First of all, Lady Gaga was the cutest when she won her first Golden Globe for American Horror Story: Hotel last night. But the moment that everyone is still talking about? When Gaga—who, let’s be honest, is a goddess in human form—brushed up against Leonardo DiCaprio’s arm on her way to the stage, causing him to touch a non-model with about as much brains, beauty and talent as one could wish for.

Naturally, the Internet quickly exploded and GIFs and Vines of the strange interaction popped up everywhere.

We like to think Leo’s shamefully awkward reaction was uncontrollable excitement, which radiated throughout his entire body. Because, sir, you should consider Gaga’s graze a straight-up honor.

When Entertainment Tonight quizzed Leo backstage about the viral incident, his response was, again, mostly stunned: “Oh lord—that’s trending, huh? I just didn’t know what was passing me, that’s all!”

Hmm…while that sounds like a totally believable explanation, should Leo make it to the Oscars—as nearly everyone on the face of the planet hopes will happen—we’re sure more of his weirdly entertaining facial expressions are on the horizon.

On Sunday night, Planned Parenthood announced its official plan to endorse Hillary Clinton, front-runner of the democratic party, in the 2016 election.

"We're proud to endorse Hillary Clinton for President of the United States," said Planned Parenthood President, Cecile Richards, in a statement. "No other candidate in our nation's history has demonstrated such a strong committment to women or such a clear record on behalf of women's health and rights."

The announcement doesn't come as much of a shock, seeing as women's rights are a major talking point in Clinton's campaign. After announcing their decision to endorse her, Planned Parenthood went on to claim that Clinton has been more in their corner than any other candidate throughout this entire election. Clinton accepted the endorsement on Sunday night during a rally in Manchester, New Hampshire.

"I have stood with you throughout my life and certainly throughout my career and I promise you this: As your president, I will always have your back," she told a group of Planned Parenthood supporters, according to NBC News. "I will defend a woman's right to choose and I will defend Planned Parenthood."

Planned Parenthood is a huge provider of abortions and other services that are pretty critical to a woman's reproductive health. Most of the Republican party objects the values of Planned Parenthood and have even voted to defund the organization altogether (by passing a bill which President Obama has since vetoed). 

"I shudder to think about what the Republicans would do if given the chance," Clinton added. "Planned Parenthood should be funded, supported and appreciated - not undermined, misrepresented and demonized."

There's no denying that women's health and reproductive rights have become pretty touchy issues in the current election, with Planned Parenthood blowing into the center of controversy last year after videos emerged of an employee discussing the harvesting of fetal tissue. This will be the first time in the organization's 100-year history that they will stand behind a presidential candidate in a primary. 

"It is unthinkable that our daughters and granddaughters would have fewer rights than my generation did, yet every single GOP candidate for president wants to erase decades of progress for women—pledging to cut access to Planned Parenthood, ban safe, legal abortion, and block health insurance coverage for birth control," Richards said. "This is about so much more than Planned Parenthood. Health care for an entire generation is at stake."

Are you tired of wearing the same boring pair of shoes? So are we! There comes a time when a blah pair of black flats needs a little spicing up. Thanks to A Pair and a Spare, we've got just the solution. Adding laces is the perfect way to give your flats another life and give a certain charm to any outfit you wear with them. Bonus: seeing as lace up flats are this season's trendiest shoe style, you'll be ahead of the curve all while sticking to your budget. 

You will need:

• Pair of flats—preferably with a pointed toe
• Hole punch
• Ribbon or twine that matches the color of your shoes
• Marker, chalk or pen to mark where your holes will go

Step One: 

Using your writing utensil, mark where you want the holes to be. We will be putting two holes on each side. Be sure to line up the holes on both shoes.

Step Two: 

Use the hole punch to make holes in the spots you marked on both shoes.

Step Three: 

Lace your ribbon or twine through the shoe. Keep in mind, it may take a couple tries to figure out how long you want your ribbon to be.

Now you're all set with a (sort of) new pair of shoes!

As with any award show, the person hosting is what makes it fun to watch and keeps us entertained. This year, Ricky Gervais hosted the Golden Globes for the fourth time—and as much as we love him, it's time to pass the torch. So who should be crowned as host for the 2017 Golden Globes? We’ve come up with a list of potential celebs (and celeb duos) who we think would make perfect hosts!

1. Amy Schumer & Jennifer Lawrence

Why have one amazing host when you can have two? As we saw during their bit on last night’s Golden Globes, Amy and Jennifer could make an amazing power duo as hosts! With enough personality between the two, it would be a show no one would forget! Bonus: GIRL. POWER.

2. Jamie Foxx

No one is as bold as Jamie when it comes to making people laugh! His “mistake,” poking fun at Steve Harvey’s Miss America winner mixup, made all of our nights.

3. Ellen DeGeneres

Ellen showed off her hosting skills at the 2014 Oscars. At what normally would have been a pretty modest awards show, Ellen changed the rules and gave the role of hosting a complete makeover! Getting to see her host again would be just right with us.

4. Brad Pitt & Ryan Gosling

We could stare at these two on screen all day any day. Enough said!

5. Kevin Hart

No stranger to hosting awards shows is seasoned comedian, Kevin Hart. Guaranteed to keep us laughing for hours, having him host next year’s Golden Globes would be keeping us laughing all night.

6. Jim Carrey

A veteran to the world of comedy is the great Jim Carrey. His energetic personality and classic jokes would be a supreme addition to the Golden Globes!

Who's on your list for potential hosts?

McDonald's partnered with students from the Miami International University of Art and Design to create a collection of totally trendy accessories using McDonald's packaging, including cups, take out bags and boxes, and even straws. The fast food chain is marketing its new packaging designs, which are definitely a step up. Check out the below comparisons to see what we mean.

McDonald's bags from 2013 to 2015

McDonald's Packaging Today

In an article by Business Insider, McDonald's spokesperson Becca Hary explains the new branding. "The new look is simple, fresh and consistent with our vision to be a modern and progressive burger company," she says. McDonald's will ship its revamped packaging to 15,000 U.S. restaurants this month and finish the rollout to other countries by the end of 2016.

Two students, Pablo Machado and Ricardo Hardouin, were chosen to use McDonald's supplies in designing a cool, fashion-forward collection, Seventeen reports. The most impressive part of the challenge was that they had to complete their designs in 48 hours. That's shorter than some Project Runway challenges, so major props to these guys. Pablo and Ricardo came up with every accessory imaginable, from hats to straw-spiked pumps.

You've got to admit, McDonald's has changed the way we look at their takeout bags. We're glad the brand is switching up and experimenting with its products. Now, where can we get our hands on that Big Mac purse?

When we’re not busy praying our favorite Pretty Little Liars make it through one of A’s twisted games, we’re secretly wishing we could be one of them. Alison, Spencer, Aria, Emily and Hanna are a killer squad who have it all, from beauty to brains to personality! So which liar are you? Take our quiz and find out!

This article has been syndicated to Her Campus from The Love Pug by Kirby Beaton, a Her Campus Blogger Network member. Read the full post here.

The first season of Ryan Murphy’s hit show Scream Queens may have captivated us with its quirky mix of horror and humor, but the thing that kept me watching week after week was the FASHION. Chanel Oberlin (played by the Queen herself, Emma Roberts) and her squad tormented their pledges and were certainly prime suspects in some of those murders, but they definitely did it all in style. While I admired the patented “Chanel” look with its array of furs, pastels, and tons of sparkle, I've never been brave or creative enough to replicate it in my daily life. So after the season finale and my inevitable withdrawals, I challenged myself to look like a Chanel for a week. Since I’m a mere college student and can’t afford real Chanel, I made do with what was in my (...and my mom’s) closet. Here’s what I wore!

I was a little nervous on the first day of my challenge since I was really shaking up my style. On this particular night, I headed out to a holiday event with my family and rocked this Forever 21 lace dress with my baby pink coat and some white lace heels. I’m channeling some serious Chanel #2 à la Ariana Grande here. I honestly really loved this outfit, although it was a bit more scandalous and formal than what I was used to wearing for a family affair.

Day Two featured one of my favorite outfits: a white lace pencil skirt with a fuzzy white sweater and some majorly blinged out accessories. I don’t wear white very often, and as I was sipping my usual latte I remembered why. Coffee + all white outfit = potential disaster! Luckily I avoided a fashion mishap and went about my day running errands. As I walked through Target doing some last-minute holiday shopping, I definitely felt out of place. Here I was in this gorgeous outfit and heels… pushing around a cart and buying superhero PJs for my sister-in-law. Although I felt a little silly at first, I loved the confidence boost I got from knowing how chic I looked!

Please excuse my RBF! I swear I loved this outfit, but my face doesn’t want to show it. I kind of felt like a mix of Blair Waldorf (it’s the headband, right?) and Chanel #1 in this number. The feminine pastels and floral patterns were so perfect together, even in the dead of winter. I just wore this out to lunch with my dad, but I think it deserves a bigger audience! At this point in the week, I felt a bit more creative every morning and started putting together outfits I both really liked and channeled Chanel. I wasn’t as self-conscious when people stared at me in public—maybe they were just admiring my amazing look!

Read the full post here.

In a perfect world, all best friends could live in the same state, attend the same college, and do, well, everything together! Snap back into reality and you realize you and your bestie may be one of the unlucky ones who have to continue a relationship long distance. Doesn’t it just make you sick to see the fortunate ones partying it up with their BFFs on a daily basis? Next time you're down in the dumps just remember there’s much to love about a long distance best friend. Here are 15 reasons that make the infinite miles between you two worth it!

1. Even though she’s strictly a texter, she’ll answer your calls no matter what!

2. She’ll make you feel special when she stalks you on social media and goes on a liking spree

3. They’ve never met her, but your college friends know she’s basically perfect so they’ll work harder to fill her big shoes

4. She’s not ashamed to have Skype photo shoots with you, complete with the most unflattering faces and poses!

5. Besides your mom, she’s the only one that cares enough to send the best care packages with everything you love! 

6. You can go weeks without talking to her and when you finally do, it’s as if nothing has changed

7. She’s more than willing to fly across the country in a heartbeat to slap any guy who hurt her bestie

8. You know she loves you times one million by how jealous she gets when she sees pictures posted of you going out with other friends

9. She’s a master in the art of getting straight into the juicy details when you’re both in a rush

10. She’s the only one who will listen to you rant about your new crush for five hours without tuning you out.

11. You never have time for little, meaningless arguments because you miss each other waaaay too much

12. She has mastered communicating with you via Skype, text, Snapchat and Instagram simultaneously

13. She’s always overly excited to hear from you, no matter how big or small what you have to tell her

14. Nothing compares to the high you feel when you reunite with her after months of isolation!

15. Most importantly, she understands that distance don’t mean you can’t be BFFs!

A recent UCLA study found that the emotional health of incoming students is at its lowest point in the last 30 years. They also found out in their study – where they asked 153,000 students to assess their mental health – that nearly 10% of students said they felt frequently depressed.

To take a look at the personal experiences collegiettes have had with depression, we spoke to 18 college women about it.

“I've struggled with depression from as early as middle school, but I was only officially diagnosed by a professional about a year ago after finally being able to put myself into therapy. I decided to get help because my symptoms became exponentially worse after moving away to attend university, and I was afraid for my health. I believe this was largely due to the unexpected increase in stress I was under and because I was suddenly very far away from my support group, making me feel hopeless and isolated. I find that maintaining communication with people who love me, keeping up on my physical health (sleeping enough, exercising), and taking time out of my week to enjoy non-academic activities like painting, playing pool, going out, and kayaking help. It is still a difficult uphill battle, however.”

-Ashley, University of Florida Class of 2016

“I felt really depressed during my junior year of college. I failed a class for the first time and really struggled with an identity crisis. Our generation is so keen on defining ourselves by our academics, and we often find that we are lost without good grades. When my grades slipped, I felt like I didn't know who I was. My identity has always been ‘good student’. Who am I without my good grades? I coped by using my campus's counseling resources. It was very difficult to get through and I still struggle with maintaining a positive attitude. I am doing my best every day to find other aspects of my life and my personality to define myself by. Grades are important, but I'm trying not to let them be everything.”

-Kaley, University of South Florida Class of 2017

“I've had depression for most of my life, and it's more active at certain times than others. I was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder and Dysthymic Depression at a very young age and have been in therapy for a lot of my life. Sometimes it is directly caused by upsetting events in my life, and other times it just hits me for seemingly no reason at all. I had a few months when it was particularly bad one summer, and I tried to put hope and positivity into getting better that fall semester, but I ended up not spending enough time on self-care and was pretty depressed through most of the semester. It's hard because treating depression is all about self-care, but for me, part of being depressed is not feeling as if I can/need to/deserve to take the time to do things that make me happy.”

-Rachel, University of Massachusetts Amherst Class of 2017

RELATED: Depression in College & How to Deal

“I have definitely felt depressed since I've started college. It started a couple of months after my freshman year. I was finally getting the hang of things but was experiencing feelings of emptiness because I missed home — not my actual house just the comfort and safety my ‘home’ provided me. I was diagnosed with depression and took a semester off to get myself back together; I didn't want my second semester grades to be affected. I went to therapy every week and started doing the things I l loved again to get myself happy, like reading, working out, spending time outside and not alone. I think I just couldn't find my niche that first year but have come back sophomore year better than ever and happy that I took that break. I feel refreshed and ready for anything.”

-Cori, San Diego State University Class of 2018

“I have struggled with anxiety and depression ever since I can remember, and going to college has proved to be no different. While I am often able to keep myself busy with classes and extracurriculars, I still experience periods where I isolate myself from my friends, have trouble motivating myself to get out of bed, lose interest in things that used to make me happy, and experience intense sadness and pain that causes feelings of hopelessness. However, it is possible to live with depression and succeed in college. Seek out resources on campus or at home so you can get proper treatment, surround yourself with people who love and support you, and remember that you are not alone and even though it may seem like it, this suffering will not last forever.”

-Helmi, The University of Alabama Class of 2018

“I had experienced mild depression before college. I was diagnosed and started anti-depressants but became sick from the side effects so I had to stop taking them. I cope by exercising and using a light box to help with seasonal affective disorder. I felt that feeling alone in college and dealing with stressful situations was a trigger for these feelings.”

-Nicole, SUNY New Paltz Class of 2016

“Of course I have experienced some level of depression since starting college. Movies, TV and even family hype up college to be the ‘best four years of your life’ and that's just so much pressure. When I first moved in, I expected instant friends, parties and an easy transition but I was so wrong. The homesickness was real and it felt like I was the only one dealing with it. It wasn't until the end of the first semester that I realized depression and anxiety in freshmen is unbelievably common and almost expected. It's something no one tells you about or talks about. I had experienced some mild levels of depression and anxiety before college so I was probably predisposed to it. In order to cope with it, I just really tried harder to get out of my dorm and develop a steady routine. Something as simple as going to the Student Center for a half hour was helpful. I also started utilizing the on-campus counselors. They are there for a reason, right? It was helpful to talk to someone who reassured me that I was not alone and everything I was feeling was normal. I was diagnosed with tendencies of anxiety and depression, but not formally diagnosed. These feelings were triggered by homesickness and stress. My immediate coping reaction is to throw myself into academic work and extracurriculars, so I was never taking time for myself. I think going back to campus for the spring semester will be much easier now that I'm established, but it's definitely a learning process.”

-Caroline, St. Michael’s College Class of 2019

“I've had clinical depression since childhood, and I definitely have had episodes at college. Coping with depression has become fairly normal for me, and I actually tend to recover easier at school than at home. I tend to curl up with my roommate, as she is understanding and supportive, but sometimes, I just have to turn on all the lights and play some music. It took me a while to understand that it's okay for me to be a little less productive when I'm feeling down. The changing of seasons is a big trigger for me, especially the transition from fall to winter; it is particularly hard to deal with early sunsets and long nights.”

-Annika, Gettysburg College Class of 2018

RELATED: Are Social Media Making You Depressed?

“The first time I've ever experienced anything akin to depression was in college. My sophomore year has been full of ‘trials and tribulations’, from a demanding course load to the various clubs I'm involved with. I started feeling worn out, fatigued, lost my appetite, didn't get much sleep, and was suddenly less enthusiastic about everything: my hobbies, spending time with friends, even my future. Stress was definitely the trigger. Overall, even today, I am still managing these feelings and have found that the best way to combat them is to take a break; just stop everything you're doing that's causing so much stress, and talk to a neighbor, read a book, call up your mom. Being around people and reengaging with friends and family has helped me so much. And as usual, laughter is always the best medicine!”

-Laura, University of Connecticut Class of 2018

“I've suspected I was depressed since high school. I've always had self-esteem and anxiety issues, and even frequent thoughts of suicide. I finally made the decision to see a college counselor after my first term, which was really rough for me. To this day, I don't know if I was actually clinically depressed, but I do know that getting counseling was the best decision I ever made. I'm so much happier and more optimistic now. I would definitely advise anyone to take advantage of the mental health resources their college has to offer and to not feel ashamed of having to ask for help.”

-Emilie, UC Davis Class of 2017

“I have been battling depression since my junior year of high school. The main cause was an abusive high school relationship that left me emotionally and mentally scarred. It took friends, therapy, and a small amount of medication, but it has gotten much better in the past two years. Coming to college and forming a strong, close group of friends has benefitted me immensely. Some of them don't even know how much I appreciate having them, but nonetheless, they play a strong role in my recovery.”

-Amanda, West Virginia Wesleyan College Class of 2019

“I have experienced a pretty serious increase in my anxiety since starting college, and the occasional flare-up of depression comes with that. I cope with it all by practicing excellent self-care: a healthy diet supplemented with the occasional bite (or seven) of cookie dough, lots of hot baths, and a bedtime yoga practice that makes me look forward to making it through another day.”

-Olivia, University of North Carolina Wilmington Class of 2018

“I have suffered with depression since before coming to college (I was diagnosed at 14) but financial stress of paying for school and the cost of living have increased these feelings and triggered anxiety attacks rather frequently. I have since started seeing both a therapist and a nurse practitioner in order to use both counseling and medication as treatments to cope with it.”

-Cieara, Boise State University Class of 2018

RELATED: How to Deal with Stress & Anxiety in Your 20s

“Going off to college was the first time I experienced depression and I self-diagnosed myself because of my mood and how I was feeling. I think being in a new environment triggered my depression. Growing up in a small town, you pretty much know everyone and at USFSP I didn't know anyone. It was the first time I had to make new friends and it was hard. It was like I forgot how to socialize and make friends. I eventually coped with my depression by getting active on campus, joining different club and organizations helped me to become confident again and make new friends.”

-Tamiracle, USF St. Petersburg Class of 2017

“I self-diagnosed myself as depressed during my first year of college. It was not an emotion I had experienced before, so at first I felt very helpless. Being alone was a trigger for my feelings, so the top thing that helped me cope with the feelings of emptiness was joining organizations and interacting with new people. I think it's normal for freshman to feel a little depressed and jilted from time-to-time; entering college is a huge step, and you're leaving behind a huge chapter in your life. However, if you branch out and join different groups, you will soon be surrounded by a plethora of people that can help you out and add a little more brightness to your day!”

-Orooj, University of North Texas Class of 2018

“I've had depression for most of my life but I was only diagnosed in college by a therapist on campus. Ever since I was put on Prozac and started seeing a therapist regularly I've found my depression and anxiety to be easier to deal with. It's still difficult and the depression gets to me sometimes. Usually I just have to power through it but when it's really bad I'll skip class or avoid my friends. Then I feel worse about myself because I feel like I should be able to just get over and live normally. I know that depression is fairly common but that doesn't make me feel any better about it.”

-Hannah, Framingham State University Class of 2017

“Everyone feels sad sometimes. That's part of life. It's not healthy to keep those feelings bottled inside all the time. I've felt depression before college as well as during and I self diagnosed my feelings. I no longer feel depression often and it took me a long time to get where I am today. I've experienced things in my 19 years of life that some people may never experience, like loss of many loved ones, serious surgery and health problems, moving from place to place, etc. What keeps me positive and motivated is the fact that people with the ugliest pasts tend to create the most beautiful futures. And that's exactly what college is for, preparation for a bright future."

-Kathryn, SUNY Oneonta Class of 2018

Do you dream of food on a daily basis? Is your mood determined by the last time you ate? Do you find people more and more annoying as it gets closer to lunchtime? If any of these apply to you, you've experienced one of the most dreadful emotions known to exist: hangryness. A combination of hungry and angry, this horrifying condition can have serious side effects and is known to affect college students the most.

Here are some warning signs you've experienced the hangry phenomenon.

1. Having a panic attack when you realize you didn't pack a snack

If I don't make it, tell my family I love them.

2. Getting weird looks when your deprived stomach starts acting up in class

Is it a crime to be hungry?!

3. Giving dirty looks to anyone who tries to talk to you

Can you like, go away? Or possibly fetch me some food?

4. Considering jumping across the table Mean Girls-style when you see someone else with food

GIVE IT TO ME!

5. Your friends know when to avoid talking to you

It's best we don't speak.

6. Spending class mapping out the quickest route to Chipotle

I bet I can get there in eight minutes if I fast walk.

7. Not understanding how a "cleanse" is actually a thing

So wait, when does the food come in?

8. Responding to every invitation with, “Will there be food?”

Sorry, pizza is slightly more important to me than our friendship.

9. The moment of euphoria when you see your food arrive

Love at first sight exists when it's with a cheesesteak.

10. Refusing to wait for a table that takes any longer than 15 minutes

I can get five Happy Meals in half that time. 

11. Ordering an appetizer to avoid eating the table while you wait

I need some mozzarella sticks STAT.

12. Being the worst date in the world because you’re only there for the food

You're paying? Filet mignon it is.

13. Spending way more money on food than on drinks any given night

Alcohol without food is dangerous. I'm just trying to be safe.

14. Crying real tears when you realize you’ve burnt your dinner and have to start all over again

So this is what heartbreak feels like?

15. Asking your waiter how long 'til your food arrives if it takes more than 10 minutes

How long does it take to make nachos?!

16. Eating crumbs out of your bag from a granola bar you ate three months ago so you don't actually die

It's survival of the fittest out here.

17. Unfriending anyone who dares to ask for a bite of your food

Take my clothes, take my money, but DO NOT TOUCH MY FOOD.

18. Coming up with a sarcastic response to any question you’re asked

I'm not in the mood for this.

19. Finding it acceptable to act like a total psycho any time you’ve gone more than three hours without food

Starting to have feelings for someone or being in a new relationship can be exciting and nerve-racking at the same time. Receiving a text from that person or seeing their smile can make your whole day, and that’s a great feeling! But what happens when you aren’t sure if they’re as into it as you are? We’ve talked to Carole Lieberman, M.D., Beverly Hills psychiatrist, to determine some telltale signs you like someone more than they like you. Although it can be upsetting, it’s better to know sooner than later.

1. They don’t text you back

Something as small as an unanswered text message may not hold that much importance to you, but it can definitely be a sign that they’re not feeling it. If they don’t care about you enough to answer your text messages, is that someone you really want to be with?

“If they aren’t answering your texts, it’s a dead giveaway that they’re trying to send you a hint,” says Dr. Lieberman. “They’re hoping you’ll get the invisible text that they’d send if they had the courage: ‘I’m not in2 u.’” Sure, some people aren’t into texting, but if they liked you as much as you like them, they’d want to be in communication with you.

Chelsea Schroeder, a freshman at Bowling Green State University, says you can tell you like someone more than they like you “when you are always the one starting the conversation and texting the other first!” This shouldn’t be the case. Find someone that’s going to give you the time of day!

2. They don’t initiate plans to hang out

If you’re always the one to make plans for the two of you, you may want to take a step back and look at the situation. If they really liked you, they’d be asking to hang out whenever possible.

“If your crush doesn’t initiate plans to hang out, they may be afraid of rejection,” says Dr. Lieberman. “But, if you keep suggesting plans and they don’t take you up on any of them, then they obviously don’t really want to be with you.” Do you really think your crush is busy every time you ask them to hang out? Even if they agree to hang out some of the time, they should be initiating plans too!

Related:5 Signs It’s Time to Let Go of Your Relationship

3. They seem bored or uninterested

If your love interest seems bored when you do hang out (like they’re always on their phone), that’s a pretty clear sign that they aren’t as into it as you are. Unsuccessfully trying to engage them in conversation or get them to do something isn’t fun, and you deserve better!

“If [the person you like] seems unusually bored or uninterested when you’re together, you can gently ask if something is bothering [them], or if [they aren’t] feeling well, and let [them] know that it’s okay for [them] to tell you,” Dr. Lieberman says. But, if it’s more than a one-time situation, like after they got a bad grade on a test, there’s likely a bigger problem.

“Ask yourself if you’ve taken the relationship for granted and stopped trying to look your best when you’re together, or stopped planning interesting things to do, and have gotten into a rut of just hanging out,” Dr. Lieberman says. “But, it could also be that he’s been wanting to break up with you and just waiting for the right moment, or that he’s just with you for the sex and doesn’t want to put any effort into making the relationship sparkle.” If they’re uninterested when you spend time together, it’s likely that your heart is more in it than theirs is.

4. They don’t put in the same effort

If the person you like isn’t putting in the same effort that you are, it’s likely that they don’t like you the same way. Why should you go out of your way to do things for them if they aren’t going to do the same?

“For me, I knew I liked this guy more than he liked me when I would go out of my way to do small things for him that I knew would make him happy. But, he would never do the same for me,” says Alexandra Whitehead, a senior at SUNY Buffalo State. “One time, he was really sick. So I bought him his favorite snack, some chicken noodle soup, and medicine. He was very thankful for this, but he never really did anything like that for me.” If the relationship is one-sided, it’s a clear sign that they aren’t as into it as you are.

5. You’re strategizing how to engage them

If you’re thinking about someone often and wondering how you can get them to connect with you, you’re wasting your time. If they were as interested as you, they’d be making the effort themselves.

“If you’re fantasizing about someone all the time, and strategizing how to get them to pay more attention and be more involved with you, while they’re making little or no effort to do the same, then these are telltale signs that you like them more than they like you,” Dr. Lieberman says. “The biggest mistake you can make is to up your efforts to try to persuade him to connect. The best thing to do—and what girls find hardest— is to create more distance instead of barraging him with texts, calls, gifts and ‘surprise’ encounters.’” If this distance makes him come to you, great! If not, it’s time to move on.

If you find yourself in one (or more) of these predicaments, it’s likely that this person isn’t for you. Rather than beating yourself up over it, it’s best to come to terms with the situation and move on. Try hanging out with your girl friends or blocking your crush's posts from your social media accounts to speed up the process.

Spending all your time on someone who isn’t going to give you the same attention is no fun. Plus, being single isn’t the worst thing in the world!

He was our hero, and not just for one day.

When young David Jones stepped on to the music scene in the late 1960s, nobody thought much of it until he changed his surname to Bowie and after two relatively unsuccessful (as compared to successive) albums, created one of the most imaginative and iconic fictional characters of all time: Ziggy Stardust.

And then just a few years later he ch-ch-ch-ch-changed himself into Aladdin Sane, an equally iconic visage with copper hair and a striking red and blue lightning bolt slashed across his face:

And then he was the "Thin White Duke." And then a German-rock pioneering outsider. His last character, debuted in a video filmed as we have now learned, while battling terminal cancer, was his most haunting and poignant yet: the lonely, gaunt and fearless patient, waiting on his deathbed to "just like that bluebird...be free."

He's made so many hit songs that we've lost count. From "Let's Dance" to "Heroes," from "Changes" to "Dancing In The Street," from "Modern Love" to "The Man Who Sold The World" (most famously covered by Nirvana in their 1994 MTV Unplugged concert). He brought glam rock to the center stage, championed androgynous looks and gender fluidity well before it was ever deemed socially acceptable and inspired artists on a wide musical spectrum (everyone from Madonna to Kanye West tweeting about his impact).

He collaborated with John Lennon, Freddie Mercury and even Bing Crosby for a Christmas hit you've probably heard many times on the radio.

His songs were about everything and nothing at all. They made us look to the sky and ache for something greater, filled us with hope and happiness, sobered us with the reality of the world we live in. There will never be another artist quite like David Bowie (although many will try) because he himself was never what he seemed. A chameleon, always changing his shimmery exterior when he deemed it necessary, he stayed relevant until his sudden, heartbreaking demise. 

To the man who fell to Earth, we thank you for making our lives that much brighter. 

We Pretty Little Liars fans are banded together for life. We’ve all been strung along together for five years, dying to know if we’d ever find out A’s secret identity! Thankfully, for our sanity (and for I. Marlene King’s safety, might we add), we’ve finally gotten our big reveal! But boy did it take years of suffering, curiosity and anger to get here. As our eyes were glued to our screens, our minds were racing in the background, scrambling to keep up with PLL’s twisted plot while wondering a million and one things about our favorite liars. Here’s 75 thoughts we’ve all probably had over the course of PLL’s run.

1. Here we go with this shit again!

2. *Flips light switch on* No way I'm watching in the dark!

3. Why am I still on this emotional roller coaster five years later?

4. Damn you, I. Marlene King! 

5. Whose body is in that casket on the intro anyway?

6. More importantly, will they ever paint her entire nail?!

7. And who decided Lucy Hale should do the “shhh”?

8. Whatever, her brows are definitely always on fleek.

9. Wonder how many characters from three seasons ago will pop up this time?

10. Like, where the hell is Jenna?

11. Oooo, loveeee Hanna’s ensemble!

12. Who actually wears heels to high school every day, though?

13. Totes not buying that actual people can pull off Aria’s wardrobe!

14. Well maybe I can mix florals and plaid?

15. Nahh, this is real life!

16. Here comes Spencer with yet another witty reference I’m gonna have to Google.

17. Cue the A text…

18. So over this shit right now!

19. Why is Emily so naturally gorg!?

20. Normal people def don’t look this in high school…Or ever!

21. Then again, normal people don’t follow sketchy, hooded people into the woods at night!

22. Like seriously, who does that?!

23. That’s what police are for!

24. But actually, why does no one ever call the cops!?

25. I guess Rosewood authorities are pretty sketch though.

26. Seriously can’t trust anyone in this town…

27. Or Ravenswood.

28. Haha Ravenswood!

29. That show went nowhere!

30. Where are the parents in this show?

31. And how could they have been so clueless for this long?

32. That’s how I know stuff like this doesn’t happen in real life.

33. Actual parents are like bloodhounds…always sniffing around.

34. My mom would call me 1,000 times if I went MIA.

35. Meanwhile the liars go on A hunts in the middle of a freaking school day!

36. I wonder how many absences and tardies they’ve accrued by now.

37. Does the school not say anything?

38. Parent-teacher conferences clearly aren’t a thing!

39. Man I love me some Haleb! #baegoals

40. But why can’t I find a bad boy with a heart?!

41. I’ll believe they exist when I ride a unicorn!

42. Are we just going to keep glossing over the fact that Ezra was Aria’s teacher?

43. I almost forgot and that’s just not okay.

44. My teachers are not even the closest thing to man candy.

45. I’d probably show up to class more if they were though.

46. How long is it going to take these girls to graduate…

47. I feel like it’s been senior year for all of eternity.

48. Meanwhile, I’m nearing 30 here!

49. If they don’t stop A by the time I'm married with three kids, I quit life.

50. Seriously!

51. I just can’t even anymore!

52. Everybody and their mom has been accused of being A!

53. Wait… am I A?

54. It’s like the liars learn NOTHING from their slip-ups.

55. Like how can you routinely walk into A's traps all the freaking time?

56. And speaking of A, who wants to wear black hoodies forever?

57. Would A’s closet seriously just be infinite black hoodies on hangers?

58. Hasn’t she heard orange is the new black?!

59. Why is Mona so badass!?

60. How does she keep her head on straight with all her deviousness going on?

61. She’s totally cray.

62. But secretly, I want to be like her!

63. Someone please shut down Radley for crying out loud!

64. That would solve half our problems!

65. OMG! Zoned out for like 30 seconds and missed some intricate theory the liars have come up with this time that’s probably wrong anyway.

66. *Hits rewind*

67. Okay, I can’t keep up!

68. I forgot half the characters they just mentioned.

69. There are just so many plot holes.

70. And these endings are always so sketch.

71. *Looks over shoulder to make sure no one is creeping up behind me*

72. I’m not doing this anymore!

73. *Sees preview for next week*

74. ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME?!

75. *Clears plans for next Tuesday night*

Week two is usually much too early to spot the crazies, but from what we’ve seen so far, this season of The Bachelor is going to be one-of-a-kind. In constant competition for the top cuckoo spot tonight? Unsurprisingly Lace and very surprisingly Olivia, who just last week garnered herself the coveted first impression rose. Here’s proof that these ladies have gone full cray.

1. You keep saying you’re not crazy

Lace started the night strong with declarations of sanity. The best way to keep a guy from finding out that you’re crazy is to keep telling him you’re not crazy. Oh wait…that’s definitely not right.

2. You open your mouth as wide as possible when things surprise and/or excite you

Because that’s a totally normal thing to do, Olivia. Admit it—this is not something you actually do on a regular basis but thought would set you apart from a crowd of lookalike women on a reality television show.

3. You get “a little emotional” when a woman who will be sent home later in the episode wins a fake competition

No title has ever meant less than Homecoming Queen of Bachelor High. In fact, no one should ever want to wear that crown. Alas, Mandi won the competition, leaving Lace heartbroken and a bit teary over the whole situation. But turns out, there was nothing to worry about because Mandi was eliminated during the rose ceremony.

4. You become furious when another woman kisses him or goes on a date with him

Chill out, ladies. We can’t all get the first one-on-one date or the millionth group date kiss. That’s just not how this process works.

5. You stare creepily at the Bachelor’s lips when you want to kiss him

There is a subtler way to let Ben know you’d like to kiss him, Lace. Thank goodness Jubilee—a true American hero in this instance—stepped in before things got truly awkward.

6. You refer to your fellow contestants as “these bitches”

Seriously, Lace. Take a step back and reevaluate.

7. You can’t help but make this face when you kiss the Bachelor for the first time

If Ben could’ve seen Olivia reacting to their first kiss, we strongly believe she would’ve been sent home immediately.

8. You’re sure the show can end after week two because you received a group date rose

Sure, Olivia. He’s totally made up his mind and wants to run away with you on the spot. But let’s be honest for a second—if Ben actually did want to end it all now and be with Olivia for life, it would scare her off, right?

9. You’ve dubbed yourself his “wifey”

Where will the madness end? You are not this man’s wifey, nor will you ever be if this behavior keeps up.

10. You and the other crazy girl have meetings to discuss your craziness

This one is almost too bizarre to believe. Lace and Olivia’s conversation was pretty blah, but if there’s more to come, we think these meet-ups could get super intense.

11. You third wheel on another girl’s date

So this was totally Kevin Hart, but who else felt super uncomfortable during his “ride along” on Ben and Caila’s one-on-one date? That hot tub moment was kind of as cringe-worthy as they come. Way to not use Kevin Hart for the adorableness he’s trademarked, ABC.

Do you think Lace and Olivia have officially lost it or are their shenanigans all an act?

The 73rd Golden Globes, hosted by Ricky Gervais, premiered Sunday night. In its 50-year history, the show has highlighted advancements made in the film industry—and those who walk the red carpet also highlight what's hot in fashion. Our favorite celebs appear in the very best trends of the decade. This year was as fun as ever, of course, with interesting looks to gawk over, as demonstrated by the power couples of the year.

Take a look below at the best-dressed power couples at the 2016 Golden Globes:

1. Channing Tatum and Jenna Dewan Tatum

This power duo is the BEST. Appearing together on Lip Sync Battle earlier this month, they were absolutely adorable competing with one another, but clearly work best as a team (they both went home as champs). Although, we have a couple questions about his hair (don't worry, it's for an upcoming film role), we do indeed still love him. Wait, we love both of them. There's no question about that.

2. Denzel Washington and Pauletta Washington

Denzel Washington, who was awarded the Cecil B. DeMille award at the Globes over the weekend, looked sharp as he and his family walked the red carpet—and again when they hit the stage to accept the award. He and his wife, Pauletta, are obvious #RelationshipGoals—glasses or not, she's clearly a huge source of support for him.

3. Lady Gaga and Taylor Kinney

Although the two look to be opposites (she wild, he relaxed), they are very similar in personality, according to Lady Gaga in an interview with Ellen in 2013. The two lovebirds met on the set of the singer’s music video for her single “You and I” in 2009 and the two have been inseparable ever since that first encounter, getting engaged in February 2015. From doing crazy things like making love on a canvas with paint to raise awareness for charity in V Magazine, we knew their love had to be powerful and eternal. Last night, the singer-turned-actress was nominated (and won!) for her role as the fantastical, vampire-like, The Countess in American Horror Story: Hotel. The pair looked gorgeous together, with Lady Gaga resembling Old Hollywood with matching voluminous, wavy blonde hair and a demure black gown that gave her body an attractive silhouette.

4. Hannah Bagshawe and Eddie Redmayne

These two have been supporting each other through the award show circuit for two years in a row, as Eddie has recently appeared in films that have been nominated for several awards, and one for which he won the Academy Award for Best Actor in The Theory of Everything last year. There are at least two things we know the couple are looking forward to: The Academy Awards (will Eddie win Best Actor?) and the arrival of their first child together. Even if the British actor doesn’t win for his role in The Danish Girl, we have a feeling the rest of 2016 will be a good one for the pair with the arrival of their little one.

5. Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith

This pair has been attending awards shows for many years (as both are insanely talented), and each time they bring something different to the red carpet. This time around, Will was nominated for his role as real-life doctor, Dr. Bennet Omalu, who discovered the effects of brain damage faced by professional football players in Concussion. 

6. Melissa Benoist and Blake Jenner

These two, who just recently got engaged, met on the set of the show Glee! Although they may be newcomers to the award show season scene, they both looked like naturals. Melissa was there to support her CBS show Supergirl, in which she plays the dynamic superheroine.

7. Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart

Seasoned vets of awards season, Harrison Ford and Calista Flockhart were in attendance at the Golden Globes last night. Harrison was there supporting his latest film, Star Wars: The Force Awakens, of course. As always, the couple looked classy and glamorous, especially when locked arm-in-arm.

8. Olivia Wilde and Jason Sudeikis

This time last year, Olivia was very much pregnant—six months pregnant, to be exact—but this time around, the pair came to the Golden Globes sans baby Otis, leaving the little guy at home. Olivia was there to present an award and looked gorgeous as ever in a glossy red dress, appropriately accented with a matching gold and red necklace and a gold clutch. Meanwhile, Jason kept it effortlessly cool with a pair of Jordans.

9. Kirsten Dunst and Garrett Hedlund

These two have been seen together on numerous occasions, as they met on the set of the film On the Road, and last night they looked absolutely wonderful together. Kirsten stunned in a plunging black gown and Garrett looked very dapper and Bond-esque in a matching tuxedo. Kirsten was nominated for her role in the television show, Fargo, which was inspired by the feature film of the same name, and Garrett was there to support.

I love Jennifer Lawrence as much as the next person. I like that she isn't afraid to be blunt, especially because it's so difficult for a woman in the spotlight to voice her opinion. And as someone who wrote a nearly-100-page honors thesis about how cell phone use erodes our personal communication, I almost always agree with chastising people for being on their phone when they are supposed to be present.

"You can't live your whole life behind your phone, bro," Jennifer says, while wagging her finger. It's all-too-often I want to say exactly this to my friends while we're together at a restaurant, so I'm on her side. 

But there's something about J. Law's takedown of the reporter that doesn't sit right with me. 

In defense of the reporter, he has an accent, and as many people have pointed out, there's a fair possibility that English isn't his first language. 

Jennifer sassed him for not knowing that he was at the Golden Globes, but there's also a good chance he was asking about the Oscars on purpose. Many have predicted J. Law will be a contender for an Oscar for her performance in Joy, and this reporter could have been trying to ask about that. I wish I had a chance to know what he was trying to ask, but Jennifer cut him off both times while he was asking the question. 

I wasn't in the press room when this happened, of course, so I have no idea whether or not Chris Trondsen's accusations that the reporter was actually trying to capture photos of Jennifer are true. If they are, I can understand Jennifer's frustration, because there's a big difference between using your phone to guide your reporting, and using your phone because you're distracted or taking a photo.

Of course, you can clearly hear the journalist laughing while Jennifer doles out some hefty sass (he's definitely willing to laugh at himself), it's still important to address the idea that there's only one right way to be a reporter.

To give Jennifer the benefit of the doubt, I don't think she was actively considering why she was scolding the reporter when she did it. J. Law's nothing if not known for saying exactly what first comes to mind. I get where she's coming from—I've been the mistakenly offensive person in similar situations, simply because I didn't take a long time to think over my words before speaking. It's pretty clear here that Jennifer's just on the side of putting your phone away sometimes, and that's all she really meant by it.

Now that we've all had time to process it, the important thing is to realize that there are a multitude of reasons why someone might be using their phone beyond just being distracted from "the now."

When I'm interviewing someone, I often use my phone, laptop or a tablet in lieu of a notebook because I try to avoid using paper, even though it's recyclable. People who use English as a second language and people with disabilities might also be using their phones, either to keep what they're saying straight, or as a source of communication. Many people with disabilities who struggle with verbal speech use technology as a tool to aid them in communicating. The same could also be said for those living with social anxiety disorders, who may be very frightened by the idea of speaking without notes on hand. Most people have to communicate for work or in their personal lives, regardless of any anxiety they may have about it, so they work with what they've got. 

Kudos, as always, to J. Law for speaking her mind. It's really tough out there for a woman in Hollywood, and I understand the barriers she faces every time she speaks. She can hardly say two words without the media villifying her. It's important that instead of jumping all over her without personally knowing her intentions, we use this as an opportunity to educate the public about reasons why someone may need to use their phone in a public setting. 

These are sensitive, nuanced issues, and I'll be the first to say that, as humans, we all make mistakes. No matter how well-intentioned we may be. 

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Let’s get real for a second, okay? As uncertain as you were about liking ladies before you really figured it out, there were quite a few obvious signs you somehow missed. These are 12 moments you can look back on with a smile and think, "Wow, how did I not see that?"

1. You watched way too much The L Word, South of Nowhere or Faking It

Depending on what age you realized, you probably had an obsession with an LGBTQ-centric show for “no reason” for several years before understanding caught up to you. Oh, that’s why every word Amy Raudenfeld says sounds like my brain? I get it now.

Related: 9 College Women Get Real About Coming Out

2. You related to Emily the most out of all the Liars

And not just because she’s smart and a great swimmer. Let’s face it, you could probably relate to her lady troubles, between the forbidden feelings for Ali and all that drama with Paige and Maya. All the other Liars essentially stick to one main guy throughout the series, but Emily had a series of cute ladies lining up to date her. You probably wished that were your life, too.

3. You wanted female characters to get together

Whether it was Beca and Chloe’s obvious chemistry in Pitch Perfect or the high hopes that Karma will realize she’s bisexual and go for Amy in Faking It, you were crossing your fingers for lady romances long before you knew you wanted one yourself. And every time a female character thought, “Maybe I like women,” you wondered why it sounded so familiar.

4. You were always really supportive and open to same-sex relationships

Even before you knew you were open to same-sex relationships in your own life, you were extra supportive of the struggles faced by the LGBTQ+ community. If you had friends in same-sex relationships, you thought it was adorable and were their biggest cheerleader.

5. You had a sixth sense about other ladies’ sexuality

You totally knew your best friend was gay before she told you, and you even had several celebrities’ sexualities pinned down before they came out in public. Maybe it’s a superpower, or maybe it’s just that you were really perceptive because you were still figuring out your own feelings.

6. You were obsessed with Ruby Rose on Orange is the New Black

Okay, to be fair, a lot of straight women can agree on this. But you knew, deep down, that your “girl crush” on Ruby Rose was actually just, well, a crush. You meant it in a way that straight women didn’t, it just took you a little while to realize it.

7. You kept adding more and more women to your girl crush list

Haven’t we all made a list at some point of our top ten celebrity crushes? You found that you were adding more and more “girl crushes” to your hot list, and your overall list of girl crushes was growing longer by the day. And that these girl crushes weren’t as innocent as you were making them seem.

8. You said you were an ally, but seemed more like a part of the community

The community has known you as a supportive ally for a while, but you took that pride pin literally everywhere you went. Or maybe you went to gay and lesbian night at the bar every time it happened for six months, because you couldn't miss it. Whatever it was, there was at least one sign that you were more personally involved in the LGBTQ+ community than you gave yourself credit for.

9. You thought a few times about hooking up with another girl

This goes double if you were drinking at all that night, because we all know our true selves tend to come out when we’re letting our guard down. If you had more than a few “what if” moments with a lady friend, you were probably silly to think you could hide the truth from yourself for much longer.

10. You had your first real crush on a lady

Whether she was a close friend or a beautiful woman you met at a bar, you finally had your first real crush on a lady. You couldn’t chalk it up to a “girl crush,” this time. She had you.

11. You related too easily to a song about lady love

Whether it was something by t.A.T.u., Teagan and Sarah, Ani DiFranco or just Demi Lovato’s “Cool for the Summer,” there was at least one standout song that pinpointed how you actually felt about ladies. It was difficult to ignore.

12. You were kind of obsessed with a queer female celebrity

Whether it was Kristen Stewart, Cara Delevingne or Ellen Page, you totally had the hots for—I mean, a healthy obsession with—at least one queer celebrity before you came out. She was probably just your role model, and you knew that someday, you’d be able to tell the world how beautiful she was, and be your true self.

It happens to all of us at some point: we look back and realize we missed quite a few signs that now seem glaringly obvious. At least now you can think about how clueless you were and laugh. And watch the entire Harry Potter series on repeat—staring at Hermione the entire time.

Let’s talk about sex. Not all collegiettes are necessarily doing it, but for those who are, you have to be responsible for your own sexual health.

Not everything about sex is actually sexy. Some conversations with a new partner can be awkward to bring up, but if you’re going to be intimate with someone, you need to be able to talk openly. Before jumping in the sack with your crush, you should discuss these important topics.

1. Define your expectations

Make sure you and your partner know what exactly adding sex to the relationship will mean for you and what the expectations you have about it are. Patrick Wanis, a human behavior and relationship expert, says that “it’s better to have this conversation before you have sex, or one of you may end up emotionally devastated if you thought it was something the other didn’t.”

Don’t rush into anything you aren’t ready for, and know what you want to get out of it. “Both people have to be really honest and understand that sex will change the relationship,” Wanis says. “You both need to agree on the meaning that you are going to give the sexual relationship.”

If having sex means you’re in love with this person and this is your way of expressing it, make sure your partner knows that. If it’s just sex and you aren’t looking for a commitment from it, be sure to make that clear. Be open about your expectations and what sex will mean for you in the relationship.

2. Talk about getting tested

Although this isn’t the sexiest conversation, it’s definitely an important one to have. Ask your partner if he or she has gotten tested in the last six months and if he or she knows of any STD or STIs that they may have.

“It’s always an awkward thing to ask, but I never have sex with someone unless I know they have been tested and are clean,” says Lucy*, a student at the University of North Georgia. “No guy has ever been weird or offended by it. They know I’m just looking out for my health and they’re usually glad I bring it up so they don’t have to.”

It’s better to be safe than sorry, so don’t be afraid to bring testing up. However, be sure to remember that even if you do have the conversation, there’s always a chance your partner isn’t being truthful or has something without knowing it. Make sure you trust your partner and that you both have been tested recently.

3. Talk about contraception

On the same note, unless you’re down to have this guy’s baby or want to risk getting an STD or STI, you need to discuss what form of contraception you will be using. “While it may seem obvious, it has to be one of the key topics to discuss,” Wanis says. “Some people like to take a risk or chance and use no protection at all, but it is very important.”

Let him know if you are on the pill or if there’s another form of birth control that you use. Discuss using condoms and make sure one of you has them.

4. DTR: Are you exclusive?

College dating can be confusing, and it’s easy to get caught up in relationships that have no clear definition. Maybe you want to only have sex in a committed relationship, or maybe you don’t want the relationship to be anything serious. Regardless of how you feel, you should make sure you and your partner are on the same page about it.

Wanis notes it’s important that you specifically discuss what sort of commitment sex will add to a relationship. “It’s important to be on the same page about your relationship before taking it to the next step,” he says. “Both partners have to agree on what the sexual relationship is going to be, and each partner should have an understanding of what the other person wants.”

Make sure you both know if you’re exclusive or not. If you aren’t, define what the relationship is. Are you friends with benefits, or something else? You don’t want to think you’re exclusive and then hear around campus that your partner was with someone else, or vice versa—thinking you’re not exclusive when your partner thought otherwise can be messy, too.

5. Define your boundaries

Some people like chocolate ice cream and some like vanilla. Your partner may be into or ready for some things that you aren’t ready for. It’s also common that your definition of sex is different than your partner’s. He or she may think that oral sex is no big deal, while you may think differently. Some people only consider penetrative sex as sex, and others consider anal and oral as equal to penetrative sex. That’s why it’s important to discuss the things you and your partner are willing to do so you aren’t taken by surprise by something you may not be comfortable with.

“It’s important that both partners are telling the truth,” Wanis says. “Radical honesty is key.”

Make sure you’re very clear with your boundaries in all aspects. “I've always been completely open about it with my partners,” says Emily*, a student at the Community College of Philadelphia. “When I'm ready, I'll tell them that I'm okay with things going further. That way, it's crystal clear and there can't be any confusion.”

If your partner starts to do or suggests to you something you’re not comfortable with, voice your concerns to him or her. Speaking up is the only way your partner will know what you do and don’t want. Be sure to explain your discomfort about it afterwards so there won’t be any confusion in the future.

Take control of your sexual health and make sure you’re communicating with your partner. Sometimes we rush into things after a drunken frat party or night out at the bar, but it’s important to keep yourself safe. Remember to discuss these topics before taking the next step!

*Names have been changed.

There are a lot of things to stay on top of in college—our grades, our extracurriculars, our social life, our career plans— all of which affect our health. From wacky sleep schedules to stressful study schedules to sometimes not-so-safe behaviors, college can be a tough place to stay in tip-top shape, both in mind and body.

Over the last year, with the help of The Princeton Review, we conducted an extensive series of surveys where we collected over 10,000 responses from women at 300+ colleges about anything and everything pertaining to their lives. From career aspirations to fitness to sex, we took a candid and unfiltered approach to getting inside the mind of the college woman.  Now, we’re sharing the results.

Along with The Princeton Review, we are excited to present the first of a 7-phase survey series: The Complete College Life Survey. In this survey, we touched on a variety of general topics, many of which we will deep-dive into in coming weeks.

Who we surveyed:

We collected 10,062 individual responses from college women representing all 50 U.S. states and 28 international countries, with 9% of respondents attending college internationally.  Respondents were split approximately evenly among freshman, sophomore, and junior year, with slightly fewer seniors responding and respondents’ average age was 19.7 years old.

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The Results of Our Mega Study on College Women »

We’re giving it to you straight.

College Sleep Habits Are Worse Than You Think »

Most collegiettes report one terrible sleep habit…

Are College Women Actually Happy With Their Bodies? »

Over 40 percent feel they’ve exhibited eating disorder behavior.

The Real Reasons College Girls Work Out »

The number one reason isn’t what you think.

The REAL Statistics About Sex in College »

You’re not the only one who hasn’t had sex yet.

You’re Not Alone: The Truth About Mental Health in College »

Half of college women have seen a therapist.

Are College Women Drinking Responsibly?

The majority are imbibing, at least.