Admit it: you have no idea what's going on and it's totally OK for now, but plan to get yourself together. It needs to happen at some point. Until then, just keep doing you, boo boo! Live for the moment and continue to binge watch Netflix. 

1. The question “Where do you see yourself in five years?” is getting to be really important, but you have no idea what you’re even going to do for dinner.

2. "Financial stability" means being able to fill up your gas tank all the way.

3. You like to live in the moment rather than plan ahead.

4. Thinking about your friend's engagement stresses the fuck out of you.

5. You've been in a rather long, committed relationship...with Netflix. You'd rather binge watch a show over anything else.

6. You have started to second guess everything—your major, your job, life.

7. You spend money faster than you make it.

8. You've perfected the art of self pity.

9. Everyone seems to have their lives together except you.

10. You finally realized that high school and college did not prepare you for anything.

11. You use the phrase "I'm so over it" at least once a week.

12. You still have to call your mom needing help with basically everything.

13. You have no idea how anyone can have a successful relationship.

14. You think everyone else is in the same boat as you.

Once we arrived at the end of the near four-hour Oscars telecast, I thought there weren't many surprises left in store, especially after La La Land was announced as Best Picture winner. But as the film's producers made their acceptance speeches, confusion erupted onstage. It turns out La La Land was mistakenly named the winner in this category when the actual winner was Moonlight.

I know what you're thinking. How did this happen? Well, it seems presenter Warren Beatty was given the wrong envelope. The one he received read, "Emma Stone, La La Land." So he announced La La Land as the Best Picture winner, although the top prize was meant for Moonlight.

Eventually, host Jimmy Kimmel intervened, and the Moonlight cast and crew came on stage to accept their award. 

Although this was an honest mistake, it was absolutely heartbreaking to watch. Maybe the Academy will honor Kimmel's suggestion and let both films take home statues?

Name: Rebecca Minkoff
Job Title and Description: Fashion Designer
Website: www.rebeccaminkoff.com
Twitter Handle: @RebeccaMinkoff
Instagram Handle: @rebeccaminkoff

What does your current job entail? Is there such thing as a typical day?

Rebecca Minkoff:  Each day is really different. I’d say no one day has ever been the same. I think that is goes from a design meeting to a PR meeting to planning a fashion show to then going to an event at the store, where we do a lot of female people speaking about entrepreneurship, and then other days is sitting in an apparel meeting or jewelry meeting or a technology meeting with a new tech partner. Some days we’re just talking about how to improve the stores. So I think what’s fun and exciting is that it’s always really different. 

What inspired you to start designing?

RM: I think the fact that I could have an idea for something and then literally make it; I think the power and confidence I felt being able to do that was really something that at the age of eight was really empowering and I got kind of hooked on it. 

What is the best part of your job? And the best part about designing for young women?

RM: I think there’s always a fun thing, like the opening of a box of your samples that you’ve been working on for a year to arrive. I think there’s the other side of meeting the customer and hearing all of the stories that are so personal to her about how excited she is to buy her first designer bag and the story that she has about it. As for the best part about designing for young women, I think that I started the company when I was the age of a college woman, so I think we try to freeze my mentality there. And so it’s like giving her something that makes her feel confident, unique, different, independent, and so to be able to help provide that to a college girl is exciting because that’s a very big turning point in a woman’s life. 

What do you look for when hiring someone?

RM: I look for someone who’s going to work their ass off. Someone who knows that success isn’t handed to anybody. That you really have to be focused and driven and be able to make your way through challenges and find solutions, and it’s really about the journey, not the pot of gold at the end. And enjoying that, and being able to work for it. And I think it starts with how they shake your hand, how they dress themselves and how they understand the brand. How they talk, do they look at you in the eye during the interview, how they follow-up. And then when they’re here, how they act and their work ethic. 

In your opinion, what are some unexpected ways that women can network in the fashion industry if they are not in it yet? 

RM: I mean, I think from the start, for instance, a great way to start is with Her Campus and any other women's networks that exist on campuses. I think that is a great place to begin. I also think that if you have an internship, really diving into that. If you can get access to the founders of the company and ask them how they could do a better job or if there are groups at the company that could be a part of, or sit in on a meeting. If you’re studying fashion, sit in on a customer service meeting or sit in on a logistics meeting, and really start understanding how the whole kind of ecosystem works together. 

So that happened. The 2017 Oscars took us for a bit of a ride Sunday night, but between busloads of unknowing tourists and acceptance speeches that will make the history books, we still found a way to notice one of our favorite parts of Awards season: red carpet fashion. Here are 19 celebs whose gowns made us believe in fairytales all over again.

1. Isabelle Huppert 

Huppert's ombré glitter dress is the perfect way to add some sparkle to a look, without committing to a full-fledged sequin gown.

2. Emma Roberts 

Steal Roberts' look by pairing a casual black bralette, like this one ($20 at Aerie) with your favorite flowy skirt.

3. Halle Berry

Berry is a fashion goddess in Versace.

4. Felicity Jones

Tulle dresses are the perfect way to look grown-up while still feeling like you're donning a princess costume. Try this one ($175 at Modcloth) for similar results.

5. Leslie Mann

Am I the only one getting serious Belle, from Beauty and the Beast, vibes from Mann's dress? Make sure you check out the movie on March 17.

6. Chrissy Teigen

Is there any recent best dressed list that Teigen hasn't been on?

7. Karlie Kloss

Snaps for Kloss for showcasing her blue ribbon to show that she stands in solidarity with the American Civil Liberties Union.

8. Jessica Biel

Biel is blinding in this stunning gold gown. Her ensemble shows us that we shouldn't be afraid to pair loud accessories with an equally showstopping dress. 

9. Janelle Monáe

Every part of this dress is absolutely stunning. Monáe is sporting a true work of art, and I'm not sure if I'm ever going to recover from my jaw dropping when I saw her. 

10. Taraji P. Henson

A simple dress with a big leg slit has become a staple at almost every red carpet. Henson stands out from the rest with the stunning jewelry she paired with the blue velvet number.

11. Emma Stone 

Emma glows in a classic Hollywood starlet dress. She brings a fresh twist to the tried-and-true 1920s style with a modern update to a simplistic makeup look.

12. Sofia Boutella

This mermaid gown is the prom dress of my dreams. It really is a shame that we don't have prom in college... Formal, anyone?

13. Priyanka Chopra

You can rock a geometric print like Chopra in a more casual setting with this similar-patterned, shorter dress ($75.50 at ASOS).

14. Scarlett Johanson

ScarJo hung up her badass Black Widow outfit, and opted for a floral dress that's perfect for spring!

15. Zuri Hall 

This dress is absolutely beautifu—I just hope that there's someone taking care of that train. If Hall is any bit as clumsy as me, the purple extension would be stained within minutes! 

16. Stacy London

The host of What Not To Wear took to the red carpet to show us how it's done! I love the fun clutch!

17. Viola Davis

Viola made us all cry with her poignant speech AND made a statement by outshining the red carpet in her candy red gown.

18. Hailee Steinfeld

*takes deep breaths*

19. Amy Schumer 

Here's to hoping that Schumer found something to wear before she was set to head down the red carpet. If not, could we see duvets as the next trend of 2017? I'm—ahem—down with that.

If there’s one thing that college students need, but don’t get enough of, it’s “me” time. “Me” time is obligation-free time to focus on whatever it is that makes you happy, even if that means vegging out on Netflix and focusing on nothing at all! It’s easy to get caught up in scheduling out every second of your free time in the name of productivity, but this can become emotionally taxing and lead to burnout. Our generation is so obsessed with the idea of having it all—with a full social calendar, stellar grades, an enviable internship and anything else that could be verifiably followed by the #goals tag—that we often glorify the exhausting pursuit of these goals by talking about how little sleep we’ve gotten or the fact that we haven’t had time to eat all day. Chronic sleep deprivation, a lack of free time and even neglecting our mental health have strangely become badges of "validation" in the competition to prove to ourselves and to others that we are trying hard enough. But it’s time for a reality check. Running ourselves ragged isn’t admirable—it’s unhealthy. We end up cheating ourselves of focus and efficiency, but more importantly, our self-love tends to suffer, too.

Related: 6 Things You’re Doing That are Jeopardizing Your Mental Health

It may seem counterproductive, but taking even an hour or two of the time you’re spending on everything but yourself each week and turning that into “me” time to improve your relationship with yourself can actually help you get more done during the rest of the week. These are just a few ways that practicing self-love will pay dividends in the rest of your life.

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1. You'll be more sure of yourself

Having some time to yourself gives you the chance to think over the week’s events and process your reactions to them. This can be hard to do in the presence of your roommate, your SO or your squad, who likely all have opinions about the goings-on in your life. When you’re constantly surrounded by people, you can sometimes end up letting their opinions of what’s best for you sway how you really feel. Or worse, you end up so consumed by talking your loved ones through what’s going on in their lives that you undermine the significance of what’s happening in yours. “Me” time is essential to figuring out what might be in your best interest when you’re feeling conflicted.

Catherine Lowe, a junior at Winthrop University, has spent the past four years purposefully staying out of serious relationships to get to know herself and to better be able to make decisions about what’s best for herself during tough times. “I strongly believe that having a relationship with yourself is the most important relationship anybody can have. If you don't know who you are as your own person, who will you be when you're dating someone? I've figured out what works best for me, and I have also grown as a person because of it,” she says.

While staying out of relationships may not be for everyone, there’s something to be said for taking the time to develop a strong sense of self and reaping the benefits of knowing you can “do you” when facing big decisions—like changing your major, accepting a job offer or even getting into a new relationship.

2. Your other relationships will improve

As counterintuitive as it sounds, we swear it’s true! Julie Zielinger, renowned feminist blogger and author of College 101: A Girl’s Guide to Freshman Year explains, “Self love is crucial because it (perhaps deceptively) improves one's relationships with others. When you have a strong sense of who you are and your own value, you're less likely to allow others to negatively influence you. Conversely, feeling that your self-conception is entirely at the mercy of others is completely disempowering and prohibits your ability to realize your full potential.”

Not taking “me” time can also inhibit your ability to manage stress and anxiety. If you don't take the time to check in with yourself every now and then, these feelings can fester and you can end up lashing out at your loved ones when you don't mean to.

Amber Layfield, a senior at Appalachian State, learned this the hard way when she realized that the effects of not making time for herself resulted in poor stress management, which was damaging to her relationship with her best friend. "There were a few months when my best friend and I didn't speak because I had become so unpleasant towards her and towards myself, and until I was able to be alone for a while, I didn't see how I was just ruminating and overthinking the bad things,” she says. While Amber was able to repair her friendship, making that time for yourself will help facilitate clearer communication with your loved ones and help you avoid putting your most important relationships at risk in the first place.

3. You’ll be more productive

We've all been on the end-of-the-semester struggle bus, when you can't help but have an IDGAF outlook on everything from your grades to club meetings you used to look forward to. You don't actually mean you don't care, but the burnout is real. Instead of trying to force yourself to study for hours on end (only to inevitably end up browsing your Twitter feed absentmindedly), take one hour to nurture yourself and help you reset.

Health and wellness expert and lifestyle coach Peggy Hall agrees that setting boundaries for your personal time empowers you to do more and be more successful without sacrificing your well-being. "Instead of just studying or writing that paper ‘until you finish,’ set a stopping time—and trust me, you will be more productive! Set your own boundaries in terms of what you are willing to do. Decide how much of your life you're willing to give away to those things.”

Remember that just because you’re limiting how much of yourself you give, does not mean you’re limiting your potential, you’re actually enhancing it! You can do more by doing less and that’s nothing to feel guilty about.

4. You’ll learn to prioritize

If you already have a number of obligations that are stressing you out, you may be wondering how to not feel exceedingly overwhelmed each time a deadline creeps closer on the calendar. The first step is to distance yourself from the situation that's stressing you out, even if only for a half hour. When you come back you'll be able to evaluate the situation with much more clarity.

Erica Maybaum, a junior at Boston University, couldn't agree more. "I am a huge proponent of ‘me’ time, especially because I have way too many things going on and sometimes forget to even breathe," she says.

Once you're in a better frame of mind, Hall describes how you can shift your perspective and take control of the deadlines you feel are running you into the ground. "Instead of saying, ‘I HAVE to do x, y, z’ think and say the words, 'I get to …'.  What happens when you use these words is you go from being helpless to powerful, because in fact you have chosen [what] you are spending your precious time and energy on.” Even though it sometimes feels like your schedule runs you, use Hall’s advice to remind yourself that you are, in fact, in charge.

Zielinger also stresses the importance of choosing to spend your time and energy on a select number of commitments that really matter to you, rather than overwhelming yourself by trying to have it all. "I think it's more beneficial personally, professionally and academically to focus on doing one or a few things well rather than trying to do everything. So many women feel that ‘success’ is about quantity rather than quality, but I've always found the opposite and would advise young women to prioritize what makes them happiest and most fulfilled," she says.

Sometimes we end up taking on responsibilities that we don't even want, just out of concern for what other people will think of us. Take a few minutes of “me” time right now to think about if you're really, truly happy with all of your commitments and if you're in them for the right reasons (trust us, this article isn't going anywhere!). If it's not making you happy, you should probably think about ditching it ASAP.

5. You’ll be happier

All of these little improvements that practicing self-love will make in your life add up to one big one: your happiness! Making time to love yourself will keep you grounded and in touch with what really matters the most in your life.

Not quite sure how to find your happy place? Zielinger has a few suggestions. "I think stress release is a different experience for everyone, but should revolve around regularly doing something that feels indulgent—whether that's shirking all responsibilities to binge-watch a TV show, to bake something delicious or have a night out with your friends," she says.

Like Zielinger says, stress release is different for everyone. Erica, for example, finds her happy place alone. "On Sundays I actually do something where I take myself on a little date. As silly as it sounds, it is the absolute best part of my week! I basically go [out] and explore the city, eat at a fun restaurant or even have an at-home spa day. I have a habit of getting lost in relationships, so this is a great way to keep myself grounded and, more importantly, a great reminder that I must always love myself first."

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It's so easy to get wrapped up in your friend group, your SO, grades or a new job, and taking time for yourself can seem frivolous (if not impossible). But it's important to remember that college is a time for finding yourself. How can you do that if you don't make the time? Maybe give up some of the bragging rights of doing it all and having it all in favor of doing what makes you happy.

"Risk being ordinary," says Hall. "Perfectionism is one of the fastest ways to keep you from living a full, balanced life. Sometimes good is good enough, and if you are spending time trying to prepare your meals so they are Instagram worthy, or redoing your hairstyle and makeup until it's ‘just right’ before you leave the house, or dissing yourself because you did only 20 minutes on the treadmill instead of 45, then you are creating a recipe for disaster. Cut yourself some slack and take on this mantra: ‘I don't have to be perfect to be a success.’ Take it from someone who could not sleep until all her clothes were hanging (color-coded) in the closet in the same direction. Good is often good enough."

If you're unhappy, chances are you're living by someone else's idea of having it all. Think about what it really means for you to love yourself, and remember: you are good enough. 

If you are the type of girl that sees pictures of celebrities at Coachella and immediately wants every single piece of clothing on their bodies to appear in your closet, then you are in love with boho style. And who could blame you? Fringe, lace and flower crowns are so charming and free-spirited! Here are seven stores you must check out if you are a boho babe.

There were plenty of noteworthy moments during the 2017 Oscars. But the day after, we're all only talking about that one major moment: when Warren Beatty and Faye Dunaway mistakenly announcedLa La Land as the Best Picture winner though Moonlight was the actual winner.

It was embarrassing and shocking, but most of all, it was confusing AF. Chatter about what exactly caused the snafu has been rampant, and now we're finally getting some answers. 

Emma Stone told the press room that she still had her winning card for Best Actress in her hand as the Best Picture scene unfolded. While this cast doubt on Beatty's claim that he received the card for Best Actress rather than Best Picture, it was later confirmed that two sets of envelopes for each category were printed, for security reasons. So Beatty and Dunaway were indeed given the wrong envelope.

According to Vanity Fair's live reports from backstage at the Dolby Theatre, Beatty made it his mission to ensure no one touched the card before Moonlight director Barry Jenkins could see it for himself. Dunaway was reportedly less worried about the mix-up, munching on cashews backstage immediately after the melodrama played out.

Early this morning, accounting firm PricewaterhouseCoopers, who handles the Oscars envelopes, took full responsibility, issuing this statement. "We sincerely apologize to Moonlight, La La Land, Warren Beatty, Faye Dunaway, and Oscar viewers for the error that was made during the award announcement for Best Picture. The presenters had mistakenly been given the wrong category envelope and when discovered, was immediately corrected. We are currently investigating how this could have happened, and deeply regret that this occurred. We appreciate the grace with which the nominees, the Academy, ABC, and Jimmy Kimmel handled the situation."

The parties involved in both films were extremely gracious following the flub. La La Land producer Jordan Horowitz made sure the error was corrected as soon as he realized what was happening, something Jenkins later praised him for.

We may never know the full story behind this epic fail, but it's definitely a moment that will go down in Oscars history.

I don't follow many celebrities on social media (mostly because I think they post way too much and I don't like being jealous of their lives), but there's one that I do: Chrissy Teigen. If you've ever seen any of her snapchats, then you know that she is basically #lifegoals and I want to be like her in every single way. After seeing her stun at the Oscars last night, this wish was confirmed: 

If that's not goals, then I don't know what goals are. Also, how cute are Chrissy and hubby John Legend?? I mean, come on already, give us plain mortals a break! 

One of the reasons Chrissy looked so fly was thanks to her hairstylist, Jen Atkin, a celebrity stylist and founder of OUAI Haircare. With just a few steps and a couple of products, normal people like me can be transformed into a goddess just like Chrissy.

Get this effortlessly sexy look in just a few steps:

1. Prep damp hair with a wave spray through the ends and volumizing spray at the roots. Jen recommends the OUAI Wave Spray ($26), but the look can easily be created with brands you can find in your local drugstore, such as L'Oréal Tousle Waves Spray ($4.99).

2. Use a round brush to blow out hair, focusing the blow dryer around the face to create even more volume.

3. Spray OUAI Texturizing Hair Spray ($26) or Garnier Texture Tease Spray ($4.49) from roots to ends for added texture.

4. Lightly curl the ends of your hair for a soft, romantic look.

5. Twist hair into a chignon at the nape of your neck and use bobby pins to secure in place, letting pieces fall around your face (that's where the effortless-looking part comes in!!)

6. Finish with your favorite hairspray!

And voilà, sexy goddess model hair. So, I realize that I may never be as perfect as Chrissy IRL, but I can have the same hair as her, so I'll take it.

Serena van der Woodsen and Dan Humphrey may be married in the Gossip Girl universe, but their portrayers have long since moved on from their off-screen relationship. Lively is of course married to Ryan Reynolds. And surprise! Badgley is taken, too.

E! News confirms that Badgley married Domino Kirke at a Brooklyn courthouse this afternoon. Yes, there is an adorable pic floating around on Insta to prove it. 

As is the Gossip Girl cast's tradition, the duo married in a secret ceremony, with only a few friends and family members in attendance. According to Us Weekly, Domino—who is the sister of Girls' actress Jemima Kirke—and Penn have been dating since 2014. 

We wish nothing but the best for the newlyweds! XOXO

If you're a broke-ass college student such as myself (if you're reading this, then there's a 95 percent chance that you are), then you understand the many struggles that come with this lifestyle: picking up alllll the shifts at work because rent is due next week, and eating peanut butter straight out of the jar because bread is too luxurious (and you have no money for grocery shopping). Which is why, when I learned that Christian Louboutin will soon begin selling eye makeup that costs more than my weekly grocery bill, I experienced a wide range of emotions:

1. Sadness

Wow, must be nice to be able to drop $70 on a tube of mascara. I didn't even buy my favorite wine last week because it wasn't on sale. Being poor SUCKS.

2. Rage

Wait, what the actual hell? Who spends that much money on makeup? There are starving children in the world! And people like me who sacrifice $8 wine to make ends meet! Where is the justice in the world?!?!

3. Confusion

...how? and why? Why do things cost so much? What is the meaning of life? Who are these people who spend this much on makeup? Why don't we use the barter system anymore? Why does money even exist? And how do I get more of it?

4. Frantic math computing

How many Chipotle burritos could I buy with that much money.....?

5. Justification

Well, if someone can spend $70 on mascara I shouldn't feel bad about spending $20 on lipstick, right? Right.

And finally,

6. Acceptance

Maybe when I have an actual full-time job and marry well (fingers crossed), I can afford to buy Louboutin makeup. Probably not, but honestly It's kind of ridiculous anyway, so who really cares? I'm just as happy with my $8 bottle of wine.

This year, Feb. 26 through March 4 is the 30th annual National Eating Disorder Awareness Week. Run by the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA), this week’s mission is to emphasize knowledge about eating disorders and help those who may be affected by them. As the NEDA’s website says, “It’s time we take eating disorders seriously as public health concerns…It’s time to take action and fight for change.”

To ensure that you get the most out of this week and learn something that can save yourself or a friend, we’ve compiled some facts about eating disorders and how you can learn even more about the fight to destroy the stigma surrounding them.

Eating disorders have the highest morality rate of any mental illness

According to NEDA, about 30 million Americans will experience an eating disorder at some point in their lives. But did you know that a lot of people—including health care professionals—don’t always see the signs of suffering from one? Because of this, NEDAwareness Week highlights that eating disorders are often related to other health issues like substance abuse, trauma and bullying. For example: 35 percent of people with a history of substance abuse have also experienced an eating disorder. Among women with bulimia, 38 to 44 percent have also suffered from post-traumatic stress disorder, while the majority of people with eating disorders are also inclined to experience psychiatric disorders like depression and OCD. If that’s not enough to convince you that eating disorders need to be taken seriously, we don’t know what is.

Getting past the stigma of eating disorders might be the hardest part of accepting treatment

“Eating disorders are life-threatening, bio-psycho-social illnesses that affect millions of people,” says Claire Mysko, CEO of NEDA, in a press release. “It’s time to talk about it, get beyond the stigma and stereotypes and recognize the diverse faces and experiences of people affected by disordered eating.” One of our favorite artists, Kesha, is the campaign’s spokesperson this year, having entered rehab for eating disorder treatment in 2014. She agrees with Mysko, saying, “We should all be proud of exactly who we are and, if you need help or know someone who does, NEDA is here.”

It may be difficult to speak up about this truth, but this week’s goal is to lower that worry and make others’ acceptance key to the treatment process.

You can help cause early detection and intervention of a disorder by using NEDA’s free screening system

The NEDA offers a confidential quiz for those wondering if they should start seeing professional help with their disorders. While it’s important to note that this doesn’t replace an official diagnosis, nearly 40,000 users were screened throughout the 2016 campaign, and organizers are expecting over 100,000 this year. Take the three-minute quiz to explain how you’ve been feeling lately—you'll receive explanations about what these moods could mean for your wellbeing. Results will also include information that further explains how you can find help.

Professional help is always available

NEDA offers a helpline phone number at 1-800-931-2237, and there’s constant conversation associated with the campaign’s hashtag, #NEDAwareness. Check out the organization’s Help & Resources page, where there’s options to chat live with someone, text a crisis line and find advice on how to help a loved one in this situation. No matter how uncertain you feel about seeking help, doing so will ultimately be a step in the right direction. With these kind of resources in mind, just remember that you are not alone in this fight.

Tune into the NEDA Week conversation online with the hashtag #NEDAwareness!

Ah, skincare— it’s super hard to stick to a routine, but we all want that clear, smooth skin we see on TV. So where can college girls find the balance? We talked to Dr. Kenneth Mark, a skin cancer and cosmetic dermatology expert, and collegiettes with experience to let you in on the skincare habits you can’t skip out on if you want flawless skin. Wash, rinse, repeat.

1. Take your makeup off before going to sleep

This may be something you hear all the time, but it’s so true! Sleeping in makeup causes dirt and residue to accumulate, leaving more room for problems. "It is essential to remove makeup, as by definition all makeup clogs pores," Dr. Mark says. "Over time the clogging of pores can and will cause blemishes, pimples and even cysts. At the minimum, it will cause unsightly dilated pores." None of that sounds fun!

Amanda Goecke, a junior at Carthage College, is trying to get into the habit of this. “Usually I'll come home at night and change into comfy clothes and become so tired that I don't even care that I'm going to bed in my makeup,” she says, “Sleeping in makeup isn't good!” She’s right; we all know the feeling of wanting to hop into bed with a full face of makeup on, but think twice. This could be where your issue lies.

2. Find products that work for you (and stick to them)

It may take some trial and error, but finding the right products for you is super important. "[The] most important would be a daily moisturizer with spf/sunscreen," Dr. Mark says. "Given stress and hormones that are also prevalent for collegians, it is a great idea to use a daily exfoliator even if it is just in your cleanser, such as Neutrogena acne wash which contains 2 percent salicylic acid. This exfoliates and has an anti-inflammatory effect on the formation of pimples."

Claire Biggerstaff, a sophomore at Davidson College and skincare goddess, says, “Consistency is key when taking care of your skin, and even if your routine is only two steps, you should do those everyday without fail.” If you have dry or irritable skin, you may need a lighter face wash. If you have oily skin, you’ll need to find products to accommodate that. Once you find products you love, there’s no turning back!

3. Drink a TON of water

Water is super important for your body and skin’s, health. "The skin is the largest organ in the body and as such its hydration is essential for optimum looks and performance," Dr. Mark says. No one wants dry or inflamed skin!

Lauryn Higgins, a first year graduate student at the University of Nebraska, Lincoln, finds this to be the easiest way to keep her skin glowing. “Fill up a water bottle before each class, and make sure you drink it all before your next,” she says. “And when drinking on the weekends, make sure you drink as many glasses of water of alcohol that you have!” When you’re hydrated, your skin is happy.

Related: How to Revive Dull, Dreary Winter Skin

4. Use an exfoliant and toner

Wondering what products you should be incorporating into your routine? "Another benefit of exfoliating on a consistent basis is that over time, the superficial stripping of the top layers of the epidermis sends signals to the dermis to produce more collagen and thus help prevent fine lines and wrinkles," Dr. Mark says. "A toner helps prepare the skin like a canvas for the application of other skin products including makeup." Our skincare guru Claire agrees that a light exfoliant and toner are a must.

“It can help to slough off dead skin, prevent blackheads, and keeps your skin’s pH in balance,” she says. Sounds good to us!

5. Moisturize daily

Keeping moisture locked into your skin is crucial, especially during the winter months. "Especially for those with oily skin and/or combination skin, the right moisturizer can actually help balance out the oil glands and help treat their acne," Dr. Mark says. "I have almost all of my acne patients use a custom formulation of vitamin B, zinc and aloe." There’s nothing worse than dry, cracked skin you can’t seem to heal!

“I have dry skin, so I need to moisturize after showers and washing my face, otherwise my skin becomes really dry and tight,” says Amanda. “Some of my friends, however, don't moisturize at all, and I think they're missing out on some really great benefits of moisturizers.” These benefits include hydrating your skin, preventing flaking and dullness and creating a protective layer of moisture that lasts all day.

6. Try a sheet mask

You know those moods when you just want to apply a facemask and relax? Next time, try a sheet mask for the perfect pick-me-up! “There are so many kinds to choose from, with different ones made for basically any skin care concern you could ever think of,” Claire says. “Ulta and Sephora now carry several brands of them (woo!).” Online shopping, anyone?

7. Check out different routines

If you’re really looking to amp up your skincare routine, Claire suggests looking into the 10-step Korean skincare routine. “It’s absolutely amazing, and I recommend it to anyone (it’s not as intensive as it sounds, I promise),” she says. If you have the money to spend, this may be worth it.

Now that you’re cued in on that skincare habits you need to start immediately, you can do some more research to find out what products will work best for you. If you still feel lost, schedule a visit with a dermatologist. Most importantly, keep your skin clean and moisturized, and you’ll be glowing in no time!

Well, Ariana Grande has done it again. And flawlessly, I might add. 

In her new music video for "Everyday," a song off her album Dangerous Woman, Ariana Grande shares the stage with Future, a rapper, and some super cute couples. Basically, the music video is strangers making out for three minutes and tbh, I am all for it. The video premiered on Sunday and if you have not seen it yet, you are in for a treat. Watch below. 

If you thought Beyoncé's pregnancy announcement couldn't get any better, then prepare to have your mind blown. 

Just like the rest of us mortals, makeup artist Jazmina Daniel fell in love with Beyoncé's twin announcement that happened just a few weeks ago. So much in fact that she turned it into a stunning piece of lip art using dozens of Jeffree Star lipsticks. 

I mean, like what? This is incredible. How did this even come to be, you might ask? Well, according to Refinery29, this was no easy task for Daniel with the whole look taking over four hours. Can you even imagine? 

But in all seriousness, I want this to be my next date night look. 

Sorry to tell you, world, but your favorite 'Bachelor' leading lady has officially left the building. Or mansion. Whatever, either way, Corinne is gone. 

After a whole season of boob jokes, naps, and ~actually~ eating on camera, Nick let go of the queen of confrontation in tonight's episode of "The Bachelor" and tbh, it's actually really sad. And believe it or not, it's not just me who thinks that. Here are 9 of the best tweets that came out of Corinne's departure. 

Miss you already, C. 

This season of The Bachelorhad so much potential at its start. We thought that maybe—just maybe—longtime Bachelor Nation contestant Nick Viall would find love and we wouldn’t have to deal with feeling sorry for him anymore. Hmm, remember what that felt like?

Now with hometown dates out of the way, there’s still no clear frontrunner for Nick’s heart. Our Bachelor has proven to be pretty indecisive when it comes to finding love, perhaps explaining why he’s taken this long to end up with the right person. We could probably write an essay on why this is incredibly annoying, but instead we chose to break down the reasons why we’re so over this Bachelor season.

1. Rachel is still in the running, but now we know she has plans to be the farthest thing from Nick’s fiancée.

Come on, ABC. You made the right pick for the next Bachelorette, but did you have to announce the decision when Rachel was still on the show? Spoilers aren’t cool.

2. Nick is really, really awkward.

From avoiding eye contact with cameras and the ladies to general cringe-worthy moments, Nick is not exactly the suave Bachelor of our dreams.

3. Not to mention that he has the personality of a stick.

He’s definitely up there as one of the dullest Bachelors yet.

4. Plus, he turned us off early on thanks to the Liz fiasco.

Nick handled what could have been a huge deal quite timidly, and seeing mature yet boring decisions unfold isn’t the reason why we watch The Bachelor.

5. He’s yet to prove that his time within Bachelor Nation made him more prepared for this than usual Bachelors.

Luke Pell would’ve been much better, tbh.

6. This season might as well have been “The Corinne Show.”

Who doesn’t force themselves to tune in just for Corinne’s one-liners? We’re surprised she made it so far in the show before finally going home—could Nick have kept her around because he thought Corinne and Raquel are a package deal?

7. Worthier girls were sent home in favor of Corinne’s shenanigans.

I’m still Team Danielle M., just saying.

8. But there were contestants that we just couldn’t handle, like the very confused Alexis.

We should have taken this as a warning for how off-point this season would be.

9. The show STILL waits until the next episode to air rose ceremonies.

Episodes have usually ended with cliffhangers rather than elimination ceremonies for a few seasons now, and we’re still not used to it. Doesn’t everyone else forget what went down on last week’s episode?

10. These women are way too good to end up with Nick.

A recurring theme of hometown visits was the women struggling to explain Nick’s career to their families. He used to be a software salesman and now apparently runs a men’s grooming business, but these girls’ parents just weren’t having it. If that’s not a warning sign, what is?

11. There’s even more unnecessary drama than usual.

On a scale of 1 to 10, how insignificant was former Bachelorette Andi’s surprise appearance?

12. Nick’s little sister is on Round 3 as a selling point for marrying him.

Poor Bella. Hopefully this is the last time she and the rest of the Vialls have to pretend they’re okay with Nick finding love this way.

13. We’re fed up with bland Bachelors overall.

Was Ben Higgins any more entertaining than Nick has been? (No. Definitely no.)

14. Given the historic nature of Rachel’s new position, all we want to see is The Bachelorette.

It’s hard to still care about Nick when we just want to start rooting on Rachel’s journey to love.

15. The sooner Nick is off our TVs, the better.

We seriously just can’t even.

If you watched the Oscars last night then you probably are still recovering from some secondhand embarrassment with the whole "Moonlight"/"La La Land" mishap. I mean, I know I'm still cringing. 

One person who is not stressing over the situation but has basically taken the blame for EVERYTHING, is Donald Trump. Yup, the President of the United States.

In an exclusive interview with Breitbart, Trump said that the mishap probably happened because "they were focused so hard on politics that they didn’t get the act together at the end" and that "something special was missing," according to Bustle. Yeah, because that makes sense. 

The full interview has yet to be released yet but Bustle reports that Trump also discussed healthcare and taxes. Priorities, man. 

I think we can generally agree that oral sex is one of the best things you can do with your partner, but also a total struggle. When you're hyper focused on pleasing yourself and your SO while simultaneously trying to be not awkward for once in your life, oral sex can become a juggling act that’s so hectic and overthought that it sucks (lol) all the pleasure away.

Whether it’s penis or vagina, we have some oral sex tips up our sleeves that will *blow* you away. We’ll help you get educated on everything about giving and getting head, and talk you through the awkward parts. Let’s just say that after we’re done, you’re going to be next level.

Giving

Penis

1. Protection

Robyn Berry, a staff member at Planned Parenthood in San Luis Obispo, has the full scoop on keeping your mouth and their genitals nice and protected. “First make sure both you and your partner have no sexually transmitted infections, and get tested regularly every few months,” she says. “Oral sex is relatively low risk if there’s some sort of barrier involved, but the best things to use are condoms or Sheer Glyde dental dams.”

To use protection, have your partner wear a condom or place the dental dam over their penis. You can go along pleasuring each other like usual, but the barrier will prevent harmful bodily fluids from being transferred between you two. If you’re not a fan of the latex taste, try a flavored condom! We recommend browsing babeland.com for your favorite flavor, because their lubricant is water based and won’t give you a yeast infection if you use it for vaginal sex later.

It may seem lame AF to use protection for oral sex, but also, why wouldn’t you? When all the stress of risk is alleviated, you can relax and feel sexy instead of being worried that something bad will happen. Plus, using a condom or dental dam doesn’t take away any of the feelings of pleasure.  

2. How to give a blowjob

The key to giving an out of this world blowjob is knowing all the hot spots that make your partner tick. You should definitely ask your partner first what they prefer, but we also have a few pointers for you too.

First off, remember that even though it’s called a blowjob, you still want to be using your hands in tandem with your mouth. Using your hands to cover the parts of your partner’s shaft that your mouth can’t reach is going to make them feel full and out of their mind with pleasure, almost as if you’re deep-throating them. Another part you don’t want to ignore is their testicles. Playing with their balls while you’re sucking and putting some pressure on their perineum (the space between the testicles and butt) will have bae coming faster than you imagine.

Also, please remember that you have teeth, and unless your partner asks you to, you can just put those babies away. That should be blowjob tip number one.

Ariana*, a senior at Pennsylvania State University, shares her boyfriend’s hot spot. “The thing that makes my boyfriend really crazy is when I stick my tongue in his meatus-hold which is the tiny hole in the tip of the penis,” she says. “Works every time!”

She also has an incredible fake deep-throating tip to share. “I stick my tongue to the roof of my mouth and just go down until he hits the back of the underside of my tongue,” she says. "He says it feel like I’m deep throating him, and I never gag, so it works for both of us! The only thing is being careful not to get toothy with your bottom teeth or this could easily backfire.”

Before touching your partner anywhere new for the first time, make sure to ask their consent. Experimenting and trying new things during oral sex is something you should do regularly to keep your sex life fresh, but always double check what your partner is and isn’t comfortable with.

Vulva

1. Protection

For cunnilingus, you’ll need to place a dental dam over your partner’s vuvla to act as a barrier between any harmful bodily fluids and your mouth. For extra fun, use a water or silicon based lube which will not only keep the dam from breaking, but you’ll get a yummy flavor. Again, we recommend bableand.com because their lube does not contain harmful sugars that may cause a yeast infection.

If you want to learn more about STDs and how to have safe sex aside beyond oral, this video by Planned Parenthood is extra helpful.

2. How to go down

Umm, hello clitoris? Your partner will tell you what feels good, but when eating out there’s a few main tips you should follow. Most of what you should be doing is licking and sucking their labia and clitoris, even penetrating with your tongue if that feels good for your partner. Spend some extra time targeting their clitoris and playing with their nipples. Don’t forget to use your hands in this instance too, because getting fingered in tandem with mouth action is the best feeling ever.

Emma*, a junior at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, definitely knows how to please! “My girlfriend’s favorite thing is teasing,” she says. “For us, oral sex is usually just foreplay but it’s honestly the best part of the sex. If you gently run your fingers up and down her labia but don’t really go for it right away, then all of a sudden just go crazy with your tongue on her clit, you’ll win. You’ll just win.”

Alright ladies, off to the races!

Come to terms with the less pleasant

Maybe oral sex isn’t always sexy from your end. Bodily fluids are weird, there are down-there smells you’ve never encountered before and it’s easy to get caught up in the fact that you’re putting your mouth all over the thing your partner pees out of.

Even though oral sex may on the surface seem gross or dirty, this intimate time with your partner should never be an act of martyrdom on your part. Treating it like a job or an unappealing activity you must do as part of your relationship is only going to make it worse. Remember that a body is a body, and it isn’t going to be smell like a Yankee candle or taste like vanilla ice cream. Appreciate your partner for their humanness, and getting lost in their pleasure and yours will keep your mind from getting hung up on anything yucky.

If you’re continually grossed out and want to avoid the situation at all costs, that’s a strong indicator you aren’t comfortable having oral sex. If that sounds like you,Scarleteen can help you explore your readiness. While you may be trying to pleasure your partner, we also want our collegiettes feeling good emotionally, because you shouldn’t have to sacrifice your own comfortability to make your partner happy.

Related:6 Things Everyone Is Insecure About When It Comes to Sex

Receiving

Communicate

You know what’s not fun at all? When two people try to have oral sex but neither has voiced their opinion about what they want and everyone is fumbling around feeling hella awkward and nervous. Don’t be that person. If the thought of your partner sticking their tongue inside you repulses you, then say it. Put on your big girl panties and have a talk with them about what gets you wet and how to make you cum. Talk about any boundaries you have, and make sure to listen to your partner too. Communication is key for receiving oral sex.

“Make sure you feel safe and comfortable with the person,” says Ashley Drayton, a Georgia State University alumna. “Having that comfort will make you feel less awkward and nervous. You should also tell each other what you like and don’t like, but ultimately if both parties are comfortable and passionate about pleasing each other, then it will be amazing.”

Let’s be honest, talking about sex can be a lot harder than actually having sex. It’s nerve-wracking to open up about your desires and make yourself vulnerable. However, communication is a hundred percent necessary, both for you to give consent about where your partner can touch you, and also because deep down we both know you want a good orgasm out of this. Keep in mind that when you do talk about it, you shouldn’t be criticizing your partner’s performance. It should be a mutual conversation, and if your partner isn’t okay taking any guidance, then leave them in the dust.

The last aspect of communication we want to touch on is that it’s okay for you to ask for oral sex! If you're dying for your partner to spend some time eating you out, just tell them and we guarantee they’ll be so turned on by how confident and ready you are.

Related:How To Tell If You’re Having Good Sex

Relax

We cannot stress this enough. Your vagina does not smell weird. You are a sexual goddess. You are Beyoncé. You do not have to feel insecure with your body or overthink whether or not your partner is actually enjoying eating you out.

However good a time you might have performing oral sex on your partner, it’s different when the tables are turned. It’s easy to get caught up in worrying if your partner is totally grossed out by you, and being so insecure and self-conscious is distracting you from the waves of pleasure your partner is giving you. The key to receiving oral sex is finding beauty in who you are, loving your woman self and realizing that your partner wouldn’t be giving you head if they weren’t totally in to you.

Danielle*, a junior at Kent State University, shares her experience with overthinking during oral sex. “I’m super shy naturally, so during oral sex my performance anxiety is off the charts,” she says. “I’m always worried about being awkward or not coming, but throughout college I’ve learned that it’s actually a really amazing experience if you can quiet thoughts about your body being gross or having insecure feelings.”

To truly relax and enjoy oral sex without letting negative thoughts creep in, spend some time getting to know your genitalia so you can trust in your body. Clean it by bathing regularly, and definitely don’t douche because it throws off your pH balance. Masturbate and get to know and love your vagina, because that’s pretty much what your partner is experiencing. Getting used to yourself down there and knowing exactly how you are should eliminate some insecurity that your vulva is some kind of gross monster.

Next, find some acceptance. Oral sex isn’t going to be perfect, clean and end in an orgasm every time, and there shouldn’t be that expectation. It’s okay if your partner eating you out doesn’t make you come, and it’s okay if you’re quiet or loud or shy or riding their face. Oral sex is, at its core, a time dedicated to pleasure and to grow in intimacy and connection with your partner.

Cherish it for its imperfections and awkwardness, and you’ll be enjoying yourself more in no time.

*Name has been changed

The inevitable happened on tonight’s episode of The Bachelor—Nick sent Corinne home. She didn’t take it well, and neither did the majority of America. Tbh, we all reacted this way.

I slept through Andi and Nick’s convo, so I almost missed the rose ceremony

When I thought Nick might not give Corinne the rose

When he didn’t give Corinne the rose

When Corinne and Nick were saying a tearful goodbye

When she left and the show instantly got boring

And then I realized this is not the last we’ll see of Corinne

Hello, Paradise!

Your spring break will only be as good as the posse you have with you. Whether you’re hitting up a party hot spot, going abroad or planning a staycation in town, these are the friends you’re going to be eating, drinking, sleeping, shopping and doing everything with for a week. For optimal spring break fun, we’ve got a list of every type of friend you need by your side as you take on a week of freedom.

1. The Guy Magnet

You know the friend we’re talking about: the girl who, no matter where she goes, attracts a flock of men to her side. Her magnetism isn’t just uncanny, it’s a dang superpower, and it makes her the perfect ally to have on your vacay. The Guy Magnet will ensure a potential spring break fling is always in your radius. With all the fun there is to be had on spring break, the less time you spend seeking out guys—and the more The Guy Magnet’s hotness draws them to you instead—the better!

The Guy Magnet’s catchphrase:“Will there be guys there?”

Extra perk: Free drinks. You know guys are always tripping over themselves to treat The Guy Magnet and her posse to refreshments on them!

2. The Wingwoman

Sure, The Guy Magnet will attract the guys, but The Wingwoman will help you land one. A dedicated partner in crime will help you work the bar if you need it and make your spring-break flirting game 10 times better. Not only will having someone you’re in sync with add more tricks to your flirting arsenal, but let’s be real: teaming up to score is always more fun than going at it alone. Just be sure you help her get some, too.

The Wingwoman’s catchphrase:“Which guy do you want?”

Extra perk: Your wingwoman knows your taste, so you might meet someone you’ll like as more than just a weeklong fling.

3. The Photog

Let’s be real: The Photog is a blessing any time of the year, but when you have a friend who is on it when it comes to capturing your Kodak moments, she’s a necessary addition to any spring break group. She’ll be the one snapping candids, reminding you to pose at touristy stops and juggling her iPhone and DSLR on every outing. Sometimes her constant need to document everything might get on your nerves (why does she need a picture of you guys brushing your teeth, anyway?), but you know you secretly appreciate it, especially when it comes time for a new prof pic. So smile, say cheese and let the magic happen!

The Photog’s catchphrase:“Don’t worry; I’ll put them all on Facebook.”

Extra perk: She knows all your best angles—and gets those Insta-worthy candid shots!

4. The Planner

Spring break may be about letting loose and getting wild, but that doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be a little method to your madness, so make sure someone in your group doesn’t mind taking the reins on the planning. The Planner will know which hot spots to hit up, where the party’s at and where to stop to refuel, so you and your friends can spend less time saying, “I don’t know, what do you wanna do?” and more time enjoying the locale. Not to mention, she’s probably the one who put your trip into motion in the first place, so you know you’re in good hands.  

The Planner’s catchphrase:“I read about this great place on Yelp!”

Extra perk: With how much time she spent on TripAdvisor pre-vacation, you know you’ll never get lost.

5. The Risk-Taker

To balance out The Planner, see to it that your crew includes a Risk-Taker to infuse some spontaneity into your trip and encourage you to break out of your shell. She’ll be the one dragging you into crazy clubs, past “Do Not Enter” signs or out for a late-night skinny-dip in the ocean. Every girl needs a friend who will drag you to places crazy and unknown – chances are, her spur-of-the-moment suggestions will lead to nights you won’t forget. Be careful not to let things get too wild, though; you don’t want to wind up reenacting Spring Breakers.

The Risk-Taker’s catchphrase:“What’s the worst that could happen?”

Extra perk: You’ll have stories to tell your friends back home for months.

6. The Hipster

Sure, sometimes you might giggle at her underground taste, but if you’re taking on a particularly touristy city, you’ll be thankful for someone who can drag you away from the mainstream. The Hipster will know off-the-wall places for your group to grab a breather: quirky shops; hip, vegan restaurants; bars that won’t be packed wall-to-wall with sweaty spring breakers. You know, the kind of places no one in their right mind would think to go to on spring break, but you’ll be so glad you did.

The Hipster’s catchphrase:“You probably haven’t heard of it.”

Extra perk: Street cred. Hey, don’t lie: you’ll be passing off her suggestions as your own some day.

7. The Mother Hen

Admittedly, sometimes spring break can get a little wild, so having The Mother Hen around to ensure you don’t go too hard means a safer spring break for everyone. She’ll play the necessary role in making you guys get back to your hotel in one piece every night and giving her stamp of approval for your spring-break flings. Even if it’s just a girl to hold back your hair during a particularly rough hangover, you’ll be thankful you’ve got a dash of responsibility on your team. Just make sure you watch out for yourself and keep it classy so she doesn’t have to be your babysitter, too.

The Mother Hen’s catchphrase:“You doing okay?”

Extra perk: If your spring break plans include a car, you’ll probably get a designated driver out of your Mother Hen, too. Here’s to saving money on cab fare!

8. The Guy

Don’t be afraid to bring your guy friends along on your trip, too! A little testosterone is rarely a bad thing, and you never know when you might need a fake boyfriend to swoop in and scare off a pushy local. Whether you bring a Frat Star to show you how to do a keg stand, a Gay BFF to enjoy the sights and go dancing with or a Single Guy to play matchmaker for, having a guy around will add a new dynamic to any spring break crew.

The Guy’s catchphrase: No matter what it was pre-spring break, it’s definitely going to be “I need some guy time” when you get home.

Extra perk: He can put his brawn to use and clear the path for you and your friends at any crowded party.  

9. The Friend of a Friend

Who says you need to be tight with everyone on your spring vacation? Encourage your group to draft their own friends into your plans to spice up your normal group dynamic. They don’t say “The more, the merrier” for nothing, right?

The Friend of a Friend’s catchphrase: Well, you’ll just have to wait to find out, won’t you?

Extra perk: You might get a new friend out of it!

No need to worry if you don’t have a friend who fits nicely into each role; you’ll probably have them all covered without even realizing it! Your Guy Magnet might also be your Wingwoman, your Guy also your Photog. Not to mention, you’re probably one of the above, too. All that’s left to do is take inventory, round up your crew and hit the road. Happy spring break, collegiettes!