When you head back to your dorm room after a long day of classes, all you want to do is get into oversized sweats and sink into bed with some reruns of Keeping Up With the Kardashians. But despite all the posters and bulletin boards filled with pictures of besties you have on your walls, that dorm room just doesn’t quite give you the comfort of home.

That’s why we’ve teamed up with Dormify, every collegiette’s one-stop destination for the chicest dorm room décor and more. We’re giving away a grand prize of a $500 shopping spree, plus a $250 runner-up shopping spree! With cute, inspirational pillows (and those with a not-so-subtle reminder to text mom) and tons of other ways to decorate your space, Dormify is the ultimate place to find bedding, wall hangings and more that are stylish and speak to your personality! Scour the site to create your very own look, or shop by collection—you can even take a quiz to figure out which one is best for you! Want a new way to show off your sorority pride? Check out the site’s Greek collection, where you’ll find adorable pullovers, accessories and tons of other customizable pieces.

Be ready to field questions like, “Where did you get that?” and “Can we come study in your room?” because all your dorm mates and BFFs are going to want in on your ultra-chic style. Enter below now for a chance to win a $500 or $250 shopping spree—and for even more lust-worthy décor inspiration, be sure to check out Dormify’s Instagram!

If you’re like us and you’ve been watching LGBTQ+-friendly shows or just TV in general, you’ve probably got at least one hardcore crush on a woman on television. And who can blame you? There are no relationship struggles to be had when you’re crushing on someone on TV! We’ve come up with a list of five crush-worthy TV characters we know you’ll love.

1. Karma Ashcroft

This first crush burst onto the scene with MTV’s Faking It, which took off last spring. Katie Stevens, 21, plays Karma on the show, and she destroys us no matter what look she’s going for. She’ll make you fall in love because not only does she just seems so ridiculously sweet, she can sing (and does it well, too). Karma is simply adorable and all too easy to fall for. She has a big heart and is struggling to figure out what the right thing to do is, just like many of us. She wants to be popular, but she doesn’t always think things through like she should.

2. Frankie Alan

Frankie Alan of Lip Service steals our hearts because of her brokenness. Much too impulsive but all too attractive, Frankie is the type of girl you probably shouldn’t go near but who makes you feel surrounded intense love that you don’t want to walk away from. Her edgy tattoos and hair that appears to be chopped freehandedly a la The L Word’s Shane McCutcheon makes all the queer collegiettes swoon. As the show progresses, you’ll get even more wrapped up in Frankie’s character, and your heart will break (and swell) for her.

3. Fiona Coyne

Fiona Coyne, resident rich girl and queer female character in Degrassi, will make you want to burry yourself in her long locks and inhale her certainly fancy perfume. Fiona is played by Annie Clark, not to be confused with the musician who goes by the stage name St. Vincent (though that Annie Clark is also super adorable), and she remains one of our favorite characters on Degrassi. She definitely makes an entrance, making her debut via limo in season nine. You’ll adore Fiona for her dedication to her passions and her struggles with alcoholism, which shows how raw and real she is.

4. Amy Raudenfeld

Also starring in MTV’s Faking It is Amy Raudenfeld, played by Rita Volk. Amy’s got that cool, chill vibe (hello, beanies) while also being stunningly attractive and rocking a constant model pout. The cynic will woo you with her struggles with sexuality and how relatable she is. Lots of us can relate to the difficulty of finding out that we feel more for a best friend than we would have imagined, and even more relatable for some is Amy’s difficulty dealing with her conservative mother. Sexuality is something that Amy and many of us have had to figure out, and that’s why we love her.

5. Bo Dennis

Bo Dennis, the star of Lost Girl, is a bisexual succubus with a lot of attitude and bravery played by Anna Silk. Though a little on the older side for some collegiettes, Bo proves that loving ladies isn’t limited by age! On the show, she’s super seductive in her all-black outfits and will certainly give you someone new to fangirl over. You’ll fall for her the moment she saves Kenzi, her eventual friend, from being attacked, and you’ll keep on loving her more and more as the show progresses and she shows just how heroic she really is. We can all be a little bit more like Bo, and what’s better than crushing on someone you admire?

Now that you’ve got some more television crushes, feel free to use them as conversation starters to chat with the cute girl from class. We’ve got to admit to being guilty of using The L Word time and time again as a way of making connections with other potentially LGBTQ+ girls.

Did we miss any crush-worthy characters? Let us know in the comments below!

Whether you belted out his 2004 smash hits “True” and “On The Way Down,” watched his relationships play out on The Ashlee Simpson Show and The Hills or crushed on him hard enough to have his poster hanging on your bedroom wall (just us? Didn’t think so), you know the name Ryan Cabrera.

HC sat down with Ryan in NYC to talk all things romance, reality TV and, of course, his new album. After an extremely candid conversation, we can confirm: Ryan Cabrera is back, and he’s better than ever.

Check out the interview below to find out about his craziest fan moment, which other singer he "stalked" to the bathroom and how he stays friends with (almost) all of his exes.

Her Campus: How do you use social media to interact with your fans?

Ryan Cabrera: It’s really cool because it’s a way that we can actually find out directly what the fans want, as far as certain things like asking, “Hey, should we come to this city soon?” And then we get to hear the replies of who wants it. Or it could be like, “I can’t think of an album name, I want to do a contest where fans can help me think of suggestions.” Whatever it is that’s happening, we can actually reach out and get their feedback. I actually do read it and reply back.

HC: Any memorable, crazy fan moments?

RC: Nothing too recent, but I’ll always remember the girl who spent the night backstage underneath a table. She somehow snuck backstage the night before, slept there, and then popped up when we finally got back there. She told me the story and I was like, “What are you doing?” and she was like, “I slept here last night, I snuck in so that I could get to meet you guys!” I was like, “That’s awesome,” so we let her hang.

HC: Is that creepy or flattering?

RC: No, I loved it! (laughs) I thought it was awesome. She was harmless. I mean, I would do the same thing. We let her hang out. I’m not suggesting [doing] that, but she was harmless.

HC: You said you would do the same thing. Who would get you to that point? Who makes you starstruck?

RC: I don’t really get starstruck except for [by] really random things. I get starstruck by the things that people are like, “What is that?” But I would camp out for Dave Matthews. I did stalk him! I saw him at the Grammys; he went into the bathroom and I followed him.

HC: You followed him into the bathroom?

RC: No, not into the bathroom. I followed him to the bathroom, but I waited outside of the bathroom.  Then he came out and we took a picture together.

HC: So let’s talk about the album. You’ve done some amazing collaborations on it and worked with incredible artists and producers! Is there anyone you haven’t collaborated with who you want to work with in the future?

RC: Dave [Matthews] as far as artist-wise, as far as producers, the three that I did [work with] were star producers for me. Those were three guys that I got to work with that I always wanted to.  As far as artist-wise, Dave or Paul Simon.

HC: I listened to “House On Fire,” and it’s great. It has a really pop-y vibe to it. Is that the vibe for the whole album?

RC: It is. I can’t help but write pop songs. I have a way of writing that I can’t get out of, but in a good way.

HC: You stay true to yourself.

RC: Yeah, you can still hear it on acoustic, but for the production we brought it up to a much more fun, pop-y kind of record because that’s what I love at the end of the day.

HC: It’s kind of a party album?

RC: Yeah. It’s a top-down, blast-it kind of record.

HC: How do you think your music has evolved?

RC: It’s just more mature. From the music to the vocals to the melodies to the lyrics, as a whole I wanted to take my time with it so you can see growth. I wanted to get better as a writer.

HC: “Take It All Away” had romance ballads. There were some anthems on there!

RC: There are a couple of those on here, too.

HC: So you talk about your love life on the album?

RC: Yeah, the whole album—it isn’t necessarily specifically about the love in my life, but it’s about loving life in general and the people that I’m with, and even the heartbreak songs still have a positive spin.

HC: You haven’t necessarily been shy about dating in the public eye…

RC: Obviously not! You don’t have a choice with the way the Internet is now. There’s no hiding anything anymore.

HC: In the past decade, you’ve been on a few reality shows and we’ve watched your relationships play out. Have you learned anything from those experiences, either in terms of dating or fame?

RC: Not the dating part. I’ve learned that the way people sway things is always really funny and people just want all of this drama to happen. I’m still friends with pretty much every single girl I’ve ever dated, actually. There’s only just one that really does not like me.

HC: Oh no!

RC: She’s still a little bitter about the way things went down.

HC: Do you have any tips for staying friends with an ex?

RC: The thing is, at one point, you cared enough for that person to date them. Just because you’re not meant to be together in a relationship doesn’t mean that you can’t still be cool with each other. I still want every girl that I’ve dated to do well. I don’t have any negative feelings toward them. People are going to mess up, people are going to do dumb things, but that doesn’t mean that [he or she is] a terrible person. My ex-girlfriend ended up marrying one of my best friends. It takes a little bit, but then it’s like, “Oh, that’s actually awesome. I want to see them both happy.” Everybody that I date, I want to see happy.

HC: I’ve heard you talk in interviews about Ashlee [Simpson] and that the dating aspect on [The Ashlee Simpson Show] was very real. Was it like that on the other shows that you were on?

RC: No. I think at some point culture started to take a turn for the dramatic. If there’s not drama happening, it’s boring to them.

HC: A lot of people on The Hills have come out and said that it wasn’t real.

RC: They didn’t like me talking when that show was on because I’d always say, “Hell no, don’t believe any of that!”

HC: Are you single or dating?

RC: Single. When you have the schedule that we have right now, I wouldn’t put anyone through that. There was someone that I was hanging out with but then I told her, straight up, that I was gonna be on the road and I don’t have 100 percent commitment to be in a relationship.

HC: That’s fair.

RC: It was, I was being 100 percent honest, but she didn’t like it. That’s who’s not too keen on me right now. It’s new.

HC: So it’s a fresh breakup, or “parting”…

RC: Yeah, we weren’t officially anything and right now my main goal is just my music and getting that part. If the other part happens, it happens.

HC: If it does happen, what do you look for in a girl?

RC: A girl that’s comfortable being herself and doesn’t change anything about herself based on who she’s around. She’s gotta be honest. I don’t care about the bad sh*t about you or the past; as long as you’re honest about it, then I’m cool. I don’t judge.

HC: Do you have a favorite song on the album now?

RC: For the time being, “House On Fire.” It’s just so fun. It’s a record that makes you happy. It’s hard to not be happy when you hear the record. Also, “Forgot How To Fly,” which is the completely acoustic ballad. It doesn’t sound like “True,” but it’s the song that doesn’t need the full production. It’s basically me, the guitar and some strings.

HC: The fans will be happy about that! I saw on Instagram you put up a picture of you running on the West Side Highway. How do you have time on the road to fit workouts in?

RC: I wake up early! I worked out this morning at 8 a.m.

HC: Aside from running, what other workouts do you do?

RC: I usually hike. If we’re not on tour and I’m home, it’s hiking every morning. But if we’re on the road, it’s just whatever you can fit in, as long as it’s something. For me it’s usually hiking. Hiking and tennis! And bowling!

HC: That’s a good date night activity!

RC: Yes!

HC: What do you want your fans to take away from the album?

RC: Take it all away! (laughs) From this record, the main goal is to promote people being happy and enjoying music and what it does to you. That’s why I wanted the record to be so uplifting and positive. I want it to be something that you listen to and it just brightens up your day for the hour and fifteen minutes that it’s on.

For more on Ryan, follow him on Twitter and check out the lyric video for his new single “House On Fire”!

Tattoos, tats, ink—so many fancy them but can’t muster up the courage to take the plunge. Whether you ever intend to hop on the body art bandwagon or not, wouldn't you love to get the lowdown on what it’s really like to get tatted? To satisfy your curiosity (yes, we’re talking to you, tattoo virgins), we asked four collegiettes about their ink. From inspirations to words of wisdom and how painful the process actually is, scroll ahead to see what they had to say.

Photo: Refinery 29

What was the inspiration behind your tattoo(s)?

Jordan Sypek, a senior at University of Tampa: My tattoo is on the top of my foot and is the father-daughter celtic knot symbol. My dad and I got them done together. We have always been close my whole life and I knew I would only get a tattoo if it meant something, so this seemed like the perfect one.

Maya Dartiguenave, a junior at University of North Florida: The one that I love the most is a quote running down my spine saying, "You, alone, are enough." Maya Angelou said it, and after she passed away this year, I knew I had to get it. She's always been an inspiration to me and my family, so much so that they named me after her! 

Lisa Whittemore, a senior at University of California, Irvine: My first tattoo was of a phoenix rising out of its own ashes. That one resembled a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy. I’m heavily tattooed so the more tattoos I got, the more I wanted them to relate to each other—one cohesive theme rather than little memories here and there. I didn’t want a bunch of random stamps, but ones that correlate with my life experiences. 

Jen Morgan, a junior at Messiah College: The first tattoo I got, the one on my wrist, symbolizes my recovery from my former self-injury addiction. I had been wanting the tattoo while I was still struggling with it, as I hoped it would be a tool to help me to stop whenever I had triggers. When I was of legal age and had been in recovery for a full year, that's when I finally decided to get the tattoo. The tattoo says "Love" in cursive, and my favorite Bible verse right underneath in newspaper-style print.

Photo: Pinterest

How did you decide on the tattoo shop?

Jordan: I went to a place a lot of friends and family had been to before. Getting positive reviews from other people is definitely a plus. Don't go to a place because it is cheaper—go because it has a positive reputation. This tattoo will be on your body FOREVER, so picking the less expensive option in this case is not smart. 

Maya: I actually have two tattoos, both of which I got from Florida Velvet in Florida by a man named Will. I thought long and hard about what I wanted as tattoos, and decided on Will because I had seen the quality work that he's done on my friends.

Lisa: The shop I went to in Venice, California, where I got my first tattoo, was just convenient but then I got to know several tattoo artists who guided me during my decision-making processes. When I lived in Japan, Horiyoshi III, a renowned artist who specializes in Japanese traditional full-body tattoos, tattooed my whole right arm by a hand technique using a long bamboo stick with needles. 

Jen: My friend Kelsey recommended Stingray Body Art (in Allston, MA/Boston) to me because her friends have received tattoos there, so I went in to check it out. Once I toured the shop, felt comfortable with the atmosphere and met the artists, that's when I knew I wanted to get my tattoo there. I loved the experience so much my first time that I decided to go there for my second and third tattoos as well, with the same artist! 

Photo: Freja Beha Erichsen

How much does it actually hurt?

Jordan: It did hurt, but since it was my first tattoo I have nothing to compare it to. It felt like someone scratching you in an annoying way for 30 minutes. The top of the foot is supposed to be a painful place because there is barely any fat, but it was definitely tolerable. I am a big wimp when it comes to pain, but this pain wasn't that bad. 

Maya: The pain of a tattoo is REAL, but it can be beaten. A few deep breaths and concentrating on something else definitely makes it better. I actually got both of my tattoos in the worst spots, my ribs and my spine, so the pain is higher there. I would advise to anyone who doesn't take pain well to get their tattoo in an easier spot.

Lisa: There are some areas that are really painful and some that don’t hurt at all. The back of my calf didn’t hurt but down the sides of your ribcage, your elbows and lower back (I cried when I got tattooed there) hurt. It’s a consistent pain, and almost feels like your skin is being scraped over and over with a razor blade. It’s so consistent that it’s almost lulling. Surprisingly, getting tattooed on my fingers didn’t hurt. The thing that gets the most annoying is the sound of the machine. 

Jen: This question is always so tricky to answer! I really do think it depends on your pain tolerance. Mine is extremely high, so I was totally fine getting my tattoos.  For all of my tattoos, I honestly was just listening to my music and laughing and joking with my friends the whole time in the shop, and then before I knew it, the tattoo was done! What I usually tell people who ask me this is: If you want the tattoo badly enough, you won't think about the pain. Going through an hour or two (give or take, depending on what you get) of pain in order to have a beautiful piece of artwork on your body forever is so worth it! 

Photo: Katalina Girl

Does fresh ink require special aftercare?

Jordan: The tattoo artist gave me cream to put on it everyday to ensure it would heal properly and I had to make sure it was covered from the sun for a few weeks. I still don't like it to be out in the sun a lot because it can make the tattoo fade. If I'm at the beach I will just bury my foot in the sand so that the sun doesn't get to it. 

Maya: Taking care of a tattoo was a lot like taking care of a new piercing. I had to wash it a lot with unscented antibacterial soap and put unscented lotion on it whenever it felt dry or itchy (that was tough for the spine tattoo!). My tattoo artist did say to stay away from the beach and swimming for at least two weeks after I got them. And don't worry,  when you start to wash it at first, it'll look like the ink is coming out. But it's not! The black stuff is supposed to rub off (I think it's a mixture of ink and dried blood), but your tattoo is perfectly fine!

Lisa: The most important thing after you get a tattoo—and it sucks because it’s painful—is to wash it. Not scrub it, but wash it with soap and water, then rinse it in the shower. Keep doing that until it doesn’t look shiny and lubricate it just enough to keep it moist.

Jen: You need to be super careful and cautious of your tattoo right after you get it! Do not go swimming or tanning for at least two weeks after you get it, as this can slow the healing process and make your tattoo fade sooner than it should. I took care of all my tattoos by letting them breathe (no fabric touching them whenever possible!) and washing twice a day, then applying Tattoo Goo for the first few days. Then, once the peeling and healing started, I would wash a bit more often and then apply an unscented and calming lotion like Aveeno. 

Photo: Pinterest

Any words of advice for tattoo virgins?

Jordan: Think about it long and hard before you get one. They are with you forever and it is so important to make sure you will like it for the rest of your life. Also, take into consideration your job goals and what you want in your career, because a lot of jobs won't allow you to have a visible tattoo.

Maya: DO NOT think you can handle it if something like a piercing is too much! Especially if you're doing a big piece! Also, THINK. Think hard about your tattoo, because it is there forever. If getting a tattoo hurts as badly as it did, then removing one will definitely kill. Be sure, and be ready, and you'll end up loving your tattoo! I think if you have a tattoo you know you'll love forever you'll, ironically, forget you have it! (I forget I have both of mine until I notice them in the mirror!) But if you have a bad one, you may feel regret every time you see it. 

Lisa: I would advise them to research the tattoo shop, find out how long it’s been there and how many years of experience the artists have, and look at their previous work. People should view it as a commitment. If you get a tattoo taken off, most of the time it looks worse than the actual tattoo. Size and placement matter. It’s not a sticker. You need to think about where it’s going to go. If you’re going to get a small tattoo, it’s better to put it in a smaller space and the same goes for big tattoos.  In the end, you make the final decision, but I think you need to listen to what the tattoo artist says. At least hear them out. 

Jen: Do know that it will hurt, but probably not as bad as you think it will hurt. The pain is definitely worth it for a lifetime of enjoyment! Also, don't compromise tattoo placement based on fear of pain. If you want something really badly on your ribs but you've heard that's a "bad spot" because it hurts, get it anyway. The pain is short term and so very worth it.

To the collegiettes who have tattoos: What else should someone know before getting a tattoo? And, if you could go back in time, would you change anything?

After months (or years) of being bitterly single, you can spot THAT couple from a mile away. You know exactly the one we’re talking about: They are the pair that, for some reason or another, are so irritating that you wish they would just break up already. Harsh? It’s okay; we’ve all encountered THAT couple every now and then. But when it comes to your own relationship, it’s a little more difficult to tell if you and your beau are the ones getting on everyone else’s nerves. Never fear, collegiettes; we are here to help! Check out our signs that you’re THAT irritating couple.

1. You Overshare on Social Media

The Problem

Most collegiettes fill their social media accounts with a variety of posts: funny quotes, chic personal style pictures, some yummy recipes and even a #tbt photo here and there. If you’re a member of THAT couple, your virtual platforms may look a little different. When your scroll through your Twitter feed, Facebook timeline, Instagram pictures and Tumblr posts, it resembles a very detailed timeline of your relationship.

While wishing your boyfriend a happy anniversary is completely normal, other statuses are a little out there. “Picking up my boyfriend’s laundry #girlfriendproblems.” Girl, that’s more like #personalassistantproblems. “Stole his sweater so he’s keeping me warm all the time.” Can we say nauseating?

If this isn’t dreadful enough, there’s always THAT girl who writes on her boyfriend’s Facebook wall every three hours. “That joke you just told was soooo funny,” she writes while they’re hanging out. A few hours later: “I luv u babe.” Right before she falls asleep: “Goodnight baby.” Um, no thank you.

We’re almost as excited as you the first time your beau sends you flowers or surprises you with a romantic trip to a countryside bed and breakfast (if you’ve ever experienced the latter, consider us jealous); however, we’re not amused when you tweet, Instagram and make a Facebook status every time you and your boy toy go to the supermarket. We get it; you guys are very happy. But do we need to be reminded that every single time we want to tweet? No. Side effects of oversharing on your social media accounts may include a sudden dip in followers and only your boyfriend and your mom liking those mushy statuses.

Posting an Instagram of your boyfriend sleeping (we know, creepy) may be a way to tell all your followers that the two of you are super intimate. But we can let you in on a little secret: we don’t care. Instead, we just think it’s irritating.

The Solution

As much as you love being a social media guru, it’s important not to share everything about your relationship. Your followers aren’t in your relationship, so why should they know everything? Unless the two of you are Beyoncé and Jay Z, they don’t need to. But that doesn’t mean you have to hide your beau from your virtual platforms.

“Quality over quantity,” says dating coach and founder of The Love TREP Neely Steinberg. “[Share] the more special memories that people will care about.” While every time he sends you a cute text may not be worth posting about, we will want to see one or two pictures of the two of you from your wintry vacation to Park City!

2. You Ditch Your Friends for Your Boyfriend

The Problem

Take a look at your agenda. Is there a balance between dinner dates with your girlfriends and hanging out with your beau, or are you all booked with breakfasts, lunches, dinners and movie outings with your boyfriend? The latter, right?

While it’s natural to spend more time with your boyfriend once you’re in a relationship, leaving your friends in the dust is not okay.

“I don’t understand why some girls feel the need to completely check out of their friendships once a guy is in the picture,” says Catherine Sourbis, a recent graduate of Tufts University. “I’ve had friends who can balance their love life and friendships, so it’s not impossible.”

At first, you’re ditching your friends for a romantic date with your beau. It’s fine; they understand that you’re in the throes of young love. But when you bail on a girls’ night out because you and your boyfriend had to help his mom choose a new shower curtain, you’re committing a major friendship faux pas. After a couple of these incidents, your friends will probably stop inviting you to hang out. “She’s probably hanging out with her boyfriend,” they’ll say. With a quick look at your Facebook timeline, Instagram and Twitter feed, they’ll realize they were right.

The Solution

The solution is quite simple: hang out with your friends every now and then. We hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the alternative is not too peachy. “It’s natural to see somewhat less of friends in the early and more intense phase of a new relationship; however, ignoring [your friends] won’t keep them [around] for long,” says Susanne Alexander, a relationship coach and founder of Marriage Transformation. You don’t need to ignore your boyfriend, but it’s imperative to have a healthy balance between your friends and your relationship. Scheduling a weekly dinner date with your roomie and coffee runs with your bestie are great ways to start. Plus, hanging out with your girlfriends is perfect for when you’re in desperate need of relationship advice. We know what you’re thinking: this sounds so Sex and the City.

3. You’re Guilty of PDA… in Front of Your Friends

The Problem

In healthy doses, there’s nothing wrong with a little PDA.  Holding hands? Very cute. Having a boyfriend put his arm around your shoulder when you’re watching TV? Adorable and unobtrusive. Making out with your beau in front of your friends? No, thank you.

“One of my friend’s ex-boyfriends would give her an over-the-top, Hollywood-esque kiss while she was talking to someone else!” says Madison*, a recent graduate of Boston University. “That may be romantic for the couple, but it’s just rude otherwise.”

Not only is this a complete conversation ender, it’s disrespectful to your group of friends. “Should I be leaving?” your friends are probably thinking to themselves as your beau starts grabbing your backside. Um, none of your friends signed up for this.

While every collegiette has had her fair share of DFMOs, getting hot and heavy with your boy toy during dinner with your friends is just awkward—there’s plenty of light, onlookers can’t be distracted by Taylor Swift’s “Shake It Off” blasting over the speakers and you cannot blame it on the alcohol. Excuse us as our appetite magically ceases to exist. Let’s just put it this way: your friends and other disturbed onlookers will be dying to shout, “Get a room!”

The Solution

You shouldn’t feel the need to stand three feet away from your boyfriend at all times. If you’re an affectionate couple, don’t be afraid to hold hands or exchange the occasional peck. However, it’s imperative to draw the line between appropriate PDA and uncomfortable PDA.

“If it is really turning off people around you, talk to your partner about what parts you can tone down in front of others,” says Steinberg.

So how do you figure out what type of PDA is too awkward for words? Try people watching and keep an eye out for those obnoxious couples. Once you make a mental note that playing tonsil hockey at your little sister’s school play is a complete no, feel free to send this article to the PDA perpetrators. They’ll thank us later.

4. You Use Crazy Pet Names in Public

The Problem

Calling your man “babe” or “honey” at a family gathering is completely normal, but what about “pookie boo” or “schmoopy” a la Seinfeld? It may be cute to you, but it’s like nails on a chalkboard to everyone else. Once the pet name exchange starts, it seems like it never stops.

And don’t get us started about using baby voices in public. “I cannot stand when couples talk in baby voices to each other,” says Melissa Marks, a recent graduate of the University at Albany-SUNY. “You are grown adults!”

Are you sick? Are you talking to your new puppy? Neither? So then why are you talking like this?

Love has the power to make you act like a two-year-old; however, we don’t think people who are having a dinner at a fancy restaurant signed up for a night of secondhand baby talk.

The Solution

Similar to using PDA to the extreme, it’s important to decide what type of vocabulary and voice should be used when it’s just the two of you. “One way to make a relationship special is to have some pet names and interactions be private,” says Alexander.

We have a sneaking suspicion that pet names and baby talk is a way to show some affection, so why should you publicize that to everyone within earshot of you? Feel free to call each other cute names in public, but save the mushy stuff for when it’s just the two of you. Trust us, it’ll be more special that way.

5. You’re Already Planning Your Future Together

The Problem

Whether you have a Pinterest board dedicated to your future nuptials (guilty) or played house when you were in kindergarten (guilty again), chances are that you’ve been scheming up your future for a while now. Claiming wedding color schemes and baby names with your girlfriends is completely normal, but planning your future with your boyfriend super early on is, well, overdoing it.

“We’re going to have three kids and a summer house in Montauk,” you and your man tell your friends… after a month of dating.

Let’s say it together, shall we? Slow down!

“If you’re still in college, you’re too young to be seriously planning your wedding and future, especially if you just started dating your boyfriend,” Madison says. “What’s the rush?”

While we’re very convinced that you’re going to find your Prince Charming, he may not be the guy you met on frat row after a few too many drinks last weekend. Translation? If he’s not the one, you guys may break up. And there’s no way of telling if he’s in for the long haul after a month of dating. So if you guys go your separate ways, everyone will be wondering what ever happened to that Montauk house.

As of now, prematurely planning your future with your new boyfriend is just annoying. Not only is it extremely presumptuous, but it’s going to make your single friends start panicking and imagining the rest of their lives as spinsters. And nobody wants to think they’re going to live a lonely life with cats at 19-years old.

The Solution

It may seem difficult when you’ve been (not so secretly) planning your wedding for what seems like an eternity and finally found a great guy, but take a breather and relax!

“If a woman finds herself doing that really early, I would caution her to take her time and let the relationship progress organically,” says Steinberg.

Though it’s great to realize that your relationship could have a long future, planning the rest of your life a little too early puts a lot of strain on the relationship. Clearly you can’t have that summer home in Long Island if your boyfriend was offered a job in California. Is this something to freak out about? No. Instead, see where life takes the two of you and cherish your time together.

As much as these quirks may annoy your peers, the only thing that should matter is if you’re happy. Sure, your friends may roll their eyes at how head-over-heels in love you are, but let’s remember one very important fact: if you’re THAT annoying couple, there’s a big chance you’re extremely happy with your beau. So post those cute Instagram selfies (within reason) and take your great relationship one day at a time.

*Name has been changed.

Stunning as usual, the lovely Jennifer Lawrence graced the world with her presence as she walked down and posed on the red carpet for the Mockingjay world premiere. She decided to tone down for a simply radiant look and we are absolutely loving it! We definitely wish we could rock her Christian Dior quilted floral dress, but we are just going to have to settle with imitating her beauty look.

Angelic Face

It’s super easy to get JLaw’s innocent and angelic glow. The first and most important tip for achieving this look is having a perfectly flawless and matte face. The next most important factor is the highlighter applied to her temples and above her cheekbone to define the structure. Add a touch of peachy-pink blush to really make your cheeks pop. Her eyes are fairly simple, with nude eyeshadows and black eyeliner surrounding her eyes. She finishes off her look with a touch of a warm pink.

• Highlighter: Benefit Cosmetics High Beam - $26
• Blush: NARS Blush in Orgasm - $30
• Lips: Tart LipSurgence LipTint in Sweet - $24

Slightly tousled hair

JLaw’s sophisticated and fun hairdo is what really made the outfit. To recreate this look for both short and long locks, apply some mousse to wet hair before drying it with a hairdryer. Make sure you use your fingers or a wide tooth comb to tousle the roots as you go. Section off your hair horizontally and pin small sized sections of your hair right above the nape of your neck. The back will be pinned up whereas the front will be pinned back! When you’re done with that, add a slim headband to keep it all in place.

• Mousse: Tresemme 24 Hour Body Foaming Mousse - $5.99
• Headband: Capelli New York Two Toned Head Wrap With Stones - $9

​White as snow nails

Yes, you definitely can wear white after Labor Day. To get JLaw’s fantastic nails, try a high gloss white nail polish.

• Nails: Formula X New Classics in White Matter - $10.50

​Day to night vixen

The best part of JLaw’s look? It's easy to transition from day to night! Just add another layer of eyeliner, and smudge it in for a sultrier look. JLaw also applied a darker rose-toned pink color to her lips to take her look from a daytime angel to a nightime vixen for the afterparty.

• Lips: Shiseido Perfect Rouge in RD732 Blush - $25
• Eyeliner: Stila Smudge Stick Waterproof Eye Liner in Stingray - $20

What do you collegiettes think about JLaw’s look for the Mockingjay premiere? Are you excited to see the movie? We know we certainly are! Let us know in the comments.

In case you couldn't make it out to the second stop of College Fashion Week 2014 in New York (or just want to relive the fabulousness), we've got the inside scoop on what you missed! The spectacular event, held on October 11th at Santos Party House, was a huge success. Get the full experience; watch our amazing recap video below! Who knows? You may even spot yourself or a friend on screen!

Check out all of the other fabulous coverage of our cross-country fashion week at CollegeFashionWeek.com! Stay tuned for details of College Fashion Week 2015 - we might even bring the catwalk to campus in YOUR city!

We all need a little guidance now and then, so whether you’re stressed about a fling gone wrong, a recently wrecked relationship or how to handle a stage-five clinger, Real Live College Guy Dale is here to help you navigate the college dating scene.

During the first week of college I met this really nice guy, and we've been good friends ever since. I knew right away that he had a girlfriend, so I knew that friends was all that we could ever be, and I was completely fine with that. The other night we were sitting alone in the common room watching TV when all of a sudden he put his arm around me and started stroking my arm. Then he walked me back to my dorm room and I quickly said goodnight. It all felt a little too intimate for comfort. Should I be concerned, or is he just being friendly?–Not a Homewrecker at Northwestern

Northwestern,

This is tricky territory. If he was trying to initiate something even though he had a girlfriend, he’s obviously not a great guy (unless they have an open relationship, but that’s a stretch). If he wasn’t, it’s totally possible that he acted subconsciously because he’s used to doing the same with his own girlfriend.

Generally, I don’t throw my arm around a girl and stroke her arm (which sounds super weird now that I’m actually typing it) unless I’m actually into her. I also haven’t done that if I’ve been seeing someone else. Additionally, I think it’s a little strange that he’d walk you back to your dorm room from the common room (it can’t be that far, right?), but that’s because it’s not something I see regularly from friends. However, it’s totally possible he just wanted to make sure you got home safe.

I’ll be honest: Without the full story, I don’t know if I can give you a perfect answer. That being said, I don’t think he really meant anything by it. Like I said before, I believe the most reasonable option is that he got comfortable with you and — like he does when he’s comfortable around his girlfriend — his subconscious took over.

Regardless of whether or not he meant to do anything, I would double check with him. It might be awkward to do so, but it’s better to cover your bases now so you can avoid further awkwardness in the future. A simple, “Hey, when you put your arm around me the other night, did you…” would suffice.

If he says that he did want to do something, well, like you said, you’re not a homewrecker. You know that you can only be friends. Your best bet at that point is to tell him that you aren’t comfortable hanging out with him if he’s going to act like that behind his girlfriend’s back, and then move on with your other friends.

If he says that he didn’t mean anything by it, you’re good to go. Maybe remind him that you aren’t his girlfriend, but I see no reason why you to wouldn’t be able to continue hanging out.

Best of luck, Northwestern.

Most of us have a love/hate relationship with dieting. It starts off all well and good when we decide we’re gonna buckle down and be our best, healthiest self. But a few days in, all we can think about is how much we miss donuts. The struggle is real, and so is the hunger. These are some of our typical thoughts while on a diet.

1. This is the year I have a beach bod for spring break!

2. This isn’t so bad. I love salad!

3. What is kale?

4. I forgot how great fruit was.

5. This tastes like vomit.

6. I think my organs are starting to eat themselves.

7. I’ve been really good this week. I’m gonna treat myself.

*20 minutes later*

8. I’ll just work off the calories.

9. I. Hate. Running.

10. Wait, these pants are baggy. It’s working!

11. Damn, I look good!

12. I’m gonna treat myself again.

13. I guess I’ll never learn.

At the end of the day, trying to eat right and exercise is so awesome. But quit torturing yourself with green shakes and rations of almonds trying to lose weight. We think you look great already.

We’ve all heard those weird tips and tricks to add to your beauty routine. Whether it’s beer for shinier hair or toothpaste to get rid of pimples, chances are you’ve heard some pretty crazy beauty DIYs. But do any of them actually work? To get to the bottom of these outrageous beauty hacks and find ones that really work, we spoke to Andrea Pomerantz Lustig, a beauty expert and the author of How to Look Expensive.

1. Replace Creams with Coconut Milk

If you’re sick of spending a ton of money on hair masks or body lotions, Pomerantz Lustig recommends a cheaper alternative. “Buy and open a can of coconut milk from the supermarket, let it sit in the fridge for 24 hours or so and the creamy part will solidify into the most gorgeous body crème,” she says.

You can use it as a hair mask or body butter—sounds yummy! Pomerantz Lustig also suggests picking up a cute jar or container to store it in the fridge. Coconut oil makes a great moisturizer as well. Store it at room temperature so it stays liquefied, and smooth some on your skin during the dry winter months. It does wonders and smells delicious!

2. Erase Under-Eye Bags With Jell-O

If you struggle with constant bags under your eyes, Pomerantz Lustig says to make some Jell-O cubes in an ice tray, freeze them and wrap them in plastic wrap. As the Jell-O melts, it will mold to the shape of your under-eye area, and you can use it to effectively reduce any puffiness. You can also try this trick with green tea; Pomerantz Lustig says the tea “is packed with antioxidants to soothe irritated skin… [and] the cold will help alleviate puffiness.” She loves this trick “for when you need a quick pick-me-up.”

3. Get a Deep (and Cheap) Clean With a Washcloth

Have you ever considered splurging on one of those outrageously expensive (and somewhat intimidating) electric facial brushes? Don’t even think about it! Pomerantz Lustig says to skip this huge purchase and make a much, much smaller one.

“Buy some cheap face cloths from Target or Kmart,” she says. The rough texture of the cloths makes for a great exfoliator. “They mimic the results of the $200 devices, and I got this tip from a top Hollywood facialist!” she says.

No need to tell us twice! This beauty hack will get you the same deep clean without breaking the bank. Pick up a few of these washcloths (Target, $1.18), and rub them gently over your skin in a circular motion when washing your face. Just be sure to throw them in the wash in between uses!

4. Reduce Skin Redness With Nasal Spray

For those of us who suffer from red skin, Pomerantz Lustig recommends using Afrin Nasal Spray (CVS, $6.79). The nasal spray is a vasoconstrictor, meaning it causes your blood vessels to narrow. When you apply it to blemishes or blotchy, red skin, Pomerantz Lustig says it “constricts the blood vessels under the skin, which in turn lessens the redness on top of the skin.” It’s a cheap and easy way to deal with blotchiness!

5. Convert Powders to Creams With Aquaphor

If you have a powder makeup product that you would rather have as a cream, Pomerantz Lustig says to mix it with some Aquaphor (Target, $4.99). The cream will transform your powder to the desired texture. Try it for foundations, eyeshadows or any other powdered makeup. It will extend the life of your powder by spreading it out, while also making it multi-functional.

6. Blot Oil at Starbucks

Yes, we’re serious. If your skin tends to get oily throughout the day, forget about those blotting sheets you pick up every time you go to a drugstore. Opt for a cheaper solution: “Grab some napkins at Starbucks,” says Pomerantz Lustig. “They are the perfect texture for getting rid of grease!” It may sound crazy, but it works.

Next time you’re feeling a little oily (and in desperate need of caffeine), grab an extra napkin and blot your face for free before you head to class. You’ll feel refreshed and shine-free!

7. Use BB Cream Beyond Your Face

Already using BB cream on your face? Pomerantz Lustig recommends spreading it a little further. Smooth some onto your arms, your shoulders, your legs or anywhere else that might be exposed. “It’ll give you a little color and coverage,” Pomerantz Lustig says. It’s perfect for “mosquito bites, veins, cellulite, bruises” and more. Unlike standard cover-up, BB cream is also perfect for moisturizing and perfecting your skin, Pomerantz Lustig says.

You’d be surprised what some grocery or drugstore products can do for your beauty routine! These unique and quick fixes will save you time and money on your beauty routine.

What about you, collegiettes? What are your favorite beauty hacks? Let us know in the comments below!

When Wonderland debuted their newest cover featuring Taylor Swift, we all did a double (triple?) take. With a deep bronze glow and without her signature cat-eye and bold red lipstick, she was pretty much unrecognizable—but there's no denying she still looked stunning. So we did a little digging and put together other standout moments where Taylor ditched her go-to look—and looked amazing anyway!

1. Wonderland Magazine, 2014

We have to say, a bold brow looks good on the girl—and we think Cara Delevingne agrees.

2. The Grammys, 2012

Sultry eyes and just-kissed-pink lips give Taylor an elegant, grown-up look.

3. The Golden Globes, 2013

Taylor went all-out minimalist, with that gorgeously sleek gown and just the right amount of makeup to match.

4. AMAs, 2011

Keeping the rest of her look totally fresh-faced, Taylor lets those long, spidery lashes take the show.

5. AMAs, 2013

Tousled, I-woke-up-like-this bangs, a smoky eye—who is that girl?!

6. The Grammys, 2014

Taylor lights up this year’s Grammys with the help of some glistening silver shadow. The perfect holiday makeup look, anybody?

7. ACM awards, 2012

The more put-together version of her look from the AMAs above, Taylor proves that girly bangs can look grown up and sophisticated.

What's your favorite look, collegiettes? Do you think Taylor should stick to her signature style, or do you like to see her switch it up?

It’s no secret that college life can be tricky to navigate. Whether you’re a freshman still learning the ropes or an upperclassman well adjusted to the college lifestyle, there are several skills that every collegiette should check off her bucket list before she graduates and ventures out into thereal world. To help you get started on this quest for practical knowledge, we’ve compiled a list of nine can’t-miss life skills that will make your day-to-day college experience a little less stressful.

1. Mastering the 20-minute nap

Between early-morning psych lectures, club soccer practice, all-night study sessions and sorority dinners, there are simply not enough hours in the day to fit in a full night’s rest. However, a quick 20-minute nap between classes is a great way to recharge and catch up on some much-needed zzz’s.

“Twenty minutes is the ideal length for a power nap,” says Dr. Michael Breus, a sleep expert. “It reduces the amount of sleep drive, so you wake up feeling refreshed.”

If you’re feeling extra sleep-deprived, Breus advises the 90-minute nap. “The ideal nap [beyond 20 minutes] is actually 90 minutes, because it is the length of a full sleep cycle,” he says. “Anything between 25-90 minutes will just leave you feeling more tired than when you started.”

Not only is there an ideal length for napping, but there is an ideal time of day to nap as well. “The best time [for napping] is at 1:00 in the afternoon,” Breus says. “Your body temperature drops, which releases melatonin and helps your brain fall asleep.”

2. Chugging water to avoid a hangover

While it may be tempting to come straight home and crash after a long night out, your Sunday-morning self will thank you if you rehydrate with a bottle of water before bed.

“When you’re dehydrated, your blood thickens, and this affects the supply of oxygen to the brain,” says Dr. Alexander Mauskop, founder and director of the New York Headache Center. “This can make you feel lightheaded, dizzy and even cause fainting.”

Needless to say, sipping water throughout the night and in between drinks is a great way to avoid dehydration, which is the cause of most headaches the morning after drinking.

3. Balancing a checkbook

Nothing says adulthood like managing your own money, right? While the majority of our generation will manage banking online, learning how to balance a checkbook is the best way to ensure you’re consciously keeping track of your spending and monitoring any deposits or withdrawals you make. Not to mention, if your credit or debit card is ever fraudulently used or double-charged, you’ll have tangible financial records to reference. Keeping a folder for receipts with your checkbook isn’t a bad idea, either.

4. Managing stress with tea

With final exam season coming up, it may not be a bad idea to stock up on hot tea, which boasts a surprising amount of health benefits.

“When I’m frustrated, sad or stressed out, I drink vanilla chamomile tea with honey,” says Ashley McDonald, a senior at Central Michigan University. “Chamomile tea helps you sleep better, boosts your immune system and just relaxes you in general. It definitely lowers my anxiety.”

5. Making no-bake cake balls

Because dorm life doesn’t have much to offer when it comes to baking supplies and appliances, no-bake recipes are the easiest way to satisfy your sweet tooth. Follow these easy instructions to make a dozen chocolate-covered cake balls in your dorm!

Ingredients:

• One pack of Oreos
• One container of cream cheese
• Two large Hershey’s bars

Directions:

1. Crush the Oreos in a resealable plastic bag.
2. Mix crushed Oreos in a bowl with the cream cheese.
3. Roll the crushed Oreo/cream cheese mixture into individual balls.
4. Place Oreo balls in the refrigerator for an hour.
5. Heat the Hershey’s bars in a microwave-safe bowl to the point where they are melted (but not burnt!).
6. Dip the refrigerated Oreo balls in the melted chocolate.

While they may not be true “cake” balls, they’re definitely the next best thing!

6. Programming with C++

Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to be a computer science major to learn to program with C++, a general-purpose programming language. There are many free online tutorials available that walk you through the programming process step-by-step.

While knowing how to program may not seem relevant to you right now, it’s a great way to enhance your resume and job prospects for the future—especially if a career in business, information technology or game design interests you. While many college grads seeking employment are familiar with Word, Excel and similar applications, learning how to program can help set you apart.

7. Storing leftovers

Leftovers can be a lifesaver when you’re running low on meal points and feeling too lazy to go grocery shopping. Luckily, there are several tips and tricks for keeping your favorite foods fresh. Check out this set of guidelines outlined by the U.S. Department of Agriculture.

8. Keeping a first aid kit

There’s no such thing as a predictable college day, so it’s better to be safe than sorry. Putting together a homemade first aid kit to keep in your dorm room or car is the best way to ensure you’ll never be caught unprepared. Grab an old shoebox and be sure to include basics like Band-Aids and pain medicine.

“Ibuprofen is great for any pain—menstrual cramps, headaches or even hangovers,” says Dr. Darria Long Gillespie, the executive vice president for clinical strategy and chief doctor at Sharecare.  “I recommend alcohol wipes for any cuts or bleeding, as well as the sterile gauze that comes in individually wrapped packs. Cortisone cream can also help an allergic reaction or developing rash.”

Prepare for any medical or emergency situation that could arise, and you’ll thank yourself later!

9. Popping tags

While Macklemore made thrift shopping seem like much less of an art and much more of a joke, it’s one of the best solutions for college students on a tight budget. If you’re willing to search through piles of clothes in your local Goodwill or thrift store, you’ll likely come across a plethora of cool, one-of-a-kind T-shirts, jackets, accessories and more at ridiculously low prices. Thrift and antique shops are also great places to find random dorm or apartment supplies like mugs, picture frames and posters.

When it comes to college life, sometimes the smallest changes can make the biggest differences. We hope this list of life hacks and skills empowers you to become the most organized, most creative and savviest version of yourself yet. Best of luck, collegiettes! 

As the cold weather sets in, there’s nothing better than snuggling into a cozy armchair with a fuzzy throw, some hot chocolate and a good book (one you actually want to read!). And fortunately, with Thanksgiving and winter breaks coming up, you’ll actually have the luxury of doing that sooner than you think.

That’s why we’re giving away the entire Raven Cycle series from New York Times bestseller Maggie Stiefvater, which includes “The Raven Boys,” “The Dream Thieves” and the brand new addition, “Blue Lily, Lily Blue.” The series is an intriguing mix of mystery, romance and the supernatural as Blue Sargent gets caught up in the dark, sinister world of Gansey and his friends—also called the Raven Boys, who are known to mean trouble. But there’s something about Gansey, she can’t say no to, and when the boys take her in Blue finally has friends she can trust and a place where she belongs—even as a prophecy stating she’ll ultimately cause the death of her true love haunts her.

You’ll also get a beautiful vase (plus the prettiest blue lily flowers!) from Anthropologie—a nod to the series’ newest book, and the perfect addition to your bookshelf or the table next to your reading chair—and the Limited Edition Major Arcana tarot deck designed by the author of the book and inspired by the series.

Ready to be sucked into this spellbinding story? Enter below to win all three books from The Raven Cycle series, the most stunning Anthropologie vase (that’ll seriously dress up any dorm room), and the Limited Edition Major Arcana tarot deck!

Diamonds have always been a girl’s best friend—there’s no denying that. From the time Marilyn Monroe sang about it in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes in 1949, it has been ingrained in our minds that there’s nothing like a beautifully cut diamond to make a girl happy. For the most part, these sparkly stunners, are far, far outside of the average collegiette's budget... but we decided to take a closer look, and have found 6 gorgeous diamond pieces for $150 and under! Check out the beauties below, and get ready to splurge a little this season (or at least add some of these diamonds to your wish lists)!

1. Trois Petit Studs - Catbird ($150)

Why have one diamond when you can have six? These pretty studs are a play on the classic studs, and the multiple stones give off the illusion of being a much more expensive pair. 

2. Solitaire Diamond Bracelet - Vrai and Oro ($85)

This little diamond bracelet looks like something out of a Tiffany's catalog—without the Tiffany's price tag. Not only will this bracelet become a staple in your everyday stack of bracelets, you can also customize the letter tag to get your own initial and make the piece even more personal.

3. Chained to My Heart Earrings - Catbird ($140)

More exciting than a plain pair of studs, these earrings feature a small chain that connects the earring to its back, giving off a cool, new look. These diamonds will amp up the grungy glam in any outfit while giving you that extra bit of oomph that a simple pair of post earrings couldn't offer. Bonus: you'll never lose the backs to these earrings! Its literally impossible. 

4. Black Diamond Flamenco Stack Ring - Stanley Korshak ($140)

Black diamonds are your go-to when you want a high end look without sacrificing your edgy personal style. The thin gold band makes this one perfect for stacking (though we think it looks just as great on its own, too!).

5. Pavé Diamond Bar Necklace - Alexis Russell ($148) 

So much sparkle in such a small amount of space! This necklace mixes gold and silver in with a beautiful row of diamonds. You won't believe the amount of bling you get with this necklace for how little it costs and it'll look great layered with the other simple necklaces you already own. 

6. Mini Heart Single Diamond Waif - Jacquie Aiche ($125)

This dainty little ring looks like someting out of a story book with its cute heart shape and the itty bitty diamond in the center. It's girly, gold, and has a rock in it; what's not to love? Try hinting towards this ring to your S.O. around your next birthday/anniversary/major gift-giving holiday. It's reasonably priced and would make a great gift... wink.

You've worked hard all semester—now it's time to treat yourself, and there's no better way to do that than with a little something sparkly. Would you splurge on one of these diamonds, collegiettes? 

There it is: another text.

It’s the fifth one in a row, and you’ve yet to respond. You know he’s probably noticed that your read receipts are on and that you’ve totally read the latest update on his life. You ask yourself, “We’ve only hung out one time, so why does he think we’re closer than we are? Why do these texts keep coming?!” But you don’t know how to tell him that the reason that you’re not responding to his texts is because you just don’t feel the same way about him.

For some reason, that statement never comes out right. You don’t want to hurt his feelings, but you also want to make it clear that while you had a great time bonding over your mutual obsession with The Walking Dead, he needs to move along to someone else. Try these tried-and-true tricks from dating experts and collegiettes to detach the stage-five clinger in your life without being a heartbreaker.

1. Get “Busy”

You’re super involved: you’re the vice president of your sorority, you’re a Spanish tutor and you have to attempt consistent communication with family back home and friends abroad. You have a ton on your plate as a functional single collegiette, and guys may not fit into the picture right now. Tell him that!

“Some guys take hints better than others,” says Professor Geoffrey Greif, a professor at the University of Maryland School of Social Work and the author of Buddy System: Understanding Male Friendships. He advises to “not be available as much.”

If you find yourself in this situation, try telling your clinger, “Hey, I’m sorry if I haven’t been responding as much lately. I’ve just been really busy with [insert time-consuming club here]. And [insert difficult class] is really giving me a run for my money. So, this semester has been pretty crazy for me… I’ve barely had time to respond to my friends’ texts.”

Even the clinger from the bar—that one, singular night—can understand that you simply have other preexisting commitments and priorities in your life, and, in the nicest way possible, he cannot be one of them.

2. Give Him the Cold Shoulder

A favorite of collegiettes, the cold shoulder requires persistent unresponsiveness in communication. When your reasonable excuse of being busy isn’t halting his horses, many collegiettes find that one-word answers or not responding to his texts at all can be effective in conveying their feelings in a subtle way.

Veronica, a junior at the University of Missouri––Columbia, has used this strategy. She dealt with a guy who seemingly jokingly said, “I’ll probably text you in three seconds” after having dinner with her. And he did text her three seconds later.

“He texted me things like, ‘Hope you had a good time!’ ‘Good morning!’ ‘Hope you had a good day!’ without me saying anything in response to his texts,” she said. “Eventually, I just didn’t say anything back. And then he just never said anything.”

If you’re afraid to tell him the truth out of fear of hurting his feelings, try this indirect approach. While your silence may take a while to sink in, eventually the one-sided conversation will grow old.

3. Drop the “Friend” Bomb

If you still feel as if the clinging needs to be controlled, try dropping the “friend” bomb. In your everyday, casual conversations, mention that you’re glad you’re friends.

If you’re concerned that he is indeed falling hard for you, Greif advises you to say something along the lines of, “I sometimes worry I send mixed messages. I hope that is not happening with you. I’m glad to have you as a friend.” This not-so-subtle maneuver allows you to avoid the awkwardness of a full-on confrontation about his feelings while also telling him where you stand… which is at arm’s length away from him.

You can define the friend zone by addressing him as part of a group. “Talk about the guy as a friend along with a bunch of other friends,” says Greif.

For example, say, “It was fun going out with you, Joe and Rachel last night.” Because you’re grouping him with a bunch of friends, that too will deliver the just-friends message.

4. Mention Other Guys

Since the two of you are just friends, he shouldn’t mind if you talk to him occasionally about the other males in your life. While full disclosure of your fun night with another guy isn’t necessary, try mentioning another guy you’re talking to.

If you happen to be talking about your plans for the evening, Greif says to “talk about how you’re going on a date with another guy.” Obviously, only say this if it’s true. But if it is the truth, preach it! Hearing that he’s not the object of your affections could end his advances. 

Maria, a senior at the University of Missouri-Saint Louis, used this method on one clinger. “I could tell this guy was really starting to like me, and I definitely did not feel the same way, especially since I was already kind of talking to this other guy,” she says. “So when we were studying together one night, I made it a point to indirectly bring up how I had to leave a little sooner than expected to meet up with someone else. The rejected look on his face when I apparently crushed his crush was rough, but I guess it had to happen.”

5. The Last Ditch Effort: Be Direct

If all else fails, be blunt. That’s one thing relationship experts and boys agree on! Rather than beating around the bush and tiptoeing around his feelings, remember that he is wasting his own time on a girl who doesn’t like him back. Wouldn’t you want to free him up for someone who actually likes him?

“Sometimes you just have to be straight with them,” says Michelle, a junior at the University of Arkansas. “If a guy likes me and I don’t feel the same way, I nip it in the bud before things ever get too far.”

The guys even want you to be honest with them. Jack, a junior at the University of Missouri-Columbia, says, “If you’re not going to be blunt about it, he’s not going to get it.”

Jeffrey Sumber, a psychotherapist at the Creative Counseling of Chicago, advises the direct approach. “The best approach is good, solid, direct but kind communication,” he says. “The worst thing a girl can do is leave the door open for, ‘You never know, it might change down the road.’”

This stage-five clinger situation sadly often results in a lose-lose outcome. The guy can feel ridiculous for pursuing you in the first place, and you can feel guilty for breaking the news to him. But remember: there are more fish in the sea, and you were just not his fish. Whether you ignore his texts or actively put him in the friend zone, you just helped toss him back into the swirling, twirling sea of love.

Today’s modeling industry remains dominated by women whose height to weight ratio is nothing if not abnormal. However, the fashion world’s use of excessively thin models has fallen under attack as of late. The tide may be (albeit slowly) turning towards the use of a more diverse range of body types as the general public becomes less and less receptive to unrealistic standards of beauty. Therefore it should come as no surprise that the Twitterverse was alive with fury when Calvin Klein's underwear model Myla Dalbesio, (who, at 5’11, is a perfectly reasonable size 10), was referred to as “plus-size.” Tweets called the fact that Dalbesio was plus-size “disturbing” and “ridiculous.”

This time, however, the critics may be the unreasonable ones. In their eagerness to blast unhealthy beauty standards and the companies who perpetuate them, critics failed to see that it was them, not Calvin Klein, who were overly focused on Dalbesio’s size.

Here’s the thing: As ridiculous as it may seem, Dalbesio is technically classified as a plus size woman in the modeling world. Yes, that is silly, but bear with me.

Despite her technical place in the plus-size category, Calvin Klein never made any mention of her size. She was simply pictured standing next to other models in the newest Klein campaign. The only explicit references to Dalbesio as “plus size” were made by third party media sources.

Calvin Klein, while attempting to appeal to a broader audience, did not use Dalbesio's presence in the ad as a gimmick, nor did it ever differentiate her from models of other sizes. When asked, the brand explained that the campaign intended to show that the line was “more inclusive and is available... in an extensive range of sizes.” The campaign’s title, “Perfectly Fit” evokes an idea of healthy women—a group to which Dalbesio undoubtedly claims membership.

Dalbesio herself has no problem with the campaign. She points out that, though it was “intimidating” to be larger than the models Calvin Klein advertisements usually use, she did not feel that she received different treatment. “They released me... with everyone else. It’s not a separate section for plus-size girls,” she told Elle.

Whether or not a healthy size 10 model should be considered plus size in the industry or not is certainly a debate worth having, but in this instance, we shouldn't be treating or viewing Dalbesio as “different” especially if Calvin Klein isn't separating her as so.

You’ve been focusing on your academics, but maybe you want to save up for that spring break trip or you’re looking for a little extra cash to spend on the weekends. Maybe you have some new apartment bills and need a steady income to support yourself. Or perhaps you just can’t resist those monthly makeup subscription boxes any longer.

The fact remains that you’re looking for some cash to pad your pockets. While you’re in school, classes are your number one priority, but if you have enough free hours in the week, you might want to consider getting a part-time job. They may seem difficult to find, but you just have to know where to look! Here are seven great places to start.

1. Job boards and job search engines

Possibly the first place you’ll go on your part-time job search is online. The Internet is full of job boards and job search engines that list hundreds of opportunities.

Job boards host active listings of companies that are currently hiring. Employers typically pay to have their job openings hosted on the site. Campus Job is a job board specifically for part-time jobs and internship positions. It connects businesses that are interested in hiring college students with students looking for work throughout the academic year. From freelance gigs to positions at Fortune 500 companies, there are over 1,000 new job opportunities posted each week. And the best part? It’s completely free!

Job search engines like Indeed and LinkUp aggregate thousands of job listings from many different websites. If a company lists an open position on its own website instead of a job board, these job engines will find and index those openings. They’re perfect if you’re looking for specifics: You can narrow results by location or use keywords to look up availability in a certain field.

Snagajob is another great resource to find part-time jobs. This search engine specializes in listing hourly employment opportunities.

2. Contact companies directly through email or social media

You can contact employers online to let them know that you’re looking for part-time work.

Go to the websites of companies where you’re interested in working and search the sites for a link to their “Careers” page. There you’ll find information on job availability as well as whom you should contact about positions. If the website doesn’t explicitly list any positions, send a short email to inquire about part-time openings, such as, “I am interested in working for your company part-time. May I send my resume for your review?” Quickly list your skills and show how hiring you will benefit their business.

You can also leverage social media to find part-time positions. We know that companies are checking out our social media profiles before making hiring decisions, but you can use these same services to your advantage. According to a 2013 study, nearly 77 percent of employers recruit through social networks; among those, 94 percent use LinkedIn. Look through your connections to find someone who can introduce you to a company you’re interested in working for, or post in discussion groups to let people know you’re available for part-time work.

Facebook and Twitter are also great resources for finding part-time work. While you may not get hired directly through the site, it’s a great way to find what opportunities are available. Companies may advertise open positions on their Facebook pages or on Twitter using hashtags like #jobopening, #nowhiring or #freelance (especially for part-time work).

As always, make sure your social media profiles are compelling and professional to increase your chances of making contact.

3. Show up in person and ask if they’re hiring

While knocking on doors to find your next big break can seem outdated, it’s still a go-to option for getting that elusive part-time job. Bookstores, coffee shops, restaurants, clothing boutiques—there are endless off-campus places you could try for your next part-time gig.

Some stores even hire more employers during the holiday season, so your chances of finding a job could increase come December. So put on your business casual, print that resume on some glossy paper and head to town to do some job hunting!

The obvious drawback is that the businesses you contact are not always hiring. Still, if you’re lucky, you just may stumble upon someone who is! Keep your inquiry short and sweet. Ask for the manager or the person in charge and let him or her know that you’re looking for a part-time position and you want to know if the company is hiring. If the employer is indeed looking for workers, provide your resume, and you’ll receive an application in return. If not, provide your resume and thank him or her for his or her time. Most businesses will usually keep your resume in their systems and may call you back for a future opportunity. It’s always good to keep your options open!

4. Look for positions at on-campus businesses or in university departments

There are a host of resources that your college offers to help you find part-time employment. Your university has a dedicated career center to point you in the direction of on-campus opportunities. Your school may even have an online database of part-time listings for jobs on or close to your campus.

Look for positions at university stores and campus dining venues. These places hire students year-round to keep business running. Searching on campus allows you to cast a wide net: Go to the library, the recreation center or the student union to inquire about opportunities for students.

Academic departments frequently have availability for student assistant positions. Meaghan Shaw, a senior at Duke University, found one of her jobs when the psychology department emailed psych students to advertise a teaching assistant position.

“I love this experience,” Meaghan says. “Teaching was something I had considered doing for a while. I really wanted a new job, and this opportunity presented itself at the right moment.”

If your department doesn’t send out emails, you can always approach the business manager of the department to ask about a need for student assistants. Not only will you get a bit more cash in your pocket, but you’ll also get valuable work experience in your field of interest.

As with companies off campus, contact departments and organizations directly to express your interest. Bring your resume and remember to conduct yourself in a professional manner. The good news about on-campus jobs is that they have a high turnover rate: As students continue to graduate, positions will become available again.

5. Get in touch with your professional network

Your networking skills can be a vital asset to finding a full-time job once you graduate, but there’s no reason you can’t exercise them now to find a part-time gig!

Look to your professional contacts for any available opportunities. If you’ve had past internships, send your supervisor an email to let him or her know you’re looking for part-time opportunities. You’ve already established yourself as a reliable worker, so he or she can direct you to any opportunities in their industry, or he or she may be willing to take you on as a contract or temporary worker.

It’s important to keep in touch with former employers so that requests like this won’t seem rude or out of the blue! If you’ve fallen off the networking wagon, send a quick email to former employers to establish contact and ask how everything is going. Briefly mention that you are open to any part-time opportunities he or she may know about. Make a point of reaching out every few months; you don’t want to miss out just because you failed to keep in touch.

6. Ask your friends, family and acquaintances

People in your inner circle are good sources to keep in mind when looking for part-time work. Call your closest family members or post on your favorite social media site to let your friends know you’re on the part-time job hunt. Because your friends and family have your best interests at heart, they’re sure to keep you in mind if anything comes their way.

“I helped out with a Google Chromebook promotional event on my campus,” says Iris Goldsztajn, a junior at the University of California, Los Angeles. “I heard about the job from one of my sorority sisters. Thanks to her, five of us Chromebook promotional ambassadors were from my sorority!”

Other students on campus are also great people to ask about part-time opportunities. Ask upperclassmen how they found their part-time jobs, and ask if they’ll mention to their bosses that you’re looking for work; workers will be needed to fill those spots once graduation rolls around!

7. Go freelance

If a structured workweek isn’t your thing, consider taking matters into your own hands. We all want to make money doing what we love, and going freelance could be a great way to monetize your passions. Whether it’s tutoring physics students or editing term papers and thesis proposals, there are a host of opportunities that you can create for yourself if you give it some thought. Who knows—you could even start your own business!

For those of you with an entrepreneurial spirit, starting freelance work while you’re in college could be a great way to prepare yourself to create your own company. You can start making strides now while you’re still in college and have the safety net of academic life to fall back on while work is scarce in the beginning. Freelance work offers the ultimate flexibility, and with the capacity to choose your own field, clients and hours, it can be a great choice for collegiettes who find even traditional part-time jobs restricting.

To get started, make a list of your skills and abilities and think of ways you can market those skills to those who need them. Do you offer an easier or more fun way to learn foreign languages? Can you provide writing help to students who speak English as a second language? Are you really good at design and can you help create eye-catching resumes for other job seekers?

Once you figure out your niche, put your services out there: Post on your school’s social media groups, tack up flyers around campus and tell your friends to spread the word.

While academics come first and foremost, we do need to pay off our phone bills each month (and splurging on some new boots can’t hurt!). However, it can be hard to know just where to look. Use these resources to give you a good starting point. You never know what opportunities might come your way!

We've noticed an accessories trend lately, and it's not delicately layered necklaces, ear cuffs or beanies... it's pets! Some of our favorite celebs have been snapped out and about toting their precious, tiny dogs and cats. These fluffballs make for some seriously adorable arm candy; we can't help but wish our cats would let us tote them around campus. Check out these seven celebs out on the town with their furry friends!

1. Taylor Swift and Olivia Benson

The reigning queen of pop has two felines, but the newest addition to her family, Olivia Benson, was snapped out and about with Taylor in New York City. Taylor's transformation into a full-blown cat lady is clearly complete, and Olivia doesn't seem to be complaining.

2. Paris Hilton and Mr. Amazing

The heiress's new dog is reportedly the smallest Pomeranian in the world (if this picture is any indication, we believe it). His name? Mr. Amazing, duh. Paris has had dozens of tiny dogs over the years, but she really outdid herself this time.

3. Kesha and Prince Charlie

Collective "awwws" were uttered when Kesha stepped through LAX toting one of her three cats, Prince Charlie. It's a bold move to carry your cat through the airport without a carrier, but when you're Kesha (and your kitty is that cute), we can't really blame you!

4. Miley Cyrus and Moonie

Miley was heartbroken when her beloved dog, Floyd, died earlier this year, so her mom bought her this tiny pup to cheer her up. Miley named the fluffball Moonie but gave him away only 10 days later, saying it was "too soon." In any case, it looks like the few days the pair spent together involved plenty of snuggles.

5. Kim Kardashian and Mercy

Remember 2012 Kim Kardashian, when she had just started dating Kanye? We don't either, but that's when this pic was taken. Yeezus gave Kim this tiny Persian cat named Mercy as a gift, and she carried the impossibly adorable kitten everywhere with her. Sadly, Mercy passed away, but we're sure that Mercy led a life of luxury with Kim.

6. Alessandra Ambrosio and her puppy

As if Alessandra Ambrosio didn't already have a reputation for being a supermom, she was snapped walking her son while also toting her tiny pup. Victoria's Secret modeling contract, great bod, beautiful kids and an adorable puppy so small you can hold it with one arm? Can we be Alessandra, please?

7. Hilary Duff and her cat

Hilary Duff was snapped taking her cat and dog (not pictured) for a walk outside of her home, but it looks like her cat received some special treatment, cozy blanket included.

What do you think about pets as accessories, collegiettes? Let us know in the comments!

One of the best parts about getting new nail polishes is reading the clever names on each bottle. What would be even better? Creating your own names for your favorite nail polish colors—and now, it's possible.

Pretty Please Nail Polish is a company that allows customers to name their own polishes, whether they're choosing to personalize it with their own name, or they want to come up with their own creative name. With bottles starting at $12 (and the prices go down with the more polishes you buy!), Pretty Please Nail Polish makes the perfect personalized gift for birthdays, weddings, and graduations.

Since I’m a huge nail polish junkie, I absolutely love the concept—so I picked four of my favorite polishes and gave each color a perfect-for-fall name!

1. Burgundy: You Beet Me To It

My family eats beets every year for Thanksgiving… I’m not a fan of the vegetable, but I'm definitely a fan of this shade.

2. Purple: It's Grape To Meet You

Dark colors, like this deep purple, are perfect for fall.

3. Coral: Life's a Peach... Cobbler

Who doesn’t love a delicious pie??

4. Silver: Silverware? Silver Here

This silver reminds me of all the forks, knives and spoons on the table during Thanksgiving dinner.

What names would you give these polishes, collegiettes?

For most collegiettes, the gym is probably not what you would consider your “happy place” (if it is, more power to you). At the gym, you’re in a perpetual state of being sticky and sweaty, you think everyone is judging you and you may feel the need to compete with the gym rat next to you who is running at lightning speed. You treat exercising there the same way you would homework: You know you should do it, but you dread every moment of the task. If this is your outlook, clearly it’s time to make a change! By following these tips, you’ll be on the road to making the gym your “happy place,” or at least something closer to it!

1. Set up a healthy reward system for yourself

Consistently working out can be tough for many of us to accomplish, so you should definitely celebrate when you meet your workout goal for the week. You don’t want to reward yourself with extra dessert and undo all of your hard work, so give yourself a reward that is just enough to make you feel happy and motivated to keep going.

Reward yourself by getting a mani or buying that cute clothing item you’ve been eyeing for a while. Set up a specific calendar that outlines how often you want to go to the gym and how you’re going to treat yourself.

2. Change up your workout playlist

Listening to the same 12 songs on your gym playlist can be helpful since you can build your workout around it, but eventually the songs will get dull. Every so often, switch up your playlist completely and try new artists. Spotify has tons of playlists you can listen to without a premium membership that cater to every workout —cardio, dancing, lifting, running and more.

You may even want to try listening to something other than music. Download an audiobook or subscribe to your favorite podcasts; that way, you can catch up on the book you haven’t had time to read or even listen to your favorite comedians.

Megan Shuffleton, a junior at Emerson College, says she often listens to audiobooks while exercising. “[Listening to audiobooks] lets me do two productive things at once, making me feel twice as good,” she says. “Plus, focusing on what the author or speaker is saying distracts me from thinking about when my workout will be over.”

3. Track your progress with gym selfies

Consider the gym selfie a newer and lighter spin on the typical mirror pics you see everyone take all the time! Snap a self-portrait each time you go to the gym to document your overall goal. Even if your overall reason for workout is to stay active and fit and not necessarily to lose weight, this option can still work for you.

If you’re feeling energetic and are having a successful workout, snap a pic with your biggest smile. If you’re having an off day, show it by making a frowning face in your selfie. By the time you reach your fitness goal, you can look back on your journey —you’ll be guaranteed a good laugh. If you’re feeling extra goofy, send your gym selfie of the day to your best buddies. Who knows, maybe it’ll become a new running joke between you and them, or maybe they’ll even join in!

4. Compete with your roommates

Use your competitive nature to your and your roomies’ advantage by creating friendly competition you can all partake in each month. Whether you keep logs on who hit the gym the most often per week or who spent the longest time at the gym per outing, set up some sort of prize for the winner. It can be something little, like a free pass from garbage duty for the next few weeks, or an iced coffee on each of your roommates. Just don’t get too out of hand; if you both hit your goals for the week, you can tie and treat each other!

5. Try a fitness app

Everyone knows it’s frowned upon to be chatting away on your phone while at the gym, but that doesn’t mean you have to stash your cell away completely. There are tons of fitness apps out there that will make you eager to hit the gym, like Nike+ Training Club, Moves and Zombies, Run! .

Kasia Jaworski, a senior at Villanova University, says she changes up her workouts by spending some time away from the machines and using Nike+ Training, which allows you to customize your routine and get inspired. “Sometimes I’ll find an open space or empty workout room and use [the app],” she says. “It’s kind of like a personal trainer on your phone.”

The best apps out there will do far more than remind you to exercise or tell you how many sets and reps of crunches you should do. Zombies, Run! is particularly fun because you’re placed in virtual chasing game where you’re running away from a mob of zombies. The interactive features will have your adrenaline pumping and your mind thinking you’re playing a video game!

6. Play a game with friends

Many universities have state-of-the-art recreation centers that have many different spaces you can exercise in, so don’t feel you always have to be glued to an exercise machine! Playing a game with friends is great option to try out if you’re really close with your floormates or if you want to fit in some extra socializing. Also, if you’re the type of person who hates the feeling of working out in a room full of strangers, this is a fun alternative.

Once you’ve gathered a group of friends, reserve a court or another open facility space where you can all work out by playing a group game like dodgeball or capture the flag. These grade-school games will not only bring back some intense nostalgia, but they’ll also whip you into shape —you’ll be surprised by how tired you are afterwards! Most university gyms have a policy detailing the minimum number of people you need and how far in advance you need to make a reservation, so check out your facility’s website. Though the policies vary from school to school, you’ll probably have to make a reservation two days in advance at the very least, so don’t just gather your friends on a whim!

For most of us, going to the gym feels like a big chore that we have to painstakingly do on a regular basis, but that’s probably because we commit ourselves to the same old boring regimens. By using these tips, you may actually end up looking forward to the next free time you can head to the gym!