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9 Questions You Hope Nobody Asks You at This Summer's Family Reunion

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Being home for the summer means one thing: awkward encounters with inquisitive family members. We know you've experienced the intrusive questions, and we're here to tell you: You're not alone. Keep reading to see if any of these annoying questions sound familiar.

1. "Do you have a boyfriend?"

"Yeah! Want to see a picture?" *shows phone background of Harry Styles*

2. "What do you want to do after you graduate?"

"Become Instagram famous."

3. "Have you decided on your major?"

"It's funny that you mention that because..." *runs away, falls, gets back up and keeps running* 

4. "Isn't that a dying industry?" 

"Thanks, I wasn't concerned about my major enough, that's exactly the reassurance I needed to hear. You always know what to say, Grandma!"

5. "Are you working anywhere this summer?"

A quick "nah" or "yup" before doing the stop, drop and roll out of there will suffice.

6. "What do you do at your internship?"

"I pretend to do work while actually taking BuzzFeed quizzes. Do we really have to get into this, Aunt Becky?"

7. "Are you involved in any extracurricular activities?"

"Yes, I am in Netflix Club as the Director of Binge Watching Episodes of PLL That I've Already Seen."

8. "How were your grades this semester?"

BTW, getting asked this in front of your parents, who had completely forgotten that final grades were posted, is CRUEL.

9. "Do you remember when you were younger and you used to [insert verb] all the time?

"No, I don't remember that I always used to somersault around the house when I was two, so I'm just going to give you an awkward laugh and nonchalant shrug in response."


11 Pairs of Flip-Flops That Are Actually Chic

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Let's face it—every summer day is pretty much a flip-flop day. But what are you supposed to do if you don't want to downgrade your cute outfit with some two-year old generic rubber sandals? Don't fret—these flip-flops are both practical and elegant, so that you can look your best even on the laziest days.

1. Mimi Leather Flip Flops, $36 at Oasis

These floral sandals are metallic, but not over-the-top blingy. Pair them with a pretty sundress in any color your heart desires—we love them with navy!

2. Love City 2 Sandals By Mel, $45 at Topshop

These sandals are so fun, and will give you a hip edge when paired with boyfriend jeans and a plain white tee.

3. Rhinestone Flip-Flops, $33.21 at Yesstyle

Why not add some tasteful glitter to your go-to summer look? Get to shopping, collegiettes—these are on sale!

4. Kate Spade 'Icarda' Glitter Flip Flop, $98 at Nordstrom

Nobody does laid-back chic like Kate Spade does, and these precious shoes are all the proof you need. Plus, silver goes with everything!

5. Gia Thong Slide, $39 at Gilt

Meet your brand new, bright blue, beautiful babies.

6. Tory Burch Thandie Printed Wedge Flip-Flop Sandal, $60 at Neiman Marcus

Who knew rubber flip-flops could be this pretty? With their low wedge, soft print and iconic Tory Burch plaque, these sandals are a total 180 from that basic, worn-out pair you've had for years.

7. Flower Sandals by Mel, $50 at Topshop

*insert multiple heart-eyed emojis*

8. Yosi Samra Flip Flop, $50 at Zappos

This dust pink pair is a delicate and elegant take on generic flip-flops, and will put together any summer look. These shoes would be so cute with a white cotton dress!

9. Jack Rogers Whipstitched Flip Flop, $117.95 at NORDSTROM

Jack Rogers sandals are iconic for a reason. This tried-and-true design is fun and chic at the same time, and makes the perfect staple for all you preppy collegiettes! They come in tons of different colors, so you can sport everything from goes-with-everything neutrals to your favorite bold color.

10. Matisse Hippie Sandal, $75 at American Eagle Outfitters

Woodstock, anyone? These beaded flip-flops are here to complement your cutoff jean shorts and crop top—and fulfill all your #FestivalGoals.

11. Rampage Jam2 Sandal, $13.65 at Belk

These sandals are so stylish that we can't believe how ridiculously inexpensive they are! Get them before they're gone, collegiettes!

Which of these sandals will you wear this summer?

The 6 Types of People You’ll Encounter in the Workplace

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We're well into summer, and as a collegiette you’re likely to be embarking on a new job or internship. Whether you’re stuck in an office cubicle, waiting tables, student-teaching, or folding clothes at your favorite store, you’ll be working with people in some way or another! One of the most important parts of joining the workforce is learning how to work as a member of a team, regardless of whether you’re a manager at your long-time job or an intern just starting out. Learning how to interact with each of your unique co-workers is the first step towards a happier, healthier work experience. To help you out, we’ve broken down the different types of people you may encounter at your internship or job—complete with tips on how to deal with them!

1. The young, relatable mentor

One of the best parts of working is forming relationships with people who understand what it was like to be in your shoes and are willing to help you improve. If you’ve had experience with this kind of person in a work setting, you know how much less stressful it is to have someone you can go to with questions and be completely honest with. “At my internship last summer, I had a cool and young supervisor,” says Tabia Robinson, a senior at the University of Albany. “I met Candice on the second day of my internship, and I immediately felt like I could relate to her. Over time, she became not only my mentor but a close friend, and my work experience was pleasant because we always had fun together. Not to mention, she really helped me increase my professional network.”

As you embark on your new job or internship, be open to the supervisors or managers who try to reach out and help you. More importantly, initiate conversations and forge new connections on your own! It may just be the start of a lasting friendship.

2. The demanding boss

There’s nothing worse than going to work every day and having to face a demanding boss with unrealistic expectations. No matter how hard you try to impress him or her, it seems like you just can't do enough. “I’ve dealt with a demanding boss for a long time, and it used to really affect my attitude negatively when I was at work,” says Emily Smith*, a freshman at the University of Southern Illinois. “However, over time I realized that they just liked to have things done a certain way, and I changed my attitude to be as flexible and understanding as I could. Still, if I get frustrated, I just approach them and try to talk things out or suggest a different solution.”

While some people’s attitudes are impossible to change, you always have the power to control yours. By flipping your perspective and seeing things from your supervisor’s point of view, you may be able to better understand how they work and why they expect the things they do. While this may not make them less demanding, it can relieve some of the stress and tension that you feel.

3. The fellow intern

One of the most nerve-wracking parts of starting a new job or internship is walking in on the first day and feeling completely lost. But don't worry! Many companies hire multiple employees or interns at a time, meaning that more likely than not, there’s usually someone else in your exact same shoes, ready to learn and struggle along with you. Having someone right there by your side who knows exactly how you feel makes the work day much less stressful.

“When I first started my new job last summer, I was really nervous about learning the ropes,” says Danielle Schmidt*, a sophomore at Indiana University. “However, I started talking to a lot of the other college kids my age and realized they were just as worried as I was. Having someone there to understand your what you’re going through made it a lot easier to get adjusted.”

4. The competitive coworker

Regardless of the type of job or internship you’ve had in the past, you’ve probably dealt with the coworker who turns every day into a competition. While having someone to push and challenge you can be beneficial, the added stress can take a toll on you over time.

“Once I got to know my co-workers at my new job, I realized there was one person who was always trying to outdo everyone to impress our manager,” says Danielle. “They turned even the simplest of assignments into competitions, which made it really hard to be friendly with them because I was always stressing out. Working with an overly competitive person made me realize that you can’t constantly be comparing yourself with others, and you just have to focus on what you’re assigned.”

Learning how to be confident in your own abilities and not compare yourself to others is one of the best things you can do for yourself, both in and out of the workplace.

5. The office gossip

There are some things that don’t change whether you’re in high school, college or the real world, and gossip is no exception. When working in a job or internship, it can be hard to draw the line between being social, chatty, or a downright gossip.

“I’m a really talkative and outgoing person, and sometimes I catch myself gossiping when I don’t even realize it,” admits Emily. “However, I learned that there’s a big difference between gossiping with your friends and gossiping in a professional setting. You really do have to filter what you say, because word gets around quickly in an office and it can easily come back to bite you.”

As you get closer with your co-workers, you may find yourself feeling tempted to gossip about other people. As difficult as it can be to avoid it, remember that no job or internship is worth losing over a negative or hurtful comment. And if someone you work with initiates the gossip? Change the subject, and if you're comfortable doing so, gently let you co-worker know that you'd prefer not to talk about your other colleagues.

6. The group leader

You may remember this person from your group project days: the one who isn’t afraid to take charge of any situation. If you’re shy or new to your job, the group leader is secretly your personal lifesaver.

“When I started at my new job, I had no idea what I was supposed to be working on,” says Danielle. “Luckily, I got close with one of my co-workers who had been working there forever. Whenever our manager wasn’t around, they were always willing to explain what we were working on and divide up the work for everyone else. It made the work day run much more smoothly.”

Don't be embarrassed to ask for guidance—group leaders are there to help! Demonstrating your cooperative side can show a boss that you aren't afraid to take criticism and know how to follow directions—an important skill for any intern or employee to have. Of course, it's equally as impressive to take charge! As you become more comfortable with your role in your job or internship, don’t be afraid to become the one who initiates projects or reaches out to others. After all, there will likely be a new employee looking for advice just like you were on your first day!

Starting a new job or internship can be stressful, but making an effort to improve your relationships with those around you can help contribute to a more enjoyable work environment. If you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone, ask questions, and work as a member of a team, you’ll be on your way to becoming the best employee or intern you can be. Best of luck out there, collegiettes!

*Names have been changed.

Facebook's New Update Lets You Control Your News Feed

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Long gone are the days of mining through an endless News Feed to find status updates from only the select few people you actually care about. With Facebook’s new release for an upgraded preference-oriented software, users can now pick friends whose statuses and updates they would like to appear first on their News Feed. By creating a personalized list of “prioritized” friends and pages, Facebook hopes that this update will provide users with an even more personal, and ultimately positive, experience on the site.

“The goal of News Feed is to show you the stories that matter most to you,” Facebook reported when revealing the new update. “To do this, we use ranking to order stories based on how interesting we believe they are to you: specifically, whom you tend to interact with, and what kinds of content you tend to like and comment on.”  Combining Facebook’s infamous algorithm with a user’s specific personal preferences is believed to create the ideal browsing and networking experience.

Not only did Facebook amp up the basic News Feed, but they also developed their un-following feature further. Previously, users were given the option to unfollow friends, which allowed them to hide all of their posts, without actually unfriending them. Now, Facebook is allowing users to “reconnect with people [they] unfollowed.” This feature will let people unfollow friends for a portion of time and eventually follow them once more, without the hassle of having to unfriend and friend them again.

Greg Marra, product manager at Facebook, believes that these changes are necessary after a receiving feedback from a variety of users in November of 2014. Starting Thursday, Marra’s hard work to update the social networking sitewas revealed to iOS users. Android and desktop users will have to wait just a little bit longer before they are able to use the updated features. But for now, iOS users have the opportunity to gain more control over the interactions found on their personal social networks.

13 Hilarious Brands You Need to Follow on Twitter

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Some brands are having some serious fun on Twitter. Check out our top picks—we dare you not to laugh.

1. Taco Bell


They found the key to our hearts.

2. IHOP


Putting love to the test over here.

3. Denny's


We may or may not be trying this in the near future.

4. Old Spice


Fair enough, Old Spice, fair enough.

5. Skittles


And more dating advice, courtesy of Skittles.

6. KRAFT Mac & Cheese


We love us some cheesy puns.

7. Oreo


Humility is a virtue. We <3 you, Oreos.

8. GrubHub


Duly noted.

9. Eat24


Because they ask the hard-hitting questions.

10. DiGiorno Pizza


You can be our best friend, pizza.

11. Arby's


#FoodPorn and wordplays—what more could you want?

12. Orbitz


If you like truly terrible puns, this is the brand for you.

13. Hot Pockets


This is actually our worst nightmare.

9 Signs that Kourtney & Scott Were Headed For a Split

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We all know those on-again off-again couples who just can't seem to decide the status of their relationship once and for all. And even though we don’t technically know them (although we watch enough Keeping Up With the Kardashians to feel like we do), it’s clear that Kourtney Kardashian and Scott Disick fall under this category. That is, they did until the news broke last weekend that the parents of three were splitting up for good.

The news came following a series of incriminating photos showing Lord Disick cuddled up with his ex, Chloe Bartoli, in Monaco. In classic reality show fashion, viewers have been able to watch the ups and downs of Kardashian and Disick’s nine-year relationship. Despite hitting some rough patches in recent years, it seemed like the couple was finally in the clear. However upon closer inspection, it seems that there have been tell-tale signs for quite some time now.

While the pictures might have been the final straw, they definitely weren’t the first clue that the relationship was on the rocks. Let’s look at 9 red flags that, in retrospect, show us the couple was headed straight for Splitsville.

1. Kourtney was always saying that Scott wasn’t romantic enough.

2. Half of the time Scott was rude to Kourtney just for speaking her mind.

3. Scott always assumed everyone else was the problem and failed to see a reason why he should change.

4. He also frequently refused to take responsibility for his actions.

5. The couple broke up once before in 2010 while Kourtney was filming for Kourtney and Kim Take Miami because of Scott’s alcohol addiction.

6. The couple usually have no problem with publicly expressing their affection on Instagram, but neither have posted a picture of the other in a few weeks.


 

Great weekend! Goodnight my angel @kourtneykardash

A photo posted by Scott Disick (@letthelordbewithyou) on

7. Kourtney has recently been spotted out and about either alone or with friends, but never with Scott.


 

@dashboutique visit 

A photo posted by Kourtney Kardashian (@kourtneykardash) on

8. Scott was wishy-washy when it came to being supportive of Kourtney before the birth of their third child, Reign Aston Disick.

9. And of course, there are the telling pictures of Scott, way too up close and personal with an ex-girlfriend.

Scott is “literally so rude” and we are glad that Kourtney has found the strength to move on.

9 MTV Shows We Used to Be Obsessed With

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Before the days of Teen Mom and Catfish, MTV was home to rich kids, music videos and hilariously cheesy dating shows. Take a blast to the past and check out these nine classic throwback shows

1. My Super Sweet 16

There's something so wrong yet totally addicting about watching bratty teens spend more money on their 16th birthday parties than most people spend on their weddings. 

2. Parental Control

Parents setting their kids up on blind dates - what could go wrong? The best part of this show was watching the parents and current boyfriend or girlfriend watch the dates unfold on TV while trash-talking the potential suitors. 

3. NEXT

Remember that dating show that took place on a bus? If only we could yell, "NEXT!" in real life whenever we got bored with a conversation. 

4. Made

Let's be honest, we all secretly wanted MTV to swoop in and make us into a cheerleader or pop star at some point. 

5. Pimp My Ride 

Pimp My Ride was like Extreme Makeover: Home Edition for cars. "I heard you like cats, so we took your car, turned it into a cat and filled it with cats!" 

6. The Osbournes

Before there were the Kardashians, there were the Osbournes. It just goes to show that as long as there are dysfunctional, famous families willing to turn their lives into a television show, there will be people to watch it. 

7. Total Request Live

Way back when music-video countdowns were a thing (and Carson Daly was relevant), TRL was the show to watch for live performances from the likes of Britney Spears, the Backstreet Boys, *NSYNC and Christina Aguilera. 

8. MTV Cribs 

Cribs gave us an inside glimpse into the over-the-top houses of wealthy celebrities (not to mention totally unrealistic expectations for our future homes). Some of the hallmarks of the show included refrigerator tours and the celebrity bringing the cameras into the bedroom and saying, "This is where the magic happens" (seriously). 

9. Laguna Beach 

Rich teens, tanning on beaches, Lauren Conrad and lots and lots of drama. What more could you want out of a "reality" show? 

You Can Win Money By Helping the Environment

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DoSomething.org and truth, a national anti-tobacco educational campaign, want you to GTFO… “Get The Filter Out,” that is! This new initiative aims to clean up cigarette butts to prevent damage to our environment. According to the campaign’s website, cigarettes are the most littered item on earth with about 1.69 billion pounds of cigarette butts becoming toxic trash each year.

But now you can help! By signing up, you’ll get facts about cigarette butt litter, tips on how to prevent it from harming our environment and a free action kit to clean up cigarette litter in your community. You’ll also get the chance to win a $10,000 scholarship. Sounds like a win-win to us!

Sign up today and stop cigarette litter! This campaign ends September 30th.


5 Things We Need to Stop Doing in Relationships

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As collegiettes, we have a certain way with words and actions. We can be romantic, passionate, eloquent and sometimes extremely confusing. Others have tried (and failed) to decipher the female language and behavior for years. We often say one thing and mean another, but, perhaps most confusing of all, we expect everyone to understand what we’re thinking. Of course, guys can be confusing too, but here are the most clichéd bad habits we have in our relationships that we really just need to stop doing!

1. Not speaking your mind

It is fairly safe to say that half the time we say, “I’m fine” or, “I don’t care,” it’s the furthest thing from the truth. When you really think about it, “fine” has lost most of its original meaning. An extra charge at the ATM is fine. Pepsi as a substitute for Coke is fine. But saying you’re “fine” when you’re really full of conflicting emotions is not fine. Meanwhile, “I don’t care” is usually synonymous with, “I do care very much.” You sit on the couch as your boyfriend asks if he should shave his favorite sports team’s logo into his hair for the big game, and with steady eyes and a shrug, you say, “I don’t care.” But on the inside, every ounce of your body is screaming in terror, hoping he won’t actually go through with it.

“Females, as typically the nurturer, have the ability to anticipate loved one's needs and then assume their male counterparts can do the same,” says Kim Olver, life coach and author of Secrets of Happy Couples: Loving Yourself, Your Partner, and Your Life.  “This is rarely the case. Males need females to tell them exactly what they want. They are not very good at just figuring it out, no matter how much they like you.”

Taylor, a collegiette at the University of California San Diego, says she tends to get quiet when she’s upset. “My boyfriend, who is very good at communicating and talking things out in person, has a tough time when I shy away from explaining what is wrong in the moment,” she says. “I tend to keep it to myself and then gush out all of my feelings via text, which is wrong.”

Your significant other is there for you, most especially to be a confidant when you’re holding in a lot of emotions. You don’t have to put on a brave face or hide that you’re in fact human and capable of being sad or confused at times. Be honest about how you feel, and it can only get better!

“I know it can be scary to put yourself out there and actually say what you want, but guys in relationships really do want their girlfriend to be happy,” Olver says. “If they can help make that happen by doing something that isn't too inconvenient for them, they often will.”

2. Getting jealous about stupid things

We can’t hold ourselves at fault for the occasional jealous tendencies, but getting upset every time our significant other happens to be in the same room as an attractive person is a little much and can hurt your relationship.

According to Olver, “Jealousy can stem from insecurity. It can come from past experiences of having trust broken. It can stem from an erroneous belief that things will never change; that when someone says they love you, it means they will always love you. And finally, jealousy can occur because we view our partner as our possession. When this happens, we have expectations about how our [SO] will act with other girls.”

Instead of freaking out over the dumbest little things, take a step back and think about if there is an actual threat to your relationship. “This is bad for relationships, but even more important, it is bad for you,” Olver says. “Jealousy never stopped a cheater from cheating, but it can cause someone who's not inclined to cheat to do so. The most important reason to work through your jealousy is that it transforms you into a person you don't even recognize. Realize how valuable you actually are, and you will never need to be jealous again.” 

Stop freaking out about every interaction your SO has with another woman or every occasion when your SO spends his or her time with someone other than you. It’s going to be just fine! Deep breaths, tea and a good talk will cure all.

3. Acting passive-aggressive

Everyone knows “I’m not mad” is code for, “Watch out, I’m trying to keep my cool, but I am about to unleash a tornado of unstoppable rage and I will destroy everything in my wake.” Sometimes we pretend to not be angry so that we can come off as more easygoing or because we don’t feel like confronting the situation. Other times we say it hoping that our significant other will realize that on the contrary, we’re actually mad, and he or she will ask what’s wrong or try to fix it.

“Not telling him usually stems from a fear of losing him. We prefer stuffing our feelings rather than risk telling him what is wrong,” Olver says. “It is important to stop doing this, because if you are upset about something and won't admit it, then how can you both work on the relationship? If your boyfriend isn't interested in how you feel, then he may not be the right guy for you.”

If you’re angry, say it. It’s much easier to address the issue than wait around for your significant other to solve all the riddles you’re throwing his or her way. You’re allowed to get mad, and you’re allowed to admit you’re mad; lying about how you really feel is only going to hurt you and your relationship in the end. Plus, we all know how annoying it is when others are passive-aggressive to us, so let’s start following the golden rule and treat others how we want to be treated! The world will be a much happier (and less sassy) place.

4. Playing guessing games

What we say: “Go ahead; it’s totally up to you.” Translation: “I want to give you the impression that I’m easygoing and that I want you to do what you want to do, but in reality, I want you to read my mind and do exactly what I want.”

Boys can’t read minds, unfortunately. Your relationship shouldn’t be a guessing game. If there’s something you want to do or somewhere you’d like to go, then say so! It’s not fair when your significant other wants to go out and you tell him or her to go ahead while you stay behind, secretly thinking, “Look into my blazing eyes and reconsider your plan of action right now.” It’s like you’re giving your SO fake permission, and it needs to stop!

“This is often done as a ‘test’ to see if our significant other is in tune enough to recognize what not to do, and is a very risky behavior,” Olver says. “Men, on the other hand, say what they mean. They don't have lines to read between. They think woman are similar and actually mean what they say, so when you tell him it's okay, he believes you.”

If you have an idea in mind, then you should always have the confidence and desire to say so. Otherwise, you might end up at some rundown taco joint for your anniversary, and, let’s be honest, that is most definitely not “fine.” If you told your SO that was okay, you can’t get upset about it later, so save yourself some time and frustration and speak your mind from the get-go.

5. Having unrealistic expectations

Having too many or too high of expectations in a relationship isn’t healthy. Of course, everyone wants to be treated like royalty, but eventually you have to come to terms with the fact that your dreams of growing up to be a princess may never come true. “This is behavior that tends to create our own misery,” Olver says. “People need to learn to trust each other to be the persons they've shown us they are.”

Meredith, a collegiette from Ohio University, says she’s had this problem in her relationship. “In my relationship, the times I've been most disappointed are when I expect something from my boyfriend,” she says. “It could be something as simple as a compliment on my new dress or flowers on Valentine's Day. But I've learned it's best to not have expectations, so when he does something sweet, it's a surprise, which makes it so much better!”

You’re setting your significant other and yourself up for frustration if you expect too much out of him or her. “We often have a picture of the ‘perfect’ guy in our heads, and we want our current boyfriend to live up to this standard,” Olver says. “We trust him to be this perfect person, and when he falls short, we blame him.”

It’s better for you to be realistic about what you expect out of your significant other and be honest to him or her about it. Hoping for the occasional spontaneous gesture is one thing, but expecting a hot air balloon ride over a beautiful mountain range might be a bit of a stretch. It’s more important to hold yourself equally accountable to your partner and appreciate the little things.

Of course, no one is perfect, and it’s too easy to slip into these bad habits. However, for the sake of communicating honestly and preserving the sanity of our significant others, it’s time we start saying and doing what we really mean and cut out these bad behaviors. You deserve to speak your mind, you both deserve to be happy and you certainly don’t want to send your SO off running

Why 'Inside Out' is the Best Pixar Movie Ever

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Everyone’s a sucker for animated movies that are bound to make you feel all the feels—no one will ever forget the likes of Toy Story, Up and even Monsters Inc. But these classics need to move over, because the newest Pixar movie is showing every single one of them how it’s done. Recent release Inside Out has been crushing it in the box office—while receiving insanely high praise. This heartwarming tearjerker is, by far, the best Pixar movie ever made, and here’s why:

The movie features a female protagonist, Riley, who is a unique character in herself; her love for hockey and her family, as well as her adorable humor, makes her easy to fall in love with.

Of course, Riley’s awesomeness can be attributed to her colorful emotions residing in her mind. Here we find a protective Fear, passionate Anger, socialite Disgust, thoughtful Sadness and energetic Joy.

And honestly, there were way too many times when we could relate to all of the emotions—especially Sadness’s tendency to flop on the ground.

But of course, there is one character that steals the show…the one and only Bing Bong.

I mean, who doesn’t love an imaginary friend who is part cat, part elephant, part cotton candy, part dolphin and cries candy?? Plus, he's the comedic act that provides all the laughs the movie needs.

Bing Bong’s story hits way too close to home, and his final scene is 100% guaranteed to rip your heart out and tear it to pieces.

In the end, he reminds viewers that it’s okay to grow up, and childhood memories will always stay with you (cue sobbing).

But the bittersweet moments don’t end there. The unexpected team of Sadness and Joy is left to work together to save the day, despite their obvious differences.

Eventually they realize that Sadness is just as important as Joy, and life can only work properly with both of them intertwined. The major theme of the movie is one of the best ever created: it’s okay to be sad. In fact, it’s the way life goes. But even though sadness is a crucial aspect of life, joy will always be around to help you through it.

And there you have it—the most epic Pixar movie to date. It’s no wonder that the film was so successful in theatres; in fact, it was the best debut for an original movie in Hollywood history. Pixar hit home with the theme, and it is one that is entirely unique, and essential, to children viewers. So if you haven’t seen Inside Out, you clearly need to do so as soon as possible...just make sure you prepare yourself for a roller coaster of emotions! 

17 Reasons Country Singers Make the Best Boyfriends

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We know you're not supposed to imagine the ideal boyfriend, because nobody's perfect. But if we had to take a stab at pinpointing the perfect boyfriend, we'd say there are some pretty great candidates in the country-music scene. Here are 17 reasons we think dating a country artist would be a great idea.

1. First things first … southern accents. 'Nuff said.

Southern accents are so hot, even Harry Styles tried to rock one.

2. Cowboy hats are pretty hot, too.

3. Listening to their songs has a way of making you feel better.

4. They know how to compliment you.

5. They're not afraid to show their weaknesses.

6. They're always there when you need them.

7. They're full of great, heartfelt advice.

8. They're strong and they can always defend you if need be.

9. They’ll take you on awesome road trips in their trucks.

10. They’ll make sacrifices for you.

11. They give you the best hugs.

12. They’ll put you on a pedestal.

13. You’re always on their mind.

14. They know you’re a little crazy...

15. ...and they love it.

16. They’re not afraid of commitment.

17. And, let's face it:

Country singers are gentlemen who put our needs first and love giving us compliments. What more could we ask for? Betcha they would make the best boyfriends – even though Luke Bryan is already taken.

28 Signs You’re From Florida

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1. You’ve always wondered what snow days were like…

2. …but hurricane days don’t faze you.

3. Even if you weren’t alive at the time, you can tell anyone what happened during Hurricane Andrew.

4. Flip-flops are your go-to footwear.

5. You go to the beach during winter break.

6. Publix subs are your lunch of choice.

7. You’ve had a class field trip to the Everglades.

8. You break out your Uggs and your winter coat in 60-degree weather.

9. You can comfortably wear boots and flip-flops in the same day.

10. You will always root for the Dolphins and the Marlins, no matter how bad they are…

11. …so you are especially grateful the Heat can salvage the reputation of Miami athletics.

12. You don’t have to worry about rain canceling your plans because you know it never rains for more than 15 minutes at a time.

13. You have never built a snowman, but nobody can touch your sandcastle-making skills.

14. The Miami Seaquarium jingle is always stuck in your head.

15. You had annual passes to Walt Disney World at some point in your life…

16. …and you have pictures with all of the characters.

17. You drive with the sunroof open or the top down 365 days a year.

18. You have always wanted a basement.

19. You have more bathing suits than sweatshirts.

20. Your winter has never lasted longer than a month.

21. You were basically required to learn Spanish in order to get around.

22. You went to Santa’s Enchanted Forest every Christmas season.

23. You’ve taken a picture at Jaxson’s Ice Cream Parlour.

24. You are used to the weird and crazy headlines Florida creates.

25. Oranges are your go-to fruit.

26. You have been to bar and bat mitzvahs that were more elaborate than some weddings.

27. You learned to swim before you could walk.

28. You know you can always call paradise your home.

4 Non-Traditional Ways to Wash Your Hair

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Over the past few years, washing your hair with anything besides shampoo seems to be all the rage. From celebrities to the girl next door, everyone seems to be curious about the “no-poo” method of hair cleansing.

We now know that many traditional shampoos often act as a detergent on your strands, removing the natural oils that protect your scalp through the use of harsh sulfates. This can cause your hair to produce more oil than usual to compensate for the loss, which will continue to make your hair greasy. We’ve rounded up a few “no-poo” hair cleansers for you to try so your hair can look soft and voluminous all summer long.

1. Coca-Cola

Supermodel Suki Waterhouse recently revealed that she rinses her hair with Coca-Cola to get tousled, defined waves. To try out the trick for yourself, leave a can of Coca-Cola open overnight, then pour it over your long hair and let it sit for a few minutes before rinsing it out thoroughly. Then, cleanse and condition your hair as usual.

2. Baking Soda

To cleanse your hair with baking soda, simply combine a few teaspoons of baking soda with water in a spray bottle and shake to mix. Spray the mixture into your hair where you would normally use traditional shampoo. Begin the process by applying the product to your roots, then continue to gently massage it throughout your scalp. Allow the product to sit and absorb in your hair, then rinse with warm water to cleanse.

You can use the baking soda to cleanse your hair as often as you would have normally washed your hair with regular shampoo, since it won’t damage your strands while still removing dirt and excess oil. A box of baking soda often costs less than one dollar, so you’ll be able to cleanse your hair over and over again at a very affordable price.

3. Apple Cider Vinegar

After cleansing your hair with baking soda, you can use apple cider vinegar in place of your conditioner. It will give you soft, shiny hair while removing product build-up, plus it's crazy affordable! Simply combine one part apple cider vinegar with one part water into a spray bottle, and use it after your natural shampoo remedy.

4. Green Tea

Another budget-friendly way to cleanse your hair is to use green tea. You can use whichever brand or type of green tea that you desire. The tea should be strong and thoroughly cooled, so allow it to seep for about an hour before use.

Once it’s cooled, pour the tea into a spray bottle, combined with about ¼ of a cup of apple cider vinegar. Allow the mixture to sit in your hair for up to 10 minutes before thoroughly rinsing your hair with lukewarm water.

If you’re looking to try a little something new when it comes to your hair cleansing routine, check out one of these DIY recipes. Have any of these methods worked for you?

12 Signs You Watch Too Much ‘Law & Order: SVU’

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As creepy and twisted as the plotlines can be, there’s no denying that Law & Order: SVU is one of the most addicting shows currently on the air. Whether you’ve been a fan since the Elliot Stabler days, or you began watching more recently, (we hope you started before Nick Amaro!) you’re probably hooked. Here are 12 signs you watch way too much Law and Order: SVU. How many can you relate to?

1. You can recite the show’s voice-over intro from memory

“…These are their stories.”

2. You routinely try to sing the instrumental theme song

“Dun DUN.”

3. You’ve played an SVU drinking game

Take a sip every time someone says, “We need a bus!”

4. Most of your friends think it’s a little weird how into crime shows you are

Except for your BFF, who totally gets it.

5. You’re always prepared for the worst…

Everyone is a suspect.

6. …But you’ve seen enough episodes to learn how to protect yourself

Always look behind you!

7. If you ever had to dispose of a body, you know how not to do it

Some criminals are such amateurs.

8. You want to be Olivia Benson when you grow up

Role model status.

9. You’ve watched episode after episode instead of going to bed at a decent hour

Just one more, you promise yourself as you hit 'play.'

10. You’ve canceled plans because a new episode is on

Guilty.

11. You know that many of your favorite stars got his or her start on SVU

And you love pointing out the more obscure guest stars.

12. It’s more than a show for you; it’s a way of life

SVU forever.

5 Ways to Make Your New Relationship Last Through Summer

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You and your new boyfriend are two peas in a pod, and you’re both excited to see what’s in store for your budding relationship. The only issue? It’s summer, and your family homes are far apart. This summer’s going to be rough, right?

Actually, Her Campus has ways to make the distance not only bearable, but even exciting (crazy — we know). Check out our list for keeping the romance sizzling even while you’re hundreds of miles apart.

1. Send him a surprise package.

There’s nothing like receiving an awesome gift in the mail. Make your man feel good by sending him a surprise you think he’d enjoy!

“This doesn't have to be anything expensive; it's more about the thought that counts,” says Suzanne Oshima, matchmaker at Dream Bachelor & Bachelorette. “For example, send him his favorite home-baked cookies/brownies with a handwritten note sealed with an impression of the kiss of your lips.”

Hop on Amazon or Yahoo Shopping and grab an awesome gift for your guy—whether that be a box of sweets, a T-shirt of his fave baseball team or something quirky and unconventional, like these hilarious soaps. It’ll remind him how amazing you are for thinking of him.

Want to up the romance factor? Include a love letter. And don’t type it — write it by hand. It’s more personal that way! “Send him a note with a spritz of your perfume,” Oshima says. He’ll appreciate the sweet gesture, and you’ll be looking forward to his love letters in return. This is so Nicholas Sparks.

2. Skype, Skype, Skype!

Never underestimate the power of video chat, collegiettes! If you’re both into Apple devices, FaceTime is a great option, too.

Oshima recommends video chatting every week. Pick a day that works best—whether it’s Sunday nights or Wednesday mornings, whatever best fits both of your summer schedules! Most importantly, stick with a set time. That way, you’ll get to see each other every week. Yeah, it’s virtual, but it’s definitely better than nothing! Seeing his face will brighten your day, and vice versa. Plus, it’s something to look forward to.

Don’t be afraid to get creative! Have a virtual dinner date complete with candles to give your Skype sesh a romantic vibe. Or play show-and-tell using a treasured item in each of your households, whether it be a childhood picture or a fifth-grade soccer trophy; this is a great way to get to know each other, too.

3. Swap clothes.

There’s nothing like sleeping in your guy’s oversized T-shirt or hoodie—ahh. Plus, Oshima has other awesome ideas for what to do with it.

“Get a shirt or sweatshirt of his before you leave for summer and then take a sexy photo of you in it and text it to him later in the summer,” Oshima suggests.

If you’ve already left for summer break, no problem—have him mail you a sweatshirt of his and promise you’ll return it when you both go back to school (don’t be ashamed to indulge in cheeseball romantic practices every once in a while!). It’ll make the fall semester seem not so far away. Send him a scarf or a beloved T-shirt of yours, too, and you both can make the same pledge! Have him spray his cologne on his item of choice, and spray your best perfume on yours. He probably won’t wear yours (it might be a little troubling if he did…), but he’ll always have your scent nearby to remember you. Aww, how romantic.

4. Email him a funny e-card.

This is a cute and quirky way to stay in touch with your guy. Virtual cards are so adorable! Check out American Greetings; you can get a free trial to see if you like it. Other sites to check out include BlueMountain and JibJab. You’ll fall in love with the hilarious, adorable cards these sites boast—and your guy will love them, too. You don’t have to do it daily, but sending a cute card over email is an underrated way to brighten each other’s days.

Don’t have the money for a membership? That’s okay! Get him ROFL-ing by emailing him links to funny YouTube clips, like videos from CollegeHumor or Funny Or Die. He’ll appreciate your awesome sense of humor.

5. Text him when something reminds you of him — but not 24/7.

If you hear your song on the radio, shoot him a quick text: “X song just came on—thinking of you! Hope you’re having a great day!” This shows him that he’s on your mind, but you’re also totally cool with keeping the convo less-than-novel length.

“Send him flirty, fun texts [and] photos of things that make you think about him when you're out,” Oshima says.

It’s important not to go overboard with your texts, though. If you text him all the time, there’s a serious chance of coming off as clingy, which is a totally unattractive quality in a partner! Make sure to have fun on your own, too. It’s only a downward spiral after the obsessive texting starts. Have a fabulous time on your own and with your family and friends — you’ll feel great about yourself because you’ll know you don’t need to rely on him to be happy.

“It's important to not spend the entire summer missing him and being depressed,” Oshima says. “Otherwise, you'll seem too needy to him, and that will be a huge turnoff.  So you have to have a balance and show him you're thinking about him, but you're also having a fun, great summer even without him.”

We know you’ll miss him this summer, but at least there are ways to alleviate the hardships of an LDR. Look at it this way, collegiettes — fall is just around the corner (seriously, summer is never forever), and soon you’ll actually be missing the days when you could wear cute Target bikinis and sip virgin margaritas by the pool. Don’t take it for granted!


The 15 Stages of a Family Road Trip

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For several reasons, family road trips never seem to be as fun as they look in the movies. Even though ones like RV, We're the Millers and Little Miss Sunshine show the more dysfunctional (and realistic) side of what those days in the car can be like, we still feel like no one understands the love-hate relationship we have with these adventures. From avoiding your dad's road game ideas and ignoring your sister's way-too-loud music, staying sane on a family road trip is pretty much a full time job. Here's our take on the stages of survival in the car.

1. Before you've even gotten in the car, your parents are way too excited about this road trip.

Maybe it won't be as bad as you think. Maybe.

2. You double check that you have everything packed - and you remember to go to the bathroom. Twice.

Next step: Harassing all of your family members to do the same.

3. Inevitably, there will be some fight over who is sitting where in the car - especially when your younger brother tries to take your seat.

The youngest always gets the back seat. Deal with it.

4. It takes you ten minutes, but you finally find a position in your seat that's comfortable.

Well, as comfortable as you can be after accepting that you will never actually be comfortable.

5. Not even half an hour after you've left the house, you have to turn around because someone forgot a phone charger and your dad left the oven on.

Thanks for nothing, family.

6. You're trying not to start any drama, but your sister is playing Taylor Swift so loudly that her headphones may as well be speakers.

You like the remix of "Bad Blood" just as much as she does, but you would much prefer to listen to it on your own.

7. When you finally convince her to turn it down, your dad decides that a better soundtrack for the road would be a family song.

Should you jump out the car now, or wait until you stop for gas to make a run for it?

8. By the time the song is over, all you want to do is sleep and listen to your own music.

You're allowed to be anti-social, even when there are at least four people within arm's reach of you.

9. You've just started to fall asleep when your brother announces that he has to go to the bathroom and can't hold it.

*Cue him climbing over you to get out of the car, spilling crumbs from the Doritos he'd been eating all over your lap as he does*

10. On the bright side, you grab a bag of your favorite pretzels inside the otherwise disgusting gas station.

Your one ray of hope.

11. You've hardly eaten one before your sister says she's going to be sick - and the nearest bag is, yep, the one holding your pretzels.

Because apparently vomit can't wait for your dad to pull the car over. Sigh.

12. You're trying not to be a grouch, but if your brother asks "Are we there yet?" one more time, you're going to scream.

WE'LL GET THERE WHEN WE GET THERE, DUDE.

13. At this point, you actually wish for something to go so wrong on this trip that you end up having to get shuttled to the nearest airport and fly to your destination.

Like a melodramatic thirteen-year-old girl, you actually contemplate drawing "HELP" on a piece of paper and taping it to your window.

14. If there's one good thing that comes out of it, your followers on Twitter are loving your live tweets of your misery.

It's funny as hell when you're not the one in the car.

15. By the time you arrive, you don't think you've ever been happier to be on land again.

Next family road trip, you'll bring a bottle of wine.

11 Thoughts Every Girl Has at the Beach

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Spending an afternoon at the beach means working on your tan, scoping out cute boys and finally getting to show off that adorable new bikini. Laying out under the sun is practically paradise! Here are 11 thoughts every girl has at the beach.

1. TO THE WATER!

2. Wait, is that a jellyfish?

3. Why is everyone else tanner than I am?

4. Does the beach get Wi-Fi?

5. It's been two seconds and this beach towel is already covered with sand.

6. So. Many. Hot. Shirtless. Guys.

7. I think I want to date a surfer.

8. Let's take a jumping picture!

9. Where are my so-called beach waves?

10. I can't forget to Instagram a pic of my feet in the sand!

11. I might never move from this spot ever again.

The 15 Coolest Socks You'll Find at Forever 21

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There’s no denying it—socks are awesome. A cool print can brighten up your day in no time, and we know you’ll fall head over heels for these pairs. You can get them all from Forever 21 right now, so what are you waiting for? Scroll down for some silly socks that are everything you’ve always wanted out of hosiery.

1. When you're feeling crabby

These socks ($1.50) will cheer you up every time.

2. Fly sky high

This pair ($3.90) takes airline socks to a whole new level.

3. Take the jelly beyond your belly

These ones ($12) are almost good enough to eat. We said "almost."

4. Check-er these out

These socks ($1.50) are calling your name.

5. Be careful...

You might just die from cuteness overload ($3.90).

6. Is anyone else hungry?

No? Just us? Oh. Thankfully, you don't need a hearty appetite to rock these socks ($8).

7. Oopsy daisies

We would like to formally apologize for that awful pun, but we definitely don't regret including these socks ($3.90). You're welcome.

8. "Be yourself. Unless you can be a unicorn...

 

Then always be a unicorn." Or wear a bunch of them on your socks ($1.50).

9. For when you need a little vitamin C

We're a little freaked out at how life-like these pineapple socks ($3.90) are.

10. Who knew sharks could be this cute?

These socks ($2.90) just made Jaws a whole lot easier to watch.

11. We can get down with rainbow colors

Show off your pride with these fun neon socks ($1.50)!

12. Just some casual dogs in space

We are so happy that these socks ($12) exist.

13. 'Murica

We love us some stars and stripes ($3.92).

14. We scream for ice-cream

These socks ($1.90) are better than scarfing down that pint of cookies and cream. At least, that's what we're telling ourselves.

15. Daaaawww

Embrace your inner cat lady with these awesome ankle socks ($8).

Unicorns or hot dogs—what will it be, collegiettes? That's one question we thought we'd never ask.

7 Celebs Who Shaved Their Heads & Looked AMAZING

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Remember when Britney Spears shaved her head back in 2007, shocking the world (and not in the best way)? Unfortunately for Britney, the buzz didn’t quite work on her, but there are other female celebs who absolutely killed the short and shaved look. Here are 7 celebrities who kind of make us want to shave our heads, too.

Charlize Theron

Talk about committing to a role. Charlize Theron shaved her head to shoot the post-apocalyptic action film, Mad Max: Fury Road (currently in theaters). ET Online quoted Theron saying, “This was an exciting one for me… I just had this moment where I was like ‘I need to shave my head!’” You go, girl. 

Willow Smith

She went from whipping her hair back and forth to shaving it all off. Back when Willow Smith was 12, she drastically changed her famous hair. Although the decision was met with criticism from the media, you’ve got to give the young star credit for such a bold change.

Chrisette Michele

While this R&B singer has rocked a number of hairstyles in the past (and looked fabulous in all of them), her shaved look was particularly stunning. Michele told the media that she shaved it because she wanted to embrace her natural hair, plus it proved easier to manage while she was on tour.

Solange Knowles

Beyoncé isn’t the only ***flawless one in the Knowles family. A couple years ago, Knowles shaved her head and tweeted, “I just wanted to be free from the bondage that black women sometimes put on themselves with their hair.” 

Demi Moore & Tallulah Willis

Like mother, like daughter! In 1997, Demi Moore cut off her locks for her role in G. I. Jane. Eighteen years later, inspired by the film, Tallulah Willis decided to follow her mother’s lead and shave her head as well. The best part is that Moore helped shave her daughter’s head, an event which Willis Instagrammed and titled “mommy-daughter bonding activities.”

Natalie Portman

It doesn’t matter if she’s starring in romantic comedies or psychological thrillers; Natalie Portman always manages to look gorgeous. Starring in V for Vendetta was no different. This powerhouse actress shaved her head for the role, won multiple awards for her performance and looked awesome doing it.

Amber Rose

Amber Rose’s shaved head was dramatic, to say the least. This hip-hop star wore her hair long—as in below her butt long—for a while before cutting it all off. Her blonde buzz cut became a fashion statement, and we’ll be the first to say she looks amazing.

Whose shaved look is your favorite, collegiettes?

Which Celebrity Squad Do You Belong In?

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We really do love our friends, but if you say that you’ve watched the “Bad Blood” music video or seen Kendall Jenner’s ultimate supermodel bathroom selfie without #squadgoals crossing your mind, you’re probably lying. It’s impossible to scroll through Instagram, see our favorite celebrity cliques and not wonder whether we are better suited for the exclusive “Feeling Myself” duo of Beyoncé and Nicki Minaj or Taylor’s all inclusive gang of girls. Since we can’t all be Cara Delevingne and hop effortlessly from friend group to friend group, find out what celeb squad would welcome you with open arms based on your personality type.

Team Taylor


 

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Okay, so at some point we have all totally been Molly Ringwald and begged Taylor to let us be a part of her squad (we know she sees our Tweets!). However no need to fear, as long as you didn’t sabotage her stadium tour or break her heart, Taylor would probably be more than happy to have you in her crew. The girls of Team Taylor are friendly, fierce, stylish, and always down for any party that involves a photo booth. If you easily get along with a wide variety of people, aren’t afraid to speak your mind, and don’t mind making a cameo in a music video or on tour then this friend group is the one for you.

Your Friend Group Includes: Selena Gomez, Karlie Kloss, Gigi Hadid, Jaime King, Martha Hunt, Cara Delevingne and Zendaya (just to name a few)

Models of the Moment


If strutting the runway for the hottest names at Fashion Week or jetting around the world for your next magazine cover shoot sounds up your alley, then you would definitely fit in with the top models crew. This group is ideal for those who are fun loving, fashionable, and don’t mind being the center of attention.

Your Friend Group Includes: Kendall Jenner, Gigi Hadid, Cara Delevingne, Joan Smalls and Jourdan Dunn

Pretty Little Posse


 

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Whether you are completely obsessed with or completely over all of this “A” business, the fact that the Pretty Little Liars ladies represent all our friendship goals is undeniable. These babes are just as close and flawless in real life as they are on TV. If you love having a close-knit, small group of friends, then look no further than this group. Those who are a bit mischievous and enjoy a little bit of gossip and drama in their life will feel right at home. Hopefully, the only secrets that you will be keeping are the ones that you tell each other. And if you’re lucky, you might just get a super cute BFF nickname like ButtahBenzo.

Your Friend Group Includes: Shay Mitchell, Ashley Benson, Lucy Hale, Troian Bellisario and Sasha Pieterse

Orange is the New BFF Goals


 

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If you don’t take yourself too seriously and you love a laidback Netflix night as much as you do a crazy girl’s night out, then these are your ride-or-die friends. They are effortlessly cool and there is always a fun time to be had no matter the time or place. If you are a strong woman who loves to be surrounded by empowering and supportive gal pals who are interested in making a difference, you have found your gals. These girls will always have your back and your bond will be unbreakable.

Your Friend Group Includes: Laura Prepon, Taylor Schilling, Uzo Aduba, Dascha Polanco, Danielle Brooks and Ruby Rose

Queen Crew


 

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We don’t know if any of us could actually get into this elite crew, but we can dream, right?! As soon as we saw the “Feeling Myself” music video (aka the GIFs and pictures), we knew that Bey and Nicki were two ladies we definitely wanted to join (and be just like). If you are a feminist who wakes up flawless, you might just be able to find a place in this exclusive duo. These ladies do not take no for an answer, are fearless in their fashion choices, and will never fail to tell you exactly what they are thinking. For those of you who share those qualities and aren’t afraid to embrace your inner queen, welcome to the Queen Crew.

Your Friend Group Includes: Beyoncé and Nicki Minaj

Sister Squad


 

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For some of us, our sisters are our best friends. So why shouldn’t our friend group reflect that? If you are most loyal to the friends who you have known forever, this is the squad for you. If with your sisters, whether by birth or through friendship, you feel comfortable and confident, then these girls will be your best friends. You won’t have to worry about explaining yourself or feeling intimidated because they know you inside and out and will always be there to provide the best sisterly advice.

Your Friend Group Includes: Kendall Jenner, Kylie Jenner, Hailey Baldwin, Gigi Hadid and Bella Hadid

Kardashian Klique


 

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Oh what we wouldn’t give to be in a group selfie with these three famous sisters. If you have a strong selfie game, believe that you should have your own reality show, or don’t have a problem calling people out when they are “literally being so rude,” you might be able to convince these ladies that you should be able to hang with them. It would also really help if your name starts with a “K.” Tip: Get on Kim’s good side by volunteering to babysit North.

Your Friend Group Includes: Kourtney, Khloe and Kim Kardashian

The Angels


 

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How can you watch the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show and not envy those beautiful wings (and those abs, let's be real)? Aside from being absolutely stunning, this friend group basically brings a party whereever they go. Whether on the runway or at Coachella, only the most high energy, adventurous girls can call this group their own.

Your Friend Group Includes: Alessandra Ambrosio, Adriana Lima, Jasmine Tookes, Lily Aldridge and Candice Swanepoel

What squad do you belong in, collegiettes?

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