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5 Ways to Style a Sorority or Club T-Shirt

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We collegiettes love to get involved on campus, be it by rushing a sorority, joining a club or supporting a sports team. And when we find something we’re passionate about, we want to show it off to the rest of campus. You don’t just have to wear your club’s T-shirt as is, though! That’s why HC has compiled a list of suggestions on how to style your Greek letters or club T-shirts in ways that are both trendy and effective at letting people know what you’re into on campus.

1. Flaunt your sorority colors

Flaunt Your Sorority Colors

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A subtle, easy way to show off your sorority pride is by rocking your colors and finishing off the look with a sorority-specific accessory. For example, if you’re a Delta Gamma sister, wearing pink and blue clothing with, say, a DG headband, a bracelet with an anchor or an anchor-printed scarf would be a cute and understated way to flaunt your pride. This look is super easy for collegiettes of all sororities to replicate because all it takes is a couple of basic pieces in the appropriate colors and an accessory or two.

2. Rock your sorority letters

Rock Your Sorority Letters

 

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For those of you who are all about comfort, throwing on your big, cozy sorority spirit jersey is an awesome option. Style it with a pair of colored jeans and a chic pair of flats. For cooler-weather days, layer up with a chunky scarf that’s perfect for fall. This look is comfy and stylish and is a great way to rock your sorority letters.

3. Show off your school spirit

School Spirit

 

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Whether you’re going to a football tailgate or going to cheer on the soccer team, you definitely want to look effortlessly chic while still making it very clear who you’re rooting for. A super simple way to do this while still staying warm on those chilly game nights is to layer a school spirit T-shirt under a flannel with a pair of dark-wash jeans. Leave the flannel unbuttoned so your team shirt is on display and there’s no mistake whom you’re there to support!

4. Put your club pride on display

Club Pride

Need to recruit new members for your club? Dressing the part certainly helps! Dressing well while promoting your organization will definitely help your club stand out. Take your club T-shirt or tank and tuck it into a skater skirt. Finish the look with a cute pair of booties. You’ll look awesome and will hopefully catch the attention of some new recruits!

5. Look professional as a club leader

Club Leader

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Having a networking event for your club? Holding a meeting on behalf of your club? You definitely want to look business savvy while still spreading awareness about your club, and rocking a chic blazer over your club T-shirt will do just that. Wear a pair of dark-wash jeans, which are a little fancier than lighter-colored jeans, and put on a pair of pumps so there will be no denying who’s in charge!

With these cool outfit ideas, hopefully you found some inspiration for how to show off your love for your organization! Have another cute way to flaunt your club pride? Let us know in the comments below!

 


Win a Full Year's Worth of Beauty Products from GLOSSYBOX!

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Be still our hearts: There’s nothing we love more than a new beauty haul, and that’s exactly what we love about GLOSSYBOX, the subscription service that delivers a new batch of must-have products straight to your door, every single month.

Since we love our readers (that’s you!) we’re giving away an entire year’s subscription to GLOSSYBOX! That’s twelve deliveries of luxury beauty products in full and travel sizes, all packaged into a gorgeous box (Tip: They can be repurposed as desk or closet organizers!).

To give you an idea of some of the amazing products you’ll find in your monthly boxes, here’s what we found in our September box: Essie polish in “Madison Ave-Hue,” a Her Campus-approved pink that’s both sophisticated and fun; They’re Real! Mascara from Benefit Cosmetics, which will have people wondering if they’re really real; Bulgari’s Eau Parfumée Au Thé Blanc conditioner, which leaves hair lightly fragranced with white tea and musk; an anti-aging LiftActiv night cream from Vichy that leaves skin deeply hydrated; and the famous Lip Tar from Obsessive Compulsive Cosmetics in “Authentic,” a highly pigmented metallic copper color—even the tiniest amount leaves a rich, long-lasting color.

Can’t wait to get the products through your door? Subscribe now, and enter code “FLAWLESS” to get a free Boscia BB Cream (a $38 value!) in your first box! Boxes are $21 a month, or get discounted subscriptions by signing up for 3, 6 or 12 months at a time. Bonus: Get 20% off subscriptions until Friday, September 26 with code "FALL2014."

Enter below for a chance to win a year’s worth of beauty products from top brands!

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The Best App For Going Out in College

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Rounding up a group of friends to go out at night can be the most frustrating thing ever. Your entire group of friends might live in the same building as you, but that doesn’t necessarily make it any easier to coordinate plans. A typical Friday night usually involves a huge web of group texts in which everyone is trying to figure out who’s going where, and it’s just one huge mess. Luckily, you’re not alone, and even better, there’s a solution that will make your weekends less of a headache! Going out with a group is about to get a whole lot easier!

Ben Kaplan, a student at the College of the Holy Cross, recognized this frustration and founded WiGo in January of this year. WiGo, which stands for Who is Going Out?, aims to streamline how we can make plans to go out and meet up based on friends’ activity. The iPhone app first prompts you to set your status as “going out,”  and then it allows you to broadcast where you’re headed, whether it be a frat house, a place on campus or a bar. That way, friends can easily see where you're headed and meet up with you. WiGo also features a “tap” function that you can use to directly notify your friends that you want them to join you. Easiest way ever to get a group together for Girls' Night Out - finally!

Plus, you know the phrase, “What happened in X stays in X?” Well, that phrase rings true with WiGo because each morning, all data —who was where, what messages were sent, etc. — gets wiped clean. 

Since the app launched in late August, over 30,000 students from over 700 colleges have begun using it. Will you be the next one, collegiettes? Whether you’ll be using the app to “accidentally” run into your crush (we’re all thinking it) or to round up a group of friends to head to a party, we seriously suggest you download it before this weekend!

Sale Watch: Fall Sweaters, Outerwear & More!

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We’re at such a critical point in the shopping world right now: summer is officially dunzo and fall is in session. As you may have noticed, stores are fully stocked with chunky knits and heavy wools, and are trying to get rid of their summer stock (or are offering promotions on new fall merchandise!). The great news is that if you’re broke from shopping all summer (oops!), there are some great sales going on right now that will save you tons of money, so check them out!

 

J.Crew

Marled Rib-Stitch Open CardiganRegular price: $110 Sale Price $82.50

A typical J.Crew visit usually goes down like this: you enter the store and are instantly overwhelmed by all the cute button-downs, jewels and flow-y tops hanging throughout the store. You walk up to your the first item you eyed and check the price tag. $168, yikes. Well, now is probably the best time to shop as you won’t pay full price for anything! This cozy sweater is super thick so consider it your outerwear until it gets chilly enough to wear a real coat.

Deal: 25% full-price styles in stores and online plus an extra 30% off sale merchandise (final sale)

Online code: SHOPFORFALL

How long? Ends Sept. 24. 

 

Gap

Multi-quilt puffer: Regular price: $98 Sale price: $59

Here's a deal you won't want to miss—a sale on a brand that's reasonably priced to being with. Gap is great for classic items that are sure to last and right now, they're currently holding their "Layer Up" sale event which means everything you need for fall is now on sale. The streamlined fit on this puffer jacket will definitely flatter any body type.

Deal: Select fall merchandise on sale from $8 and up

How long? Ends Sept. 29.

 

Lord & Taylor

Lucky Brand Lanne Cut-Out BootiesRegular price: $109 Sale price: $68

Department stores can be known for their blowout sales and Lord & Taylor is no exception. Whether you head in-store or log on to their website, be sure to do so soon since merchandise will be flying off the shelves with their current sale going on. Seriously, how cute would these booties look this fall with some opaque tights and a skirt?

Deal: 20% off regular and sale merchandise

Online code: SAVEMORE

How long? Ends Sept. 29.

 

Tobi

Strapped in Shift Dress: Regular price: $56 Sale price: $28

Tobi is definitely one of our go-to sites when it comes to finding a flirty going out-dress or anything trendy. Aside from being well-priced to begin with, they're having an amazing sale that you can't miss! Yep—that's half off everything on the entire site. This deep red dress is the perfect combination of chic and sophisticated. 

Deal: 50% off sitewide

Online code: FOREVERMORE

How long? Ends Sept. 24.

 

ASOS

Dolly Coat in JacquardOriginal price: $152.34 Sale price: $114.26

If you've never shopped at ASOS before, you need to start now. Everything you could've ever wanted in the most adorable patterns, colors and styles can be found here. The online retailer doesn't usually have flash sales, so consider their current promotion a present to you! This peach coat is so fun, and despite the notion you may have about pastels in the fall, these lighter hues are so in this season.

Deal: 25% off the Fall/Winter 2014 Collection 

How long? Limited time

 

If you were worried about not breaking the bank this season with a new fall wardrobe, worry no more since the week is chock full of slashed prices!

How to Date Shy Guys: Your Complete Guide

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It’s hard enough trying to figure out what any guy is thinking, but it’s even more difficult to read a shy guy. When you fall for a shy campus cutie, it may not seem easy to figure out if he likes you back.

Some guys are just inherently shy, says Geoffrey Greif, a professor at the University of Maryland School of Social Work and author of Buddy System: Understanding Male Friendships. He adds that young women need to “understand that some shyness is embedded in the guy... and some shyness is contextual, i.e. certain situations or groups.” No matter the reason behind your guy’s shyness, our love experts can help you figure out how to make him yours! 

How to Get His Attention

Greif, Jasbina Ahluwalia, founder and CEO of successful matchmaking service Intersections Match, and psychotherapist Mary Waldon all agree that the number one tip for trying to date a shy guy is to take initiative! Whether this means initiating eye contact, a conversation or a date, all of our experts stressed the importance of taking that first step.

When you spot a cute guy across the room and think he might shy, Ahluwalia advises collegiettes to give their shy guy a “green light” by smiling or holding eye contact for a few seconds. This makes it easier for that interested but shy guy to approach you. Unlike more outgoing guys, shy guys might need a confidence-boosting signal from you to give him the courage to make a move.

Even if the shy guy doesn’t return your gaze, Ahluwalia says it doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you. She assures collegiettes: “Many men are more comfortable side-to-side with another person than facing the other person directly,” she says.

Greif adds that while women like face-to-face activities, “men hang out with their friends through shoulder-to-shoulder activities.” If you show interest from afar but your guy is still too shy to approach you, then the next step is to go up and talk to him!

How to Chat Him Up

After you walk over and make that initial contact, Ahluwalia says that “providing a warm and inviting opening” is the best way to help a shy guy engage you in conversation. “Don't worry if you continue to be more [talkative] than him as you develop your relationship,” she says. “Complementary personalities can be a great match.”

If you have difficulty being outgoing as well, Greif assures collegiettes that that’s totally normal. “Be okay with a little bit of silence,” he says. “People who are getting to know each other may not know how much silence to allow [because] silence can be uncomfortable if it goes on for too long... but talking too much can shut down quiet people, too.” If all else fails, you can always get a shy guy to talk by asking him a question. You probably shouldn’t quiz him on his opinion of the meaning of life, but asking about his favorite sports team can be a great opener.

How to Ask Him Out

If you’re already friends with the shy guy you like, Greif tells collegiettes that while you should be comfortable with initiating a date, you shouldn’t rush things. “Moving from a platonic to a romantic relationship can take time and the ability to read the situation,” he says. This is especially true of shy guys who may guard their emotions more than their more outspoken friends. Waldon agrees that you should take it slow and suggests “low-key interactions such as a daytime study date or tutoring session.” It can be difficult for a shy guy to ask out a girl on an official date, so asking your shy guy to casually hang out clues him in on your interest so he can feel confident to take your interaction to the next level.

Greif says that another great way to get to know a shy guy is to participate in activities that interest you both. “See what the commonalities are between you and the guy,” he says. Greif cautions collegiettes not to get involved in activities that only he likes; he says, “You have to like them too. Finding mutually enjoyable things to do is one way to get to know someone.” Waldon agrees and suggests that you “invite him to a social service or volunteering event that you enjoy— this is something important and meaningful to do and it will give you something to discuss, too.” When your guy is comfortable in his environment or sees you comfortable in yours, the interaction between the two of you will come naturally and easily.

How to Make Him Fall for You

Once you’ve had a few low-key interactions with your shy guy, you and he will both feel comfortable enough for you to invite him to an outing, like a concert or game night, with a small group of friends. Because it’s a group event rather than a one-on-one date, this is a low-pressure way for you to get closer to a shy guy. Once again, you help take the pressure off him because you’re the one who initiated the interaction.

 

Greif adds that although this will make many shy guys comfortable, “some guys who appear shy are very interested in getting to know people and may feel more comfortable with a quiet talk/one-on-one situation.” A shy guy’s affection may not be obvious, but even the most bashful boy will show his interest with someone who makes him feel comfortable. Although it may take more time for a shy guy to open up, if you follow this guide, he’ll be yours before you know it.

'Modern Family' Star Sarah Hyland Gets Restraining Order Against Ex-Boyfriend

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Modern Family star Sarah Hyland, who plays Haley Dunphy on the popular sitcom, has filed a temporary restraining order against her ex-boyfriend, Matthew Prokop, TMZ reports. The pair dated for five years and split this August, but only now is the truth about their relationship coming to the surface.

Hyland revealed in court documents obtained by TMZ that Prokop choked her, pinned her against a car and sent her floods of threatening and emotionally disturbing messages via text message and email.

“His grip was so tight that I could not breathe or speak,” Hyland said about the incident in the court documents. “I was scared and in fear for my life.”

Some of the most distressing threats he allegedly made involved setting her home on fire and harming her dog.

Hyland said she knew she was in an abusive relationship at the time of the events. She even asked Julie Bowen, who plays her mom on Modern Family, for help with ending her relationship in a peaceful manner, which clearly didn’t go as planned.

News of their volatile relationship is coming at a time when domestic violence is rampant in headlines, between the Ray Rice scandal and the viral hashtag #WhyIStayed. While there are still things we’re in the dark about concerning Hyland and Prokop, we do know that we respect her for recognizing the toxicity of the relationship and doing something about it.

Would you be able to recognize the signs of an unhealthy relationship? Some of them are not as obvious as you might think. If you're in an abusive relationship or someone you know might be, learn what to do next and how to seek help.

Spotted on Shelves: Nails Inc. NailKale Polishes

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The “I Love Kale" phenomenon has reached collegiettes across the country. The super food is a well-known staple in green smoothies and hearty salads, but now it’s even an ingredient in the newest nail polishes by Nails Inc.

Even though the nourishing power of kale has already been used to work skincare magic, the brand's NailKale collection (which Alexa Chung was tapped to be the face of!) are the first nail care products to jump on the kale bandwagon. Since kale contains vitamins A, C and K, the claim is that nails will benefit from the polish, since the ingredients are formulated to stimulate advanced keratin production to hydrate and nourish nails.

The polish contains a 5-free formula, which means the colors do not contain Formaldehyde, toluene, DBP, Formaldehyde Resin or Camphor, all of which are harmful to the body. What we also love is the thoughtful design in the bottle—it allows you to easily try before you buy, by placing your finger into the hollowed out bottom of the bottle, where the color of the polish is reflected in the glass so it almost looks as if you're wearing the polish without actually having to paint it on. With a wide brush that curves at the tip, you can easily paint your nails close to the cuticle without getting polish everywhere, making for a professional-looking finish.

Michelle Mismas, the nail polish guru behind the blog All Lacquered Up, tested out two of the shades from the line. Her results were great, and she noted that the “formula is a pleasure to apply.”

As of now, the nail polish color range is limited, but as the line expands, we’re sure that more colors will be added. The current colors are largely neutral but there are also a few brighter colors as well: a pink-based nude, a fall-friendly burgundy, a bright pink, a bold purple, and a dark green, most likely inspired by the rich hue of kale itself. We're excited to try out the the Superfood Base Coat, which is made to strengthen, hydrate and nourish the nail for a healthy base to your color.

For collegiettes looking to test out these products, check out Sephora stores or Sephora.com as well as NailsInc.com.

What do you think about using kale as a nail polish ingredient? Do you think it'll live up to its claims? Sound off in the comments!

How to Text Guys Like a Pro

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As if flirting weren’t already hard enough, perfecting the art of texting guys could be an Olympic sport! Finding the balance between overbearing and overly casual can be difficult. Not to mention, boys basically speak their own language, so trying to decipher what the heck they’re saying via text is an uphill battle. But there are a few tricks of the trade that make texting guys a little easier. Here are some tips you should follow to hold your own on your phone!

1. Be confident

Whoever said never text a guy first was so wrong. Sure, you shouldn’t have to always start the conversation, but putting yourself out there and getting things started shows confidence.

It can be hard to find a good conversation starter, but the “what’s up?” line has literally zero pizzazz. Being bold can be really attractive to guys, and it sets you apart by making you memorable. Whatever your flirting style is, it’s important to step up to the plate and do your best to hit a home run in texting.

“Some fun ways to flirt include, ‘Can’t stop thinking about last night,’ or, ‘I think I’m blushing today.’ This will show him that you’re attracted to him, and he’ll feel flattered,” says Julie Spira, dating expert and founder of Cyber-Dating Expert

You are awesome, and you have no reason to be nervous about texting a guy. Plus, you miss a hundred percent of the shots you don’t take, right? Be confident in yourself and it’ll come across in your texts, making him want you even more.

2. Play it cool

It’s exciting if you’re hitting it off with your crush, but being overly eager is sometimes a red flag for guys. Don’t overwhelm him with novels about your day when he asks how you’re doing. And definitely don’t bombard him with texts if he’s not responding. Double-texting is every guy’s worst nightmare, and you don’t want to come off as desperate or needy, because that’s so not you!

However, please don’t get caught up in trying to play some sort of waiting game to reel him in.

“As far as rules on when to return a text, don’t sit and bite your fingers counting the hours to pretend you’re not available,” Spira says. “If you hear from him and have your phone handy, respond in a reasonable time. This means within a few minutes to one hour. A study from online dating sites ChristianMingle.com and JDate showed that a reasonable response time is one hour or one to three hours. Anything after that sends a message that you’re really not that interested.”

Just be calm, cool and collected, and he’ll be sure to want more.

3. Less is more

An occasional smiley face is one thing, but making a picture story out of emojis is just a little bit excessive. As a rule of thumb, if you think you’re overdoing it, you probably are. Boys aren’t usually as expressive as girls, and, “OMG cool!!!!!!” may seem like enthusiasm to you, but can come off as crazy to guys. Just keep it casual and use emoticons sparingly.

“When it comes to texting and flirting, I always believe that less is more,” Spira says. “If you already have a texting relationship, sending a sweet text saying, ‘Hope you’re having a great day’ or, ‘thinking of you’ will cheer him up while he’s at work. The reason I like to include the word ‘great’ is that most guys have a positive reaction to that word. They’d like to think you’d have a great time with him and that you’re a happy person.”

You can always feel out his texting style and go off of that. But at least for starting things off, hold off on the dancing girl and hair-flip emojis every other text. Texting is an art form, and much like you don’t want to splatter-paint all over the Mona Lisa, it’s not necessary to riddle your conversation with emojis and explanation points.

But of course, when you feel that calling for a specific emoji, it’s okay to fall to temptation. They are tempting and basically the perfect form of expressing your thoughts and feelings. Just try to avoid emoticon overdose.

4. Let him do the texting

Flirting through texts doesn’t have to be some big puzzle. The best way to keep a conversation going is by actually having things to talk about. Ask him simple questions that will make him want to talk. Boys are just like us – they love talking about themselves. It gives you a chance to know him and breaks the ice by basically forcing him to text you back. Giving him open-ended questions keeps the convo flowing, and he’ll enjoy answering them.

However, “remember, guys don’t multitask typically the way that women do, so don’t get upset about quick text messages,” Spira says. “If you want to have a conversation, it’s best to pick up the phone.”

Still, don’t fall prey to fangirling over him and not getting a word in edgewise. He should be asking questions about you, too!

5. Know when to end it

It can be hard trying to wrap up a conversation, but the first step is being able to realize when the convo is fizzling out. If he’s starting to send one-word answers or is taking way too long to text back, then it’s probably time to call it quits. Make a graceful exit with a little bit more than just a. “see you later” or, “talk to you soon” text that still somehow leaves him wanting more. Try to conclude it with the possibility of making future plans.

“Who knows? It might turn into a date that night,” Spira says.

Leave it open for other conversations. Tell him why you have to go or that you’re excited to see him again. And if he responds back, let him have the last word and leave him wanting more.

6. Don’t overanalyze it

There is nothing worse than the “k” kiss of death. It’s like a punch in the gut, and our world comes spiraling down around us. But sometimes we overreact to what in reality was probably a quick text while he was distracted by something else or about to head into the gym. And we know what it’s like to stare at your phone waiting for a response. Why didn’t he text you back? Does he not like you? Is something wrong?

Maybe he just forgot to answer. Maybe he lost his phone. And before you know it, you’ve convinced yourself he was kidnapped by a gang and his phone is at the bottom of a lake. Chances are he’s busy or he forgot to text you back.

“Remember that guys often will respond to a text with a one-word or two-word answer. These may include, ‘ok,’ ‘great’ or ‘hang on,’” Spira says. “Guys don’t really want to see a novel on their mobile phones, so keep it brief to keep him interested. Long-winded text messages appear like heavy drama to a guy, so don’t think he’s not interested if you suggest a place to meet and provide the address and he responds with, ‘too far’ or, ‘sounds good.’”

And don’t torture yourself reading into every text he sends. Texts can be hard to decipher, and you can’t hear his tone, which can really stink.  But you’re gonna drive yourself crazy overanalyzing the conversation. Just let it happen!

7. Be yourself

When it comes down to it, even though you’re letting your thumbs do the talking, you should still be acting like yourself. There’s no point in playing games because you can’t base your relationship with someone off some weird rules someone once made up. This really isn’t rocket science; it’s just the 21st century’s version of flirting.

Don’t hide behind your phone and pretend to be someone else. If he doesn’t like you for you, he’s really not worth your time anyway. No use stressing yourself out trying to play mind games! You should be basically talking to him just like you would in person, and everything will fall into place.

Whether you’re texting your lifelong crush or that hottie from class for homework help, we wish you the best of luck in your endeavors! If you follow these simple guidelines, you should have no issues texting guys. Be yourself, be cool and be confident, and you’ll be a flirtexting pro!


18 Thoughts Every Girl Has at a Frat Party

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We're not saying that fraternity parties are exactly like the scenes you see in the movies, but we are saying that they're some of the best parties you'll ever attend. Whether you're a senior who's well versed in frat-party shenaningans or a freshman stepping into a fraternity house for the first time, let the good times roll.  

1. "I'm way too sober for this."

No amount of pregaming prepared me for this.

2. "There are too many people in this house right now." 

Who are all of these people?!

3. "But I look hella cute, so I'm just gonna do my thing." 

Don't mind me; I'll just be right here looking fabulous. 

4. "What in the world did I just step in? Please don't be vomit, please don't be vomit, please don't be vomit..." 

It's probably better if I don't know. 

5. "What is in this 'punch'?"

If there is, I can't taste it.

6. "Woooohoooo!!"

Best. Night. Ever.

7. "Let's steal a composite!" 

I always hear people saying that they stole a composite.

8. "Never mind; those things are really heavy..."

How does anyone manage this?

9. "Oh, look. Drinking games I don't have the hand-eye coordination for but will play anyway."

A for effort, though. 

10. "Those girls are dancing on a table... Ugh, I will never dance on a table." 

God, why are girls so desperate?

11. *One drink later, dancing on the table.* "HATERS GONNA HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE." 

I'm the best dancer at this party. 

12. "Why did I think that it was a good idea to use the bathroom here?"

Can I catch a disease in here?

13. "Is my roommate hooking up with someone on that disgusting couch?" 

I'll make a mental note to remind her to shower tonight. 

14. "I need to Insta this." 

#somuchfun #partywithmygirls #bestnightever

15. "This couch is really comfy..." 

No one is watching, right?

16. "Is this guy I've been flirting with cute, or do I have on some serious beer goggles?"

I think he's cute. Do you think he's cute? He's cute. Definitely cute.

17. "I dont want to end up like that girl..."

My friends would never let me do that, right?

18. "Oh, well. You only live once, amirite?" 

The best four years of your life wouldn't be the same without one or two wild nights! 

How to Get to Know Your Professors (Even in Large Lectures)

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There are countless academic differences between high school and college, like the rigor of your courses and a different scheduling style. But one of the changes that could take the most getting used to is your class size and dynamic, especially at a larger school. 

In high school, your classes hovered between 20 and 35 students, but now you find yourself stepping into lecture halls that look more like athletic arenas and sitting in class next to 300 of your peers. The professor might lecture using a podium or microphone, and when you raise your hand to speak, you just get pointed at instead of named. You wonder how you’re ever going to get to know any of your professors, not to mention how you’re going to get to know one well enough to ask for a recommendation from them down the road—seniors in college, we’re talking to you!

Sound like you? You’re not completely out of luck. One of the big myths of college is that you’ll never get to know your professors in large classes. Though it may require more effort on your part, there are some ways you can get to know your professors, even in a class of hundreds of students, who will write you a killer recommendation down the road. Check out these tips from Desiree Griffin, lecturer in the Department of Psychology at UNC-Chapel Hill. 

Don’t rush out the door after class ends

If you’re not in a hurry to make it to another class, those few minutes after your lecture is over are a great time to introduce yourself to your professor or chat with him or her briefly. “It is important for students to take the initiative and introduce themselves to their professor, preferably sooner rather than later,” Griffin says. 

The lecture will be fresh in both of your minds, so you could easily ask him or her a question about something you didn’t understand or talk about your opinion on an issue he or she mentioned. This not only puts a face to your name for the professor, but it also shows her that you were actively paying attention to the lecture and that you cared enough about what she taught to talk about it even after class is over. Can someone say, “brownie points?” 

“These interactions stood out to me because it demonstrated a genuine interest in what they were learning, which I found refreshing, and I wanted to reciprocate that interest by discussing topics with them before or after class,” Griffin says. 

Go to office hours, even if you don’t need help

A common misconception about office hours is that they’re only there for students struggling in the class who need extra help. And while office hours are a great resource for getting your questions and concerns dealt with one-on-one, they’re also a great way to get to know your professor. 

“By going to instructors’ office hours, you can take the time to tell them about yourself and your interests and also get the opportunity to get their insights into their respective fields (most instructors like to talk about what they do/study),” Griffin says. “Having this meeting will likely set you apart from most of your classmates and make you more memorable. You will also have established a working relationship with your instructors, which will make it easier to reach out to them during the semester if you are struggling with any of the material.” 

Lucy Julian, a junior at UNC-Chapel Hill, says she tries to go to office hours at the beginning of each semester to get to know her professors. “At first it seemed weird to go to office hours with no real question or issue, but I realized quickly that my professors really appreciated me just introducing myself, and I usually had awesome conversations with them,” Lucy says. “They were great resources for everything from study abroad program recommendations to recommendations for future courses to take in the department.”

Take advantage of opportunities outside of the classroom

Many schools both large and small urge students to build relationships with their professors and are developing programs and events to facilitate these relationships. The University of Michigan, American University, Dartmouth College, UNC-Chapel Hill, Brandeis University and countless others have “Take Your Professor to Lunch” programs where students can sign up for free meal vouchers to treat their professors to on-campus meals. The idea of the program is to push students to spend time outside of class getting to know their professors, and with a free meal on the table, it’s no surprise that these programs are catching on with schools across the country. 

Griffin says that another great way to get to know your professor is to ask whether he or she is accepting any students to research programs, especially if they’re a professor in the sciences. Private research is a great way to build a relationship with your professor, and it’s also a great way for your professor to get a closer look at your work and interest in the subject matter, which could turn into great material for a recommendation in the future. 

Lots of professors either conduct school-sponsored research projects during the semester or conduct their own research privately in concentrations of their own interest. Many schools have listings for research opportunities online, but approaching your professor and just asking is an easy way to find out exactly what you want to know!

Stay in touch!

Even if you’re not currently enrolled in that professor’s class, it could still be beneficial to you in the long run to maintain your relationship with him or her and check back in every so often. Your professors will appreciate that you took the time to think about them and shoot them a quick email, which will not only keep you in their good graces if you ever need a recommendation, but it will also keep you fresh in their minds! A professor will have a hard time writing a thoughtful and accurate recommendation for a student they haven’t taught or even spoken to in a few semesters. 

Isabel Elson, a junior at Harvard University, says she keeps up with her old professors via email and with quick coffee or lunch dates.

“It’s super easy to shoot your old teachers an email every once in a while—I do it and I can tell it really means a lot to them,” Isabel says. “I usually just tell them what I’ve been up to in or outside of school, or sometimes I’ll email them a link to an article or page that made me think of them. Your professors are a lot more interested in what you’re up to than you might think, and many of mine frequently say how happy they are when they see a message from me in their inbox.”

Isabel says keeping in touch with her professors also made it easier for her to ask for internship and job recommendations. “I didn’t feel like I was using my professors or only contacting them because I needed something, and the fact that I kept in touch made it easier for them to write a rec for me because they knew what I’ve been up to and what work I’ve recently done,” she says. 

Other good ways to keep in touch with your professors are to attend a lecture, talk or presentation that they might be giving at school. The end of the program is a great chance to stop and talk to them—tell them how much you enjoyed their presentation and how you’d love to grab coffee sometime.

Another super easy tip? Take a class with them again! Professors love seeing students who come back for more of their teaching, and the fact that they’ve already taught you gives you a head start on material for a rec because they’ve already seen how you work!

 

With these tips, you’re bound to build great relationships with your professors. When you do ask for a recommendation, don’t forget to ask politely—in-person beats email any day, and be sure to give your teachers enough of a heads up on the deadline so that they’re not overwhelmed or scrambling to piece a recommendation together. And once you score that rec and land a killer job or internship, don’t forget to send a thank-you note!

How do you build strong relationships with your professors, collegiettes?

5 Beauty Products You Should NEVER Leave Your Dorm Without

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For those who dream of having a better-than-good hair, makeup and nail day all day everyday, you're in luck: We've found products to get you top notch results on the go. Scroll down to see our top five beauty products every collegiette needs to have on her at all times to achieve the look she's coveting, anytime.

1. Blotting Sheets

The glowy skin trend may be going strong but the look of a shiny T-zone sits high on our list of major beauty faux pas. To keep shine at bay, dab your face with one of Tatcha’s Petal Fresh Original Aburatorigami Blotting Sheets ($12). Free of powder and fragrance, these all-natural leaflets absorb excess oil without disturbing makeup—and they do the job so well, you'll absorb oil you didn't even realize you had (yikes, but good).

2. Rollerball Perfume

There’s room for a full-size breakable bottle of perfume in my bag, said no collegiette ever. Which is why a rollerball perfume is a travel beauty necessity. Take Elizabeth and James’ Nirvana Black Rollerball ($22) with you to stay fresh-smelling from A.M. to P.M. One swipe along your wrist and neck will exude a swoon-worthy blend of rich vanilla, alluring violet and sensual sandalwood.

3. Lipstick

Juggling school, work and internships has you stressed out, and it’s written all over your face. To instantly pull your look together, keep Bite Beauty’s Luminous Crème Lipstick Duo ($12) by your side. This mini duo of twist-up lippies comes in two colors that deliver vivid color on-the-go and can easily take you from day to night. Plus, it can help combat aging around your lips, as each tube contains the resveratrol (an anti-aging property) equivalent of two glasses of red wine.

4. Nail File

Your nails are painted such an irresistible shade that you can’t stop admiring them during class. One sudden move later and you’ve snagged your cozy knit sweater thanks to a jagged, chipped nail. Never let a bad nail ruin the bunch again by tucking Rococo’s Pro Glass Nail File ($18) into your purse—the smooth glass surface makes touch-ups quick and clean.

5. Dry Shampoo

Math has never been one of my strong suits, but I'm sure of one thing: flat hair + oily roots = a bad hair day. To avoid that hairy situation, carry a mini 1.4 ounce bottle of Oscar Blandi’s ‘Pronto’ Dry Shampoo Spray ($11). A sure way to refresh strands instantly, one spritz increases volume at the roots while absorbing oil, filling in for your off-days when washing hair doesn’t fit into your busy schedule.

What are your on-the-go beauty necessities? Tell us in the comments!

The 7 Most Bizarre College Classes of Fall 2014

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Even as pre-collegiettes fantasizing about “the best four years of our lives,” we knew that not every class we signed up for would make our brains light up Jimmy-Neutron style. But we didn’t expect that some courses would be so mind-numbing their course goals should read: “To bore you out of your skull.” Oh, how we wish all of our classes were like these seven crazy ones, found at college campuses across the nation! Pop quiz: Are they A) unexpected, B) fascinating, C) super weird or D) all of the above? Let’s find out.

1. Food Science and Nutrition 201 – California Polytechnic State University (San Luis Obispo, California)

We have no proof, but we suspect there’s a reason this class has such a vague, bland title—if it was more descriptive, every student on campus would be clamoring to enroll. FSN 201 focuses on our favorite food group (especially during finals): chocolate. Sarah Quon, who took the course during her freshman year at Cal Poly, says students learn how to make the decadent dessert, perfect its texture and prepare it to be sold. It sounds like these Willy-Wonkas-in-training have to do a whole lot of taste-testing. That’s one type of test we definitely wouldn’t mind taking.

The delicious results, which include butterscotch s’mores, cashew caramels and good ole milk chocolate bars, are available all over campus, so everyone gets to benefit from these students’ hard work.

2. The Art of Walking – Centre College (Danville, Kentucky)

Most of the people who take this class have some familiarity with ambulation—say, 18 years’ worth. But it’s understandable why students are willing to beef up their experience along with their calf muscles.

The course, which is offered by the English department and has been taught both on Centre’s Danville campus and abroad in Strasbourg as part of their study abroad course (what’s French for “jealous”?), includes literature about walking and “daily walks and rambles into local environs and farther afield.” When students aren’t tromping through meadows, they get to venture into parks, gardens and museums. We hope they packed the big guns shoe-wise, because the walks range from 15 to 25 miles.

3. Demystifying the Hipster – Tufts University (Medford, Massachusetts)

Is the best place to buy perfectly worn-in V-neck tees American Apparel, Urban Outfitters, the local thrift shop or some place so cool we don’t even know it exists? Is it better to drink non-fair-trade black coffee than no coffee at all? On a scale from one to Dumbledore, how scruffy should one’s beard be?

These types of questions have been haunting us since middle school, and we’re ready for answers. If only we could jaunt over to Tufts University and take this Experimental College course to find out. Participating students will examine hipster-themed movies, books, music and fashion from the last 20 years, in the process becoming “critics and sociologists of today’s hipster culture.”

We hope the students who take this class will share their findings with the world—but, in true hipster fashion, they might just tell us we “wouldn’t get it” and leave with us our queries.

4. Tree Climbing – Cornell University (Ithaca, New York)

As pre-pre-collegiettes, we were such avid tree-climbers that we and the bark were like one. But somewhere along the way (perhaps when we developed a fondness for adorable yet impractical shoes?), we stopped scaling trees and stuck to admiring them from afar.

Happily, this Cornell class would bring us up close and personal with our long-lost, sap-scented loves. Students taking the physical education course learn how to get up into the leafy canopy, move around and even jump from one tree to the next without touching the ground. For their literal leaps and bounds, they earn one credit toward graduation.

“I always see people climbing on various trees throughout campus,” says Katie Schneider, a bioengineering sophomore at Cornell. “Literally, they tie these ropes in between trees and balance across them like tightropes right in the middle of the Arts Quad!”

One question: Are students allowed to hum the soundtrack from The Hunger Games while climbing?

5. A Muggle’s Guide to Harry Potter Chemistry – The University of Nebraska-Lincoln (Lincoln, Nebraska)

UNL is far from the first school to offer a course involving Harry Potter, but it is one of the first to offer its wizard wunderkind class in the science department with Chem 192H.

The potions master, err, professor, discusses intro chem topics through an HP lens, such as alchemy and gold, the science of butterbeer and fizzing whizbees and how fireworks are made (in real life, not with a wand).

We’re already ready to grab our cauldrons and sign up, but it gets even better. Students are randomly sorted into houses, which are used for groups for presentations and projects. Fifty points to Gryffindor!

6. Joy of Garbage – Santa Clara University (Santa Clara, California)

To be honest, the title of this course kind of sounds like an oxymoron to us. But one man’s trash is another man’s… happiness?

This environmental studies class tracks waste as it is “burnt, decomposed, landfilled, treated, recycled, reused, dumped on minority communities or shipped abroad.” And, unlike many courses, students don’t just stick to the theoretical—visits to sewage plants, landfills and recycling centers bring them into close (albeit smelly) contact with what people throw away.

While taking this class may necessitate lots of showers and/or free perfume samples from Sephora, we’d still kind of love to take it. After all, we use our garbage can on the daily; it would be nice to be more informed about what happens next!

7. Learning from YouTube – Pitzer College (Claremont, California)

It always seemed obvious to us that YouTubers like Jenna Marbles and Michelle Phan had lots of wisdom to dole out, whether they were discussing boys or bronzer. And now it seems like the academic world has come to the same conclusion (finally!).

Much like YouTube stars themselves, all students need is access to a computer and their own wits. All of the classwork and assignments, which include watching and making videos and reading and writing about them, occur online and mostly on YouTube, for obvious reasons, although the students do meet in class.

By the final, hopefully students will be able to answer the central questions: “What can YouTube teach us, and is this how, what and all we’d like to learn?”

We’re not sure, but we’d be more than willing to put some time into figuring that out.

College is known for being a place of experimentation, and these seven courses definitely epitomize the unconventional spirit. For once, we don’t think we’d have any trouble staying awake in class.

Win a $500 Lilly Pulitzer Gift Card--And a Chance to Score Your Dream Job!

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It’s never too early to think about your future…or your future closet—right? That’s why we’ve partnered up with Lilly Pulitzer for the chance of a lifetime that’s equal parts career-building and of course, wardrobe-enhancing.

You’re about to embark on the Path to the Pink Palace, as they say—or, the fast track to your dream job. Maybe you want to work in visual merchandising, where you’ll determine how to display the breezy, resort-chic dresses and boldly colored accessories; or maybe you want to design the brand’s famous prints (Lilly first began designing prints when she needed to disguise stains from working at a juice stand—and when high school friend Jackie Kennedy first wore one of her pieces…well, it was history from there); if you love shopping, perhaps merchandising is your true calling; then there’s the creative campaign team, where you’ll get to travel all over the world on photoshoots—and so, so much more.

We’re giving away an amazing opportunity to bring Lilly Pulitzer’s recruiting team to your campus: From September 25 to October 2, nominate your school here, where the recruiting team will select a Top 16; over the course of two weeks, you’ll vote for your school to continue to the following rounds of voting, until only one school is left standing (and it could be yours!).

You’ll also have a chance to win a $500 shopping spree at Lilly Pulitzer! Stock up on the designer’s famous printed dresses, plus bright totes (that’ll up your campus carry-all game!), fun tasseled scarves, loungewear you’ll be happy to ditch your college sweats for…we could go on, but it’s time for you to stop reading and start by entering now below!

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9 Celebrity Allies You Should Know About

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It can be extremely disheartening for LGBTQ+ collegiettes to hear a celebrity, especially one they may admire, say something homophobic or transphobic. However, the world, including Hollywood, is making strides to be more accepting of LGBTQ+ people, and as more celebrities are coming out, there are also a lot more straight allies showing their support! Check out our list of celebrity allies who have really made a difference and supported the LGBTQ+ community.

1. Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard

Kristen Bell has spoken out about waiting to marry Dax Shepard until gay marriage was no longer illegal. During an interview with Larry King in 2012, she said, “The reason we’re not rushing to get married is because I don’t feel appropriate taking advantage of a right that’s denied to my [gay and lesbian] friends.”

So, in 2013, when the U.S. Supreme Court declared section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional, which stated that the federal government recognized only heterosexual married couples, Kristen and Dax finally tied the knot after a three-year engagement. What a sweet reason to wait it out!

2. Josh Hutcherson

Josh Hutcherson has always been a great ally to the LGBTQ+ community, speaking often about his two gay uncles who died of AIDS and his mother, who is also a strong advocate for the LGBTQ+ community. In 2013, Josh spoke to Out Magazine about how sexuality is fluid, maybe even his own. 

“Maybe I could say right now I’m 100 percent straight. But who knows? In a f**king year, I could meet a guy and be like, ‘Whoa, I’m attracted to this person,’” he said. “I’ve never been, like, ‘Oh, I want to kiss that guy.’ I really love women. But I think defining yourself as 100 percent anything is kind of nearsighted and close-minded.”

It’s refreshing to hear about a dude who isn’t frightened of talking about same-sex attraction!

3. Jennifer Lopez

Though superstar J.Lo didn’t come up with the idea for the award-winning show The Fosters, she definitely used her star power to get the show made! She became an executive producer of the show, which centers around a lesbian couple raising a family of foster children, and was able to get the show the publicity it deserved. Often, shows that have main characters who are gay aren’t seen as mainstream TV, and J.Lo didn’t want to see that happen to The Fosters.

“I knew my name being associated would bring attention to it and also create controversy because of the subject matter,” she said.

J.Lo’s main reason behind supporting the show was that she wished to honor her gay aunt, who passed away from cancer a few years ago.

4. Pete Wentz

Pete Wentz spoke for Fall Out Boy, and likely the whole LGBTQ+ community, when he spoke out against the misuse of the word “gay.”

He said, “We’re sick of hearing people say, ‘That band is so gay,’ or, ‘Those guys are f*gs.’ Gay is not a synonym for sh*tty. If you wanna say something’s sh*tty, say it’s sh*tty. Stop being such homophobic a**holes.”

So true! Pete has also talked further about this issue to Out Magazine, expressing his distaste over the fact that every time anyone defends LGBTQ+ individuals, they’re labeled as gay, as if that’s a bad thing.

“Homophobia is the last acceptable hatred,” he said.

5. Panic! At the Disco

It’s probably every LGBTQ+ person’s nightmare to ever encounter members of the Westboro Baptist Church, a group that spreads hate towards various marginalized groups in the USA. Earlier this summer, the group decided to protest at a Panic! At the Disco concert in Missouri. However, the band used that as an opportunity to do some good and raise awareness by donating $20 to the Human Rights Campaign, America's largest civil rights organization working to achieve LGBTQ+ equality, for every protester who showed up.

There were only 13 protesters, which the band saw as “weak”, so they raised their donation to an even $1,000 and donated five percent of their merchandise sales from that show to the HRC as well. Hopefully the Westboro Baptist Church was “panicking” when they realized how much money they helped raise for LGBTQ+ rights!

6. Kelly and Sharon Osbourne

These two reality stars have always been strong supporters of equality and allies to the LGBTQ+ community, having campaigned against Prop 8 and worked with the NOH8 organization to give LGBTQ+ issues more publicity in the media. The two Osbournes really showed their support at the Los Angeles Pride Parade in June 2010, when they served as Grand Marshals and called out protesters. Halfway through the parade, anti-gay protesters showed up, but the Osbournes shut them down quickly.

“My God loves gays!” Kelly shouted multiple times as Sharon shouted and intimidated every protester who got near enough to her. The protesters left almost as quickly as they came thanks to these two!

7. Anne Hathaway

When her brother Michael came out as gay, Anne Hathaway and her family decided to leave the Catholic Church to support him, knowing the church’s harsh stance on homosexuality.

"The whole family converted to Episcopalianism after my older brother came out," she told British GQ. "Why should I support an organization that has a limited view of my beloved brother?"

8. Daniel Radcliffe

Daniel Radcliffe has been working with The Trevor Project, a suicide prevention support group for LGBTQ+ teens, since 2009. He’s spoken about the importance of reaching out and providing help and services to gay and trans* teens who feel marginalized in their homes and communities.

"If you're feeling helpless or hopeless, there's always a safe place to turn," Radcliffe said in a March 2010 PSA.

Daniel has also addressed rumors that have spread about him being gay, brushing them off nonchalantly by saying, “If people want to say that, they can, but I’m not.”

9. Eric Stonestreet

Eric Stonestreet plays Cameron Tucker, a gay man, on the comedy show Modern Family. Though his sexuality has surely come into question, he’s never really addressed the rumors because he didn’t see them as a big deal.

"I never want to seem embarrassed or ashamed that I'm playing a gay person,"he told USA TODAY in 2010. "So I would never want to be like, 'Hey, I'm not gay.'"

It’s super awesome to hear that some of our favorite celebrities are calling out homophobia and transphobia and helping raise awareness in Hollywood. It’s not difficult to be an ally – just use these celebrities as your role models, and you’ll be off to a winning start!

What it’s Like to Have a Crush in College

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Few things in life are as complicated as a crush. They can bring out the craziest emotions.

It all starts when you lay eyes on that beautiful, beautiful guy in your mandatory 8 a.m. chemistry lab.

Seriously, did he just bath in gorgeousness this morning and splash on a godly glow aftershave? Like,

You must have him.

But when you catch his eye, you can’t form a sentence. There’s only one thing you can think of…   

He’s flawless and everything you’ve ever wanted. Basically, he’s the perfect guy.

You totally try and play it cool…

…but inside you’re like:

You run home and stalk the hell out him: Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter and a detailed Google search. Of course, you like what you see…

…but just to make sure you haven’t missed a detail, you ask your friends to tell you everything they know about him. Now, next time you see him you can oh-so-casually bring up that you both L-O-V-E Drake…

Finally, that glorious day comes when you “unexpectedly” bump into him on campus (please, like you totally don’t have his schedule memorized).

He asks you, “What’s up?” and you totally play it cool, like:

Yep. Nailed it. But what you really want to shout is:

Time to run to class and make a graceful exit. You think you look like this:

But you actually look like this:

So now you’re sitting in class pretending to take notes, when actually you’re planning a spring wedding.

You literally can’t function. You need him to love you.

Then it’s the weekend, and you’re finally ready to make a move.

You spot him at the bar, put on your most sultry look and start to strut over to him.

But wait… he’s with another girl.

How could he?? Does he not care about your future children?!

This relationship is SO over, buddy.

So you grab your friends, sulk back to your dorm and binge on junk food and romantic movies.

Your life is literally over. You might as well give up now…

Is love too much to ask for?

But then in another class, you lay eyes on a new beautiful, beautiful hunk and it’s like the last guy never existed—you’re giddy all over again.

Because seriously, this guy definitely bathed in gorgeousness this morning.

What is it like when you have a life-altering crush, collegiettes?


17 Little Things to Make Your SO Smile

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There’s nothing worse than having your schedule get in the way of spending time with your significant other. When life becomes stressful, it may be hard to find the time to show your partner how important he or she really is. You don’t always have to plan a big, elaborate date night; sometimes it’s the little things that mean the most.

Don’t let your relationship suffer due to a hectic semester! The next time you find yourself caught up in everyday stress, try these simple tricks to show your partner how much you value him or her.

1. Send a handwritten letter. When was the last time you received one of those?

2. Put together a care package full of his or her favorite treats. Don’t forget the cookies, brownies and carry-to-class snacks!

3. Send goodnight and good-morning texts. It’s always nice to start or end the day with your significant other on your mind.

4. Order takeout from your sweetie’s favorite restaurant. You can’t go wrong with pizza or Chinese.

5. Buy your SO a coffee for studying. This is the perfect pick-me-up, and it won’t cost you much.

6. Make a playlist with your SO’s favorite songs. Remember those old-school mix CDs you used to share in middle school? Share your Spotify playlist of tunes that express how you feel.

7. Share a funny photo that reminds you of one of your inside jokes. This is guaranteed to make your SO smile.

8. Leave little notes in your SO’s textbooks or backpack. For a nice surprise, you can hide sticky-note messages where they’re likely to be found.

9. Surprise your SO with a DVD. If you can’t find the time for a night out at the movies, bring the movie to your SO.

10. Pick up the latest issue of your SO’s favorite magazine. Making the effort to remember little details like this is important and will let your partner know you were thinking of him or her.

11. Create a DIY coupon book. This is a fun and easy way to make up for any lost time while your schedules don’t exactly match up. Make a little book of things you want to do together (such as ice cream dates, breakfast in bed, etc.), and give it to him or her!

12. Make a mason jar craft. Write down your favorite memories together or what you love about your SO on strips of paper and put them in the jar.

13.Buy a box of your SO’s favorite candy. This is a simple (and sweet) way to show you care.

14. Write encouraging messages in your SO’s calendar. This is great for the days when classes get overwhelming.

15. Plan a study date at library. This way you can see each other while also getting your own work out of the way.

16.Frame your favorite picture of the two of you. Bonus points if the frame is hand-decorated!

17. Join your SO on daily errands. Have a jam-packed day with lots of places to go? Ask your significant other to tag along. You can spend time together while being productive as well!

15 Signs Being Social Just Isn't for You

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Whether you spend your free time binge watching shows on Netflix or  just avoiding the general populace, not all of us are the social type. While some people love to party and cause mayhem, others delight in online shopping and nights in with the guys: Ben and Jerry. Here are 15 signs being social just isn't for you!

1. You consider Rachel, Ross, Monica, Chandler, Phoebe and Joey to be your best (read: only) friends.

 

"I'll be there for youuuuuu" ...just not today. There's a Friends marathon on.

2. You squeal with delight every time a friend cancels his or her plans with you.

*Pretends to be devastated but really spends all night binge watching shows on Netflix*

3. You sneak to the gym as soon as it opens or right as it's about to close to avoid as many people as possible.

Does running away from social interaction count as exercise?

4. Whenever you run into an acquaintance on campus, the first thing he or she says is, “OMG, I thought you transferred!”

You're harder to track down than Carmen Sandiego.

5. You have a slight panic attack any time someone calls you or asks you to hang out.

Just let it go to voicemail!

6. You think the greatest invention since sliced bread is the ability to order pizza online so that you never have to talk to anybody.

Who needs friends when there's pizza?

7. Sometimes you go so long without speaking to anyone that when you do, you’ve completely forgotten how to put sentences together.

Speaking is so overrated anyways. 

8. You’re capable of crafting any excuse to get out of plans.

*Insert extraordinarily complicated lie to get out of lunch plans*

9. You get really uncomfortable when people try to open up to you about personal things.

Just nod your way through the awkwardness.

10. Online shopping is your religion.

Does that mean we never have to step foot inside the mall again? Victory!

11. You consider being stuck in an elevator full of people to be a fate worse than death.

And the panicking begins in five... four...

12. The “Irish goodbye” is your way of life.

Thanks for the invite! See you never!

13. You like the idea of dating in theory, but you aren’t willing to give up your nights in with Ben and Jerry to go out with anyone.


Chunky Monkey is the best boyfriend.

14. You have 5,000 tweets to your name, but if you met any of your followers in real life, you’d have nothing to say them.

Why be funny in real life when you can just be funny on Twitter?

15. Celebrities wear disguises in public to avoid the paparazzi. You do it to avoid people you know.

Is the trench coat too much?

 

Just because you're not social doesn't mean you're boring! So embrace your introverted personality, chow down on that Ben and Jerry's and spend time with your real Friends.

Throwback Thursday: Overalls

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Overalls: Are they totally ugly or really chic? It’s the question that is the lifeblood of many fashion trends (Uggs, Birkenstocks, high-waist shorts), but none so much as overalls. This cornerstone of '90s fashion made its mark on everyone from the Olsen twins to Gwen Stefani—and you may have worn them as a tottering 3-year-old, plagued by your mother’s affinity for appliquéd flowers (don’t try to tell us that was only our mothers), only to ditch ‘em in the third grade and pretend that such a fashion faux pas never happened.

But, wait! In case you haven’t noticed, recent seasons have made overalls a thing. They’re everywhere, hanging from the shoulders of street style stars or hugging the hips of festivalgoers at concerts across the country. Leandra Medine, otherwise known as the Man Repeller, wrote a whole book about overalls (well, and some other things) and sports them on the reg. You realize, suddenly, that overalls are crazy practical and, in their own way, sort of cute.

Wondering how to wear this reborn trend? You got it, dude. Try these fun looks to avoid re-living kindergarten and bring an old look up to date. 

Wear them short:

Overalls, $76, Topshop

Sandals, $120, Birkenstock

Tank Top, $20, Topshop

Hat, $39.50, Lucky

Rings, $9.50, Nordstrom Rack

Wear them long:

 

Overalls, $39, Abercrombie

Sandals, $48, NastyGal

T-Shirt, $29.99, J. Crew

Backpack, $40, Herschel Supply Co.

Glasses, $45, NastyGal 

What's your final verdict, collegiettes? Will you be wearing overalls on campus this season?

 

8 Outdated Job-Hunting Tips (& What to Do Instead)

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The goal of a college education is ultimately to get a job, so naturally your parents, grandparents, professors and anyone else who has had a part in your academic career are inclined to give you job-hunting tips. Though your elders clearly have great intentions in trying to help you out, you may want to be wary of the advice they give. Because of the age gap between our generation and theirs, the tips that worked for them years ago don’t necessarily apply anymore. Here are some the outdated pieces of advice you may hear from those a bit older than you, and what you should do instead to get ahead on those job and internship applications.

1. Go door-to-door looking for a position

When Northwestern University graduate Zara Wright was looking for summer jobs, adults gave her this tip. “Although it seemed outdated to me, I originally did take this advice because I was a job-hunting novice at the time,” she says. “It turned out that this process was not at all productive. Most businesses weren’t hiring (surprise, surprise), but asked me to fill out an application for their records anyway. I spent countless hours each day filling out applications that were never going to be seen.”

Instead of hitting the town to look for jobs, take your search online and save the time you’d otherwise spend visiting businesses without any available positions. “In today's world, where the Internet is such a useful resource, it makes far more sense to do the research from home to see what jobs are out there and apply to positions you know are open,” Zara says. Vicki Salemi, author of Big Career in the Big City: Land a Job and Get a Life in New York City and founder of the Boot Camp for College Grads, says you can look at sites such as CareerBuilder, Monster and Indeed to find jobs. She recommends Indeed in particular because it aggregates job postings from a bunch of different sites. In a process that’s already daunting and tedious, you don’t want to waste any precious time!

2. State your intention to get a position on your resume

Your elders may advise you to start your resume off with an objective stating something like, "My goal is to obtain a position in such-and-such field." But Salemi doesn’t recommend this because the fact that you're applying for the position already implies that you'd like to obtain it.

Instead, at the top of the page, provide a summary of your knowledge and skills relevant to the job, Salemi says. In other words, don’t just say you want a position; tell the employer why you’d be good for it! For example, your objective can give a broad overview of your experience in the field and touch on the personal attributes you possess that would make you a great candidate, such as a strong work ethic, organizational skills or the ability to multitask.

“Tell me something as a recruiter that I need to know, says Alice Harra, the former interim director of University Career Services at Northwestern University and a former corporate recruiter. She suggests you write something like: "Five years experience in award-winning customer service, and looking forward to making all your customers smile as a Customer Service rep for XYZ. Happy to relocate." These general tidbits will serve as a nice lead into the more specific skills you highlight further down the page, making for a fluid resume that's sure to impress.

3. Put everything you’ve ever done on your resume to highlight every accomplishment

Instead of listing every one of your life accomplishments on your resume, Salemi says to keep it down to one page. But with all of your academic awards, extracurricular activities and community service projects, how can you manage this?

Cut out anything that you weren't involved with for a significant amount of time, as short stints in organizations display a lack of commitment. Highlight organizations where you held a leadership position. Also, nix anything you've taken part in that didn't involve skills relevant to the job you're seeking.

Cutting down your resume is important in helping you get to the next round of the application process. With an increasingly competitive job market and so many applications to read, recruiters are not going to sift through a 10-page document. In fact, Harra says recruiters don’t even spend much time looking at resumes, and eliminate those that are too long right away.

“As a former corporate recruiter, I looked at a resume for 10 to 20 seconds, rarely more,” Harra says. “I have checked this with every corporate recruiter and have never met one who reads a resume for more than 30 seconds. In fact, we don't read resumes; we scan them. A long one is immediately discarded. It means you don't know what you want to say, so you said everything. “

Harra says that ultimately, your resume isn’t supposed to be your life story. “Think of your resume as an invitation to call you, not your biography, she says. “Say just enough about the who, what, when, where and why in your experience so that the recruiter can make a match with the position they are recruiting for and be curious enough to ask you for a phone screen or interview.”

The phone call or in-person interview is when a recruiter will really get to know you, so you’ll have an opportunity to share more about your experiences during that part of the application process. If you take these considerations to heart and be selective with what you include on your resume, you'll be sure to keep it short, sweet and easy to read (or scan!).

4. Include your address and home phone number on your resume and cover letter

This may have been appropriate for the days when snail mail was the main mode of communication and cell phones didn't exist. In this day and age, however, calling your home phone and mailing a letter to your home address are probably not the quickest or easiest ways to reach you, especially when you're not likely to be home much anymore!

"Include your contact information that's easily accessible," Salemi says. "The address certainly isn't necessary nor relevant; if you're looking for an out-of-state job, you don't want to be immediately dismissed by the recruiter in case they think, 'Oh, they'll never move.' They should be thinking about whether or not you're qualified for the job, but sometimes other factors come into play that could potentially dismiss you as a candidate, so you're better off leaving it off."

In today's job search process, you should typically include your cell phone number and email address on your resume and cover letter to ensure you're as reachable as possible. Do make sure your email address sounds professional, though; “beachygirl@hotmail.com” just won’t cut it, Harra says. Also, if you have a personal website showcasing your work, provide a link to that on your resume as well so employers can easily see firsthand what you’ve accomplished. Harra also says to provide links to your LinkedIn and Twitter pages if your posts are relevant to your professional life.

You’re growing up and entering the real world, so you shouldn't have Mom and Dad be fielding your calls and mail! 

5. Don’t experiment with design on your resume and cover letter

Many of your elders may be apt to tell you to always keep your resume black and white. Aubrey Nagle, a Drexel University senior and the Campus Correspondent for Drexel’s chapter of Her Campus, heard that advice during a career class she took in preparation for her co-op. “Such a variety of students and majors, both traditional and creative, go to Drexel that I was shocked we were told to keep our resumes plain when looking for co-ops,” Nagle says.

Instead of immediately opting for black and white, you should tailor your resume and cover letter to the jobs for which you’re applying. If you’re looking to land a position that doesn’t entail any sort of web or graphic design, then feel free to keep a black-and-white look with standard fonts such as Times New Roman or Arial. Salemi says there’s nothing wrong with giving your resume a basic appearance.

But if you’re looking to snag a creative gig, Salemi says you can definitely add in some pizzazz. This will help showcase your skills in the application itself. And even if you’re looking for a different type of position, it still doesn’t hurt to spice up your application to make it pop! Nagle did just that, and she says it helped her obtain a number of positions. “In a sea of same-old, same-old, nothing stands out like a punch of color!” she says.

If you do decide to spruce up your app.ication, make sure you choose colors, fonts and spacing settings that won’t reduce readability. And if you’re submitting your documents to an online application system, save them as PDF files in order to preserve their presentation. To mock up fabulous resumes and cover letters, Adobe’s InDesign is a fantastic resource if you have it on hand or can access it at your school.

But regardless of whether you choose to keep a traditional resume format or go for something bolder, Harra says to remember that the content you include is still more important than presentation. “What is special about you? What can you deliver to your future employer and the world? That is what should pop on your resume, not your font, color choice or layout,” she says.

6. Mail in your application

You may hear from parents, grandparents and professors that employers love hard copies of applications, and for some, this may be true. But at many companies, you’ll have to apply online anyway—Harra says potential employees had to submit their applications to a digital system even when they mailed them or dropped them off—so make sure you get that done. Online submissions allow companies to keep applications organized and easily maintain digital copies of your materials in case anything gets lost. Plus, it’s also easy for you to confirm that all of your documents were properly submitted. After all, there’s nothing worse than finding out your application was lost in the mail or a pile of papers!

7. Don't put your personal information online 

Many members of older generations consider the Internet a vast abyss of information that could potentially get you in trouble. While this certainly could happen, you shouldn’t avoid it entirely—but you should still make every effort to keep up a professional social media presence.

Maintain an updated profile on LinkedIn to make your accomplishments more visible to potential employers. Harra also suggests perusing LinkedIn groups in your field to look for job opportunities that appeal to you. “Go to where the people who are doing the job that you want to be doing are and interact with them,” she says. Social media makes this incredibly easy to do!

You can also constructively increase your online presence by creating a personal website. Your website should include a brief summary about yourself, samples of any work you’ve done in your chosen field, a downloadable resume and your contact information. You can create a site for free with WordPress or Wix. If you need help laying out your personal site, take a web design class, ask for help from a web-savvy friend, chat with your school’s career center or check out Her Campus’s tips for making one!

But even with these professional kinds of online visibility, you obviously still have a personal life that’s likely to be at least partly documented on the Internet. Your elders are right in telling you that the wrong information could get you in trouble (regardless of how private you think it is), so be wary of what you post, the photos you’re tagged in, the pages you like and the people you interact with. Polish your online profiles by nixing photos containing alcohol or where you show too much skin, and refrain from writing obscenities in your posts. You can also use a website like SimpleWash to find and delete unprofessional content on your social media profiles. If you don’t want your parents to see it, then it probably shouldn’t be online.

8. If you’re patient enough, the right position will come along

Wouldn’t it be nice if your parents’ belief in you was enough to get you what you wanted? In a competitive job market like that of today, you’ll never find a position you love if you wait around. “Initiative is a key skill for lifelong success,” Harra says. While you don’t want to badger a recruiter, she says, you should still get in touch periodically and ask for pointers for the future if you didn’t receive the position. Harra says to be sure to also keep the recruiter updated on any more experience you’ve gained and obtain information on networking events and opportunities.

If you don’t get the job of your dreams right off the bat, don’t give up! Show off your tenacity and enthusiasm about a company by maintaining contact and emphasizing your new skills. If you don’t take the initiative to make this information known, you’ll never stand out to a recruiter.

 

An increasingly competitive job market has made for a different job application process that older generations may just not understand. But if you keep these tips in mind, you’ll be able to steer clear of outdated advice and make your job search as easy, efficient and successful as possible. Happy hunting! 

Match Your Mani to Your Phone Case

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There's an old-fashioned rule saying that your accessories should always match and complement one another: jewelry, bags, shoes, belts, the works. Well, here's a new one for you: your manicure and your phone case.

With the debut of the new iPhone 6 and iPhone 6 Plus, we've been stalking the cutest new phone cases—and why not have a bit of fun with it and find the manis to match? Check out our top picks below!

1. Fresh Mint

Mint will always have a special place in our hearts, tea, coffee, chocolate, ice-cream...and phone case. We love the ombré chevron of this phone case, and how cute does it look with this cool polish color?

2. Far Out

Your phone is out of this world! And make that literally out of this world with a galaxy-patterned phone case. Your matching nails can just be as space-tacular with a deep mauve layered with a purple shimmer. How perfect for fall is this look?

3. Shine Bright Like an (Orange) Diamond

Diamonds are two things: bright and strong—just like this diamond-patterned case! We love the bold orange, but you'll find tons of other shades, too. 

4. Jaguar Lady

Mreowww! Stay fiesty with this boss lady case. With a matching manicure, you are sure to turn heads with the purrrfect pairing every time you whip your phone out. Full-on leopard nails too much for you? A solid nude will look just as good.

5. Shades of Warm

Red, coral, purple, yellow, pink...these colors are sure to keep you warm during the fall and winter months. No need to switch out your case with your mani because with this many colors come many opportunities (including white, which we say you can wear after Labor Day)!

6. À la Nude

And by nude, I meant your iPhone case. The iPhone 6 is shatterproof and waterproof, which is great news for all those who love to keep their phone bare. Fortunately, you can still have fun with your polish options!

Have any of you collegiettes snagged the iPhone 6 already? Let us know what your favorite case is—and what nail polish color you'll be sporting to go along with it!

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