The Washington Post reports.
District of Columbia Attorney General Karl Racine and Maryland Attorney General Brian Frosh are contesting that President Trump has not sufficiently separated his public and private interests, causing him to violante the "emoluments clause" (Article 1, Section 9, Clause 8 of the U.S. Constitution), which says that a country should not receive unfair advantages because of private money or benefits given to the president.
Racine and Frosh told the Post that the lawsuit was sparked by Trump staying on as the owner of his global business when he took office.
According to CNBC, Trump's team argues that standard continuation of his business isn't a violation of the Constitution, but Racine and Frosh counter that the size of Trump's conglomerate, specifically the Trump Hotel in D.C., is becoming a conflict of interest by hosting foreign diplomats. The attorneys general say the larger concern is that foreign countries and domestic states might favor Trump's businesses—by, say, staying in a Trump hotel or playing on a Trump golf course—in exchange for Trump's support, CNBC reports.
One of the first steps will be looking at Trump's ever-elusive tax returns to see exactly where his money is coming from. If the suit proceeds, the goal is an injunction forcing Trump to stop violating the Constitution—basically a court order telling him to stop—but that's a pretty vague goal at this point.
This might seem like small potatoes compared to the ongoing investigation into Russia's role in the presidential election, but any violation of the Constitution by the POTUS is a "yuge" deal.
God bless summer, and god bless popsicles and other treats that keep us calm, cool and collected poolside. This year, though, there's a new summer treat in town—and according to Cosmopolitan, it involves wine.
Yep, you read that right. Prosecco pops are the successor of last year's frosé trend. These boozy treats are the brainchild of U.K.-based company Pops and are available in mouth-watering flavors such as Champagne, Rosé, Prosecco Bellini, Moscow Mule and Vodka Watermelon Martini. Um, yeah, we're drooling.
The popsicles are only available for sale in the U.K. (for now), but if you're eager to test these tasty pops for yourself, they're also available via online order.
If ridiculous shipping prices aren't your thing (or if you just don't want to wait for overseas shipping), you can put your own spin on the popular prosecco pops with some recipes that are sure to lead to a sun- and booze-soaked summer.
An Indiana lawmaker thinks that women should carry guns to protect themselves from being raped, ABC News reports.
In response to an article from the Indiana Star Tribune last week in which a woman recounted her sexual assault from 1994, Representative Jim Lucas posted a letter to Facebook telling the reporter that he should write a follow-up article to address that “thousands of Hoosier women that are taking steps and learning how not to be a victim” and “empower themselves to mitigate their chances of being violently assaulted."
Lucas immediately faced a storm of criticism for his comments, with many arguing that Lucas was victim blaming and not actually solving the problem of rape, but rather pushing a pro-guns agenda. After all, wouldn't it be better to just teach men not to rape women in the first place?
He defended himself, telling the Indiana Star Tribune, “That’s always been a concern and an issue of mine is women being able to defend themselves. I personally have paid out of my pocket for dozens of women to take firearms classes.”
But Lucas apologized on Saturday, explaining that he's realized words can sometimes be loaded. “Probably the biggest understanding that I gained is, what average everyday people take for accepted language and terminology is really very sensitive to people who have experienced trauma like that. They are extremely sensitive to the word victim,” Lucas told the Associated Press.
This is not the first time that Lucas has faced criticism for his derogatory statements towards women on social media. ABC News points out that he's come under fire twice for posting inappropriate, sexist images—both about violence against women. After posting a photo of a woman in a car trunk with the caption, "Wanna know who loves you more: your wife or your dog? Lock them both in your trunk and see who's happy to see you when you let them out," Lucas met with domestic violence advocates.
But even in light of these previous incidents, Lucas said that he was shocked by the “level of hatred” directed at him, and that he felt that the words from his letter had been “twisted,” HuffPost reports.
Maybe Lucas need to realize that after posting multiple awful memes about how women need to be put in their place, a lot of people aren't going to give him the benefit of the doubt anymore.
Lucas has said that, in the future, he will try to be “more sensitive when trying to use the word [victim] and maybe explain myself more,” ABC News reports. Yeah, that's just about the least he can do.
Who doesn’t love a classic, right? Whether that’s Breakfast at Tiffany’s or chocolate chip cookies or, in our case, certain summer outfits. Seven of them to be exact. They are all super easy to put together and will having you looking nothing less than chic AF.
Romper
What’s not to love about an all-in-one outfit? Not only are rompers pretty, comfy AND available in literally every pattern and color imaginable, but they don’t take much planning. You can just put on a romper, maybe some accessories and then boom you’re done! Easy and effortless: that’s what we’re into.
Collared shirt and jeans
This is a classic look that can work in a ton of situations. “My favorite classic summer outfit is a collared cotton shirt (sleeve or no sleeves) with denim! It’s super easy and easy to transition from day to night,” says Tori Sweeney, a senior at University of Wisconsin – Milwaukee.
A white, collared shirt with jeans is perfect for brunch. Pair it with a pair of denim shorts and a floppy hat for chic beach look. The possibilities here are endless!
Tank and printed shorts
When you want to go for an easy outfit that looks pulled together, this should be your new go-to.
“Sometimes, all I want to do is wear gym shorts and a big t-shirt, but scalloped or printed shorts paired with a simple tank top is a more chic outfit alternative to workout clothes (and is equally as comfy)!” says Darcy Schild, a junior at the University of Florida.
The best part about wearing a tank top with printed shorts is you can dress it up or down. Throw a brightly colored blazer over your tank top to dress this look up (which is also handy if you get cold at restaurants but still want to look summery).
Gingham dress
Gingham dresses graced the runway at London Fashion Week Spring 2017, so you should totally give this look a try! Charlee Hrubesky, a sophomore at Indiana University, is excited that gingham is back in style. “I love a summery gingham dress with the perfect pair of summer wedges,” she says. Gingham is an unexpected yet classic pattern. Plus, the checkered pattern comes in colors like light pink, black and navy blue. And if that’s not enough for you, Marilyn Monroe rocked gingham back in the day, so you know it’s real.
Maxi dress
Like the humble romper, maxi dresses are super easy yet chic. Jessica Harrington, a senior at Hofstra University, says that maxi dresses and rompers are her absolute go-to. Who could blame her? These outfits are so simple but can be dressed up or down to be as down-to-earth or as dressed-up as you need.
This is one outfit that will never go out of style. A horizontal striped top with a pair of khaki shorts works everywhere from the beach to shopping with the girls to bonfires.
Christine Burney, a senior at Savannah College of Art and Design, loves pairing khaki shorts with a white top, but she has an affinity for stripes. She says, “I love nearly anything with stripes.”
We think she’d definitely love this outfit, and you will too!
Double denim
Double denim is a classic trend. But how can you make it summery? White jeans and a light wash denim button-up shirt – that’s how. Accessorize it with your favorite sunnies and some cute brown sandals.
These seven looks are classic and classy. They work in all sorts of summery situations and still allow for you to recreate the outfit time and time again with different shoes and accessories. Truly, some outfits never go out of style.
Relive the '90s with these 19 products you'll only recognize if you were born before 1999. Whether you owned some of these or totally wished you did, there's no deying this list will have you feeling nostalgic.
As if we didn't love McDonald's fries way too much already, now, we have reason to love them even more. The fast-food chain just debuted new, rainbow-decorated fry boxes in support of Pride Month that will be available at select locations across the United States throughout the month of June. Um, hello, we want in on this!
“The rainbow fry boxes are a fun way to show our support of the LGBTQ community using one of McDonald’s most iconic and recognizable items; however, these fry boxes are ‘small potatoes’ in the grand scheme of our commitment to this community,” said Cathy Martin, co-chair of the McDonald’s PRIDE Network, and vice president of McDonald’s Baltimore Washington Region, in a press release. “We are proud to honor and celebrate the LGBTQ community, including our employees, customers and beyond, each and every day.”
Cosmopolitan reports the first pride-themed boxes were available in Washington D.C. from June 9 to June 11. The boxes will now be available at participating Greater California Bay Area locations throughout the month of June, according to SF Gate.
McDonald's spokesperson Kim Knapp said in a statement, "McDonald's has always been a company that has supported diversity and inclusion of its employees and extended McDonald's family. We are proud to create an inclusive culture where everyone feels valued, appreciated and supported. As an official sponsor of this year's Pride festivities, we looked for a unique way to bring that celebration into our restaurants throughout the Greater Bay Area."
We are loving everything about this. You go, McDonald's!
Well, it appears it's not all doom and gloom for Bachelor in Paradisefans everywhere —the wedding of season three alumni Evan Bass and Carly Waddell will still be filmed by the franchise and air on ABC, regardless of the filming of season four being halted "indefinitely."
E! News reports that Evan and Carly's wedding, which was set to air as part of the new season of Bachelor in Paradise, is expected to be filmed later this week. Although many members of the cast and crew have packed up and headed home, several sources have confirmed that some of the production team is still in Mexico preparing for the big day.
The franchise has yet to announce when and how the wedding will air.
In relationships, you can always expect a few bumps in the road. From disagreements about where to eat to bigger issues like cheating, unexpected fights happen all of the time. At the end of the day, you make up with bae and move on. But what happens with the big fights that bother you even after you’ve kissed and made up? Even though you tell you tell your SO that you accepted their apology and have forgiven them for what they’ve done to you, sometimes you could be lying to yourself.
1. It hurts when mutual friends are hanging out with them and not you
When you’re in a relationship, sometimes your friends become their friends and vice versa. When fights happen and you’re at home dwelling on what you could have said and your boo is out with your mutual friends, it can make you feel like your friends picked him over you.
Ciara Clemons, a sophomore at the College of Charleston, says, “For me, the idea of him hanging out with people that you're both friends with hurts you. It’s super trivial but I think it’s definitely a sign that you’re still hurt and almost a bit betrayed that your friends would pick him over you.”
If they’re good friends to the both of you, they will make time for the both of you, but sometimes friendships get confusing when relationships and the relationship fights are involved. But, if you’re jealous of him for hanging out with your friends or feel like he’s doing it to spite you, it may be a discussion for the whole group to have.
2. Seeing them in person is awkward, to say the least
We’ve all had those awkward encounters with ex-friends and ex-significant others, but what about the person you’re in a relationship with? Those fun hangout sessions, dates or just running into each other on the street can be awkward post-fight or argument. If you feel yourself getting tense, not talking or find yourself way more interested in your phone than normal, maybe forgiveness hasn’t happened yet.
“I'm the type of person who only sees the good in people, so when I'm blindsided by a guy, I physically don't want to see him,” says Emily Schmidt, a freshman at Stanford University. “If I see him walking down the street and he looks my direction, I'll stare straight ahead. The day I can wave and smile at him is the day I know I've forgiven him.”
No matter how he has wronged you, try to work past the awkwardness and have fun. Forgiveness is a process and focusing on moving on through hanging out and having normal conversations can help, in some cases.
3. You still get upset when you hear about them and what they’re doing
With social media and mutual friends, it can be impossible to not hear about what everyone is doing at all times. If you made peace with your SO or simply just don’t care about what they’re doing, then seeing them on your friend’s Snapchat or hearing a story about him won’t bother you.
Ashley Drayton, a graduate of George State University, says, “I try to stay my distance, but if I'm constantly checking social media, or getting upset if I hear anything about him then I know whatever happened is still bothering me.”
Your SO needs to get over the argument and have their space just as much as you do. If they’re on social media having a blast with their pals and you’re at wine night obsessing over what he’s doing, then you’re not enjoying your time apart. When issues hit the fan, going your separate ways for a night or two can help you both reflect on what happened and help you both make peace with one another.
4. You boycott the places they’re going to be
If you get food poisoning at the sushi place or if you know that your ex-friend will be at that one party everyone’s going to, you probably boycott those places. It happens to everyone, sometimes there’s those places you just will not go under any circumstance. Even a fight with your boyfriendcan result in your boycotting, but it’s not always the best way to “get over” a fight.
“I was talking to a boy in a fraternity, but he ended up being a jerk, so I've been refusing to go to socials that my sorority and his fraternity have, and things of that nature,” says Camila Mota, a sophomore at New Mexico State University. “I also refuse to go to any pool parties at the apartment complex he lives in.”
Boycotting him can help create space between the two of you, but it can also keep you from having fun with your friends. When it comes to parties, socials and other big events, there will be so many people there that you two may not even cross paths. Save the boycotting for bad hookups and ghosters, use the tool of conversation for your bae.
Whether it’s a fight with your current SO, a hookup gone bad or an ex, forgiveness takes time. You may think you’re over a situation or a fight, but at the end of the day, you could be holding onto the resentment. If time has passed and forgiveness doesn’t seem like it’s in the cards, you may have to go back to the root of the problem or fight and see if you will actually be able to work on it in order to have a healthy, successful relationship.
The Olsen twins were with us throughout our childhoods, whether it was on Full House or in straight-to-video movies. So naturally they taught us everything we needed to know about makeup, boys and friendship. Below, we’re recounting 17 of the best life lessons Mary-Kate and Ashley taught us.
1. It’s okay to know what you want
2. Eat your feelings when necessary
3. Avril Lavinge is a completely reliable cited source
4. Always make sure your hair is on point in case of selfies
5. Funny faces fix any situation
6. Relationships are tricky
7. Dancing in your PJs is, like, the most fun
8. Feeling pretty boosts your confidence
9. Cookie addiction is a real thing
10. Never settle for less than true love
11. If you must drive, do so in a convertible you got for your sixteenth birthday
Bachelor in Paradise recently halted production on its fourth season due to "misconduct" between DeMario Jackson and a female contestant. In response to the scandal, host Chris Harrison has released a statement, PEOPLE reports.
“By now, no doubt, you have heard that we have suspended production on this season’s Bachelor in Paradise. I can confirm to you that this is sadly the case,” Harrison's statement says. “Out of respect to all involved, there’s only so much I can and will say at this time. Normally with a situation like this I would not say anything until the incident is fully resolved, but with all the rumors and misinformation being put out there, I don’t find that to be possible anymore.”
“Let me start by saying the safety and care of the cast and crew of our show is of the utmost importance to us,” the statement continues. “It is with this thought in mind that we made the decision to suspend filming. An investigation into the situation was started immediately. Warner Bros. is handling the details of that investigation. They’re moving quickly to gather all the facts, and once that’s done, a clear, concise decision can be made about where we go from here.”
“There are a lot of competing details in the various press accounts of the incident. And there’s a lot of misinformation out there too. We urge everyone to be patient until the investigation is complete.”
The host ends his statement with an apology. “I know in this day and age we want—and even expect—immediate answers, but in this case, it’s just not possible. So again, I urge you to please be patient and respect the privacy of the parties involved. I will keep you as informed and up to date as I possibly can. We’re sorry for any inconvenience and disappointment this may have caused the cast, the crew and our loyal fans. It is my sincere hope that we can come to a quick resolution to this and get back to work very soon.”
Veterans of the Bachelor franchise, including Season 21 contestants Raven Gates and Taylor Nolan, have reacted to the situation on social media.
Oh Lindsay, you blessed our TV screens with your nostalgia-inducing performances in The Parent Trap, Freaky Friday, and the teen movie to end all teen movies, Mean Girls. And now you're coming back in full swing to grace our televisions once more with a sweet new 'do. So fetch.
Yep, the actress has finally traded in her long, auburn locks for a sleek, asymmetrical lob which she debuted yesterday on Instagram.
It's not just for funsies though: the cut is part of British comedy series Sick Note, whose second season will star Harry Potter alum Rupert Grint. Lohan and her lob are slated to be featured in two of the eight planned episodes. The Twittersphere, as usual, is letting its opinion be known on the matter—let it be said here that I was the *first* to make the Dana Scully comparison, so there.
Pat McGrath holds the keys to makeup artists' hearts everywhere, and when her brand announced its latest collection, I'll admit that my ticker went pitter-patter. Following the release of the Dark Star 006 Eye Collection this April, the makeup legend is debuting the Lust MatteTrance collection of nine "high impact" lip colors.
The real selling point of the collection though, is the packaging. "It's so beautiful," McGrath said to Teen Vogue. "The gold lip is everything—anything with a lip! It's a nod to the past with a futuristic formula."
As Teen Vogue points out, the golden lip on each tube functions as a super-secret selfie mirror, since it faces forward no matter which way you turn the bullet. For $38 a pop, these babies are definitely on the pricier side, but if you're looking for the perfect double-duty lip product, look no further. The full MatteTrance collection is set to drop on PatMcGrath.com on July 13, and Sephora on July 28.
Starting a new job or internship can make even the most confident individual nervous. After all, you don’t know anyone, you don’t know the office space and you don’t know the procedures that your new company runs itself on. You are embarking on a new chapter in your life, and that is scary for anyone.
So what can you do to help fight off these jitters? We spoke with Jenn DeWall, a career and life coach to millennial women, as well as current collegiettes, to find out. Read on below for eight tips to help calm your new job nerves.
Leading up to your new job, you may be thinking to yourself, “I want to be confident, but these nerves are just getting in the way!” Don’t worry, collegiettes ––this is totally normal. However, it is important to remember that this company hired you for a reason.
Alaina Leary, a graduate student at Emerson College and social content curator at Connelly Partners, fought off late-night nerves the night before she began her new job by telling herself that the company wanted her because they saw her potential. “I had to remind myself that they chose me for a reason, and my skills and my attitude were that reason,” Alaina says. “I kept that attitude in mind, the one that they liked. I could do anything and would be up to any challenge. I came in ready to kick ass and left my first day feeling fantastic!”
DeWall reiterates this point. "If we believe we'll do well, we will do well––and the opposite is the same," DeWall says. "Set a positive affirmation and focus on that during your first day. It will give you confidence that you can measure." Confidence is key, collegiettes.
2. Know the logistics
So, you got the job. What now? One great way to get ready for your first day is to do your research. Learn all about the people, facilities and procedures involved with your new company! Not only will this make you a better employee, but by default it will calm your nerves because you will feel more prepared when you walk in the door.
Don’t be afraid to reach out to your new supervisor to find out when you should arrive, how long your workday will be, what your weekly hours are and any items you should bring with you. “Will you need your own laptop?” Alaina says. “If so, don’t forget your charger! Also, always bring your phone charger––even if you don't use your phone on the job.” Have these back-up items ready in case of an emergency.
It’s normal to be a little bit apprehensive to bombard your supervisor with a million questions before you even start, but he or she will probably appreciate you for it. There are so many things to learn when you start with a new company. "One of the best things you can do early on in your career is ask questions," DeWall says. "By being assertive and asking questions, it shows that you're proactive, engaged in the role and want to be successful." Asking questions just shows you are a dedicated employee!
Until you get your bearings with your new company, you should try to stay within its normal expectations and knowing the logistics allows you to do so. "Company culture is the key to our success," DeWall says. "If you know that at the company they work from 8 to 5 every day, work 8 to 5. By understanding company and cultural norms, you can better make decisions that will align with your success."
Even something as minor as lunch is important to get information about. Should you pack your own? Is it provided? Is there a cafe on-site? Is there a microwave in the office kitchen? Find out. The more you know before you start, the less nervous you will be when you start.
3. Dress up on your first day
We’ve all been through this one––what are you supposed to wear on the first day?! While it typically varies from place to place, if you are unsure, we recommend going in a little bit overdressed on the first day. Trust us, until you get a feel of the atmosphere (which may be casual), you will make a much better impression looking a little too nice than a little too laid back.
Savanna Tavakoli, a junior at Boston University, reiterates to collegiettes not to overthink things. “I remember when I interned for Cosmopolitan, I showed up on the first day in a dress and heeled booties after spending all morning freaking out about my outfit,” she says. “I imagined this huge office with marble floors and employees dressed in the newest Chanel collection, but it was actually the complete opposite––I was actually overdressed! I had let my anxiety convince me it would be a Devil Wears Prada situation, when really it was just like any normal office.”
Alaina agrees that you shouldn’t put too much pressure on yourself. “On the first day, dress up for the job unless you’ve been told directly that you should dress casually,” Alaina says. “It’s okay to look more formal than everyone else on your first day because on that day, you can take note of what other employees wear and get a good feel for what is acceptable.” It is also important that you find out the level of strictness your company has toward piercings and tattoos.
Keep in mind that your attire is tied to the perception that your coworkers will have of you. "Be conservative, dress business casual or business professional," DeWall says. "Make sure you come in dressing to impress in professional attire until you know it's acceptable to dress otherwise." It is always better to be overdressed rather than underdressed!
4. Reach out to someone with an established career
Whether it is a family member, mentor, friend or anyone else who is already in the workforce, reach out to someone who has been in his or her career for more than two years. Why? It's simple—at one point they were in your shoes!
DeWall believes this is a great starting point. "Ask them the attitude, energy and characteristics that make someone successful early on in their careers," she says. Even if this person's career is not in your field, they will be able to let you know some general workplace expectations and calm your anxieties.
Always remember that everyone starts at the bottom. Prior to your new job, speaking with someone who has been there could be the comfort you need!
5. Write out your anxieties
If you find that you are being plagued by anxious thoughts in the days leading up to your first day on the job, try tackling these thoughts by writing them out.
"Write down the thought that's making you anxious and ask yourself, 'How true is this thought?'" DeWall says. "If that doesn't work, take a walk and remove yourself from the situation that is causing you stress. Taking a break will give you the opportunity to re-ground yourself and better approach the next task." Anxiety is the worst, but there are ways you can fight it off.
DeWall recommends another beneficial writing exercise to ease your mind. "Ground yourself by writing down specific answers to questions such as: How do I want the first day to go? What do I want to learn? What type of worker or leader do I want to be?" she says. "The answers will calm the anxiety and give you direction." Afterward, you will be better able to focus on your tasks for that day!
6. Get to know your coworkers
Definitely reach out to your peers at the start of your new job. However, keep in mind that you should keep it professional in the beginning. "This is not a time to be overly personal or share inappropriate stories," DeWall says. "Your peers are just getting to know you, so you want to make the best impression." As time progresses, you will naturally begin to open up to each other on a more personal level.
Since your coworkers are employeed at the same company as you (duh!), they will be able to provide you with tips and tricks that can help you be successful. If you are intimidated, remember that they were also the "new guys" at one point. Unlike what we see in the movies, most people do not want to see you fail. Your peers will be more than happy to help you succeed!
7. Set a bedtime ritual
This one may sound like a cliche, but it is honestly underrated. Sleep is so important! Prioritizing a consistent nighttime will only benefit you (in more ways than one).
Start by creating a set sleep time and wake-up time, and stick with it. "Structure and routine helps ground us and reduce our stress," DeWall says. "The better our sleep and [exercise] habits are, the better we'll be able to handle any challenges we face during the work day." There is nothing better than a good night's sleep, especially before a big moment in life!
8. Bring personal items for your workspace
Any transition in life can feel a little bit uncomfortable. Your world is being shifted and that obviously takes some getting used to! So how do you make yourself a bit more comfortable in your new work environment? Bring sentimental items with you!
You don't want to go overboard on the first day, but bringing little touches of home is absolutely okay. "Bring items that inspire you to display on your desk," DeWall says. "Bring pictures and items that bring you joy. When you're stressed, you can look at these items and use them as a distraction to ground you!" We completely agree.
When new job jitters hit you, embrace them. Reassure yourself of the hard worker that you are, take a deep breath and relax. You are about to embark on a new journey and while that may be very scary, the best things always come from what scares us the most!
Feminist actions come in all shapes and sizes, and some people are lovingone woman’s “small act of resistance” of putting boys' NASA tank tops in the girl’s section of a clothing store.
Did I just take a bunch of NASA tank tops from the boys section & put them in the girls section? Yes. Yes I did. pic.twitter.com/hXHBbaog2W
Katie continued her mission by saying that she wanted to change up the store a bit more by putting Wonder Woman tank tops in the boys' section.
Was also hoping to find a bunch of kickass Wonder Woman t-shirts in the girls section I could put into the boys section... Merchandisers: pic.twitter.com/npuLDAU0I0
People were quick to support Hinde and her mission to stop perpetuating gender norms, especially in young children. Her tweet grew especially when it was reposted by the Instagram account Female Collective with the caption “Girls are and can be scientists too! I mean did everyone not see Hidden Figures?!”
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Not all of the feedback Hinde received was positive. While some applauded her for fighting gender norms, and making a difference, no matter how small, others labeled her actions as “white feminism” and were quick to note that the only thing she was doing was making more work for the store employees, who, according to most store policies, would have to move the clothing back to their original places (even if they agreed with the message that she was trying to spread!).
White feminism is thinking you made a difference rearranging merch in one retail store and creating more work for minimum wage workers. https://t.co/PygFhWOyYe
Pictured: a bunch of white people pledging to make retail employees' jobs hell b/c sexism. And you wonder why WOC shun white "allies"? https://t.co/uRBWPXLFh2
Hinde followed up on all the feedback she received respectfully, and decided to put more thought and work into the whole ordeal.
Getting a lot of feedback- varying among positive, constructively critical, & toxic- so after work I'll post a longer essay. Thanks all! https://t.co/uoU2yOZUgn
While promoting her new Netflix series Glow at the ATX Television Festival, actress Alison Brie revealed that she was once asked to take off her top during an audition for an episode of the HBO series Entourage.
Alison opened up about her past audition experiences, shedding light on the sexism that is deeply rooted in the Hollywood community. "The audition process has not changed that much," she said. "Early in my career, I auditioned for three lines on an episode of Entourage that I had to go on in a bikini! Or like shorts and the tiniest shorts. And they were like, 'Okay, can you take your top off now?'"
Brie later clarified her comment on Twitter, saying she was wearing a bikini under her top, but fans were still shocked.
Re:Entourage - CLARIFICATION - I had a bikini top on UNDER my top. They didn't ask me to get totally topless. Sorry to disappoint you!
Liking an ex's picture on Instagram is tricky—especially when you're a celebrity. Bella Hadid seems to know this better than anyone. According to Cosmopolitan, the supermodel liked and then unliked a picture of The Weeknd on the cover of Forbes.
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The Victoria’s Secret angel unfollowed her ex and his new girlfriend, Selena Gomez, when they started dating, but she does follow an account called The Shade Room, which posted the Forbes pic. Observant followers took note when Bella double tapped the post and called her out in the comments—some admired her for showing support for her ex; others felt the need to criticize.
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Minutes later, Hadid unliked the photo, possibly in response to the comments.
Bella talked to Teen Vogue about The Weeknd in February. “I'll always respect him, and I'll always love him,” she said. So why can’t she just like an Instagram post in peace?
I will be the first to admit that I was extremely worried about life post-college. Mid-second semester senior year, I went on a retreat with a group of classmates and it was one of the most revealing and healing things I could have done. At the retreat, we were instructed to write a letter to our future selves, which we would read a year later—a letter I wrote about in a previous blog post.
In the letter, I told myself about how badly I hoped to have a full-time job a year later in order to alleviate the anxieties I felt as a then-soon-to-be graduate. Between the personal and peer pressure of everything that was expected of a college grad, I did not think there was another option for me. I thought getting a job immediately, moving into my first apartment, and living the perfect adult life was how it had to be. The questions from friends and family were always the same: "What are your plans after graduation?""Do you have a job?""What will your salary be?"
And while everyone had the same outward appearance of being put together, I couldn't help but wonder if I was the only one feeling the stress. The pressure was a lot and it was not really something anyone discussed. It was an "I got this" attitude mixed with an unspoken internal dialogue that constantly asked, "Are you freaking out as much as I am?" I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, friends, but I think I came to find that almost everyone dreaded the uncertainty of graduation day for one reason or another. So when I got my dream fellowship, relief seeped over me. It was one less thing for me to worry about having to find and one more thing checked off the list of things I was "supposed" to do after college.
But here's my question: Who really makes that checklist anyway? You know, that list of things we're supposed to do or the one with the "right" ways to do it? My answer: Who knows? Unless that checklist will truly and genuinely make you happy, I say give it a toss. Instead of following that list, follow your heart. Take the time to decide what you want to do, without rushing. Here are the things I wish someone had told me before, during, or shortly after graduation, realizations that have since helped me immensely:
1. Take the time you need.
If there is one thing I would scream from a rooftop, it's "take your time." Your dream does not have an expiration date. In fact, there is no rush to figure out what your dream may be—it could change like a million and one times anyway. If you do not know what you want, it's absolutely okay.
Your priorities may be different than those of others, but that doesn't mean they're wrong. Decide what matters most to you and never stray from those priorities.
4. Keep your friends close, especially those you can't see every week.
When you're not constantly surrounded by your friends on campus, it can be tough to see them unless you actively set aside time to do so. My advice? Do it. Set aside time to see them and stay in touch. Even if you can't see them every week, even a quick text or call can go a long way.
The women working in Ivanka Trump's factory in Subang, Indonesia face more hardships than most of us could ever imagine. In interviews with The Guardian, they spoke about how they fear joining a union, have to work unpaid overtime, and are paid so little that they can't live with their children. They're paid an extremely low wage compared to the rest of Asia—only $173 per month, which is minimum wage.
The women, who are paid even less than those working at Ivanka Trump's factory in China, were so fearful of losing their jobs over the interview that they asked the Guardian to change their names. Understandable, since the activists who investigated the Chinese factory were taken into police custody.
One of the women interviewed, Alia, has worked in factories for most of her life, and told the Guardian that although both she and her husband work full time, they don't make enough for their children to live with them. Their children live with their grandparents and see their parents only once a month if it's affordable to do so. When the interviewers told Alia about Ivanka Trump's book on working mothers, Women Who Work, she struggled to take any of it seriously. She explained that her version of work-life balance would mean seeing her children more than once a month. Really puts things in perspective, doesn't it?
And while the workers know who they're working for. As Alia's husband told the Guardian, "We don't like Donald Trump's policies. But we’re not in a position to make employment decisions based on our principles."
Some of the women at the factory, like Yuma, are grateful for their job despite the low pay, saying, "at least there is air conditioning."
The women do have some rights in the factory, including three months of paid maternity leave, a $10.50 monthly bonus if they work during menstruation and health insurance. But they're still expected to work unpaid overtime to meet unrealistic production targets, which Indonesia's Trade Union Rights Centre's Andriko Otang told the Guardian is a common practice. The workers are also frequently verbally abused. And because Indonesia requires factories to pay a holiday bonus to workers based on their religion, workers are often fired before Ramadan and hired again right after to avoid paying the additional wages.
Although Ivanka has stepped down from running the clothing brand, the clothes do still bare her name and reflect on her family. As more and more of her factories are investigated, will it cause more stores to drop the brand? Or will these abuses be glossed over and ignored?
