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3 Reasons Why It’s Totally Okay to Use Lube

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Sexual lubricants can be a fantastic addition to the bedroom. However, there’s a stigma surrounding the use of lube, especially among young adults. One common misconception is that if you need to use lube during sex, then you’re not doing it right, or you’re just not aroused enough. Some young women may even feel embarrassed or ashamed to use lube in their sexual encounters for these reasons. We spoke to a few collegiettes about three reasons why using lube is important and sometimes necessary for your sexual health, because no one should feel ashamed to have safer, more comfortable and more enjoyable sex!

1. It makes sex safer

Typically, condoms and birth control are among the very first things that come to mind when thinking about safe sex. However, if you’re skipping out on lube, you might want to rethink that the next time around. Sexual lubricants are a huge part of safe sex and birth control, as they reduce friction and decrease the likelihood of a condom breaking.

Sure, most condoms do come with a little bit of lube on the outside, but it’s not enough to help in certain cases, such as vaginal dryness. Vaginal dryness can occur for a number of reasons in collegiettes, birth control pills being one of them. The latex from the condoms can also be a huge culprit. Anna*, a sophomore at Carthage College, says that she can’t rely on the lubrication from a condom alone.

“I’ve found that ever since I’ve started taking birth control pills, I just can’t produce a lot of natural lubrication, no matter how aroused I am,” Anna explains. “Before I started using lube, having sex with condoms could get quite uncomfortable. There was even a time when the condom began to slip off during withdrawal because I was so dry (yikes!). Now I always use lube, even if I’m very aroused.”

Some collegiettes may feel embarrassed or ashamed to use lube in these cases because they think they’re not aroused enough and they don’t want to hurt their partner’s feelings. However, whether vaginal dryness is something you’re dealing with or not, it’s always worth it to have that extra safety during sex, especially if you rely on condoms. “Adding lubricant helps reduce friction and gives me peace of mind that there shouldn’t be any issues with the condom,” Anna adds. Just make sure that you’re using the correct type of lube, as not all lubricants are condom friendly!

Related: Everything You Need to Know About Condoms (But Were Scared to Ask)

2. It makes sex less painful

As mentioned before, lube helps reduce friction and dryness during sex, two big factors that can lead to painful sex. Sometimes, sex can be painful because it’s your first time, or the foreplay didn’t last long enough. Maybe your partner is, ahem, well-endowed, and it’s a bit painful on your end, or you’re looking to try sex from a different end (if you catch our drift). Sex shouldn’t be painful, however, and there’s no shame in using lube during sex, whether it’s your first time or far from it. Lube helps everything move a lot smoother (literally), and when everything is groovy down there, you can spend more time focusing on you and your partner instead of worrying about the pain.

3. It makes sex more enjoyable

Who doesn’t want more enjoyable sex? Sara*, a sophomore at Illinois State University, sees no shame in adding lube during sex for some extra fun. “There’s nothing wrong with stopping to apply some lubricant,” says Sara. “It makes sex enjoyable for both parties, which is the whole point of sex, anyway.” Using lube during foreplay and right before sex can lead to bigger and better moments and steamier sessions because you both can finally enjoy safer, painless sex — you can even add stimulating and flavored lubes to help spice up both oral and penetrative sex.

“I think there's a stigma surrounding them like 'real' women shouldn't need lubricants, but it's impossible to stay lubricated enough the entire time you're having sex, especially if you tend to go at it for a while,” says Sara.

While there are still some misconceptions out there about the use of lube, there are so many benefits and added perks to incorporating sexual lubricants into your sex life that you may be missing out on! At the end of the day, ensuring that the sex you have is more safe, comfortable and enjoyable hopefully outweighs any embarrassment that you might feel about using lube. Have fun and be safe!

*Name has been changed


16 Signs You're the Cristina Yang of Your Friend Group

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Honestly, what is Grey's Anatomy without Cristina Yang? We've been forced to find out ever since she left in Season 11, and we don't exactly like the answer. Nobody can replace her wit or passion for cardiothoracic surgery. We're not sure if we want to be her best friend or just be her. Either way, you're totally obsessed and strive to be like her every day. If you can relate to any of the following, you're without a doubt THE Cristina Yang of your friend group: 

1. You have your (food) priorities in check

2. You're not into cuddling and discussing your feelings

3. You're blunt AF

4. Like, really blunt

5. You know that brains > beauty

6. And making history is on your to-do list

She never settles.

7. You don't find your worth in the opposite sex (even when it's McDreamy)

8. Because you know they're generally not very bright

9. Confidence comes naturally to you

10. But cleanliness does not

11. You have the occasional breakdown

12. You know how to party

13. Especially when it involves dancing

14. You know how to give bomb advice

She can tell you how to channel your inner awesome.

15. You don't put up with whiny people

She'll call you out when you're whining.

16. You're basically the sh*t, and you know it

9 Times the 'Bachelorette' Premiere Was a Total Creepfest

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Our favorite Monday night pastime is back and weirder than ever! Season 13 of The Bachelorette premiered with an introduction to arguably the most beloved Bachelorette yet, Rachel Lindsay. Going into the premiere, so many of us had total faith in Rachel’s ability to weed out the losers from the gems in her pool of eligible men.

Now post-premiere, we’re still feeling optimistic about our girl’s chance to find love, but did anyone else happen to notice that Bachelor Nation witnessed some of the creepiest people this show has ever seen? We’ve compiled some of the top times when this premiere was a total creepfest because, to be honest, what’s The Bachelorette without dealing with some creeps before finding a prince?

1. The “tickle monster” Jonathan trying to win over Rachel with—what else?—tickles

Um, since when is it okay to touch a girl like that when you first meet her?

2. Lucas repeatedly making us all dizzy with his “Whaboom”-ing

He's obviously a producer pick, but I'm already tired of watching Lucas.

3. Milton growling at Rachel…more than once

Dude, just because she let you get away with it the first time doesn't mean she liked it. 

4. Adam showing up with a puppet that Rachel eventually had one-on-one time with

But…why is he French?

5. Fred reminding Rachel of her awkward middle school days

His intentions were cute, but I certainly wouldn't want a reminder of myself at peak awkwardness.

6. Blake E. obsessing over his penis

Haven't we already seen a guy like this on The Bachelorette?

7. Mohit spying on Rachel and Bryan's intense makeout

I was a Mohit fan (#gonetoosoon), and as hilarious as his reaction to the couple's kiss was, he seemed a little too close to them.

8. DeMario and Josiah going a little overboard by both calling Rachel their wife

Too soon, guys. Too soon. 

9. When the men were LITERALLY swooping in on Rachel

This obviously started out as a dream come true, but then reality hit and it got a little scary. 

Although there are still some hardcore creepers in the Bachelor Mansion, can we honestly complain about having some weirdos on the show? 

Why a Social Media Break Is Worth Taking After Graduation

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For most of us, graduation is around the corner or already here. Soon, you will be sent out into the real world with a degree in one hand and a resume in the other, seeking to make something of yourself and prove to your parents that your college tuition was worth it.

One of the best things you can do for yourself right after graduating is taking a social media break. For months now, your primary interaction with your friends may have been commenting on Facebook study groups for finals, liking friends’ photos of their final transcripts and posting a play-by-play of your own process preparing for graduation in order to keep extended family in the loop.

You may have spent the past several weeks responding to comments like “What’s next???” and “Any jobs lined up?” and “You’re going to change the world!!!!” There’s an immense amount of pressure on college graduates to immediately show everyone what they can do now that they’ve completed their education, akin to a rat race. Rather than subjecting yourself to that, consider spending some time disconnected right after graduation.

1. It will stop you comparing yourselves to your peers

Once you’ve all earned your degrees, everyone’s lives will begin taking different paths. Where before all your peers were, like you, completing the same final steps in college, suddenly everyone is forging their own unique path, and it’s going to be next to impossible not to compare yourself to your classmates.

Oh, look! Jaimey just got a job at the National Institute for Public Health Research. Matthew is somehow already setting up a non-profit. Ari got accepted to the dream grad school you eventually plan on applying to, and they’re going to give her a stipend.

“One of the worst things after graduation was that deep anxiety I felt about facing the real world and real problems,” says Janet Leith, a Colombia University graduate who nixed her social media accounts soon after graduation. “Seeing some of the success my friends were having and posting about on Facebook made me feel worse. I felt a pressure to advertise my own successes on social media and in the end, I decided I didn’t need that in my life.”

Janet says she has much more time to focus on what she wants and what’s important to her now, and couldn’t be happier. By taking some time off social media, you can avoid the urge to compete with your classmates to prove you’re most successful after college, and you can stop beating yourself up if you see classmates outshining you after college.

2. It will help you develop discipline and self-control

Part of the problem with social media is our habit of being deeply sucked into it. Once you realize you can theoretically stay in touch with absolutely anyone at all times with your phone, it’s hard to avoid checking Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Snapchat every hour or whenever you get a new notification. Developing discipline over your social media habits can be a particularly hard challenge, particularly for millennials who have grown up with social media as both a viable career choice and a way to manage their social lives.

“My Facebook and Twitter were covered in embarrassing and impulsive things I had done during college,” says Amy Lau, a graduate of Syracuse University. “I knew this was not the image I wanted to present to the world when I was entering professional life, so the easiest thing for me was to disconnect from all of them.” 

By taking time to disconnect yourself from your social media accounts, even for just a few weeks, you can learn to survive without the constant updates and need to interact with people online, giving you more chance to appreciate the world around you, and learn to appreciate getting news in smaller chunks throughout the day, rather than receive a constant stream of updates.

3. It will help you recharge and reinvigorate your IRL relationships

Right after you graduate, you’re going to be experiencing an influx of emotions, such as jealousy directed at peers who appear to have immediately jumped into dream careers, exhaustion after completing a four-year challenge, the feeling of being overwhelmed by the options and choices ahead of you and the sense that you now have to figure out what to do with the rest of your life.

That’s an immense amount of pressure, and trying to go through it all with everyone’s lives on display online can make you feel deeply overwhelmed or depressed. Take some time to disconnect from social media after you get your degree in order to prioritize your own needs, your own time and face-to-face interaction. After all, in the rush to graduate you may have found yourself neglecting friendships, face time with peers, normal human interactions that can easily fall to the wayside in the modern, rushed world.

Social media is part of networking for jobs after graduation, which means once you start getting into the job-searching game, you’re probably going to need to get your social media accounts back up and running as soon as possible. By taking some time to recuperate after completing your degree, you can take some time to address any stress, sleep deprivation, body aches and pains and other signs of bodily neglect you have have neglected while preparing for graduation.

Here's What You Need to Know About the Manchester Arena Attack

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At least 22 people are dead and 59 injured after a bomb exploded outside the Manchester Arena on Monday night. At the end of an Ariana Grande concert, a sole bomber attacked the arena's foyer as fans and their families exited the building.

According to The New York Times, ISIS has claimed responsibility for the bombing, which is the deadliest terrorist attack in the UK since the 2005 London bombings. Police believe a suicide bomber who died in the blast is to blame, but CNN reports that another 23-year-old man was arrested in South Manchester Tuesday morning in connection to the attack.

Grande had already left the stage when the explosion struck around 10:30 p.m. Chaos ensued as fans, many of whom were children and teenagers, ran through the building to safety. Large crowds left the arena in a panic, separating from their families and friends among a sea of pink balloons leftover from the concert.

One eyewitness, Nick Haywood, a father whose 16-year-old daughter attended the concert, explained the scene to BBC. "You could feel it, you could feel the noise. It was incredibly loud. My first thought was to find my daughter," he said. "People were already starting to filter out. You could tell something was wrong, no one was laughing or chatting. Some people were running, a bit of mild panic." 

Haywood's daughter Caitlyn was near the front of the stage when the explosion happened. "As soon as Ariana Grande left, the lights went out and the bomb went off," she said. "That made me think that this person planned it so well."

According to The Telegraph, three of the victims' names have since been released: 8-year-old Saffie Rose Roussos, 18-year-old Georgina Callander and 26-year-old John Atkinson. Several teenagers remain missing as desperate loved ones turn to social media to find them using the Twitter hashtag #MissingInManchester

As condolences spread across social media, Grande issued a statement on Twitter Monday night. "broken. from the bottom of my heart, i am so so sorry. i don't have words," she wrote.

Greater Manchester Police Chief Ian Hopkins said in a statement, "This has been the most horrific incident we have had to face in Greater Manchester and one we all hoped we would never see. Families and many young people were out to enjoy a concert at the Manchester Arena and have lost their lives."

According to Hopkins, the investigation is "fast-moving" with over 400 officers involved in the operation. 

Your Signature Scent, According to Your Zodiac Sign

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Perfume can be tricky. It’s hard to trust someone else’s recommendations with your delicate taste, which we totally get. But the perfect signature scent can make you feel extra confident and put together, making it a must-have for an even better getting ready routine. That’s why we let the stars decide your fate, recommending a new signature fragrance for you based on the most prominent qualities of your sign.

Aries: CK Be by Calvin Klein

The Aries girl is warm, exciting, and daring, just like Calvin Klein’s sexy scent, Be ($50, Calvin Klein). Notes of white peach, bergamot and spices give this fragrance extra depth and guarantee that you’ll make a lasting impression—not that you need any help with that.

Taurus: Coco Mademoiselle by Chanel Paris

Taurus, you look for a balance between simplicity, sensuality and a little touch of luxury in life. That’s why Coco Mademoiselle ($94, Chanel), a light but luxe scent that pays homage to the young Coco Chanel’s drive to succeed, is perfect for you. The elegant scent will ground you when you’re working hard on the homework grind.

Gemini: Walk on Air by Kate Spade New York

The Gemini girl is known for her intellect; she’s a smooth talker with a curious mind. Walk on Air ($75, Kate Spade New York) is the perfect compliment to your confident personality and its sweet floral undertones will keep you on cloud nine.

Cancer: Aqua di Gioa by Giorgio Armani

If you’re a Cancer, you’re loving to those who know you, but to everyone else, you have an air of mystery. Keep ’em guessing with Aqua di Gioa ($70, Giorgio Armani). This summery scent flirts with your senses using floral notes over sandalwood and a touch of mint.

Leo: Eau des Sens by diptyque paris

A Leo is a leader; you’re proud, confident, and eager to stand out. Eau des Sens ($90, dyptique paris) has a little je ne sais quoi that will help you do just that. Orange blossom and juniper are warm and deep, just like you!

Virgo: White Jasmine & Mint Cologne by Jo Malone

A Virgo girl can be picked out from a mile away—her devotion to practicality and impeccably high standards is apparent. With this divine White Jasmine & Mint Cologne ($65, Jo Malone), you won’t have to sacrifice either! The light, fresh scent is appropriate for any occasion, making it incredibly versatile.

Related: What Lip Color You Should Rock This Weekend Based on Your Sign

Libra: Daisy by Marc Jacobs

Diplomatic and graceful, a Libra is charming, but by no means a pushover. With notes of grapefruit, musk and cedarwood, Daisy ($75, Marc Jacobs) is sophisticated, elegant, and practically made for you.

Scorpio: Sì by Giorgio Armani

There’s more than meets the eye with the Scorpio girl—a lot more. You’re passionate, contemplative, and wiser than you are old. Balance your youth and maturity with Sì ($92, Giorgio Armani). Delicate floral nectar notes give way to smoldering amber wood, complimenting your nature perfectly.

Sagittarius: Clinique Happy by Clinique

Sagittarius, more often than not you have your head in the clouds, but that’s not a bad thing! You tend to be an idealist and an optimist, naturally making Clinique Happy ($50, Clinique) your ideal go-to scent. Its blend of citrus and floral notes are so uplifting, it’ll naturally make you smile a little bit more whenever you wear it.

Capricorn: Burberry Brit by Burberry

Capricorn has the “can’t stop, won’t stop” personality that makes Capricorn girls go-getters and incredibly hard workers. Burberry Brit ($80, Burberry) has a no-nonsense base of warm amber, complimented by sweet almonds and peony. This perfect balance makes Burberry Brit impossible not to be enamored with, like you.

Aquarius: Candy l’Eau by Prada

Aquarius, you’re a true intellectual; you’re outspoken and entirely your own person. No one forgets an Aquarius girl, kind of like you’ll never forget Candy l’Eau ($74, Sephora). With rich, indulgent notes of caramel and white musk, you can know for certain that you’ll be remembered when wearing this perfume.

Pisces: Love Story by Chloé

The Pisces girl is ruled by emotion, intuition and most importantly, imagination. Your compassion and radiance make Love Story ($75, Sephora) your natural signature scent. Jasmine and orange flower oil are the heart of this perfume, giving it an air of joy and freshness. This echoes the way you make others feel, so be prepared for them to notice a little something more about you when you wear it.

If you trust the stars to tell your beauty horoscope, the possibilities are endless!

9 People Who Despise the Whaboom Guy From 'The Bachelorette' As Much As You Do

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The new season of The Bachelorette premiered Monday night, and Rachel Lindsay's group of men did not disappoint! After watching her first encounters with the new residents of Bachelor Mansion, it's safe to say she has a lot of work ahead of her to find her one true love. Along with some potential love matches, there were also quite a few…creeps

One of the most notable (and craziest) guys definitely has to be Lucas—better known as the "Whaboom" guy. We aren't the only ones turned off by him either. Let's see what Twitter had to say.

The intro video was enough.

Seriously, how did this happen?

Sad but true.

Same, girl. Same.

Watch out, Rachel!

Not sure who would want to buy one, though.

Even Evan can't handle this guy.

It was a sad moment for everyone.

Yep.

Lucas might have a great personality under all of those obnoxious "whabooms," but I'm kind of hoping we don't have to find out. Watching him make it through the season would be torture! C'mon, Rachel, do us a favor and send him home to whaboom with his ant farm.

16 Things You Didn't Know About Pippa Middleton

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Pippa Middleton clearly cared a lot about her wedding to James Matthews: every detail of it was planned to perfection, and yes, she looked stunning. So there's nothing wrong with talking about the event; instead the problem lies in congratulating a woman only for being attractive and landing a man. At 33, the Duchess of Cambridge's sister is obviously a lot more than that. Here are some facts you probably didn't know about Pippa.

1. She was a Brownie in elementary school

Alongside her sister Kate, Pippa earned at least seven badges in her time as a member.

2. She graduated from the University of Edinburgh

She earned her degree in English.

3. Her first job after graduation was at a public relations firm

There, she promoted luxury goods.

4. Shortly after that, she began working in party planning

She worked at a company named Table Talk, which she hired to plan her own wedding.

5. She threw a wedding bash for Kate & Will after the official ceremony

She organized the late-night do in Buckingham Palace. Her disco balls, bacon sandwiches and food trucks, which probably made for the best party ever, did not go down well with the royal family.

6. Tatler named her No. 1 Society Singleton in 2008

That's a full three years before the Royal Wedding in 2011—a further reminder that Pippa exists beyond being her sister's sister.

7. She published a party planning book, which was widely ridiculed

Celebrate includes such insightful advice as "A really late start warrants brunch, in lieu of lunch" and "Don't forget to put a pitcher of water and glasses on the table or a nearby side table if there's no room." Pippa later defended her book: "But in my defence, let me say this: Celebrate is meant to be a guide to party planning and, as such, it has to cover the basics."

8. She has a great sense of humor

In the column she wrote to defend her book, Pippa quipped, "maybe I should write a sequel and call it Bottoms Up?"—alluding to the attention she received at the Royal Wedding for her toned derrière.

9. Speaking of columns, Pippa has written for various publications

Notably, her contributions to Vanity Fair touch on the exceedingly British topics of Pimm's, cricket and Wimbledon.

10. She has tried her hand at line dancing in Wyoming

Although she wrote about it herself, all photo and video evidence seems to have ~mysteriously~ disappeared.

11. She is the sole director of a business called PXM Enterprises

It's very unclear what this company actually does, but it is registered as dealing in "other publishing activities."

12. Pippa became an ambassador for a school for deaf children in 2013

"It gives me great pleasure to be a supporter of Mary Hare and make a difference to the lives of deaf children," Middleton said. "I wanted to help out, because this is a local charity close to my family's home and I have been charmed by the inspiring children that attend, not least for their charismatic and heart-warming attitude to life."

13. She is also an ambassador for the British Heart Foundation

As such, she participated in the "3,000 mile Race Across America cycling challenge before heading to Istanbul to compete in the 6.5km Bosphorus Cross-Continental Swimming Race," both for fundraising purposes, according to the BHF website.

14. She's a bit of a fitness guru

Not only is Pippa a seasoned runner, but she also penned a 10-week workout plan for Waitrose.

15. She has an adorable dog

He's a cocker spaniel named Rafa.

16. Her marriage will afford her the title of Lady Glen Affric

Her new husband, James Matthews, will eventually inherit his father's lairdship, a Scottish term for owning a large area of land.


Kendall & Kylie Jenner Shared Their Phone Numbers, But It's Not What You Think

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The Kardashian-Jenner sisters are the ultimate reality TV stars. If you’re not able to catch Kylie on Keeping Up With The Kardashians or her new reality TV show, you probably still know everything you need to about her, from reading up on her makeup hacks on her namesake app, following her day-to-day life on Snapchat or checking out her fashion inspo on Instagram. With the constant, 24/7 exposure, it's sometimes hard to remember that you’re not actually friends IRL.

Who hasn’t wished they could pick up the phone and call Kylie after scoring a limited-edition lip kit, or congratulate Kendall after she killed it on the runway?

Well, now you can… sort of.

Kendall and Kylie have been busy slowly sharing teasers for their upcoming fashion line, which debuted on Monday. The sisters recently revealed two tops that have a unique twist: they feature each sister's name and phone number.

Kylie’s (of course) is a crop top, with bright yellow writing down the arms, nailing the sexy-sporty aesthetic.

Kendall’s, on the other hand, is a bit more casual (think very model-off-duty), a relaxed t-shirt fit with her phone number printed across the chest. 

The best part about the pieces? The phone numbers actually work when you dial them. Kendall’s number leads to a voicemail, while Kylie took a lighter approach, joking with the classic “Hello?” voicemail. 

While you might not get to actually speak to the Jenner sisters on the phone, you’ll be able too leave them a voicemail… which is basically the next best thing!

Kendall Jenner Sported the Dramatic Crop Top of Your Dreams in Cannes

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A little black crop top has become the new little black dress. Pretty much every girl owns one, and it's an essential part of her wardrobe. What else would you throw on when your friends are being vague, saying that they’re wearing “jeans and a cute top” instead of giving you specifics on what they’re actually wearing to your girls' night out?

Kendall Jenner kicked the basic black crop up a notch in Cannes on Sunday at the Fashion for Relief red carpet event.

Something tells me that this isn’t a crop top that you can throw into your purse, just in case you need a quick outfit change…

With one puffy sleeve, and a train longer than the one on most wedding dress, this top definitely makes a statement. Kendall paired the statement piece with basic black pumps, simple denim cutoffs, a silver necklace and minimal makeup with straight hair, to ensure that the top stole the show.

Even the eldest Jenner sister realized that this top was a bit unpractical for moving around. Later in the night, she changed it back into a simple (but still cute) crop top. 

This top probably isn’t the most practical thing to wear to a frat party, but, if you have a red carpet to go to anytime soon, this is a sure way to get some attention.

Has Kendall given you some inspiration to update your basic black crop top, but you’re not quite ready to sport a lengthy train? Here are some tops that hit the perfect middle ground:

1. Surplice Cut-Out Crop Top ($4.99 at Charlotte Russe)

While this might not be significantly different from your current tried-and-true crop top, these cutouts give you the perfect summer upgrade.

2. PrettyLittleThing Flare Sleeve Bardot Crop Top ($28.42 at ASOS)

Channel your inner boho-chic babe with these flouncy, fun sleeves.

3. Menace Cutout Crop Top ($60 at Dolls Kill)

Show a peek of skin with this edgy top! 

4. On the Hunt Vegan Leather Crop Top ($24 at Nasty Gal)

Change things up with a new material—like vegan leather!

5. Moon River Ruffle Sleeve Crop Top ($60 at Nordstrom)

This crop top would be easy to dress down with a pair of denim cutoffs (just like Kendall!) or dress up with a flouncy skirt.

6. One Shoulder Ruffle Crop Top ($39.90 at Express)

Steal more fashion inspiration from Kendall with this asymmetric top.

Pippa Middleton's Pre-Wedding Diet Was Actually Really Unhealthy

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Pippa Middleton first stole our hearts at the Royal Wedding in 2011 when her sister married Prince William. As the maid of honor, Pippa wore a sleek, form-fitting dress that suited her frame perfectly, thus making her an object of admiration in the media. This past Saturday, Pippa married hedge fund manager James Matthews at the St. Mark's Church in Engelfield, England. Suffice it to say Pippa stole our hearts once again when she walked into the church wearing a handcrafted Giles Deacon dress. Unfortunately, Pippa's wedding day body was the result of a crazy new fad diet called the Sirtfood Diet.

According to E!, Middleton was following this diet in the weeks leading up to her big day. The Sirtfood Diet, created by Aidan Goggins and Glen Matten, involves eating foods rich in polyphenols, which can impact a person's metabolism, aging, and mood. Some of these sirtfoods are dark chocolate, red wine, kale, and olive oil. The main problem with this diet is that it basically calls for starvation in the first phase of the dieting process; in the first three days of phase one, you can only have one meal and three sirtfood green juices, which only amounts to 1,000 calories for the entire day! To put this in perspective, the minimum number of calories you should consume in a day is 1,200. Anything under that can harm your health.

In an interview with The Cut, registered dietician Brigitte Zeitlin talks about the dangers of the Sirtfood Diet. "In addition to not giving yourself the proper energy and nutrients you need each day you're on this fad diet, eventually you're going to go off of it. You're going to gain all of the weight you lost back, and more often than not, you're going to gain even more weight back."

Obviously Pippa Middleton is a grown woman who can do what she wants with her body, but her choice to participate in such an extreme diet sheds a light on another pervasive problem: the culture of losing weight for your wedding day. This custom can be harmful to a woman's body image and mental health, even if it's indirectly. Most importantly, your wedding day shouldn't be about how much weight you were able to lose for the big day; it should be about the love you and your partner share. And if you're getting married, it's most likely because your partner already accepts you for who you are, stomach rolls and all.

13 Memorial Day Sales You Need to Shop This Weekend

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Memorial Day is a great federal holiday all on its own, but the insane sales that come around during the weekend just make everything a little bit better. You might want to keep an eye out on your favorite retail stores to see what kind of great deals they are offering this year!

Browsing for the best sales can be a bit exhausting, so we've done all of the work for you! Here are 14 of the best Memorial Day sales you'll definitely need to shop.

1. Morning Lavender

There's nothing better than a little online shopping, and this cute boutique won't disappoint. Their sale will run from May 26 to May 29, and you can score up to 60 percent off select items!

2. Gold & Gray 

Everyone knows accessories almost make any outfit better, which is why Gold & Gray's sale will be everything you've been needing! All you have to do is use the code "MEMORIAL17" to take 30 percent off from May 26 to 30.

3. Experimental Jewelry Club

This company has the most unique jewelry, you won't want to miss out on using the code "SUMMERSMILES" to get $15 off orders of $50 or more from May 26 to the 29th.

4. Cotton On

There's not much better than finding affordable clothes that are also super cute. Take advantage of Cotton On's extremely low prices for the holiday weekend, including $3 flip flops, $8 tees, $15 dresses and more!

5. Beach Bunny

Grab a sexy new suit for up to 60 percent off on select suits starting May 29!

6. JOE's 

A new pair of JOE's jeans is calling your name, and lucky for you, you can get 25 percent off select styles with the code "MEM25." Plus free shipping from May 23 to 29.

7. Smoke x Mirrors

Who doesn't love new sunglasses? This weekend only you can get 20 percent off their core styles with the code "SxMemDay20," and 10 percent off Sodapop and GEO items with "SxMemDay10."

8. BaubleBar

Every piece of jewelry you'll ever need can be found here! Get 50 percent off select styles from May 25 to 29.

9. Gap

Take 40 percent off your entire purchase with the code "SUMMER" and stock up on all of the must-haves.

10. Fabletics

Time to get active and receive 75 percent off an outfit or a single item! This is such a deal!

11. Urban Outfitters

UO is having a long weekend sale that includes discounts on pretty much everything! Take 50 percent off jewelry, 30 percent off lace bras, and much more!

12. American Eagle

Snag all of your favorite AE items for anywhere from 25 to 60 percent off for a limited time!

13. Nasty Gal

This one isn't exclusively a Memorial Day sale, but for a limited time only you can get 40 percent off your entire order with the code "NASTY40."

Be sure to keep an eye on your favorite stores to catch their Memorial Day sale announcements so you can score all of the best deals! Happy shopping!

You'll Fall in love With Michelle Obama's Italian Vacation Outfit

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Former First Lady Michelle Obama has been known as one of America's most fashion-forward First Ladies since her husband first took office in 2008. In the last nine years, we have seen Michelle sport countless silk shirts, beautifully intricate gowns and traditional pencil skirts. I think it goes without saying that she looked fabulous in all outfits. Now that Michelle is no longer First Lady, we are getting a better feel for how she likes to dress in her free time, and I am loving it! Yesterday, she was spotted in an adorable off-the shoulder blouse while shopping in Tuscany, Italy.

The flowy, white blouse screamed "VACATION VIBES" with its beautiful lace detailing and ruffles. Michelle tucked the blouse into a pair of high-waisted, army green cargo pants, giving the ensemble an airy feel. The oxblood tote added a nice pop of color and the simple slides finished off the comfortable-yet-chic look. The relaxed effect the outfit provided was a sharp contrast to the usual business attire we are used to seeing Michelle Obama in, but I can't get enough of the new side of her I am seeing.

Selena Gomez's Lingerie in the 'Bad Liar' Video Might Be a Tribute to The Weeknd

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Last Thursday, Selena Gomez released the "Bad Liar" music video on Spotify, and I am surprised by the casual appearance the artist chose to show, rather than the more intricate attire she has worn in past videos. In real life though, Selena Gomez is known for her carefree attitude, most of the time sporting little makeup, and just recently, rocking the short hair.

 

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In the "Bad Liar" video, she further shows this carefree side of her by wearing lingerie and a simple vintage t-shirt. However, the second outfit, which consists of an oversized t-shirt and "Kiss" vintage panties, raised eyebrows when fans said the panties were a way for Selena to subliminally pay tribute to her boyfriend The Weeknd. Their argument is that this is a reference to his XO brand. Whatever the reason for the adorable outfits, I am burning with jealousy for Selena's ability to look sexy in a simple t-shirt and panties outfit.

 

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Katy Perry Says Taylor Swift Started Their Feud So She Needs to Finish It

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With Katy Perry’s musical return came “Swish, Swish,” which has reopened the can of worms that is her feud with Taylor Swift. What will it take for it all to end? Katy shared the answer to that question with James Corden on his Carpool Karaoke Primetime Special Monday.

During the segment, Perry talked about her new track and the “situation” between her and T. Swift. “Honestly, it’s really like she started it and it’s time for her to finish it,” Katy said.

Whoa, what?! If you’re wondering what needs to be finished, the feud goes back to 2014 (yeah, it’s that drawn out) when some of Katy’s dancers briefly left her for Taylor’s tour. According to Perry, they later asked to rejoin her tour, which sparked the beef and “Bad Blood.”

Katy told Corden that she tried to talk to Tay about the dancers prior to the release of "Bad Blood." “She wouldn’t speak to me. I do the right thing anytime that it feels like a fumble. It was a full shut-down and then she writes a song about me and I’m like, ‘OK, cool cool cool. That’s how you want to deal with it?'” Perry said.

Well, looks like the ball is in Taylor's court and the situation can only be fixed if she apologizes. Katy said if Taylor texted her, it would be enough to put this all to rest. "Yeah, absolutely, 100 percent."

Someone get them on the phone PLEASE. It’s time for this stop. Can’t we all just be friends?


5 Best Online Stores for Swimsuit Shopping

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We know, swimsuit shopping sucks. But it’s something we’re faced with every summer. So we thought, How can we make this suck less? The answer: by finding swimsuit shops online that sell cute suits with reliable sizing. That way you can skip picked over stores and badly lit dressing rooms. The best part? You don’t even have to leave your house!

Cupshe

Cupshe offers cute bikinis and one pieces at a reasonable price point. Their suits meet a range of styles from vintage high-waisted bikinis to sexy one-pieces to boho halter bikinis. Even better is the fact that their swimwear is all between $15 and $30. Nothing wrong with that!

ASOS 

If there is one thing we know to be true, ASOS is always reliable for finding a ton of cute clothes in a wide range of styles and sizes. Naturally, this also applies to their swimwear. They have suits to fit all personality types, whether that be simple, sporty, glam, etc. They have strappy suits in tons of colors, swim dresses, suits with mesh overlays. The options here are endless. “I’ve bought all my suits from ASOS actually; I love ASOS’s prices and selection, so swimsuit shopping there is a no-brainer,” Molly Gross, a senior at Bentley University, says. She also likes ASOS because they offer cup sizes in the tops. On top of offering a selection of cup sizes up to 36DD, they also have an amazing range of suits for plus sizes, going up to size 24.  However, Molly warns that different brands on ASOS fit differently, so it might take time to figure out what sizes work best for you among the brands. But Molly says that won’t stop her from buying from ASOS. “They have a lot of trendy styles that you don’t see at sites like Old Navy, Target or Aerie,” she says.

Related:Your Guide to Bathing Suit Cover Ups for Summer 

Entourage

New to the swimsuit game, Entourage offers cute AND affordable suits. They have sleek one pieces that are between $25 and $35, and colorful bikini tops and bottoms that go for $15 to $19 each. They offer a lot of suits with patterns on them, which has us ready to go to some summer pool parties.

Swimsuits For All 

Swimsuits For All knows swimsuit shopping is hard. That’s why the site allows you the option to shop by fit or style. And girl, do they have range! Everything from tankinis to swim dresses to suits with underwire built into the bust. Right now they’re even featuring a swimwear collection by Ashley Graham. The collection has lots of floral prints and both bikinis and one-pieces. We are liv*ing*. The collection is a little on the pricey side, but the site’s suits overall range from $30 to $100, depending on the suit.

Jolyn Clothing

This site not only has cute suits, but they’re durable, too. Shannon Exley, a junior at American University, says she’s had luck with Jolyn Clothing’s swimsuits. “These suits really stay on, and all the bottoms have a drawstring, so they’re perfect for the beach and swimming!” She says. “As a competitive swimmer, they’re my go-to for swimming outside. I would recommend them to anyone because they’re both practical and cute.” Shannon also mentioned that they hold trunk shows throughout the U.S. and Canada, so that you can go try on their suits if you want to get a better feel for their sizing. “They always have promos so you can get discounts too!” she says. Sounds like a win to us.

This year is the year that swimsuit shopping is not going to suck. With all of these websites that have cute suits and relatively affordable pricing, how can we not find the swimsuit of our dreams? This summer is going to be our most confident yet. We can feel it. 

What You Need to Know About Trump's 2018 Budget Proposal

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It's that time of the year again! No, not time to elect a new president. It's time for the president to present his yearly budget proposal—and not that many of us were looking forward to it. POTUS has no Constitutional power to actually pass a budget, but he explains his desires to Congress in a proposal and then hopes that they follow along.

While USA Today says we shouldn't expect Congress to do anything with it, this proposal helps the president broadcast his vision to the American people, and is a bit of a glimpse into how he thinks the country should be run.

So, what exactly is in this proposal? Here are some of the highlights:

Strengthening The Border

According to The New York Times, the budget proposal calls for a 10 percent increase in military spending, and requests $1.6 billion just to "build the wall" at the Mexican border—so at the moment, there are no plans for Mexico to pay for it. Other expenses, including the wall, add up to $2.6 billion just for border security.

Paid Leave for New Parents

President Trump's daughter Ivanka is requesting $19 billion over 10 years for her program—providing six weeks of paid leave for new parents, including adoptive parents. 

Cuts for Medicaid, Welfare and Disability

The most controversial part of this bill is the distribution of money away from the poor and the elderly. Trump wants to cut $800 billion from Medicaid (state health insurance programs for the poor), and $272 billion from welfare benefits. Pretty much any domestic program other than military and homeland security is to be cut, by about 11 percent.

The proposal also calls for $192 billion cut from nutritional assistance for the elderly, which lawmakers from both sides of the aisle aren't too happy about. Republican Mark Meadows, who represents North Carolina, told the Times he "couldn't stomach the idea" of getting rid of food assistance. "Meals on Wheels," he said, "may be a bridge too far."

President Trump is currently overseas, so he hasn't had much to say about this proposal. However, budget experts and lawmakers have had a lot to say. Minority leader Chuck Schumer says "the good news is that it was likely to be roundly rejected by members of both parties here in the Senate, just as the last budget was.”

Melania Trump Repeatedly Refused to Hold Donald Trump's Hand & the Internet Totally Noticed

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President Donald Trump's eight-day visit to multiple countries, which will be his first overseas trip as president, is fully underway - but one particular thing from the trip has grabbed the Internet's attention. Two separate times on the trip, FLOTUS Melania Trump has appeared to refuse to hold Donald's hand - and people are freaking out over the video evidence.

On Monday, the Trumps landed in Tel Aviv for their two-day trip to Israel. The cameras caught them leaving Air Force One and walking down a red carpet to greet Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu - and as POTUS offers the first lady his hand, she aggresively swats it away. (And I'm not going to lie, it looks pretty purposeful.)

It clearly wasn't a one-time thing, either. As they deplaned in Rome on Tuesday, things got equally cringe-y when Donald attempted to hold Melania's hand and was rebuffed again as she reached up to fix her hair instead.

Awk. While People reports that the Trumps have been seen holding hands at other parts on the trip, this definitely raises some questions, and for obvious reasons, the incidents went viral. TBH, in any case, it looks like FLOTUS really isn't having it with the hand-holding.

Quiz: Choose Six Different Junk Foods & We'll Tell You What Your Best Friend Is Like

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She's your bestie for life, and we think your junk food choices can give us a big hint about her personality! Take this quiz and find out.

 

Ashley Tisdale and Lucas Grabeel Just Gave Us the 'High School Musical' Reunion We've Been Waiting For

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It's been over 10 years since High School Musical basically made our entire childhoods by premiering on Disney Channel, and if that makes you feel super old (same), don't freak out just yet - because Ashley Tisdale and Lucas Grabeel, a.k.a. Ryan and Sharpay Evans, basically just proved our childhoods are alive and well with a HSM reunion.

The two recently teamed up on Ashley's YouTube channel to give fans a new rendition of the song "What I've Been Looking For." (Which, be honest, we all still know every word to.) As you might imagine, it is everything.

In the video, the on-screen brother-sister duo also let fans in on the details about what filming the *iconic* movie was like - and revealed that they actually didn't get along during the filming. (I know, I'm just as shook as you are.)

"We were not close. We were not good friends, let's be honest," Ashley says in the video. "It's been 10 years, we can totally talk about this now. We hated each other, like I'm not kidding." Lucas totally agrees, saying, "We did not get off on the right foot."

While things were rocky at first, they add that after filming wrapped, they warmed up to each other. Phew.

Now all we need is a Gabrielle and Troy reunion, obviously. Even though it seems unlikely considering the former couple are apparently no longer on speaking terms, we can keep dreaming, right?

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