In college, your best friend can act as your tutor, therapist, partner in crime or straight-up babysitter. Here are just a few reasons why you'd likely crumble without her. 

1. She’s your surrogate mom/sister/fun aunt all rolled into one.

Sometimes you need someone to call you on your shit, and sometimes you need someone to force you out of your shell. At college, you often need both at the same time. 

2. Not everyone is willing to leave a party early because you’re just not feelin' it.

Outfit regret and drunk appetites are so real and need immediate attention. 

3. And not everyone is willing to go out in your pajamas on a random weeknight because you did well on an exam.

Sure, it's 9 p.m. on a Wednesday but....... SHOTS?

4. She makes running errands feel like a road trip.

Target? Walmart? The sky's the limit!

5. She can distinguish between your everyday “This is the worst day of my life” and your emergency “OK, this is actually the worst day of my life.” 

6. You wear her clothes more than you wear yours some weekends.

Maybe you've "stolen that and kept it for six months," but you still appreciate that she gave it to you in the first place. 

7. You usually screenshot something and send it to her just as she’s typing out, “OMG DID YOU SEE THIS?!?” 

Cue the "HAHAHAHAHAHA" texts and telling each other to "get out of my head!"

8. Your friends are her friends and even if you make new friends they become her friends. 

Everyone in your life knows her, and everyone in her life knows you. If you're seen without the other, everyone asks where she is.

9. She knows your family, your friends from home, and all your friends, acquaintances, and exes from college. 

That girl from your high school who is Instagram famous and selling FitTea? Yeah, she knows her. That boy from your first semester Spanish class who wore an extra-small jacket? Yeah, she knows him too. 

10. She’s held your hair back more times than you’d like to admit and has put you to bed more than your own mother has.

It's a true test of friendship, and she's passed with flying colors. 

11. You always make sure the other gets home safe because you share location and check up on it constantly. 

Thank God for location sharing on the iPhone. I'm just genuinely thankful I can see what all my friends are up to without calling or texting or hunting them down. 

12. You support each other when boys are sucky and patiently remind the other that she deserves a Jim Halpert/Ben Wyatt/Prince Charming. 

Get you someone who inhales deeply whenever you fall asleep on their shoulder. Comfort your friends when boys inevitably fall short of their expectations. 

13. You work with each others’ color-coded planners to fit in lunch and coffee when you need somebody to lean on. 

We've got 30 minutes on Tuesday. Want to walk around the library together?

14. Between the two of you, you’ve got a meme for every situation you’ve ever been in. 

If you're not replying to every tag with "omg me af," are you even best friends?

15. If love means never having to say you’re sorry, best friendship means never having to apologize for what you say while you’re drunk.

Often your suppressed rage is misdirected and targets your very kind best friend who just wants to take a cab instead of walk. 

1. "Welcome to Atlanta" is your ultimate party anthem.

2. As well as any song by T.I.

3. You cringe at people who actually refer to this city as “Hotlanta.”

4. Chick-fil-a, Waffle House and Zaxby’s are the holy trinity of restaurants.

5. Coke is your jam.

6. You’ve experienced all four seasons in the same week.

7. So you also know that preparing for snow in Georgia is basically the equivalent of preparing for an apocalypse.

8. You actually tell people you’re from Atlanta when odds are you probably live somewhere outside of the perimeter (such as Roswell or Alpharetta).

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9. But you still take the phrase “True to Atlanta” very seriously.

10. Sometimes, a little too seriously.

11. Everyone around you is a die-hard Georgia fan.

12. You literally get upset at the very thought of someone serving you unsweetened tea.

13. You prefer Krystal’s to White Castle in the same way that you prefer Captain D’s to Long John Silver's and Checkers to Rally’s.

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14. Traffic has made you want to die slowly on several occasions.

15. So has taking a flight out of Hartsfield-Jackson.

16. And riding MARTA.

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17. But no matter what comes with the territory, you're true to Atlanta until the day you die. 

Name: Kim Lewis
Age: 25
Job Title & Description: Co-Founder & CEO of CurlMix
College Major: Business – Double Major in Logistics & Marketing
Website: CurlMix.com
Twitter Handle: @CurlMix
Instagram Handle:@CurlMix

What does your current job entail? Is there such a thing as a typical day?

Kim Lewis: There is no such thing as a typical day, but that’s the love/hate relationship with being an entrepreneur. It’s wonderful to have a new project every day, and being the lead on it, but some days, I wish I had just a bit of monotony and consistency. I sometimes envy my friends who are off of work after 5pm, when I know I have to work 14 hours expos over the weekend. But then they envy my freedom and control of my life, so it’s a double-edged sword.

Despite the unpredictability of my day, my weeks are pretty consistent. From week to week, I usually converse with our Customer Service Manager. She can pretty much handle everything on her own, but the big issues are usually discussed with me. Then I check on our Facebook Ads, I’ll delete low performing ads or try a new style. A few times a week I’ll write detailed emails to our mailing list and/or a blog post about what’s to come from CurlMix. I’ll schedule fulfillment of our CurlMix boxes for that month. I order materials to replenish what’s out of stock. I update our website and listen to Marketing podcasts to improve my skills. I also generally cook once a day. I prepare for the launch of next month’s CurlMix and I converse with our bet CurlMix customers in our private Facebook group. Oh, and occasionally I scroll down my timeline on Facebook & Twitter. At the end of the day I’ll catch up on some self-care with a long bath with bath bombs, wine, candles, and a good TV show.

What is the best part of your job?

KL: Easy, talking to my customers in our Facebook group. #1 I’m an extrovert, I absolutely LOVE talking to people. #2 My customers are my favorite people. There’s this strange bond I have with many of them, and I have hardly met any of them in person. So naturally, I truly enjoy our CurlMix chats about what they loved or didn’t like about a recipe. They truly inspire me to keep going on days I feel like quitting, and they have no idea how much their love means to me.

What was your first entry-level job in your field and how did you get it?

KL: I was a District Manager in Training for ALDI. I got it by interviewing on campus at U of I. I hated it. It wasn’t a good first job for my personality type. I was only there 3 months and on the way to a meeting, I got lost, cried my eyes out, called my husband to tell him I wanted to quit, and went home. Sometimes, I would hide at work and cry, out of my disdain for the job. My manager was a pain, the coworkers there gossiped about me to my manager, I was working 80 hours a week, and it was the MOST conservative place to work. I’m not just making that up. It was rated as one of the most conservative places to work in America on Glassdoor.com. For someone like me, an extrovert, fun, free thinker, and idealist, it made me feel smothered.

What words of wisdom (well-known quotes, an anecdote from your boss) do you find most valuable?

KL: My first real job only lasted for 3 months, so these words aren’t from my boss, but rather mentors along my entrepreneurial journey. “Stalk your competitors”. If they are doing something you aren’t you might be missing something, but if they copy you, you’re ahead of the game.

What is one mistake you made along the way and what did you learn from it?

KL: I started my first business solely out of passion and interest, without a revenue model. I learned that niche social networks don’t make very much money and never start a business without a way to make money, or else it's just a hobby.

What has been the most surreal moment of your career thus far?

KL: Being on stage and pitching to thousands of people, oh and quadrupling revenue in the month of December 2016.

What do you look for when considering hiring someone?

KL: This may sound unorthodox but I usually look for someone who already has a side hustle. Someone who blogs, does social media, does photography, something. If you have a side hustle or if you’re pursuing entrepreneurship, that tells me that you are a self-starter. I don’t need to micromanage you because you micromanage yourself. I don’t hire people who don’t have something else going on outside of work.

What advice would you give to a 20-something with similar aspirations?

KL: Find a side hustle, something you’re known for, and figure out how to make money doing it. If you can’t successfully run a side hustle, baby sitting, assisting, sewing, creating products etc., you’ll never be able to run a business. Once you’ve got the hustle down, now you can begin building a business. I’m sure you’ll gain the basic skills necessary to start a business.

What's the one thing that's stood out to you the most in a resume?

KL: In business school, I was taught that a resume shouldn’t have any color or graphics. It should only contain text. That’s the boring and corporate professional way to do things. However, the resumes that stood out had colorful formatting for highlighting their skills and abilities. I thought that was pretty neat because I was able to quickly identify and remember their strengths. Clearly, this candidate had a creative eye. It wasn’t too much but it was enough to make me want to invite them to interview.

The arrival of spring may bring the promise of warmer weather, flip-flops and short sleeves, but there are likely to be a few lingering chilly days that require some light layers. Now is the opportunity to ditch the drab winter coats and wool sweaters in favor of pastel cardigans, bright blazers and hip leather jackets. Spring layering is all about mixing textures and patterns for that fresh and youthful vibe you’ve been missing since summer. Take inspiration from the streets with these stylish looks that prove just how creative you can get with your layering this spring.

1. Classic Cuts With a Punch

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A patterned suit makes for a bold ensemble and serves as the perfect base for an edgy leather jacket. The combination of color and texture brings this look to life and transitions easily from a crisp spring morning to an afternoon lunch al fresco. A colorful bag and wedge sandals add a touch of fun to a polished suit silhouette, but classy heels and a clutch can instantly take this look into date-night territory. When you’re not feeling chilled enough for the jacket-on-blazer combo, just drape that fabulous coat over your shoulders to channel your inner off-duty model.

2. Double Dress, Double the Fun

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Layering doesn’t have to be restricted to stuffy cardigans—try out a layered dress look this spring for a fresh take on a classic pairing. Layering two dresses is the perfect solution when the mid-thigh grazing mini just doesn’t give you enough coverage. Try a fitted sweater dress over a longer shirt dress or a tunic top over a knee-length dress. If you’re doing a little wardrobe revamping, invest in some classic pieces like chambray shirts and tunic sweaters to breathe new life into some of your favorite warm weather pieces!

Related: The Spring Break Uniform You Need For Every Destination

3. Get Creative With Crop Tops

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Your favorite summer crop top that was doomed to stay in the back of your closet until June can make an early appearance this spring. A crop top makes for a great layering piece over a button-down or sheer top. Pair it with high-waisted pants for balanced proportions and a little extra coverage. A cropped sweater is another great winter to spring transition piece and a versatile addition to dresses and tank tops. Look for cropped pieces that hit just below the rib cage and wear them over shirts that fall below the hips. This will elongate your torso and make you appear taller.

If you’re looking for a single new piece to carry you through the unpredictable spring temperatures, a cropped statement jacket is the way to go. It’ll go with everything you already have in your closet, including your favorite jeans for a modern casual look or a sleek skirt for those internship days.

4. Feminine Meets Functional

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When you just can’t decide if it’s really spring yet, the sweater and mini-skirt combo is your go-to solution. You can show a little skin but still keep yourself protected from the elements with a couple extra layers up top. Try a sporty version of this feminine style with a chunky sweater and utility jacket layered over your favorite mini. Heeled booties make a sleek finish, while wedged sneakers make the look extra sporty cool.

5. Minimalism at its Best

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If you haven’t tried your hand at a jumpsuit, now is your time! It’s the perfect spring piece: it's versatile, effortless and suitable for any number of layering combinations. A long sleeve tee underneath, a sharp leather jacket or a loose, boxy-blazer on top are just some of the ways to style this trendy garment. If it’s your first one-piece, try a foolproof cinched or belted waist. If you’re short, make sure the legs hit just above the ankle to achieve the best proportions. Work it with sandals, booties or pumps depending on your mood (and the weather of course).

6. Sweaters for Spring

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As the weather warms up, a long sweater is the ideal piece to take the place of your heavy down jacket. A dramatic cardigan that hits just below the knee will add a bit of flair to your favorite jeans and tee or even a feminine spring dress. There are endless possibilities for accessorizing an oversized cardigan, but to avoid looking drowned in miles of fabric, bare some leg and sport a pair of heels or booties. A belt tied at the waist will also give a loose sweater more shape and can help take the look from day to night.

After a long, dreary winter, the thought of breaking out your spring wardrobe is exhilarating. But for that period in between winter’s end and full-fledged sunshine, layer some of your favorite pieces from both seasons. Spring layering is all about combining light airy pieces, a touch of texture and a fun mix of prints and patterns to joyfully welcome the start of a new season. So take some inspiration from these street style looks and get to layering!

It’s been almost three years since we first met. It feels like longer; how can so much have changed in such a short span of time? I still remember the very first time I saw you, but I guess I didn’t really see you then. You were just that friend of that guy that I know. I barely even looked at you when we were introduced—I was too caught up in my own life at the time. I never would have guessed in that moment that you’d be the one who would change everything.

It doesn’t make sense, but I feel like I owe you. That’s the thing about love, isn’t it? You left me scattered on the sidewalk but I’m the one apologizing for the mess. But we weren’t always messy. We were epic. Sure, we fought a lot but you also made me laugh harder than I ever have before. I think we were meant to be, but we were young and stupid and we did it wrong.

Looking back now, it’s hard to remember our mistakes. It’s hard to remember anything, really, except the feeling. I didn’t know what love was before I met you, but now you’re the very definition of it. I think that’s what makes first loves so monumental: For the rest of my life, my idea of love and relationships will always be rooted in you…in us. Not because I still love you, but because I did once and it changed everything.

I was angry with you for a long time after you left. I went to bed every night praying that the sun would rise and I’d finally forget your name. I tried to convince myself that I didn’t love you anymore. I knew it was possible; if I could be convinced that you never loved me, why couldn’t I do the opposite? But that’s not how it works, is it? You’re still the only one that knows the truth. You got to walk away knowing that I loved you. I was left drowning, not knowing anything.

I could have filled this letter with clichés like “it’s your loss” and blah blah blah, but I don’t really believe that. Yes, I would have done anything for you and you walked away from that, but maybe there’s more to it. Maybe we were lucky to have what we did at such a young age, even if we did burn too quickly. Maybe timing is everything, and maybe ours was all wrong. Maybe we really weren’t meant to be. Either way, I don’t blame you for leaving all those years ago.

I’m too much of a romantic to believe you never think of me. I hope you look at the empty side of your bed and wonder what I’m doing or what I’m thinking or if I look at the empty side of my bed and think of you sometimes too. Maybe I am too romantic. Maybe you never think of me at all. Maybe I’m just that girl you knew three years ago. Sometimes you scroll past my face on your newsfeed. Maybe you just keep scrolling. The truth is that I don’t know. I don’t know what made you leave. I don’t know what made you stay gone. 

I have come to accept that we will always be a question left unanswered.

Baby Daddy returns to Freeform tonight after a much-too-long hiatus, with Danny and Riley’s baby-on-the-way taking center stage. Diley shippers have long been waiting for a happily ever after that seems within reach now that the pair is expecting. And I have no doubt that they’re going to be the most amazing parents.

1. They’re fiercely protective of each other.

To say this baby is lucky to have Danny and Riley as parents is an understatement. You know that the loyal and protective nature of their relationship will carry over to the relationship they have with their baby.

2. This is meant to be.

I’ve always believed Danny and Riley are endgame, and this little bundle of joy confirms that. Diley forever!

3. Everything they’ve been through has prepared them for this.

Danny and Riley have been through so much—hiding their feelings for each other, breaking up and the whole Ben thing. If they can handle all of that, they can handle being parents.

4. They’ve had practice with Emma.

Nothing can prepare you for becoming a parent…unless you’ve already been like a parent to someone else’s child. Danny and Riley stepped up to help Ben raise Emma and got plenty of practice for their own child in the process.

5. They have a great support system.

You know the Wheelers (plus Tucker!) are going to give Danny and Riley’s kid as much love and support as they’ve given Emma over the years.

6. They’re best friends first.

No matter where they’ve been romantically, Danny and Riley have always been best friends. There’s no better foundation—not only are they partners in life, they’ll be partners in parenting.

Baby Daddy returns to Freeform tonight at 8:30/7:30c!

There comes a time in all of our lives when we see a celebrity wearing a red carpet dress so beautiful and perfect that we can't help but swoon. Unfortunately for most of us, the cruel reality is that red carpet dresses cost a fortune and are often custom-made for the people who wear them. That is, until Gabourey Sidibe stepped out in head-to-toe Torrid and made all our dress dreams come true. 

If you don't know, Torrid is a clothing company that specifically caters to women sizes 10 to 30. The website sells everything from accessories to evening gowns and everything in between—aka a real dream come true.

Gabourey recently attended SXSW and rocked a delicate-yet-edgy floral-print dress ($45.98) and nude heels ($56.90), both by Torrid, that perfectly accentuated her curves and completely slayed my life. Check out Gabby's look below:

Now if you're as obsessed with Gabby's look as I am, you can head over to Torrid's website and get it for yourself!

When you’re packing for Spring Break, sticking to one color scheme or bringing pieces that can easily be layered is a smart way to save room in your bag for a few souvenirs. But if there’s one item that could go with just about anything, it’s jean shorts. Is there really anything more versatile than a pair of daisy dukes? They can be worn with all sorts of looks, and unlike other garments, it’s safe to give them a couple of wears before throwing them into the wash.

And just like denim shorts, ASOS has a ton of cute, affordable pieces that complement any look. See how we’ve styled some of their best Spring Break 2017 clothes and accessories for your upcoming trip – all with a classic blue denim hotpant!

1. Going to the Beach
   
   (ASOS Stripe Off Shoulder Top With Embroidery $43, ASOS Clean Bandeau Swimsuit $25, ASOS Janica Two Pack Sandal Espadrilles $31, ASOS Denim Shredded Hotpant $43, ASOS Vacay Sequin Straw Hat $28, ASOS BEACH Oversized Pal mPrint Shopper Bag $38)
   Of course denim shorts are the ultimate beachy keen necessity, and this look is as functional as it is fashionable. With an adorable off-the-shoulder top, wearing this bright strapless suit under your shorts lets you rock a relaxed sun goddess vibe while still having a pop of color.
2. Hanging Around Town

   
   (QUAY Australia Exclusive to ASOS The Playa Rimless Aviator Sunglasses $60, ASOS LOUNGE Lace Up Off Shoulder Sweat Top $34, ASOS Denim Shredded Hotpant $43, ASOS DAY Flatform Canvas Sneakers $34)
   Whether you’re off sightseeing or lounging around with the gal pals, this everyday look is perfect for kicking back.

3. Hitting Up The Nightlife
   ( ASOS Pack of 12 Pretty Stud Single Earrings $9.50, ASOS Sequin Cami Top $40, ASOS Janica Two Pack Sandal Espadrilles $31, ASOS Denim Shredded Hotpant $43, ASOS BEACH Foldover Weave Cross Body Bag $23)
   Who says you can’t wear jean shorts when you’re out? On Spring Break, anything goes, so give this sassy look a try. Bonus: These effortless espadrilles sandals with metallic detail are a two-for-one deal (see first look), and transition seamlessly from day to night

Like what you see? Any of these looks would go great in a white or black denim short, too. Happy packing, collegiettes!

The humanities—or the study of human culture—are a broad term that can encompass a variety of majors. Whether you’re working toward a degree in art history, anthropology, philosophy, literature, performing arts or visual arts, your humanities major will take you far in life. While you’ve probably heard over and over that you’ll never get a job out of college, and may have even joked about it yourself, you also know that you didn’t go into your field for the money. Here are five benefits of a humanities major—share these the next time someone questions your path.

1. You have excellent communication skills

No matter where your specific major falls under the humanities umbrella, you are constantly improving your oral and written communication skills. Your ability to relay information in a succinct and persuasive way will help you out, regardless of what your future career ends up being.

Kristen Fowler is a junior English major at the University of Alabama who switched her major from mechanical engineering because she missed being able to express ideas through writing. “In my experience, communication is the most important skill to have in the workforce,” she says. “Studying English has honed my writing skills and my public speaking skills, which will help me succeed after college. I look forward to papers and presentations instead of dreading them, because I know I have the ability to express myself clearly.”

Malory Weber is a sophomore at the University of Utah majoring in both international studies and linguistics. “Not only am I learning languages that are always useful,” she says of her linguistics studies, “But I am learning to analyze the impact of languages on the way people think, the choices they make and the opinions they have. That analytical factor stimulates the logic-based part of my brain that most people would turn to math or science for.” Malory plans on attending law school, where these strategies will be extremely beneficial.

2. You can approach a topic from a variety of different perspectives

In your classes within your humanities major, you learn to look at the world from a number of perspectives other than your own. You study various cultures, languages and bodies of work that other majors may not have even heard of. This gives you an advantage when you enter the “real world.”

Royall Bryan is a junior at Christopher Newport University majoring in sociology/anthropology and minoring in writing. “I chose anthro because it’s so versatile,” she says. “I can adapt to most positions because the concepts I’m learning help me understand people’s actions. Learning company culture, assisting dignitaries with customs and just learning about who we are as people were some of the things that drew me to anthro.” Royall is able to combine her love of both knowledge and writing through her humanities major and minor.

Related: What To Do With Your “Impractical” Major

3. You are an avid reader

Due to the nature of your major, you probably have a lot of reading to do for class. Knowing you, though, you already loved reading long before you came to college. Your thirst for knowledge and your passion for literature are going to take you far, trust us. Plus, reading exposes you to different people and ways of thinking, which can make you more empathetic toward others.

Shereen Jeyakumar is a sophomore at Florida Atlantic University minoring in literature. “I absolutely love to delve into written masterpieces,” she says. “It’s always been a great joy of mine. I can’t tell you how many times reading a poem or short story for a literature class has lifted my spirits when I was bogged down with complicated physics equations and organic chemistry reactions.”

Shereen is able to balance her pre-med and literature courses just fine. “Medical schools encourage students to major in the humanities,” she says. “It lets admissions officers know that you’re both open-minded and well-rounded. Even if you don’t end up looking for a career in the humanities, college is a safe space where you can explore your greatest passions, whatever they may be.” We couldn’t agree more.

4. Your creativity is off the charts

While you write papers like a pro (thanks to your awesome communication skills!), you would prefer to complete assignments using the medium you are most passionate about. Whether it’s writing a play or a short story, filming a movie or creating a sculpture, your talents ensure that your homework goes above and beyond what is expected.

Kristen is also pursuing minors in journalism and creative writing. “Studying creative writing has opened me up to an entirely new outlet for creativity,” she says. “Knowing how to write engaging and meaningful creative pieces is a transferable skill. Pairing this minor with my other minor, journalism, I'm preparing myself to succeed in fields such as advertising and marketing.” Did we mention that humanities majors are versatile?

5. When you put your mind to something, you are unstoppable

Most humanities majors require that you write a senior thesis, or create a final, cumulative project of some kind. You will put your heart and soul into this task, which happens to be a pretty serious undertaking. This culmination of your years at school will prove to yourself (and everyone else) that you are a force to be reckoned with.

“I’m an English major with a focus in writing, and I think that the humanities are completely underrated,” says Reilly Tuccinard, a senior at the University of South Carolina. “My major has prepared me with an arsenal of skills, from learning to speak my opinion to interpreting a text or situation. They are skills that can be applied to a slew of careers, and skills that will make me a well-rounded candidate in my career and the life I want to pursue. There’s a lot more to it than just reading books, and that’s a misconception that many people can’t grasp. I dare those people to write a 15 page paper exploring the theory of fictional reality, or delve into some of the most prolific novels ever written and maintain their prior sentiments—flipping pages isn’t the only thing we do all day (although it’s one of my favorite parts)!”

It’s pretty clear that majoring in the humanities is a worthwhile choice. “My humanities majors are helping me improve skills that I will need not only professionally, but in every day life,” says Malory. “And they make me unique, because they aren’t typically the majors that people jump to.” No matter what your dream job, you’re sure to achieve your goals—in school and in the workplace. You chose a challenging major, and you are killing it. 

Love her or hate her (it better be love though because she's awesome), everybody knows Chrissy Teigen. She's a smart-mouthed, passionate, always hungry and sometimes crazy girl, and there's one in every friend group. Here are the signs that one could be you.

1. You constantly Snapchat pictures of whatever you're cooking

2. You're savage AF on Twitter

3. You're the friend who doesn't give a flying fuck what people think

4. You're lowkey obsessed with food

5. Your unique personality may be misunderstood

6. You live for drama

7. You Snapchat literally everything you and your friends are doing

8. You eat constantly but still somehow look like a model

9. You and your SO are #relationshipgoals

10. You take fashion risks and get your friends to try new trends

11. You always post pictures of your baby/niece/dog/cat/other living creature you're obsessed with

12. You love trolling people 

13. You've got a body, and you ain't afraid to werk it

14. You really hate Donald Trump and make sure everyone knows it

15. You're passionate for the causes you care about and know that fighting for what's right is more important than what the haters think 

St. Patrick’s Day is coming up and it’s almost time to celebrate with parades, food and booze. Whether you are going to class, work, a pub crawl or a club, you have to celebrate this awesome day in style. Check out these St. Patty’s clothes and accessories to pull off day or night!

For class

If you don't feel like revealing your love for beer to your entire 10 a.m. (understandable), keep it lowkey in the daytime with these casual picks that are still lots of fun.

Muscle Tank ($12.99 at Target)

Long-Sleeve Pocket Tee ($49.50 at Vineyard Vines)

T-Shirt ($10 at Old Navy)

Sundress ($56.37 at ASOS)

Oversized Sweat Dress ($42.09 at ASOS)

Plaid Flannel Shirt ($19.90 at Forever 21)

Baseball Cap ($15 at Etsy)

For the pub crawl

The bars on St. Paddy's are the time to go a little wild with your outfit. Get fun and flirty with these pub-ready items!

T-Shirt ($12.99 at Target)

Muscle Tank Gray ($12.99 at Target)

Sweater ($19 at Etsy)

Crop Top ($15+ at Etsy)

Tie-Dye Halter Top ($48 at Etsy)

Crew Socks ($4.80 at Hot Sox)

Open-Shoulder Top ($28 at Forever 21)

Shamrock Hair Bow ($3+ at Etsy)

Glasses ($3 at Target)

Necklace ($5.59 at Target)

For the club

If your perfect St Patrick's Day means getting down at the club, these fancy dresses are the way to go.

Sequin Bodycon Dress ($26 at SheIn)

Laced Up Dress ($34 at Lulu's)

Have fun celebrating St. Patty's Day, collegiettes!

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Last week Billy Ray Cyrus sent the world into a frenzy when he Instagrammed a picture of his daughter Miley in a white dress. What's the big deal, you might ask? Well, Miley is engaged to Liam Hemsworth and tbh, I would not be surprised if they got married without telling anyone. And I mean, what else could a white dress mean?! That is why the world freaked. (By the world, I mean me.) 

But to clear up all the rumors, Miley's little sister Noah Cyrus, set the record straight at the Kids' Choice Awards on Saturday March 11th, according to MTV. 

"She's not married... she was probably just having fun or something," Noah said in an interview. I guess that pretty much say's it all. So don't worry, there is still time for a spontaneous and fabulous wedding, after all! 

By Meghan Nayyar

Small-minded college seniors fraught with job-seeking anxiety love to say, “Going abroad after grad is for people who don’t know what they want to do with their lives,” rolling their eyes with condescension. In a few months, these graduates giddily pack up their belongings into dad’s SUV, move to a 3 bed and 1 bath apartment in lower Manhattan with their college roommates, and turn into corporate zombies, living and re-living the same uninspired day in front of a cluttered desk under fluorescent lights. 

We pretend that we want this, that living in New York is glamorous and trendy. That work isn’t as bad as it could be, and most people hate their first jobs out of college anyway. We’re just paying our dues for now. We convince ourselves that living near our friends and throwing our earnings away on overpriced drinks and bar covers is “living the dream.” We mistakenly believe that the rest of the world is envious of us, because the only thing making our lives seem worthwhile is the idea that everyone wants it, but we were the lucky few who managed to achieve it. 

Going abroad is for people who don’t know what they want to do with their lives. 

But what if going abroad is precisely what I want to do with my life?

Going abroad isn’t a backup plan. It isn’t a “I-don’t-know-what-I-want-to-do-and-I-didn’t-get-a-job-during-the-semester” last resort. Going abroad is an intentional choice, an explicit rejection of the normal, the expected, the tried and true. It’s not the easy way out for those who shirk responsibility and aren’t ready to grow up. Moving to a big city with a corporate job where all of your friends live is the easy choice, the choice with no resistance, the stable and safe choice, requiring little growth or adjustment from cushioned university life.  

Going abroad is the brave choice. Going abroad is the hard choice. The choice you have to explain to people. The choice that invites intruding questions instead of approving nods. Telling your family, your friends, your hairdresser, your doctor, your boss, strangers you meet in a bar that you’re leaving America requires strength and confidence in your choice, unlike the exciting announcement that you’ve “accepted an entry-level position at a mid-size marketing firm in Midtown!”

I made a choice. To quit my stable job with benefits and perks in a desirable industry. To sublet my Brooklyn apartment to move back in with my parents in suburban Connecticut. To fly to Southeast Asia for an indefinite period of time with no game plan but to create a life that I could be proud of. I have had to answer invasive and impolite questions about my choices, my finances, my mother’s parenting ability. 

In all honesty, I don’t know if going abroad is the right choice for me yet. At this point, it feels right. It feels more right than anything I’ve done before, but I’m still in the sheltered first-world, daydreaming about adventure. But either way, the choice to reject a safe but mundane life in favor of an uncertain but impassioned life is a choice worth making.  

In case you haven't heard, the northern coast of the US is about to get hit with a MAJOR snow storm. New York City is expected to get over 2 feet of snow and other places like DC, Boston, and upstate New York are expected to get even more. So yeah, great time for me to head to good ole' Rochester, NY for Spring Break, eh? 

Anyways, to save the day, Elle reports that a literal genius weatherman tweeted, and then deleted, a helpful guide that tells you exactly how many bottles of wine you will need to get through the storm. 

Live in Philly? You might want to stock up on between 10-15 bottles. Although it has not been confirmed weather or not this guide was actually shown on air, it is still hilarious and accurate. 

I say let's pretend there is a snowstorm everyday and just drink as much wine as possible. Anyone in? 

You hear it time and time again: “Communication is key in relationships.” It’s a fact that almost everyone knows and thinks they understand, but what do we mean by communication? Couples might say that talking about feelings and ensuring each person is on the same page is the best way to know how your SO feels, but instead of listening to the relationship gossip, we decided to turn to science to find out the best ways to communicate.

1. Stop texting (okay, not completely)

We live in an age where the art of conversing is lost. Texting is just so much quicker, easier and, well, less awkward. You don’t have to worry about blurting out something stupid, and you can have endless conversations — seems great, right? Wrong.

The awkwardness that we associate with in-person talking is a huge and extremely important part of communication, and all the texting you do might actually be why you feel so uncomfortable having conversations.

In fact, a study conducted by University of North Carolina psychologists found that as texting increased, other forms of communication actually decreased. In the study they used a sample of 395 students, ranging from 15 to 19 that were primarily in long-distance relationships. They were asked to record all of the types of communication they used to talk, including Skype, texting, email and phone calls. They also asked each one to rank how happy they were in their relationship from 1 (strongly disagree) – 10 (strongly agree) based on corresponding statements about their relationship.

What they found was pretty shocking. Based on the responses, they concluded that the people who used texting as a form of communication most often were actually the unhappiest with their relationship. Yes, you read that right. The form of communication that you use every single day of your life could actually be hurting your relationship.

This isn’t the first study that has reached this conclusion. Many researchers have postulated the negative effects of texting for years. Using examples of other studies, the research report for this study says that, “The most consistent finding is that secure partners are more likely to use adaptive emotional communication, whereas insecure partners show dysfunctional communication patterns: whereas avoidant or dismissive partners tend to adopt detached emotional communication, anxious or preoccupied partners tend to express anger using destructive communication (e.g., Guerrero et al., 2009 and Kobak and Hazan, 1991). Basically, that means the strongest relationships are built on having real life conversations that include all the messy, awkward pauses we try so hard to avoid. Talking is good, so put down the phone and save something to talk about in person.

Related: 8 Things Strong Couples Say to Each Other

2. Sharing is caring

When we hear the word “communication” we immediately think of talking, but there’s more to it than idle chitchat. Communication involves how couples interact with each other, not only verbally, but also physically. In fact, simply sharing time with your SO can improve how you communicate and interact with each other.

In a study conducted by Erica J. Boothby, Margaret S. Clark, and John A. Bargh at Yale University, the question of whether sharing experiences with another person (without talking) would actually improve each individual’s experience was put to the test. Using chocolate, they studied whether a person would like it more by themselves while the other person was occupied or while eating it with them. They ended up discovering that the chocolate seemed better to those who ate it with a partner. So what does this prove? It proves that communication by talking isn’t always necessary with your SO. Simply sharing an experience can actually help to improve your relationship just because you are with that person. So, although we may feel that tons of talking, listening and compromising are important — and they are — they aren’t the entirety of a relationship. Sometimes you just need to let the action speak for itself. That on its own is an important aspect of communication that you shouldn’t overlook.

3. Use your manners

You’ve been told to say “please” and “thank you” ever since you could speak. As it turns out, that was some pretty good advice. In fact, in a study by Sara B. Algoe, University of North Carolina Chapel Hill, Shelly L. Gable, University of California, Santa Barbara, and Natalya C. Maisel, University of California, Los Angeles, explored what effects saying thank you has on relationships. Although they found that male responses to expressions of gratitude were more varied, they ultimately determined that showing gratitude towards your significant other promoted a positive relationship and acted as a sort of “booster shot for the relationship.” So don’t forget to say thank you to your SO. It’s a form of communication that you shouldn’t forget, no matter how comfortable you get. It always feels nice to be thanked, and that positivity will shine through in the relationship.

4. “We” vs. “me”

Okay, get ready to get really science-y, because we’re pulling out the big guns. This study tested how satisfied couples were in their marriages based on their use of personal pronouns (i.e. me, my, I) and “we-ness” words (like us and we). Before you get all crazy and say that you're not married, this is a study that is pretty applicable to relationships in general, so don’t write it off. The craziest part about it? They didn’t judge happiness based off response, but off cardiovascular arousal. Science. The researchers ended up finding that when couples used more “we” words, it was in relation to a positive event. So basically, participants inherently included the other person in their language because they had a positive memory of it.

Don’t take this the wrong way; you don’t need to say “we” for every situation. No one loves the couple that uses “we” so much they become one person. Instead, make sure that you use “we” in all the right situations. It is a powerful word that can make you seem stronger and supportive of each other. If you’re comfortable using it, you’re comfortable in your relationship.

It isn’t always easy to communicate with your SO. Talking can turn to arguing, and zero talking can cause both sides to bottle up emotions. The key is interpersonal interaction. Take a step back from the technology, meet each other in person and simply enjoy their company. Have the difficult conversations in person, but don’t feel pressured to make every event an opportunity to dish out concerns. Remember that in the end, they are a person who responds to kindness just like you would, so don’t forget the “thank yous.” By sharing in experiences and going through the (sometimes) awkward moments that accompany conversation, your ability to communicate will be stronger than ever.

You’ve seen her in the library with her nose in books like a modern-day, Muggle version of Hermione Granger. You may not know her name, but she has been categorized in the nerdy column—a name that has started to be taken in stride and with an utter sense of pride. So, in a time where being nerdy is actually trendy, dating options have increased tremendously and in case you’re still not convinced, here are 17 reasons why you should make the nerdy girl your SO (but they might all be taken by the time you finish reading this list)!

1. She’s already a librarian-in-training.

Never feel overwhelmed searching for another resource again.

2. You never have to spend that much on presents.

Just buy some books and school supplies and she’s good.

3. Even the nerdiest pick-up lines can make her laugh.

4. Her group of friends are sweet and will invite you to nerd-out with them as often as possible.

5. Glasses have definitely come back into style.

6. There’s a lot more to nerding than just obsessing over sci-fi and fantasy fiction.

7. But she most likely knows everything about the world of Harry Potter.

And who said that’s a bad thing?

8. She’ll more than likely grow up to be a beautiful billionaire...

9. …that knows how to manage her finances…

10. …and her potential bae’s too!

11. So what if she is a bit awkward? So is life!

12. She might spark your interest into something you never would have liked before.

13. Nerds start the best fashion trends. So, she’ll always be original.

14. Her memory is amazing (which can swing either way for you).

15. She has a lot of interests, so you two are bound to find something fun to connect on.

16. They have a wild and vast imagination, so you will never get bored!

17. Most are extremely nice people—what quality is better than that?

So, tell us in the comments, which reasons are your favorite?

Nick Viall’s season of The Bachelor is finally over, and he has a fiancée! Nick proposed to Vanessa on tonight’s finale, and most of America was, well, underwhelmed. And now it seems we’re all just waiting for Nick and Vanessa to break up. Because there's no way these two are getting married.

1. You’ve seen this picture

2. They both had lots of doubts

As Nick was proposing to Vanessa, he admitted he had been fighting his feelings for her. Um, not exactly what I’d want to hear from my soon-to-be fiancé right before he proposed.

3. Bachelor Nation was convinced Nick was going to choose Raven

I’m of the opinion that both Raven and Vanessa would be better off without Nick. Still, most viewers felt Raven was the better woman for him.  

4. Nick is only interested in being a reality TV star

There are a million other reality shows Nick can do once he’s kicked off Dancing with the Stars. And he totally will. In the United States of America.

5. While Vanessa will never permanently leave Canada

I don’t blame you, girl.

6. Their After the Final Rose interview was pretty awkward

Most couples really play up the lovey-dovey on ATFR. But Nick and Vanessa seemed like they were trying too hard to give the right answers and prove they’re in love.

7. Their relationship feels forced

Nick and Vanessa are obviously still getting to know each other, but everyone could see how uncomfortable they were sitting on that ATFR couch. And when Chris Harrison asked about any of their plans for the future, their responses were kind of vague and dodgy.

8. It seems like they’re already fighting constantly

First of all, they disagreed about almost everything on the show. Then, in Vanessa’s one-on-one conversation with Chris on ATFR, she hinted that her relationship with Nick has not been easy. Warning: The official breakup statement is already being drafted.

9. You feel meh about them

Break up. Don’t break up. Either way, I’ll be preparing for Rachel’s season of The Bachelorette.

We had to say goodbye to Raven Gates on The Bachelor Monday night, and for those of us who were Team Raven, it was a bittersweet ending to one of the franchise's worst seasons. On one hand, HELLO, Raven was the best choice for the winner! One the other hand, Nick Viall is, well, vile. So maybe she's better off without him. In any case, here are a few signs that Raven's goodbye was almost too much for you.

1. When you saw Raven's meeting with Nick would be first, you almost had a heart attack.

2. Raven made her speech about loving Nick, and you were like....

3. But then you saw Nick's face.

4. And you were all...

4. You thought the way Raven reacted was just so GRACIOUS.

5. Raven was talking about not being able to find love, and you were right there with her.

6. You could barely even stand to watch Vanessa's proposal.

7. But you made it through. Barely.

8. You thought Raven looked SO AMAZING on 'After the Final Rose.'

9. And when Nick and Vanessa talked about their relationship, you were like...

10. TEAM RAVEN FOREVER.

In the New York Times opinion pages, author Jennifer Weiner has written “Breaking Up With ‘The Bachelor’”, a piece in which she admits that she can no longer stomach rose ceremonies and scripted catfighting in a time when our president is an incompetent misogynist. Not only that, but she feels personally responsible for Donald Trump being in the White House. Could it be, Weiner asks, that Bachelor fans “played a part in [Trump’s] victory by watching the shows that normalized his behavior and helping to make the social-media lightning that brought him to life”?

Well, I’d argue that every one of us played a part in Trump’s victory. It’s just a fact that our culture produced Trump. He didn’t step out of a vacuum to regale us with all-caps tweets and unhinged speeches—his ascendancy to the presidency has everything to do with our hidden prejudices, and the larger systems that feed on them. But is watching, or not watching, The Bachelor really the issue here?

Weiner calls the Bachelor franchise “flagrantly problematic,” and that’s absolutely true. From the lily-white contestants to the rigid adherence to gender roles, the show is far from enlightened. I regularly refer to it as trash. The “can I steal you”s, the “I think I’m falling in love with you”s, the group dates, the belief that two people can really progress from strangers to fiances in just six weeks—it’s all trash.

But the thing about flagrantly problematic trash is that a lot of people tend to like it. One way to deal with that is to critically engage with popular media—to get to the heart of why a show like The Bachelor is so entertaining, and what lessons we might take from it about the way the world works. One could argue that’s exactly what Weiner did in her piece, but I'm not sure she went far enough, and I think it’s possible to think deeply about The Bachelor without rejecting it outright. Those critical discussions are happening everywhere—a piece on the systemic racism that prevented a black bachelorette for 21 seasons, for example, or an explanation of why we need a disabled bachelor (both of which I discovered through Rose Buddies, an excellent Bachelor fan Facebook group). Writers have explored how the show failed Chad by using his disturbing behavior to make money. There are some takes that don’t sit right with me (no, Corinne is not a feminist), but my point is that many who watch The Bachelor are looking at it not as unproblematic entertainment, but as a lens through which to examine issues that we might not see as clearly in other, more subtle manifestations.

As you may be thinking by now, most people who watch the show aren’t scouring the internet for the deepest critical takes. They’re just enjoying it. But that doesn’t make them horrible people—nor does it make the rest of us saints. In the recently released book Why I am Not a Feminist: A Feminist Manifesto, author Jessa Crispin describes contemporary feminism—not nicely—as “a decade-long conversation about which television show is a good television show and which television show is a bad television show.” When we put the blame on shows like The Bachelor for Trump’s rise, simply turning off the TV can be enough to placate our consciences. It shouldn’t be. Trump is in the White House because of racism, sexism and the widening gap between the rich and the poor. While The Bachelor may throw those problems into sharp relief, their roots go deeper—to the very beginning of America’s history.

So whether you choose to watch The Bachelor for its ridiculous escapism or reject it as an unholy scourge on humanity, we all have to accept that Trump’s rise was built on a lot more than just one televised quest for love. We all have to accept responsibility—not just to turn off our televisions, but to use our time, money and resources to bring the world closer to how we wish it could be.

We come across various jobs in life, some we will love and some we will hate. Whether we are working on gaining experience for our career or already in our dream industry, there should be some kind of happiness from being with that specific company. If you are experiencing other feelings about your job and not as comfortable as you should be, there are a few questions and warning signs you should be aware of. If any of these seven signs are familiar, your job may not be a good fit for you.

1. You dread going to and being at work

One of the first signs that you will start to notice that you hate your job is when the alarm clock goes off, and you immediately get annoyed. You’re pressing snooze multiple times, your mood is already over it and you’re visibly unhappy that you have to go to work that day. Yes, we aren’t always going to like the jobs we have before we start our dream job, but there’s a different feeling when you know you don’t want to be there at all.

“You shouldn't dread going to work,” says Megan Scavo, a sophomore at University of Central Florida. “The right job should feel like an enjoyable hobby, not a job!” The same goes for the way you feel when you’re actually there. If you’re a naturally positive and optimistic person, but when you are at work your mood and vibe immediately changes to negative, then it’s likely a sign you’re not happy there.

2. You aren't progressing in your position

Every job you work for should have the opportunity for growth and promotion. We stay at jobs for years for different reasons, but your hard work shouldn’t go unrewarded. However, at some companies it doesn’t always happen like that.  If you’ve been at a job, in the same position, for about 3-5 years with no sign of climbing the ladder then it’s probably time for you to move on.

“You have to look out for yourself, you should always be looking for the next opportunity,” says Rick Gillis, author of Promote! Your Work Does Not Speak for Itself. You Do.“5 years or more is when responsibility happens, and this is when people tend to stay at their job, [however] when an opportunity presents itself is when you should leave.” You should always be learning new skills, gaining knowledge and having the opportunity to do new things. It’s not doing you any good if you’re stagnant in the position, bored, your performance is not up to par and every day has become repetitive.

Related: 5 Reasons Why It's Acceptable To Job Hop In Your 20s

3. Your goals are not aligned with the company

You got the job right after graduating from college thinking this was your big break into the adult world, you’re with the company for a couple of years, but it’s not going the way you thought. You and the company are on two different playing fields, and what they want you to do doesn’t fit with the path you’re currently on for your career. You do not have to stay with this company if you know it’s not going to get you where you want to be and accomplish the goals you have set for yourself. Your twenties are all about finding yourself, and if you're already seeing something isn't right this is the time to change it and find what’s right for you; especially if you don’t see a career path with this company, the field in your degree is no longer satisfying for you or you may have found a passion you never knew you had.

“When I graduated college, I was convinced I wanted to be a journalist, so I was freelancing for an online Jewish publication,” says Shira Kipnees, alumna of Franklin and Marshall Class of 2015, and current Bank Street College of Education student Class of 2019. “However, as time went on, I was becoming less satisfied with freelancing. I was getting less work and quite frankly I was getting a bit bored with the work. It somewhat mutually ended, but during my last few months freelancing, I started applying to grad school for education because I loved spending time with children and I wasn't as thrilled with lots of work as a journalist and no payoff. I knew it was time to move on when I noticed I'd rather spend more time with my niece and nephew than writing or editing.”

However, if you feel there may be a different position within the company that is more aligned with your plans and goals, talk to your manager about changing positions. “Instead of jumping into the job market immediately, talk to a manager first about your hope to make a change with your duties,” says Andy Chen, founder of career coaching center, Prime Opt, in Seattle, WA. “For this reason, we suggest having a transparent conversation with a supervisor at the beginning. Of course this does not mean telling your manager your hope to leave a position. The goal of this conversation is to see whether managers can offer you other tasks in that position, or even to put you in another position within the same team.”

4. You’re only staying because of the money

You know you hate your job, you don’t want to be there anymore, but you don’t have a backup plan if you leave, so you stay at this job in misery only because this is where your money is coming from right now. It’s a scary feeling leaving something and not knowing what will come after, but there are other jobs with higher pay that will be a better fit for you. And in some cases, the universe has a funny way of pushing you when you can’t do it yourself; you get a random opportunity, you get a call for an interview or you could even be fired from the job you hated but couldn’t leave. Proactively look and create a plan for yourself to see what is out there that may be better for you and will allow you to be financially stable.

5. The company is not doing well

On the other end, if you are hearing and seeing that the company you are currently working for isn’t doing well, leadership failures, lack of profit or many other reasons, you do not have to go down with it. It’s unfortunate when any company closes, and it’s especially hard when it comes unexpectedly. If you’re able to start looking for other job positions and opportunities before the company closes its doors, you should go for it, but keep it to yourself. Come up with a plan of how you’re going to leave, get a new job and make adjustments to your life before layoffs start to happen.

6. Work stress is affecting other areas in your life

It’s one thing to be stressed at work, but when the stress is following you home and is affecting your personal life it’s time to evaluate your time at this job. You have to remember to decompress after work and to not bring work problems home with you. Find what relaxes you after work and put the worries of the day away before interacting with others or going to sleep at night. Not being aware of how you’re acting in relationships, or what the stress is doing to you physically, mentally and emotionally can lead to having other problems that add to that stress. Take care of yourself, but also ask yourself if the stress at work is worth dealing with.

Related: How to Deal with Stress & Anxiety in Your 20s

7. You’re experiencing abuse or illegal behavior

Any type of abuse or illegal behavior should not be tolerated and should be dealt with as soon as it happens. If you're experiencing abuse such as being yelled at constantly, rumors being spread, hurtful teasing, bullying, discrimination or any type of sexual harassment, please see your human resources department to report the issue as soon as possible. Your health and sanity is important and you do not have to deal with any of it for the sake of keeping a job. Your job should not be an uncomfortable place, look for somewhere that you will feel safe, happy and one that will be great for you and your future.

Jobs will always come and go, and different positions will bring various opportunities for your future, but they shouldn't be a task that you feel forced to do every day. Your job should be enjoyable and you should love what you do. “You'll know it's time to change jobs or careers when you're not happy anymore. If the work isn't making you happy, you have to think 'What's wrong with this picture?' and then figure out how to make yourself happy,” says Shira. Be smart about any moves you make when it comes to leaving a job and looking for another, but remember to be aware of the signs, always put yourself first, and do what makes you happy.