Anyone with a dairy allergy or sensitivity has experienced the pain of watching friends enjoy a big bowl of ice cream on a hot summer day. Even if there are non-dairy options available, they just don't compare to that creamy, rich ice cream that comes in a bazillion flavors.

Now, vegans and lactose intolerants can kiss those scarring memories goodbye. Ben & Jerry's, the famous ice cream superpower, has heard your prayers.

The brand has already accommodated our gluten-free friends, and has even added frozen yogurt and sorbets to their list of heavenly frozen treats for the health-savvy. But until now, no major ice cream company, Ben & Jerry's included, has introduced a dairy-free option. According to an exclusive interview in Metro.co.uk, that's all about to change.

Like lesser known brands, such as So Delicious Dairy Free, Ben & Jerry's will be utilizing creamy and refreshing coconut milk (or almond milk—let's hope you weren't burdened with a nut allergy and a dairy allergy) to create a whole new line of vegan-friendly ice cream. Considering Ben & Jerry's power in the ice cream world, we have hopes that whatever they come up with, it'll come in as many flavors as their classic ice cream. If you're listening, Ben and Jerry, we'd love a vegan Cookie Core!

Unfortunately, you'll have to defer your dairy-free ice cream dreams for one more year. This idea is still in its early stages, and the new ice cream won't be appearing on shelves until Spring 2016. Of course, we're sure it'll be worth the wait—good ol' Jerry, co-founder of Ben & Jerry's and our sweet treat hero, promises it'll be "delicious." 

What vegan-friendly flavor are you pining for?

We love to admire the beautiful and creative covers that adorn the magazines piled in our rooms, but what's really in a cover? Apparently, a lot! When it comes down to it, there's tons of significance glowing from behind the gloss—and for good reason.

Magazines have been a prominent part of American culture for as long as we can remember. Their covers—which reach audiences that many generic and formal news sources fail to reach—have stirred a fair share of controversy, often presenting taboo topics, emotional news stories, and groundbreaking fashion. Fashion magazine covers hold particular interest in popular media, trendsetting infamous styles and showcasing world-famous celebrities, models, and designers, while often defining current culture in the process. From iconic to innovative and controversial to catalytic, we've chronologically compiled a list of some of the most talked about fashion magazine covers in history.

1. Vogue, September 1933

The emblem of all things fashion, Vogue has had its fair share of iconic covers. Of particular fame is Vogue's first ever cover girl, model Toto Koopman. This cover defined the future of fashion magazines, who all immediately took a liking to the notion of cover girls. Even more progressive, selecting Toto Koopman was a bold move. Identifying as both bisexual and biracial (not to mention also serving as a spy!), Koopman's feature was likely to cause quite a stir.

2. Harper's Bazaar, April 1965

This history-making cover features model Jean Shrimpton and serves as a frequently referenced representation of the sixties. Featuring white, bright pink, and green, the cover is a perfect example of the Mod fashion era, and Shrimpton's Twiggy-esque lashes are right on trend! 

3. Cosmopolitan, July 1965

This oldie takes a special place in the hearts of any women's magazine lover, as it serves as the cover of the groundbreaking issue that redefined Cosmopolitan magazine as a progressive, female-centric publication. Thanks to this issue, Cosmopolitan became infamous as the country's favorite women's magazine. Even more important, this cover kick-started the women's magazine industry, leading to previously taboo topics, such as women's sexuality, becoming more accepted and discussed. Cheers to that!

4. Glamour, August 1968

This cover quickly made history as the first fashion magazine to feature an African American woman as a cover girl. Shining beautiful and bright, college student Katiti Kironde shows off her chic fashion sense, featured after winning the title of "Best Dressed College Girl"—way to go, Katiti!

5. Vanity Fair, August 1991

While glamorous pregnancy photos have become mainstream in pop culture as of late, they weren't always so accepted! When Demi Moore bared it all on this cover, many Americans were displeased. There was serious controversy surrounding the photo, with some arguing that it was inappropriate and others stating it was objectifying. Now, we recognize that a women's body—in all of its forms—is a truly amazing thing, and we greatly appreciate Demi's risky choice!

6. Harper's Bazaar, September 1992

This cover is an emblem of the rise in credibility and prestige that Harper's Bazaar experienced when Editor-in-Chief Liz Tilberis took charge of the magazine. Model Linda Evangelista's glamor is striking, and the teasing tagline "Enter the Era of Elegance" leaves any reader intrigued. The magazine world was sure to be buzzing as Tilberis successfully reinvented the publication, making it the fashion-forward and innovative magazine it is today. 

7. W Magazine, November 2010

The first of many magazine cover scandals featuring the Kardashians, this cover faced an overhaul of criticism upon its release. Kim Kardashian has been extremely open to releasing nude photos for the public eye, and many praise her confidence and pride, but there will always be haters, and this cover had many. After all, even Kim was a little shocked at the final image, expressing displeasure on an episode of Kourtney and Kim Take Manhattan. 

8. Vogue Italia, June 2011

We're all for the recent push towards body positivity in current pop culture (it's about time!), and we've got Vogue Italia to thank! This cover photo—featuring models Tara Lynn, Candice Huffine, and Robyn Lawley—became a hot topic almost immediately after its release, and understandably so. Vogue is often referred to as the ultimate name of the fashion industry, and with fashion's historic focus on size zero models and extremely thin figures, many were stunned (and relieved) when this issue hit shelves. However, Vogue isn't the only magazine known for breaking the size barrier in the industry. Elle, Cosmopolitan, and many others have featured plus-size models on their international covers. Of course, there was definitely some controversy surrounding the photo. Many point out that the photo set, featuring plates of food, reinforces the negative stereotype that weight is all about food intake, which we all know isn't true!

9. Paper, Winter 2014

Who could forget this controversial classic? Kim took part in this scandalous photo shoot in an attempt to "break the Internet" and if that means stirring up buzz, she succeeded! Complaints were numerous, ranging from disappointment at the obvious Photoshopping to some pretty outdated and gender-biased statements that as a mother, Kim shouldn't have exposed herself. The cover, featuring Kim's bare bottom, has definitely made pop culture history. 

10. Vogue, April 2014

Many fashion followers expressed displeasure when Vogue released this controversial cover. Questioning Kim and Kanye's qualifications for being featured (Vogue is a prestigious platform for high fashion, after all, and not just anyone can make the cover), America quickly took to debate, and many mocked the image with spoofs. Talk about this hot topic peaked when Editor-In-Chief Anna Wintour joined the conversation, defending her choice for the cover. Regardless of our opinion on the image, anything that leads to a public statement from magazine legend Anna Wintour is big news to us!

11. Vanity Fair, July 2015

Last but not least, we're all obsessed with Caitlyn Jenner's debut on the cover of Vanity Fair. The image has sparked an unbelievable amount of talk and support, and we're all inspired by Caitlyn's beauty and bravery. The release has most definitely been catalytic, but for the most part, in an overwhelmingly positive way. We couldn't be happier for you, Caitlyn!

Which cover is your favorite, collegiettes?

We’ll be honest; sometimes we don’t take the best care of our hair. With straighteners, curling irons and blow dryers, not to mention the sun, surf and chlorine, we put our hair through hell. If you’re anything like us, your strands might be looking a little worse for wear and are definitely in need of some serious TLC. If this sounds like you, read on to find HC’s best recommendations for getting your locks back in tip-top shape.

1. Get a trim regularly

If you have super-damaged hair, you should consider chopping it off. No, we’re not talking an Emma Watson pixie cut (though that would be super cute, if you’re feeling adventurous!). Her Campus spoke with Ilonce Kopacsi, hair stylist at Spa Mosaic in Wakefield, Rhode Island, about the benefits of trimming your hair.

“If you trim your hair every eight to nine weeks, even just what’s splitting at the ends, it’s going to make your hair so much healthier,” Kopacsi says. “You’ll avoid having to cut your hair more than you’d want to later on.” We’ve all been there, and it’s not a place we want to revisit.

If you have long hair, try a style that hits you at your collarbone. Your strands are most damaged at the ends, so getting a trim will get rid of the bulk of the problem, make it much easier to deal with the rest of your hair and instantly make your locks look and feel healthier.

2. Clarify and remove any buildup

If your hair is limp, lifeless and dull, there’s a good chance you have product buildup, especially if you style your hair frequently. Try to incorporate a clarifying shampoo, likeNeutrogena Anti-Residue Shampoo ($5.99), into your shower routine once a week to remove buildup and keep it from weighing your hair down. The main difference between normal shampoo and a clarifying shampoo is that a clarifier isn’t designed to moisturize your hair or smooth it down. Since clarifying shampoos are specifically designed to remove buildup, you may need to use a bit more conditioner afterwards to add moisture back into your strands.

3. Wait a day between washes

You’ve probably been told time and time again that washing your hair every day isn’t good for it, but if you’re anything like us, you’ve ignored that particular piece of advice in favor of freshly washed locks. The reason experts say to wait a day or two between washes is because over-washing your hair can strip it of its natural oils, causing it to become frizzy and brittle.

It’s not quite as dramatic as it sounds, however, as Kopacsi points out. “Some people produce more oil than others and they feel like they need to wash more often to keep their hair clean,” she says. “You do want your hair to produce the natural oils that keep it healthy, but it’s not necessarily a bad thing to wash it every day.”

If your strands are already damaged, you definitely want to prevent any further distress by allowing your hair to produce oils naturally. Try washing your hair every other day (or three to four times a week) and using a dry shampoo, like Not Your Mother’s Clean Freak Refreshing Dry Shampoo ($5.99), to control any excess shine between washes. A dry shampoo is basically an aerosol spray that you can spray into the roots of your hair to absorb oil and give the appearance of freshly washed hair, which is great for the collegiette on the go. “If you can push your hair a few days between washes, do it!”  Kopacsi says.

4. Switch to gentler styling tools and methods

If you really can’t part with pin-straight strands or bouncy curls, you should at least consider switching to gentler heat-styling products to reduce damage to your locks. Check out ionic hairdryers, which use negative ions to neutralize positive ions (which damage hair) and also speed up the drying process by breaking up H₂O molecules more quickly.

Another tip to remember is to “always use a heat protectant spray that coats your hair to protect it from the heat,” Kopacsi says. Before you touch your hair with any sort of heat tool, make sure you’re using a heat protecting spray to coat your hair and create a barrier (and also reduce frizz!).

Another thing to note is the heat of your tools; try to use the lowest possible heat that will still get the job done to avoid stressing your hair out more than necessary.

5. Use a deep-conditioning hair mask

Think of hair masks as a giant gulp of water for parched and frazzled hair. They restore shine and moisture to your locks. They also soften strands to prevent future breakage and make frizzy hair much more manageable. You can pick up a deep-conditioning mask, like L’Oreal Paris Advanced Haircare Total Repair 5 Damage Erasing Balm ($5.99), at the drugstore. Massage the mask into your hair after you shampoo and let it sit for three to five minutes before rinsing.

While a regular conditioner is also designed to moisturize your strands, a deep conditioner is left on much longer than a regular conditioner and has more heavy-duty moisturizing properties. Deep-conditioning masks tend to contain richer ingredients, making them too heavy to use on a regular basis (they will weigh down your hair), but they’re the perfect weekly treatment for dry locks. For a complete hair-care overhaul, you might want to replace your shampoo and normal conditioners as well. “Using a nice mask once or twice a week will give you that extra moisture,” Kopacsi says. “But finding shampoos and conditioners that give you added moisture or are designed for coarse or damaged hair will also help.”

If you’re more of a DIY gal, try a homemade hair mask. Generously coat wet hair with oil and comb it through—you can use olive oil, coconut oil or Moroccan argan oil, like this one from Organix ($7.99). Once you’ve applied the oil, tuck your hair into a shower cap and wrap a warm towel (fresh from the dryer!) around your head. Let everything sit for at least 10 minutes. You can also use a hairdryer to warm up the oil in the shower cap or sit outside if it’s a sunny day. After 10 to 15 minutes, remove the cap and thoroughly rinse out your hair for revitalized locks.

6. Use a protective spray at the beach

We’re so diligent about protecting our skin from the sun, but we often forget that a day at the beach can damage our hair, too. Not only can the sun bleach and fade your hair color, but it can also dry out your ends, especially if you’re taking a dip in the ocean or a pool. The chlorine in a pool can have a chemically bleaching effect on your hair, causing your hair’s natural oils to dissolve and causing friction and breakage, while the salt in the ocean dries out your strands the same way it dries out your skin.

Kopacsi explains that hair follicles absorb moisture, so before you hit the beach, apply a protective leave-in conditioner or spray, like Rene Furterer Sun Care Protective Summer Oil ($24). This waterproof spray contains a UV-blocking sunscreen and nourishing oils to help condition your hair as it protects. If you don’t have a leave-in conditioner on hand, Kopacsi recommends wetting your hair with tap water so that your hair will be too saturated to absorb any damaging salt or chlorine.

7. Restore shine with a gloss treatment

If you’re looking for instant gratification (or your cousin’s wedding is coming up and you refuse to have hair that looks like straw), a gloss treatment can work wonders on hair that’s been damaged by heat styling. Unlike normal hair dye, a gloss changes the tone rather than the color of your hair. “You can do a gloss treatment with a semi-permanent color or just a clear gloss,” Kopacsi says. “The gloss will not necessarily restore moisture, but it will add shine and brighten up dull hair and make your color more balanced with your roots.” Think of a gloss as a way to add instant life back into your locks!

The process involves coating the strands with a silicone-based gloss to penetrate strands and restore shine. After combing the gloss through the hair, the treatment is left on for 15 to 20 minutes to allow for maximum penetration. The entire process takes about 30 minutes and costs around $20 to $40. Your treatment can last up to two months, and it not only adds glossy shine, but even strengthens your hair follicles and reduces the risk of split ends. Gorgeous color and silky-soft strands? Sign us up!

While we’re definitely not asking our collegiettes to swear off straighteners and curling irons forever, giving our strands a little TLC will do wonders in the long run. Let’s all make a pact to be a little kinder to our hair and start implementing some of these practices to help our locks grow long and strong!

Are you sick of swiping right or left? Tired of using apps to essentially play a digital version of "Hot or Not"? Looking for something more meaningful than a late night hookup? 

Then this new website may be just the thing for you. The way it works is simple: you answer eight questions and based on your responses, you're matched with your soulmate. Sound too good to be true? Well it might be, but 8^8 is claiming just that—with your personalized responses to eight simple questions, they locate someone who has the exact same set of answers (supposedly the chance of this is 1 in 16,777,216) and connect you with that person. Granted, there are several flaws with this theory: what if the person is a phishing scam; what if the person is your 60-year-old gym coach; or most likely of all, what if your so-called soulmate lives halfway across the world? 

We admit it's not a perfect setup, but our hopeless romantic side can't help but be intrigued by this website. Statistically speaking, there is a very slim chance that any of us will ever find our soulmate in the great big universe, so if this website really could help two people who are truly meant to be together unite, we're all for it.

According to 8^8, the more people who participate, the more likely it is that matches will actually be made. So it just might be worth it to give this a go—after all, it's only eight questions!

Big news! ABC Family is bringing two classic TV shows, Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Dawson's Creek, back on the air! The channel will air re-runs of both shows, starting with the pilot episodes. You'll get to watch stellar casts including famous actors like Sarah Michelle Gellar and James Van Der Beek in all their '90s glory.

These '90s favorites helped define a generation, and now they could influence the next one. Buffy ran from 1997-2003, and Dawson's Creek ran from 1998-2003. Dawson's Creek tells the story of four teenagers trying to navigate their way through their adolescent years. Buffy, on the other hand, is about a girl named Buffy Summers who has been called by fate to fight vampires, demons and other dark forces. Trust us, these shows get super juicy!  

More than ten years after these series ended, the iconic characters are making a comeback. Get excited and clear your schedules, collegiettes! These shows will be all you want to watch once they're back on the air. 

Summer getaways are all about beachside resorts, poolside relaxation, and tons of outdoor activity. Needless to say, regular makeup just won't cut it when activity levels rise! Unfortunately, summertime has a lot working against you—salt, sand, surf, and sweat are practically inevitable! Luckily, we've searched rigorously for the best waterproof, heat-proof, sweat-proof, and overall beach-proof makeup, so you can optimize your vacation time with the peace of mind that your makeup will stay put no matter what you do. Whether you're keen on sticking to one brand or are totally down to explore products by category, we've got a comprehensive list that's sure to meet all of your summertime makeup needs. Take a dive with these waterproof makeup-bag staples—they won't disappoint! 

Brands to Look Out For

We totally understand that you might not want to search high and low for your waterproof fix, mixing and matching products from different stores for the perfect beach-ready makeup bag. So, if brand loyalty is your thing, we've got you covered. Here are the best of the best when it comes to makeup brands and lines that promise beach-ready beauty. Rather than feature individual products from these collections (which would result in a complete takeover of our list!), we've decided to highlight the entire line, because these products are too good to pass up.

Make Up Forever Aqua

Everything in this line is waterproof, and better yet, almost every Make Up Forever Aqua product showed up in our search for the best of the best when it comes to beach-proof makeup. We're talking shadows, mascaras, eyeliners, lip liners, lip colors, and even eyebrow correctors. The Aqua Cream ($23, Sephora) is a total multitasker, because depending on the color, it can be used on your lids, lips, or cheeks—it's even been used by Olympic swimmers! Best of all? Use the amazing makeup setter, Aqua Seal ($21, Sephora), to make any makeup waterproof, including whatever is lying in your makeup bag right now! We're seriously impressed.

Stila Stay All Day

Like Make Up Forever Aqua, Stila's Stay All Day monopolized our search, coming up again and again as the most recommended and trusted products. This collection features liquid eyeliners, liquid lipsticks and lip glosses, a foundation and concealer combo, mascara, eye shadow, beauty balms (regular, illuminating, and bronzing, all with SPF), bronzers, and brow tools—basically, everything you could ever need. The line promises to last in all conditions, and the adorable travel-sized options and trial packs are perfect for any beach getaway.

Have some extra time? Explore all of your waterproof options, divided up by category.

Eyeshadow

Maybelline Eye Studio Color Tattoo 24 Hour Eyeshadow ($6.99, cvs.com)

This product promises 24-hour wear with zero creasing, and we can vouch for it! The formula is strong and sturdy, and we all know cream shadows last far longer than powder. Each of the many colors is extremely saturated, meaning that even if it fades (which it shouldn't!) your lids will still retain vibrancy. 

L'Oréal Paris Infallible 24 Hour Eye Shadow ($6.36, Drugstore.com)

Another great pick, this shadow boasts being waterproof, crease-resistant, and fade resistant. Like Maybelline's Color Tattoo shadows, each shade is extremely intense and promises to last all day long. Better yet, the shadow comes in tons of colors, meaning you can find the perfect shade to match your suit!

Eyeliner

Rimmel Scandaleyes Waterproof Kohl Kajal Liner ($4.49, ULTA)

This incredible eyeliner is water-proof, sweat-proof, heat-proof, and humidity-proof, a.k.a. completely beach-proof. It's even safe for those of us with sensitive eyes!

MAC Pro Longwear Eye Liner ($20, Macy's)

Okay, we're pretty much in love with this product. It's water-resistant and stays in place all day. Best of all, it's one of the only liners out there that is completely safe to use on your sensitive waterline.

Mascara

Urban Decay Cannonball Ultra Waterproof Mascara ($20, Nordstrom)

Reviewers are obsessed with this product. And with its unique design that makes us long to jump in the nearest pool, we can't help but share the excitement. Though pricey, this mascara doesn't fool around. The product description includes the phrase "mermaid-worthy," and it's been intensively tested in both the gym and at sea. That's all the proof we need.

Lancome Hypnose 24 Hour Waterproof Mascara ($27.50, Macy's)

Known for one of the best waterproof formulas out there, this mascara packs a serious punch. Say hello to unbelievable volume with a weightless finish, guaranteed to maintain its waterproof powers for a full day. There's even a variety of formulas, from "Doll Eyes" to "Drama," so you can achieve any lash style you desire.

Foundation and BB Cream

Estée Lauder Double Wear Stay-in-Place Makeup ($33.30, Nordstrom)

This product guarantees 15 hours of flawless, heat- and humidity-proof finish, but that's not all. It comes in 31 shades, meaning it'll work for basically anyone, and its light formula will never cake or melt, no matter how many laps you swim. It's so durable that it'll leave absolutely no residue on your white bikini either, and since it's proven to work even during high activity levels, you never have to pass up beach volleyball again. Just make sure you prime with some sunscreen!

Innisfree Mineral Sun Waterproof BB Cream ($21, Innisfreeworld.com)

If you've ever worn a BB cream to the beach, you'll know that they barely budge! The beauty experts all seem to agree that the best beauty balms can be found abroad. Innisfree's Mineral Sun Waterproof BB Cream proves that theory correct. Hailing from Korea, this BB cream is a showstopper. It has an SPF of 50+, and its amazing ingredients, including organic green tea water, aim to help your skin in all the best ways. BB creams are ideal for the beach because of how lightweight they are, and this one is specifically formulated to combat sweat, sun, and sea, so it doesn't smudge. Even better? BB creams' multi-purpose formulas work to perfect your skin from the inside out, meaning that no matter what brand you try, after a few weeks of wear, you'll be left with glowing, natural, and healthy skin!

Concealer

Estée Lauder Double Wear Stay-in-Place Flawless Wear Concealer ($24, Sephora)

The product description marks this concealer as "water, perspiration, and humidity-resistant" so it definitely won't melt away. Its promise of 15-hour wear guarantees no fading or creasing, and just like the Double Wear Stay-in-Place foundation, it's never going to leave makeup stains on your swimsuit.

Tarte Amazonian Clay Waterproof 12-Hour Concealer ($23, Sephora)

Tarte's waterproof products have been used by the famous synchronized swimming team, the Aqualillies, and we can see why! The easy-breezy brushless applicator and skin-balancing Amazonian clay are enough to get us addicted, so with its excellent wear time and completely waterproof formula, we're hooked. If you're looking to get some highlighting in as well, we recommend choosing a shade lighter than your normal skin tone.

Bronzer and Blush

Tarte Amazonian Clay Waterproof Bronzer ($30, Sephora)

Basically, anything made from Amazonian clay is perfect for the beach. This bronzer, like Tarte's concealer, is made to withstand water while gliding on extremely lightly for a natural look. Mineral-infused, the formula will smooth and sooth skin.

Cargo Swimmables Water Resistant Blush ($26, Dermstore.com)

Reviewers are raving about this lovely, buttery product. Coming in three to-die-for shades—a soft tangerine, a shimmery bright pink, and a subtle rose—this blush means business. Like all of the best beach beauty products, its totally tear-proof, sweat-proof, and heat-proof. Its formula is silicone-coated for ultimate water resistance and strong adhesion to your skin. If you fall in love, they have a waterproof bronzer, too ($29, Dermstore.com)!

Brows

Too Faced Bullet Proof Brows ($30, ULTA)

The description for this product speaks for itself. It claims to be a "powder, gel, pencil, and setting wax" all in one. The formula gives "24-hour, waterproof, smudge-proof, budge-proof" brows—impressive!

Bobbi Brown Perfectly Defined Long-Wear Brow Pencil ($42, Sephora)

This brow pencil has got water-proof, sweat-resistant, humidity-resistant, and fade-proof superpowers. Its variety of shades all last for 16 hours—what could be better?

Lips

Stila Stay All Day Liquid Lipstick ($22, Sephora)

For lips, we reverted back to our full cosmetic line suggestions, because honestly, no products work better! Stila's Stay All Day Liquid Lipstick is creamy yet weightless, and will seriously stay put for up to six hours. The colors are also totally chic, coming in bright and floral hues perfect for some summertime shine.

Make Up Forever Aqua Rogue ($24, Sephora)

These waterproof, fade-proof, and transfer-proof colors are hard to beat. Two-sided, the applicator has both a vibrant color and a sheer gloss to top off your look. Best of all, while it'll stick to your lips, it won't make your lips sticky, and the creamy gloss feels fresh and smooth, so you'll maintain the perfect, kissable pout all vacation long.

Whether you plan on spending the next few months at the beach, are longing to soak up the sun, have a lifeguarding gig at the nearest pool, or simply aim to be out and about this summer, these beachy beauty products will keep you covered—no matter how many cannonballs you perfect. 

Which products will you be storing in your beach bag?

Your boyfriend is truly amazing, and you’re perfect together… but sometimes, he doesn’t think twice about letting out a little sexist comment. He doesn’t realize it, but it can be offensive to your feminist ideals. Or maybe you’ve tried explaining feminism to him and he rejected the concept for some reason that evades you. Whatever the reasoning (or lack thereof) behind his attitude, it bothers you that he doesn’t support you in this way. Luckily, we’re here to help you make sense of this situation.

The situation: He misunderstands feminism

Even when we don’t realize it, feminism is a big part of our lives as modern collegiettes. We’re no longer pursuing our “MRS degrees,” and our world is getting closer and closer to embracing gender equality. We aren’t quite there yet, and this comes through in your boyfriend’s macho banter.

If your boyfriend tells or laughs at sexist jokes, he might just not realize that he’s being inappropriate. But if he undermines the concept of feminism specifically, this could be based on the all-too-common misconception that feminists are man-hating, domineering, cold women.

“It’s important to remember that just because a college woman’s boyfriend – or any other male peer – misunderstands feminism doesn’t necessarily mean he’s anti-feminist,” says Julie Zeilinger, author of A Little F’d Up: Why Feminism Is Not A Dirty Word and feminist blogger. Instead, Zeilinger says, it’s important to understand that “men today are raised in a culture that largely promotes (false) anti-feminist stereotypes, such as that feminists hate men or want power over men (rather than equality), which may lead them to be skeptical of the movement or people who associate with it.”

How to deal

“Just because [your boyfriend] may have been raised this way doesn’t necessarily mean that [he is] sexist,” Zeilinger says. “It more likely means that [he] probably [hasn’t] been exposed to the truth about the feminist movement.” As his girlfriend, you have the power to change this. College is for learning, after all!

When you bring up the subject, make sure you’re not angry at him. “You should always tackle a testy subject once you have cooled down,” says Laurel House, a dating coach and author of Screwing the Rules: The No-Games Guide to Love. “If you snap back or attack, absolutely nothing you say will be heard. It’s best to bring it up later that day or even the next day.” Proper timing is crucial if you want your boyfriend to truly reevaluate his beliefs about feminism.

One issue might be that he thinks there are no inequalities to fight in such a progressive setting as a university campus. “However, various types of inequality and discrimination are also present in the college setting – like, just to name one example, the underrepresentation of women in STEM fields/academic departments,” Zeilinger says. “In the face of this persistent inequality, feminism is as relevant as ever.”

If you tell your SO this and the other reasons why you identify as a feminist, he should understand where you’re coming from and hopefully rally to your cause!

Finally, if you’re unsure how to explain the concept of feminism to him, start with Zeilinger’s simple and effective definition: “Feminism is, on the most basic level, a movement that pursues social, political and economic equality.” But how does this apply to you? “Feminism is especially relevant for college women because college is a time to figure out who you are, what you’re interested in and what you want to pursue – all tenants of independence and self-realization that are inherently feminist,” Zeilinger says. In other words, if he supports your right to personal and professional growth, he unknowingly supports feminism already. It just needed to be clarified!

The situation: He is openly against feminism

Emily Schulz, a senior at the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse, says her last boyfriend openly disapproved of feminism.

“I am a women's studies minor and a very outspoken feminist,” Emily says. “He was a conservative business major. I knew from the start we would never last based on our fundamental differences, but when we kept the conversation light, we had a lot of fun together.”

Feminism plays a central role in Emily’s life, and she wanted to share this with her SO, but he remained unreceptive. “There was one time when I knew we had to end our relationship,” she says. “I brought up something I'd read in various research studies for one of my women's studies classes. He continued to dispute anything I said, and in the end, simply said, ‘I think that information is wrong,’ as though all of my research and the scholars' findings that I was citing were flat-out made-up lies.”

There are two problems with Emily’s situation: First, her boyfriend undermined entirely legitimate facts and research findings. Second, he was unwilling to support his partner in an area that was so central to her whole belief system.

“After a while, he would just say that he didn't care and wished politics only revolved around the important stuff – meaning the economy – and that the social issues just distracted from that. Which, again, undervalues feminism and social justice,” Emily says.

You shouldn’t have to stand for any behavior or speech that belittles who you are or what you believe in – not ever, but especially not coming from a significant other.

How to deal

First off, you need to draw the line between unintentionally offensive banter and beliefs that just cannot align with your own. The harsh reality is that if your try to educate your boyfriend about feminism and he continues to subscribe to sexist ideals, he probably isn’t worth having in your life. In this case, you should probably break things off.

“At the end of the day, you should be with someone who makes your life better – who challenges you, who makes you a better version of yourself and makes you happy,” Zeilinger says. “I don’t believe any relationship in which one partner belittles another or believes [he’s] better than another can meet those qualifications.”

As an ambitious and independent woman, the last thing you need is someone ridiculing your core values. If your partner makes you feel this way, he’s a poor excuse for a partner. You deserve to be in a respectful, equal relationship, and if this guy can’t see that, you are SO much better on your own.

The situation: He follows a double standard

A guy might insist on paying for your dinner to show you he cares, but not accept that you pay for the same reasons. In this case he means well, but it might make you uncomfortable, as was the case for Naomi*, a recent graduate from Northwestern University.

“The guy I'm dating is super into paying for everything, and it took a while for him to come around,” Naomi says. “He would assure me that wanting to pay was just how he liked to take care of the women he dated and an important way, for him, to show that he cared.”

Naomi’s partner identifies as a feminist, but apparently not in this way. “He'd say things like paying for our dates had everything to do with being the man he wanted to be and nothing to do with the woman he thought I should be, and insisted that he didn't want me to feel any pressure,” Naomi explains.

Although Naomi felt uncomfortable, this guy clearly respected her as a person and as a feminist. However, there are instances when your SO could follow an [unacceptable] double standard, such as always wanting to know your whereabouts without disclosing his, getting jealous of you talking to other guys but flirting with other girls himself or thinking your sexual number says more about you than his says about him.

How to deal

If you are in a caring, balanced and understanding relationship, your partner will ultimately be happy to compromise to meet your needs.

Naomi eventually told her SO how she felt. “I went with it for a while, but eventually had to sit down and discuss with him that it made me uncomfortable and that I would love to split things more evenly in the future,” Naomi says. “After hearing my side of things, we did just that. It was easy as that.”

Before jumping to conclusions, try to make him aware of his behavior. “Communicate how it makes you feel when he hounds you for information, but seems to hide his whereabouts,” House says. “Reverse the situation for him. How would it make him feel if you constantly questioned what he was up to, but didn’t reveal what you did during your alone time? Relationships should be even, with fair and level expectations.”

If he cares about you, he will understand where you’re coming from and adapt accordingly, but if he openly rejects your argument, you should be very concerned. His attitude could be “indicative of abusive behavior,” Zeilinger says. “Tolerating abusive behavior, or any behavior which positions your partner as having or deserving more power than you in the relationship, is unacceptable.” You should break up with someone like this or speak to a school counselor if you don’t feel able to do it alone.

The situation: He treats you as inferior

There is a clear difference between a nice guy who speaks without a filter and someone who obviously thinks of you as inferior. Karina Reddy, a recent graduate from Boston University, was once seeing a guy who asked her to come hang out with his friends because she made him “look good” – a comment that makes us grind our teeth. “I felt objectified, and it made me feel, along with other things he'd said, that he thought women were there to sit next to him looking pretty to impress his friends,” Karina says.

You do not deserve to – and should never – accept any kind of patronizing, belittling or objectification. If your gender changes the way someone treats you, then that person is not one you want in your life.

How to deal

Some things can be tolerated, but lack of respect is not one of them. “As long as your boyfriend or male friend clearly respects you as an individual, cares about what you think and treats you with kindness, then it may be okay to take some tough behavior or macho joking with a grain of salt,” Zeilinger says.

As in the case of double standards, “it’s unacceptable if it’s not clear to you that this person [respects] you,” Zeilinger says. “If your boyfriend treats you like [his] property and makes it clear that [he’s] in control and [is] more important in some way, then that is a clear indicator that your relationship is unhealthy.” Here too, you should get yourself out of this potentially dangerous situation or seek out help to do so.

So many people misunderstand the essence of feminism, but the vast majority of them can be swayed by a proper explanation, including your boyfriend. If he’s smart, he’ll understand the relevance of this theory. If he cares about you, he’ll embrace your value system and respect you all the more for it. But if he insists on keeping up his sexist ways, it’s probably time to let him go (and dodge a bullet). Good luck, collegiettes!

Everyone knows there is a reason why great heroes like Superman and Spider-Man work alone. That’s because working in a group is probably a form of torture in some countries. No one can ever meet up at the same time; no one wants to be the one to present, etc. Below is the series of events we can all relate to while working in a group.

You look at your assigned group members and realize you’re going to be doing most of the work.

You all exchange phone numbers and emails, but no one ever sends any messages.

So you set a time to meet and get ideas flowing, only to have everyone cancel at the last minute with a lame excuse.

And when you can all finally sit down and talk about the project you're like:

But then you realize the rest of the group is like: 

And (of course) everyone either forgot their laptops or they “aren’t working” so everyone uses your computer. Therefore making you responsible for the work.

Then once everyone realizes the project isn’t due until the end of the semester, everyone (but you) suddenly has lost all drive to get this thing done early. 

When the end of the semester comes, it’s a race to get it all done and your group regrets not listening to you and choosing to procrastinate.

And then when it’s time to present your project, everyone suddenly has a fear of public speaking and asks you to do it.

But you know when everyone has to do group member evaluations, you’ll get an A and you can secretly tell your professor how awful the rest of the group was.

Once the project is finished and graded, you know you really earned that good grade on your own, and, thankfully, never have to see these people again.

Even though it really is annoying that you all got the same grade when only one person did most of the work. 

Then everyone thinks they're friends and the following semester will say hi to you on campus. 

You swear you will never do another group project, until the next time a professor assigns one and you realize how cruel the world is. 

But even though group projects are stressful and a part of college, you know you can handle them, just like anything else life may throw your way. 

From drawing a fierce pair of cat eyes to applying dark eye shadow without making yourself look like a panda, applying makeup well is a pretty hard skill to master. With so many different kinds of makeup and ways to apply it, it can be a bit of a doozy trying to understand what products we’re putting on our faces and how to apply them correctly. HC has you covered with a few tips to help you avoid making these common mistakes.

1. Wearing the wrong foundation

It’s happened to the best of us. You take a few pictures of yourself (with the flash on) during your girls’ night out and look back at them only to find that your face looks a few shades lighter than your neck and your scalp (or a few shades closer to Snooki status than you had in mind). That could mean you’re using the wrong shade of foundation.

When buying foundation, try testing out two colors that are close to your skin tone on your jawline, and see which one disappears more. Or, you could go to any beauty store (such as Sephora) and ask the store clerks to try some shades out on you. Whatever the case, your foundation should appear natural.

2. Wearing too much foundation

As the base of your makeup, foundation can make or break your entire look. The problem, however, is that sometimes we tend to get a little heavy-handed and go overboard, which can cause our skin to look cakey and fake. Foundation is meant to even out your skin tone, so it should be used in moderation, or only when it’s actually needed.

If you tend to get a little too foundation-happy, find a simpler alternative. “For some people, it’s best to go foundation free!” says aesthetician Alicia Hunter. “Foundation can clog pores and highlight imperfections instead of covering them. Go instead with a tinted moisturizer.”

If you want to wear some makeup but don’t want to go too heavy with foundation, try using Maybelline Dream Fresh BB Cream ($8.99 at Ulta).

3. Over-drawing your eyebrows

We can all agree the full-eyebrow trend is hot right now. But it seems like every girl is on some sort of quest for perfect brows, and a good amount of them are falling victim to overdone, painted on, harsh-looking eyebrows.

If you’re going to fill in your eyebrows with a pencil, use an actual eyebrow pencil (eyebrow pencils don’t smudge as much as eyeliner pencils). Make sure the color of your pencil is just few shades lighter than the color of your brows, since the goal is to subtly enhance the brows, not draw on new ones!

4. Using dirty brushes

Did you know that you’re actually supposed to wash your makeup brushes and tools regularly? It depends on how often you actually wear makeup, but ideally, you should be washing your brushes at least once a week in order for your makeup to continue to look fresh. Dirt and oils can get trapped in the bristles of your brushes, resulting in dirt and oil being transferred to your face and clogging your pores—even causing breakouts.

Cleaning your brushes is actually pretty easy: All you have to do is to swipe your brushes around in a mixture of olive oil (to keep the brushes moisturized) and any brand of dish soap. YouTube makeup guru Michelle Phan even has a tutorial posted on her channel demonstrating the whole process. Check it out here if you’re more of a visual learner.

5. Wearing the wrong nude lip color

The actual meaning of “nude” is relative to the person wearing the shade. Some women, specifically those with darker skin tones, tend to wear nude lipsticks that don’t match their complexions. If your lips are several shades lighter than your face, your lips will look dry and your entire look will be a little clown-like.

If you want to a nude lipstick, find a color that matches your complexion to the point where it looks like you’re not even wearing any lipstick.

If we’re going to be looking our best, it’s important for us to know how to apply makeup the right way. As long as you remember these tips, applying makeup will be a breeze!

Everyone knows there is a reason why great heroes like Superman and Spider-Man work alone. That’s because working in a group is probably a form of torture in some countries. No one can ever meet up at the same time; no one wants to be the one to present, etc. Below is the series of events we can all relate to while working in a group.

You look at your assigned group members and realize you’re going to be doing most of the work.

You all exchange phone numbers and emails, but no one ever sends any messages.

So you set a time to meet and get ideas flowing, only to have everyone cancel at the last minute with a lame excuse.

And when you can all finally sit down and talk about the project you're like:

But then you realize the rest of the group is like: 

And (of course) everyone either forgot their laptops or they “aren’t working” so everyone uses your computer. Therefore making you responsible for the work.

Then once everyone realizes the project isn’t due until the end of the semester, everyone (but you) suddenly has lost all drive to get this thing done early. 

When the end of the semester comes, it’s a race to get it all done and your group regrets not listening to you and choosing to procrastinate.

And then when it’s time to present your project, everyone suddenly has a fear of public speaking and asks you to do it.

But you know when everyone has to do group member evaluations, you’ll get an A and you can secretly tell your professor how awful the rest of the group was.

Once the project is finished and graded, you know you really earned that good grade on your own, and, thankfully, never have to see these people again.

Even though it really is annoying that you all got the same grade when only one person did most of the work. 

Then everyone thinks they're friends and the following semester will say hi to you on campus. 

You swear you will never do another group project, until the next time a professor assigns one and you realize how cruel the world is. 

But even though group projects are stressful and a part of college, you know you can handle them, just like anything else life may throw your way. 

You’re binge-watching the third episode of the fourth season of your seventh Netflix series and upon being asked the dreaded question, “Are you still watching?” you break down and have a mid-Netflix-season crisis. You begin to question every television show and movie decision that you have ever made. Rewatching Scandal and Orange is the New Black for the millionth time is no longer completely fulfilling, and you have already watched every known chick flick.

You decide it’s time to branch out and try something different. Should you actually leave your room? Definitely not. Should you try a new Netflix genre? Yes. The documentaries section contains some prime Netflix viewing. In order to aid in the exploration of this foreign part of Netflix, we have compiled a list of 13 documentaries that are definitely worth watching.

1. Showrunners

As the name suggests, this documentary offers insight into what it’s like being in charge of some of today’s most popular and successful television shows from the perspective of notable show creators. Some of the “showrunners” featured include the heads of The Big Bang Theory, The Good Wife and Revenge, which means that you just might be able to get an inside look into the thought process behind one of your favorite shows. It is perfect for aspiring filmmakers or anyone who is interested in being in the television business.

Rotten Tomatoes: 67% of critics liked it

2. Brain Games

Okay, we might be cheating a bit with this one because it technically is a docuseries, but it’s so much easier to sit through smaller segments than an entire documentary, right? While initially it might seem a little bit too Mythbusters for your taste, the illusions and eye tricks that are shown within the first 10 minutes will have you completely captivated. Also, this is not your average documentary because while it is informative, it is also interactive. While the show ultimately gives you the information and science behind the tricks, you are also encouraged to try them for yourself. There are two seasons of the show and a total of fifteen episodes. You might not understand all the science behind everything or why your eyes are playing tricks on you, but you will definitely not regret checking out this docuseries.

IMDb: 8.6 stars

3. Dark Girls

This documentary explores the way that African-American women as a whole have been perceived throughout history due to the color of their skin, as well as how skin tone within the African-American community affects women’s perception of each other. The concept of colorism, the principle that those with lighter, fairer skin are treated with a higher regard than those with darker skin, is discussed through the eyes of everyone from young girls who are ashamed of their color to actors like Viola Davis of How to Get Away with Murder. Discrimination within one’s own race is not often discussed and this documentary brings it to light in a fascinating way.

IMDb: 7.8 stars

4. 20 Feet from Stardom

When you go to a concert, of course it’s easy to remember Beyoncé belting out notes like nobody’s business or Taylor Swift perfectly hitting every heartbroken note, but what about the people who give them a little extra boost and help them create the fabulous sounds we know and love? Just 20 feet behind the biggest singers of all time are the unsung heroes of the performance: the backup singers. This documentary offers a unique and interesting perspective because usually, not much emphasis is placed on the backup singers even though they work extremely hard in their own right. Not to mention, this film won Best Documentary Feature at the 86^th Academy Awards.

Rotten Tomatoes: 99% of critics liked it

5. First Position

Depending on your dance preference, you either think that ballet is the most beautiful dance form there is… or it just puts you to sleep. Regardless, the performance on the stage is all that you ever get to see as an audience member. First Position offers a true glimpse of everything that goes on before a ballet dancer is ready to perform on stage. It showcases the literal blood, sweat and tears that the audience is never allowed to see.

Rotten Tomatoes: 93% of critics liked it

6. Please Subscribe

In the age of the Internet, there are so many people who are famous simply for being well-liked YouTube personalities with millions of subscribers. There are a lot of us who probably feel like we, too, could be famous YouTubers if we just had the right formula for YouTube success. The phenomena of top YouTubers is explained in this documentary, which features the likes of Grace Helbig and Hannah Hart. If you are an aspiring video maker or YouTuber, Please Subscribe will definitely give you some tips on how to get subscribers of your own.

IMDb: 6.3 stars

7. Becoming Chaz

Becoming Chaz follows the emotional journey of Chaz Bono, the only child of Sonny and Cher, as he transitions from female to male. The documentary addresses the struggle to become comfortable in one’s own skin. If you have been following Caitlyn Jenner’s transition, then this documentary might just interest you!

IMDb: 6.7 stars

8. Madonna: Truth or Dare

Have you ever wondered what it’s like to be one of the most renowned—and controversial—pop stars in the world? Madonna: Truth or Dare follows the iconic pop star on her Blond Ambition tour in 1990. Since a majority of the documentary (aside from the performances) are in black and white, the documentary has a retro, vintage vibe which just makes Madonna seem all the more fabulous. It shows Madonna at her most candid and vulnerable. This is definitely a Netflix gem that every Madge lover should see.

Rotten Tomatoes: 80% of critics liked it

9. Brave Miss World

This documentary tells the inspiring and compelling story of former Miss World, Linor Abargil, as she strives to turn her personal tragedy into a platform for global awareness. Two weeks prior to being crowned Miss World, she was abducted and raped. Brave Miss World follows her on her quest to fill other rape victims with hope and the strength to come forward. As a global advocate, Miss Abargil is an amazing example of how strong women can empower each other.

IMDb: 7.2 stars

10. Miss Representation

This very clever play on words aims to reveal the prevalent sexism in today’s show business. It’s an interesting commentary on how the media makes young women believe that their value depends on how they look and places greater emphasis on the body as opposed to the brain. The overall tone of Miss Representation totally reminds us of the Emma Stone press conference when she was told she was beautiful by the press only to reply, “Thank you. That’s all that matters.” Definitely a girl power, feminist documentary.

IMDb: 7.7 stars

11. Scatter My Ashes at Bergdorf’s  

Alright ladies, you are going to have to channel your inner Blair Waldorf for this one! Finally, we get an inside look into the paradise of every Upper East Side princess: Bergdorf Goodman. This documentary offers a sneak peek into one of most iconic (and expensive!) department stores in New York, featuring fashion designers (Vera Wang, Karl Lagerfeld, Diane Von Furstenberg, etc.) and celebrity cameos galore. That itself makes this one worth a watch! As college students, we probably will not be setting foot in Bergdorf’s anytime soon, but a little window shopping never hurt anybody, right?

Rotten Tomatoes: 49% of critics liked it

12. The Queen of Versailles

All of you history majors out there might be wary of watching yet another documentary about the French Revolution with historians arguing about whether or not Marie Antoinette actually said, “Let them eat cake.” Don’t worry, we wouldn’t do that to you. This “Queen of Versailles” is actually former Miss Florida contestant, Jackie Siegel, who is married to the wealthy owner of Westgate Resorts, David Siegel. The documentary follows the couple through times of luxury and times of financial challenges. You’ll even see an inside view of their mansion, a sprawling 90,000-square-foot American Versailles. While TheQueen of Versailles does not end in a revolution or a beheading, the Siegel’s definitely experience their own unfortunate twist of fate.

Rotten Tomatoes: 94% of critics liked it

13. Chasing Beauty

Chasing Beauty begins with the jarring statistic that “25 percent of young American women would rather win America’s Next Top Model than the Nobel Peace Prize.” Which would you rather win, collegiettes? Chasing Beauty offers a great behind-the-scenes look at the fashion industry and the ins and outs of becoming, and staying, a model. The documentary identifies how superficial the fashion world can be while also pointing out the importance of finding models who embrace their differences in order to encourage young girls to celebrate their own individuality. Trust us, this is just as addicting an episode of America’s Next Top Model.

IMDb: 6.1 stars

Which documentaries will you be watching, collegiettes?

College is full of opportunities... like giving us the chance to wear (pretty much) whatever we want 24/7! We feel equally as accepted when we're in leggings as we do in our walk of shame look. Unfortunately, after college, some of our favorite outfits are no longer acceptable. For now, let's celebrate the looks we love, but will definitely be judged for post-college. 

1. Wearing the same sweatshirt three days in a row

But Drake says that's when we're the prettiest!

2. Micro... micro mini skirts

Sometimes we just wanna flaunt our assets... but maybe as we get older the hemline should get a little longer.

3. Leggings all day, every day

As much as it pains us to admit, leggings aren't considered real clothes in the adult world.

RELATED: 13 Things You Won't Get Away With After College

4. Questionable Halloween costumes

Ugh... we might have to actually plan ahead for this one.

5. The oversized shirt and "Norts" combo

It's pretty much a uniform.

6. Bare feet

You know when you're at a formal event and you take your shoes off, and suddenly your night is like 10000x better? Yeah... unfortunately this is less acceptable post-college.

7. Wearing his clothes the morning after

It's almost better to just own your walk of shame outfit...

8. Not wearing pants

Yeah, this is definitely less cute when you're not living in a dorm. We might actually have to like, get out of bed.

9. Sunglasses inside

People will respect you in the library, but probs not at a desk job.

Dating in college is already a maze of emotions: who calls whom? Who makes the first move? What in the world did he mean by that text? Adding your feminist beliefs into the mix can be even more confusing. After all, what’s a feminist collegiette to do when a campus cutie insists on paying for dinner or opening doors for her all the time?

Luckily for you, Her Campus is here to take you through the most pressing feminist dating scenarios.

Scenario #1: He insists on paying for dinner.

You head to a super-nice restaurant with a cutie in tow for your first date. Everything’s going well … until the check comes around. You want to split it so that he doesn’t have to pay for such an expensive meal, but he keeps insisting that he wants to cover the check. Should you let him foot the bill?

How to deal

When it comes to any dating scenario, it’s important to keep things in perspective. “I personally approach dating with the same feminist perspective that I approach all issues: from a value of equality and general courtesy for other people's humanity,” says Julie Zeilinger, founder of the feminist blog The FBomb and author of A Little F’d Up: Why Feminism is Not a Dirty Word. “I think college women need to stress less about perfectly living up to a feminist script and just worry about being fair and kind to whoever they're spending time with. At the end of the day, that's what feminism is about — not a series of rules delineated into ‘good’ or ‘bad’ behavior.”

Joy*, a senior at Wesleyan University, has found herself in this scenario way too many times. “I personally like to split the check with dates for equality reasons, and it can always be awkward for guys if you call them out and ask them to only pay half,” she says.

Joy’s advice? If it’s a first date with someone you don’t know well, let him pay if he’s being insistent. “It can be overwhelming to spring all of your feminist dating rules on someone you don’t know well, so I’ve just found it’s better to let him pay on the first date if he’s insistent and trying to be a gentleman,” she says. “Plus, don’t think of a guy paying on the first date as patriarchy — a lot of guys are just trying to be nice and courteous! If you end up dating this guy more regularly, feel free to let him know later on that you’d like to split the check or take turns picking up the tab.”

However, Joy notes that if your date is someone you know well, feel free to tell the guy beforehand that you want to split the check or pay. “I was really good friends with my current boyfriend, Dave*, long before we dated, so he knew I was all about equality in relationships,” she says. “Before our first date, I told him I wanted to split the check, and he was totally cool with it. Plus, this prevented any surprises when we were actually on the date!”

But how to do you open up the feminist dialogue beforehand? Jasmine Ryan, a healthy relationships advocate at the University of Florida, recommends trying to talk to your guy beforehand. “It can be extremely jarring to have someone start pulling feminism jargon in the middle of a date, so if it’s very important to you, talk to your date beforehand,” she says. “Even a simple, ‘So for our date tonight, do you mind if we split the check?’ can be a great way to open the conversation.”

Scenario #2: He always wants to open the door for you.

You’ve noticed that every time you go out with a certain campus cutie, he always insists on opening all the doors: the car door, the restaurant door, your apartment door. How do you tell him that it’s too much?

How to deal

First, Ryan reminds collegiettes that just because a guy opens a door for you a couple times doesn’t mean he’s looking for the downfall of the feminist movement. “Opening doors for people is generally considered a nice thing to do in our society, so it may not even be a gender issue,” she says. “However, if you notice that your partner is insisting that he open doors for you all the time, it might be time to let him know that you can do the same for him, or you can just open your own doors yourself!”

Still want to split door-opening responsibilities? Lucy*, a junior at New York University, recommends trying to open the door for a guy as much as he opens it for you. “When I started dating my boyfriend, it almost became a little inside joke that I would open the door for him,” she says. “But eventually, I was able to tell him I did it because I believed in gender equality in dating, even with small things like opening doors for one another.”

Scenario #3: He expects you to text him 24/7.

You’ve just started seeing a guy, and you’ve noticed that he gets really annoyed when you don’t text him all the time, but he doesn’t think he has to do the same thing in return. How do you let him know that it’s not fair?

How to deal

Joy thinks you should try to avoid these types of guys altogether if possible, but she knows that’s easier said than done. “I’ve dated a couple of guys who seemed totally chill and normal when we started dating but got really controlling about certain aspects of the relationship later on,” she says.

If a guy wants you to text, Facebook message or call him all the time and doesn’t expect anything in return, Joy recommends being upfront with him as soon as possible. “If you start noticing the trend, talk to him immediately before you establish a pattern,” she says. “Ask him why he wants you to text him so much and why he can’t do the same in return. I’ve found that a lot of times, his desire to have you communicate with him all the time comes from his own issues with trust or control, so it’s better to talk about these earlier rather than later.”

During your conversation, Ryan recommends being honest, but not accusatory. “A lot of men aren’t even aware that they’re doing something wrong, so you don’t want them to go on the defensive and shut down completely,” she says. “Your tone during your conversation should be concerned and stern but not angry, and you should figure out beforehand what you want to get out of the conversation. For example, do you want to text him less, or do you want him to text you more? It’s important to have an ideal scenario in mind.”

Ryan also notes that this behavior can be indicative of larger issues. “If a conversation about why he unfairly wants you to communicate with him more without returning the favor fails, I would recommend reconsidering the relationship in general,” she says. “This type of controlling behavior is often indicative of other internal issues (like problems with trust or respect), and you might not want to stick around to see what happens.”

Scenario #4: He wants you to dote on him.

You started dating a guy who seemed really nice at first, but lately you’ve noticed that he’s always asking you to make him a sandwich and grab him a beer. How do you let him know that you’re not in this relationship to play housewife?

How to deal

Jane*, a senior at the University of Florida, started dating a guy named Eric*, who seemed really nice at first but eventually proved to just want someone to care for him. “He would invite me over to his apartment and would ask me to get beers for his friends or clean up after them,” she says. “It was ridiculous and a total red flag. I immediately talked to Eric about it, and, not surprisingly, we broke up soon afterward. There was no way I was going to date a guy who wanted me to be his personal housekeeper.”

Lucy also says that if you’re a feminist in a relationship like this, it’s best to get out of it ASAP. “These types of guys are never going to change, so it’s better not to waste your time trying,” she says. “At the end of the day, some people are all for gender equality and some aren’t. Why stick with someone who doesn’t understand your core values?”

Ryan also recommends trying to figure out when this behavior started. “If your boyfriend has always wanted you to dote on him, then I’d say it’s a problem that can lead to other harmful dating behaviors,” she says. “However, if he just recently started it, a conversation is in order. Pick a time for you two to sit down and talk, and make sure you don’t approach him in the heat of the moment (like when he’s asking you to do something for him).”

Scenario #5: He doesn’t want you talking to other guys, but he doesn’t see a reason to stop talking to other girls.

Your boyfriend freaks out if you so much as look at another guy, but you notice that he has plenty of female friends whom he hangs around with — and even flirts with. How do you tell him that’s wrong?

How to deal

Gabrielle*, a junior at New York University, ran into this issue when she dated her then-boyfriend, Joel*.

“Joel would get weirdly upset whenever I talked to other guys (even about things as mundane as the calculus homework), but strangely thought it was okay for him to keep hanging out with his girl friends all the time,” she says. “I didn’t have issues with him having female friends; my problem was that he didn’t think I was owed the same courtesy with guys. I eventually had to confront him about it from a gender-equality front; in my mind, we both had to have the same boundaries in relationships.”

Gabrielle said that to her surprise, Joel was extremely receptive when she talked to him. “I sat him down for a conversation about it, and after some initial snarky comments from him about how I was overreacting, he eventually opened up about how a past girlfriend had cheated on him, and it left him feeling less trustworthy of women,” she says. “He wasn’t even aware of how his behavior was hurting me or how ridiculous it seemed to me. Luckily, we were able to work through it and dated for two more years.”

Gabrielle believes that talking to Joel early on in the relationship saved it from going down a bad path. “I talked to Joel during the first couple months we were dating, and I can only imagine how much resentment I would’ve had towards him if I’d waited to have this conversation with him later on,” she says. “I think no matter what the feminist dating problem is, college women shouldn’t be afraid to speak up and talk to their men early and often.”

Remember that you have control of your relationship, so if a guy isn’t respectful of your feminist values, you don’t have to date him! Moreover, if you want to make a relationship work, make sure you communicate early with your partner and explain why you feel the way you do.

“I try to bring up my feminist beliefs from the perspective of education and a constructive discussion rather than immediately being defensive,” Zeilinger says. “If the guy I'm dating isn't familiar with feminism, I don't immediately fault him for it or write him off, but rather try to spark a conversation and explain my point of view.”

Happy dating, feminist collegiettes!

*Names have been changed.

You had a lot of big plans for this summer: finally get that perfect tan, catch up on some reading, take a road trip with your best friends, make some extra spending money at your summer job and maybe, just MAYBE, have that fairy-tale summer fling you’ve always dreamed of.

Unfortunately, you probably got home for the summer and realized that you left all of that dateable eye candy back at school, leaving you to spend a summer full of way too many solo froyo trips and movie dates with your mom. Don’t worry, collegiettes – you’re not alone! Here are 19 thoughts we’ve all had during a summer dry spell.

1.  I don’t need a guy. I’m totally fine being single and free this summer!

2. Just kidding, I need a guy – ANY GUY – to come cure my summer boredom.

3. Where do people even meet guys when they’re not in college? The mall? The beach? Is there some kind of website where I can buy a summer fling?

4. Oh well—at least my friends are single, too. We’re all in this together! At least, that’s what I thought…

5. Sandy and Danny fell in love at the beach and I can’t even get a guy to rub sunscreen on my back. Sunburn, here I come.

6. Wow, I’m actually getting really tan! Too bad no one is going to get to appreciate my tan lines…

7. If I watch one more rom-com by myself, I WILL lose it. Seriously, who’s going to comfort me after an emotional re-watching of The Notebook?

8. Wow, that lifeguard is pretty cute. Maybe I should pretend to drown so he’ll give me CPR?

9. Maybe I’ll meet up with this guy I met on Tinder. It’s not THAT big of a deal that he uses “ur” instead of “you’re” … right?

10. I can’t even remember the last time I kissed a boy. What if I forgot how to kiss?!

11. You know what? I’ve got this. I have a whole season of The Vampire Diaries on Netflix to keep me occupied. I don’t need a guy to entertain me!

12. Whoops, I finished an entire season in two days. Let the manhunt continue.

13. I need to cuddle with someone. ANYONE.

14. Since Mr. Prince Charming clearly isn’t planning on making an appearance this summer, my new motto is:

15. Wow, that guy on my brother’s soccer team is really cute. I mean, is it REALLY that big of a deal that I’m three years older than him?

16. Ugh, I’m so hungry, but I have no one to go to dinner with.

17. Summer dating is hard – how am I supposed to flirt with someone if I don’t have class with him three times a week? Do I even remember how to flirt?

18. Summer sunsets are so pretty. This would be so romantic … if I had someone to watch it with.

19. Is summer almost over? Can I go back to school where there are actual parties and lots of cute guys?

Whether you’re traveling to visit family, heading out for a weekend trip or going abroad, getting the best trip ever is all about spending money wisely. Traveling can be expensive when you factor in flying, accommodations and food, not to mention the other little expenses, like souvenirs and cab fare. The best way to spend your vacation is to not be worrying about every little dime. It’s time to start planning your trip now!

Transportation

Flights

When booking your flight, make sure you get the cheapest one possible! Websites such as Expedia compare flights across airlines to show you the different departure times and cheapest prices for tickets.

Irene Berman-Vaporis, a recent graduate of Boston University, recommends using Skyscanner and Adioso, which are other websites that compare airline prices. “I've recently started using Adioso to look for flight deals when I don't have firm plans,” she says. “The site is perfect for flexible travelers looking to snag the best prices possible. You can subscribe to get emailed when the price for a flight drops within your price range.”

Once you get your flights, download TripIt, which is a free app (available for iPhone, iPad, Android devices, Blackberry and Windows Phone) that lines up your flights in one neat place. This is great if you have several trips coming up, as this app will organize them easily.

Other transportation

If you are unsure of whether to fly or drive, do a comparison of the prices for your travel. Check airlines to see how much you would spend if you flew there, and compare that to a gas calculator, such as the one available on GasBuddy, to see how much it would cost to drive. If taking a bus is also an option, check Greyhound to compare prices. Amtrak is a good option for finding train transportation. When you have all of these prices in front of you, choose the one that works best with your budget.

Accommodations

Looking for a hotel can be a complete disaster if you go in unprepared. Hotels can be incredibly expensive, and the cheaper ones could be dangerous or unclean. But with some research, you can get a great hotel at an even greater price!

One thing to keep in mind while you’re looking for accommodations is that hotels can be tricky with their pricing. Try using Tingo to book your hotel. If the price of your room goes down after you book it, Tingo will refund your credit card the difference. Pretty sweet deal, right?

If you want to book a hostel instead of a hotel, try a website like Hostelworld to find accommodations. Hostels are typically much cheaper than hotels, but you may have to share a room with strangers and/or bring your own linens and towels. Be sure to check the ratings of any hostels you’re interested in (particularly cleanliness and security ratings) before booking!

When on the hunt for a hotel or hostel to stay at, keep in mind the extra perks that can lower your other travel expenses.  “Try to see if they offer continental breakfast,” says Alexandra Reyes, a sophomore at Blue Mountain Community College. “That way, you save money on a meal!” With amenities such as free Wi-Fi and continental breakfast, sometimes spending those few extra dollars can save you money in other places.

Making a price spreadsheet

Because budgeting is important, making a price spreadsheet in Excel or Google Drive that lists out all of your costs will help you not go over your budget.

Here are some expenses to include in your price spreadsheet:

• Transportation
• Hotel room (overall, not per night)
• Food
• Taxi money
• Money for entertainment (museums, shows, etc.)
• Miscellaneous expenses (any side trips or souvenirs you know you’ll pick up)

Traveling shouldn’t suck the money out of your bank account—and you shouldn’t need another vacation to recover from the difficult planning process! With these tips and tricks under your belt, planning your next trip will be easy. You deserve an awesome trip, and that includes being able to plan it with ease. Don’t forget to send us a postcard!

Whether you are cranking out that final paper or staring at your computer screen at your cubicle at your internship, motivation to complete your work sometimes goes out the window after working for hours at a time. However, going out the window visually might be the key to all your problems.

According to Business Insider, a recent study conducted in Australia found that taking 40 seconds to look outside, especially at any patch of green, is enough to reenergize your brain in between long periods of work. The study was originated by researching the impact of green roofs, like the nine-acre one to be implemented on the Facebook HQ, in order to find its benefits on worker productivity. In the study, participants were shown either a concrete roof or a green-covered roof and then told to complete a mundane task assignment. Lead researcher Kate Lee explained that the impact of the green roof immensely improved the quality of work: “This study showed us that looking at an image of nature for less than a minute was all it took to help people perform better on our task.” Lee also described the benefits of these 40-second time outs: “It's really important to have micro-breaks. It's something that a lot of us do naturally when we're stressed or mentally fatigued. There's a reason you look out the window and seek nature, it can help you concentrate on your work and to maintain performance across the workday.”

 So go ahead, take a break—and power through the rest of your day!

Did you start a new internship or job this summer? Congrats! You’re probably killing it, being the hardworking collegiette you are. Unfortunately, not every employer is able to see that. Maybe you come into work every day, eager to do your best, and your boss doesn’t even acknowledge your presence! Or maybe you thought you would blow her away with a stellar report, and instead she told you to do the whole thing over.

Whether your boss is ignoring you or just being plain mean, we came up with some tips for how to handle even the toughest of bosses.

1. Be the first one in the office

You may think that your boss is just crazy, but plenty of collegiettes have bad work habits that they aren’t even aware of. Make sure you’re totally blameless here before you start worrying about your boss’s behavior. Vicki Salemi, career coach and author of Big Career in the Big City, says arriving early is one of the easiest ways to get on your boss’s good side.

Showing up early and leaving late will show that you “don’t focus on the clock in terms of a start or end time, but instead, that you mean business,” Salemi says. When you set an alarm to wake you up, set another one for a few minutes before you need to leave for work. That way, you’ll know when you need to wrap up your morning routine and get out the door.

When your smiling face is the first thing your boss sees when walking through the office door, he or she will know that your work is your top priority. Don’t be the girl who walks in 10 minutes late because she stopped for coffee. Plan your mornings out and always leave extra time for public transportation issues and other unexpected delays.

2. Dress the part

Dressing appropriately for your office is an absolute must. If you’re unsure what the culture is like at your job, always err on the side of overdressing. As they say, you should dress for the job you want, not the job you have!

Even if your office is super casual, there are definitely certain style choices you need to avoid. You don’t want your boss to make snap judgments based on your appearance, so it’s best to play it safe.

Stay away from ripped jeans, save your crop tops for the weekend and don’t go overboard with your makeup. If you’re ever in doubt about an outfit, then you probably shouldn’t wear it. It might fly with the office culture, but it may prevent your manager from taking you seriously.

3. Focus on the job

When you’re at work, your phone can be your worst enemy. There are few things worse than having your boss walk in on you taking a Snapchat. Even if you pick up your phone to check your email, you’ll somehow end up scrolling through your Instagram feed for 20 minutes.

Nixing bad office behaviors like checking your phone will help your boss take you seriously. “Show that you’re committed to the job by eliminating distractions,” Salemi says. “Delete distracting apps like Twitter and Facebook from your phone, or, better yet, don’t even take your phone out of your bag while you’re in the office.”

It only takes one time being caught on Facebook to ruin your boss’s impression of you. Getting rid of the temptation to check your phone will help you to stand out as a dedicated employee.

4. Go all out

We’re sure you’re doing a great job at work, but if your boss is having trouble seeing it, it might be time to kick it into overdrive. Show your boss that you’re the most valuable member of the team. “What boss, no matter how easy to please, wouldn’t want an excellent team player reporting to them?” Salemi says. If you knock every project out of the park, “you’ll make him or her look good,” she says.

“As a manager, I’ve always been impressed when my employees … worked beyond responsibilities on their job description and took initiative,” Salemi says. So don’t just do what you’re told; do as much as you possibly can.

However, be careful not to burn yourself out. You don’t need to voluntarily be in the office for 12 hours a day – especially if you’re unpaid. You just need to show that you really care. Take a few extra minutes to turn a report into an organized, easy-to-follow presentation. Volunteer to run errands or work on projects that aren’t necessarily within your job description. Find little things here and there that you can pick up in addition to your standard workload.

A big part of giving it your all is not waiting to be assigned a task; offer to help other team members with their assignments when you have downtime. Look for things to do and get them done before your boss can even ask you about them. The best way to satisfy your boss is to meet his or her needs before he or she is even aware of them!

5. Schedule a one-on-one meeting

If your boss never gives you any feedback, you might be feeling pretty frustrated. How are you supposed to know if you’re on the right track when you’re getting nothing but radio silence?

According to Tom Dezell, author of Networking for the Novice, Nervous, or Naïve Job Seeker, a lot of employers struggle when it comes to providing feedback for their employees. “It’s perfectly acceptable during your ‘learning curve’ to ask others what the boss’s style of providing feedback is,” he says.

If you’ve asked around and it seems like your boss doesn’t give feedback to anyone, then it’s up to you to get some yourself. “If you learn that the lack of feedback is simply the boss’s MO, request a meeting to clarify ways you can find out how well you’re doing,” Dezell says.

This is just how some managers work; everyone has a different style. “Don't take it personally, and don't let them get you down,” says Nicole Samartino, programming & community manager at FindSpark, a community for young creatives. “Actively set up a meeting to get feedback. Sometimes you need to sit the person down and demand their attention.”

Approach your boss when he or she doesn’t seem too busy. Or, if it’s easier for you, send him or her an email; sometimes it’s easier to ask for something when you can have time to compose your words. Explain that you’re enjoying working with him or her and you feel that you could work even better with some input on how you’re doing. Approach it as a way to improve your work, not a need to boost your ego or have your hand held. That way, your boss can see that your end goal is doing your best for the company.

Your boss may not even realize that he or she isn’t giving you any input, and the only way to get any is to ask for it!

6. Stay positive

If your boss seems to hate everything you do, try not to let it discourage you. “Dealing with a constantly negative boss can wear on you,” Salemi says. If you get overwhelmed by the constant negativity, Salemi says it “can leak into your outlook and work itself.”

So how do you avoid becoming miserable at work? Fill the rest of your world with positivity. Look for little ways to brighten up your office; Salemi suggests posting inspirational quotes by your computer and getting lunch with your more positive coworkers. If your boss is still getting you down, don’t forget that this situation isn’t permanent. “Your current boss won’t be your boss forever, and eventually you’ll hopefully have a more positive one,” Salemi says.

Dezell suggests trying to see if everyone is getting the same treatment. If it seems like your boss doesn’t like anyone, “you can at least comfort yourself to not take this personally,” he says. However, Dezell adds, “Keep an eye on how this may be impacting your work. It’s awfully hard for individuals or groups to consistently perform at top levels in negative environments.”

If you’re unlucky enough to be the one person your boss doesn’t like, work is going to be rough (we can’t lie), but we’re confident you can make it through. Samartino says, “If your personality doesn't mesh well with your boss, you're going to have a hard time. You may never ‘win’ your boss over, but it's smart to understand what makes him or her tick.” Above all, Samartino says, “make sure you don't do the things that make them mad.”

Just knowing that your boss doesn’t like you is the first step to repairing that relationship. Tread carefully in every interaction you have; you don’t want to give him or her another reason to dislike you. If your boss hates being asked questions, Google everything you’re unsure about. If Google can’t help you, ask all your other colleagues and managers before taking to your boss.

Learn what kinds of things your boss reacts well to, and play those up. Is she usually too swamped to get herself a cup of coffee in the afternoon? Pick up an extra on your Starbucks run. Figure out what makes your manager happy, and make sure you’re the one doing those things for her.

7. Show your interest

When doing your best at work just isn’t enough, sometimes you need to take a softer approach to warm up to your boss. A simple way to get on anyone’s good side is to show that you care.

“Take an interest in their world,” Salemi says. Find out what he or she is interested in and incorporate it into your interactions. “If your boss loves a particular sports team, start following that team,” she adds. Keeping up with the things your boss loves will give you a chance to make small talk. Ask about your boss’s children, weekend plans or college. It will show him or her that you care and help you to find shared interests to build a better relationship.

One thing to be careful with here is crossing the line from professional to personal. Just make simple, casual small talk and let your boss take the lead. If your boss doesn’t seem eager to talk about a topic, avoid it. You don’t need to know every detail of the party he or she is going to this weekend, or what year he or she graduated college. Keep your questions light and slightly vague to get the conversation started as well as to also avoid crossing the line.

If you’re having trouble at your new job or internship, don’t stress. Take it from our experts – there’s always a way to get through it. Even if you can’t get on your boss’s good side, no job lasts forever. But we’re confident that you’ll find a way to prove yourself and win over that tricky boss!

It's been years since Gossip Girl ended, and Leighton Meester (aka Blair Waldorf) has been juggling various ventures, to say the least. In 2014, Leighton showcased her killer vocals by releasing a debut album, titled Heartstrings. Leighton also proved that she is capable of taking on other roles, besides a scheming Queen Bee. She starred alongside James Franco in the Broadway production of John Steinback's popular novel, Of Mice and Men. And after marrying The O.C.'s Adam Brody, she's now expecting a child! 

Continuing with her musical success, Leighton recently performed an amazing cover of The Cardigans' catchy '90s jam, "Lovefool," for the A.V. Club's Undercover series. In case you haven't heard her rendition yet, you should check out the video below!

Ever been that girl who has tripped and fallen while teetering in high heels? Well, the verdict is out—researchers at the University of Alabama at Birmingham analyzed the numbers collected from the Consumer Product Safety Commission's National Electronic Injury Surveillance System and the results may make you think twice next time you choose your footwear. 

From the data, it is estimated that 123,355 high-heel-related injuries were treated in United States emergency rooms from 2002 to 2012, with the rate doubling during that 10-year span. The research also found that women in their 20s are most likely to suffer from a sprain or strain to the foot or ankle as a result of high heels. Surprisingly enough, most of the injuries recorded happened at home rather than at work or during a night out. 

The study, which is published in the Journal of Foot and Ankle Injuries, recommends to keep in mind how often you wear heels and how long you're wearing them to minimize your risk of injury. Furthermore, a different study also found that wearing heels all day can weaken ankles, making you more prone to a foot fiasco. Those flats are looking cuter and cuter. 

Still concerned? Check out this helpful graphic, via the University of Alabama:

Morning larks vs. night owls, coffee drinkers vs. tea drinkers, and extroverts vs. introverts are just a few of the classic ways we separate people into groups.

João Rocha, an art director in Lisbon, Portugal, has created an amazing Tumblr page dedicated to just that: breaking people into two groups. His page, called “2 Kinds of People,” features illustrations with unique ideas such as fork users vs. chopstick users. Some of the illustrations hit close to home; we're pretty sure most collegiettes would fall into the category of needing four alarms to wake up! Check out some of João awesome pictures below.

So, collegiettes—what type of person are you?