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Is Bella Hadid's Latest Instagram Her Response to Her Ex The Weeknd's New Relationship?

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As is to be expected when your ex starts dating someone new, Bella Hadid has already made it pretty clear that she isn't exactly thrilled about Selena Gomez and The Weeknd's new relationship. After already unfollowing Selena on Insta and posting a sexy mirror selfie immediately after Selena did earlier this week, her latest Instagram might be the least subtle clue she's given us so far about how she's feeling.

The model posted a photo of herself flipping off the paparazzi while she was out and about in New York City earlier this week - clad in a badass outfit of a Harley-Davidson denim vest and black hoodie no less. With comments like, "Shots fired," and "Hahahah i see you bella," pouring in from her followers, it's clear many of them got the message too.

 

A photo posted by Bella Hadid (@bellahadid) on

 

According to E!, a source close to Bella has also confirmed that she's not too happy to see the new couple together. ""She is actually not over The Weeknd. She still loves him," the source told E!. "They are on fine terms, but she is bitter about the romance with Selena. She was not happy when all of that gossip went everywhere between The Weeknd and Selena." 

We feel you, Bella. Here's hoping she bounces back soon.


Is Bella Hadid's Latest Instagram a Response to Her Ex The Weeknd's New Relationship?

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As is to be expected when your ex starts dating someone new, Bella Hadid has already made it pretty clear that she isn't exactly thrilled about Selena Gomez and The Weeknd's new relationship. After already unfollowing Selena on Insta and posting a sexy mirror selfie immediately after Selena did earlier this week, her latest Instagram might be the least subtle clue she's given us so far about how she's feeling.

The model posted a photo of herself flipping off the paparazzi while she was out and about in New York City earlier this week - clad in a badass outfit of a Harley-Davidson denim vest and black hoodie no less. With comments like, "Shots fired," and "Hahahah i see you bella," pouring in from her followers, it's clear many of them got the message too.

 

A photo posted by Bella Hadid (@bellahadid) on

 

According to E!, a source close to Bella has also confirmed that she's not too happy to see the new couple together. "She is actually not over The Weeknd. She still loves him," the source told E!. "They are on fine terms, but she is bitter about the romance with Selena. She was not happy when all of that gossip went everywhere between The Weeknd and Selena." 

We feel you, Bella. Here's hoping she bounces back soon.

9 Times When Being Single is the Best

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Waking up to a mushy good morning text from your SO and spending hours on end together are special, but sometimes these relationship perks don’t stand a chance against the ones that come with flying solo. Here are nine times when you’re actually really happy to not have an SO.

1. When there’s a cutie in your class

Ready, set, mingle.

2. When you have a really specific craving for Chinese food for dinner


You don’t need to make sure your SO would be down for General Tso’s chicken—no one’s taste buds matter but yours.

3. When you don’t feel like shaving for a few days (or weeks)

Letting your hair grow everywhere is the definition of happiness.

4. When you unleash your PMS monster

Sorry not sorry.

5. When you want to break out your collection of chick flicks

And embrace your ugly-cry face until the wee hours of the morning.

6. When you don’t have to worry about bad breath

A make-out sesh is nowhere in your near future, but eating a cheeseburger with onions definitely is.

7. When your girls’ night goes way past curfew

Phone off; dancing pants on.

8. When you go on an eight-hour shopping spree and no man is there complaining

It’s all in a day’s work.

9. When you don’t have to share the pizza you ordered with anyone

Plus the pint of ice cream you plan to devour afterwards.

19 Struggles Only Hangry People Will Understand

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Do you dream of food on a daily basis? Is your mood determined by the last time you ate? Do you find people more and more annoying as it gets closer to lunchtime? If any of these apply to you, you've experienced one of the most dreadful emotions known to exist: hangryness. A combination of hungry and angry, this horrifying condition can have serious side effects and is known to affect college students the most.

Here are some warning signs you've experienced the hangry phenomenon.

1. Having a panic attack when you realize you didn't pack a snack

If I don't make it, tell my family I love them.

2. Getting weird looks when your deprived stomach starts acting up in class

Is it a crime to be hungry?!

3. Giving dirty looks to anyone who tries to talk to you

Can you like, go away? Or possibly fetch me some food?

4. Considering jumping across the table Mean Girls-style when you see someone else with food

GIVE IT TO ME!

5. Your friends know when to avoid talking to you


It's best we don't speak.

6. Spending class mapping out the quickest route to Chipotle

I bet I can get there in eight minutes if I fast walk.

7. Not understanding how a"cleanse" is actually a thing

So wait, when does the food come in?

8. Responding to every invitation with, “Will there be food?”

Sorry, pizza is slightly more important to me than our friendship.

9. The moment of euphoria when you see your food arrive

Love at first sight exists when it's with a cheesesteak.

10. Refusing to wait for a table that takes any longer than 15 minutes

I can get five Happy Meals in half that time.

11. Ordering an appetizer to avoid eating the table while you wait

I need some mozzarella sticks STAT.

12. Being the worst date in the world because you’re only there for the food

You're paying? Filet mignon it is.

13. Spending way more money on food than on drinks any given night

Alcohol without food is dangerous. I'm just trying to be safe.

14. Crying real tears when you realize you’ve burnt your dinner and have to start all over again

So this is what heartbreak feels like?

15. Asking your waiter how long 'til your food arrives if it takes more than 10 minutes

How long does it take to make nachos?!

16. Eating crumbs out of your bag from a granola bar you ate three months ago so you don't actually die

It's survival of the fittest out here.

17. Unfriending anyone who dares to ask for a bite of your food

Take my clothes, take my money, but DO NOT TOUCH MY FOOD.

18. Coming up with a sarcastic response to any question you’re asked


I'm not in the mood for this.

19. Finding it acceptable to act like a total psycho any time you’ve gone more than three hours without food

Hangryness is a serious condition.

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15 Signs You're in a Relationship with Bacon

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We all have our favorite breakfast foods: pancakes, eggs, waffles... you name it. But the one amazing food we can all agree tops the charts in deliciousness is bacon. Everything about it is so perfect, from its crispy crunch to its potent scent. Everyone loves bacon. Bacon is a gift from the heavens. Naturally, some people like bacon more than others... and you just might be one of those people. If you can relate to any one of these signs, well... there's a strong possibility that you are, in fact, in a relationship with bacon.

1. Everything you order at a restaurant has to have bacon on it

2. Nothing gets you out of bed quicker than the smell of bacon in the morning

3. You’re known at breakfast restaurants for ordering multiples sides of bacon

4. You would totally buy a bacon-scented candle... or five

5. The only reason you’re excited to see a salad bar is because you can just get a heaping plate of crumbled bacon

6. You’re very particular about the way you prefer to have it cooked (extra crispy, super floppy, etc.) but you'll honestly eat it no matter what

7. You’re all about sweets involving bacon—bacon glazed donut? Sign me up

8. When people ask you what three things you would bring on a deserted island, you always count bacon as one of those ~crucial~ items

9. People have called you out on your addiction more than once

10. You understand that Canadian bacon is just not bacon, and anyone who says so is wrong

11. If you were given the option to be queen of the world or have access to unlimited bacon, you would choose bacon

12. You daydream about bacon

13. Your favorite animal is a pig, not because they’re cute, but because…bacon

14. Your open to bacon of all kinds: fried, covered in chocolate, chopped into baby pieces…you aren’t biased

15. If you were given the opportunity to marry bacon, you 100-percent would

20 Lauren Conrad-Approved Crafts That Will Make Your Life Prettier

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When Lauren Conrad was on Laguna Beach, she was obviously our number one queen. We grew up with LC, and now that she's all grown up, she's basically become our generation's Martha Stewart. She has a lifestyle website, which is the cutest thing ever, and her Instagram is swoon-worthy.

Since we're in love with LC, we want to make sure that our crafts are Lauren Conrad-approved. This way, we can start our journey to becoming trendy AF. These DIYs are all LC approved and endorsed, so get ready to be a living Pinterest board.

1. Confetti party poppers

Here, LC shows you how to make party poppers for any occasion. Take cute birthday photos with your party poppers and have an absolute blast!

2. Himalayan salt and lavender oil bath soak

These sweet salts are a great gift for yourself…or, you know, someone else.

3. Gallery wall

Turn any wall into a picture perfect gallery with LC's assistance.

4. Oyster shell trinket trays

We love these adorable oyster shell trinket holders! Leave them out on your nightstand or bathroom counter; we promise it will look *fancy*.

5. Flower crowns

Flower crowns can be worn to so many different events, and LC has your guide to the most stunning ones you won't believe you can make yourself.

6. Stacked flower pots

We love this vertical garden—perfect for small spaces, or even your apartment balcony.

7. Vintage teacup candles

This sweet teacup will warm you up as a candle and then, later, when it's full of tea.

8. Crystal knob boxes

These charming boxes are perfect for the trendsetter in your life—especially if that trendsetter is you.

9. Aquarium terrarium

Succulents are the trendiest plants ever, and they're impossible to kill. So, of course, we love them! But they look especially cute here in their own fishbowl, accented with pretty pink gravel.

10. Gold foil brushstroke clutch

This clutch will dress up any outfit—even your laziest I-woke-up-like-this ensemble.

11. Chalkboard serving dish

We love all chalkboard everything! This dish can house your favorite appetizers or desserts, and the best part is that you can label everything for your guests!

12. Accent pillows

LC teaches us how to make accent pillows that just so happen to be the perfect addition to your dorm decor! Surprise your roomies by giving them each a monogram pillow for their bed or the common area.

13. Hexagon planter

Brighten up your otherwise dreary dorm room with this cheery planter—we adore this color combo, by the way.

14. Chocolate coffee stirring spoons

Who doesn't love a mocha in the morning? Make these chocolate stirring spoons for your hot cocoa or coffee any day of the week!

15. Washi tape tealights

Spice up your tealights with a little washi tape! This paper tape comes in all colors and prints, and can be used to decorate just about anything.

16. Candy jewelry

Here, LC shows you how to make the yummiest accessories imaginable! Wear 'em out, and you have an instant on-the-go snack!

17. Mini pinata favor boxes

No need to give a sweet gift in boring wrapping. These mini pinata boxes are so adorable, everyone will be swooning. Bonus, they double as little trinket boxes!

18. Pineapple favor bags

Wrap up your friends' presents in these adorable pineapple bags! Whether your party has a tropical theme or not, these favor bags are the sweetest treat.

19. Lavender bath bombs

Lush bath bombs are obviously our fave, but they're a bit too pricey to use on a regular basis. Make your own stunning bath fizzies, and give them to all your friends as pretty yet affordable gifts.

20. Threaded love sign

LC pinned this craft, and now you can add it to your repertoire, too!

What's your favorite Lauren Conrad-inspired craft?

The U.S. Mint is Releasing a Coin Featuring Lady Liberty as a Black Woman

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At a time when race relations and gender equality seem to be at the forefront of all discussions, the United States Mint has responded with a statement of its own, creating a coin featuring Lady Liberty as a black woman. Set to be released in April, the 24-karat gold coin will serve as the first time Lady Liberty has been represented by a non-white figure in American currency. The monumental piece is intended to not only mark the 225th anniversary of the Mint's coin production but also "reflect the cultural and ethnic diversity of the United States," according to the Mint.

While the token itself is worth $100, it's expected to sell for nearly 10 times its face value, with the final cost dependent upon the market price of gold. However, it's unlikely that you'll be making your next purchase with the symbolic Green Goddess, as only 100,000 will be produced. The initial batch will be reserved exclusively for collectors, so it may take some time before you see them in circulation (if ever).  The Mint also announced that they have future plans to release similar coins, namely Lady Liberty as Asian, Hispanic and Indian, on a biannual basis. 

In an interview with The New York Times, Rhett Jeppson, the principal deputy director of the U.S. Mint, said that "part of [their] intent was to honor tradition and heritage" while sparking conversations regarding the idea of liberty. Jeppson is expecting the coin to sell well, and all profits will returned to the U.S. Treasury. 

In April 2016, Treasury Secretary, Jacob J. Lew announced that the Mint was planning to replace Andrew Jackson on the front of the $20 with Harriet Tubman—a move that was very well received by the public.  


A Baby Girl Kidnapped in 1998 Was Found Alive & Safe 18 Years Later

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Kamiyah Mobley was kidnapped from a hospital in Florida in 1998, when she was eight hours old. She was found alive and healthy on January 13, 2017, 18 years after the kidnapping.

The teen was found in Walterboro, S.C., living under a different name, Fox News reported.

“She appears to be a normal, 18-year-old woman,” Jacksonville Sheriff Mike Williams told Fox News. “She has a lot to process, a lot to think about.”

Mobley was taken from her 16-year-old mom’s hospital room by a woman dressed as a nurse, the International Business Times reported.

Over the nearly two decades since her disappearance, authorities have released sketches of both the victim and suspect as well as the surveillance footage obtained of the kidnapping. Thousands of potential leads came in across the country, but it was only last year that a tip about Walterboro, S.C. was received. DNA tests concluded the woman was Mobley.

Police arrested the 51-year-old Gloria Williams, whom Mobley was living with in Walterboro, on charges of kidnapping, according to CBS News.

Mobley’s family is rejoicing after the news of her discovery and the possibility of a reunion—and according to CBS, they've already all talked on Facetime. Mobley has been reported to be healthy and safe, a happy ending to this incredible story.

Make These Super Trendy Lace Up Flats on a Budget

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Are you tired of wearing the same boring pair of shoes? So are we! There comes a time when a blah pair of black flats needs a little spicing up. Thanks to A Pair and a Spare, we've got just the solution. Adding laces is the perfect way to give your flats another life and give a certain charm to any outfit you wear with them. Bonus: seeing as lace up flats are this season's trendiest shoe style, you'll be ahead of the curve all while sticking to your budget.

You will need:

  • Pair of flats—preferably with a pointed toe
  • Hole punch
  • Ribbon or twine that matches the color of your shoes
  • Marker, chalk or pen to mark where your holes will go

Step One:

Using your writing utensil, mark where you want the holes to be. We will be putting two holes on each side. Be sure to line up the holes on both shoes.

Step Two:

Use the hole punch to make holes in the spots you marked on both shoes.

Step Three:

Lace your ribbon or twine through the shoe. Keep in mind, it may take a couple tries to figure out how long you want your ribbon to be.

Now you're all set with a (sort of) new pair of shoes!

Millennials Earn 20 Percent Less Than Our Parents Did at Our Age

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This just in: Millennials earn 20 percent less than baby boomers did at the same stage of life, according to an analysis of Federal Reserve data by the advocacy group Young Invincibles.

The data compared 25- to 34-year-olds in 2013 to the same age group in 1989 after adjusting for inflation. The results are disappointing, to say the least.

The analysis gives details about this generational divide in which millennials have a median household income of $40,581, and have half the net worth of their parents, the Associated Press reports. Despite being better educated, millennials also have more student debt and a lower rate of homeownership. This isn't that suprising—if you've got tens of thousands of dollars in debt after college, it's not going to be easy to put down a deposit on a nice suburban house anytime soon.

Further divides also exist among racial groups. Whites still earn dramatically more than blacks and Latinos, according to the AP. However, white millennials have still seen their income decline substantially compared to white baby boomers.

According to past research, a steady decline in opportunity reflects this analysis. People born in 1950 had a 79 percent chance of making more money than their parents. By 1980, there was only a 50 percent chance. That old American dream of making a better life for your children than you had just isn't holding up anymore.

We're living in challenging times, but like the report said, we're more educated than ever—so we've got to use that education to get creative and help lift up ourselves and future generations. Let's do this.

16 Signs You're the Panda of Your Friend Group

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Can you relate to this situation: You see an article online about the birth of pandas, followed by a series of adorable videos of said pandas, and you think, "What a resemblance. Could I have been a panda in another life?" Yeah, us too.

1. When you and your friend have an 8 a.m. together and they try to wake you up

2. When you and your friends have pillow fights but you get tired pretty quickly and quit

3. You're the one who is just trying to make every situation fun

You're probably the one in the mall playing on the carousel rather than shopping.

4. You do not take well to your friends trying to "share" food, clothes, or well, anything really

5. Sometimes your friends try to get you to leave your bed and Netflix to go out into society, and you are just having none of that

6. You like to cuddle, especially when your friends say they don't like being touched

7. You like to sleep…a lot

8. Your equilibrium is not your strongest feature

9. You show your affection for your pals in not-so-inconspicuous ways

10. Your inner monologue consists of a lot of humphs

*sigh*

11. You tend to go with the flow when it comes to making plans with the group

Probably when a lot of the internal sighing occurs.

12. Sometimes you can't help but acknowledge your cuteness

Because you're just an oversized teddy bear at heart.

13. You are quick to stop your friends from making decisions they will regret

14. You can be the fun kid of the group

15. But also the mama bear

16. And most importantly, you like to eat…a lot

How She Got There: Michelle Suwannukul, Director of Culture & Engagement, Instacart

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Name: Michelle Suwannukul
Job Title and Description: Director of Culture and Engagement, Instacart
College Name/Major: Columbia University - MIA, Economic and Political Development; University of California Davis - BA, International Relations & Affairs 
Website: Linkedin
Twitter & Instagram Handle: @gaowmichelle

What does you current job entail? Is there such thing as a typical day? 

Michelle Suwannukul: As the Director of Culture and Engagement at Instacart, my duties touch a little bit of  everything, but lately, I’ve been very focused on driving our diversity initiatives forward. This has included planning trainings for employee development to updating job descriptions to have inclusive verbiage. At Instacart, every day is different. It’s fast paced, we are always working on something new, and it’s one of the big reasons I enjoy my job.

What is the best part of your job? 

MS: I get to work with some of my best friends. That sounds really cheesy, but when you start with a company when it’s very small and grow with it, it happens! I get to work on really fun people things, like most recently we decided to make increasing diversity and inclusion a company-wide goal. How awesome is that? Some people would look at that and think, “that’s daunting, I don’t know where to even begin.” For me, it means I get to talk to everyone in the company, find out what is important to them, understand who we are and make things happen that make people happy. That is the best thing ever.

What was your first entry level job in your field and how did you get it? 

MS: This is only my second role in the tech space. Before this, I was working in international development focusing on health issues in resource-poor areas, which was a completely different experience and sent me all over the world. My last stint was living in Nairobi, Kenya and after that, I just developed this insatiable wanderlust and craving for very authentic travel experiences. Pursuing that goal, my first job in tech was at a YC-backed company called Vayable which was like Airbnb for tours and experiences.

What is one thing you wish you knew about your industry when you first started out that you now know? 

MS: Wow. One thing? That’s tough. It’s very data driven which I love. The beauty of that is when you have data (which can be quantitative and qualitative) it’s so much easier to get consensus. So often, people can get very caught up in the politics of work. We are humans and creatures after all, but when you bring the facts and frame your thoughts then often the path forward can be very clear.

Who is one person who changed your professional life for the better? 

MS: My cousin-in-law Chris Cox who is the Chief Product Officer over at Facebook. He began working in the tech space, and at a company that skyrocketed, before I even started out in this industry. His advice and support have been invaluable.

What is one mistake you made along the way and what did you learn from it? 

MS: There wasn’t one huge thing that was catastrophic, but there have been fumbles here and there. What I’ve learned from those mistakes is to always push yourself to be more data driven; your “gut feelings” are great but you need to back them up no matter how strong they are. Also, trust but verify. If your name is on it, you have to check on all the details, they matter.

What has been the most surreal moment of your career thus far? 

MS: I think the whole experience of starting at Instacart, and fully expecting it to be a small startup, and then seeing how fast our growth and success has been. You know that Sheryl Sandberg quote “If you're offered a seat on a rocket ship, don't ask what seat! Just get on.” Well, this assumes that you know it’s a rocket ship... I had no clue. I’ve just always loved the product and the problems they were solving.

What do you look for when considering hiring someone? 

MS: I look for people who are self-motivated, self-aware team players and have a lot of tenacity.

What advice would you give a 20-something with similar aspirations? 

MS: Don’t listen too much to what everyone tells you and don’t ask for too many opinions. Learn to listen to yourself after taking in the information you need and move forward with conviction.

 

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A City in Mississippi Tried to Rename MLK Day 'Great Americans Day'

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Last week, the official Twitter account for the city of Biloxi, Miss. tweeted that certain offices would be closed today for “Great Americans Day.” Naturally, people were very quick to respond in shock and outrage at what seemed to be a blatant disrespect and disregard for Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., whose life and legacy is celebrated (as a designated federal holiday) the third Monday of every January in the U.S.

After the tweet went viral, the city attempted to do some damage control by explaining the history of “Great Americans Day” in Biloxi. It was apparently signed into legislation to reconcile name changes to federal holidays that were the result of state and federal law changes.

“This change...was intended to comply with conflicting state and federal laws that gave different names to the holiday, while emphasizing that Biloxi would celebrate the day as Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day, which it has done ever since,” according to the post on the city’s official website.

This still doesn’t explain last week’s ignorant tweet, though. According to BuzzFeed, a number of city officials for Biloxi were “confused” about the tweet themselves, as they had never before heard of the term “Great Americans Day,” let alone seen it used in government announcements in the past.

In response to the error, the city announced that a meeting would be held to formally change the name of the January holiday. Thankfully, as of this morning, the Biloxi city council decided unanimously to officially rename the holiday Martin Luther King Day.

Understandably, though, some people are still pretty angry about the seeming mix-up. It speaks to the historical erasure of the accomplishments and entire lives of people of color.

There's one positive side of this situation: It's gotten people talking about the importance of celebrating marginalized individuals and giving them due recognition. The city of Biloxi isn't likely to forget the uproar they were met with, and will hopefully make better efforts in the future to be more inclusive and intersectional.

Donald Trump Met With Martin Luther King III on MLK Day

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Donald Trump met with Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s oldest son on Monday, The New York Times reports. Trump’s spokesman said that this meeting was to discuss the late King’s legacy and observe the holiday of the civil rights icon.

Given the recent tensions between Trump and many prominent black elected officials—especially Georgia Democrat John Lewis, who fought alongside King during the civil rights movement—this meeting is unexpected. The announcement of the meeting came via Sean Spicer, Trump’s press secretary, on Twitter.

Just two days prior, Trump was attacking Lewis on the same platform because Lewis said in an interview that he would not be attending the inauguration, and did not see Trump as a legitimate president due to the questions surrounding Russia and the election. Trump’s response was to call Lewis, who was beaten in the “Bloody Sunday” march in Selma, Ala. in 1965, "all talk," and to say that he should be focusing on his crime-infested Georgia district instead of "falsely complaining" about election results.

First of all, how does one complain falsely? Second of all, Lewis’s district in Atlanta encompasses the wealthy Buckhead, the busiest airport in the world, Hartsfield-Jackson International, the CDC and Georgia Tech, as the Times points out.

Trump later added that Lewis should help him focus on “burning and crime infested inner-cities” throughout the United States. “I can use all the help I can get!” (Yeah, he can.)

In a television interview with CBS, Spicer claimed that Lewis had started the fight, and that the president-elect won’t just sit back and take attacks without responding. (We’ve noticed.)

According to USA Today, the meeting between Trump, King, and others took place at Trump Tower in Manhattan, where they discussed voting rights and other ways of keeping with King’s legacy during the Trump administration. King called the meeting "extraordinarily constructive," so there's that.

These tweets and the meeting may be good PR for Trump, but it's probably not worth holding your breath for Trump to get serious about protecting civil rights.


4 Things Juniors Can Do to Set Themselves Up For a Job After Graduation

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Beyond academics, another anxiety-inducing aspect of the college experience is attempting to secure a full-time job offer by graduation. For many students, especially those feeling the financial burdens of higher education, a job offer can seem like a ticket towards stability.

You don’t want to wait until the spring of your senior year to begin the daunting process of job hunting. Set yourself up for success by taking impactful, strategic steps towards this goal during your junior year. While you can’t necessarily apply for most entry-level jobs a year in advance, here are a few tips to put you in the right direction:

1. Find a mentor

At this point in your college career, you’ve likely declared a major and have some sense of your larger career goals. By finding a mentor (or multiple!) to guide you through your remaining time in school, you will set yourself up to land a coveted job at the finish line. 

Mentors can come in many shapes and forms, but are typically older in age and have the experience and advice that you’re seeking out.

One type of mentor can be your college advisor, or a counselor at your school’s career center. These professionals are trained to help map out the remainder of your college experience and put you in the right direction professionally, so use them wisely and schedule time with them throughout the year.

Professors are another great option – they can do more for you than just provide your grade! Don’t forget that many of them have years of experience in their field, and may still be working part time. Not only can they give advice on their industry of practice, but also they will likely have connections to help you network as you set your sights on a job offer.

Lastly, your school’s alumni base can be the most enthusiastic pool of potential mentors you’ll find. Through LinkedIn, you can look up alumni from your school, where they work, and at what companies – then message one of them to have a few minutes of their time to grab coffee and pick their brain. Some alumni will jump at the opportunity to advise current students on the trends in their industries. You may also have had alumni as coworkers in past part-time jobs or internships, so make sure that you keep those contacts handy.

Meghan Kilkenny, a senior marketing major at Rockhurst University, believes that junior year is the time to start not just finding, but developing a mentor. She says to talk to anyone, "Even if it is your mom's friend who works in the industry you want to be in, take her out to coffee and network. Develop connections as much as possible.

Related: A Year-by-Year Guide to Getting a Job After Graduation

2. Secure an internship the summer before senior year

At this point, whether you have a couple of internships under your belt or you have yet to score your first one, the summer going into your final year of college is the best possible time to intern. Many larger companies that offer internships prefer to hire juniors and seniors, plus the summer will allow you to devote the time you need to put your all into the job.

In addition to locating companies’ job boards, Intern Queen and WayUp are great tools to scope out options in your city.

While an internship is an obviously perfect resume booster, it can also allow you to network within that company and build relationships that you will need as you transition into post-grad life. Additionally, if you prove yourself to your supervisor and are a stellar intern, your boss could serve as a reference, offer you a full-time position to join them again the following year or know of a different team to which he or she can recommend you.

Alaina Leary, a book publishing professional finishing her master's at Emerson College, understands the value of an internship in setting yourself up for future opportunities. She says, "One of my earliest college internships led to part-time employment throughout college and beyond, and a lifelong connection with my supervisor! While not internship will lead directly to a full time offer, many can lead to networking opportunities and valuable resume boosters."

Related: 6 Steps to Get Ahead on Job & Internship Applications Right Now 

3. Build your professional brand

Though your brand is something you gradually build upon throughout your four years in college and beyond, junior year is a great time to really shape your professional identity in the eyes of hiring managers.

One way to build your brand is through your presence online. You’ll want to make sure that whenever a recruiter Googles you, the results are not only clean, but also relevant and don’t make you difficult to find. Try making at least one of your social channels public, such as Twitter, and use it to retweet and comment on stories in your industry of choice.

You can also use this time to build your own website to display your portfolio of work and/or highlight your school and professional achievements. If you’re a writer or journalist, a blog is a great opportunity to share your thoughts with the world. Regardless of your industry of choice, a website can allow you to display your resume, emphasize your achievements in school and share your career goals.

You also want to make sure that the information you share directly with recruiters reflects who you are. Make sure that your resume is up to date, uses an organized template and helps you to stand out. You can also take advantage of other items, such as business cards, that aren’t as commonly used amongst college students. Once armed with these tools, spend your junior year attending on-campus career fairs to network and display your brand to others.

4. Take a career prep course or workshop

Without sufficient work experience, it can be difficult to understand what cliques with recruiters and what doesn't when it comes to the hiring process. Take advantage of all that your school has to offer when it comes to educating yourself on how to nail a job.

In some cases, your school might offer a course for credit within a business or communication department, which at some schools are open to students of different majors. What is more common is a series of bootcamps that your career center might offer, focusing on anything from editing your resume and cover letter to how to network. All of the information absorbed from these sessions as early as junior year will only help you grow and empower you to take on the job hunt.

Leary took advantage of a career prep course offered for her major during her junior year. She says, "In our class, we started applying for jobs even though we weren't nearing graduation, and we also participated in professional development experiences, learned networking, and went to the career center to edit resumes and practice interviewing. It got me in the habit of looking for a job (and preparing for the process) early, which was fantastic."

It’s never too early to start planning for the real world. By taking advantage of the opportunities at your disposal as soon as junior year, you will set yourself up to land a job before graduation and eliminate some of the stress that comes with the job-hunting process.

 

15 Reasons You Wish You Lived in Tree Hill

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If we could live anywhere in the world, we'd probably choose North Carolina. Not because of the gorgeous ocean views or the warm weather, but because of the (sadly fictional) town of Tree Hill. P. Sawyer and B. Davis would gain a new bestie, and we'd spend our Saturday nights with the rest of the gang at Tric. Basically, we would be living the dream. Here are 15 reasons we wish we lived in Tree Hill, even after all this time.

1. You want to eat at Karen's Café

The food would be good, but the company would be better.

2. You want to hang out in Peyton's bedroom

Pre psycho-stalker Derek, at least.

3. You want to cheer on the Tree Hill Ravens

And see them make it all the way to the state championship.

4. You want to see the hottest bands perform at Tric

Minor names like Fall Out Boy, Gavin DeGraw and Kid Cudi have been known to grace the Tric stage.

5. You want Owen the bartender to name a drink after you

And yours would taste better than tequila and grenadine.

6. You want to spend time at the River Court

And maybe leave your mark on the concrete.

7. You want to read An Unkindness of Ravens and The Comet

Because you know Lucas Scott would become your new favorite author.

8. You want to have girl time with Brooke, Peyton and Haley

With these three as your friends, you'll always have people to count on.

9. You want to rock outfits from Clothes Over Bros

AKA the hottest clothing line around.

10. You want a guy like Lucas or Nathan Scott

But you'd never try to break up Naley or Leyton, obviously.

11. You want to babysit James Lucas Scott

There's no kid anywhere who is cuter than Jamie, tbh.

12. You want to watch Marvin McFadden (AKA Mouth) reporting live on TV

"This is Marvin McFadden on sports, and you've just heard a mouthful."

13. You want to hear Haley James's album

If all of her songs are as good as "When The Stars Go Blue," we'll be satisfied.

14. You want to go to Skills for advice

Because he's smart, funny and always knows what to say.

15. Most of all, you want to know that you'll always have a place to come home to

Because there's only one Tree Hill.

5 Ways to Handle Seeing Your Ex Post-Breakup

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Whether you’re freshly out of a relationship or still putting the pieces together months afterward, running into your ex in public can bring on a slew of emotions. The nostalgia may begin to kick in, or the hurt you may feel may make you want to kick them. There’s no way to predict how you may feel in the moment, but here are five different ways to handle seeing your ex in public post-breakup.

1.  Don’t say anything if you don’t want to

You aren’t obligated to speak if you do not feel comfortable. Not speaking does not make you rude or mean that you are running away from your problems. If you just can’t find the appropriate words to say in your head, don’t say anything.

Vanessa Reyes, a sophomore at Georgia Southern University, thinks not speaking can avoid making an already awkward situation even worse.

“I ran into my ex in the grocery store, and because we made direct eye contact, I smiled and waved,” she said. “Because of the nature of our breakup, I don’t believe I owed him any words, but I wanted him to know I was okay with his existence.”

You know the saying “some things are better left unsaid,” and in this case, that rule could very well apply.

2. Break the ice

This may be easier said than done, especially if the relationship ended very painfully. However, speaking up first can show that you are in control of the situation and are doing well (even if it’s a façade).

If you approach your ex with a hello and they seem eager to engage in conversation, speak but keep the conversation simple. Questions regarding school, work or family are welcome, but don’t pry for information below surface level.

Aurora*, a junior at Kennesaw State University, says being the bigger person might leave you with a feeling of relief.

“Even if you’re still grieving, I think it’s important that they see that you are handling the situation as maturely as possible,” she says. “I bumped into my ex a few times and honestly, my goal was for him to realize he messed up and can’t go back.”

The situation is inevitably awkward already, so if you feel so inclined, face the awkwardness head on.

3. Avoid lingering

Lingering leads to awkwardness. If the conversation has died down, don’t try to save it. Remember that you and your ex broke up for a reason, so there still may be a lot of confusion and animosity between you two that is impossible to address in a few minute time span.

A random run-in is also not the time to find closure. Elizabeth*, a freshman at the University of Alabama, knows how seeing your ex can cause your head to play tricks on you.

“I think the longer you stay around, the quicker feelings of regret or longing will arise again,” she says. “Despite all the progress you’ve made moving on, it may feel like you’re back at square one.”

So if you two come to a drawn-out, awkward part in the conversation where nobody knows what to say, wrap up the conversation. Tell them that it was good to see them, but you’ve got to run.
 

4. Be confident

Channel your inner Beyoncé and exude confidence. Think about your words carefully as to not fumble over them. Stand tall and with poise — even if they catch you bummin’ it wearing your favorite pajamas.

“Even if you’re crumbling on the inside, you don’t want them to think they had so much control over your life,” says Ashley*, a sophomore at Kennesaw State University.

Remember to keep a smile on your face during the conversation. Even if you feel your stomach doing backflips, you can always release your emotions (or lunch) in the privacy of your own space.

5. The hardest one: rekindle the friendship

You may find yourself thinking about the encounter hours after you walk away. If you think you’re at a place where you can comfortably be friends without feelings being involved, you may want to consider meeting under different circumstances. This should only be the case if you can confidently say your wounds are healed.

“I’m definitely not encouraging anyone to actively start hitting up their ex,” says Christina*, a junior at University of Tampa. “But if you know that friendship is something both of you could benefit from, I don’t see why you shouldn’t try to arrange a sit-down.”

To really know if this is the best course of action for you, it’s important that you are aware of your ex’s reactions during your run-in. Was your ex receptive to you? Did they actively engage in conversation with you? Did their body language indicative openness to you or were they closed off and uncomfortable?

If you are positive that the conversation went well on both ends, try reaching out and arranging a meeting in a public place like Starbucks.

Rebecca*, a sophomore at Kennesaw State University, made amends with her ex after seeing him and arranging a meet up over lunch.

“We had been broken up for about five months, so that gave me plenty of time to heal,” she says. “We have a lot of mutual friends, so I wanted to make sure there wouldn’t be any tension in a group setting. We aren’t the best of friends now, but we can joke around without feeling awkward now.”

This won’t be the easiest or right thing to do for many cases, so only go this route if you both desire friendship and nothing else.

Breakups are never pleasant, but know that the breakup does not have to have control over your life and behavior if you don’t allow it to. Let your ex see the best version of you possible, carry on with your day, and keep moving forward with life as you had been doing prior to seeing them

8 Times Corinne Embarrassed Herself During This Week's 'Bachelor'

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The Bachelor's Corinne is an expert in embarrassing herself, but in this week's episode, she took it to a whole other level. From a whipped cream fail to a racy romp in an oddly-placed bouncy castle, here are 8 times even I felt embarrassed for Corinne.

1. When she decided to “turn on the sex charm” with a can of whipped cream and a trench coat

Nick shut this down before she could ever even take her trench coat off.

2. When she cried in the bathroom because Nick wouldn’t lick whipped cream off her body more than once

Corinne just knew she was going home after this. But psych!

3. When she went to bed rather than participating in the rose ceremony

The snoring. The snoring CORINNE.

4. When she tried to learn “planned dancing”

That’s called choreography, Corinne. You may not be able to dance, but you could at least learn the terminology.

5. When she cried in the bathroom…AGAIN

Get out of the bathroom. It’s unsettling.

6. And fell asleep during the group date

Corinne’s life is sooo hard, you guys.

7. When she mounted Nick in an unexplained bouncy castle

I was thrilled to see a pink bouncy castle outside the Bachelor mansion. But then Nick and Corinne practically had sex in it, and the feeling was gone.

8. And then fell asleep again

It’s all in a day’s work for Corinne.

15 Signs You Stopped Caring a Long Time Ago

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After a while, some of the things that used to matter to you just sort of stopped being important. Sometimes, that can be a good thing (and other times, not so much).

1. You go to class in your pajamas

Let’s be honest—a bunch of people in your lecture hall actually bothered getting dressed in the morning just to fall asleep. So what’s the big deal if you come to class already dressed to do so?

2. Late to class? Whatever

Whether it’s two minutes or twenty minutes, there’s already no chance of you getting there on time.

3. You sing as loud as you want to in the shower

Are there other people around? Sure. So why not bless them with your vocal talent?

4. Trying more than once to do something right doesn’t phase you

A single failure—or two, or three—doesn’t make you feel like you should give up. No matter how many people see you lose or how often you hear “no,” you’re not scared to try again.

5. In the dining hall, you sneak out more than a couple desserts

Honestly, for the amount of tuition money you’re paying, you deserve that entire tray of cookies (and probably three or four more).

6. Improvisation is second nature to you

Dropped one of your chopsticks on the ground? Fine, go grab a clean pencil instead.

7. Your hoodie collection has outgrown any other set of clothing you own

Red on Monday, black on Tuesday and who even knows what shirt you’re wearing underneath? Scratch that, who knows if you’re wearing a shirt underneath at all? Hoodies rock!

8. Netflix asks you if you’re still watching

I know it’s been 13 straight hours of Grey’s Anatomy, Netflix. Stop judging!

9. Class at 10:30 means waking up at 10

The later you wake up, the later you can go to bed, too. It’s a win-win!

10. You don't remember what organization is

Your room might be a bit messy, but that’s just because there’s way too much in your head to fit into a neat pile or a stack of folders. After all, Einstein said, “If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind, of what, then, is an empty desk a sign?” Preach.

11. You’re a master at skimming readings

Shoot, chapter three was due today? Well, there’s like 20 minutes left before class... no problem!

12. Your weekly planner is blank, but it’s not because you’re not doing anything

You trust your memory enough not to double-book (and sometimes, your trust is really misplaced in those situations).

13. Eating alone at the dining hall doesn’t worry you


Everyone remembers how most freshmen travel in packs, and it’s probably because going places alone can be pretty scary when you don’t know anyone or you’re new to a place. But for you, it’s no biggie—food is food, even if you have to eat it alone.

14. You don't bother taking those "artsy" candid photos for Instagram

To you, Instagram is an anthology of your life. It doesn't have to be so carefully curated!

15.Other people's opinions don't phase you

It's their business what their opinion of you is. Your business is to live your life without giving AF.

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