Did you start a new internship or job this summer? Congrats! You’re probably killing it, being the hardworking collegiette you are. Unfortunately, not every employer is able to see that. Maybe you come into work every day, eager to do your best, and your boss doesn’t even acknowledge your presence! Or maybe you thought you would blow her away with a stellar report, and instead she told you to do the whole thing over.

Whether your boss is ignoring you or just being plain mean, we came up with some tips for how to handle even the toughest of bosses.

1. Be the first one in the office

You may think that your boss is just crazy, but plenty of collegiettes have bad work habits that they aren’t even aware of. Make sure you’re totally blameless here before you start worrying about your boss’s behavior. Vicki Salemi, career coach and author of Big Career in the Big City, says arriving early is one of the easiest ways to get on your boss’s good side.

Showing up early and leaving late will show that you “don’t focus on the clock in terms of a start or end time, but instead, that you mean business,” Salemi says. When you set an alarm to wake you up, set another one for a few minutes before you need to leave for work. That way, you’ll know when you need to wrap up your morning routine and get out the door.

When your smiling face is the first thing your boss sees when walking through the office door, he or she will know that your work is your top priority. Don’t be the girl who walks in 10 minutes late because she stopped for coffee. Plan your mornings out and always leave extra time for public transportation issues and other unexpected delays.

2. Dress the part

Dressing appropriately for your office is an absolute must. If you’re unsure what the culture is like at your job, always err on the side of overdressing. As they say, you should dress for the job you want, not the job you have!

Even if your office is super casual, there are definitely certain style choices you need to avoid. You don’t want your boss to make snap judgments based on your appearance, so it’s best to play it safe.

Stay away from ripped jeans, save your crop tops for the weekend and don’t go overboard with your makeup. If you’re ever in doubt about an outfit, then you probably shouldn’t wear it. It might fly with the office culture, but it may prevent your manager from taking you seriously.

3. Focus on the job

When you’re at work, your phone can be your worst enemy. There are few things worse than having your boss walk in on you taking a Snapchat. Even if you pick up your phone to check your email, you’ll somehow end up scrolling through your Instagram feed for 20 minutes.

Nixing bad office behaviors like checking your phone will help your boss take you seriously. “Show that you’re committed to the job by eliminating distractions,” Salemi says. “Delete distracting apps like Twitter and Facebook from your phone, or, better yet, don’t even take your phone out of your bag while you’re in the office.”

It only takes one time being caught on Facebook to ruin your boss’s impression of you. Getting rid of the temptation to check your phone will help you to stand out as a dedicated employee.

4. Go all out

We’re sure you’re doing a great job at work, but if your boss is having trouble seeing it, it might be time to kick it into overdrive. Show your boss that you’re the most valuable member of the team. “What boss, no matter how easy to please, wouldn’t want an excellent team player reporting to them?” Salemi says. If you knock every project out of the park, “you’ll make him or her look good,” she says.

“As a manager, I’ve always been impressed when my employees … worked beyond responsibilities on their job description and took initiative,” Salemi says. So don’t just do what you’re told; do as much as you possibly can.

However, be careful not to burn yourself out. You don’t need to voluntarily be in the office for 12 hours a day – especially if you’re unpaid. You just need to show that you really care. Take a few extra minutes to turn a report into an organized, easy-to-follow presentation. Volunteer to run errands or work on projects that aren’t necessarily within your job description. Find little things here and there that you can pick up in addition to your standard workload.

A big part of giving it your all is not waiting to be assigned a task; offer to help other team members with their assignments when you have downtime. Look for things to do and get them done before your boss can even ask you about them. The best way to satisfy your boss is to meet his or her needs before he or she is even aware of them!

5. Schedule a one-on-one meeting

If your boss never gives you any feedback, you might be feeling pretty frustrated. How are you supposed to know if you’re on the right track when you’re getting nothing but radio silence?

According to Tom Dezell, author of Networking for the Novice, Nervous, or Naïve Job Seeker, a lot of employers struggle when it comes to providing feedback for their employees. “It’s perfectly acceptable during your ‘learning curve’ to ask others what the boss’s style of providing feedback is,” he says.

If you’ve asked around and it seems like your boss doesn’t give feedback to anyone, then it’s up to you to get some yourself. “If you learn that the lack of feedback is simply the boss’s MO, request a meeting to clarify ways you can find out how well you’re doing,” Dezell says.

This is just how some managers work; everyone has a different style. “Don't take it personally, and don't let them get you down,” says Nicole Samartino, programming & community manager at FindSpark, a community for young creatives. “Actively set up a meeting to get feedback. Sometimes you need to sit the person down and demand their attention.”

Approach your boss when he or she doesn’t seem too busy. Or, if it’s easier for you, send him or her an email; sometimes it’s easier to ask for something when you can have time to compose your words. Explain that you’re enjoying working with him or her and you feel that you could work even better with some input on how you’re doing. Approach it as a way to improve your work, not a need to boost your ego or have your hand held. That way, your boss can see that your end goal is doing your best for the company.

Your boss may not even realize that he or she isn’t giving you any input, and the only way to get any is to ask for it!

6. Stay positive

If your boss seems to hate everything you do, try not to let it discourage you. “Dealing with a constantly negative boss can wear on you,” Salemi says. If you get overwhelmed by the constant negativity, Salemi says it “can leak into your outlook and work itself.”

So how do you avoid becoming miserable at work? Fill the rest of your world with positivity. Look for little ways to brighten up your office; Salemi suggests posting inspirational quotes by your computer and getting lunch with your more positive coworkers. If your boss is still getting you down, don’t forget that this situation isn’t permanent. “Your current boss won’t be your boss forever, and eventually you’ll hopefully have a more positive one,” Salemi says.

Dezell suggests trying to see if everyone is getting the same treatment. If it seems like your boss doesn’t like anyone, “you can at least comfort yourself to not take this personally,” he says. However, Dezell adds, “Keep an eye on how this may be impacting your work. It’s awfully hard for individuals or groups to consistently perform at top levels in negative environments.”

If you’re unlucky enough to be the one person your boss doesn’t like, work is going to be rough (we can’t lie), but we’re confident you can make it through. Samartino says, “If your personality doesn't mesh well with your boss, you're going to have a hard time. You may never ‘win’ your boss over, but it's smart to understand what makes him or her tick.” Above all, Samartino says, “make sure you don't do the things that make them mad.”

Just knowing that your boss doesn’t like you is the first step to repairing that relationship. Tread carefully in every interaction you have; you don’t want to give him or her another reason to dislike you. If your boss hates being asked questions, Google everything you’re unsure about. If Google can’t help you, ask all your other colleagues and managers before taking to your boss.

Learn what kinds of things your boss reacts well to, and play those up. Is she usually too swamped to get herself a cup of coffee in the afternoon? Pick up an extra on your Starbucks run. Figure out what makes your manager happy, and make sure you’re the one doing those things for her.

7. Show your interest

When doing your best at work just isn’t enough, sometimes you need to take a softer approach to warm up to your boss. A simple way to get on anyone’s good side is to show that you care.

“Take an interest in their world,” Salemi says. Find out what he or she is interested in and incorporate it into your interactions. “If your boss loves a particular sports team, start following that team,” she adds. Keeping up with the things your boss loves will give you a chance to make small talk. Ask about your boss’s children, weekend plans or college. It will show him or her that you care and help you to find shared interests to build a better relationship.

One thing to be careful with here is crossing the line from professional to personal. Just make simple, casual small talk and let your boss take the lead. If your boss doesn’t seem eager to talk about a topic, avoid it. You don’t need to know every detail of the party he or she is going to this weekend, or what year he or she graduated college. Keep your questions light and slightly vague to get the conversation started as well as to also avoid crossing the line.

If you’re having trouble at your new job or internship, don’t stress. Take it from our experts – there’s always a way to get through it. Even if you can’t get on your boss’s good side, no job lasts forever. But we’re confident that you’ll find a way to prove yourself and win over that tricky boss!

Military brats have it made and believe it or not, there are some things only we understand. We're members of a misunderstood subculture and proud of it! 

1. There's no other "grocery store" like the commissary.

2. Being asked where you're from is the hardest question to get asked.

3. Growing up, half the clothes in your closet came from the PX.

4. You're freakishly good at bowling because the alley was the spot to be every Friday night. 

5. It's always "ma'am" and "sir." No exceptions. 

6. You’ve taken at least one flight that involved sitting in jump seats. 

7. You always had some MRE’s around the house.

8. And maybe even ate a couple as reals meals for the hell of it. 

9. You're an expert packer. 

10. You've lived outside of the states at least once. 

11. Guns don't scare you.  

12. The day you finally had the chance to ride in a Humvee, was possibly the best day of your life. 

13. Going to the air show was taken as seriously as going to church on Sunday, even if your parent wasn't in the Air Force. 

14. Single soldiers were (and still are) being invited over for family dinner. (And let's just say we didn't mind it.)

15. The Shoppette was the spot growing up.  

16. TRICARE

17. Having rifles around the house is totally normal. And so was being taught how to use them. 

18. You got used to not having your parent around for long periods of time. 

19. Along with a school ID, you had a military ID.

20. When you're out shopping you never forget to ask for that military discount. 

21. Calling everyone by last names is normal.

22. Your doctor wears camo and combat boots. 

23. You got either really excited or really mad hearing the phrase "PCS."

24. You know what it meant when your parent said they where going "TDY."

25. The Class Six equals to tax free booze.  

26. You have so much love for the people at the MWR. 

27. Having to stand up for the national anthem at the movie theatre. (Only on base, of course)

28. You have friends literally everywhere. 

29. You're incredibly adaptable. 

30. Skype is our savior. 

31. We tend to think that the military branch we're associated with is the best. 

32. You remember having Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner in a mess hall with other military families. 

33. If you haven't noticed, we call countless things by acronyms. 

34. Mistaking anyone in uniform for your parent was a common problem and an embarrassing problem. 

35. You're an expert when it comes to random military lingo. 

Every year fashion trends come and go, but one thing stays constant: the unrealistic expectation fashion designers have for women’s bodies.

Models like Ashley Graham prove what some members of the fashion industry still fail to understand, which is that all women are beautiful and come in different shapes in sizes. Despite the progress Graham and other curvy models have made, the idea of the “perfect” woman remains.

Earlier this week, Saturday Night Live star Leslie Jones tweeted about her struggle in finding a designer who would be willing to dress her for the upcoming premiere of Ghostbusters.

Designer and Project Runway winner Christian Siriano stepped up to work with Jones, and she will no doubt look flawless. But, Siriano should not have been the only designer to stick up for Jones, and 19-year-old model Barbie Ferreira agrees.

Ferreira labels herself as a curvy model and has posed for brands like Aerie and ASOS. She also took to Twitter to voice her disappointment toward the fashion world.

She could not fathom why fashion designers only cater towards one type of woman.

She too has experienced the same problem that Jones faced. 

She wonders when the industry will finally change its judgmental ways.

And hearing an actress in a huge film having similar struggles .. Girl I feel hopeless . Am I gonna have to wear Sears when I win my Oscar ?

— barbie (@boredbarbara) June 29, 2016

It's about time this changed.

Summer is by far one of the best seasons to be single. It seems like everyone is concerned with having a Nicholas Sparks-worthy romance to compliment their summer adventures. But, there are so many reasons why being single in the summer is the absolute best. After all, you are single and ready to mingle!

1. You can flirt with that cute guy or girl at the bar.

This summer, you are going to perfect that pick-up line.

2. You don’t have anyone that you need to shave your legs for. 

You can let your hair be as free and flowing as you want. You have no one to tell you otherwise.

3. You don’t have to argue about which movie to watch.

In other words, you can watch as many episodes of Sex and the City as you want.

4. You have more time to spend with friends. 

You probably don’t even realize how much time a significant other takes up. This summer, you can focus on creating lasting memories with your besties. 

5. You have more money to spend on you. 

There’s no need to budget for fancy dinners or over-the-top date nights. This summer, treat yo' self! 

6. You don’t have to worry about someone else’s scheduling conflicts. 

You can come and go as you please.

7. You don’t need to explain yourself to a jealous lover.

There is no need for a play-by-play of what went down at that beach party last night.

8. You can have a summer fling or two. 

You can hook up with as many people as you want, no strings attached.   

9. …Or you can reignite your love affair with Netflix. 

Jack Dawson was your first love and you can re-watch Titanic as much as you want to this summer.  

10. You can meet new people.

You can go to the beach with that new group of friends without worrying how awkward it may be if your significant other comes along.

11. You won’t have to deal with anything long distance.

If you’re doing any traveling this summer, the last thing you want to worry about is keeping the flame alive when you’re 3,000 miles away.

12. You can dance with anyone you want.

Everyone could be a potential dance partner at that beach party. You have a whole sea of options.

13. You have MUCH less drama to deal with.

You won’t have to deal with decoding cryptic text messages, arguing about where to eat or wondering who that girl is that keeps showing up on your lover’s Snapchat.

14. You can download dating apps and laugh at all the terrible profiles.

You won’t need to explain to anyone why you have Tinder. So, go ahead and count how many matches ask if it hurt when you fell from heaven.

15. You don’t need to worry about sharing a bed with someone in 86 degree weather.

Why can’t people understand you just don’t want to spoon when it's that warm?

16. You can focus on becoming the best version of you.

You have all the time to focus on figuring out what makes you happy and growing as an independent individual. Embrace it!

Being single during the summer means you have the freedom to do (practically) whatever you want. Don’t let a relationship status (or lack of one) bum you out. Get out there and start creating the memories you want to have. This summer is going to be all about you! 

Staying cool during the summer is an absolute necessity, and the way to do that this summer? With a gorgeously glam ’70s-inspired sillhouette: the off-the-shoulder top. From fitted numbers to flowy resort-like pieces, we've found the best of the best to help spice up your summer wardrobe. Shop them below!

1. Back to Basics

Solid colors—white, black, gray—are a staple in any girl's closet. This Tobi off-the-shoulder top ($30) is the perfect way to glam up your minimalist look. 

2. Stripes for Days

This Topshop number ($55) is exactly what you need for a throw-on-and-go outfit. Plus, stripes are a classic from season to season and year to year, so you can't really go wrong here!

3. Ruffles on Ruffles

Beyoncé graced us in a ruffled dress in her music video for song “Hold Up” on her album Lemonade. If that wasn’t a big enough hint, it is pretty clear that ruffles are totally in this summer. And there's nothing more we like than channeling our inner Beyoncé! This ruffled top ($38.17) looks fabulous with a lace bottom.

4. Cold Shoulder

Can't commit to a full off-the-shoulder look? Go for something in between, like this Zara frilled top ($15.99). The dainty straps mean you can go about your summer activities without worrying about whether or not your top is coming off!

5. Pretty Prints

This botanical print Express top ($49.90) is pretty much the definition of summer. Are you ready for vacation yet, or what?

Name: Neha Kinariwalla
Job Title and Description: Founder/CEO Humanology Project, an organization for destigmatizing mental illness
College Name/Major: Stony Brook University, Sociology & International Studies
Website:www.humanologyproject.org
Twitter Handle:@nehakinari
Instagram Handle:@nehakinari

What does your current job entail? Is there such a thing as a typical day?

Neha Kinariwalla: I’m currently the chief executive officer and founder of the Humanology Project. There definitely isn’t a “typical day.” One day could be looking into ways to optimize metrics on the website; another could be more research-based where I will look into stigma reduction theories or surveys to incorporate into the mission.

What is the best part of your job?

NK: Definitely the gratification! Seeing your hard work come to life in such a tangible way is a beautiful thing.

What inspired you to start The Humanology Project?

NK: When I was a second year during my undergraduate degree, I began research at Oxford University on social stigma for epilepsy. It was incredibly exciting at first, but after a few weeks, I felt my research wasn't going to have a direct impact on the people who needed it the most. So I wanted to find a way to relay information directly to the public. My research had revealed that two powerful ways of destigmatizing mental and neurological illness: education and storytelling. The Humanology Project resulted as a culmination of these two things. We tackle education by allowing students to translate peer-reviewed literature into a blog post that could better be understood by the public. And we have a storytelling platform where patients who suffer [from] neurological or mental illnesses can share their stories. I want the Humanology Project to result in an inclusive world where people are getting the quality of care they not only need but deserve.  

For the goal of the Humanology Project, I wanted to remove the stigma and the myth-making from the disease for patients. I wanted to ensure that people who felt their voices suppressed because of their circumstances had new channels of communication, and that's the internet's greatest strength: giving everyone a platform. So, if someone in Delhi can log on through their laptop and read about someone in Paris suffering from the same issues they are, and get some strength from that, I think it's a good thing.

What is one mistake you made along the way and what did you learn from it?

NK: I think one mistake I made was not having a clear enough vision starting off. I was 20 when I started the project and had no idea how quickly things would escalate.   

What has been the most surreal moment of your career thus far?

NK: Surreal moments happen every day. When I see people turning to the website for support or comment on the connection they feel with the stories—that makes it all worth it.

What words of wisdom do you find most valuable?

NK: Efforts are never in vain. Somehow, somewhere, all of that work that you put into something you love will pay off. Even if you don’t realize it at first.

What advice would you give to a 20-something with similar aspirations?

NK: You are most certainly not too young to jump into something. Whether it’s getting involved with an organization you’ve always admired or just putting ideas to paper, being the youngest in the room definitely has its upsides!

There's a lot to miss about college: classes that don't start until noon, living with all your best friends, not having to worry about adult responsibilities—but do you ever just miss being a student? And no, we don't mean finals week and those insane all-nighters.

Fortunately, one perk of post-college life is that you can continue learning—on your own terms—and without sinking further into debt (we’re looking at you, student loans). You may not technically be a student anymore but don’t hold your inner nerd back from learning, whether it’s for your field or just for fun. Here's how:

1. Join a mentorship program

Talking to people who have been where you are currently will give you a behind-the-scenes look at your industry and give you more confidence in yourself.

“It’s always free to get advice,” says Brittany Galla, the Director of 30-Minute Mentors at Ed2010, a program that matches recent college grads who want to work in the magazine media industry with junior editors who are already working.

Think of mentor programs like dating websites; you are matched up with someone in your field whom you admire or who has your dream job in the hopes that you two will hit it off. “There are always new people coming into the industry and people moving around in companies,” says Galla. “There’s always someone new to learn from.”

Being a part of a mentorship program early in your career will not only provide you with great connections (yes, it really is all about who you know), but it'll also give you the chance to openly ask questions and learn from someone else’s experiences.

2. Attend networking events

Going to a networking event such as an industry happy hour can certainly be intimidating. The key to having confidence when you walk into an event is knowing how to talk about yourself and being genuinely interested in hearing about other people.

“You have nothing to lose but everything to gain,” reminds Galla. Your nerves will clear once you are at the event and even if you mainly listen to people share their stories rather than focusing on selling yourself, you are still learning valuable information. “You just never know who you are going to meet,” adds Galla. “You could meet someone who is in the same boat as you. It’s exciting to see where people are going.”

Whether you’re in it to talk to a more senior person in your field or just want to meet a new friend in the same industry, networking events can teach you something you can’t learn in the office—or in school, for that matter.

Related: What Career You Should Really Pursue Based on Your Zodiac Sign

3. Take online classes

Signing up for Lynda.com or Coursera.com could help you hone the skills you learned in college or even venture into something new.

“[Lynda.com] has a lot of videos about different programs and systems that I didn't learn in school, but it may be useful in your adult job,” says Alyssa Cooney, a recent graduate of Rowan University with a job in event planning.“It's a good resource because it's accessible, has a variety of topics you may want to learn about, and it keeps you learning even when you're out of school.”

The best part? You can take these classes on your own time and learn from home. Being fairly new to the work world can be a difficult adjustment in itself, so this could be a good fit for people with a tight schedule. Plus, taking these online classes could be your ticket to another job that requires a different set of skills or a position that wants someone more advanced.

4. Follow company leaders you admire on social media

For some of us, the first thing we do in the morning is go on Facebook or Twitter. While you’re scrolling past the unavoidable Bachelorette memes and watching the latest Trump drama unfold, tailor your newsfeed according to your interests.  Following executives in your field will allow you access to their personal lives.

Based on what people share, you may learn more about a company or pick up an insider tip that could help you. There’s no excuse for not making the most of this close-up access we have to industry leaders... and let's be real, your social media stalking skills are A+. Want to even go a step further? Join a professional association dedicated to your career. You’ll stay abreast with the latest in your field, have the opportunity to network with some of the most experienced people, and attend exclusive events and workshops.

Related: How to Keep Moving Forward Your Second Year Out of College

5. Sign up for workshops

Whether your company requires you to attend or you find one that peaks your interest, workshops run through a local college or even your own company will feel similar to the college classroom setting. Some may cost a fee, which your company might be willing to pay for (doesn’t hurt to ask!), but keeping up with the latest information in your field is vital.

“Continuing to learn after college is so important because things around you are always changing,” says Lianne Rossi, a recent graduate from Felician University with a nursing job. “Also, it helps to re-learn things that I learned in school because it's impossible to remember everything.” She attended two 8-hour classes, which taught her important tips but also gave her the opportunity to meet nurses at different stages in their careers. Sneaky networking!

“I met other new nurses at the class and had the chance to find out about the floor they work on and how their experience has been so far,” she says. Going to these events can be both enlightening and reassuring. You’re meeting people in your field and learning valuable techniques to keep you moving forward.

And what if you actually want to go back to school? Seek jobs, or inquire/negotiate at your current job, about a tuition assistance plan. Some companies will pay a portion or all of the tuition to get their employees a masters degree. Think about it; higher education will help you advance your knowledge (and most likely your position on the pay scale) while also helping your company stay ahead of the competition with the most in-the-know employees.

6. Listen to podcasts

If you’re looking for a way to make good use of all that time you spend commuting, consider swapping out your latest playlist or the radio for a podcast. There are segments covering everything from life and relationships to sports and politics, so choose something that interests you.

“Individuals of all ages need to be aware of how important lifelong learning has become,” says Karen McKenna, founder of career planning company, CareerVisionary. “[I] encourage [people] to spend time learning as much as possible to remain current in their respective fields, (or broaden their knowledge to other fields), which will allow them to compete for jobs more effectively.”

And podcasts are also a great and easy way to learn about what’s going on in your industry, sometimes straight from big players themselves. No matter the topic, you’ll be keeping up with the latest news and opinions.

Related: An Introvert's Guide to Standing Out in The Office

7. Take freelance work and side hustles

“It’s harder than ever to find a job. You’ll only get it doing the groundwork, making connections and getting experience on your own,” says Galla. “Immerse yourself in any way you can, for free.”

It’s hard to juggle your work life and personal life as it is, but taking on a small side project or fostering a skill that isn’t related to your field helps keep as many opportunities open for you as possible. We are all more than just the career we chose, so let’s use all of our skills to their greatest potential.

In college, getting an education or focusing on a certain career path was the main concern. Suddenly, after graduation, when you are no longer required to go to a class or hand in assignments, it’s easy to focus solely on your career without advancing your knowledge in general. Whether you consider yourself a philomath or just want to do something more productive with your spare time than watch Netflix, keeping yourself up-to-date on your field and pursuing personal interests will leave you feeling knowledgeable and well-rounded. 

As you finish unthawing from that intense winter weather and nurse your post-exams headache, you might just get bitten by the beach bug. It is summertime, so where else would you want to be but the beach? Don't forget to fill your beach bag with these 11 beach-ready DIYs!

1. Donut Sunglasses

You do-nut need anything but these super sweet spectacles to keep the sun out of your eyes.

2. Graphic Beach Towels

The whole squad can dry in style with these totally customizable graphic beach towels.

3. Bra to Bikini Top

Upcycle an old bra into a bikini top for the perfect fit.

4. Peplum Tankini

If you're not about that bikini life, try this super cute DIY peplum tankini instead!

5. Beach Towel Bag

This beach bag transforms into an oh-so-soft towel. Bonus: There's a pillow attached, too. Talk about functional!

6. Barefoot Sandals

Be boho beautiful with this unique beach jewelry.

7. Chic Beach Wrap

Turn any yard of fabric into this quick and easy beach wrap!

8. Ten-Minute Tote Bag

Whip up this adorable tote bag in no time!

9. Sun-Soothing Aloe Vera Cubes

Freeze aloe vera gel for a little post-sunbathing relief.

10. '90s Swimsuit

'90s-style one pieces are *so* in right now. Make your own with a customized fun phrase, and you'll be the envy of every bikini-wearing chick.

11. Summer Straw Hat

Every beach bum needs a chic hat to block those harsh rays. Try out one of these fun, Insta-worthy DIY options!

Zendaya is not one to keep quiet about the things that don't vibe with her. The American singer and actress made headlines when she took a stand against a sickening tweet that referenced The Purge, a movie that explores the darker themes of humanity. To provide a short synopsis: ordinary citizens are not held accountable for their wrong-doings, as crimes like rape and murder are permissible for 12 hours. Since the film is currently being played in theatres, one user posted this offensive tweet:

With her image posted among the likes of Nicki Minaj, Beyoncé and Rihanna, Zendaya did not hold back. Admonishing the poster for his tactless tweet, she made it clear that “this is absolutely disgusting.” The young star was also quick to give a sensible response to the same user when he boasted about being addressed by her.

While this is an exemplary instance of crass demonstrated by a Twitter troll, Zendaya's replies gives us a glimmer of hope that the Twitterverse is not overrun by insensitive boars. Now we're looking forward to hearing what Rihanna, Nicki Minaj and Beyoncé's thoughts are on all of this.

For most of us, summer means getting a killer tan. However, the first time laying out since last summer usually leads to a nasty sunburn. When you’ve sunbathed a little too much and your skin is feeling red and tender, try one of these six ways to get some relief in the comfort of your own home—with ingredients you probably already have in the house!

If your skin is blistering or if you have flu-like symptoms, call your doctor right away before trying any of these at-home treatments.

1. Take a vinegar bath

Draw yourself a lukewarm bath and add three cups of regular or apple cider vinegar to the water. You’ll need to sit in the bath for at least 15 minutes for the vinegar to balance out your skin’s pH back to a normal level. According to Bonnie K. McMillen, a college health nurse at the University of Pittsburgh at Bradford, the vinegar helps promote faster healing and can prevent your skin from forming blisters and peeling. Play some ocean sounds while you soak in the bath to remind yourself of the good ole days when you weren’t burnt.

2. Slather yourself in plain yogurt

Spread a generous amount of plain yogurt on your burn, put on your favorite Real Housewives spin-off and sit still for 15 to 20 minutes while you marinate. New York City dermatologist Francesca Fusco recommends using a thicker yogurt, like Greek yogurt. She recommends applying aloe to your skin after washing the yogurt off to further restore your skin. We recommend doing this when you’re not expecting company!

3. Make aloe vera ice cubes

Aloe vera is probably the most well-known remedy for sunburn. Rather than just spreading it on your skin and hoping for the best, try making these cool (no pun intended) aloe ice cubes!

Pick up a bottle of aloe vera from the grocery store or pharmacy (or, if you’re really fancy, cut open a leaf from an aloe plant) and freeze the gel in an ice cube tray. Once it freezes, wrap one of the cubes in a paper towel and rub it on your sunburn. You’ll feel relief like never before.

4. Make a cucumber paste

Slice up some cucumbers, freeze the slices and then pop them in the blender to make a cooling cucumber paste for your sunburn. Dermatologist Dr. Cynthia Bailey recommends this method because cucumbers have natural botanical properties that are ideal for relieving pain and providing antioxidants. The cooling from the cucumber paste will feel great on your burn, and it also smells really refreshing.

5. Try a milk-soaked compress

This is a great idea if your back is burned and you’re having a hard time contorting yourself to reach your sunburned skin. Soak a hand towel in cold milk (any variety will do!), pop it in the freezer for a few minutes to make it a little colder and then lay on your stomach with the milk-soaked towel on your back for 20 minutes. Fusco says that the milk’s protein, fat and pH have a calming, anti-inflammatory effect on the skin.

6. Make a tea-soaked compress

Steep about six or seven bags of any black tea in a pot. Just like the milk, grab a towel and let it soak in as much tea as the towel can hold, then stick it in the freezer to cool it down. Lay the towel over your back or wherever else is hurting and let the tea soothe your skin while you unwind for around 20 minutes. YouTube beauty guru Michelle Phan highly recommends this method because of the tea’s high antioxidant levels and its tannic acid, which is a key ingredient in fighting sunburn.

Don’t forget to drink a TON of water! When you’re recovering from sunburn, it’s so important to stay hydrated so your body can work on healing itself. Also, be sure to stay out of the sun if possible because you don’t want to make your burn any worse. The next time you lay out, use sunscreen (and don’t forget to reapply!) so you don’t permanently damage your skin!

In life, there are few things that are more important than friendship. ‘Dear Eleanor’, a film set in 1962 about two teenage girls as they travel across the country to meet former first lady Eleanor Roosevelt, is about the magic of just that: Best friends. Starring Isabelle Fuhrman, Liana Liberato, Jessica Alba, and Luke Wilson, ‘Dear Eleanor’ is a beautiful coming of age tale that anyone with a heart and a sense of humor can relate to. 

With a star-studded cast, it is no surprise that the film is directed by a man who is no stranger to the industry: Kevin Connolly. Most famously known for his role as “E” in ‘Entourage’ and Conor in ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’, Connolly is an unlikely director for a movie about two teenage girls but nonetheless, he does an incredible job of portraying the story backed by two strong female leads. Her Campus got a chance to chat with the two main characters, Isabelle Fuhrman and Liana Liberato, and director Kevin Connolly about the film and it’s safe to say that this movie is bound to be iconic. 

Kevin, this is a very different type of project than 'Entourage', a TV show about men in Hollywood. What about this film appealed to you? 

Kevin Connolly: First off, I have two young nieces who hear about their uncle Kevin doing all this stuff and they never actually get to watch any of the stuff I’m involved in. Obviously, they were too young to watch 'Entourage' and probably too young to watch 'He’s Just Not That Into You', so there was something special about the idea of two independent, strong, young girls that had a fearless quality to them. 

How was the challenge of creating a film for a younger demographic than you are used to? 

KC: I thought it would be an interesting choice for me. You know, 'Entourage' is so testosterone driven, so male driven, I wanted to tap into a different part of my personality and sensibility and it just seemed like a really sweet, fun story!

Isabelle and Liana, what attracted you to your roles as Max and Ellie, two best friends on an adventure?

Isabelle Fuhrman: Well, it was different than anything I had done before. I loved that it was a love story about two best friends, I thought that that was really beautiful and powerful. I also loved the fact that Max is one of those characters that is so passionate and emotional and you don’t really get to see much about her family and it’s because she comes from kinda a broken home, so her family really is Ellie and Billy and so, of course, she’s passionate and she’s lively and she’s full of life and zest when she’s with them. But in reality, she really kinda puts this big front on to cover up the things that she’s upset about and I think it’s kinda a beautiful thing to be able to see these two best friends go on this adventure together. 

Liana Liberato: At the time I had never really done a character like Ellie. Granted that my character does have a pretty heavy storyline, at least her past is pretty heavy, the story itself is actually really a fun comedic movie. And that’s ultimately really attracted me to it. I never really done a film that is aimed towards a younger demographic and I kinda wanted to explore that side of my career a little bit more. And also just getting a chance to work with just the cast and everyone who is a part of it, really excited me.

One of the biggest themes in the film is friendship and meeting your once-in-a-lifetime friend. Do you think you have met that person IRL? 

IF: I’m 99% sure that I have, yeah. 

LL: Oh definitely. I have a group of girlfriends that I have known for about 12 years now. I met them right when I moved to LA and no matter how much time we spend apart, no matter the distance, the fact that when I see them we kinda just pick up where we left off is amazing. So I definitely feel like I’ve met my once-in-a-lifetime friends. 

What qualities do you look for in a best friend? 

IF: I think just somebody that’s there, somebody that you can call and talk to when you have a bad day and at the same time you can call and be with when you are having the best time of your life. And then at the same time, sometimes you don’t talk for weeks or even months and it doesn’t even feel like time has passed. You know, it’s just like here we are, back together again, and it’s awesome. I think I have many once-in-a-lifetime friends I would have to say, three to be exact, once-in-a-lifetime friends that I, honestly, don’t know what I would do without. And I care so deeply for them and it’s a really beautiful thing when you can meet a friend that becomes your family.

LL: Honestly, I think understanding and someone that you can, as cheesy as it sounds, be fully yourself around. Whether that’s super goofy or just a complete mess, because especially being in your twenties you kinda are going through some stuff, it’s confusing. And you’re learning how to handle life by yourself and it’s important to find people in your life who are very understanding and extend grace to you when you need it. And but also really make you laugh and have a good time. 

One of the things that makes 'Dear Eleanor' such a special film is that it is purely about best friends growing together. No boys, no drama, just love. Do you think Hollywood needs more films about women as best friends?

IF:  It’s really interesting to me that there aren’t as many movies about women as like teens. I think it’s more and more becoming a trend, which I think is awesome, that there are more and more films being made about women being friends and not women being, like, fighting over wedding dates or boys or anything like that. Having a best girlfriend is one of the greatest things in the world because you share everything, you talk all night together, you share all the details of like your love life, you guys sleep in the bed sometimes when you’re vacationing. It’s one of those things where you literally become like sisters and when movies don’t have those sorts of relationships and kinda play off of it like 'oh you know women are against each other', it kinda makes me upset because I think that there is more than that. Yeah we argue sometimes but we’re people, all people argue, men and women argue. So let’s just tell a story that’s real about young people that love each other and care about each other and are willing to go the distance for each other because they care. 

LL: There needs to be a much bigger movement than there is right now, with just film in general. My personal opinion right now is that a lot of people base their decision to go to a movie on the person in the movie as opposed to the actual story. And I think that a lot of people need to start reversing our thoughts on that. Because there are so many wonderful stories out there and so many powerful and inspiring stories that people need to see and not all wonderful stories are a romance between a guy and a girl. I think that a film like this is really important and we should be talking more about girls and their relationships with other girls and how to support each other and that’s ultimately why the film is very important to watch. Because girls need to stick together, you know? 

The film is very much about growing up and loving yourself through it all. Through this experience and everything you have learned, where do you want to be in ten years? 

IF: Well, I would like to still be acting. I love my job, it’s my favorite thing in the world. But I would really like to have a studio or a large production company that helps young female filmmakers make films! Whether that be short films, full-length features, music videos, anything, really helping nurture young female writers, producers, directors, into becoming people that work in the industry constantly, that's what I want to do. 

LL: I have been in the business since I was 8 and I still love it so much or else I wouldn’t be doing it. But there are still a lot of things I would like to accomplish. Every year I take a trip outside of the country just to explore the world, I love to be adventurous and experience new cultures. I just got back from Africa last week and I got to spend a lot of time with some really wonderful kids in Malawi. 

Looking back at filming and the final product, how was the experience for you of working on 'Dear Eleanor'?

KC: We had an absolute blast making the movie. It was just a tremendous experience across the board. It’s hard, I mean, it was an independent period piece so it’s tricky because the costumes are fun but we’re driving down the street and if the wrong car drives by, we gotta redo the shot. So that gave us a few challenges, that’s for sure, but it was well worth it and I am so happy with the final product. 

IF: It really made me take a lot out of the world that I never had before. I even took up film photography like Max does in the film, and now it’s a hobby of mine. So you know, it was one of those experiences that I really loved and cherished because it was a character that I got to play and I got to discover a whole new side of myself  that I had never seen before. Like, when I was younger I was very goofy and very much like Max, so it was cool to be able to find that again. I have been working since I was younger but I worked on Orphan as a 33-year-old woman, which is so different, so it was cool to be able to play somebody who was so happy to be a young kid. And it was great to have that energy back in my life because it’s really helped me in the last year since we filmed it. 

LL: It was super fun because before I had never really worked with anyone my age and literally the whole movie was just Isabelle and I goofing off and getting ourselves in funny situations so that was really fun to do. Altogether, it was a really amazing experience.

Overall, ‘Dear Eleanor’ is a film that showcases strength, love, and power through female friendship and that is something we can not get enough of. Please enjoy this exclusive clip of the film until it is out on DVD and digital tomorrow, July 5th! 

This interview has been condensed and edited for clarity.

In life, there are few things that are more important than friendship. Dear Eleanor, a film set in 1962 about two teenage girls as they travel across the country to meet former first lady Eleanor Roosevelt, is about the magic of just that: Best friends. Starring Isabelle Fuhrman, Liana Liberato, Jessica Alba and Luke Wilson, Dear Eleanor is a beautiful coming of age tale that anyone with a heart and a sense of humor can relate to. 

With a star-studded cast, it is no surprise that the film is directed by a man who is no stranger to the industry: Kevin Connolly. Most famously known for his role as “E” in Entourage and Conor in He’s Just Not That Into You, Connolly is an unlikely director for a movie about two teenage girls but nonetheless, he does an incredible job of portraying the story backed by two strong female leads. I got a chance to chat with the two main characters, Isabelle Fuhrman and Liana Liberato, and director Kevin Connolly about the film and it’s safe to say that this movie is bound to be iconic. 

Kevin, this is a very different type of project than Entourage, a TV show about men in Hollywood. What about this film appealed to you? 

Kevin Connolly: First off, I have two young nieces who hear about their uncle Kevin doing all this stuff and they never actually get to watch any of the stuff I’m involved in. Obviously, they were too young to watch Entourage and probably too young to watch He’s Just Not That Into You, so there was something special about the idea of two independent, strong, young girls that had a fearless quality to them. 

How was the challenge of creating a film for a younger demographic than you are used to? 

KC: I thought it would be an interesting choice for me. You know, Entourage is so testosterone driven, so male driven, I wanted to tap into a different part of my personality and sensibility and it just seemed like a really sweet, fun story!

Isabelle and Liana, what attracted you to your roles as Max and Ellie, two best friends on an adventure?

Isabelle Fuhrman: Well, it was different than anything I had done before. I loved that it was a love story about two best friends, I thought that that was really beautiful and powerful. I also loved the fact that Max is one of those characters that is so passionate and emotional and you don’t really get to see much about her family and it’s because she comes from kinda a broken home, so her family really is Ellie and Billy and so, of course, she’s passionate and she’s lively and she’s full of life and zest when she’s with them. But in reality, she really kinda puts this big front on to cover up the things that she’s upset about and I think it’s kinda a beautiful thing to be able to see these two best friends go on this adventure together. 

Liana Liberato: At the time I had never really done a character like Ellie. Granted that my character does have a pretty heavy storyline, at least her past is pretty heavy, the story itself is actually really a fun comedic movie. And that’s ultimately what really attracted me to it. I'd never really done a film that is aimed towards a younger demographic and I kinda wanted to explore that side of my career a little bit more. And also just getting a chance to work with the cast and everyone who is a part of it, really excited me.

One of the biggest themes in the film is friendship and meeting your once-in-a-lifetime friend. Do you think you have met that person IRL? 

IF: I’m 99% sure that I have, yeah. 

LL: Oh definitely. I have a group of girlfriends that I have known for about 12 years now. I met them right when I moved to LA and no matter how much time we spend apart, no matter the distance, the fact that when I see them we kinda just pick up where we left off is amazing. So I definitely feel like I’ve met my once-in-a-lifetime friends. 

What qualities do you look for in a best friend? 

IF: I think just somebody that’s there, somebody that you can call and talk to when you have a bad day and at the same time you can call and be with when you are having the best time of your life. And then at the same time, sometimes you don’t talk for weeks or even months and it doesn’t even feel like time has passed. You know, it’s just like here we are, back together again, and it’s awesome. I think I have many once-in-a-lifetime friends I would have to say, three to be exact, once-in-a-lifetime friends that I, honestly, don’t know what I would do without. And I care so deeply for them and it’s a really beautiful thing when you can meet a friend that becomes your family.

LL: Honestly, I think understanding and someone that you can, as cheesy as it sounds, be fully yourself around. Whether that’s super goofy or just a complete mess, because especially being in your twenties you kinda are going through some stuff, it’s confusing. And you’re learning how to handle life by yourself and it’s important to find people in your life who are very understanding and extend grace to you when you need it. And but also really make you laugh and have a good time. 

One of the things that makes Dear Eleanor such a special film is that it is purely about best friends growing together. No boys, no drama, just love. Do you think Hollywood needs more films about women as best friends?

IF:  It’s really interesting to me that there aren’t as many movies about women as teens. I think it’s more and more becoming a trend, which I think is awesome, that there are more and more films being made about women being friends and not women being, like, fighting over wedding dates or boys or anything like that. Having a best girl friend is one of the greatest things in the world because you share everything, you talk all night together, you share all the details of like your love life, you guys sleep in the bed sometimes when you’re vacationing. It’s one of those things where you literally become like sisters and when movies don’t have those sorts of relationships and kinda play off of it like 'oh you know women are against each other,' it kinda makes me upset because I think that there is more than that. Yeah we argue sometimes but we’re people, all people argue, men and women argue. So let’s just tell a story that’s real about young people that love each other and care about each other and are willing to go the distance for each other because they care. 

LL: There needs to be a much bigger movement than there is right now, with just film in general. My personal opinion right now is that a lot of people base their decision to go to a movie on the person in the movie as opposed to the actual story. And I think that a lot of people need to start reversing their thoughts on that. Because there are so many wonderful stories out there and so many powerful and inspiring stories that people need to see and not all wonderful stories are a romance between a guy and a girl. I think that a film like this is really important and we should be talking more about girls and their relationships with other girls and how to support each other and that’s ultimately why the film is very important to watch. Because girls need to stick together, you know? 

The film is very much about growing up and loving yourself through it all. Through this experience and everything you have learned, where do you want to be in ten years? 

IF: Well, I would like to still be acting. I love my job, it’s my favorite thing in the world. But I would really like to have a studio or a large production company that helps young female filmmakers make films! Whether that be short films, full-length features, music videos, anything, really helping nurture young female writers, producers, directors, into becoming people that work in the industry constantly, that's what I want to do. 

LL: I have been in the business since I was 8 and I still love it so much or else I wouldn’t be doing it. But there are still a lot of things I would like to accomplish. Every year I take a trip outside of the country just to explore the world, I love to be adventurous and experience new cultures. I just got back from Africa last week and I got to spend a lot of time with some really wonderful kids in Malawi. 

Looking back at filming and the final product, how was the experience for you of working on Dear Eleanor?

KC: We had an absolute blast making the movie. It was just a tremendous experience across the board. It’s hard, I mean, it was an independent period piece so it’s tricky because the costumes are fun but we’re driving down the street and if the wrong car drives by, we gotta redo the shot. So that gave us a few challenges, that’s for sure, but it was well worth it and I am so happy with the final product. 

IF: It really made me take a lot out of the world that I never had before. I even took up film photography like Max does in the film, and now it’s a hobby of mine. So you know, it was one of those experiences that I really loved and cherished because it was a character that I got to play and I got to discover a whole new side of myself  that I had never seen before. Like, when I was younger I was very goofy and very much like Max, so it was cool to be able to find that again. I have been working since I was younger but I worked on Orphan as a 33-year-old woman, which is so different, so it was cool to be able to play somebody who was so happy to be a young kid. And it was great to have that energy back in my life because it’s really helped me in the last year since we filmed it. 

LL: It was super fun because before I had never really worked with anyone my age and literally the whole movie was just Isabelle and I goofing off and getting ourselves in funny situations so that was really fun to do. Altogether, it was a really amazing experience.

Overall, Dear Eleanor is a film that showcases strength, love and power through female friendship and that is something we can not get enough of. We've scored you an exclusive clip from the film—and don't forget to catch it on DVD and digital tomorrow, July 5th! 

This interview has been condensed and edited for clarity.

In case the state of Johnny Depp and Amber Heard's relationship wasn't already clear, Depp just made it pretty damn obvious. In a tribute to then-wife Heard, Depp once had "SLIM"—a nickname he had for her—tattooed onto his knuckles. A picture taken July 1 shows that he's already made some adjustments. His tattoo now spells out, "SCUM."

Of course, Depp is no stranger to having to make changes to tattoos post-breakup. When he and Winona Ryder parted ways, he had his "Winona Forever" tattoo amended to read "Wino Forever." But this time, it seems like he's going beyond just changing his tattoo—he's making a clear statement about how he feels about Heard. It's a petty, malicious and rude public jab to make; and we don't know about you, but it seems pretty damn immature to us, too.

Thought Harry Styles' solo career was going well? It's about to get a whole lot better.

Apparently, Harry just signed a record deal with Columbia Records worth $80 million. Yes, you read that right. The deal will include three solo albums, which means Harry will be singing us to sleep for quite a few months. The musician, who's already estimated to be worth somewhere around $23 million, is GOING places.

Apple offered Harry $25 million for one album, which is, like, nothing compared to his new deal. 

Either way, this news has us torn. On the one hand, we can't wait to hear Harry's new music (although there's no news as to when his albums will be released). On the other hand, this means he's going to be pretty busy... and what does that mean for One Direction? Ugh.

We’ve all been there—you’re craving a relaxing movie night but have absolutely no clue what to put on. Are you sick of wasting your precious time trying to figure out what to watch? We’re here to take your stress away, collegiettes!

We have figured out your perfect chick flick based on your zodiac sign. Yes, you read that right! There is a reason why certain movies draw you in (and others don’t appeal to you at all). Read below and find your perfect movie night match. You won’t be disappointed.

Cancer

As a Cancer, you are a nurturer. High on your priority list are the family and home. You are naturally caring and can find yourself being deeply emotional.

Tune into this emotional side with A Walk to Remember. The combination of traditional values and bad-boy stereotypes in the film will be sure to have you feeling some type of way!

Leo

A Leo represents the fire sign. Accordingly, you are a confident individual who is extroverted. You have a great sense of self-worth, which is reflected in your charismatic personality. You also love to care for others––as long as your efforts are appreciated.

Hello, your perfect chick flick is Legally Blonde! Elle Woods is the perfect role model for every Leo girl.

Virgo

A Virgo is the perfect friend. You are caring, dependable, down-to-Earth and very in tune with your emotions. Once you are committed to someone or something, you give it your all.

On your next GNI (girls night in), be sure to play P.S. I Love You. Gerard Butler’s commitment to Hilary Swank even after death is sure to hit you right in the feels.

Libra

Libra is ruled by Venus––aka the goddess of love and beauty. You have a strong sense of right and wrong, and strive to have peace in all aspects of your life. You probably have a sociable and flirtatious nature, but when you love, you are loyal and romantic.

Mamma Mia! should be your movie night pick. The combination of characters, played by Amanda Seyfried and Meryl Streep, will strike all aspects of your personality.  

Scorpio

As a Scorpio, you are ruled by desire. You are honest and resourceful, but you also have an air of mystery. You are independent and probably have a tight-knit group of loved ones. You are committed, but privacy is extremely important to you.

There is no chick flick more appropriate for you than The Proposal. Sandra Bullock’s character is basically a walking Scorpio!

Sagittarius

There is no one more free-spirited and easygoing than a Sagittarius. However, you are also very intuitive and see the bigger picture in all things you do. You may not be an expert on any one thing, but you definitely know a little bit about everything!

What a Girl Wants should definitely be on your watch list. The movie combines independence, adventure and love––all of which are the perfect blend for the Sagittarius!

Related: The 30 Best Chick Flicks Of All Time

Capricorn

Capricorns are calm and very self-disciplined. You are very practical, and having a sense of purpose in life makes you happy. When it comes to romance, you provide stability and loyalty. You seek partners who are also confident! Clingy is not your thing.

The Princess Diaries should be at the top of your chick flick list––what Capricorn hasn’t dreamed of being Princess Mia? Even though you’ve probably already seen it a million times, it just never gets old!

Aquarius

An Aquarius lives outside the box. You are unique, definitely unconventional and maybe even a little bit rebellious at times! In any relationship you enter, you are very memorable.  

For your movie night, opt for 10 Things I Hate About You. Heath Ledger is enough to make any girl swoon, but his character in combination with Julia Stiles's makes for the perfect plot line for any Aquarius!

Pisces

As a Pisces, your patience and perception are on-point. You are sensitive to the feelings of those around you, and you are devoted to all of your relationships. You are deeply caring, sympathetic and emotionally attached to things in your life!

The Notebook is the movie for you. There is no love story that is more aligned with the Pisces woman!

Aries

An Aries is driven by her unstoppable nature. When you see something you want, you go and get it! You are abundant in energy, independent and opinionated. You take charge in all aspects of your life.

We couldn’t choose a chick flick more perfect for you than The Devil Wears Prada. Both Anne Hathaway and Meryl Streep resemble the boss-lady nature of every Aries woman!

Taurus

As a Taurus, you are dependable and a great resource for maintaining order. You are the perfect combination of stability and extravagance! At times, you can be overly emotional, but you are mostly warmhearted and extremely loving.

Clueless is the chick flick for you! The over-the-top lifestyle of Alicia Silverstone's character is one you can’t help but enjoy.

Gemini

If we could sum up the Gemini in one word, it would be sociable. You are a lively, youthful soul who is typically quite intelligent as well. Your desire to make everyone happy can sometimes get you into trouble.

On your next movie night, Easy A should be your go-to choice. Emma Stone’s fall from grace and recovery will make you feel all the feels.

The personalities of the astrology signs play more into your day-to-day life than you probably realize, collegiettes! So, use yours to find your perfect chick flick and take your next movie night from drab to fab.

By Sarah Farkas

Fate. Fate is something that is becoming a mythical and outdated concept among college students today. We don’t believe in fate. We don’t believe in meeting our soul mate at the library or a coffee shop. We don’t believe in getting accidentally snowed into a cabin with someone and falling in love with them in that crazy, unique circumstance. We don’t believe in falling through thin ice and getting saved by a gentleman passing by. We don’t believe in romantic gestures, like when Noah tried to catch Allie’s attention at the County Fair in The Notebook. We are settling for surface-level relationships. We are hiding behind Snapchats, iPhone read receipts and Instagram likes. We are settling for online flirtation instead of dinner dates and movie nights. We meet boys at frats who have girlfriends at home who they think we will never find out about. We fall fast and hard for the boy who tells us whatever we need to hear to get us into bed, only to rarely hear from him again minus a few mass Snapchats. You are worth more than a meaningless hookup.

We are settling for boys who cheat. You do not deserve to be cheated on under any circumstances, ever. We are dating men who cancel plans often when there may be a boy out there who will show up ten minutes early for your plans together. Don’t settle for a man who treats you well in private, but acts like you mean nothing in front of his friends. We are settling for boys who open doors behind them instead of in front of us. Don’t settle for the boy who treats you bad and doesn’t give you butterflies, just because you are afraid no one else will ever love you. Do not stay out of fear. Take risks if you are craving something deeper. Find whatever it is you are looking for, because I know it’s out there. Heartbreak is inevitable. You will cry, be hurt, and then one day you will have simply moved on to something—or someone—better. In the blink of an eye, someone you least expected can mend your broken heart.

I am not trying to say a perfect man exists, because they don’t. As women, however, we should not be expecting for them to be perfect. We are expecting expensive gifts and craving extravagant dinners with a significant other when we should be happy with walks on the beach, meaningful conversion and romantic Chipotle dinners in front of a cheesy Netflix movie. We should be satisfied sitting on a couch and laughing for hours, enjoying a man’s presence. Perfect men don’t exist, but there is someone that is perfect just for you. There is someone whose laugh will create perfect harmony when aligned with yours, and someone who will dance around the kitchen with you on a Tuesday night, tipsy from a glass of wine you both split. There is someone who will drive with you to Taco Bell for a late night snack, and someone that will hold you when you have reached your limits.

Do not ever sell yourself short. You are an amazing person. Do not be afraid. No matter how hard it is to believe that someone great is waiting for you, God’s greatest gifts come when least expected. Because if it is not who you are with right now, you must believe that whoever is waiting is even better. If he won’t treat you like you have always dreamed of being treated, someone else will. You should not feel like you are ever settling at any point. If you are settling, you are better off alone. If he is unfaithful, you are better off alone. If you don’t wake up every morning excited to see him, you are better off alone. If he doesn’t push you to be the best person you can be, you are better off alone.

Don’t settle just because he may be hot. Don’t settle just because he makes you look good on social media. Don’t settle just so you can have someone. We should not be in relationships just because we feel we should be. Wait for the right person. As for the relationships you see on Facebook and Instagram presented so perfectly, know that nothing is ever as perfect as it appears. Humans are crazy messes, but also beautiful masterpieces all at the same time. We are imperfect, and that’s okay. When you do find someone, know that you need to do your part too. Make him feel special and do extra things for him just because you feel like it. It is a two way street. Don’t settle, because there is someone out there who will love you unconditionally just the way you are, that I promise.

If you wouldn’t marry him, don’t date him. If you do not want your children to be like him, don’t date him. If you can’t see yourself waking up to his personality for the rest of your life, don’t date him. If he is rude to waiters or his mom, don’t date him. Don’t settle, but don’t have unrealistic expectations of what a man should be like. Date someone who makes you appreciate life and look forward to the future. Do not settle for a twenty-first century relationship. Seek an everlasting love with your soul mate, your other half and your very best friend.

1. You're the center of attention. 

After all, Serena is Gossip Girl's number one target...

2.  You like to go out.

If your friends aren't being social, you'll make them.

3.  You're pretty mischevious. 

Let's just hope this doesn't include a mug shot.

4.  You're there for your friends when they need you. 

Serena does put friends and family first.

5.  You're blunt.  

Serena never misses a chance to be heard.

6.  You've got great fashion sense. 

Has Serena ever NOT looked fabulous?

7.  You might be a little boy crazy. 

After all, Serena loves her men.

8.  You're into big cities.

Particularly NYC.

9.  You're determined to do well in life. 

Whether it's Brown or Columbia, Serena wants to be successful.

10.  You're confident. 

And you love to smile!

11.  It's hard not to like you. 

Serena can be sweet!

12.  You love being in love. 

There's always a man for you. 

13.  You shut down the haters. 

Like a boss.

14.  You expect the best... 

...and prepare for the worst.

15.  But no matter what, you're still fabulous. 

"You know you love me."

XOXO

Happy Fourth of July! Since most of us are probably preoccupied with BBQs and other holiday gatherings, it is quite possible that you may have missed a few patriotic posts from your favorite celebrities. Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat—let's face it, there are a lot of social media platforms to keep up with. Luckily for you, we've rounded up the best celeb posts from the Fourth of July festivities. Scroll down to see how the stars have been celebrating America's 240th year of independence!

Hanging out at the beach with the whole squad

Basically, anyone who's anybody was at Taylor Swift's annual party.

Wearing a tank top that shows how much you love bae

Looks like relations between America and England are quite cozy these days. 

Restocking those highly-coveted Lip Kits

Being able to buy lip kits at our leisure is definitely the American dream, no?

Trying out patriotic AF Pinterest desserts

Brownie points if you totally nail it like Lucy Hale did! 

Or creating mouth-watering desserts of your own

ONLY Lauren Conrad.

Releasing Fourth of July-themed Kimojis

Because who DOESN'T need to text a Kardashian with a 'Merica hat?

Hosting backyard parties with the whole fam

Finally, a normal Fourth of July celebration...

Or having Instagram-worthy birthday celebrations! 

This is the stuff of dreams.

Hanging poolside with friends and flower crowns

Why not?

Showing your love for the USA, even when you're not on American soil

Always for America.

Spending quality time with your newly adopted furry friend

...and your ex-fiancé/maybe current fiancé. Always keeping us guessing...

Releasing a PSA that shows what it truly means to be part of America 

Yep, he wins.

With the prevalence of hook-ups in the age of Tinder and right swiping, sometimes the concept of love seems hard to fathom. However, for the collegiette looking for a serious partner, these are the five recommended questions that can be used to determine whether your first date could eventually lead into a long-term relationship.  

1. What was your childhood like?

From this question, you’ll get to understand the extent of parental influence on your date and gauge the state of their relationship with their family. Dr. Carole Lieberman, a Beverly Hills psychiatrist and author of Bad Boys: Why We Love Them, How to Live with Them and When to Leave Them, says that “the best predictor of whether a guy is a bad boy who will break your heart is his relationship with his mom. If he’s harboring resentments, he will take them out on you.” If your date relays miserable childhood stories and criticizes his upbringing, Lieberman advises that it’s best to avoid starting a relationship with them. 

2. What do you see yourself doing a few years from now? 

The benefit of having a conscientious and driven SO is that you’ll both inspire and support each other professionally. Olivia*, a junior at Seneca College, says that she doesn’t shy away from consulting her boyfriend for career-related advice. "He’s two years older than I am and has had more experience searching for internships and jobs," she says. "Whenever I needed help editing my resume or reaching out to recruiters, he’s always been there to offer tips and encourage me throughout the process."

Evidently, for a long-term partner, you want someone who knows what they want to achieve and the intent to follow through. During the date, other questions to explore could be asking about their short-term goals as well, how they lead to their overarching future plans and what motivates them to achieve them. After all, ambition is an attractive trait. 

Related:I'm 21-Years-Old and I'm in My First Relationship

3. What do you like to do when you’re not working?

You get a glimpse into their personality through the type of interests they have and can use this topic to see whether you share any common pastimes. Colin*, a senior at the University of Waterloo, concurs that finding common ground is helpful in getting your date to open up about themselves and gradually transition into other related topics. "I met this great girl last year who was really shy," he says. "I initially had a hard time maintaining a two-way conversation because she would try to deflect my questions. It wasn’t until I told her about my experiences studying abroad for exchange that she visibly relaxed and was more willing to talk about herself."

If you have a sense of adventure, you could ask your date whether they’ve traveled before, what cities they’ve been to and their most memorable experiences abroad. If you’re a cinema fanatic, you could ask what movies genres they enjoy, what films they’ve also seen and who their favorite characters are and why. If you have an appreciation for music, you could ask whether they play an instrument and what songs they’re familiar with. The possibilities are endless.

4. Have you read any good books recently?

While physical attraction is one component of maintaining a healthy relationship, intellectual stimulation is equally important. Elena*, a sophomore at Western University, says that being able to hold a friendly debate is her criteria for a second date. "It doesn’t matter what your view is on a subject, as long as we can have a fun and lively discussion, it shows me that you’re someone that isn’t afraid of banter and can hold their own," she says.

After the I-can’t-get-my-hands-off-of-you phase passes during the early stages of dating, you’ll find yourself bored if you and your love interest can’t hold an engaging conversation. During the first date, other questions to ask include what kind of books they’ve read in the past that they could recommend to you, who’s their favorite author and what’s their favorite novel and why. 

Related: 5 First-Date Mistakes You Don't Know You're Making

5. What are you most passionate about?

Through this question, you get a sense of what your date’s fundamental beliefs are and the humanitarian causes that they feel strongly about. Political views might be a bit of a sensitive subject for a first date, but topics such as whether they have volunteered before with a non-profit organization are safe if not encouraged. Jason*, a sophomore at York University, says that he likes to learn more about his date’s core values to determine their level of compatibility. "For me, I love seeing a girl getting fired up about a cause she really cares about," he says. "It’s honestly a turn-on because it shows that she’s the kind of person who has empathy for others and is willing put in the effort to help those in need."

While your date’s responses to these five questions will give you an idea about their character, it is also suggested that you be mindful of the following signs. Lieberman says that “you should pay attention to how much care he puts into planning your first date. If he’s hoping to have a serious relationship with you, he will have given your first date a lot of thought because he knows that if you have a great time, you will be more likely to agree to a second date.”

She says that how much your love interest spends is irrelevant because they could be creative and resourceful with planning the date (i.e. organizing a picnic at a scenic spot) regardless of whether or not they lack financial resources. Lieberman also notes that if they have the intent of taking you to their place for the first date then “he thinks you’re not worth the effort of planning something, and is hoping you’ll be fine with just hooking up.”

Evidently, finding someone who’s compatible with your personality isn’t easy. Sometimes, it’s like looking for a needle in a haystack. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun. Regardless of how your date turns out, good or bad, going on a first date with different people lets you figure out what traits you like and also makes for great stories that you can regale friends with when you’ve had one too many glasses of wine.

*Names have been changed

Kanye West is known for stirring up controversy, and his latest music video for "Famous" is no exception. The video, which features several naked celebrities lying together in a bed, has received mixed reviews from viewers. Many people question whether this video can be considered art, especially when the celebrities pictured have clearly been exploited. We've heard the thoughts of people like Lena Dunham, who are rightfully disgusted by the video and its implications. However, we have yet to hear the opinion of the aritst who inspired Kanye's video—until now.

When the video was released, people immediately pointed out the the video was an interpretation of Vincent Desiderio's "Sleep," which also shows naked bodies lying amidst bed sheets. Believe it or not, Kanye actually collaborated with the 60-year-old artist in order to recreate the painting. Prior to the video's premiere, Vincent met up with Kanye to discuss the top secret details of the project—and the rapper brought left him at a loss for words.  

"I was really speechless. Kanye saw things in it that I don't know how he could've seen. Kanye is truly an artist," Vincent told NYT. "Talking to him was like speaking to any of my peers in the art world—actually, more like talking to the brightest art students that have their eyes wide open."

Vincent also went on to compare Kanye to famous artist Andy Warhol. "For Kanye, who lives in this world of celebrity and fame, the way I understand him now is that he's much more like Andy Warhol," he said. "But he's like an exploded internet version of Warhol allowing these celebs to hang themselves with their own words while he sits there and says, 'That's fabulous.'"

"Warhol was a mirror for the times. When Kanye goes through all these shenanigans, he's mirroring the times," he added.

While Lena Dunham and others might argue that the video elicits uneasiness among women, Vincent defended Kanye (and art in general). "Artists are not saints. They're not people whose first obligation is moral correctness. As much as I like Dunham and appreciate, art goes to dangerous places."