It seemed like happy news last week when it was announced that Otto Warmbier, a U.S. college student, would return home from North Korea after being detained there for more than a year. But then it was announced that he was in a coma—and that he’d suffered severe brain damage from unknown causes. On Monday afternoon, just six days after Warmbier landed back on U.S. soil, his family announced that the 22-year-old has died. 

“It is our sad duty to report that our son, Otto Warmbier, has completed his journey home.  Surrounded by his loving family, Otto died today at 2:20 p.m.,” his family said in a statement. “It would be easy at a moment like this to focus on all that we lost—future time that won’t be spent with a warm, engaging, brilliant young man whose curiosity and enthusiasm for life knew no bounds. But we choose to focus on the time we were given to be with this remarkable person.” 

Warmbier was detained in North Korea in January 2016, when the country claimed he had tried to steal a political poster while on a tourism trip with a company called Young Pioneer Tours. He “confessed” to this crime in March 2016, though North Korea is known for coercing false confessions.

A Rhode Island special education teacher decided to proudly support the LGBTQ community by striking a pose with a black fan while visiting President Donald Trump at the White House. 

Nikos Giannopoulos went to a meet and greet with the president in April after winning the Teacher of the Year award for the state of Rhode Island. When choosing an outfit, he decided to dress with "a little bit of flair," just like he usually does at the Beacon Charter High School for the Arts, he told The Washington Post. On that particular day, his ensemble included a nose ring, a gold anchor necklace to represent his home state and a rainbow lapel pin. Oh, and that famous black fan that added all sorts of personality to the best White House photo I've seen in a while. 

NBC reports that Giannopoulos brought the fan, which belongs to his partner, “to celebrate the joy and freedom of gender nonconformity.” 

“The entire day I was thinking about what it means to be in the White House and in the Oval Office,” Giannopoulos told the Post. “What it represents to be an openly gay person and a queer LGBT person in the White House.”

Giannopoulos said he was nervous about the reaction to bringing the fan. No one at security cared. And Trump even told him he loved the fan and had good style. But when it came time for the photo, staffers told him to put the fan away. “I just asked the president, ‘do you mind if I use the fan for the photo?’ he said 'absolutely go for it.’ So I popped my fan and did my pose,” Giannopoulos told NBC.

It's very fitting that Giannopoulos won the teacher of the year award in part because of his work with the gay-straight alliance. The photo, which pictures Giannopoulos tilting his head and fanning himself with the lace fan, is garnering more exposure for the LGBTQ community. The photo of Giannopoulos surfaced after he posted it on social media last week, just days after Los Angeles' Pride Parade turned into a #ResistMarch on June 11 to convince Trump to give the LGBTQ community more attention.

It's especially interesting for the photo to go viral during Trump's administration, since he is a president who has gone back and forth with the topic of LGBTQ rights. He raised concerns with Republican leadership when he accepted a gay pride flag at a Colorado rally. Yet Mara Keisling, the executive director of the National Center for Transgender Equality, previously told The New York Times that “Every twitch we’ve seen from the administration has been anti-LGBT.”

Perhaps this fabulous photo op will help motivate Trump to support LGBTQ issues and policies. It truly is an iconic photo.

Where are all the ‘90s babies at? Fashion trends from the ‘90s and early 2000s are being seen all over the place right now. Icons like the Kardashian-Jenner family, Hadid sisters and models alike are all sporting their childhood looks. This isn’t just a celebrity trend though! You can rock your favorite TBT looks too and here are eight ways to do it.

1. Chokers

Chokers are the perfect accessory to any outfit! They can be minimal or bold, colorful or dark, delicate or chunky and that’s what makes them the best addition. It’s no wonder this is on the comeback train.

2. Denim on denim

How adorable is young Drew Barrymore? She rocked the Canadian tuxedo in 1992 and 23 years later, in 2015, Rihanna wore a similar version. Denim on denim is definitely coming full circle and looks adorable with a simple white tank underneath!

3. Slip dresses

Slip dresses were everywhere in the ‘90s. They could be velvet, silk, or even lace and came in literally every color. They’re back and perfect for any fancy occasion.

Another version of the slip dress is the slip dress over the t-shirt.

Oh, Rachel Green. If she isn’t classic ‘90s inspiration, who is? This is the casual take on the slip dress. You could definitely wear this to class, brunch, or dinner with friends!

4. Tommy Hilfiger

Tommy girls are infamous and thanks to Urban Outfitters and Gigi Hadid, we can reveal our own inner Tommy girl. This is the best of the best to come back from the ‘90s.

5. Adidas

Adidas was big in the ‘90s hip-hop culture and has come back to rule the fashionable sportswear industry. Not only will you see the classic Adidas Superstar or Gazelle shoes, like Kate Moss is wearing, but you’ll see tracksuits, like Rita Ora’s, and Stan Smiths in a ton of different colors. These are casual outfits — the definition of athleisure. Adidas isn’t just for training and hip-hop anymore.

6. The Clueless look

Cher Horowitz’s classic yellow plaid look doesn’t have to be only a Halloween outfit now! Bella Hadid modernized this ‘90s look with her own twist and it’s so chic — perfect for any summer event.

7. Mom jeans

Here’s Bella again serving up a super sweet ‘90s look, the high waist mom jean! From Tyra to Bella, this look is very hipster-boho.

8. Jean vests

Shania Twain and Selena Gomez are both stunning singers so it makes sense they both have an awesome sense of style. Pair a jean vest with a crop top and mom jeans and you have yourself a double denim look too! Total ‘90s outfit.

Style trends come and go and fashion is constantly being recycled. Thankfully, these ‘90s trends are fun and doable with today’s trends! Which look will you wear first?

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Jumanji without Robin Williams is like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich without jelly ––you just can't really imagine it working.

But for the cast of Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle, the sequel to the original film released in 1995, Williams' character Alan Parrish will live on in the latest installment despite his death in 2014. 

Jack Black told The Hollywood Reporter the film will feature a tribute to Williams. “We’re exploring this jungle and trying to conquer the game; it’s life or death,” he said. “But while we’re there, we find clues left behind by [Williams’ character Alan Parrish]. He built up a full-blown jungle house, similar to a Swiss Family Robinson situation. It’s like he’s there helping us without actually being there.”

If you're still wary about the idea of another Hollywood reboot (and rightfully so), let your mind find some ease. Black went on to clarify the difference between Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle and the original Jumanji film. 

"[In the original] you never got to see the inside world," Black said. "But this one takes place primarily inside the jungle of Jumanji. That's the coolest part of the film — we're able to transport the audience to that secret and wondrous land, with the danger and the beauty."

Nobody can ever replace Williams' legacy. However, only time will tell if the new cast, which includes Black, Dwayne Johnson, Kevin Hart, Nick Jonas and Karen Gillan, can stand on its own. 

Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle is set to hit theaters on Dec. 22, 2017. 

When it comes to living your best life, the more people you can do it with, the better, right? There’s nothing like good company, especially if you’re the type of girl that loves hanging with friends and family, or anyone for that matter. Read on to discover if you’re the type that needs 24/7 human contact to, well, survive.

1. You never, ever turn down plans.

That would be as ridiculous as turning down food. As if.

2. Your phone is pretty much your lifeline when you’re not physically with your friends.

Your ringtone might as well be Kim Possible’s “Call me, beep me, if you wanna reach me!”

3. Your bank account is usually hurting, since you’re always trying to do things with people.

If only brunching and shopping didn’t put such a dent in your wallet.

4. But you’d rather be a little stripped for cash than bored or lonely.

Nothing scares you more than eating ice cream from a carton on a beautiful summer day instead of enjoying some icy sweets outside with your squad.

5. Not that you mind being a homebody…as long as you’re not home by yourself.

Cue hosting Bachelorette viewing parties complete with wine, snacks and bets on who will last!

6. You’re super carefree, since you’ll go along with anything as long as you get to spend time with people.

Solo-bonding, group outings, double dates—you’ll do it all!

7. At this point, you’ve been called clingy so many times that it doesn’t faze you.

Sorry that you love and enjoy humans as much as humans love and enjoy half apps.

8. The thought of going anywhere by yourself gives you extreme anxiety.

You’d be talking to and befriending intimate objects like Belle in Beauty and the Beast.

9. And you get super down when you’re on your own for too long.

To the point where you’ll dramatically belt out Celine Dion’s “All by Myself” until your cat meow-screams for you to stop.

10. You’re the ultimate friend or SO because you’ll always make yourself available to hang out, FaceTime or talk on the phone.

You deserve a prize, but you’ll settle for a gift card or a giant sundae instead.

11. You’re a pro at finding the coolest happy hour places or Groupon deals to bring people together or convince friends to do a solo date.

You captivate friends the way cheese fries captivate drunk college students. 

12. Dating is tricky because it’s hard to find someone who can handle your level of commitment.

Aka someone that doesn’t mind the heavy texting, calling, cuddling and PDA at all hours of the day.

13. And you don’t need a doctor to tell you that you’ve got a seriously severe case of FOMO.

The cure? Always making sure you’ve got something to do that’s Snapchat- and Instagram-worthy with your crew.

14. You’re always down for a road trip, sleepover, night out—or any adventure that comes up.

Add “fun as hell” to the list of things that you should love about yourself.

15. You’ve got a lot of life in you and love in your heart—and you just want to be able to share as much of it as you can.

And make as many memories as you can, with the ones that make your life worthwhile.  

President Trump sent his condolences on Monday to the family of Otto Warmbier, the U.S. college student who was detained in North Korea for over a year and passed away only days after his return to America. 

In a statement released by the White House Monday evening, Trump denounced the North Korean regime.

"Melania and I offer our deepest condolences to the family of Otto Warmbier on his untimely passing," Trump said in the statement. "There is nothing more tragic for a parent than to lose a child in the prime of life. Our thoughts and prayers are with Otto’s family and friends, and all who loved him. Otto’s fate deepens my Administration’s determination to prevent such tragedies from befalling innocent people at the hands of regimes that do not respect the rule of law or basic human decency. The United States once again condemns the brutality of the North Korean regime as we mourn its latest victim."

The Hill reports Secretary of State Rex Tillerson received the news of Warmbier's death with "deep sadness." 

“On behalf of the entire State Department and the United States government, I extend my condolences to the Warmbier family, and offer my prayers as they enter a time of grief no parent should ever know,” Tillerson said in a statement. “We hold North Korea accountable for Otto Warmbier’s unjust imprisonment, and demand the release of three other Americans who have been illegally detained.”

Warmbier passed away on Monday, only six days after landing back on American soil.

This is not a drill, y'all: Burger King just released a Lucky Charms milkshake. Made out of vanilla-flavored soft serve, Lucky Charms oat cereal with marshmallows, and a sweet sauce, it really is a childhood dream come true. 

One Lucky Charms shake rings in at 740 calories and contains 107 grams of sugar ––but honestly, do we care? There is some actual bad news, though, ladies. According to Bustle, the delicious treat will only be available at participating locations and for a limited time only.

Get your hands on one of these before it's too late. Not only does the shake look oh-so yummy, but it's also totally Insta-worthy. 

When you find yourself falling for someone you’ve been dating and the feelings seem mutual, you typically get excited to share your emotions with your SO. You want them to know you care about them, you enjoy their company and ultimately hope they feel the same way. But what do you do when you realize you’re with someone you don’t see a future with? Or maybe you simply aren’t looking for a relationship with anyone at the time. It’s never easy to tell someone you’re not invested in the same way they are, so we’re here to share some advice on how to make that conversation a little easier.

Be honest

Honesty goes a long way, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. Navigating your own feelings can be difficult, but it’s not fair to drag someone along your emotional roller coaster. Juliet Goulet, a graduating senior at Bishop’s University, agrees that honesty is important no matter what the situation is. “Trying to make excuses or lie your way out of the conversation won’t help anyone. You’ll get mixed up and messed around and probably end up feeling guilty in the end,” she says. Being honest with your partner also means you’re being honest with yourself, which is all around an emotionally healthy way to live.

Every partnership varies, which is why you should be upfront with your intentions once you figure them out. “It’s important to understand that single and taken aren’t binaries,” Juliet says. “There is so much in-between, and every situation is different. Just because you don’t want a relationship doesn’t mean that you don’t want something. The ‘I’m not looking for a relationship’ talk isn’t always necessarily a ‘let’s stop seeing each other’ talk.” You could truly enjoy your SO as a person and value your time together, but if the idea of being with them long-term just doesn’t seem to fit, you have to let them know. Who knows, maybe they’ll even be on the same page as you and you can continue to date without future expectations.

Related: 7 Signs You Dodged a Bullet With Someone

Help them understand your perspective

If things seem to be going wonderfully and both partners are into one another, it can be difficult to explain that you’re simply not interested in a relationship. Today’s culture has normalized the casual dating/hookup culture, but that doesn’t always make letting someone down any easier. Megan Malaby, a recent graduate of Emmanuel College, shares how she handles these situations. “I always ask my partner to look at our relationship with me rationally and objectively,” she says. “In the situations I have been in, emotions are so high and we both feel especially impassioned and aren't able to think clearly. Once we both analyze our current positions considering us as two random people rather than ‘us,’ it's generally easier to make a clean break because we are able to identify the issues that are (generally) mutually felt.”

You can genuinely care about your partner even if you don’t want to advance the relationship, which may feel like a lie to them at the time. It’s not your responsibility to lay out every single thought going on in your mind, but giving them reasoning allows for some peace of mind. If you’ve ever been let down by an SO, you can understand why elaborating is a kind thing to do.

Define the relationship upfront

Most collegiettes have been on both sides of heartbreak. Whether you’re the one getting your heart broken or letting someone else down, it’s never an enjoyable situation to part ways with someone you care about. If you’re entering a new partnership, however, and you already know you’re not in the long-term commitment state of mind, it’s smart to have this conversation fairly early on. Chelsea Jackson, a junior at Iowa State University, describes herself as “not-the-relationship type.” “If I'm the one to bring up that I'm not looking for a relationship shortly after meeting someone, then usually the other person ends up nagging me with tons of questions about why I don't like relationships or that I just haven't met the right person yet,” she says. “All of these questions are super annoying, so I've found that after I've gotten to know the person a little bit, it becomes simpler for me to ease them into the reality that I'm not looking for a relationship and that it's best to just keep things casual.” Sometimes having to explain yourself is frustrating, so rephrasing your thoughts can be beneficial. Relationships aren’t everyone’s cup of tea, but being upfront can save some crushed hearts down the line.

Don’t be ashamed of your decision

Relationships take time, effort and constant commitment. Sometimes we aren’t ready for that big of a step in our lives, especially if we have a lot going on with ourselves. Chances are when you meet the right person, nothing will stop the two of you from being together. But until then, there’s nothing wrong with putting your needs first. “While you should be as honest as you can with your partner in terms of what you want, you don’t need to justify why you don’t want to be in a relationship,” Juliet says. “Sometimes it’s just a feeling or an attitude that you may have instead of any reason in specific and, while that could be hard for your partner to wrap their head around, it’s a personal choice that doesn’t need someone’s approval.”

Your heart knows what it wants, it’s just a matter of listening to it. When you have the conversation about not wanting a relationship, it leaves your partner with many questions. You can answer and explain as you please, but it’s important to keep your sanity in mind, too. No good can come from prolonging a partnership that clearly has two different expectations for the near future.

Dating can be tricky, messy and wonderful all at the same time. It’s okay to explore and get to know yourself in various ways through dates and partners. It’s expected at this age, honestly. Caring for another person means keeping their feelings in mind. If you aren’t looking for something serious but feel that they are, that’s a conversation you need to initiate. It’s never fun to feel like you’re letting somebody down, but in the long run it will save them more pain than they may be able to recognize right now. Be honest with yourself, and the rest will fall into place as it should. Cheers!

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This is not a drill, y'all: Burger King just released a Lucky Charms milkshake. Made out of vanilla-flavored soft serve, Lucky Charms oat cereal with marshmallows, and a sweet sauce, it really is a childhood dream come true. 

One Lucky Charms shake rings in at 740 calories and contains 107 grams of sugar ––but honestly, do we care? There is some actual bad news, though, ladies. According to Bustle, the delicious treat will only be available at participating locations and for a limited time only.

Get your hands on one of these before it's too late. Not only does the shake look oh-so yummy, but it's also totally Insta-worthy. 

Better to be overdressed than underdressed as the saying goes, right? Maybe, but sometimes we’d like to know that we’re dressed exactly right for the occasion. That’s why we’ve put together a comprehensive style guide to help you turn heads no matter where you go this summer. 

Casual Chic 

Casual chic (or dressy casual) is all the rage right now, especially in the warmer months. This is the kind of outfit you’d wear to an outdoor barbecue with friends, at Sunday brunch or on a spontaneous shopping trip. 

Fashion blogger Kristen Conahan tells us, “When dressing for weekend errands, I think comfortable but still put-together. A striped body-con dress is great for that and it’s flattering in any size. Because of its revealing nature, I always feel more comfortable with a jacket on top to add a little complexity.” You can complete this look with your favorite pair of flats. Conahan chose espadrilles because, she says, “they go with everything and will last for years.”

If dresses aren’t your thing (and we totally get that, too), Conahan has the perfect alternative for you—a pant look that you can dress up or down! “A [light] sweater and pair of jeans look great for the day time with sneakers, but if you want to make it a tad dressier, simply add a heel,” she says. “​It's amazing how a stiletto will change a look instantly!”

Business Casual 

Typically, business casual is slightly less formal than traditional office or professional wear. Brandi Britton, district president of Office Team (a leading administrative staffing company), explains, “While suits aren’t normally required, that doesn’t mean jeans and sneakers will do. Dress pants, khakis or a skirt along with a collared shirt or dressy top are appropriate.”

Supermodel Kate Moss makes a statement in this trendy business casual outfit with a pair of pink dress pants, folded to just above the ankles. She completes the effortless yet chic look with a plain black collared shirt, tucked loosely into her pants. For accessories, Moss adds a wide belt, a large black clutch and, every dressy girl’s staple, a pair of black pumps. Perfect!

Smart Casual

Smart casual is a lot like business casual, but more modern and arguably more personalized. If you’re working for a tech start-up in Silicon Valley or taking on your first editorial job in the Big Apple, this is probably ideal for you.

Britton explains, “A smart casual dress code can be confusing for many. Along with some of the relaxed flexibility of casual, you need to dress it up a bit and pull your outfit together to look ‘smart.’ You may be able to mix and match elements from other dress codes and add certain accessories to show your personality and style.”

For criminal defense attorney Heather Trick, smart casual means, “dark trousers, khaki pants or fun patterned skirts with tailored shirts and a blazer.” Take this adorable Lauren Conrad look for example:

Trick points out that in the legal world (and in other more formal or conservative workplaces), smart casual doesn’t really exist. She’s more likely to stick to business casual or business formal instead.

Business Formal

Business formal, also known as business professional, is most applicable for a more traditional office; think jobs in finance or legislative affairs. Usually, this dress code calls for a professional suit and conservative footwear, which, for the most part, means closed-toe shoes. 

Related: 5 All-Black Power Outfits for Your Summer Internship

For added clarification, Britton explains that business formal “may be compared to what you’d wear to a job interview.” 

Try a slim-fitting pantsuit like this one Emma Watson rocked in New York. Suits should be dark (black, charcoal or navy) and inner shirts should be a neutral or pastel color; bold patterns may be acceptable depending on the office culture. For consistency, keep your jewelry and other accessories simple but classy. 

Lucky for us, we’ve got a real-life princess to turn to for tons of business formal inspo. Kate Middleton gives us major outfit envy in this classic number, proving that you can also accomplish a sleek, business formal outfit with a structured dress as an alternative to a suit. 

Cocktail Attire

Cocktail attire is one of those in-between dress codes, like smart casual. Generally, it falls somewhere between casual and formal on the fashion spectrum but tends to be on the dressier side. For women, cocktail attire traditionally has meant the obvious—a cocktail dress. This is a flirty dress with a hemline just above the knee or slightly higher.

But, if you’re looking to stand out, Conahan says, “You'll need to find something to wear other than an LBD.” Try a flattering silk blouse paired with dressy pants or a cute pencil skirt, or feel free to opt for a classy two-piece coordinate set. Complete the look with your favorite pair of heels, or boots if it’s a cooler night out. 

Conahan says, “I'm so into this look because you don't have to put much thought into getting dressed. Don it with a jacket over your shoulders, a heeled bootie or sandal and a simple clutch—you’re out the door in no time.”

If you’ve been to any networking events (hosted by professional fraternities, alumni associations or sometimes even social media groups), you’ll notice that they’re usually in the form of a cocktail party or cocktail reception. That’s because this is an ideal setting for social and professional networking—it’s not too formal and not too casual, and usually the idea of after-work drinks and appetizers is pretty enticing. 

Keep in mind that if you’re heading to one of these immediately after work, your office attire will usually suffice, provided your office environment isn’t overly relaxed.

Black Tie or Formal

These two dress codes are a little confusing for women simply because they can mean a lot of different things, whereas the male alternatives would be pretty clear-cut (tuxedo or dark suit and tie). As a general rule, black tie means that you should wear a gown or long formal dress, like Blake Lively’s stunning wine-colored dress from the 2014 Cannes Film Festival.

Sometimes, dressy separates or a formal cocktail dress may work too.

It’s best to tailor your outfit to suit both the host and location. For example, a Cinderella-esque wedding may call for a glamorous ball gown whereas a formal work dinner may call for an elegant evening dress; long enough that it covers your knees but not necessarily floor-length.

Related: 8 Met Gala Ensembles That Should Inspire Your Graduation Party Look

Dressing appropriately and fashionably for any occasion can be complicated—there are so many rules!

Of course, the rules we’ve gathered here aren’t set in stone. There are bound to be countless variations of these depending on the occasion, location, job industry, office culture and even climate that you’re dressing for. Trick notes about her professional attire, for example, “I am a lawyer, so the dress code is much more conservative than what I see for other professions, but I also live in Florida where it’s hot and where people take some artistic license with styling, so it really can be a spectrum.”

It’s also important to remember that, regardless of where you’re going and what you’re wearing, you’re not going to be comfortable if you’re not being yourself. Confidence is your best accessory. Be true to yourself and don’t be afraid to personalize any of these outfit suggestions!

Money is a touchy subject that can make anyone feel a variety of different emotions all at once. They're hard to have and can be stressful, but it doesn’t always have to be that way. There are many ways to have money conversations with your significant other that can be done calmly and end successfully. If you're thinking about moving in with each other or have already started living together, there are a few things to be aware of that will help the conversation go smoothly.

Preparing for the conversation

Going into a conversation about money requires both you and your significant other to have an open mind, to be calm and understanding and to follow a game plan. You want to plan out what you want to say ahead of time, so that when the conversation happens you’re focused and won’t forget any important information. Set goals and play on each other’s strengths when listing your plans for expenses, bills and savings.

Start by gradually speaking about money in small amounts before you have the big sit down. It is also beneficial to have the conversation before you settle on a place to move in together. “The best time to talk money with your SO is when you’re still in the planning stages of moving in together,” says Carole Lieberman, M.D., a Beverly Hills psychiatrist and author. “Once you move in, it’s harder to make your voice count because you may be stuck with moving out if you don’t like your SO’s financial plans.” It will save the both of you a lot stress and potential headaches by having the conversation around the same time you start actively looking for a place to live.

Related: Living With Your SO: How to Make it Work

Addressing expenses

When having the conversation about money, make sure to address multiple areas and not just stay on the topic of spending. Start by dividing up expenses—rent, grocery, utilities—based on each other’s salary and who is good at doing what. “Plan ahead as to how you are going to divide expenses. This could mean splitting everything down the middle,” says Lieberman. “Take into consideration the income each of you have and be proportional.”

If dividing up expenses 50/50 doesn’t work, then use each other’s strengths to see where you’re better off helping is another option. “Be respectful of each other's earnings. One of you might be making significantly more than the other, so it's not right to assume that the other person can split all expenses 50/50,” says Mara Hyman, a marketing professional. “Figure out what your SO can reasonably contribute without talking down to them or making them embarrassed about how much or how little they earn.”

Chelsea Cirruzzo, an American University senior, says, “With shared expenses, like rent and groceries, keeping a ledger is the best way to hold one another accountable. If I offer to get groceries one week and pay $40, and the next week [my boyfriend] Josh gets groceries and pays $60 for food that we are both sharing, I know that I could pay for another expense to even things out.”

Set up a plan for managing your money and even discuss creating a joint bank account to use for bills. However, you might want to continue to maintain financial independence by keeping your own private bank account for your own expenses. Along with dividing up expenses and creating a joint bank account, talk about how the both of you feel about investing, how much you’re earning and saving, and even retirement plans if you have something in mind. “A lot depends on both people's financial situations and budgets, and what your cost of living will be,” says Alaina Leary, a magazine and book editor. “I know couples where one person contributed more rent money than the other, either because they had a higher income or because they pushed for a more expensive apartment and were willing to pay more rent for it. I also know a lot of couples where one person will support the other through a hard financial time (when one partner is laid off, or someone goes back to graduate school).” Be honest about every area so that neither of you are blindsided going into this exciting new phase of life.

Related: Why You Should Move In With Your SO Before Marriage

Plan for emergencies

You’ll never know what twists and turns life may bring you, so it’s better to prepare for any type of emergency as best as you can. For situations such as being laid off unexpectedly, health emergencies, or if either ever wanted to go back to school, creating an emergency fund can be a lifesaver. Emergency funds are good to have as an extra backup after savings. During times of need, worrying about money on top of the stress that you may be experiencing will just make everything worse. Add an additional topic for the importance of an emergency fund with your significant other and discuss how much will go into it.

Another situation to be cautious about when having the money conversation with your SO is to be aware of each other’s backgrounds, views and aspects that affect this topic by how the both of you were raised. Not everyone has the same views about money and you'll need to be understanding when different views come up. If multiple areas of the conversation seem to conclude in a disagreement, then you may want to reevaluate things or decide that moving in together isn’t a good idea right now. You can also decide to seek a professional to help plan out a budget.

Moving into a new place with your significant other and starting a new phase of your relationship is a very exciting time. There will be a lot new things to explore about each other, new memories and traditions and getting through the dreaded money talk with each other will make it all worth it. Create a plan, build a detailed budget and put everything out on the table. The more you prepare, keep an open mind and calmly speak to each other, the smoother the conversation will go.

My Monday nights have quickly become an excuse to fall deeply in love with Bachelorettecontestant Peter Kraus. If you asked me or any of the girls in my Bachelorette group chat (don’t pretend you don’t have one!), something about this gap-toothed, slightly gray-haired business owner warms our cynical, live-tweeting hearts. An early favorite of Rachel Lindsay’s, Peter still seems to be among her top men, and the two’s intimate conversations feel leagues ahead of discussions Rachel has with any other men in the running.

My text squad and I aren’t the only ones dying to give our final rose to Peter. Below are 12 other people who are unapologetically in love with him. Rachel, keep in mind that if you don’t want this guy, there are thousands of us out there who do!

Hey, Peter: Near, far, wherever you are, we'll always want to do the Titantic pose with you. 

Get you a man who knows your alcohol preference like the back of his hand.

There's probably a good amount of guys whose names I still don't know, but do I care? Nope. 

These two seem meant to be…

…but Peter as the center of attention in a full Bachelor season would be amazing. 

We just don't get enough of him as it is. 

There was something magical about Peter's attempts at rhyming. 

Isn't his low-key nature why we all love Peter? 

Plus, he just screams "husband material."

Rinse and repeat, am I right? 

Would it be weird to ask ABC to release all the unused footage of Peter?

Basically. 

Last Friday, Ariel Winter took to Instagram to show off her new ink, a snake tattoo on her forearm. But what made this photo so noteworthy is the fact that Ariel pulled off a sheer crop top (in green, might I add) so effortlessly. Ariel finished off the ensemble with lace detailing and simple black pants. The bra underneath is from Agent Provocateur, a brand popular amongst celebs. From Kylie Jenner to Little Mix, Agent Provocateur seems to be a go-to when it comes to lingerie you actually want to show off, according to Teen Vogue.

As for the tat, this is not Ariel's first ink. The actress has a cheese block, which is her favorite food, on her finger, while her boyfriend Levi Meaden has a peanut butter jar, which is his favorite. According to Teen Vogue, they also have half a heart on each of their palms—adorable!

Ever wished you could try on nail colors at the salon without making a gloppy mess or struggling with sample nails? Meet Emma Young, who noticed the problem at her local salon, and got creative. "I was looking at the nail options, and the nail salon I go to has them glued inside the book so you can't put your finger under it to see how it looks," she told Buzzfeed. She immediately thought of Snapchat's create your own sticker feature, and violà, a bona fide beauty hack was born. 

Basically, all you have to do is open up the app, snap a picture of the sample nail you're interested in and trace around it until you get a sticker you can place over your own nail! No more sticky rainbow hands that your manicurist has to spend five minutes wiping away!

People are obviously loving this hack, and with good reason.

Brb going to the salon.

Just when you thought you knew every trick in the book, somebody has to go and shake things up a bit. One student, who goes by Andrw, took to Twitter to show off this crazy nail/school/life hack he created to pass a test. Under a seemingly innocent set of nails were teeny tiny bits of paper glued underneath, all with formulas written on them.

I mean, it's pretty clever (and the actual nails are really cute too tbh). Of course, Twitter was set ablaze with hilarious reactions.

The best part is that Andrw passed his test without his teacher ever catching wind of the whole situation. That's some luck there.

College students next semester be like:

Every time I spend what seems like an eternity getting ready, with a good hair andmakeup day, and maybe even a new outfit, I see absolutely no one the entire day. However, when I run out with unwashed hair and my grossest sweats, intending on being out for only a few minutes, I see every important person I’ve met since I came to university.

Wouldn’t it be great if you could roll out of bed, spend no time or effort getting ready… and still look so good you won’t even mind when you run into your ex? Well, when you’re Kourtney Kardashian, it's called a Monday.

The eldest Kardashian sister and mother of three went out on a coffee run in LA this week, wearing an outfit that's hotter than this summer weather. Kourtney wore a white stretchy tank top with frayed, high-waisted jean shorts and ruffled blush heels. She topped the outfit off with a messy bun (that looks strikingly similar to the one on my own head… and I just rolled out of bed) and a bare face.

Kourt shows that the easiest way to take a casual, basic outfit up a notch is to throw on your favorite pair of heels. Forget about spending hours doing your hair! With this strategy, you can roll out of bed and look just as fancy… well, as long as you don’t mind your feet being a bit uncomfortable.

Want to steal Kourt's look so that you can look just as good on your next morning coffee run? Check out some of the items below:

Marleda Nude Velvet Cuff Heels ($43.75 at PrettyLittleThing)

Raylen Blush Suede Ankle Strap Heels ($29 at Lulus)

Classic Brushed Long Tank ($55 at Revolve)

Evan Asymmetrical Tank ($20 at Guess) 

One Teaspoon Bandits Short ($99 at Revolve)

Road Map Light Wash Distressed Cutoff Denim Shorts ($37 at Lulus)

As most people know, going through a breakup is not easy. Either it’s mutual and things just weren’t working out, or it was one-sided and someone is left really hurt. There are so many ways a breakup can be harmful to a person but after some time, eventually you move on. But what happens if one person isn’t over it and wants to try again?  Is there a way to know for sure that your ex is still into you? Here are some subtle and some not-so-subtle signs that your ex is ready-and-eager to get back together.

Regardless of how the relationship ended, it happens every so often that one-half of the couple is ready to give it another try. Either they can be completely honest and open and tell you bluntly (like number 5) or they can show some subtle and not so subtle signs. Either way, at the end of the day a conversation needs to be had about what each person wants. So if you are going through a breakup or went through one, however long ago, watch out for some of the signs mentioned above to see if it's time to have a real face-to-face conversation about the future of the past relationship.

Rumors have been swirling about new frap flavors ever since Starbucks stopped selling the magical limited edition Unicorn Frappuccino. Well, we have some exciting news (are you sitting down for this?): Starbucks released two new colorful, fruity drinks today.

The Berry Prickly Pear Frappuccino and the Mango Pineapple Frappuccino started selling on Tuesday. The fraps are supposedly part of the "Swirls of Summer" lineup, which honestly sounds tailor-made for gorgeous social media pics. These two drinks start with a mango creme frappuccino base, and have a fruit puree at the bottom and top of the cup, similar to a parfait. The puree flavors range from mango pineapple to berry and prickly pear.

Both drinks are very sweet and fruity; they don't taste like a specific fruit as much as a sugary sorbet blend. As far as the texture goes, it's not thick—in fact, mine was pretty thin and milky. The puree adds little bursts to the creme frappuccino. Flavor-wise, it's nothing groundbreaking, but these treats are sure to help you cool off in the summer. Plus, my Instagram is SO ready.

Starbucks reps were trying to keep it on the DL. "Just stay tuned, because we have a lot more coming," former CEO Howard Schultz told CNBC. "Our Frappuccino plans are under wraps, but we look forward to sharing details very soon," a rep told Teen Vogue. But one Reddit user posted the recipe last night as a sneak peek: "The drink is super easy. Just a mango syrup Creme Frappuccino with a tiny bit of puree at the bottom and the top!" Even though the ingredients are simple, the vibrant colors of these new summer treats are a must-have for both the photos and flavors. It's basically a Starbucks smoothie. 

All Starbucks addicts can head out today to try the Berry Prickly Pear Frappuccino and the Mango Pineapple Frappuccino. They're "only available while they last," so hurry up before they're gone!

Bachelor in Paradise fans may never know what actually happened to cause Warner Bros. to suspend filming on Season 4 of the show. But BIP contestants are certainly weighing in to give their version of events on social media.

Most recently, Raven Gates and Jasmine Goode have been tweeting to contradict what a source close to Corinne Olympios told Hollywood Life about the night in question. The pair exchanged a series of tweets using #facts, defending the production crew and their efforts to protect the cast.

Raven then chimed in, "And you both went to the medic. #facts"

According to Refinery29, Raven and Jasmine were even going after Twitter users who called them out on their treatment of Corinne. Raven went so far as to tell one, "You're contributing to the culture of accusing African American men of a crime they didn't commit."

It looks like these two have picked sides, and they're not about to back down from a fight.

In a recent interview with The Guardian, Lorde opened up about her friendship with Taylor Swift and made a comment that was just not okay.

Lorde, who has popped back up on the radar due to the release of her second album, Melodrama, was asked about the pressures of dealing with a star-studded circle of pals, specifically Taylor. Lorde responded, “It’s like having a friend with very specific allergies. There are certain places you can’t go together. Certain things you can’t do. There are these different sets of considerations within the friendship. It’s like having a friend with an autoimmune disease."

Taylor and Lorde have been good friends since 2014, a year they spent supporting each other at the Grammys and posting Instagram pictures of their cooking, going to the beach and traveling around New York together.

Followers and fans immediately lashed out on social media.

One Twitter user, Stephanie Anderson, brought up the fact that another of Taylor’s friends, Selena Gomez, struggles with lupus, an autoimmune disease. "I wonder how @selenagomez feels about this," Anderson wrote. "What an incredibly ignorant analogy to make @lorde."

Lorde saw Anderson’s tweet and apologized for her insensitivity. "didn't mention taylor, but regardless, i fucked up & that was really insensitive. i'm sorry," she tweeted.  

Through all of this, we realize that no matter what Lorde’s intention was with the analogy, words do matter—and it really is important to think before you speak.