If you have a love of Disney and shoes, we're personally targeting you. Nike is making your Cinderella dreams come true with their new sneaker, nicknamed "Glass Slipper." It's pink, teal and sparkly all over, and tbh it looks way more comfortable than any glass slippper we know.

The shoes were originally released earlier this year, but sold out faster than you could say "bippity boppity boo." Thank god they came out again though, because we def need these high-tops for our summer wardrobe and trips to Disneyland. 

Though they're not made out of glass or given to you by a handsome af prince, this is defintiely still a shoe made for a princess. These sneakers are being released TODAY for $200 so snatch them up before they turn back into pumpkins. 

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Graduation day has passed and you’re probably anxiously awaiting college. However, before you take on your first day of college, there’s one thing you first must conquer—orientation. You’ve probably been lost in daydreams about college for the past couple of months, yet orientation is about to make the entire transition more real. It's a day or weekend packed with new information that’ll help you understand more about your new home. Instead of going into the process unsure of what to expect, be aware of these seven things below that will happen during your summer orientation.

1. You will be nervous

How could you not be nervous? This will be your first real taste of life on campus, and you’re probably taking it on all by yourself. Chances are, you won’t be surrounded by familiar faces, and your parents won’t be there to guide you along the way.

Shelly Adams, a junior and orientation leader at Shenandoah University, is accustomed to seeing timid and anxious faces at orientation. “If you’re nervous, just remember that everyone is in the same boat you are,” she says. “So, just come ready to learn and have fun, and it’ll be okay.” Understand that your butterflies are normal, but it’s time to challenge yourself to enter this new chapter of your life with your head held high.

To make the transition easier, you can join social media pages, such as a Facebook group for your class and reach out to people who have the same orientation date as you. It’s also helpful to look up a hashtag for your class, for example, #MSU20, and follow your new classmates. This way, you don’t go into orientation and the school year overall not knowing a single person on campus.

2. Be ready to take your ID picture

Let's be honest, since high school let out you've obviously been sleeping in. Your orientation will start earlier than you’re used to waking up lately. Even if you want to just throw on pajamas and call it a day, be prepared to take an ID picture during some point of orientation. This ID will follow you for however long you’re in college, so wear something that will make you feel good, flash a genuine smile and don’t blink.

Christina Ulrich, a college counselor at Montgomery College, considers the ID to be one of the most important things a student can take away from orientation.“Generally speaking, IDs provide students access to resources on campus such as the library, recreation center, dining halls and computer labs,” she says. “Several campuses are now even offering bus transportation to their students with a valid ID.”

Your ID may even be good to use off campus. Local business often give discounts to college students with a valid ID. Therefore, keep your ID in a safe place –– it’s just as important as your driver’s license!

3. You will sit through several presentations

You will be bombarded with tons of information presented by some of your school's most respected faculty and staff through a series of slideshows. You might be accustomed to letting your parents know and handle all of the lengthy information, but remember that you are the primary party responsible for your college experience now. Bring a notepad to jot down notes or take pictures of the slides.

One of the biggest topics covered will be financial aid. You should go over a break down of charges and ways to pay for school such as loans, grants, and scholarships. If the floor opens up for questions, be sure to ask if you don't understand. 

"Students should prepare a list of questions that they can ask at orientation," Christina says. "Students are normally very somber when the floor opens up for questions, which is quite ironic seeing as the students are going to school and not the parents. Orientation is the one time you can ask 100 questions and have an abundance of resources available to answer them. Even if it's a piece of information not brought up in the presentation, students should ask as many questions as needed to ease any concerns about life in college." Life in college is so different from life in high school, therefore everyone will be understanding that you don't have all the answers yet. 

Other topics range from Greek life to housing.  Be sure to do some research on your school before orientation so this information isn’t brand new.

4. You’ll make friends in your orientation group or at socials

Even if you’re still groggy after sitting through all those slideshows, be prepared to get your adrenaline pumping or even burn some calories in your small group session. To be safe, wear your most comfortable pair of shoes because you are guaranteed to be on your feet. Some campuses offer a walking tour during orientation, while others may only break you up into groups for team building activities.

The good thing is that you don’t have to go through it alone. You will be broken up into a small group with other incoming freshman and participate in ice breakers, led by an orientation leader. Be prepared to answer what your major is, where you’re coming from, and even what excites or scares you about college. As awkward as ice breakers may seem, you’ll be thankful that they force you to connect.

Sydnee Lyons, a second year grad student at Florida Atlanta University, works in a department that is heavily involved in orientation, and knows all the work that orientation leader put into the day. “Orientation leaders are usually trained to be really high-energy, really fun-loving, so if you have a bad time, it’s because you went in with a negative mindset,” she says.

You may even have the opportunity to meet even more people at socials. This is especially common at overnight orientations. In a group of a hundred or more people, you're bound to meet someone you click with, so don't be afraid to speak to someone first. 

5. Clubs will ask for your contact information

You most likely will be overwhelmed with all the organization options you can choose from, but don’t let that scare you off. You’ll have the option to join club sports, cultural and political based organizations, campus publications, event committees, religious and spiritual groups, and more.

You’re better off signing up for several organizations that catch your interest than signing up for none. You will regret not getting involved when your routine only includes going to class, then going back to your dorm.

Don’t think of the act of signing up as a commitment either. Erin Ryan, a senior at Kennesaw State University, has worked at a booth during orientation for the past three years promoting her on-campus organization. “The most we’ll ask you for is your name and email or phone number,” she says. “That way, [the club] can send out more information, such as a first meeting date. Then you can decide if you want to make the commitment!” So go ahead and go booth to booth; you will meet new people along the way, even if you don’t end up committing to a club.

Related: 7 People You'll Meet at Freshman Orientation

6. Free food and apparel are awesome

If you haven’t particularly gotten pumped up about any other aspect of the day, know that there will be free food waiting for you, whether that be breakfast or lunch (preferably both).

Teresa Amos, a sophomore at the University of West Georgia, was pleasantly surprised with the food at orientation. “Because of the parents and even the alumni who attend orientation, [the cafeteria staff] made some of the best food that I ate during my first year there,” she says. In other words, cherish the meal because it’ll probably be one of the most diverse and plentiful buffets of the school year.

If more free stuff interests you, you will find that free stuff is plentiful at orientation. At some point during the day, you’ll also collect some free items, such as pens, cups, and lanyards. Keep your eyes peeled for the bigger prize, free t-shirts.

7. You’ll create your class schedule

Now is the time where it will pay off if you have done your research on different majors and the general education classes you’ll probably be taking. You may be asked to create your schedule for fall semester during orientation. Even if you haven't done the slightest bit of research on classes prior to orientation, you won't be alone. Plenty of faculty and orientation staff will be a few feet away, ready to assist you in shaping the next few months of your life.

Due to your classification as a freshman, you will have last choice of classes, so try to get your schedule as concrete as possible. Take into account if you want to have classes every weekday, if a Saturday class if the right fit for you, if you need to coordinate with your work schedule, and how early and late you want to take classes.

Aliyah Gabriel, a junior at Kent State University, advises freshmen to spend as much time at orientation crafting their schedule. “My first tip to freshmen would be to pay attention to if the classes they are choosing are listed as an a.m. or p.m. classes,” she says. “I also would recommend staying far away from 8 a.m. classes unless you know in your heart that you are an early bird!”

At the time you’re creating your schedule, you’ll probably meet your advisor. Get used to seeing his or her face because you’ll meet often throughout your years in school. Your advisor will help you navigate through each year of college and advise you on the best classes to take to get your degree. Your advisor will be a great resource for you if have college credit from dual-enrollment courses or AP/IB classes. He or she will instruct you on what will be the best classes to suit your schedule, especially if you’ve knocked out a majority of your general education classes.

Overall, your day will be filled with a flurry of new information. At the beginning of the day, you might be filled with nerves, but at the end of the day, that nervousness should transform into excitement. This is the first step to the next stage of your life, so face it with confidence!

Okay, so quick disclaimer: maybe you shouldn’t take my advice. After all, I’m probably the single friend for a reason. However, there's a chance my advice is even more valid because being the single friend has given me ample time to hear all of my friends’ problems and learn from them. I like to believe I’ve gotten pretty good at being the unofficial therapist of the friend group. 

I know most of you collegiettes reading this are dealing with dating issues. Those crushes sure like to cause problems, don’t they? So here’s what we’re gonna do. Go buy a carton of ice cream, grab two spoons and climb on up to my dorm room bunk bed. Let’s have a heart-to-heart. Here are some things my friends have taught me that I want to share with you.

1.It’s not your fault

A few months ago, my friend Emily* was dating a guy, and was really nervous to ask him “the question.” You know the question...the infamous “So are we a thing or are you just buying me dinner every other night for the heck of it?” She said that last time she asked that question to a boy, it scared him off. Why does it always make the good ones run?! My friends and I pumped Emily up, saying someone’s going to have to ask it at some point, so she might as well ask it now. Finally, after we all passed her phone around and edited the text, she hit send, and we waited nervously. The response came about an hour later, and it wasn’t good.  He said that he “wasn’t planning on much,” and then never texted her again. Rude. Emily blamed herself for that for a long time. She would sit and wonder what might have happened if she’d never sent that text, or if she’d worded it differently, or if she would’ve waited for him to make it official. 

About a month later, something similar happened to another friend, Rachel. She was told she was "too clingy" and should have "given him some space." She believed that if she hadn't wanted to hang out with him as much then they'd still be together. But, is this true? I don't know. Maybe. But aren't you supposed to want to see the person you're dating?  

Here’s the thing: Emily is a smart girl, and she likes answers. If that boy was so intimidated by such a simple text, then he simply wasn’t the one for her. Same goes for Rachel. If that boy didn’t want the amount of Rachel that she wanted to give, he wasn’t right for her. It’s not her fault that he didn’t want to spend that much time with her. Someday, she’ll find a boy who sees her “clinginess” as her best quality because he’s so excited to be with her, and maybe he’ll find a girl who values personal space the way he does. See what I mean?  These things weren’t Emily’s fault, nor were they Rachel’s fault. The relationships just weren’t meant to be. The same goes for you. 

2. Listen to the vibes

One time my friend Kathryn* came over after hanging out with a boy she had been dating and started to give me the rundown on ~everything~ that had happened..  After, I asked her the most important question a friend could ask, “So...good vibes?” “Um. Yeah. I think,” she said. (Note to all of you: "I think" does not suffice. If the vibes are good, you will know.)

I asked her what she meant and she said, “I mean, I think I wanted to do everything we did [physically]. I didn't say no or anything.” I asked her a few more questions, and she tried to convince me she was truly into it. “No, it's fine. I think we're overthinking it. The vibes are probably actually fine.”

The rest of the day she texted me trying to justify this boy, saying things like, “Well, he probably just thought I wanted to do that stuff, right?” or “If I didn't want to do that stuff, I would’ve said said no, so I think I did want to.” She really liked him, and really wanted to be with him, but needless to say, things did not work out between those two. A couple months later, she started dating some other boy, and one day after they hung out, she texted me “OMG! SUCH good vibes! Like he cares so much about me being comfortable and doesn't do anything without specifically asking me and making sure I want to!”

Ladies, only date a boy if he gives you those vibes. Attraction masks a lot, and makes you forget that something a boy is doing is wrong, so as a rule of thumb, if you have to question them, they're bad vibes.  Don’t settle.

3. Don’t date the boy who makes you forget you existed before him

I specifically remember sitting at my friend Lizzie’s kitchen counter the evening after her boyfriend broke up with her. She was past the initial shock, and it was time to start trying to get her to look to the future. You know, that phase where you’ve eaten all the ice cream and should probably start living again. And to my dismay, Lizzie couldn’t remember a single thing she wanted to do.

This broke my heart because I knew Lizzie; we’d been friends forever. She had so many goals for her life–she was passionate, a dreamer and one of the most fun-loving people I know. But in her time with Ryan, she’d managed to give up every single one of those goals. Now when she thought of the things she wanted to do with her life, all she could think was “I just want to be with him.” It makes you wonder, if Lizzie lost almost all of herself when she was dating Ryan, then was Ryan really in love with her? If he was, wouldn’t he love those goals and passions, and do everything he could to help her reach them?

This is a hard one because falling in love changes your whole perspective on the world. But you should date a boy who loves the person you already are, and because of that love you're able to grow into somebody better. My friend Ashley also went through a breakup recently, and although it's still tremendously difficult, she still has herself. She accomplished a lot during her time with him, and she knows she'll continue to do so. This didn’t just make the breakup easier–when they were together, it made the relationship better! Ashley was in love with all aspects of her life–her schoolwork, her hobbies, her friends and her boyfriend. Being with a SO who makes you forget who you are sounds romantic at first, but really it just strips you of your identity.

4. You are good enough

Always, always, always. I promise you that there is not a single person out there in this planet who is “too good for you.” You are unique, beautiful, radiant. Do you believe that? If your crush makes you feel like you’re not enough, or that you have to work to impress them, remember that they are the one who is not good enough for you. I know you’re not perfect, and I know there are things about yourself that you want to change. That’s true of everybody. But I have seen too many incredible people settle for boys who don’t appreciate them, simply because they don’t believe they’re worthy of his appreciation. Promise me that you won’t let that happen! Sometimes it takes every ounce of strength in your body to believe that you are a work of art. You have to wake up in the morning and repeat to yourself, “I am worthy of the best kind of love,” until you really, truly believe it. If you have to change to impress him, he does not deserve you. It’s as simple as that.

*Names have been changed

Some people just scroll through Instagram before bed. For you, however, Instagram is a second occupation—as in, you check it at least every ten minutes. Here are 16 signs that you are head over heels for that #Instalife.

1. Looking through your Explore page is an all-day task

I'm addicted, okay?

2. Your mosaic is on point 

Instasize for life.

3. You are convinced unfollowing someone is a huge insult

Serious shade.

4. You understand the beauty of a good cameraman

I need mom, dad or a nephew to get those artsy angles.

5. You cringe when you see unfiltered, unfocused photos

Um bye.

6. Food pics are everything

Especially if it's Starbucks or anything colorful really.

7. You gotta get the good shot, no matter where you are

Sometimes getting a pic in the middle of the street is worth it.

8. You're over seeing more than three hashtags in a row

Please stop.

9. Picking a filter is the most difficult decision you make all day

Okay, but like Clarendon or Valencia?

10. You wish you had an Instagram husband like Obama

Why else would I take you with me on vacation? ;)

11. Your inner monologue goes something like this…

Constantly questioning.

12. Every outfit needs to be perfectly cultivated

Essential.

13. You judge others' lives based on their feed

"How many followers does she have?"

14. Instagram is your stalking tool of choice 

Forget Facebook—Instagram is the best way to know everything about your classmate's second cousin's girlfriend.

15. You didn't create Boomerang…

…but you made it cool.

16. Being Instagram verified is what your dreams are made of

My #1 goal.

If you're a journalism major, you've probably dealt with a lot of criticism throughout your time in college. If you're not a journalism major, listen up, because these are things you should never say to us:

1. Journalism is a dying field.

2. That's an easy major. 

3. Newspapers are so boring.

4. You actually like writing?

5. You can't make a living out of that!

6. Journalism is all politics.

7. All media are biased.

8. No one reads the news anyway.

9. Is that like The Devil Wears Prada?

10. It's going to be hard for you to get a job.

11. Can you write an article about...

12. How do you read so much?

13. You aren't going to make a lot of money.

14. Do you get to meet famous people?

15. Why wouldn't you major in something like business?

To all the journalism majors out there: we feel you, girl.

How to upgrade your weekend workout. [Women's Health]

These books will make youlaugh out loud. [refinery29]

13 Game of Thrones theories to know before season 7. [Cosmopolitan]

Why the best friendships will be built in your 20s. [Thought Catalog]

Pop music's history of lip-syncing. [Jezebel]

Women in tech speak out about culture of harassment. [The New York Times]

Movies to binge watch over the holiday weekend. [USA Today]

Fyre Festival founder arrested. [The Huffington Post]

Activists around the country are fighting the new health care bill. [Yahoo! News]

Accessories that will protect your hair. [allure]

President Donald Trump isn’t exactly taking the idea of a holiday weekend to heart. Instead of staying away from social media for Fourth of July celebrations like most of us may do, Trump tweeted a video that apparently implies violence against journalists, The Huffington Postreports. The content of his tweets just seems to get crazier every time, huh?

The video shows an old clip of Trump attacking WWE owner Vince McMahon a decade ago, but the CNN logo is placed over McMahon’s face. Accompanying the video was Trump’s hashtag “FraudNewsCNN.”

The official White House account retweeted the video, but CNN was quick to respond as well, quoting White House deputy press secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders when she defended Trump’s attitude towards journalists earlier this week. Needless to say, Huckabee Sanders’ comment does not exactly make Trump’s tweet any better.

According to HuffPost, this is not the first statement against the press that Trump made this weekend. At an event honoring military veterans on Saturday night, the president said, “The fake media tried to stop us from going to the White House. But I’m president, and they’re not.”

And that relates to military veterans how…?

Also earlier this weekend, Trump defended his frequent use of Twitter by calling his habit “modern day presidential,” Timereports.

Given former President Barack Obama's own use of Twitter while in office, it's easy to agree that presidents tweeting is a new sign of the times. But it's safe to say that President Trump using his Twitter account to call out the press (and with the video equivalent of a meme) is not exactly the most noble, presidential act. 

It’s the first day of your summer job or internship. You grab your purse, phone, wallet and keys, and head out the door ready to take on the world. You’re totally prepared for anything and everything the work day has to offer, right? Wrong!

For the working collegiette, there is a bit more to a work bag than meets the eye (or in this case, arm). You would never leave home without your bag, so why leave without the essential items every work bag requires? While we don’t suggest that you carry every personal possession you own, like Mary Poppins or Hermione Granger, a quick survey of your current purse situation will probably leave you less than impressed. So you are always ready to be the Olivia Pope of your workplace, make sure you never leave home without these 15 necessities!

1. Aspirin

Focusing at work can sometimes be hard enough without the added stress of a headache. A bottle of aspirin will banish your headache (or cramps), and let you get back to what you need to do.

2. Hair tools

Whether your Pinterest up-do is falling out or you start having the worst midday hair crisis of your life, hair accessories like bobby pins and hair ties are musts. A beauty disaster is totally not professional.

Related: The Internship Beauty Rules You Need to Know

3. Notepad and pen 

The best employees and interns are always ready to take on any task at a moment’s notice. Sometimes these to-dos are lengthy or involve a lot of details. Being able to pull out a notepad and pen will not only show your employer that you are on top of things, but it will guarantee that you get the job done correctly.

4. Feminine products

If you have ever gotten your period and been stranded without provisions, then you probably vowed to never let that happen to you again. Without a couple tampons or pads in your bag, you are practically asking Mother Nature to hand you her monthly gift at the most inconvenient time. Never let your period surprise you at work again, and always keep a few feminine products on hand.

5. Breath mints or gum

It’s always a good idea to have breath mints or gum—especially for those days when you decide to have a burrito with extra peppers and onions for lunch, or if you just want to make sure you don’t have bad breath when your boss calls you in for a meeting (because they always seem to do so at the absolute worst moment).

6. Snacks

No one likes you when you’re hangry. Your roommate might be able to deal with your pre-lunch shenanigans, but your boss might not be so accommodating. Keep yourself energized and your hunger in check with a healthy, easy snack like an apple or granola bar.

Related: 5 Easy Sandwiches to Take to Work

7. Headphones

You know those days when you wake up and you don’t want anyone to talk to you before you’ve had your morning coffee? Your headphones are for those days. A quick Beyoncé jam session on the way to work will definitely get you in formation and ready to take on the day.

8. Tide To Go

A Starbucks run always sounds like a great idea until your grande chai tea latte is all over the front of your white dress and you’re five minutes from work. This little pen will go a long way. Just because your bank account might suffer from all those coffee runs, it doesn’t mean your outfit should too.

9. Phone charger

Need we explain? We all know that there is nothing worse than being at 12 percent by noon. Make sure that your phone isn’t ready to clock out before you are.

10. Laptop or tablet

Whether you prefer a laptop, iPad or tablet, always make sure that you have a device that allows you to get your work done in the office or on-the-go (or get a quick episode of Orange is the New Black in during your lunch break).

11. Nail polish

Every polish lover knows that toenail polish can last through an apocalypse while fingernail polish is likely to fall off if you even look at it the wrong way. If you carry a bottle of your current nail polish color in your bag, you’ll never get caught looking unpolished.

12. Business cards

You never know who you’ll meet, whether you are in a staff meeting or running errands for your boss. That’s why it is crucial for every aspiring career woman to have business cards on hand to let anyone and everyone know how fabulous and professional you are.

Related: 8 Next-Level Things All Great Interns Do

13. Flats

No matter how much you love heels, even the most comfortable ones have the potential to turn into weapons of mass destruction. You never know when your boss is going to ask you to trek across town or attend a low-key event after work. Whatever situation arises, take comfort in the fact that you have a less painful (but hopefully equally as cute) back-up plan.

14. Mini umbrella

As cute as getting caught in the rain looks in movies, it is unfortunately not as amusing in real life. No one wants to carry around a giant umbrella when there is only a 20 percent chance of rain, but rain is always more likely when you’re having a good hair day, right? A mini umbrella is the perfect bottom of the bag necessity to keep you dry regardless of the predicted forecast.

15. At least $20 (in cash)

When you have a wallet full of plastic it can be easy to forget that it’s never a bad idea to have some paper in there too. You don’t have to carry around wads of cash, but keeping $20 in your bag at all times ensures that you will never be stuck in a sticky situation without a cash buffer. Whether your credit card is maxed out or you just want to make splitting a bill with co-workers easier, a little cash will go a long way.

You can carry a big or small bag, a designer bag or your old favorite tote; what the bag looks like on the outside really doesn’t matter. What matters is that the inside contains everything you need to conquer any situation that comes your way during the work day. 

Following the disastrous weekend that was Fyre Festival back in April, the event’s co-founder Billy McFarland has been arrested for the charge of wire fraud and reportedly being dishonest with festival investors, Teen Voguereports. Fyre Festival made headlines for turning out to be far from the luxurious event promoters promised, as musical guests failed to attend and tents, rather than the expected villas, were available for participants. The festival was eventually cancelled, leaving hundreds upset. 

Federal agents arrested McFarland on June 30, claiming that he told investors the festival’s bookings earned millions of dollars when, in reality, his company Fyre Media had earned only $57,443. McFarland also allegedly forged a document to say that he owned “$2.5 million in shares of one company’s stock,” but he actually owned $1,500.

“McFarland allegedly presented fake documents to induce investors to put over a million dollars into his company and the fiasco called the Fyre Festival,” Joon Kim, acting U.S. Attorney for the Southern District of New York, announced. “Thanks to the investigative efforts of the FBI, McFarland will now have to answer for his crimes.”

In addition to his event facing over a dozen lawsuits, McFarland faces the possibility of up to 20 years in prison if convicted. Although he organized the event with Ja Rule, the rapper’s lawyer says that he has not been arrested.

According to the New York Times, McFarland was later released on a $300,000 bail and is expected to appear again in court on July 31. 

Despite sending out an apology for the cancelled event and claiming that they weren’t prepared for the festival’s largeness, McFarland and Ja Rule definitely have a lot of questions to answer in the next few weeks. 

The guys of One Direction have all made us proud since they went their separate ways, releasing awesome singles, having adorable babies and basically becoming BFFs with James Corden. The most recent 1D boy to warm our hearts is Liam Payne, who’s killing the internet with the outfit he wore to meet the Queen at Buckingham Palace, Refinery29 reports.

Heading over to the palace in a black and blue suit and round eyeglasses for the Queen's Young Leaders ceremony, Liam is reminding everybody of Harry Potter. The comparison is so strong that fans are even dreaming up Liam’s ideal life in the wizarding world. 

For people that suffer from a lot of insecurity, the IDGAF view may be a good thing. You stop worrying about what everyone thinks of you, suddenly feel comfortable doing the things you’ve always been afraid to do and start speaking your mind. Excellent! But is there a point where this goes too far? Yes, there is. We’re not talking about the people who on a whim say "IDGAF"—we’re talking about those of you who make this a lifestyle and literally don’t give a fuck about anything. That’s when you start to have a problem—and here’s why. 

You’re going to hurt yourself

As collegiette women, we definitely have days where everything goes wrong and life is a sneaky hate spiral. Our typical inclination in dealing with stress and being overwhelmed is to go out with friends, exercise or maybe eat some ice cream while Netflix-ing. However, a woman who participates in the IDGAF lifestyle is more apt to find problematic ways of dealing with stress that could hurt her in the long run.

“College can be really hard, and eventually you hit a wall of like, ‘I don’t want to care about anything anymore,’ but that also means not honoring your emotions or your inner feelings,” says Morgan Mazzocco, a junior at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo. “For me, IDGAF ended up being me hooking up with a lot of people and drinking too much, because by saying I didn’t care about anything, I had an excuse to basically be reckless to cope with being overwhelmed by college."

Now, hooking up with people and partaking in “the college experience” doesn’t have to be bad, but when those practices start to become a method of distraction or confronting stress, you’re walking down the path toward being a hot mess. To prove how little you care about being single, you make out with three guys at a party. To prove how little you care about not having a lot of money, you continually impress your friends by blowing it all on needless items. It doesn’t have to be that way.

“By far, young adults have some of the most interesting ways of coping with stress,” says Dr. Rick Brinkman, an author and speaker about stress and communication. “I travel everywhere lecturing on coping mechanisms, which become riskier as someone is falling prey to apathy. Apathy leads to detachment, and then someone will operate from a position that, well, they don’t have to take anything seriously.”

You can admit that something makes you unhappy, and that you do actually give a fuck about it, even if it’s just a little fuck. Plus, dealing with hardships in an unhealthy manner might send you into an even bigger, more stressful situation that would be hard to ignore. By tuning out your natural inclination to experience emotion or making a decision that you’ll later regret, you end up hurting yourself in the long run.

Related: 6 Signs You’re Way Too Stressed Out & What to Do About It

You’re going to hurt the people around you

Giving us friends is basically the universe’s way of saving our lives on a day-to-day basis. The same goes for family. They keep us motivated and happy, but most importantly, they oftentimes keep us grounded. However, choosing to go about friendship and social activities in an IDGAF manner will inevitably hurt the people that love you the most.

“People want their friends to care about them and to care about themselves,” says Dr. Irene Levine, an expert on college friendship. “Not caring about people or things—or acting as if you don’t—can surely affect your friendships. You might not take the initiative to plan get-togethers or outings with your friends to the extent that they may feel like relationships with you are one-sided. If they plan something, you may not show any interest or enthusiasm, which they can interpret as boredom or disinterest.”

Katie McNierney, a junior at Barnard College, gives her own testimony about apathy and friendship. “This is still an issue for me, but when I’m acting like I don’t care about anything, that can also include my friends,” she says. “Things build up and then I reach a point of just being so done with everything, that it starts to also be everyone. And then I ignore people or act like I don’t care about them when I really do.”

If you take anything away from this, let it be that the important people in your life care about you a lot, and they want to see you living the best life you can, which is not always the IDGAF life. Not caring about anything inherently means not caring as much about the people that love you. It also might mean acting out in ways that hurt their feelings and your relationship. A lot of times when a friend lectures you, it may come off as mothering or like they know better than you how to manage your life. Really, they’re just trying to be encouraging, and let you know they’re there. They want you to feel, but above all they want you to be you, fucks given and all.

Related: 7 Habits of Happy, Healthy Collegiettes

You will become apathetic to important situations

Not giving a fuck basically comes down to being out of touch with your emotions––on purpose. The deliberate absence of interest and concern toward the general happenings in your life is probably not a good thing. You end up boxing yourself in a negative space devoid of stress. While living a stress-free life may seem like a positive thing, you ultimately end up putting your joy at risk too. Being painfully overwhelmed and being ridiculously happy are two very necessary feelings that will alert you to the fact that you need to care about something. But as you get in the routine of not giving a fuck, that’s going to become a hard habit to break.

“I think anxiety can be a really good thing,” says Malika Flanagan, a senior at the Massachusetts Institution of Technology. “It keeps you in check and lets you know when something big is happening. My anxiety lets me know when I need to take a situation seriously.”

There are going to be moments when you can’t shove things off and just say “whatever.” Relationships are going to end, you’re going to experience failures and successes, and life is going to keep moving and throwing itself at you. Yes, we encourage minimizing negative feelings and stressful life situations, but when they are unavoidable, you can’t blow off the emotions associated with these moments.

“Really it’s all about the approach,” says Dr. Brinkman. “If you are hell-bent on channeling your stress into apathy, I would strongly suggest reworking that into a more positive form of self-discovery by confronting the feelings that overwhelm you. Apathy is necessary in doses, but it shouldn’t be a constant.”

It’s time to challenge yourself and start giving a fuck. We don’t condemn you for the IDGAF life. It’s pain free and can be packed with fun. However, we ask that you take action and make your choices thoughtfully and with purpose, instead of being nonchalant. Feel passionately about what matters, whether it’s being angry or happy. Overall, embrace you. You should give a fuck about your life and honor yourself because you are amazing and your life deserves to be cared about. 

By Kiran Sharma

When I tell someone that I’ve never dated, be it a new encounter or with casual friends, the response I almost always receive is one of shock. “But you’re twenty!” they gasp, followed by, “I’m sure you’ll find someone soon!” On the other end of the spectrum, I’ve had people poke fun at my supposed perpetual singleness, saying I'm single from the womb to the tomb. I even used to self-deprecatingly refer to myself as a spinster. Despite a lack of partners for various reasons, I’ve been practicing self-love for the past year, and it amazes me how many men and women don’t try the same–single or not. It’s changed my life, allowed me to gain a new perspective on problems that I’ve dealt with and am dealing with and, most importantly, has enabled me to feel content with myself while continuously working towards a “better me.” While there are many, many ways to practice self-love, here are a few that have worked exceptionally well for me.

1. Having a good exercise routine and dietary plan

As an adolescent, I was classified by my doctors as overweight. Because I am a person of petite height, my weight was detrimental to both my health and my self-esteem. Over the years, I would cycle between trying to accept my body for what it was and trying new and extreme workout fads, to little avail. In April of 2016, I made a commitment to lose weight and radically switched up my diet and exercise; so far, I’ve lost twenty pounds (160 to 140 pounds for a 5’3” frame), grown to love exercise and have permanently modified my diet. For me, caring enough about what I ate and what exercises I did was a large part of self-love, because I sincerely wanted a better lifestyle. As a result, I feel better about myself now more than ever! Crafting a healthy diet and workout plan might not seem like the most obvious sign of self-love, but by doing so, I was able to focus on myself and improve my mental and physical health in the process.

2. Wearing makeup for extra sass

 I have a lot of friends who love to wear full faces of makeup wherever they go, and while I don’t see the logic in doing so, I respect the process. There’s something therapeutic about “beating one’s face” and seeing the end result. Admittedly, while I’ve never owned a bottle of foundation before, I do have a routine with a few holy-grail products that never fails to cheer me up. Every day, I put on some light, shimmery blush (NARS Orgasm), two coats of mascara (Too Faced’s Better Than Sex), and some lipstick (MAC’s Twig, for example). It’s a bit of a stretch, but I do feel better when I’m a bit dolled up. I do it for my own satisfaction. I also have a penchant for red lipstick, which I wear in both casual and business professional settings, for an extra boost of confidence and femme fatale-ness. For me, makeup is a powerful way to practice self-love; it’s an art form, it’s fun and it’s a great way to boost your self-esteem.

3. Streaming Netflix 

Who even pays for cable television when you can just have a Netflix account instead? It is, in a word, amazing, and I have several favorite shows that I watch, such as The Office, Parks and Rec and Arrested Development. From each of the shows there are characters I can directly relate to; I’ve laughed with them, cried with them, and have empathized with them. Watching characters in these shows struggle and succeed, like Leslie Knope from Parks and Rec in her bid for City Council has resonated with me deeply enough for me to make positive changes in my life and to never stop pursuing my dreams, whatever they may be.

4. Buying lingerie

I’ve dealt with a lot of people who seem to be under the impression that women only buy lingerie to look attractive for their respective partners, and while that may be the case for some (read: some) women, that’s not the case for me and a lot of others. Lingerie has almost purely aesthetic purpose, which sets it apart from regular undergarments, and I admire the lace and intricate details of each piece I purchase. So because it’s different from my every day wear, I do feel different when I wear it. I feel powerful and sexy, a bit daring and beautiful, but most importantly, I wear it for myself, as a practice of self-love. It took years for me to view my body as “beautiful” and to be comfortable with it, and wearing lingerie is a way for me to pay homage to that beauty. And I do plan on buying more in the future – my Etsy account is a testament to that!

Self-love is a radical concept because it’s not only difficult for everyone to practice, but because a lot of people still balk at it, as if it’s a “new-age impossibility.” A lot of us derive our worth from others instead of ourselves, not understanding what we want and need to be healthy, well-rounded individuals. Unfortunately, there are even people who only derive worth for themselves from being in a relationship, and fail to see that it’s completely possible to be single and love youself. Self-love is necessary for everyone, single or in a relationship, because it doesn’t let us forget that our needs and our health, whether it’s physical, mental or any other, are important.

Whether it’s a Donna Meagle and Tom Haverford-esque “Treat Yo’ Self” event or something more intimate, it is possible to practice self-love and be single, and can only be beneficial, as I’ve found out over the past year.

There's nothing you enjoy more than popping open a bottle of your favorite funky juice and staying in with your fave playlist and your glass of wine. Sound like you? Here are 16 signs you love wine, love your friends and, most importantly, love being a wine mom.

1. You LOVE gossip—even if it's about a person you've only met in passing

I CAN'T believe she did that! I mean, I totally can because it's so typical… What's her last name again? 

2. Gossiping about adults beats gossiping about your peers any day

You need higher stakes than your usual college drama; give me a marriage in shambles, an affair with a mailman or something of that magnitude. 

3. You'd rather sip wine and play your own playlist with your friends than go out and deal with drunk strangers

Yeah, I'll be in my living room werkin on a cheese platter while playing ABBA. Enjoy getting shoved all night to the same beat over and over and over. 

4. Your friends all ask you for advice

You're not really sure why they do because you're also a complete mess, but you will gladly pretend to know something to help them out!

5. You're secure in your wine mom-ness and don't mind skipping some of the less-than-glamorous milestones that come with your 20s

Public humiliation, projectile vomiting and lowered self-worth are all things you're okay with missing.

6. Your sober self and your drunk self are basically the same person

Which means people are constantly wondering if you're drunk at work or sober at a party. You like to keep them guessing, though. 

7. If you don't have your coffee in the morning, you let everyone know

It's not that you're grumpy, so much as it is that you like saying, "Don't talk to me until I've had my coffee!" 

8. You appreciate signs with snarky sayings

Admit it—you laughed. 

9. This goes without saying, but wine is your favorite type of alcohol

It's yummy grape juice that makes your body feel free and your mind feel silly. Pass the bottle. 

10. You're always trying to get buzzed

Drinking in moderation is cool, kids! 

11. Pinterest is your favorite pastime

Planning for your future wedding, looking up cool new recipes or DIY party favors and finding good quotes to put in your planner are right in your wheelhouse. 

12. You loooove having people over to your house and making it nice 

You are the hostess with the mostess, even if you eventually suffer a mental breakdown like our girl Dorinda. 

13. You're a master with a bottle of Shout or a tub of OxiClean

All that wine, you're bound to leave some stains. And you'll be DAMNED if you let some red wine ruin your favorite top.

14. You drink your red wine with a straw because you are rightly concerned about your teeth getting stained

One stain that's permanent is red wine enamel. Use a straw and avoid looking like that gang ^ 

15. You're here for a good time and a safe time

Wine never hurt anybody… Right?!

16. Summer is your favorite season because it means frosé, white wine spritzers, sangria AND SO MUCH MORE!

Guess what ingredient all those cocktails have in common???

The Fourth of July is a critical holiday. You have to look super cute yet also be able to play all those backyard barbecue games. But who can afford to spend tons of money on brand-new red, white and blue clothing? Solution: DIY it! Here are 10 ways to DIY your clothes this July 4th.

1. Red, White and Blue Tie-Dye Shirt

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Spice up your July 4th outfit with some simple red and blue dye.

2. American Flag Cutoffs

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Give your old denim cutoffs an update this Independence Day.

3. Dip-Dye Denim Shorts

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So simple, not to mention adorable.

4. Bandana Headband

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Add a little holiday spirit to your hair to complete your perfect outfit.

5. American Flag Sneaks

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You didn't think we forgot about shoes, did you?

6. American Flag Nails

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When it's this easy to add some patriotism to your look, how could you say "no"?

7. Fourth of July Hat

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Now you can be festive and keep the sun out of your face.

8. Red, White and Blue Bracelet

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What's red, white, blue and cute all over? This bracelet, of course!

9. American Flag Tank

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Easy AND inexpensive? This is the best of both worlds!

10. Tie-Dye Beach Bag

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Don't forget to show your beach bag some DIY love this Fourth of July!

Name: Rebecca Jarvis
Job Title and Description: ABC News Chief Business, Technology & Economics Correspondent; Host, Creator, Managing Editor of “No Limits with Rebecca Jarvis” podcast; Host, Creator, Managing Editor of ABC’s “Real Biz with Rebecca Jarvis”
College Name/Major: University of Chicago, Economics & Constitutional Law
Facebook: Facebook.com/RebeccaJarvis (I regularly go LIVE here with show guests)
Twitter Handle: @rebeccajarvis
Instagram Handle:@rebeccajarvis 

What does your current job entail? Is there such a thing as a typical day?

Rebecca Jarvis: I’m the person at ABC News who covers business, technology, and economics for Good Morning America, World News Tonight with David Muir, Nightline, 20/20 and This Week. Plus, I do a weekly podcast, No Limits with Rebecca Jarvis podcast, and weekly digital show, Real Biz with Rebecca Jarvis. I know it sounds cliché, but there really is no such thing as a typical day! I usually start around 5a. The first thing I do is scroll through emails—in my bed, on my iPhone, one eye open— then I look at Twitter to see what people are talking about. If I’m on GMA, I’m out the door by 5:45a and use the commute to read up on more news. I also use the time to email producers and sources about what’s on my radar and what I’m covering that morning. The minute I get to GMA, I head to hair and makeup. By the time they’re finished working their magic, I have a few minutes to get mic’d and run down to set to see Robin, George, Lara, Michael, Amy and Ginger. Once I’ve wrapped there, I’ll call in to ABC News Radio to talk about my story. Then I’m back out the door; off to the gym or a breakfast meeting. I like to use my mornings post-GMA to get out and meet interesting entrepreneurs and women doing outstanding things. These meetings are especially important to finding great guests for my podcast, No Limits.

By 11a, I’m back in the office, frequently for a No Limits or Real Biz interview (or a few of them). I love going live with our interview guests on Facebook LIVE to give followers an opportunity to ask questions directly. By mid-day, I’m also preparing for World News Tonight and Nightline. If I have a story (or stories) on that night, this involves researching and writing a script, calling experts, and going out on shoots. Throughout the day, I also like to set a few calls to talk to people about possible future stories and I meet with producers around ABC News to pitch them. If there’s breaking news on my beat, it can mean dropping everything – whatever was planned goes out the window, and all my focus and attention turns to reporting out whatever’s happening, calling sources, writing updates so everyone at ABC News is on the same page. If I’m on World News Tonight, I’ll finish writing my script, get it approved, tracked and then head out to set by 6:30pm to see David Muir or out to a liveshot location. If I have a Nightline story that night, I’ll check in with them once I’ve wrapped up World News Tonight. I try and head home by 7:30/8pm and will keep up on email if there are still loose ends. If I have a story for GMA the next morning, I’ll check in with the producers there, write and send over my script. Sprinkle in some panels, additional meetings, maybe an event or two, and travel to/from shoots (just got back from a trip to LA and San Francisco for a story on Nootropics for Nightline) and that’s the job.

What is the best part of your job?

RJ: The ability to ask anyone any question. They don’t have to answer. But I love that it’s my responsibility to ask.  

What was your first entry-level job in your field and how did you get it?

RJ: Technically, it was in high school. I wrote for the school newspaper, so when the NBC-affiliate in Minnesota said they were a launching a news program – “The Whatever Show” -- by and for teens, I jumped at the opportunity. I would interview local Minnesotans (like Jess Ventura when he was running for governor), celebrities when they came to town (like Blink 182 when they were playing at First Ave.), and once in a while, I’d review movies. I still remember reviewing Spice World! I think I gave it one thumb up (I was obviously conflicted).

But I got my first “real” job in journalism by pitching business editors in Chicago. I was working in investment banking at the time, a job I took in part to pay off my student loans, and that helped me learn the ins-and-outs of the business. Two years in, I was in the middle of writing a sell-side memo for a company we were helping to sell, and all I could think about was how much I wished I was writing a story about the deal for a newspaper. I put together three or four story ideas, trends I was seeing in finance (like all the debt companies were taking on), and called up all the business editors in Chicago and asked them to meet for coffee. I’d pitch my ideas over coffee and ask if I could write for them. Crain’s Chicago Business said “OK” and I started filing for them a few months later.

What words of wisdom (well-known quotes, an anecdote from your boss) do you find most valuable?

RJ: I love the quote: What would you do if you weren’t afraid? I remember seeing it on the wall at Facebook a number of years ago. I try and always keep it in the back of my mind, as a reminder to keep pushing. Winston Churchill’s “Never Never Never Give Up” has also always spoken to me. I’ll repeat it in my head like a mantra sometimes when I need that extra push – when I’ve been working around the clock, or it doesn’t feel like there’s light at the end of the tunnel, or things just aren’t falling into place, or I’m running and I don’t think I can go any farther. Never, Never, Never Give Up!

What is one mistake you made along the way and what did you learn from it?

RJ: Early on, I wanted to be taken seriously by superiors and other colleagues, and I was afraid they’d assume, because I was younger, that I shouldn’t be there. So I would put my head down and work very very hard in hopes people would notice. I was afraid to ask for meetings with senior colleagues because I assumed I was so low on their list of priorities. In retrospect, I think there’s a better balance. Of course, you have to work hard and deliver. But in addition, I think it would’ve also helped to get in front of my bosses more and to develop closer relationships; rather than assuming they’d just notice my hard work.

What has been the most surreal moment of your career thus far?

RJ: Election Night 2016, sitting on set across from George Stephanopoulos and the entire ABC News team talking about the markets, which were tanking overnight, until Carl Icahn came in and bought billions worth of S&P futures. First, to be a part of history, it was all very surreal. But on a more personal note, I remembered following George’s coverage from my dorm room during the 2000 Election. At the time, I was watching in complete awe, and thinking to myself: I want to do that someday. Being there 16 years later, actually doing what I had dreamed of doing, was unbelievable.

What do you look for when considering hiring someone?

RJ: Resourcefulness – how they will handle a tough situation, when the answer isn’t immediately available and resources are slim. Dedication – how dedicated they will be and how willing they are to roll their sleeves up to get the job done, even when it’s not glamorous. And Creativity.

What advice would you give to a 20-something with similar aspirations?

RJ: Work hard. Learn to write. Experiment with different forms of storytelling. Try to think of how you can do something differently – look at current forms of media and think of how you could change or expand the format. Learn something you love and become an expert in it, for me this was business. Someday in a newsroom when that thing you know better than anyone else comes up, you can throw your hand up and be the office expert. Also, become an expert in social media. It is a great platform for sharing your storytelling right away— use it.

What's the one thing that's stood out to you the most in a resume?

RJ: It’s hard to stand out in a resume, which is why it’s really important to write a cover letter than includes more about yourself. I look for personality, creativity and how serious this person is about wanting the job they’re applying to. As for that resume, I especially look at the work and internship experience.

Wouldn’t it be great if your daily horoscope revealed where and when you would meet the love of your life? We think so, at least. So we’ve decided to study the signs to help determine exactly that. 

Aquarius

You are charitable and loyal. You love using your creativity and genius to help others. You and your SO will probably meet while volunteering at your local animal shelter or working together on a revolutionary project to end world hunger. 

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Best of all, you’ll immediately know—and love—that the other person is generous and thoughtful, which is an obvious plus and there’s less pressure to come up with an original opening line—you can simply talk about the task at hand. Perfect!

Pisces

Your sensitive, compassionate and selfless nature makes you an awesome friend. You genuinely care about others’ wellbeing and their feelings, so it’s not hard to imagine one of your longtime friendships blossoming into something more.

Alaina Leary, a second year grad student at Emerson College, says, “I'm a Pisces, and I met my SO in high school. We're actually high school sweethearts, as unbelievable as it is. We met on the first day of high school in our first class, which we had together. We started talking and then ate lunch together, and we have been a part of each other's lives ever since.”

Love can take you by surprise but if you’re as lucky as Alaina and her SO, it’ll be just what you needed, even if you didn’t know you needed it. 

Aries

You’re adventurous, enthusiastic and wildly confident—always willing to try new things and meet new people. Your spontaneity and uplifting energy are hard to resist, and people are naturally drawn to you in social situations.

Sarah Cahn, who completed her degree in fashion merchandising at Kent State University this year, says she met her SO while studying abroad in Florence, Italy. “I was really looking forward to meeting people, traveling almost every weekend, eating amazing food, and the fashion field trips built into my classes. I was so excited to immerse myself in the culture and enjoy every opportunity studying abroad had to offer. Dating didn't even cross my mind; I didn't have time for it. Dylan and I were in the same orientation group in Italy. We had met a few times before at Greek events back at school but barely knew each other. Dylan studied abroad with the Architecture program and I thought it would be cool to meet people in other majors. He and I started to hang out more and more and eventually started dating while we were abroad. We explored the city of Florence together and even traveled to Croatia for the weekend!”

Sarah and Dylan have been dating for more than a year now. Couples that travel together, stay together. 

Taurus

You’re patient, dependable and warmhearted—friends appreciate that you listen to them and that you always offer support and encouragement. Your potential SO is most likely to strike up a conversation with you in line at an on-campus event or in one of your classes together. They will feel compelled to approach you. 

Jenna Adrian, a sophomore at Drexel University, says, “I'm a Taurus and I met my SO in college when we started chatting at a party.”

Meeting someone at a party might seem like a cliché but it’s actually pretty ideal—your friends are there for backup if needed and, if all goes well, you have someone to enjoy the party with, avoiding any potential wallflower moments! 

Gemini

You are witty and intellectual. You’re a natural conversationalist and you’re pretty good at making people laugh. You are most likely to meet your SO at the workplace or somewhere else that you visit frequently—they won’t be able to resist your charm.

Sarah Silberstein, a senior at the University of Texas at Austin and a Gemini, says, “I met my SO at a coffee shop and breakfast cafe I was working at, at the time."

You are the Lorelai Gilmore to his Luke Danes. 

Cancer

You are incredibly loving but also very emotional. You tend to be more cautious because you’re more afraid than most of rejection. Your ideal situation would be to meet your SO through mutual friends. That way, you know what to expect and there are fewer risks involved. 

When it comes to dating, you can never truly know what to expect. Sometimes, all it takes is a little confidence and a dose of spontaneity to get you over your biggest fears.

Related: 5 Weird Places Collegiettes Met Their Significant Others

Leo

You are generous and open-minded, but sometimes you prefer to be in control. You will most likely meet your SO on an online dating app, like Tinder or Bumble, which allows you to indulge your experimental tastes on your own terms.

According to Sean Rad, CEO of Tinder, approximately 80 percent of Tinder users browse the app to find love, which makes sense since more than 50 percent of Americans agree that online dating is a good way to meet potential mates. 

Virgo

Intelligent, disciplined, practical and analytical, you are a natural at school and you’re more than okay spending your time studying or reading on campus or at a local bookstore. Every few hours though, it’s good to come up for air—you never know when your future SO is going to be right in front of you. And who doesn’t love a library or bookstore meet-cute?

Shelly Adams, a junior at Shenandoah University, says, “I’m a Virgo, I met my boyfriend at school, which sort of fits my sign. I think Virgo is meticulous and detail-oriented, known for being good at school.”

The best part about meeting your SO at the library is knowing they appreciate quiet time just as much as you do. 

Libra

You are diplomatic and easygoing. You believe that people are innately good and that probably has something to do with the fact that you’re a romantic at heart. Your SO is waiting for you where you least expect them—at your next wine tasting or Sunday trip to the farmer’s market, maybe. 

Nathalie*, a freshman at the University of Waterloo, says her SO won her over with a surprise dinner party. “We live really far apart so when he showed up for my birthday, I was blown away.”

Be prepared to be swept off your feet at any moment. 

Related: What Your Power Shoe Is, Based on Your Zodiac Sign

Scorpio

You are powerful and passionate. Your relationships—romantic or platonic—are always meaningful because of your magnetic personality. You are strong and confident and you don’t mind being the dominant one in a relationship. You will probably meet your SO in a group fitness class or at a karaoke bar, where you can express your bold personality.

Sara*, a senior at Florida Atlantic University, says, “I met my SO at a free yoga class in my town. We were both there for the first time and we laughed through the entire class about how awkward we felt. It really broke the ice, and made the class really exciting!”

The right person won’t be intimidated by your outgoing personality; in fact, they’ll actually find it endearing.

Sagittarius

You are all about positivity and radiance. Your cheerful nature is contagious, and everyone knows that they’re destined to have fun with you around. You and your SO will probably cross paths at a music festival or on an exotic trip.

Bridget Higgins, a senior at the University of Massachusetts Amherst, says, “I'm a Sagittarius and I met my SO in the Dominican Republic vacationing with our friends separately. We both ended up being from Massachusetts!”

Nothing like traveling to a faraway place to bring you closer to home.

Capricorn

You are patient and reserved. You prefer to avoid risks and uncertainties, and you especially hate getting your hopes up. You’re content waiting around for the right thing, and you’re confident that you’ll know it when you see it. Chances are you’ll meet your SO at happy hour or you’ll reconnect with an old friend at an alumni or networking event.

The best things in life take time. 

Related: 5 Things That Shouldn’t Matter If You’re With the Right Person

There are hundreds of places you can meet a potential SO—it can honestly be so overwhelming! Narrowing it down according to zodiac signs might be a little eccentric, but hey, it’s worth a shot. 

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Summer is a time for running around barefoot and not worrying about shoes, right? Maybe, but you’re going to need shoes at some point this summer. So we’ve picked out the best pair of shoes for you to wear this summer, based on your zodiac sign.

Gemini – Ankle boots

As someone who adapts easily, you need shoes that are just as versatile as you. Ankle boots are perfect for you because you can pair them with so much.

“I’m a huge fan of ankle boots during the summer, especially tan ones. They’re great with cuffed jeans or breezy dresses,” says Zoe Strickland, a senior at Western Oregon University and a Gemini. The best part? Ankle boots adapt well in every season, so invest in a nice pair, and you’ll be able to get use out of them all year.

Cancer – Chacos

They might not be the most glamorous shoes, but they are some of the most sensible, and that’s what you really care about. The straps come in all sorts of different designs, like this classic black and white pattern. Not only are they super comfortable, but they’re great for any outdoor adventures you decide to have this summer.

Leo – Wedges

As the creative lady boss that you are, you love wearing shoes that make you feel powerful. Wedges are great for you because they are totally summery and easier to wear than regular heels.

“My summer go-to shoes are wedge sandals – they’re great for confidence, look pretty cute and are easy to coordinate (especially if they’re a neutral color), and they add a few extra inches to my height (without hurting my feel like stilettos)!” says Rachna Shah, a freshman at Dartmouth and a Leo. Get that werk in style, girl!

Virgo – Black flats

You like to keep it classy yet practical, no matter the season. So a humble pair of black flats is totally what you’re about.

“I cannot live without a simple pair of black flats. It literally matches everything and it’s easy to slip on during busy mornings,” says Kayleen Parra-Padron, a senior at Florida International University and a Virgo. Super easy and super affordable, black flats are your perfect go-to shoe this summer!

Libra – Toms

You’re a charitable, laid-back person, and no shoe says that better than a pair of Toms. Toms are great because you can wear them literally anywhere, plus they come in a bunch of different colors and patterns. We especially love these cream crochet ones that look like they would be perfect to wear to the beach!  

Scorpio – Light-up sneakers

You like being the center of attention, and we have the perfect shoes for you: light-up sneakers! These shoes are like the updated version of the light-up shoes we used to wear as kids. The difference is these have LED lights in them that stay lit up (no stomping necessary). You’ll be the center of any event with these eye-catching kicks.

Related: Your Internship Style Guide, According to Your Sign

Sagittarius -  Beaded sandals

Creative, playful and fun-loving, your perfect summer shoes are beaded sandals. They’re pretty and range in style from bohemian to glamorous to girly, so whatever your personal style may be, there is a pair for you. Plus, you can wear them everywhere from the beach to a summer wedding!

Capricorn – Block heels

As an HBIC, you are rarely without your powerful high heels. But how girl, your feet deserve a little bit of a break from those stilettos, so why not wear a block heel this summer. It still gives you that lift that you like, but it’s an easier shoe to wear. This floral pair from Aldo is the perfect way to add some summer vibes to your wardrobe!

Aquarius -  Gladiator sandals

You are an independent, free spirit who likes to set herself apart from the pack. Gladiator sandals are the perfect match for you! They definitely make a statement and will have you feeling like a warrior princess all summer long.

Pisces – Flip flops

As a water sign, you are all about summer. Particularly, you’re all about the swimming scene, whether that’s at the beach, a pool or a lake. So you need a shoe that you can slip in and out of super easily, like flip flops. These are a summer staple, and surely you have a pair. But if you don’t, or are in the market for a new pair, this Lauren Conrad pair is perfect with its little sailboat pattern.

Aries – Athletic sneakers

We know you’re competitive AF. So let’s be real, you need a good pair of athletic sneakers, like these Nikes that will last you from your morning run to the tennis court to hiking with your friends at a national park. You can thank us later.

Taurus – Converse

Of all the signs, you are very much the realist. You need a pair of shoes that are durable and go with anything, which is why your summer shoe is a pair of converse.

“My go-to summer shoe is a tennis shoe, like a pair of Vans or Converse, because they’re easy to wear, comfortable, versatile and are a simple shoe,” says Marisa Pieper, a sophomore at Arizona State and a Taurus. A pair of classic white Converse is the perfect summer shoe for you.

No matter where you’re going or what you’re doing this summer, you have to have a good pair of shoes. It’s like Marilyn Monroe once said, “Give a girl the right pair of shoes, and she can conquer the world.” Go conquer this summer, girl!

If you've been tweeting up a storm about the latest in politics and the Trump administration, you realize every day is an opportunity for your voice to be heard and your opinions to be broadcasted. For you, Saturday Night Life and John Oliver aren't just comedic entertainment. You fully understand the power of media to fight the Twitter trolls and engage in online debates. Here are 15 things you'll only understand if you're used to speaking up about politics on Twitter.

1. You have a voice and you aren’t afraid to use it

2. Following Twitter accounts with opposing political beliefs is as frustrating as a bad episode of The Bachelor

But just like The Bachelor, you can't stop watching.

3. The news doesn’t sleep and neither do you

4. You’ve mastered the art of getting your point across in 140 characters or less

Even though it's a struggle.

5. Twitter trolls are a real thing and you couldn’t care less if they hate on you

6. In fact, Twitter trolls only add fuel to your fire and give you more of a reason to speak up

7. “Twitter Trends” is open on your computer browser all day, every day

8. None of your friends need to ask how you feel about an issue; they’ve already seen your tweet about it

9. Twitter wars can get ugly

10. While most others complain about political posts clogging up their Twitter feed, you thrive on it

11. Sensitive or scandalous issues don't scare you

Yes, I'm basically Wonder Woman.

12. You on Twitter during a White House press conference is like a kid in a candy store

13. Whether you love him or hate him, President Trump's Twitter account is an essential source for content

14. Your political outspokenness is bigger than Twitter 

You are that family member at Thanksgiving dinner who ends up in a heated argument with Uncle Frank every. single. year.

15. When people tell you that you should probably tone it down

Lol, like that's an option.

For obvious reasons, the Internet was shook this week when Jay-Z dropped his long-awaited album4:44, which turned out to be a response (and confession) to what tons of fans thought were cheating allegations in his wife Beyoncé's last album, Lemonade. While his lyrics addressing the infamous "Becky with the good hair" are pretty much giving everyone all the feels, it sounds like he and Bey are past the drama and stronger than ever. (Bless.)

In an interview with the New York Times, music producer No I.D., who worked closely with Jay-Z as the only producer on 4:44, opened up about Queen Bey's role in the album - and of course, she played a major role in the final product.

"I always call Bey our de facto A&R," No I.D. told the Times. "Pillow talk is the strongest conversation on the planet. Every song has to get past her ears, in my eyes. She came by a lot and played a good part in helping us get over hurdles on certain records. Of course she’s genius-level with that."

Translation: Basically, every single song on 4:44 was Beyoncé-approved, which is basically the most power couple thing ever. While they went through some tough times, Bey and Jay clearly respect and trust each other's opinions when it comes to their work, which makes them even more #CoupleGoals than we thought they were. (If that's even possible.) 

So, you and your significant other have been getting pretty serious lately. When you picture your future plans, your SO starts to make an appearance. Everything just feels so right between you two… but, something is still missing. You both entertain the idea of moving in together, and come to find that you’d like that dream to become a reality. Still, you want to be absolutely sure that this is the right move for you and your SO. We spoke to several collegiettes about five telltale signs that you and your SO are ready to move in together, because you’ll want to be sure it feels right!

1. You’re practically living together already

You’ve cluttered his bathroom counter with your makeup, hair ties and bobby pins, and he’s got a toothbrush and some pajama pants stuffed in one of your dresser drawers. His roommates refer to you as one of their own, and he knows not to use your shower at 7:15am because that’s when your roomie uses it.

Sure, you both enjoy your free time every now and then, but if the two of you are pretty much living together already, it’s a good chance that you’re ready to make it official in your own place. Plus, there are added benefits to turning places between the two of you into one, says Megan Scavo, a junior at the University of Central Florida. “If you practically live together (staying the night together at each other’s places), why not move in together and save money?”

Being comfortable with sharing each other’s space and spending most of your nights together during the week is a huge sign that you’re ready to make the move with your SO because you’re already sharing the bulk of the experience together (ya know, like morning breath and disheveled bedhead or grocery shopping for the dinner you’re going to make that night). Yes, there are more commitments that come with sharing a place together, but at this point, it’s worth a shot!

2. You’ve been dating for a significant amount of time

Every relationship is certainly unique and moves at its own pace. Therefore, there’s no one answer to how much time together is enough time to justify major life decisions such as moving in with your SO, because the answer is specific to you and your relationship. “If you have been dating for a significant amount of time and are sure that you won’t get tired of each other, it’s safe to move in,” Megan explains.

A significant amount of time together can mean something different for every couple, but you wouldn’t want to move in with your SO before getting to know them, right? If you’re a neat freak, you’d want to have been with your SO long enough to know whether they are too or not before moving together.

Taking the time to get to know your partner and understand their living habits and preferences is very important in any relationship. If you both can agree that your time together signifies taking that next step together, then that’s definitely a sign you’ll want to take into consideration! 

3. You have open communication

You’ve probably heard the saying “communication is key” a thousand times over, but it’s no lie! Norris Goldflies, a junior at the University of Illinois at Chicago, knows that communication is essential for a healthy relationship to flourish. “You definitely want to make sure you and your SO really know how to communicate if you’re thinking of moving in together,” she says.

Not only is communication important for a relationship to function smoothly, it’s also a huge sign of whether you and your SO are ready to move in together or not. Living under the same roof comes with plenty of conversations that range from “Wait, it’s my turn to do the dishes?” to “We need cut back on spending to make rent this month.”

If you and your partner can openly communicate with each other, especially when it comes to the tough subjects, then it’s a huge indicator that you’re ready to be under one roof together.

4. You’re able to make compromises without a fuss

Compromise, compromise, compromise. Relationships involve giving and taking, so if you and your SO have been considering moving in together, you’ll definitely want to be well-versed in the art of compromise. Rachna Shah, a freshman at Dartmouth College, says a good sign that you’re ready to move in together is that “you know how to compromise, and plan on doing so. Not just on what Netflix TV show to watch — though that is important! — but on accepting each other for who you are.”

Being open and willing to compromise with your SO is not only a great sign for living together, but it’s also a huge indicator that you respect your partner’s needs. “If you’re constantly keeping your SO’s opinions in mind and considering them, it’s a good sign that you’re ready to move in together,” Rachna says, because respecting each other is necessary when sharing the same living space!

Related: When it’s Good to Compromise in Your Relationship (& When it’s Bad)

5. It doesn’t feel right not coming home to your SO

You know the feel. You’ve spent the whole day away from your significant other, and when you come through the door after that long day, you want nothing more to be greeted by them with Netflix loaded and dinner made. A huge sign, and perhaps the most relatable one that you’re ready to move in together, is that you can’t imagine coming home without your SO there to greet you.

“I knew I was ready to move in with my boyfriend after we spent a week house sitting for his parents,” says Norris. “It didn’t feel right not coming home to him. Now, after living together for a year, we just bought a condo!” When the thought of not coming home to your SO every night leaves your heart feeling a little empty, moving in together can help you fill in that missing piece.

Moving in together with your SO is a huge commitment that shouldn’t be taken lightly, so hopefully these five significant signs can send some reassurance your way. Knowing the signs and doing what’s best for your relationship makes all the difference when it comes to finally moving in together!