With Donald Trump's financial skills, he's way more likely to run us into extreme debt than to have any chance at making America great again. Hilary Clinton has $42 million going towards her June campaign while Trump is trailing pathetically behind with only $1.3 million, according to The New York Times. The self-proclaimed businessman probably doesn't feel so great right now. 

How did Trump's glorious financial fall happen exactly? Well in May the Trump campaign only managed to raise $3.1 million (not very much when you're a major party presidential candidate), and he needed to lend himself $2 million of that to cover costs. The Times says he's entering the election with the" worst financial and organizational disadvantage of any major party nominee in recent history, placing both his candidacy and his party in political peril." 

Not only is he in a huge money deficit, but he also dramatically fired his campaign manager just a few days ago. Take that information and compare his staff of 70 to Hilary's staff of 700, and Trump is in huge trouble. 

Now he's relying heavily on the Republican National Committee, which has been much more successful at fundraising than Trump himself. Additionally, he's not likely to earn the support of prominent donors anytime soon since his comments and political plans are insulting to pretty much everyone. Good job, Trump. Let's see you work your way out of this one.

It appears Taylor Swift and Tom Hiddleston have made their relationship even more official, attending Selena Gomez's Nashville concert together last night and giving us major relationship envy in the process. Naturally, the pair were spotted by fans and their date night is making national news. 

In a sort of throwback to the duo's Met Gala dance-off, Hiddleswift danced along to Selena's songs, and of course, their sweet moves ended up on social media. Taylor’s longtime friend Abigail gave the world a sneak peek of the gloriousness that is Taylor and Tom, the couple on her Snapchat.

A fan who saw the two at the concert also took some photos of her own.

Seriously, could they be any more adorable?

As mostly male legislators fiercely debate women's health issues and reproductive rights, women all over the country have decided to take things into their own hands, literally. Several apps have sprung up in recent years that offer women access to birth control, sometimes even delivering months worth of pills to customers' doorsteps, The New York Times reports. 

These companies have remained "beneath the political radar" because real doctors legally prescribe contraception remotely through the platform. Therefore, these birth control apps are not funded by taxes and do not need to pass through legislation. AKA lawmakers cannot control access to contraception on them yet. 

Planned Parenthood, Lemonaid, Prjkt Ruby and Nurx are among the companies that now provide birth control via apps. They all function in essentially the same way, and it's actually pretty simple to get a prescription. All you need to do is fill out a form on your medical information or video chat with a physician, wait for a doctor to review your health history, then you can pick up your newly-prescribed birth control at a pharmacy. Some services even deliver contraception directly to your house. It's that easy. 

Most of the apps have age requirements, generally ranging from ages 18 to 35. The organizations usually determine the minimum based upon a state's age of sexual consent or when customers turn 18 (to avoid upset parents for obvious reasons). However, Nurx has prescribed to girls as young as 13-years-old. In general, women older than 35 are at an increased risk of complications from birth control pills containing estrogen, so many of the companies choose not to prescribe to that age range just in case.

Several of the providers also accept Medicaid and other insurances, while others charge fairly affordable fees for the birth control and consultations.

The organizations say that they've come under attack for providing such widespread access to birth control. Opponents send threatening and angry letters, sometimes even signing up for the apps and posing as "customers" in order to catch the companies making possible mistakes. For the most part, though, the services have been successful and will hopefully cut down on unintended pregnancies, which make up nearly half of all U.S. births.

Jacqui Letran, a nurse practitioner in Costa Mesa, told the Los Angeles Times that she had some reservations. "If you're not seeing your healthcare provider on a regular basis, you're missing out on quite a bit of healthcare education," Letran said. "The majority of women can very safely take birth control" but some are at risk of heart problems, blood clots and strokes. Letran suggested getting your original prescription from your normal doctor, then ordering refills through the apps and sites.  

By providing a widespread platform to obtain birth control, these companies could help women and reluctant teens avoid an unexpected pregnancy. Cosmopolitan acknowledged that teenage girls could benefit the most out of the new technology. According to a recent study, almost 70 percent of teens said that the primary reason they didn't use contraception was the fear of judgment or disapproval by their parents. With these apps, teens can have safer sex without worrying about their parents' reactions.

For today’s busy women (who shouldn't need to deal with anyone ordering their ovaries around), this could be the perfect solution. Don’t forget to still go to your OB/GYN though, folks. No one likes the doctor, but everyone likes to be healthy!

Many of us picture college as the one place we can be completely independent and not let anyone influence our decisions. In reality, it’s pretty common to get lost along the way and need a helping hand. Turning to your school’s staff can seem intimidating, and sometimes your parents don’t have all the answers.      

Who better to get help from than someone close to your age, who has experienced the exact same thing you’re going through? More and more students are choosing to have a peer mentor rather than experience the crazy rollercoaster of college alone. A peer mentor relationship is beneficial when you have an idea of what career you want to head into. That way, you can partner with a typically more senior student who is going into the same career and already has the experiences you hope to gain over the next few years. Here are five reasons you’ll want to get a peer mentor before graduation. 

1. Helping you find the right fit 

Even if you don’t have the slightest idea of what career path you’re pursuing, signing up for a peer mentoring program can speed up that process. Being a part of a peer mentoring program can expose you to a variety of different career possibilities.

Jasmine Gibbons, a sophomore at Carnegie Mellon University, participated in a career peer mentor program that helped her discover who she wants to be. “I participated in a lot of workshops, programming and [meetings] with my mentor that helped me rule out a lot of future careers and finally declare a major,” she says.

If, by the end of the process, you haven’t found the career that’s right for you, you’ll still walk away with essential skills and life lessons that you can take into the real world. 

2. Building interview skills

Interviewing for your first real job after college can be a lot more intense than any interview you’ve experienced for an internship or part-time job. It’s hard to know what to expect, but partnering with a peer mentor can prepare you for the big interview. Some peer mentoring programs even offer mock interviews specifically tailored to the company you aspire to work for.

Tamara Peters, a career development specialist at Rutgers University, believes the mock interviews and critiques are a key component of peer mentoring programs. “First of all, when a program participant hears what’s required of him/her from a peer, it carries much more weight than hearing it from career services staff,” she says. “Many of the peer mentors have gone through, or are about to go through, the rigorous interview process that the mentees are preparing for.”

Mock interviewing provides you an opportunity to make all the mistakes you need, free of judgment, before it actually counts. 

3. Networking

Your relationship with your peer mentor could be the way to get your foot in the door of your future career. Not only may they introduce you to the people they’ve met in your shared career field, but they could also be the one to hire you a few years down the line.

Kenzie York, a junior at Kennesaw State University, scored her job as a resident assistant through her school’s peer mentorship program, which she participated in her freshman year.

“My peer mentor was an RA, and she inspired me to apply to be one as well,” she says. “I needed a recommendation, and she gave me such a good one. I think it was basically the icing on the cake to getting the job. Now I have the chance to be a mentor to other students.” Sometimes the best connection is waiting for you on campus. 

4. Resume advice 

Let’s be honest—we’ve all spent hours looking at online examples of how our resume should look. Your peer mentor can make the process easier by providing resume and cover letter critiques. They may have already landed the internship or job that you’re dreaming of, so they have the resume advice you need.

Not only can they help with how you look on paper, but they can also help you master your LinkedIn profile. Employers now recruit online through this website, so it’s important that your online presence is equally as strong.

Julia Verona, a senior at Claremont McKenna College, worked as a peer mentor to younger students. “Although there’s staff on campus that help construct student resumes, I think it’s more beneficial that peer mentors help their mentees create resumes,” she says. “Resume etiquette has changed over time, so I feel we are more knowledgeable about what works today and what doesn’t.”

Your resume can make or break you, so your peer mentor can help you make the best first impression.

5. Setting you up for future success 

At the conclusion of a peer mentoring program, students are typically more prepared for what to expect when it comes to applying to their dream job. Having been coached along the way gives future applicants a leg up on the competition.

“A peer mentor relationship is most effective when the mentor is really invested in helping the mentee, and the mentee takes the mentor’s advice seriously with a willingness to apply what he/she learns,” Peters says. “In the instances I’m aware of, the successful result is that the mentee is more informed about the job search process, how to network, how to present him/herself, and is better prepared to interview.” Both parties will ultimately benefit from the relationship.

Overall, having a peer mentor can only help you. Not only will you likely find a friend in them, but you will also have a resource, guide and helping hand that will help you make all the best choices in college. Look into joining any of your school’s peer mentoring programs before you leave campus because you won’t regret it. 

To the rest of the universe, it may appear that you and your best friend go to the same coffee shop every Saturday, wear the same swimsuit and talk with the same lingo. But little does the rest of the universe know how dedicated you are to your best friend, beyond those obvious actions. Here are 15 signs you’re low-key obsessed with your best friend:

1. The excessive number of posts you have tagged her in has made you a threat to Instagram. 

2. You cannot help feeling the teeniest bit of jealousy when she makes new friends.

3. When she doesn't have a boyfriend, you are the boyfriend.

4. You have her passwords.

5. You are the Kimmy Gibbler of her house.

6. You must update her about each minute detail that occured during your day.

7. Your texts display your undeniable love for each other.

8. Nightly plans are never confirmed with her because you're assured you'll end up together eventually.

9. You don't get anxiety when she borrows your clothes because half of your closet is already in her house.

10. Your parents don't ask who you're hanging out with because they already know it will be her.

11. You mastered reading her facial expressions.

12. Everything and anything reminds you of her.

13. Anyone you know who has not met her feels like they have because she is in every single story you have told.

14. Your plans simultaneously revolve around her plans without even trying.

15. If all else fails, you plan on marrying into her family somehow. 

There are a lot of things to consider when entering a relationship with someone. Do they respect you? Do you enjoy spending time with them? Do you both give and take as much as the other? All these questions are essential to a healthy partnership, but other concerns you might have could just be keeping you from being happy with someone. Here are a few things that don’t matter when you’ve found the right person—with some obvious exceptions.

1. Their appearance

Listen, we’re not saying looks aren’t important. That said, if your friends find your crush unattractive, this shouldn’t be the only thing keeping you two apart. If you’re attracted to them and everything else feels right, you should be together! “It is important to find your partner attractive,” says Lesli Doares, a licensed marriage and family therapist.

On the other hand, if you like someone who you don’t find conventionally attractive, you shouldn’t write them off too quickly. Attraction is important, but it’s not everything. “You can be misled by your hormones into thinking you are a good match [with someone you find attractive],” Doares says. “Only focusing on a physical type can also keep you from seeing a gem that is right in front of you. It’s also true that attraction can grow as you get to know someone.”

Another thing you should be careful about is only going for a certain type of person, or someone who has specific traits. “I'd rather someone say, ‘I must be attracted to him or her’ rather than 'He or she must have brown hair,’” says Andrea Syrtash, a dating and relationship expert, and author of He's Just Not Your Type (And That's a Good Thing). “You'd be surprised how many people you'll be attracted to if you replace specific physical characteristics with 'I must be attracted to the person’ and stay open-minded."

Brooke Grasso, a junior at the University of La Verne, certainly did. “It doesn't matter if the girl is taller!” Brooke says. “I am 4-5 inches taller than my boyfriend of six years. We get comments all the time but my mom is taller than my dad, and his mom is taller than his dad. Our whole family shoots down the stereotype that the men must be taller!” Take that, ridiculous standards!

Related: 5 Signs You & Your SO Just Aren’t Meant to Be

2. Having everything in common

If you go on a date with someone and the two of you have a bunch of random things in common, you might think that it’s meant to be. Although you could be right, having the same taste in music or weekend activities doesn’t have to mean that you would be a good couple. “Having everything in common can lead to a mundane, stagnant relationship,” Doares says. “Having a few things in common is helpful, but being able to introduce new things to each other helps keep the relationship vibrant.”

Besides, keeping things interesting is more important than you might think. “Experiencing ‘new’ releases dopamine which helps recreate the feelings you first had together,” Doares explains. “It also allows you to continue to have things that are just your own that promote your autonomy.”

Like everything else, there are limits to how different you should be from your SO. "Having different interests is okay,” Syrtash says. “If your partner hates museums and you love them, you can recruit a friend to join you. However, if your partner prevents you from doing what you love because it's not what he or she enjoys, take note. This isn't a healthy dynamic."

Many young women are in happy relationships with people who have very different interests. “I never thought I'd date someone who was into video games,” says Alaina Leary, a first-year graduate student at Emerson College. “My girlfriend—although not a huge gamer—loves video games, and I found it doesn't matter at all to me, and I think it's cute when she uses games to relax.” When it comes to your differences, the key is to find a happy medium between being the exact same person and being diametrically opposed.

3. Their cultural, political or religious background

This one is tricky and depends on a bunch of other factors, but if you are in a relationship that is working, you shouldn’t need to worry about your SO’s culture, religion or political convictions getting in the way. “Sharing common beliefs and worldviews make being in a relationship easier because it limits areas of potential disagreement, but it can also limit your growth,” Doares says. “Being involved with someone who has had significantly different experiences from you can help open your world and expose you to a new way of thinking.”

Although such differences can be much harder to navigate than your taste in movies, it can also play an integral part in your couple. “In my current relationship, our different religions don't make a difference,” says Kayla Dungee, a sophomore at Kennesaw State University. “I was raised by Catholic parents and he was raised Muslim. His parents were persecuted during the Bosnian War for being Muslim, so they fled to Germany, and later the U.S. That's a key piece of his identity, so I would never try to change his family history to fit my experience.”

For Syrtash, the key to this situation is mutual respect. “If you are of different ethnic or religious backgrounds, the important thing is that you respect the other's faith and customs rather than try to change him or her to adhere to your own,” she says. “The exception: If you're particularly religious and it's an integral part of your life, it may be a deal-breaker." Once again, this is all about balance.

4. Having the same major or future job

This is like having different hobbies: just because one of you is pre-med and the other is an art major doesn’t mean you can’t be amazing together. Obviously, if your schedules never allow you to spend quality time, this could be an issue, but having different prospective career paths doesn’t mean you can’t connect on a thousand other levels.

“If you are thinking about being together long-term, it’s important to have the same lifestyle goals, but anything more specific isn’t necessary,” Doares says. “It’s important to be realistic about whether those goals are in sync—being in the military, going to graduate school, wanting to travel or live in another country, etc., are all things that need to be honestly addressed. Having the same major or career goal potentially allows you to empathize with each other, but it can also lead to competition.” You guessed it: you have to find the right balance for you.

5. Their “number”

The only time the number of people you’ve slept with should matter is if your partner is uncomfortable with yours. Otherwise, this abstract figure should be irrelevant to your current relationship. “My ex-boyfriend and I varied intensely in our numbers,” says Morgan*, a junior at the University of Michigan. “I'd slept with 10 people countless times and he'd slept with two people a total of four times. I didn't care at all, but it deeply bothered him.”

Courtney’s relationship didn’t last, partly because her boyfriend didn’t trust her. “I don't regret anyone I've slept with and I hated that he wanted me to feel guilty for things I felt good about,” she says. “Also, he was the one who asked! If he wasn't prepared for an honest answer, he shouldn't have inquired.” Your number itself means nothing about who you are as a person, and you shouldn’t have to deal with a crappy situation like Courtney’s.

Need proof? Some collegiettes who have different numbers from their SO’s are completely happy and confident in their couple. “My boyfriend and I have told each other our numbers and even though his is higher than mine, we're both perfectly okay with each other's because it's in the past,” says Rachel Petty, a senior at James Madison University.

Things that matter or don’t in a relationship are mostly up to you and depend on every different couple. Where this article can help you is if you think something should matter, even though it doesn’t actually bother you. Be careful of creating problems where there aren’t any, and your relationship will be happy and successful.

On June 12 2016, Omar Mateen (a supposed ally to ISIS) gunned down 49 people and injured 53 more at Pulse, a gay nightclub in Orlando, Florida. In the weeks before the shooting, he was able to legally purchase a long gun and Glock pistol, despite the fact that he had previously been under investigation for sympathizing with a suicide bomber.

Multiple leaders have denounced the shooting as a hate crime, and noted that this is the nation’s worst terrorist attack since 9/11. It is also the deadliest incident of violence the LGBTQ+ community has ever experienced. Many people have raised their concern about gun control in relation to their personal safety in this country.

We asked 14 college women about how safe they actually feel in the U.S after the Orlando shooting. Read their responses below.

“I am a member of the LGBTQ+ community and knowing that the Orlando shooting was a hate crime specifically against us––and that it has spurred other hate crimes against the community–– terrifies me. June is pride month, and I am afraid to go to pride. I do not see any purpose of our guns––they are literally used to kill people and that is it. I think the only way I will truly feel safe is with gun laws and gun control, because if you think about it, people have been shot at schools, clubs, movie theaters, concerts and even in their own homes. There is literally no place that you can be safe from guns.”

-Bee, Class of 2019

“There are so many terrible people, and you never know where they will be.”

-Elise, Boston University Class of 2016

“As a Canadian, we have very different views on gun control and our laws reflect that. I lived three hours away from Orlando as a child for four years, so the shooting definitely hit close to home––but even before the Orlando shooting, I wouldn't feel safe living in the US. In Canada I don't have to worry about the guy next to me in Walmart having a gun, or going to class and being afraid of a mass shooting or spending a night out and have to think about being shot. I would never want to live somewhere where that is a real and persistent threat.”

-Addie, Wilfrid Laurier University Class of 2018

“I like to think I live in a well-educated community that knows better than to discriminate and target mass groups due to the wrongdoings of a few bad individuals. As a South Asian student, it's definitely hard to think that people could potentially view me as something I'm not, but I can't live every day of my life like I'm in danger. If I did, I would get nothing done. I'm here to make a difference in the world, so I'm going to keep living my life the way I planned to.”

-Shana, University of Connecticut Class of 2018

RELATED: Here's How People Are Reacting to the Orlando Mass Shooting

“As a woman of color it is hard for me to say that ‘yes, I feel safe.’ I really don't feel safe in the U.S. Coming from Canada, I was thinking of doing my graduate degree in the U.S. but now, with the frequency of violence, how comfortable can I be in my own campus or going out at night? I feel like the U.S. right now is on the same level as Afghanistan and Iraq in 2001, which is very formidable.”

-Lilly, University of Victoria Class of 2017

“As a Latina woman, I've never felt safe in places where I feel judged or where my race, my gender and/or sexual orientation puts me in danger just because ‘someone doesn't like it.’ Tolerance, acceptance and appreciation needs to be taught in every household, every school and every college and workplace if we want to succeed as humans.”

-Ashley, University of Puerto Rico-Rio Class of 2019

“Since the Orlando shooting, I've felt no different than before the massacre occurred. Our country was never ‘safe’ and we’ve always had to be on the lookout. I live in San Francisco, so being in a big city you always have the thought of a massacre or attack happening at any given time. We can't live in fear, we must stay strong and go about our lives.”

-Cici, City College of San Francisco Class of 2018

“I'm not a commonly targeted minority, but I also tend to avoid places that would otherwise make people feel unsafe. I usually feel safe as long as I'm in public, and I’m out during daytime. However, I don't know if I would feel that safe if I was Muslim, LGBTQ+ or any member of a targeted minority.”

-Kristin, UNC-Chapel Hill Class of 2016

RELATED: LGBTQ+ Community is the Biggest Target for Hate Crimes

“The shooting in Orlando has sparked an enormous outrage of heart wrenching grief, anger, disbelief and political opposition. A man––no––a murderer, killed over 50 people in a public area and we're expected to feel safe? No. We're never and will never be fully safe no matter what laws, bills or politics want us to believe. But we have to go on. We have to live our lives. We have to face it head on. We can't allow the fear that people instill cripple us. It's that simple, and yet so complicated and terrifying. It can happen anywhere, but we can't let it shake us––and that may be the most difficult part to deal with.”

-Lauren, Marymount University Class of 2016

“Since the Orlando shooting I've found myself feeling on edge, not necessarily scared on a regular basis, but definitely distanced from the usual assumption of ‘that wouldn't happen here.’ So many people were needlessly killed and hurt for frequenting a place which would normally be lively and fun, and a place where people my age would go to let loose. When I go to parties now, I can't help but feel nervous, because I think about how so many people packed into one place would never expect someone to walk in and do something as violent as Omar Mateen did. After the Orlando shooting, the president of my college sent out a campus wide letter to address what had happened, and it hit the core of what made the Orlando shooting so terrifying: It was brutal, senseless and wrong––and it happened to normal people. So, no, I don't really feel safe. There's an uncomfortable feeling, a question which simmers in the back of my mind of ‘what's going to happen next?’ I'm terrified this is a premonition of more acts of hate to come, and I fervently hope it's not.”

-Gail, Franklin and Marshall College Class of 2019

“As a member of the LGBTQ+ Community and since the shooting happened in a gay club (which was supposed to be a safe space) it does make me feel a little unsafe. It brings up the idea that it could've been me and that there are no safe spaces anymore.”

-Jessica, Montclair State University Class of 2017

RELATED: How to Help After the Mass Shooting in Orlando

“I don't feel entirely unsafe, but I do find myself thinking about possible situations when I'm in crowded public areas of what I would do if something bad happened. I used to just go about my daily life without even thinking twice, but I've become subconsciously more aware of my surroundings because of what has happened.”

-Reilly, University of South Carolina Class of 2018

“Up until this year I was never afraid living in the U.S. The most frightening tragedy had been 9/11, and still I was never worried when flying on a plane. However, even before the Orlando shooting, I have felt unsafe. For the past year or so I have found myself more paranoid when people are walking behind me, or in crowded areas. The number of bombings and shootings has me on edge when I’m in crowds. I make a point to be extra cautious, both in terms of keeping my eye on my surroundings and making plans for all sorts of ‘what-if’ situations.”

-Rebecca, University of Maryland Class of 2017

“I do feel safe in this country, but it is more out of my ‘ignorance is bliss’ mindset. By that I mean that it is nearly impossible to prevent every single attack ever made. Bad people exist in this world and we can't always protect ourselves against them. It is also unrealistic to live in fear, and life wouldn't really be ‘life’ if we were constantly afraid to live. The best we can do is to spread love, show compassion, be there in times of grief (especially in the case of Orlando) and prove that no amount of hate can overtake our innate right to living our lives to the fullest. Evil people want you to live in fear. You only lose when you submit to that.”

-Bridget UMass Amherst Class of 2017

Life after college: whether you've been dreaming about or dreading it, it's most likely not what you expected. It's exciting and terrifying all at the same time. But for those of us who either chose to or got stuck moving back home after college, being back in your old stomping grounds of your bedroom that 12-year-old you decorated, brings all new struggles of its own. Here is what every postgrad goes through after moving back home.

1. Living under your parents' rules again.

2. Having to answer the question, “So what are you doing with your life,” basically every 15 minutes.

3. Actually trying to figure out what you are doing with your life.

4. Student loans… never. ending. student. loans.

5. No longer being a five-minute walk from all your friends.

6. No longer being a five-minute walk from all the bars.

7. Not being able to sleep in until 2 p.m. without being judged.

8. Working a lame/tedious/horrible part-time job to save up money.

9. Having to make your bed (which you probably haven’t done in ages) or risk being yelled at for being a slob.

10. The perks of free food and laundry slowly losing their appeal… or worse, no longer being free because mom and dad are making you pay rent.

11. Saying goodbye to the best four years of your life and hello to the great unknown of what comes next.

Let's clear one thing up—while some millennials are definitely the walking definition of the "broke college kid" we so often see portrayed in the media, other millennials are not. In fact, some are financially secure. A very select few are even millionaires.

If you're confused or don't believe us, it's probably because your definition of the term "millennial" has been skewed. Millennials include anyone born between the years of 1980 and 1998, according to financial website The College Investor. While some millennials haven't even graduated college yet, others are well into their thirties and beyond graduation! Generalizing such a large group seems difficult, but The College Investor gave it a shot by estimating the average net worth of these elusive millenials (Hint: It's pretty darn low). 

The financial site broke down the numbers by age. For a quick math lesson, net worth is just assets (savings, salary, investments) minus liabilities (debts). To no one's suprise, the main liability in the study was student loan debt.

The median net worth was just $10,400. This seems pretty small, we know, but it makes sense. Students and grads often make entry-level salaries while they attempt to pay off loans. This debt is subtracted from hard-earned assets, often keeping those under 30-years-old "in the Red" (or with a negative net worth). According to TIME Money, student debt has almost doubled within the millennial generation. The average graduate of the Class of 2016 racked up over $37,000 in student loan debt, whereas the Class of 2003 grads only needed to repay an average of about $18,000.

The College Investor notes that young millennials are lucky because they have time on their side. In order to boost your net worth, the site recommends focusing on two main areas: boosting your income and eliminating debt. 

"The fact is not everyone is average or above average when it comes to net worth," writes Robert Farrington, a contributor for The College Investor. "But, knowing where you stand is incredibly important." You're probably not going to have the assets of Mark Zuckerburg upon graduation, but you only need to have $10,400+ in the bank after subtracting your debts to be in a better financial situation than the average millenial. Skipping the $5 coffee in the morning and saving aggressively could help you get there.

Blake Lively has finally broken her month-long silence on that now-famous Instagram post that landed her in some hot water. It wasn't the photo, which showed off Blake's enviable curves on the Cannes red carpet, that caused a stir. Rather, her choice of caption, "L.A. face with an Oakland booty," was responsible for the controversy.

Many considered the caption—a line from Sir Mix-A-Lot's "Baby Got Back"—offensive, coming from a wealthy, white Hollywood actress. Despite approval from Sir Mix-A-Lot himself, the backlash continued. 

Lively never deleted or edited the post, but in a new interview, she explains her intentions behind the post.

"It's something I was proud of," Lively says. "I never meant to offend anyone. But Sir Mix-A-Lot, he actually said a really nice thing, he was very defensive and kind, because it's just about celebrating women's bodies, and that's what I was doing."

"I would never want to hurt anyone's feelings or upset anyone," she continues. "I was celebrating my body…It's nice to have a nice curve and not look like you're starving to death."

Lively went on to explain that her red carpet looks are far from how she looks in her everyday life. "Even in that dress, I'm wearing a great, tiny corset that like someone has cinched me in within an inch of my life and it's the most favorable version," she says. "It's fun to dress up and look good on the red carpet but it's not representative [of every day]."

Jack Aiello, an eighth-grader at Thomas Middle School outside Chicago, just brought some comedic relief to the upcoming presidential election! In his 8-minute graduation speech, Jack accurately and hilariously impersonates Donald Trump, Ted Cruz, President Obama, Hillary Clinton and Bernie Sanders.

The graduation ceremony took place on June 7 and Jack's speech received a standing ovation. 

Jack has always had a love for politics and doing impressions. "Politics has been something he's been interested in for several years," Jack's father, John Aiello told ABC. "He's always been good with impressions. So, while watching along with his mom and I, he picked up phrases and mannerisms of the candidates." 

Jack incorporated quirky school memories into the personalities of the candidates. 

"We're learning languages from Spain, from France, from Germany and China," said Jack during an impersonation of Trump. "You know, people say I don’t like China, I love China! I mean, I love China. I mean, I have so many terrific friends in China. But I took Spanish and let me just tell you, by the way, that it was fantastic. Muy fantastico."

Jack and his entire graduating class of roughly 350 students were assigned the task of writing a graduation speech as an English assignment, reports NBC Chicago. Afterward, the staff and teachers at Thomas Middle School evaluated the speeches. "He was hands down number 1, because we knew it was going to speak to the kids," said Principal Brian Kaye. 

According to Jack's parents, Jack hopes to have a career in politics or comedy in the future. "If you were to ask him what he really wants to do, he really truly does want to be president someday," John told NBC Chicago. "A politician or a comedian, which the lines do sometimes blur." 

As of right now, the Aiello family is just trying to take in all the viral fame. But, we have a feeling success is definitely in Jack's future!

If you haven't already heard, former Bachelor Ben Higgins and his fiancée Lauren Bushnell are getting their own reality show, Ben and Lauren: Happily Ever After. While this is great news if you were obsessed with Ben and Lauren from the beginning of their journey, to many people, this is actually a huge letdown. Although no one would argue that Ben and Lauren aren’t cute AF, we would rather have a show about The Bachelorette's Kaitlyn and Shawn, tbh. Allow us to explain why a show about Shawn and Kaitlyn, the way more fun and interesting couple, would be SO. MUCH. BETTER. 

1. Their love is truer than true

We knew it the first second we saw him get out of the limo and hold hands with Kaitlyn, and she knew it too. To see their love develop even further as they plan their wedding would just be pure bliss. 

2. He’s hot, she’s hot, they are both just so hot

Oh also, lest we forget this moment… 

To be fair, Lauren and Ben are both just as attractive, and that really shouldn’t matter because personality wins and all that. But seriously, have you seen Shawn? Have you seen Kaitlyn? Imagine if they were filmed at a pool party and Shawn was shirtless. Hello five star ratings. 

3. They are both so badass

Kaitlyn is not one to keep her mouth shut if something is bothering her and neither is Shawn. This probably results in some awesome fights (we know fighting is bad, but we also know that every couple does it). The drama that would ensue makes our hearts race just thinking about it. And we all know that Ben and Lauren probably agree on everything, and that is just not fun at all. 

4. They are just so much fun

If you don’t already follow Kaitlyn on Snapchat, then you are seriously missing out. Spoiler alert: Kaitlyn has filmed Shawn doing her makeup numerous times, and it is literally pee-your-pants hilarious. So imagine that ALL SEASON LONG. Note: We also follow Lauren on Snapchat, and it’s just not as great—sorry, not sorry. 

5. Maybe Nick Viall would show up at some point

Okay, so maybe this wouldn’t be such a great thing for the happy couple, but Shawn and Nick fighting is the most entertaining thing in the world. Come on, Nick—do it for the viewers. 

6. Kaitlyn and Shawn have been together longer

Ben and Lauren have only been together a few months, but Kaitlyn and Shawn have made their relationship work in the real world for over a year. We think that is deserving of a reality TV show. Just saying.

7. Ben and Lauren are a total bore

Face it—there is nothing interesting enough about this duo to warrant their own show. Kaitlyn and Shawn on the other hand…well, you get the point.

You’ve known that you’re transgender (or fall somewhere under the trans* umbrella) for some time now, and maybe you’ve started a social transition—making decisions about things like your name, your pronouns, your clothing and possibly even taking hormones. But how do you decide if you should also get any surgeries (often known as top surgery and bottom surgery, but there are additional options)?

It’s a tough choice, like any medical decision, and it’s definitely not a short or easy process. Before you choose for yourself, we talked with trans activist, comedian and playwright Ashley Lauren Rogers, about what transgender individuals should think about as they’re gathering research and weighing options. Here are some things to consider before making decisions about your medical transition and surgeries.

Even if you don’t medically transition or get surgery, your identity is valid.

It’s not, “You either go on hormones, get surgeries, or you’re not transgender.” However you identify is who you are—full stop.

Besides the fact that gender and sex aren’t binary to begin with, because transgender and intersex people exist, you have the right to define your own gender, regardless of what transition choices you make.

“Whether you have internal or external genitalia doesn't define you as a woman or a man,” says Rogers. “You do.”

If you’re feeling any sort of pressure to medically transition, get surgery, or even just to make the decision sooner than you feel ready because you’re worried you “aren’t really trans,” and if you don’t make up your mind, stop. Take time to breathe, and realize you don’t need all the answers to be who you are.

The process is long and difficult.

Rogers calls the process “very long,” and says that you’ll be asked each step of the way whether you’re sure. She also stresses that “you should consider everything a medical professional tells you.” If your doctor wants you to start a small dose of hormones before moving up to a higher dosage, or is worried that a part of medical transition might be difficult because of a pre-existing condition, make sure to take all their advice into consideration as you make decisions. 

Getting any kind of surgery, no matter what type, is a drawn-out process. Because of the risk factors involved, especially if you have any additional health problems or a history of complications with surgery or anesthesia, you can expect to discuss it in detail with medical professionals. The first step is usually consulting with a therapist who is trained in gender transition, so if you don't already have one you see for this, you should start searching for one. The Trans Healthcare website lists out SRS surgeons in the United States. Trans Care Site is also a great place for transgender healthcare listings. 

You don’t need to make a decision quickly.

This may go without saying, given how long the process takes, but you don’t need to make a decision quickly or feel locked in to a particular decision. If you have doubts, take your time to consult these doubts on your own, as well as with physical and mental health professionals.

You should also ask yourself why you want to medically transition or have surgery, says Rogers. She suggests people ask themselves the following: “Why am I angry? I had to figure out what was actually the source of these negative feelings. Was it just the fact that I couldn't wear women's clothing? Was it that people considered me a man and I disagreed? Was it the genitalia I was born with? It took me a very long time and I did see some mental health professionals to help unpack this.”

Many transgender and non-binary people feel gender dysphoria, while others may not—so it’s perfectly normal to sort through these feelings and figure out why you’re seeking a surgical transition and what you’re hoping to get out of the process. You want to set realistic expectations for yourself and be prepared for the emotions the process may bring out!

It’s not an “all or nothing” process.

Because there are so many medical and surgical options not, you may feel like you really want or need some surgeries, but not all. Rogers says, “I realized there are some things I actively physically want to/have changed and there are some I don't see any need to change. That doesn't make me any less a woman because of that.”

Explore your options with your doctors and find out what makes the most sense for you. It’s not a one-size-fits-all process, and you can elect to surgically and medically transition in some ways but not others. You can go on hormones and have facial surgeries, but not have top or bottom surgery. You can have top surgery without having bottom surgery right away, or at all. It’s all up to what makes you feel most comfortable!

You’re the only person who knows what you need.

You should definitely consult professionals in this process, but you’re entitled to get second, third or even more opinions if you feel like the first doctor or therapist doesn’t understand you and your needs.

You also can take friends' and family members' opinions and advice into account, but just remember: they’re not you! They don’t know what you need or what will make you happy.

“There are many people who won't believe you and try to tell you that you're too young to know and when you become old enough they'll tell you that if you truly knew you would've done it by now,” says Rogers. “When you know, you know, but you should still seek help from mental health professionals to help unpack everything.” Doctors usually prefer that you're over eighteen to begin the process of medically transitioning, but it's becoming more and more common for trans teens to start the process with their parents' or guardians' consent. 

In other words, trust yourself, but don’t be afraid to consult professionals who you feel really understand your current needs, too.

You need to take this process safely.

Above all else, remember to be safe. Like with many other medical procedures, there are unsafe options out there.

It may feel, right now, like you need to take action right away and you can’t wait. But there are serious risks involved with taking medications from anyone but a medical professional, and with changing your dosage on your own. 

“Remember that the physical process is going to take some time. Do not rush it!” says Rogers. “By that I am referring to HRT (hormone replacement therapy). Do not get your hormones from anyone who is not a medical professional and do not take any more than the prescribed dosage.”

Rogers also stresses that transitioning is a lifelong process, and surgery is not the “final step” or an end point.

Remember: you define who you are. Whether or not you medically or surgically transition in any way is up to you. “And above all else you are not defined by your genitalia,” says Rogers. “The second you take hold of your identity it is true.”

If medically or surgically transitioning in some way feels right for you, take your time. Consult medical professionals, and feel free to consult more than one for extra opinions. Talk to other transgender people about their thought process if you know any who are open to these questions and feel comfortable sharing. Read blogs and writing by others in your situation and see how it makes you feel. And above all, remember that your decision of how and when to transition does not define your gender. Only you define that! 

In April, Treasury Secretary Jacob J. Lew and the U.S. Treasury Department announced plans to include more women and people of color on American dollar bills—starting with the addition of civil rights advocate Harriet Tubman, known most notably for her work with the Underground Railroad, in place of controversial former president Andrew Jackson, who owned slaves himself. The proposition sparked intense debates across the country, as some argued that changing the face of money dishonors American history and can be costly to taxpayers.

Republican Congressman Steve King (Iowa) shares this anti-change belief. According to The New York Times, King recently added a failed amendment to a yearly appropriations bill that would prevent government spending from going toward redesigning money. This was seen as a direct attempt to block Tubman from taking Jackson’s place, as in the past, King has called the replacement of Jackson both racist and sexist, the New York Daily News reported.

"It's not about Harriet Tubman, it's about keeping [Jackson's] picture on the $20," King said in response to his amendment, according to New York Magazine. "Y'know? Why would you want to change that? I am a conservative, I like to keep what we have."

King is already well known in the political world for his controversial viewpoints on immigration. In the past, he denounced accomplishments of undocumented immigrants, saying, "for every [child of an illegal immigrant] who’s a valedictorian, there's another 100 out there who weigh 130 pounds and they've got calves the size of cantaloupes because they're hauling 75 pounds of marijuana across the desert."

The NY Daily News reported that the House Rules Committee blocked King's addition altogether Tuesday Night. In response to the rising possibility that Tubman may grace the front of the $20 bill, King blamed President Barack Obama. 

"He’s divided us down the lines of race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, prosperity versus poverty, and pitted us against each other," he said, according to the Omaha World-Herald. King called the move one of Obama's "liberal activism" stunts to make as many people hate each other as possible. But then again, he also called putting a woman on the front of the $20 bill "sexist," so we definitely realize that King has a thing or two to learn about the terms sexism, racism and activism.

Liam Hemsworth has never been one to share details about his personal life, so we were pleasantly surprised when the actor recently decided to comment on his 2012 engagement to Miley Cyrus. The couple, who split in 2013 before getting back together this year, never said much about the split, leaving many to speculate that the engagement had been nothing more than two kids deciding to get married on a whim.

Now that Hemsworth is back with Cyrus, however, he's putting those rumors to rest and explaining what really went down. Referring to the engagement, Hemsworth says, "I don’t think that was impulsive. That was a well thought-out idea."

It seems as though everything worked out in the end, considering Cyrus has been sporting her massive diamond engagement ring again. Whatever may happen with the couple in the future, we wish them all the best—especially if that means we get to see how Cyrus would put her own unique spin on a wedding dress. 

A teenage girl recently got fired from her job for inquiring about equal pay, something totally illegal for her employer to do. According to Cosmopolitan, 17-year-old Jensen Walcott was working for Pizza Studio, located in the Legends outlet mall in Kansas City. She was being paid $8 an hour, higher than Kansas's $7.25 an hour minimum wage. She was excited to get the job and work with her friend Jake Reed.

However, when Walcott texted Reed about her interview, she discovered that he had been hired for 25 cents more per hour than her—despite having the same amount of experience.

Walcott, thinking this was a simple mistake on her boss's part, decided to giver her boss a call. But the call didn't end the way Walcott would have liked—She was fired for discussing wages. Reed was also fired immediately after, in what he described to WDAF as "basically just like a ten second phone call."

Prior to these short phone calls, Walcott and Reed had never been informed of such a policy. Attorney David White told WDAF News that the National Labor Relations Board feels it is appropriate to discuss wages, so Walcott would be able to start a legal battle if she wanted to. He guessed that because the two are teenagers, the company thought that they wouldn't speak up about the unequal pay.

While the stakes here might seem low, hiring a woman at lower pay than a man with the same job is just not cool—Especially when you look at the big picture. Institute for Women's Policy Research claims that woman earn less than men in almost every occupation. Equal pay issues affect women like us every day, so it's important that we stand up for our rights even if it doesn't seem like a big deal in the moment. It's the little things that add up, and fighting smaller battles could lead to big change later on.

The Associated Press reports that, in an attempt to raise standards for the entire Marine Corps, the army division has created new tests to enter combat that “6 out of 7 female recruits” failed in the past five months. This news comes after all combat positions in the military were opened to women in December of last year.

It's unclear if the new physical standards required to enter combat are actually targeting female soliders in an attempt to prevent integrating the military, or if most women really aren't up to the tasks that Marines in combat have to perform. The tests have resulted in 40 out of 1,500 men failing, or about 2.7 percent—while 86 percent of women have failed. When you take into account that this test was implemented because of integration, it seems a little suspect.

When individuals fail the physical assessment test, they are placed in a number of “other, less physically demanding Marine jobs” that don't include combat, according to the AP. Maybe these individuals would be more effective in these sorts of jobs, but it seems reasonable that they should at least be able to try out more than once for combat positions if they want to.

Men have dominated combat roles for pretty much as long as they've existed, and it makes sense that societally, many women grow up believing that they're not cut out for the military—and therefore never get the preparation and training they need to pass this test, or even to enter the military in the first place. It sucks that we've ended up with so few women who are physically prepared to participate in combat, but props to the awesome ladies trying to change that tide! Soon we won’t be talking about doing physically demanding tasks “like a girl,” and we’ll have them to thank.

Gen. Robert Neller, Marine Commandant, told the AP, “if you can carry the weight and you can do the job, and you're smart and you're a good leader, and you're a person of character and quality and set a good example, people will follow you. I don't think it really matters who you are." Hopefully this is also the attitude of current members of the military toward their new colleagues!

We're totally used to over thinking the cryptic messages that celebrities tweet on the Internet. However, the most cryptic and frustrating tweet of all time has officially happened, and we are not messing around with this. 

This is an obvious reference to the Gilmore Girls music... but does that mean this a hint that the revival's release date will soon be announced? We can only hope, because the suspense is ~literally~ killing us. 

Many people have speculated that the release will be in November, but there's no guarantee. Normally when filming is wrapped, the release date is announced in post-production. Unfortunately the show finished filming quite a while ago and we still have NOTHING. For now we'll just have to keep anxiously biting our nails until the Gilmore Girls social media gods drop another clue. 

So your first pick wasn’t the right one for you. It might have been the location, the academics, the overall vibe or even just a feeling you had. Either way, it’s never a good decision to stay at a college you don’t feel like you belong at. If your first school wasn’t the right fit, you may consider transferring to another one that will better meet your needs. Lucky for you, we’ve got the inside scoop on switching—from transfer collegiettes themselves! Here are seven pieces of advice for collegiettes considering the switch.

1. Talk with an advisor

There’s no doubt that transferring can be a scary subject, so why not talk to an expert? Set up a meeting with your future advisor to talk about what you need to do to prepare for your transition. Come with some questions you want answered—perhaps about your field of study, whether there's anything you can be doing this summer to get ready for your fall semester and confirming which credits are transferring over with you. Chances are, advisors are going to have some experience with transfer students and know what they should tell you in order to make the most of your experience.

2. Do your research

We know you've already done some in-depth research before making the big decision to transfer, but as you get closer to fall semester at a new school, it's time to delve into the details! The reality is, you might be a little behind compared to students who've already spent a year or more on campus; from social lives to academics, current students will have already established themselves. If you haven't already, plan a trip this summer to visit your new campus to familiarize yourself with the place beyond the general campus tour most prospective students receive.

Most likely, you've already signed up for classes (or will soon). Make sure you're on track to fulfill all the requirements you need to graduate from your new school! Beyond that, look into clubs and organizations on campus, and reach out to the groups' leaders to get more information on how to join, so that you already have extracurricular activities in place before you even start your semester.

3. Live on campus

You might feel like you’ve already gotten your fair share of dorm life (especially if you’re an upperclassman), but you may want to consider signing up for a double on campus at your new school. Tight quarters with strangers may seem a little like you're back in freshman year, but it’s a great way to meet new people and foster relationships.

“Don't be afraid to ask your roommate where things are,” says Braelynne Morrow, who transferred from Saint Lawrence University to Boston University, “and take a tour for yourself to become more familiar with the new school.”

If you’re given the option, definitely consider living on campus, because that's where most of the action happens. Being immersed in the school, its students and the culture will make your experience that much more enriching. This way, you’ll be forced to make new friends and become part of the student body.

4. Get involved

After you’ve scouted out your options, pick a club or two to join! Campus clubs and organizations can be a great place to meet like-minded people.

“Look into everything the school has to offer, even more so than you might have at your previous college,” says Braelynne. Even if you didn’t take part in organizations at your old school—or perhaps especially if you didn’t—doesn’t mean that you won’t be interested in your new college’s clubs either. Each school offers different activities, so be sure to give your new school a chance! You're brand new on campus, so it's especially important to be even more proactive than usual.

5. Stay in touch

Just because you chose to leave your previous school doesn’t mean you should wipe it from your memory! Even if you didn’t have a great experience, recognize the good that came out of your time at your first school—namely, the great friends you made. While it can be heartbreaking to say goodbye to good friends, it’s easier than you think to stay in touch! If you’re feeling out of place or homesick at your new school at first, your friends can be a great resource to go to.

6. Have an open mind

Since you probably didn’t have the best experience the first time around, you may be reluctant when it comes to starting college again. But remember that thinking positively and having an open mind can make your experience all that much better!

“Make sure you stay confident knowing that things will get better,” says Francesca Giordano, who transferred from SUNY Buffalo to the University of North Carolina at Wilmington. It might be rough at first, as most big transitions are, but keep in mind that you’ve made your decision for a reason, and things will eventually go uphill.

7. Reflect on your past

We can all learn from our mistakes—so try to take advantage of the situation and make the best of it. Francesca says, “Try to make a list of everything you might have done wrong or felt was wrong at your old school so you can make sure it doesn't happen at the next one!”

Take some time to think about your experience at your previous school. What did you like? What did you dislike? What would you have changed? Unlike most students at your new school, you’ll have had a different perspective before arriving. Try to use your past to your advantage in order to make the most of your next experience!

Transferring can seem daunting, but it’s an important transition to make if you’re not happy at your current school! While the switch might seem a little scary, there are simple ways to make your transfer smooth and seamless. Good luck, collegiettes!

For those of you who watch The Bachelorette, you’re probably more than familiar with Jordan Rodgers, the cutest guy on the show and the obvious frontrunner. From the minute he stepped out of the limo, JoJo hasn’t been able to get enough of him––and neither have the majority of swooning girls in America. While I can definitely side with JoJo that Jordan is absolutely stunning, looks can still fool you.

Off camera, the situation with Jordan is all sorts of messed up. He was reportedly with another girl the night before he left for filming. Then, during the season premiere of the show, his ex threw some major shade on Instagram. "Riding the bench doesn't get in the way of a relationship, but cheating does," she wrote, accompanied by #yourpitchisntperfect, #alwayswantedtobefamous, #dreamscometrue and #tuneinnextweekformoreBS.

On this week’s episode, JoJo finally confronted Jordan about the cheating rumors––and, in my opinion, he said "no" waaaaaaaay too fast when she flat out asked him if he had been unfaithful. In some bravado of honesty, Jordan cryptically explained that he used to be a different person, but we all know what that means. I’ve heard fuckbois say the same thing when they’re trying to convince me to look past the obvious fact that they’re players.

You could try to justify Jordan’s infidelity rumors by saying that it’s all in the past, but that would be naïve. Cheating behavior isn’t something that stops just because a guy is on a reality TV show––it’s a habit that continues. Additionally, a person’s relationship history is something that’s always relevant (especially if you’re potentially going to marry the guy). If I was JoJo, I would want to know the details of exactly why his ex is calling him out on social media, and I certainly wouldn’t build a relationship with him if I didn’t get an honest and justifiable answer. The moment that JoJo confronted him I had this sinking feeling in my gut that something was wrong and that Jordan can’t be trusted.

As a cherry on top of the double-dealing ice cream sundae that is Jordan Rodgers, it was announced just yesterday that he has an active profile on the very exclusive dating app Raya. Of course, Jordan took to Twitter and ~passionately~ refuted the claims, but at this point, who cares? There have been too many stories, too many allegations from past girlfriends or friends of girls he has hooked up with, and too much proof—through Jordan’s outright behavior—that he’s a player.

Notice that the majority of JoJo and Jordan’s interactions are physical. While we are only able to see what the producers of the show choose to reveal, it’s not hard to imagine most of the couple’s chemistry is based on their mutual attraction rather than an actual emotional connection. If Jordan really wanted to fall for JoJo, he would spend time talking to her instead of just kissing her.

Additionally, why would such an attractive, charming man and retired NFL player even need to go on The Bachelorette? You would think he’d have no problem finding love in real life. And yet he’s somehow ended up on a dating show because none of his past relationships have worked out (because he’s a womanizer). Jordan’s real issue is that he’s totally fame hungry. He has no actual job, his dating history includes C-list celebrities, and for him, his appearance on The Bachelorette is merely a business trip to becoming a sports reporter.

I wholeheartedly want to believe that despite his blatant streak of infidelity and crave for fame he really can fall for JoJo. But I also hope JoJo won’t turn a blind eye to what’s obvious. Maybe he really is done sowing his wild oats and he has moved on from his past habits. We still have a few more weeks of The Bachelorette to see exactly how this plays out, and based on previews of the finale, it doesn’t look pretty. Honestly, at this point, I'd rather date the psychotic and violent Chad than Jordan. Once a cheater, always a cheater.