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Target Has a New Line of Nail Polish Inspired By Your Fave Shows

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If staying at home doing your nails while binge-watching every episode of your favorite drama is your idea of a good time then we have the BEST news for you. Target has just launched a new 38-color nail polish collection called Defy and Inspire, inspired by shows like The BachelorThe Hills and Gossip Girl. The in-house collection, debuting January 17, includes lacquers in shades from bold cherry red to greige.

The names of the different colors are just as dramatic as the shows they are named after—there are shades like “Final Rose,” “The Right Reasons” and “XOXO.” The purpose of the Defy and Inspire Collection is to give customers the feeling that they can “defy the ordinary” and “inspire others”—much like how we know pop culture greatly inspires us. The nail collection is both inventive and long-lasting (it is made with dual polymer) and at only $7 per bottle, we'll take one of each.


14 College Women Open Up About The Worst Thing They've Done After a Breakup

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Have you ever done something you weren’t super proud of after a breakup? You aren’t alone. 14 college women share the worst things they’ve done during and after a breakup…and it might make you feel a little better about what you’ve done in the past.

“When I was in middle school, I decided I was over my first love. This was before any of us had cell phones, so I wrote him a note full of young teenage angst telling him that our short lived, yet epic, love saga had come to and end. I sprinkled the page with water to represent my tears, and spritzed the page with my cotton candy-scented perfume to seal the deal. I then gave the fateful note to a mutual friend to slip to the unsuspecting dumpee during the sermon Sunday at church. He was heartbroken, and refuses to say more than three words at a time to me now.”

-Jules, Elon University Class of 2018

“In the sixth grade, a boy handed me a slip of paper that said ‘Will you be my girlfriend?’ and had little boxes where I could check ‘yes’ or ‘no’. This was basically my first interaction ever with a boy who liked me, so the adrenaline was pumping. I checked the ‘yes’ box, class ended, and I ran away. As soon as I got home, I realized that I had no feelings whatsoever for this kid, and no part of me wanted to be his girlfriend. So when I saw him at school the next day, I handed him a note with a poem inside:

roses are red,

violets are blue.

you're kind of cute,

but I can't go out with you!

I know; I hate sixth grade me too.”

-Shannon, Florida State University Class of 2016

 

“The worst thing I've ever done during a breakup was let him believe we were still ‘casual’ so I wouldn't have to genuinely dump him. I did it over text message, so that I could hook up with a friend I'd fallen for without feeling too guilty. #notproud”

-Hannah, Kenyon College Class of 2019

“I asked my boyfriend to go to a local restaurant with me. Once he had bought our food we found a table to sit at. I purposefully picked a table away from everyone else so I could break up with him. While we were eating this random guy comes up to us and starts talking, all the while I'm thinking ‘hello! I'm trying to break up with this kid!!’. To make matters worse, his parents show up a couple minutes later and his mom freaks out at him for taking the new car to a dirt parking lot. Once everyone was gone he asked what I wanted to do tomorrow. I responded, ‘break up’. On our way to leave, we spot two of our friends who call our names and ask us how we are. He responds by yelling ‘we just broke up’ in front of the whole restaurant.”

-Stacey, Bentley University Class of 2019

“I was in a relationship for three years. At the end we had the messiest break up of all time. We tortured each other for months. May I add this break up was over a long distance. (He moved 2 years into our relationship and we did long distance for a year.) The song 'We are Never Ever Getting Back Together' by Taylor Swift was trending on the radio. One night when I was driving home from a party I blasted the song and recoded my inner Taylor Swift belting along, then sent him my music video. He and I will never, ever get back together.”

-Krissi, University of Utah Class of 2017

“After having my heart broken by a guy who cheated on me and continuously lied about it, he begged to have me back. I told him I needed time to think about it, when I really made up my mind to never so much as kiss him again. In the ‘thinking about it’ process, I let him drive me everywhere, buy me dinner multiple times and give me a back massage every time we hung out. When I eventually ghosted him it honestly felt great.”

-Lizzie, Dartmouth College Class of 2016

“I told my ex that I was a lesbian and convinced him I left him because I started having feelings for my best friend.”

-Jay, Christopher Newport University Class of 2018

“I came home from first semester freshman year ready to turkey dump my boyfriend. I figured I could hop in his car and run back in my house before he really knew what hit him. I was wrong. I get in the car and he immediately flies out of my driveway saying he wanted to grab dinner before the play we were supposed to see at my old high school. Typical him, he gets lost on the way to the restaurant. Then, I made him pull into a McDonald's to steal the WiFi to figure out where we needed to go. I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year in a McDonald's while eating an ice cream cone...not thinking that I would have to have him drive me the 20 minutes home.”

-Chelle, DePaul University Class of 2018

“The worst thing I have done to someone to break up with them is ‘ghost’ them. I ignored them completely and probably made things much worse instead of addressing the problem.”

-Nicolette, University of Illinois Class of 2017

“I broke up with my boyfriend on a romantic dinner date which was to celebrate our three years together. It was our anniversary and I was cheating on him.”

-Natasha, New York University Class of 2019

“My roommate during my freshman year of college told me that when her high school boyfriend dumped her, she was so upset that she broke into his car and filled the back seat with rotten eggs and spoiled milk. It totally ruined the seats of his car and worse, it smelled horrible for months.”

-Rachel, University of Florida Class of 2017

“I broke up with my boyfriend of eight months over text while I was in Europe. I told him right before I left that the trip wasn't going to impact our relationship whatsoever... and dumped him three days after I arrived.”

-Raquel, UCLA Class of 2019

“I broke up with my boyfriend over the phone and had my friend there for moral support. He heard her in the background. Whoops.”

-Liz, St. Michael’s College Class of 2019

“The worst way I've ever broken up with someone was in front of his friends during lunchtime.”

-Mary, Clovis Community College Class of 2021

 

15 Signs You Stopped Caring A Long Time Ago

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After a while, some of the things that used to matter to you just sort of stopped being important. Sometimes, that can be a good thing (and other times, not so much). 

1. You come to class in your pajamas

Let’s be honest -- a bunch of people in your lecture hall actually bothered getting dressed in the morning just to fall asleep. So what’s the big deal if you come to class already dressed to do so?

2. Late to class? Whatever

Whether it’s two minutes or twenty minutes, there’s already no chance of you getting there on time.

3. You sing as loud as you want to in the shower

Are there other people around? Sure. So why not bless them with your vocal talent?

4. Trying more than once to do something right doesn’t phase you

A single failure -- or two, or three -- doesn’t make you feel like you should give up. No matter how many people see you lose or how often you hear “no,” you’re not scared to try again.

5. In the dining hall, you sneak out more than a couple desserts

Honestly, for the amount of tuition money you’re paying, you deserve that entire tray of cookies (and probably three or four more).

6. Improvisation is second nature to you

Dropped one of your chopsticks on the ground? Fine, go grab a clean pencil instead.

7. Your hoodie collection has outgrown any other set of clothing you own

Red on Monday, black on Tuesday and who even knows what shirt you’re wearing underneath? Scratch that, who knows if you’re wearing a shirt underneath at all? Hoodies rock!

8. Netflix asks you if you’re still watching

I know it’s been 13 straight hours of Grey’s Anatomy, Netflix. Stop judging!

9. Class at 10:30 means waking up at 10

The later you wake up, the later you can go to bed, too. It’s a win-win!

10. You don't remember what organization is

Your room might be a bit messy, but that’s just because there’s way too much in your head to fit into a neat pile or a stack of folders. After all, Einstein said, “If a cluttered desk is a sign of a cluttered mind, of what, then, is an empty desk a sign?” Preach.

11. You’re a master at skimming readings

Shoot, chapter three was due today? Well, there’s like 20 minutes left before class... no problem!

12. Your weekly planner is blank, but it’s not because you’re not doing anything

You trust your memory enough not to double-book (and sometimes, your trust is really misplaced in those situations).

13. Eating alone at the dining hall doesn’t worry you


Everyone remembers how most freshmen travel in packs, and it’s probably because going places alone can be pretty scary when you don’t know anyone or you’re new to a place. But for you, it’s no biggie -- food is food, even if you have to eat it alone.

14. You don't bother taking those "artsy" candid photos for Instagram

To you, Instagram is an anthology of your life. It doesn't have to be so carefully curated!

15. Other people's opinions don't phase you

It's their business what their opinion of you is. Your business is to live your life without giving AF.

Why It's Okay If You've Never Been In Love

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Whether you love to hate it, hate to love it or can’t get enough of it, love is always on our minds. From your favorite new celebrity couple, to your BFF’s Instagrams of her beau, to the cutie in your lecture, love is inescapable in the society we live in. But what if the only romantic love you’ve experienced is watching Chuck and Blair’s epic love story via Netflix? Sure you’ve had crushes, but been inlove? That’s a long shot. While it might seem like you’re the only one, you’re definitely not alone. We talked to Dr. Ramani Durvasula, licensed clinical psychologist and professor of psychology, about all things love, and most importantly, why it’s okay if you haven’t gotten there yet. Here’s the scoop.

Not being in a relationship is better than being in a bad relationship

While social media may make it seem like all relationships are perfect, most aren’t as sparkling as they seem under filters and perfectly cropped pics. If you’ve never been in love, it’s easy to look at relationships through rose-colored glasses, thinking that everything would be easier if you just had someone to share it with. While it is nice to have a partner-in-crime, Dr. Ramani reminds us that “not being in a relationship is far better than being in a dysfunctional relationship.” She continues to say that while “relationships are a healthy and important part of our lives…seeking one out for 'relationship's sake' or to keep up with everyone else is inauthentic and can actually be bad for you.”

So while you may be feeling the FOMO as pictures of couples ice-skating flood your newsfeed, remind yourself that you’re in a relationship with yourself first. Dr. Ramani says to “live a life in which you are in love with yourself—surround yourself with friends and family and a loving group of people, give back to the world, do work you love and that fills you with purpose, be loving and empathic in all of your relationships, as it prepares you to let someone in.”

Ava, a freshman atDePaul University,believes that being in love doesn’t have to just apply to romantic relationships, sharing a similar mentality with Dr. Ramani. “It’s okay to not be in love as long as you have a passion for something that you care about as much as a person,” she says. “Some people fall in love with their jobs rather than people. Not being in love can be totally fulfilling.” When the time comes and you fall in love, it’ll be wonderful. But until then, take your self on a date. You deserve it.

Related: An Open Letter to the Girl Who Thinks She Needs a Boy to be Happy

Not being in love means not being tied down

As young collegiettes, there are so many opportunities for us to explore, whether it’s joining a new club, accepting a career starting internship or studying abroad. The world is at our fingertips and it’s up to us to take advantage of all it has to offer. Sometimes, however, being in a relationship can cloud these opportunities. When you’re in love it can make it more difficult to make tough decisions. Getting a job offer in another state is fabulous, but accepting it is infinitely harder if you know it’ll separate you and your sweetie.

“When you are not in a relationship you often have the luxury of not having to compromise,” Dr. Ramani tells us. “You can accept a job transfer or a study abroad, you can move where you want, work late, maintain your own schedule and set priorities and goals in a very specific sort of way.” Being young is all about finding yourself, and these experiences can help further that process. Being in love doesn’t have to hinder self-exploration at all, but if you’ve never been in love, you can take solace in the fact that your decisions are for you and you only.

It’s for this reason that Micki, a sophomore at the University of Missouri, feels comfortable never having been in love. “I’m glad I haven’t been in love yet because it has given me so much time to just be with me,” she tells us. “In not being in love with anyone else, I can give myself undivided attention to figure myself out and love myself the way I deserve to.” Valuing yourself highly allows you to enter relationships without feeling the need to settle—you know what you deserve!

Remember that love, like life, is a journey

Cheesy, we know, but true. Dr. Ramani reminds us that “the term ‘being in love’ is very subjective and means very different things to different people.” While your idea of being in love might be complete honesty with someone, to another it could mean someone to laugh with. All feelings of love are valid, but prior to falling in love it’s wise to take a close look at what "being in love" means to you, and the expectations you hold. Dr. Ramani recommends asking whether your expectations are realistic or closer to a Disney movie.

The older you get without having been in love, it becomes easier and easier to over-romanticize and view love as it is in fantasy, which sets you up for disappointment and sets the bar too high for your future partners. Dr. Ramani warns that these “unrealistic assumptions may thwart the development of a relationship,” so be sure to keep your expectations in check.

Though it’s easy to over-romanticize love if you’ve never experienced it, it is worthy of our affection. As Dr. Ramani so eloquently put it, to be in love is to have “experienced one of the most profound of human experiences.” The beautiful thing about love is that it has no expiration date. Dr. Ramani tells us that “love is a very personal journey--some people may experience in their early teens, and others may not until they are 80. The human soul does not operate according to a developmental timetable.” Whether you’re 18, 50 or 99, you are worthy of love and it will find you. It’s just a matter of being ready for it when it does.

Good things come to those who wait

While some people are lucky enough to see someone and just know they’re going to be together, other love stories are much more gradual. You may be watching a movie with your best friend and hear them laugh, and suddenly realize that that’s the only laugh you’re interested in hearing. Or you may feel yourself slowly falling for someone you never expected to. “Falling in love is not always a swan dive off a cliff, sometimes it is a very gradual slope you gracefully come down,” Dr. Ramani says, letting us know that this type of journey is just as beautiful as another. Though you may not recognize it at first blush, as Dr. Ramani puts it, it doesn’t mean it isn’t heading towards you. Be open to any and all possibilities and love may surprise you.

As the Beatles famously said, all you need is love. What is often misconstrued about that statement is that that love needs to be romantic. While romantic love is an amazing experience unlike any other, it is equally as revolutionary to love something else with as much passion and fervor. Fall in love with yourself, your job, your school, your best friends, and your heart will be so full it may burst. Romantic love will undoubtedly come. Until then, just enjoy the ride.

How to Avoid Being Awkward After Hooking Up

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It happens to the best of us. We all have that one friend, co-worker, classmate, etc. that we always had a little chemistry with, but you never imagined something happening between the two of you. And then, one night, (maybe with some alcohol involved) you hook up. Now what? Here’s how to deal with awkwardness from each kind of hookup.

1.The Good Friend

The scenario:

We all know how it goes. You hooked up with that friend who you kind of always thought was cute, and while it was fun, you’re not sure where you stand.

The awkwardness:

You don’t know how to act around one another due to the relationship being changed.

How to deal:

Try acting casual and address it! Friends tend to hook up with one another due to mutual attraction and spending time around one another a lot; it happens to the best of us. But don’t forget you were friends first! According to relationship expert Jasbina Ahluwalia, matchmaker and the founder of Intersections Match by Jasbina, you should try to remember that “you're an empowered woman—it's only awkward if you make it so!” Pull your friend aside and have a chat about what happened and if there are any feelings other than friendship between the two of you!

2. The In-Class Attraction

The scenario:

You ran into the cutie who sits next to you in your British Lit class at the bar Friday night and started flirting, which led to going home with him or her.

The awkwardness:

How can you possibly talk to them and casually sit next to him or her while learning about Shakespeare?

How to deal:

Ahluwalia says, “Inner game is crucial to defusing awkwardness: Often our feelings of awkwardness are due to feeling self-conscious, perhaps seeing him reminds us of rejection (i.e. his failing to call or pursue us after the hookup). So when you cross paths with your hookup, smile, wave, acknowledge them, give a quick hello—don't avoid eye contact or ignore them. Remember, you're an empowered woman—it's only awkward if you make it so.” Sounds like some solid advice to us!

3. The Time Two Interns Were Attracted to Each Other

The situation:

You stared at this person longingly every day, never thinking there’d be a mutual attraction. And then one night you hook up and don’t know how to face him or her!

The awkwardness:

You don't know how to keep things professional and work with him or her on a daily basis without having flashbacks of that night.

How to deal:

“If your hook-up is a friend or co-worker, talk about expectations afterwards—are you both on the same page regarding whether the hookup was a one-time thing, or the possible beginning of a relationship?” says Ahluwalia. “Talking it through together (without defensiveness or drama) sets expectations and minimizes awkwardness going forward when you both know what to expect. Clearing the air in this way will likely make it easier to resume your friendship or co-worker relationship.” Pull him aside one day in the break room and just ask what happens next!

4. The Dorm Floor Inbreeding

The scenario:

The gorgeous floormate you met while moving in on your first day of college has finally knocked on your door for some Netflix and chill.

The awkwardness:

How can you go to floor meetings or do laundry without an awkward run-in?

How to deal:

When these types of situations occur, usually it’s the girl who is embarrassed for what the other people in the building will think of her for having Joe Smith creep out of her room in the morning. But, embrace your sexuality! Dr. Ramani Durvsalua says for these particular situations that “we live in a culture that expects women to be sexual creatures, sexualizes them, and then shames them when they have sex. Don't allow that culture of shame [to] impact your behavior after a hookup happens.” Put that scarlet letter away! We can assure you, the next time you cross paths in the elevator it won’t be as bad as you think.

5. The Frat Bro Hook-up

The scenario:

You go to a big Greek school where frat parties are the places to be come Friday night. So what if one time you hooked up with a frat bro?

The awkwardness:

That one cute frat guy you were always eyeing finally talked to you. But now you aren’t sure how to go to the frat you go to all the time, and even have friends in, after hooking up with him! Will he remember you? Will he say hi? Should you? The questions can go on and on!

How to deal:

According to Dr. Durvasula, just accept what happened and move on! “Hold your head high, be warm and comfortable, and as it is quite possible that he may also feel a bit awkward, your comfortable stance can also help defuse the situation. Also—imagine 10 years down the road, by then it will be a quaint and faded memory; that kind of visualization can also defuse it and turn it into something less 'unseemly' and something that just happened.” The next time you stroll into that frat basement, hold your head high and just pretend no one saw you make out with an almost stranger for 30 minutes!

6. The Boss Awkwardness

The scenario:

You’re a camp counselor every summer and your shift leader, who happens to be a college senior, has started to eye you up. You hook up one night, but he’s kind of your boss.

The awkwardness:

How can you handle looking at the person who is supposed to tell you what to do after you’ve hooked up?

How to deal:

Actually, this time, you both were in the wrong. Awkwardness like this happens when you did something you weren’t quite supposed to! Dr. Carole Lieberman, a Beverly Hills psychiatrist and author, has just the advice to spare you the awkwardness with people you come across after hooking up. “Avoid hooking up with them in the first place. It’s awkward because you either feel ashamed because you know it was all just a lie, you really didn’t have feelings for him, or you feel disappointed that he never called. And you feel sad that you don’t have someone more meaningful in your life to have sex with.” But, never fear! Her advice on such a crime of passion is simple: “When you see him again, smile and be friendly, but not seductive.” He’s your boss, after all, so try to be as casual as possible without any confrontation.

We all deal with awkward stages after hook ups. It’s hard to avoid feeling weird around that guy or girl at work you always joked around with but never imagined anything would happen with. How to make things not awkward is up to you and how you handle the situation. And just remember, it takes two to tango, so odds are you aren’t the only one wanting the awkwardness to go away!

A Guide to Dressing Like the Pretty Little Liars

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Excuse us, but we're still trying to catch up with Aria, Spencer, Hanna, Emily and Alison after time jumped forward five years this January. Almost as important to us as the transition of the plot line is the transformation of the Liars' fashion sense. Want to steal their new, matured style? Read below for a guide to how you can achieve their latest looks:

Aria


Aria

Aria's outfits are usually experimental and edgy. Although this season she'll be donning a more natural look, we're sure that she will not disappoint.

Spencer


Spencer

Spencer, now working in the world of politics (go figure?) will surely be giving us that modern preppy twist that we love so much. She always looks classically tailored and we're obsessed with her bangs this season!

Hanna


Hanna

After working in the fashion world in NYC, Hanna headed to Europe and her style became—*gasp*—even more glamorous than it already was. We can't wait to see what's in store for her wardrobe this season!

Emily


Emily

Emily is known for her comfy and athletic style––but this year, we also get to see a beachy element added to her wardrobe.

Alison


Alison

Alison––who has probably changed the most over the past five years––is now married... and a teacher. So, we're sure she will be rocking some mature and adorable outfits.

Whose new look do you love most?

'Making a Murderer' Family Member Releases a Rap Song

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Like most people in the new year, you have probably become fascinated with the new Netflix phenomenon that is Making a Murderer and if you are one of the few who haven’t, then be prepared to become intrigued after hearing this new rap song by Brendan Dassey's half-brother Brad.

The rap song, entitled “They Didn’t Do It,” defends Brendan and his uncle, Steven Avery, who have both been charged and convicted of the rape and murder of photographer Teresa Halbach. It's a case that was documented over the course of 10 years in the popular show. The rap song, with lyrics like "not a fair trial, not a fair game" and "stick to the facts, leave alone Mr. Kratz," arises amidst the calls for appeals and pardons for the convicted. The December premiere of the documentary, which highlighted an alleged miscarriage of justice, has sparked renewed interest and investigation into the case.

We're not sure just how much of an impact this track will have in convincing the state of Wisconsin that Dassey and Avery are innocent... but if nothing else, at least it's feeding our ever-growing desire for even more information on the case.

Kylie Jenner's Newest Lip Kit Color Will Be Here in Time for Valentine's Day

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After the release of her crazy popular Lip Kits in Dolce K, Candy K and Brown K, Kylie Jenner is showing no signs of stopping. Earlier this week, the youngest Kardashian made the announcement of her newest Lip Kit shade, the first release from her upcoming Valentine collection. Not only that—she gave her Instagram followers a chance to pick the name for the pretty pink hue.


Just yesterday, Kylie released the highly anticipated name of her new lip color: Posie K. We think it's absolutely perfect... and our only complaint? That we didn't come up with it ourselves. Here's to hoping we get a chance at snagging this flirty color once the collection drops!



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Emma Watson Admits Feeling 'Terrified' as a Child Star

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As a proud feminist, college graduate, and successful actress, Emma Watson seems to have her life all figured out. When she's not inspiring us to stand up for our rights and the rights of others, she's busy giving powerful speeches or starting book clubs. However, in a recent interview for the winter issue of Porter Magazine, Emma explained that her life wasn't always so seemingly perfect. In the magazine, Emma opened up about the struggles she faced as a child actress, after skyrocketing to fame at 9 years old.  

Growing up is difficult enough, but having to do so while under public scrutiny is even more frustrating. "As a young person, that feeling of not being comfortable in my own skin was exacerbated by the microscope I was under," Emma admitted. Constantly being hounded with questions such as "What do you think of this?" and "Who are you?" added to her feelings of uneasiness. Moreover, while girls her age seemed to have a clear idea of who they were, Emma said she struggled with her own identity. "I envied those girls because I was so unsure of myself. I questioned everything," she admitted. Eventually, her feelings of uncertainty and inadequacy led Emma to close herself off at red carpet events in order to cope. "I was terrified by the level of interest in me. I spent most of my time trying to convince everyone I was incredibly boring because I needed privacy and a minute to figure myself out," Emma explained. 

Like all collegiettes, Emma also had her fair share of difficulties while studying at Brown University. Although she admitted to feeling lonely at times, the benefits of her decision largely outweighed such disadvantages. "There were times when it felt very lonely, moving to the other side of the world, to where I had no support, when I was on the side of buses everywhere," she shared. "But I'm so glad I did, it was the best thing I could have done, putting myself in that furnace. It gave me this place of refuge, this space I could negotiate for myself, and time to figure out who I was."

Growing up as a child in the spotlight wasn't easy, but Emma's experiences helped to shape her into the inspiring, intelligent and insightful woman that she is today. "Now at 25, for the first time in my life I feel like I have a sense of self that I'm comfortable with," she said. 

6 Experiences You NEED to Mention When Applying for Any Job

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As a collegiette applying for your first job or internship, the question, “What qualifies you for this position?” can be the most intimidating one you’ll hear during an interview. After all, when you’re still in school and haven’t exactly had tons of time in the “real world” to feel qualified, how can you demonstrate your skills to potential employers and show what a standout applicant you are? Even if you don’t have tons of experience working or interning already, there are plenty of activities you’re already participating in on campus that you’ve probably never even thought to bring up in an interview or cover letter! From your sorority to playing on the women’s soccer team, we rounded up a list of activities and experiences that you’re not mentioning on your cover letter or during an interview—but totally should be!

1. Acting and theatre

Did you spend the majority of your free time in college on stage? Tom Dezell, author of Networking for the Novice, Nervous, or Naïve Job-Seeker says that acting is a great skill to mention no matter what the job you’re applying for is.

“An individual who acted in plays would be comfortable making presentations to groups, which can be important in just about any field,” Dezell says. “Plus, most surveys of common human fears show this is quite prominent, so employers value it.”

Especially in a workplace where you’ll be giving frequent presentations or doing lots of speaking, the ability to be comfortable presenting to a large amount of people is extremely valuable. To mention this skill during an interview or cover letter, try connecting it to your ability to be comfortable speaking in public and confidently presenting your ideas. Dezell recommends looking out for an open-ended question in the interview and taking this opportunity to show the way your acting experience translates to the workplace.

“Any open-ended question regarding what interests them or qualifies them for the job provides the opportunity,” Dezell explains.

What to say:

“My experience as a performer in plays and musicals throughout my time as a student has allowed me to gain valuable public speaking skills, and has prepared me to effectively present my ideas within the workplace.”

2. Leadership positions

You probably already know to mention your experience as student body president or the leader of a major organization on campus; but no matter how big or small the organization you’re a part of is, a leadership position is worth mentioning, as it’ll give you a major leg up. Whether you were president of your sorority or the animal rights club, mentioning leadership experience not only shows that you are capable of organizing and managing an organization, but that you are trusted and respected by those who voted you into the position in the first place.

“No matter what the activity, assuming or rising to leadership positions can provide some of the few opportunities students have to demonstrate leadership,” Dezell says.

It’s a great idea to mention current or past leadership positions if an interviewer asks about what qualifies you for a job, since it shows you’ve worked hard and were dedicated enough to an organization to move up and take on that leadership role.

What to say:

“As president of my school’s chapter of Kappa Kappa Gamma, I have learned valuable leadership and interpersonal skills, and as a result, I am extremely comfortable leading a team and interacting with others effectively.”

3. Playing a sport

Few activities can teach teamwork and collaboration like team sports do—if you participated in a team sport during college, it’s great to mention it!

“Playing sports obviously often involves teamwork,” Dezell says. “Plus, the winning and losing aspect of sports can build skills in perseverance, which translates well into occupations like sales, account management and customer service.”

In almost any workplace, you’ll have to work with others to reach a common goal, so mentioning the teamwork you learned is always a good idea. Even if your sport isn’t a team sport, it’s still great to point out the way endless hours of practicing to be ready to compete has taught you the skills of dedication, hard work and perseverance.

What to say:

“Playing for the women’s soccer team has taught me how to work effectively with a team of others to work toward a common goal.”

4. School newspaper

Even if you’re not applying to work in a communications-based field, the writing and communication skills you’ve gained from working on the staff of a school publication will make you a standout applicant.

“Working on the school paper not only provides ways to showcase writing and editing skills, but also can document ability to meet deadlines,” Dezell says.

Aja Frost, a California Polytechnic State senior, says she includes her previous journalism experience in cover letters to demonstrate her ability to be creative and think on her feet within time constraints.

“Although I'm not interested in being a journalist, I've done a lot of reporting,” she says. “I use this to show potential employers my excellent written communication skills. For example, I might write in a cover letter, ‘Working for USA TODAY College shaped my abilities to write clearly and concisely on a deadline. These skills would serve me well in a role on your marketing team, where I'd be required to create compelling content within time constraints.’”

Meryl Weinsaft Cooper and Jessica Kleiman, co-authors of Be Your Own Best Publicist: How To Use PR Techniques to Get Noticed, Hired and Rewarded at Work, agree that good communication skills and the ability to meet a deadline are great skills to bring up when mentioning your experience working for a college publication.

School newspaper experience means you are a good writer or editor, can tell a story, and you meet deadlines well,” Cooper and Kleiman say.

Good communication skills will always be a major asset in any workplace. Something as simple as connecting the way your writing experience has improved your ability to effectively and concisely communicate a message will make employers take notice.

What to say:

“Working on the staff of my university’s newspaper has enhanced my ability to communicate and write concisely, and this skill has positively shaped my marketing and public relations proficiencies.”

5. Part-time jobs

At first, it may seem insignificant compared to the job you’re applying for, but mentioning any part-time work experience is a great way to show your ability to work well with other people and to be both professional and dependable. Sarah Beth Kaye, a senior at Rutgers University, always makes sure to include the value of her experience working as front desk personnel in a university building.

“While I am not applying for front desk personnel jobs, it shows that I have great people skills and am well practiced in working with people,” Kaye says. “Almost any job in which you talk to people on a professional level, whether or not it fits your future career path, is good to mention because it shows that you are able to communicate professionally and properly with people.”

Cooper and Kleiman agree that, ultimately, any work experience and the skills you’ve learned from it can easily be made applicable to whatever job you are applying for.

“Drill down to what elements could translate to an office or more traditional job,” Cooper and Kleiman say. “Be creative but honest and you’ll have a treasure trove of experience and skills from which to pull.”

Other jobs, like waitressing or working retail, translate well to people skills and customer service as well! Even if your choice of part-time employment isn’t one that involves constantly working with people, mentioning the work ethic it has taught you is a great way to show employers that you’re prepared for the challenge of a full-time job or internship.

What to say:

“My summer job as a waitress has allowed me to develop the ability to manage competing priorities and hone my interpersonal skills.”

6. Participating in Greek life

Ever thought about mentioning your sorority at an interview? Next time, you totally should. Kleiman and Cooper say that few activities provide you with such great people skills as participation in Greek life does, and if you’ve ever worked on your sorority’s recruitment tasks, you’ve definitely gained some valuable marketing skills too!

“On the rush committee for your sorority? You probably have had to develop your interpersonal skills and even garnered a little marketing experience,” Kleiman and Cooper say.

No matter what job you’re applying for, the interpersonal skills participating in a sorority provides you with will be valuable to any employer. It’s also a great idea to mention the way sororities teach leadership, and oftentimes, conflict management when necessary.

What to say:

“My participation in Greek life on campus has developed my interpersonal skills, and working specifically on our rush committee to attract new recruits has cultivated my marketing and public relations skills.”

Even if you haven’t had a ton of time to hone your skills in the real world, showing employers the ways your experiences in college translate to the workplace is a great way to make yourself a standout applicant. Get ready for those offers to start rolling in!

Stephen Colbert Asks the Women Behind 'Making A Murderer' the Questions We've All Been Wondering

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If you've been on any social media platforms lately, you've probably heard about the latest documentary on Netflix, Making A Murderer. The ten episode docu-series follows the story of a man named Steven Avery who was wrongly imprisoned for eighteen years, only to be accused of murder shortly after his exoneration.

The two directors of the show, Laura Ricciardi and Moira Demos, appeared on The Late Show last Tuesday to talk to Stephen Colbert about the series they spent ten years working on. The women discussed how, although most viewers think of the series as a "whodunnit," it was intended to be more of a "howdunnit." The documentary follows Avery and his family through the American justice system and focuses more on how a murder trial can become corrupt rather than pointing fingers at people to see who's guilty.

Stephen tells Laura and Moira how their work has started a movement that opened many peoples' eyes to how dishonest something as trusted as the police force and judicial system could become. Stephen raises the question, "Is it the idea that we've got guilty and not guilty in our system as opposed to proven or not proven?"Is Steven Avery guilty, or was the prosecution just able to prove—by their standards, at least—that he was? Both Laura and Moira agree that this is a detail that affects how people think when it comes to trials like Stephen Avery's because of the many technicalities in the judicial system.

You can watch the video below and see how Laura and Moira further explain their motives behind filming the series. What are your opinions on the trial, collegiettes?

10 Reasons Why We'll Never Be the Same Without Alan Rickman

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When news broke today that Alan Rickman had died from cancer at age 69, we were beyond devastated. As members of the generation that grew up watching Rickman’s flawless portrayal of the Harry Potter series’ not-quite-trustworthy yet unbelievably loveable Severus Snape, we don’t know how the world will ever be the same without him.

1. Watching all-day Harry Potter marathons on ABC Family won’t be as fun

Sure, we’ll still delight in the back-to-back airings of Harry and the gang’s magical shenanigans, but we’ll definitely tear up every time Snape graces our screen.

2. But Snape jokes will be just as hilarious

We like to think Alan Rickman would delight in our silly Snape-induced giggle fits.

3. Snape’s death scene will be all the more tragic

Who didn’t sob wildly when Voldemort ordered his snake, Nagini, to brutally murder Severus? We honestly don’t know if we’ll ever be able to watch this scene again.

4. His voice will give us even more goosebumps

Rickman’s signature drawl could send chills down our spine instantly. Thanks to his extensive work in film, we’ll never have to forget his sound, though it’s sure to be haunting.

5. Who’s going to provide sassy life truths to keep us in check?

We could always count on Snape to tell it like it is.

6. He was the ultimate anti-hero

We’ll likely never see anyone better embody the role of anti-hero—at least not in the way that Rickman so mindfully and gracefully did.

7. His love for Lily will break our hearts over and over again

This reveal was the ultimate prize for fans who never could understand Snape’s peculiar attachment to Harry. There has never been a time we’ve watched these scenes without crying, and we’re sure there never will be.

8. We’ll never see Rickman reunite with the HP cast

Though the series’ run on film is seemingly complete, that doesn’t rule out the possibility of a reunion off-screen. Sadly, such an event did not occur before Rickman’s passing.

9. “Always” will always mean so much more

Other than “turn to page 394,” this has to be Snape’s most quoted line from the films. With the passion he evoked in saying that one word, anyone could see how powerful Rickman’s presence was.

10. The world of acting—and our world—just won’t be as bright without him in it

Of course, we will remember Rickman as the iconic Severus Snape. But he also has leagues of fans from his work in Love Actually, Sense and Sensibility, Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves and numerous roles on stage.

Today, we felt the world grow a little bit dimmer. Not only will that sentiment radiate throughout the acting community but through our world as well.

Carly Fiorina and Rand Paul Won't Be at the GOP Main Debate Tonight

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Carly Fiorina and Rand Paul have been kicked out of Thursday night's Republican mainstage debate in South Carolina. According to the New York Times, the candidates’ slipping popularity amongst voters is to blame. Fox Business Network, who is hosting the debate, mandated for candidates to have placed in the top six in national polls recognized by the network, or in the top five of recent state polls in Iowa or New Hampshire to appear at the debate. Analysis of over 17 different polls showed that neither candidate was eligible to take the main stage.

The two candidates were, however, extended invitations to participate in the undercard debate.

Mr. Paul declined his invitation to participate. “I won’t participate in anything that’s not first tier because we have a first tier campaign,” he explained to a CNN correspondent.

He has instead decided to bypass the medium of the debate process altogether, and will take his campaign message directly to the Iowa caucus and New Hampshire primaries, according to NPR.

Conversely, Ms. Fiorina has accepted her invitation to the undercard debate with confidence.

“Well, you know, it’s interesting, I started this campaign 17 out of 16. Nobody took me seriously. In the latest Fox News poll, I’m number six nationally, so I feel pretty good about where I am and last time I looked, voters decide elections,” she said during an interview with Boston Herald Radio's Morning Meeting following the release of the mainstage lineup.

With such starkly different reactions to being excluded from the primary debate, we can’t wait to see how these candidates’ decisions play out. 

In Memory of Alan Rickman & the Series that Changed My Life

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I was in second grade when Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone was released in theaters around Christmas, but I didn't know yet that the series—the films, the books, the characters—would change my life forever. I sat, transfixed, in the dark theatre, surrounded by my mom and my two best friends. From the moment the opening music started to play, I was hooked.

For the remainder of the film, I wasn't just a casual moviegoer enjoying what would soon become a cultural phenonemon in our generation. I was right there beside Harry, Hermione and Ron. When Severus Snape (Alan Rickman) was introduced, he instilled a fear into my ten-year-old heart as if I, too, were a Hogwarts first-year student. The Golden Trio were convinced that Snape was supporting Voldemort, and so was I. When they learned the truth about Professor Quirrell, I literally gasped in surprise and began to feel guilty for assuming Snape was "the bad guy." 

Alan Rickman's performance as Snape was a cornerstone for my love of the Harry Potter film series. From the get-go, he played such a complicated, nuanced character with an air of mystery that kept me guessing. By the time the second film was released, I had already the remainder of the book series and I was eagerly awaiting the publication of the next book.

I knew what to expect from Snape from then on, but Rickman's performance still drew me in. In the last two films, when Snape's backstory involving Lily is revealed, it was Rickman's acting that made me cry. As a character, I can admit to very mixed feelings about Snape. He's undoubtedly a compelling character. He's not easy to understand, and his motivations and actions aren't always admirable. But I definitely don't always like him, especially when I consider that unrequited love for Lily doesn't excuse his more deplorable decisions. When I cried in that theater as Snape passed away, I wasn't crying entirely for the character—I was crying for Rickman. As an actor, he'd taken up hold in my heart, after six films of getting to know him, love him, loathe him and fear him. 

It's difficult for some people to understand how someone could love an actor they've never met, or a fictional character that doesn't even exist. That's what the Harry Potter series has been in my life. I know I'm not alone, and the existence of The Wizarding World of Harry Potter at Universal proves that. As a whole, the series means so much to me that I couldn't even imagine marrying someone who didn't share my love of Harry Potter, someone who couldn't curl up with me for a marathon of the movies, someone who wouldn't be just as thrilled at the idea of styling our wedding invitations like they were Hogwarts acceptance letters. 

I was in second grade when I saw the first film. I'm not among the many people who were inspired to read just because of Harry Potter. I was an avid reader, like my mom, and she and I would take turns reading chapters out of the Harry Potter books aloud to one another. She cackled at the corny jokes, like Arthur Weasley's Shrinking Door-Keys in The Chamber of Secrets, and we often fell asleep in the living room after long hours of reading. For each new film released, she was right beside me in the theater, squeezing my hand in delight as we downed Pepsi and Crunch bars. For Christmas after the first film came out, I got a Hermione doll, and Emma Watson became my first celebrity crush. I slept in the closet under our staircase for weeks on end with a pair of rounded reading glasses I bought from the pharmacy. 

When my mom passed away in 2004, Harry Potter became our legacy. I carried it with me as if it were a part of her that I could not be separated from. The series meant so much more to me—after all, Harry's loss of his parents is a major theme in both the books and the films. When I re-watched the scene with the Mirror of Erised for the first time after her death, it felt like someone had picked up the series like a snow globe and shaken it, until what was once familiar was blanketed in snow. It was the same scene, but I watched it with new eyes, with shaking hands and blurred vision. I finally understood what it meant.

The series taught me how to understand and accept loss as a part of life. Harry's parents aren't the only characters we lose throughout the series, and I can't tell you how many times I've cried over Fred Weasley's death. We're able to see how other characters loved and lost Lily and James as well, including Snape and his complicated history with the pair. And then, nearing the end of the series, we lose Snape, in one of the most emotionally nuanced character deaths, because we aren't given a character who is wholly good or wholly evil. At the end of the series, we understand that none of the characters are one or the other, and we mourn them each for who they were, not who Harry wanted them to be when he was a child.

Alan Rickman wasn't just an actor. I watch Love Actually every year during the holiday season, and it's yet another film where he portrays a very complicated character. Because he's portrayed by the incomparable Rickman, I can't help but like him, even as I scream at him for his treatment of his wife. That was Alan Rickman. He was a larger persona than the roles that he played, in a way that captivated me beyond his character. 

I watch most of the Harry Potter series every year during the holidays, too, and every time, the snow falling over Hogwarts makes my heart ache. This is the series that inspired me to become a writer, knowing that author J.K. Rowling similarly lost her mom and struggled before she was successful. This is the series that kept me going after my mom passed, when I would reread the books in bed late at night if I couldn't sleep, sometimes pulling the covers over my head as if I were Harry practicing spells in secret from the Dursleys. 

This series was a small dose of magic for me, and Alan Rickman was a huge part of that. I feel his loss and think of my mom, who found him creepy and fascinating in the early movies. I feel his loss and think of how she never got to finish the series, because neither the books nor the films had been released by the time of her passing. I feel his loss, and I imagine the conversations my mom and I could have had: was Albus Severus a fitting name for Harry's son? Did we like the inclusion of the epilogue? What does it mean to love someone who doesn't feel the same way?

I feel his loss, and I think of ten-year-old me, sitting in the theater before the music began, not even knowing how much my life was about to change. I feel his loss, because the Harry Potter series may have ended, but it's never really over. It's in every YouTube compilation made to show us how heartbreaking Snape's journey of losing Lily is. It's in every fanfiction written about George coping after Fred's death. It's in every one of us who still believes in magic, even after all this time.

This is for you, Alan Rickman. Always. 


The 2016 Oscar Nominations Are Completely Lacking in Diversity

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Without a doubt, 2015 was a great year for movies, and after watching the Golden Globes earlier this week, we were all probably bouncing around with glee in anticipation of the Oscar nominations. However, when the nomination list was announced earlier this morning, everyone found themselves banging their heads against the wall in frustration that once again no minorities are represented in any of the four main acting categories. It seems that this year all the Oscar nominations happen to very white—again—even though the Academy had a diverse array of performances and films to choose from.  

Despite outstanding performances, Idris Elba went unrecognized for his role in “Beasts of No Nation,” along with Will Smith for “Concussion,” and Samuel L. Jackson for “The Hateful Eight.” Even Kitana Kiki Rodrigues and Maya Taylor, the transgender actresses of color who starred in “Tangerine,” failed to earn nominations this year.

Michael B. Jordan, who was well received for his role in “Creed” was looked over, while his co-star and white actor, Sylvester Stallone, was given the nomination for Best Suppporting Actor. The only person of color who managed to snag a nomination is the Mexican director of “The Revenant,” Alejandro González Iñárritu, despite the fact that only white actors Leonardo DiCaprio and Tom Hardy earned recognition for their acting in the film. And all this, after DiCaprio focused his acceptance speech at the Golden Globes on recognizing “all the First Nations people represented in this film, and all the indigenous communities around the world.”

The familiar hashtag #OscarsSoWhite has been revived and is trending on social media, along with the updated version #OscarsStillSoWhite in response to the lack of diversity put forth from the Academy for the second year in a row. 





Ironically, the Oscars are being hosted this year by black comedian, Chris Rock, and many are hopeful that he will address the issues of diversity when the award show occurs at the end of February.



9 Collegiettes Talk About Embracing Their Natural Hair

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Being a collegiette with early classes can be hard. Not only do we have to drag ourselves out of our warm beds hours before we should legally have to, but we also strive to look presentable, confident and ready to start the day. Between makeup, hair and an outfit, the getting ready process can sometimes be super lengthy.

But what if you could cut back on some of your morning routine and gain some crucial minutes of extra beauty sleep? Sound impossible? We promise, it's not. The key is to let your hair do its thing! It can be tempting to want to tame your natural curls or take a curling iron to your straight hair before you head to class, but imagine the time and energy you could save if you just embraced your natural locks. We talked to nine collegiettes who have come to love their natural hair and are gaining confidence and sleep time because of it. 

1. Alexandra, Millersville University, Class of 2017

"I used to hate my natural hair because I didn't like my waves and curls. In high school, I would put the dreaded straightener to it every single day because everyone had straight hair. I regret it because my hair became so unhealthy! I accepted my natural look in college. I always let my hair air dry. Then in the morning, I fluff it up with a little bit of water and I'm ready to go. Everyone always says they love my hair and ask me what I do to get my perfect waves and curls. Truth is... it's just my natural hair!" 

2. Kaia, Ball State University, Class of 2018

"I like my natural hair because it makes me feel more like me. I don’t have to worry too much about it looking gross. Once you find the right product, it makes all the difference in loving your natural hair."

3. Brianna, Indiana University, Class of 2018

"I have kept my hair natural for my entire life. I used to get really frustrated and bored with it since it's straight and doesn't curl or style well. However, staying away from heat and color products has helped me to keep my hair really healthy. Plus, I save a lot of time getting ready in the morning when I just wake up and shower and don't have to worry about styling it." 

Related: 15 ​Struggles Every Natural-Haired Girl Knows to Be True

4. Zariah, University of South Carolina Upstate, Class of 2019

"I wasn’t so sure about going natural at the beginning, but when I watched my mom go through it I figured that I could do it too. I did the big chop and started all over again. I got a little insecure about it, but I knew that it would only be temporary and it would grow back eventually. I absolutely love my hair now because it’s growing longer and healthier. I just began to accept myself more for who I am and I try to embrace that now too."

5. Jacqueline, Pace University, Class of 2017

"I have learned to embrace my natural curls! When I was little I HATED my hair! It would take hours to do and my mom had straight hair so she never knew how to take care of my hair. I would do keratin treatments and permanent straightening treatments to keep my hair straight so I wouldn't have to deal with the curls. When I went to college, I couldn't afford the treatments in the city (broke city college kid problems), so I started leaving my hair natural! After trying multiple products, I have finally embraced my naturally curly hair! Also, I get compliments all the time so that's a plus! I do straighten my hair sometimes, it's very rare, but that takes hours and I have better things to be doing with my time, like running the Her Campus Pace chapter!"

6. Lexi, University of South Carolina, Class of 2018 

"I haven't always liked my curly hair, but once I found the right products I accepted and embraced the texture. My hair is one of my most unique features." 

7. Rachel, James Madison University, Class of 2017

"I have naturally curly hair, and I used to hate it! I'd straighten it all the time and eventually I got a Japanese straightening treatment. After having 'straight' hair, I missed my curls! Once I found the right products to use, I loved wearing it naturally. Now I wear it curly almost all the time!"

8. Callan, SUNY Oneonta, Class of 2018

"I've just become used to my natural hair. I have naturally wavy and frizzy hair—not straight but not curly, and I've hated it for so long. I'd spend my days straightening it, but now I've grown to embrace it because, quite frankly, it's not going anywhere. There are days when I decide I'm not really feeling it, so if that happens, I throw it into two quick French braids and that's my look for the day. It's easy and when I take it out, I love the wave the braids create. "

9. Courtney, University of South Carolina, Class of 2018

"Being natural, in my opinion, brings you closer to your culture and an acceptance of who you really are. It’s the way God made you. Is it easy or manageable? Not at all, but it's about embracing what you have. It’s about being thankful for the heritage behind the natural hair of a proud black woman."

What do you love most about your natural hair, collegiettes?

7 Reasons Why You Should Date A Female Athlete

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Whether you're watching them on TV or at a school sports game, female athletes are bound to do something to impress you. Though there are an endless amount of reasons you should date one, here are some of the best!

1. They're fun to be around 

2. They're strong

3. They'll bring out your competitive side

4. They challenge you to be your best

5. They know what they want and are willing to work to get it

6. They'll inspire you

7. They will stop at nothing to achieve their goals, knowing how to look at the bigger picture (in sports and relationships)

Don't underestimate how awesome female athletes are!

21 Signs Your Harry Potter Obsession Was Next Level

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As we continue to reflect on year’s past in the new era of 2016, we often think of one of the greatest franchises known to man, woman and muggle: the Harry Potter series. We loved the books, the movies and everything before, in between and especially after, so with the casting of a black Hermione in the new play “Harry Potter and the Cursed Child” and the soon to be released HP spinoff, “Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them” coming out this year, for all former HP fanatics, the excitement and obsession keeps rebuilding after we thought we had to bury it in 2011 when Deathly Hallows Part 2 was released. Well, even though we have reason to always harbor an HP obsession, looking back on the era of the last films, here are the signs we needed to know that our over the border obsessions with HP reached gold status.

1. Watching at least one movie from the series each night was a ritual

2. Not dressing up for Halloween was not an option

3. You could give Hermione a run for her money in spell knowledge

4. The books served as your comedy, romance, mystery, drama novels all in one

5. Every one of your creative projects in school was HP related

6. You knew which scenes in the book didn’t make it into the film

7. A paper on the allegories of the HP world to the real world was easier than any one for school

8. You have been to Universal Florida to visit Diagon Alley at least 5 times

9. You instinctively know when a HP marathon is premiering on ABC Family

10. Your YouTube History is filled with clips from “Harry Potter Puppet Pals”

11. Your family and friends expect you to make at least one HP reference a day

12. You have watched every HP interview online

13. And you know most of the answers

14. You have gotten in vigorous arguments with people over whether Hermione belonged with Harry or Ron

15. You are an expert at playing Quidditch---the Muggle Version

16. Your room was decorated like a room inside the Weasley’s Burrow

17. You desperately tried to find the recipe of a butterbeer

18. Your ringtone is Hedwig’s Theme

19. Twilight is to you what Voldemort is to Harry

20. You know the name of every British person that has ever been a part of the HP cast

21. July 31st is one of your favorite days…Obviously!

Which sign applies to you? Tell us in the comments!

 
 
 

I Tried Shaving My Face & Here's What Happened

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Now, if you read the title of this and cringed, I don't blame you. Everything we know or have been told about shaving should tell you to run away screaming if a razor comes near your face. However, after seeing this trick on Pinterest, I was intrigued. I've always been bothered by how my foundation looked over my peach fuzz so I thought I'd give it a go!

In scouring the Internet for clues, I found that the verdict was pretty much split down the middle; some opinions were scary, but some were really promising!

Potential Pros:

  1. Softer skin and anti-aging from the exfoliation
  2. Smoother makeup application
  3. Potentially clearer skin

Potential Cons:

  1. Hair growing back thicker and darker
  2. Razor bumps/ingrown hairs
  3. Cuts/nicks
  4. Sensitive skin reacting poorly

Weighing the pros and cons, I decided the pros outweighed the cons and I wanted to give this go. After all of my research, I ordered the “Gabriella Women’s Eyebrow and Facial Razor” pack from Amazon, because it had the best reviews and the cheapest price. I would definitely recommend buying something like this rather than a traditional razor, because it’s gentler for your face! I didn't buy any special shaving cream, since it looked like everyone was saying to do it on a dry face (yes, dry! Not even water!).

Related: 7 Beauty Hacks That Will Change How You Use Makeup

After watching a few YouTube tutorials, I took a deep breath and started in on a potentially life-altering experiment. Here’s what happened:

Observing the pros:

Softer skin and anti-aging from the exfoliation

My face became so soft!This one is probably obvious, as you’ve learned from rubbing your baby soft legs constantly right after shaving them. But the surprising part was that my face stayed soft—for weeks!

Smoother makeup application

My makeup looked significantly better! Without any peach fuzz or dead skin in the way, my foundation went on so much smoother! No more streaks or weird build-up from the makeup grabbing onto the hairs or dry skin (gross). 

Potentially clearer skin

Confirmed: My skin started to get clearer! The pimples that I had improved considerably, and so did my patchy dryness. Why? Because with less hair in the way, it was easier for skincare products to reach pores and really soak into the skin!

Related: 6 Beauty Hacks You Should Never Try

Looking at the cons:

Hair growing back thicker and darker

For me, the hair regrowth went mostly unnoticed! In my research, I read that you should shave every two weeks. I thought that sounded like total garbage—no way would I let the hair grow for that long without looking like I was growing a beard! But two weeks came and went before I remembered my experiment. And when I looked at the hair up close in the mirror, it looked exactly how it did pre-shave—no prickly grow-back period whatsoever!

Razor bumps/ingrown hairs

This wasn't the case for me. I didn’t have any bumps, which was a huge relief!

Cuts/nicks

I managed to avoid these, too. Shaving was so easy it was almost impossible to mess up! I shaved using short strokes, which helped prevent any slip-ups.

Sensitive skin reacting poorly

The razor I used was so gentle! Even without shaving cream, it was so gentle on my skin that I didn’t have any issues with sensitivity.

Related: How to Revive Dull, Dreary Winter Skin

For me, I experienced all of the pros without dealing with any of the cons. Not only were the results better than I expected, a month after stopping shaving, my face is back to the way it was before shaving (so, no, my hair didn't grow back thicker). The razors were so affordable and easy to use, and the results were so fantastic, that there is almost no reason not to give shaving a shot!

Would you ever try shaving your face?

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