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These celebrities nailed their graduation speeches. [PopSugar]

Romantic comedies for people who hate rom-coms. [YourTango]

Fears of a clown. [New York Magazine]

NYU makes key admissions change. [Newser]

The business of selling your old clothes. [Racked]

"Serial" is coming back! [BuzzFeed]

Don't take a job after graduation just to say you have one. [Thought Catalog]

What it's like to work for Donna Karan. [I Want Her Job]

How much do you need to rent a two bedroom apartment? [City Lab]

Do you remember Addy Walker? [The Paris Review]

 


Eating Healthy on Vacation is Easier Than You Think

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This article has been syndicated to Her Campus from Seashells + Sparkles by Rachel Martin, a Her Campus Blogger Network member. Read the full post here.

If you're like me, you know eating healthy on vacation is nearly impossible. I go crazy when it comes to new places and new food. Gator? I'll take it. Conch? I'll also take some of that. Sweets? The more the merrier. Or maybe you're a drinker (also like me). Yes, bartender, I would like a cocktail in my hand the entire time I'm here. Seriously, don't let me be empty-handed until I leave to go home. Did you forget you're supposed to be wearing a bathing suit right now?

It is important to remember that just because you're on an all-expenses-paid vacation doesn't mean that your eating habits aren't going to follow you home. Therefore it is important to watch your food intake because you don't want to let your poor vacation eating habits become lifetime eating habits.

1. Eat a Hearty Breakfast

Protein, protein, protein. If you're going to be out and about all day, be sure to eat a breakfast jam-packed with protein. It will keep you fuller longer, not to mention give you extra energy for all of those outdoor activities you'll be participating in.

2. Snacks

Before you hop on that plane and go somewhere gorgeous and foreign, do a little snack shopping. Simple groceries are marked up on islands and sometimes hard to find. If you can pack some granola bars, protein bars, instant oatmeals and cereals, it will save you money and allow you to munch on something throughout the day when you need a little pick-me-up.

3. Meal Splurge

It's important not to splurge on everything you eat the entire time you are vacationing, but to allow yourself a little leeway; pick one meal that you'll splurge on each day. I personally would choose dinner—what's better than 5 different appetizers?

Read the full post on Seashells + Sparkles.

Proof that It's Possible to Pack for Europe in a Carry-On

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This article has been syndicated to Her Campus from Chantel Emma by Chantel Petty, a Her Campus Blogger Network member. Read the full post here.

Packing for Europe in a carry-on can seem restrictive, but in reality, it will allow you to be more mobile as well as free you from the hassle of lugging around a heavy bag. I hope this guide will help you pack for your dream vacation.

1. Pre-Packing

Research the areas you will be visiting

Look into the local climates, as well as the activities you plan to do while you're there. Also, keep in mind any specifics, such as that many churches have dress codes (for example, shoulders & knees must be covered). Knowing exactly the weather, events, and excursions you will be doing will help you eliminate unnecessary items. 

Gather all documents you may need while traveling

This includes passports, IDs, boarding passes, event tickets, etc. It is also wise to make photocopies of the documents in case they are lost or stolen. 

Lay out all outfits down to the jewelry and underclothing

This helps you visually organize, as well as see where you can mix and match clothing items. It also ensures that you do not forget anything. When choosing what to bring, keep in mind that lightweight materials will take up less space in your bag, and they'll also keep you cool when you're walking around all day.

Finding good luggage is just as important as what goes into it

For Christmas, I received this Samsonite, which I absolutely love. From personal experience, I have found that soft luggage is better than hard.

2. Packing

Toiletries

I have found that the best way to transport toiletries is in a bag with a hook. Many hotels in Europe have very little counter space, so a bag with a hook comes in very handy. I use this bag from L.L. Bean. I also fill these bottles with shampoo and conditioner to ensure there is no leakage, and they comply with the airline restrictions on liquids.

Make-up

For a makeup bag, choose something that is small. Remember that since you will be using a carry-on, all liquids must fall within the restricted limits and be in a plastic bag to go through screening.

Clothing

For me, packing in a carry-on would not be possible without my Ebags. The bags make the amount of items you can bring exponentially higher. Use the largest of the bags for your bulkiest items. Roll them as tightly as you can and place into the bag. These bags also help prevent wrinkling and disorganization.

Read the full post on Chantel Emma.

Beauty Products You Should Definitely Travel With

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This article has been syndicated to Her Campus from Chic & Chai by Madison Taylor, a Her Campus Blogger Network member. Read the full post here.

As I grow older, I find myself wanting to simplify my beauty routine, especially when it comes to summer travel. I now find those unnecessary layers of makeup to be unappealing in the sweltering heat. Plus, a minimal beauty look is better than a cakey or greasy one.

I put together this manual time lapse for you guys to show you some of the products I’ll likely be taking on my next vacation. See something you need to have? All of the details are below!

Bath & Body Works Hawaii PassionFruit Kiss Fragrance and Body Lotion 

H&M Mirrored Sunnies 

Pantene Original Fresh Dry Shampoo

Leopard Tangle Teezer

Bumble & Bumble Tonic Lotion Primer

Devonne by Demi Hydrating Radiance Mist

Read the full post on Chic & Chai.

Why Ed Sheeran Has Never Hooked Up with Taylor Swift

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While it is obvious from their numerous selfies, award show antics, and adorable music video that Ed Sheeran and Taylor Swift are super close, Ed has never thought about filling a blank space on Taylor’s long list of ex-lovers.

During a recent appearance on The Breakfast Club, a radio show on New York Power 105.1, the singer-songwriter was asked by the host if he had ever “smashed” pal, Taylor Swift. Ed was as awkwardly adorable as always, replying that the two had never been romantically involved. He admitted that he didn’t know why but said, "I met her professionally first, we were writing songs. I don't know, I get along really well with her." 

When asked if they hadn’t hooked up out of fear of ruining their friendship, Sheeran revealed that his beautiful bestie simply isn’t his type. “Too tall,” he said of the “Bad Blood” singer. The ever witty 24-year-old later added, "I feel like we look like cast members of The Hobbit."

By his recent third-wheel appearances with Taylor and Calvin Harris, we're pretty sure that Ed isn’t in his room playing Swift’s 2008 hit, “You Belong With Me.”

He looks pretty happy to us.

And obviously Ed and Calvin are great pals.

They even have entertaining group conversations.

#ThirdWheelGoals

Check out Ed “Thinking Out Loud” about his famous BFF!

The Best Places to Visit in Michigan this Summer

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This article has been syndicated to Her Campus from Little Blog on the Homestead by Nicole Lintemuth, a Her Campus Blogger Network member. Read the full post here

I love living in Michigan. I’ve lived other places, visited other places, but honestly would never want to live anywhere other than here! It’s no secret that winter can feel a little never-ending sometimes, but our beautiful summers more than make up for the colder months. So as a continuing part of my Michigan Rocks series, I will be focusing on my favorite places to visit around the state.

Fort Michilimackinac

This is probably one of my favorite places in Michigan! Any time I go to the UP I always make a stop in Mackinaw City and enjoy some of the touristy stuff. There is great fudge, good shopping and natural beauty to behold and Fort Michilimackinac! This year is the 300th anniversary so you can find all kinds of fun special events going on at their website

The first time I ever saw a drop spindle in action was at the Fort, and the reenactment wedding is always my favorite (because I am a HUGE sucker for weddings). If you have an interest in archeology you will get a kick out of the dig going on every summer at the Fort. I love getting to talk to the archeology students while they work and seeing each year the different things that they’ve uncovered.

Mackinac Island

Mackinac Island is one site that is always on must-see Michigan lists. And that’s for good reason! You’ll get a chance to step back in time at this Victorian throwback. The island is still car free so you’ll be getting around via bikes and horses. The beautiful old shops and inns are so fun to explore and it’s one of the most beautiful places I’ve been.

Mackinac Island is a historical gem, but also a foodie hotspot! You have to try the Mackinac Island Fudge; I recommend Ryba’s, and there are a lot of Michigan wineries that you can find on the island. Yankee Rebel Tavern is my favorite restaurant on the island, and I feel like everyone needs to spend the night on the island at least once in their life. It’s amazing how the pace slows down after the last ferry leaves for the night!

Engineer's Day at The Soo Locks

The Soo Locks are an engineering marvel—they allow commerce to flow easily from Lake Superior, down the St. Mary’s River and into the rest of the Great Lakes! This one is really special to me. I grew up in the UP and my dad’s family lives in Sault Ste. Marie (the Soo to the locals) and I would spend a couple weeks each summer staying there with my grandparents.

The north side of Fudgie Street is the Soo Locks Park. From the park you’ll be able to watch the boats up close and personal, and you can also do a trip through the locks. But my favorite part is always Engineer's Day. I looked forward to this all summer long because you get a chance to walk across the first lock! And then you can go get ice cream—I recommend the Moose Tracks or the Michigan specialty of Mackinac Island Fudge!

Cherry Festival

I’m a sucker for a good festival. The Cherry Festival is a great chance to check out one of my favorite Michigan towns and it's a really fantastic event. Extra fun if you love cherries—because you’ll find some of the best cherries and cherry-related foods in the world right in Traverse City! Might I recommend the Grand Traverse Pie Company and North Peak Brewing Company as two awesome places to get a bite to eat.

Downtown Traverse City is a really walkable and fun area. You’ll find great mom & pop shops and beautiful buildings. The beach is top notch, and you’re super close to one of the most beautiful places in the world, Sleeping Bear Dunes

Tahquamenon Falls

Michigan has so many places of natural beauty, especially in the Upper Peninsula which has been largely untouched by urban sprawl. It’s an amazing place to visit, especially if you’re a photographer or just a fan of nature. One of my favorite spots, though, would have to be the Tahquamenon Falls. Made up of two different sets of waterfalls (the upper and lower falls), the Tahquamenon Falls are absolutely beautiful any time of year. 

The lower and upper falls are within hiking distance of each other, and it’s a beautiful trail. You’ll notice that the water has a very unique color because it comes from all the cedar swamps and trees along the river. The upper falls are also the third largest falls east of the Mississippi river so you’ll definitely be awed!

Read the full post on  Little Blog on the Homestead.

Her Story: My SO Transitioned While We Were Dating

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Editor’s note: The use of both male and female pronouns throughout this piece represents the author’s stylistic choice. When writing about the transgender community, it is ideal to use a person’s current pronouns, and not pronouns referring to that person’s birth sex.

We were laying in bed one afternoon—post-coitus—my head on his chest as he ran his fingers through my hair. The blissful moment was unceremoniously interrupted when my boyfriend said to me abruptly, "I have to tell you something."

Immediately, my stomach dropped. I started to run through everything I knew about him, digging through the depths of my mind to figure out what his big secret was. He's a male, straight women's studies PhD student. Yeah. Yeah. My dream guy. And rare. Like not-chipping-your-nail-polish-during-the-first-week rare (or is that just me?). Avoiding-everyone-you-know-at-the-grocery-store-when-you-look-terrible rare. Or, well, male-straight-women's-studies-PhD-student rare. And not only was he smart and successful (not to brag, but he has a prestigious fellowship from the best program in the country), he was also handsome, sweet, funny, and of course, a feminist. So, I guess it shouldn't have come as a huge surprise to me when my Mr. Perfect had to tell me something.

"What is it?" I asked, not knowing that I was really prepared to hear the answer.

"I want you to guess," he told me.

Guess? Was this some sort of game to him? Some kind of cruel game? He wanted me to guess, so he didn't have to tell me. It had to be something bad. Really bad.

I began running through details in my head once again. He was 25, three years my senior. I met him when he was the teacher's assistant for my women's studies class. He introduced himself by citing a love for Arrested Development and chicken tikka masala. He was my favorite kind of charming: nerdy and a little socially awkward, but still adorable. 

So naturally, I assessed his sexuality. Well, can you blame me? A tall, skinny, socially awkward male women's studies PhD student. You can't say it wouldn't cross your mind. Either way, I came back with the assessment of "straight" after a series of flirtatious interactions—including one where I went to his office hours to discuss the readings for the next class (riiiiiiight)—and his style was a little… clueless? But now, in bed together months later, my mind drifted back to that initial insecurity.

"Are you, um, bisexual?" I asked. As a godless, feminist liberal (and proud!), I'm totally cool with bisexuality. But how did I feel about my boyfriend being bisexual? Was I cool with it when it was a part of my own relationship? I didn't find out. Because no, he said, he was straight.

My mind again returned to the progression of our relationship. After weeks of mutual flirtation and a revelatory Valentine's Day, he stopped being my TA, and I stopped having to just fantasize about him. He told his mom that I "hunted him down like a wild animal" (mildly accurate), and I told him that I had found the only male, straight women's studies PhD student in existence, and he was delusional if he thought I was ever going to let him go.

His dissertation and research focused on fetishism. Kinky, right? Then he told me about the paper he recently wrote about bodily release fetishes. You know—sneezing, vomiting and the like. So, not the Cosmo kind of kinky (Use furry pink handcuffs! Use his tie as a blindfold! Leave the light on tonight!). My next question followed this line of thinking.

"Do you have some kind of fetish I don't know about?"

"Yes. Well, yes."

When she started transitioning, there was no question in my mind that we would stay together. I loved her, regardless of her gender. I reasoned that it wasn’t as if she was becoming a different person; just a different gender. And I knew she needed me there. Every single, small interaction was now a struggle. She worried about passing, meaning she worried that others would be able to tell she was transgender. Her voice. Her Adam’s apple. Her height. I got hushed, frantic phone calls from the Panera parking lot where she sat, frozen in her car, terrified to go in and order a sandwich. I was angry that we lived in a society where she was forced to have this fear. I comforted her, told her she was beautiful, and hung up.

To build her confidence, she became active on social media, cultivating an online presence that she had never cared about before. She became an advocate for transgender rights, and I was proud. It felt amazing to have her on my arm. She was first prize, and I was the winner.

It felt like her transition was something we did together. I chose her name. I picked out her clothes. I did her make up and her hair. I joked that she was my life-size Barbie doll. In the beginning, I was constantly nervous that I would slip up and use the wrong pronouns, and using the wrong pronouns with someone who is transitioning his or her gender is a deeply hurtful thing to do. Slowly, I truly saw her as my girlfriend—even without her wig or breast forms or make-up—and it was natural. Our sex life oddly didn’t change much. Our dirty talk did. She liked to feel pretty. She liked to feel delicate. And she liked to pretend she had a vagina. But it was the same naked body I was used to, so it didn’t feel like such a big change. Mentally, maybe, but not physically.

So, I was dating a woman. This meant wolf whistles when we kissed on a street corner and lying about her gender to my elderly grandmother. During part of her relationship, I was a teacher at a high school in Florida. One day, she called me when I was helping out at a speech and debate meeting. One of my students asked who was calling. I lied.

It feels terrible to lie about someone you love. It felt dirty. It felt wrong. But I wasn’t ready to come out at work, especially at a school in a state where you can be fired for being gay (fun fact: there are still 29 states where you can be fired for being gay and 32 states where you can be fired for being transgender. America!). This caused tension in our relationship. She thought I was ashamed of her; I assured her that wasn’t the case. I was being honest, but it wasn’t good enough.

When I graduated from college, logistics were not on our side. After fruitless months of job searching in Atlanta, where she lives, I ended up taking a position in Washington, D.C. Our relationship had been far from squeaky clean before this point—she was still close with her ex-girlfriend and had repeatedly lied to me about the nature of their relationship over the course of ours. There were trust issues. She gave me an ultimatum: either we lived in the same city, or we were engaged. That wasn’t going to work. This move was the final nail in the coffin.

She was supportive at first, but I knew she didn’t like the idea of living apart with no definitive end date. I drew up scenarios of her moving to the District with me, but I could tell she wasn’t into it, which made me feel like I wasn’t a priority to her. I realized she wasn’t the same person I had met in my women’s studies class. She liked the newfound attention she got from online admirers. She didn’t support me. She held me back. She was selfish. And maybe she had to be. After all, she never before had experienced being a young woman. She needed to focus on herself. It was hard to feel like I had helped her through such a difficult part of her transition—telling her employers, telling her devout Mormon family, coming out to her friends—and then was dumped when she had enough confidence to go on without me. I’d spent more than a year putting her first, and it was time to be my own number one. Though the break-up was nasty, I learned a lot from our relationship: about the transgender community and about my own sexuality. I’ve become a more open-minded person, and I’m grateful for that.

Now, I’m in an amazing relationship with a straight, male feminist (no women’s studies PhD, but hey, nobody’s perfect). The greatest difference is that I’ve found someone who loves me unconditionally and wants the best for me, and I couldn’t be happier.

For more information about the transgender community, visit the National Center for Transgender Equality or GLAAD.

 

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11 Times Lizzie McGuire Understood Us Better Than Anyone

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If there was any show we looked forward to the most, it was undoubtedly Lizzie McGuire. The fact is that, even though Lizzie dealt with mean girls, bra problems and intense crushes like the rest of us, you'd probably be pretty hard pressed to find a girl in existence who didn't want to be her at one point in her adolescent years. Despite the fact that Lizzie herself was only in middle school, she seemed to have enough wisdom and experience to provide us with plenty of life advice that has lasted through our college years. These are a few times she has related to us when no one else could.

1. When your closet is overflowing, but you seem to find an excuse for why you can't wear a single thing in it.

Too small. Too big. Already wore it too many times. Don't feel like it. No. No. Nah. No!

2. When your parents ask you question after question about who you're dating and what you're doing after graduation.

Unfortunately, telling them to take a chill pill would probably not go over well at all. Ugh.

3. When you're coming up with reasons to keep procrastinating studying.

We feel you Lizzie.

4. When someone in your group for a class project wants to call all of the shots, but you're convinced you should take the lead.

Be the change you wish to see in your group project. Isn't that how that quote goes?

5. When your friend won't stop talking about all of the salads she's been eating.

Yeah, call me when you're tired of it and want to hit up Chick-fil-A.

6. When your roommate stops you from having another drink because she doesn't want to have to take care of you later in the night.

LET ME LIVE.

7. When you text that jerk fratboy back even though you know you shouldn't go down that road again. 

Did Ethan Craft grow up to become one of those jerk fratboys? Seems likely.

8. When you realize your need for a cute bra that's sexier than the one you still have from the girl's section of Target.

*Tries on bras at Victoria's Secret* *Realizes that Target bras are way cheaper and more comfortable*

9. When Lizzie taught you what it means to be a ride or die friend.

We can credit her and Miranda's friendship as the prime example for our BFF goals.

10. When one of your friends calls you out on wearing the same outfit twice in one week.

She was the ONLY one who saw you wearing it, you SWEAR.

11. When, despite the fact that you are a college-age woman, you still dream about your missed opportunity to go to Rome in 8th grade and become an international superstar.


Can this still happen to me?


8 Texts Guys Never Want to Receive

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You spend hours crafting the perfect text message, adding an extra exclamation point, contemplating whether to use a smiley face or a winky face, and rereading it ten times before hitting send. You’ve waited the appropriate amount of time so you don’t sound too desperate or uninterested and your best friends gave you the okay. Now all you have to do is wait for his response. You stare at your phone until it lights up, but the only new message you see is from Mom. So what went wrong? Her Campus talked to the guys to learn about the texts they dread receiving from girls. Listen to our texting advice and start being a smarter texter.

1. Don’t send this:“Heyyyyyy”

Extra letters are annoying and unnecessary; guys don’t like it when you’re constantly saying “hiii,” “What’s uppp?” or “Goodnightttt.” Tyler*, a recent grad of Oakland University, says, “stuff like heyyyyyyyyy is fine every once in a while with me, but when every text has extra letters that’s kind of annoying.”

Instead, send this:“How’s it going?”

Guys don’t need extra letters to feel special (that’s a girl thing). You don’t want to sound whiny or overeager or like a middle school girl when texting him, so stick to spelling words with the normal amount of letters at least the majority of the time. If you’re afraid “hey” will make him feel like he does when he receives any other one-word response, put together a short and sweet line that expresses what you want to say like “Want to get drinks?” or “Let’s study together today.” Reserve the extra letters for times when you really need to emphasize something, or if you’re ready to paaaaartyyyy.

2. Don’t send this: “Where are you?” “Do you want to see me?”

We’ve all been in that awkward situation when we text a guy and don’t get a reply and then text him again and still hear nothing. Usually, we send the forbidden double text when we’re drinking and then wake up and regret it in the morning. This is probably the worst texting crime you can commit. No matter how hard it is, resist the urge to double text if you haven’t heard from him right away. I’ve had some girls who are too annoying,” says Jordan*, a Macomb Community College senior, “and if you don’t answer them they blow you up with 3-4 texts in a row without me answering and it’s weird.”

Instead, send this: Nothing

Texting is a back-and-forth form of communication. If you sent the last text, wait until he responds before sending another. Guys like the chase, so sit back, relax and make him text you. It can be tempting to send a double text when the last thing said didn’t really require a response on his end. If he’s interested, he will start a new topic and will want to text you even more if he hasn’t heard from you in a while.

3. Don’t send this: “LOL” or “LMAO”

Elijah*, a University of Michigan junior, hates when girls send little “LOL” or “LMAO” texts in the middle of a conversation because he doesn’t know what to text next. Just as much as you don’t like the awkward pauses in a flirtatious text exchange, he doesn’t either. You could actually think what he said was funny or you could just be using it as a filler, kind of like “um and like” when you’re talking.

Instead, send this: “You’re too funny ;)”

You want to keep the conversation going so say something that shows more interest than a random “LOL or “LMAO”. When replying to a guy’s text, imagine how you would reply in person. I doubt you would stand there and laugh out loud without saying something. Guys would rather have a straightforward direct response that keeps the conversation flowing back and forth than a filler abbreviation that he doesn’t know how to read. A flirty response that expresses that you’re into him (and think he’s funny) will boost his confidence.

4. Don’t send this:“K.”

Adam*, a University of Michigan junior, says, “K is the worst because it just comes across as mean.” Hazim, a Michigan State University senior, agrees that one-word answers like “k” or “whatever” are the worst. “You don’t know whether the girl is happy or mad,” he says. Although you might be sincere, your one-word answer doesn’t show any enthusiasm about the conversation. A simple “k” can come off as rude and uninterested.

Instead, send this: “Cool, that sounds good to me!”

Show him you are actually interested in what he has to say by replying with a sentence. If you can type 140 characters on Twitter, you can do it in a text message too. Your response is likely to set the tone for the rest of the conversation, so if you want him to keep texting you, you need to put in more effort than “k.”

5. Don’t send this:“I guess…”

It’s hard to show emotion in text messages (unless you use a million different emoticons, which the guys aren’t a fan of either). So when you say things like “I guess” or “Sure” you might not give off the right vibe. “I hate it when a girl is unclear. When she says, ‘I guess,’ I usually take it to mean she’s not really into me,” says Ryan*, a Florida State University senior.

Instead, send this: “Yes” or “No”

Do you want to have drinks with him? Then be forward and just send “Yes” or “Yeah,” whichever is more your style. Guys are simple creatures, especially when it comes to texting. He’ll be thrilled you want to hang out with him and as soon as he sees your “yes” text, he knows he’s on your good side. If you would rather not see him again, just say “No thanks.” In order to lighten the blow, you can say something like, “Sorry, but right now is really not a good time. I’m super busy with job applications.” This is way better than saying, “I guess” when you have no intent of ever seeing him again.

6. Don’t send this: “Why haven’t you responded???”

This is a terrible form of the double text and a pet peeve to guys. You’ve probably gone through a hundred reasons why he hasn’t responded, but still want to hear it straight from him. “The most desperate or clingy texts are when she asks why you haven't responded. I could be busy and not have had time to respond and that text just annoys me,” says Conor*, a University of Michigan senior. Tyler says he can’t stand it when he gets a “???” text if he hasn’t responded within an hour. Imagine if you got a text with multiple question marks. How would you respond?

Instead, send this: Nothing

Just because he doesn’t respond doesn’t mean the world is going to end. He was probably having tea with his grandmother, pumping iron at the gym, or singing in the church choir.  Don’t always think if it’s been over 30 minutes it means he doesn’t like you. Although it is possible he really doesn’t want to talk to you, don’t make things worse by asking him why he hasn’t responded. If he hasn’t texted you back within a few days, you can send him another text. But if this time you still don’t hear from him, save yourself the misery and just delete his number.

7. Don’t send this:“Can’t wait to see you!  ;) :) :*)”

You want to show him how you’re feeling, but when you send too many emoticons it can come across as cheesy and fake. Unless it’s with a close friend and you’re in the middle of an emoticon war, do not send winky and smiley faces after everything you say. “I do not like smiley/winky face overloads. Every once in a while is fine but all the time is annoying,” Tyler says.

Instead, send this:“Looking forward to it :)”

You have to take emoticons on a case-by-case basis. Usually, if the guy sends smiley faces, then you can too. Try it out and see how he responds. If he sends an emoticon in return, then he probably liked it. But if not, he might think you’re being too cutesy or are just a tad bit too into him. If you’ve been texting a guy for a while and know he likes smiley or winky faces, feel free to send away, just use them sparingly.

8. Don’t send this: Nothing

Neil*, a University of Michigan senior, says the worst texts from girls are “the ones that they don’t send.” When you wait too long to respond or don’t respond at all,  guys feel exactly how you feel before you make the mistake of double texting. He doesn’t like it when you wait hours or days to respond so don’t play hard to get via text. Not answering his text is like a slap in the face. Jay*, a University of Michigan junior, says, “I really don’t like when girls start conversations seeming really into it with explanations and emoticons and then after I respond in a similarly interested fashion, they wait a couple of hours to respond with one word or they don’t respond at all.”

Instead, send this: Something to keep the conversation going

Guys like consistency, so if you’re usually a talkative texter and then suddenly go silent, they will think something is wrong. If you start out engaged in the conversation by asking questions and opening up to him, you should keep texting this way.  Think of it as giving off a really great first impression and then sticking to that persona. 

Avoid these 8 texting crimes and start being a more confident and savvy texter. When you’re a little more subtle about feelings, you’ll be surprised to see that your texting conversations will move beyond the simple, “Hey, what’s up” “Nothing. You?” Think about each text and consult our guide before hitting send.

*Last names have not been included to protect identities.

7 Things You Need to Do the Summer Before College

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While applications are now over and your decision has been made, there’s still plenty to do to prepare for college! The summer before your first semester of college is a transitional period that serves as a great chunk of time to get things done before shipping off to school. We got in touch with collegiettes across the country and asked them what they did (or wish they’d done!) the summer between their last year of high school and their first semester of college. Check out what they missed so you can steer your summer in the right direction!

1.   Spend more time with family

These last few months before heading off to school may be your last chance to spend quality time with family for a while, especially if you’re heading far away. Consider setting aside lots of time to hang out with your parents and siblings this summer!

“Now that I'm in college, my summers are spent working, saving money for grad school and also interning,” says Tabia Robinson, a junior at the University of Albany, “[so] I have absolutely no free time.” Tabia says she knows all her hard work will be worth it in the end, but if she had the foresight to know she would be so busy, she would have utilized her pre-college days to spend more time with those who matter most.

"Looking back, I wish I would have spent a little more time with my family the summer before leaving for college,” says Rachael David, a junior at Pennsylvania State University. “It was so easy to go out with my friends every night since I knew I would be saying goodbye to them too, but I discovered that when school begins and the homesickness kicks in, your family is who you're going to miss most,” she says, “Don't wait for family vacations to get in some good quality bonding and cherish your last few months together before college."

Take advantage of the long summer days and give special attention to your family—trust us, they might annoy you now, but you’ll miss them when they’re not at arm’s reach all the time.

2. Rethink your relationship

While your high school sweetheart may seem like the guy or girl of your dreams right now, chances are things might change in the near future. College is a time full of new experiences, so you might want to start thinking harder about your feelings toward your SO. If you’re on a rocky road or feel the need to be more independent, this summer might just be the prime time to cut ties.

While it’s definitely not a bad thing to have a boyfriend or girlfriend in college, many freshmen who arrive in long-distance relationships with their hometown SOs end up regretting it. College is a time to really be yourself and figure out the next chapter of your life, so breaking up with a significant other might be the first step in that direction. If you’re hoping to start fresh in college, consider how your current relationship might affect that.

Nathalie Vacheron, a student at Rhodes College, regrets not cutting ties with her SO before college. “I threw away my entire freshman year of college pining after someone who was not open-minded or rational when it came to our long distance relationship,” she says. “Be 100 percent positive you want to do long-distance [before heading off to college]. Trying it and seeing how it goes is okay, but don't be blind. College is a precious, fleeting time full of new friendships and opportunities. Don't sacrifice your happiness for someone who is more selfish and controlling than encouraging of your growth and involvement in college.”

If you’re happy with your current relationship, there are still some things to consider. If you and your partner know you want to stay together, consider preparing for the road ahead. If you’re going to separate schools, thing about how you’ll stay in touch. It sounds tedious, but setting some ground rules might be the perfect way to start the semester off the right way with your SO!

3. Get in shape

Transitional periods when big changes are already occurring can be a great opportunity to form some new habits. If you’ve been bogged down with homework during the school year and haven’t had the time to focus on working out, this summer may be the perfect time to get started.

Take advantage of your free time and put it toward your health. Work on getting fit for when you arrive at school in the fall. Getting your health in check will in turn make you feel more energetic and more confident—perfect for starting the next chapter in your life!

If you’re new to exercising, it can be a bit daunting; but have no fear! There are tons of easy ways to get into working out. Go for short runs, hikes or bike rides with friends or on your own. If you’re feeling curious, turn to YouTube for some great (and free!) workout programs. Once you’re feeling more comfortable, consider heading to the gym or taking a class with friends. Before you know it, your workout will be a regular part of your routine—which will come in handy when you’re trying to ward off the Freshman 15.

4. Score an internship

If you’re an ambitious student looking to get ahead on your career, check out local internship openings! While it’s perfectly normal to head into college with little or no internship experience, a position before college can give you an edge when it comes to looking for another internship or job later on.

The summer before Janine Eduljee, a rising junior, arrived at Northeastern University, she scored a paid internship in a company's HR department. “Aside from padding me until that point [of] non-existent savings, it also gave me some really fantastic experience in learning what an office environment was like,” says Janine. “Not to mention, I also earned some really great references and made connections with my fellow colleagues.”

Securing an internship before coming to college will give you that leg up and perhaps make you better prepared for the semester to come, especially if you work in a field related to your major. Not only can an internship offer a safety net of cash to fall back on (if it’s paid), but it can also be an awesome resume-booster and push you ahead of the pack!

If you’re new to the internship search, do a bit of research. Check out internship and job postings online, and consider meeting with your guidance or career counselor at your high school. Think about some local businesses that you’d like to get involved with and see if they offer internships. Take advantage of the resources around you and start searching!

5. Relax

On the other hand, you may feel overworked from your senior year and feel the need to lie back for a while—which is just as good (and important)! The anticipation of college can be stressful, so be sure to take time to sit back and relax.

“I wish that I had taken that summer to spend with my friends,” says Natalie Kelley, a rising senior at Santa Clara University, who regrets signing up for an internship the summer before college. “I wish I had stuck with my part-time job so that I could have had the free time to go to the pool and just relax with my girls one last summer.”

Instead of spending your days thinking about the upcoming months, clear your mind and enjoy the moment. Log off of that orientation Facebook group, take some time off from your summer job and hit the spa. There will be plenty to do during the weeks before you leave, but there’s no point in sweating it now!

6. Hit up favorite hometown spots

If you’re leaving town for college, you might want to savor those special things about your hometown before you go! While you might be sick of seeing the same places your whole life, you might just miss them when you’re gone.

Gather up a group of friends and set out to hit up your favorite spots around home. Visit your favorite hangout spot, go to the town landmarks and eat at your favorite restaurants. Even if you’ve seen them before, you might not have the chance to visit when you’re gone!

7. Branch out from high school friends

College is a time to start fresh, so why not begin now? When you arrive at college, you’ll be surrounded by a new group of people and will likely have to make new friends. And while this can be a bit intimidating, it’s easier than it seems!

Lynn Chalati, a rising senior at the University of Ottowa, says she wishes she had spent some time away from her high school friends the summer before she left for college. “[I wish I’d spent] more time with my family, or branching out and meeting new people,” she says. “It's hard to swallow that you may not be friends with these people anymore (though maybe you will!).” It’s always good to remain open when it comes to incorporating new people in your life.

There’s no harm in hanging out with your high school friends, but know that you’ll probably have to step out of your comfort zone soon. Take this chance to start making a change and preparing for what’s to come. There’s no need to abandon or cut ties your high school friends; just consider supplementing your current friendships with a new social circle!

With the anticipation of college coming up, now is the time to wrap up your last moments as a pre-collegiette! Be sure to take advantage of this time before you head off, and do your summer the right way.

5 One-Step Beauty Transformations: From Internship to Night Out

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As an intern, you quickly come to realize that for all of the perks, having an internship means long hours, strict dress codes, and a daily commute. You're bound to be spending a lot less time at home, and when Friday rolls around, you can't be bothered with stopping home before heading out to celebrate another successful week in the office. Luckily, you can transform your beauty look from work to play in a single step. For an amazingly easy touch-up, pick from any of these one-step options for a bold and beautiful nighttime look. 

Fresh Faced Intern

Start the day off simply with a clean, glowing complexion. Using your fingers, apply a tinted BB Cream (try Garnier Skin Renew Miracle Perfector BB Cream, $12.49 at Drugstore.com) to your entire face, and if your skin is feeling naked, a cream blush to your cheeks. For an extra-natural glow, apply your blush first, let it set, and then apply the BB Cream, creating a from-within glow. Next, draw a thin, light line of black eyeliner on your upper lid and add a few soft coats of mascara to your lashes. Finish off your look with a tinted lip balm and reapply it hourly (or as needed) to maintain a moisturized pout. By rocking a natural-but-polished look all day, any one-step addition will result in a major nighttime-ready beauty transformation.

Head Turner at Happy Hour

1. A Foundation Fix

Does your perfect nighttime look revolve around a flawless finish? Most BB creams can be worn alone or under foundation, meaning your dewy day complexion can serve as the perfect priming base for more heavy-duty makeup. The BB cream from your workplace look keeps your skin moisturized, meaning that when you apply a quick coat of foundation after work, your face will be free of cracks, creases, or flakes. You'll be free to glow all night long, without the weight of multiple layers of foundation. 

2. Thicken Your Liner

If your style is more sultry, darken those daytime eyes! With an eyeliner pencil, trace over your original liner on the upper lashline for a deeper black. Next, line your lower lashline. Last, carefully line the waterlines on the inside of your eyelid, making the overall liner appear thicker. The dark color works wonders in contrast to the whites of your eyes, meaning your gaze will be bright and unforgettable all night.

3. Glitter and Glam

Who says being glamorous isn't easy? With the help of a sparkly cream eyeshadow (try Maybelline Eye Studio Color Tattoo Eyeshadow, $6.99 at ULTA) you can go from simple to shimmering in seconds. Simply swipe the shadow over your lids until the color is deep and evenly spread. Thanks to this morning's BB cream, your eyes are already primed to last the evening. 

Can't make it through the workday without some shadow already in place? No problem! Begin the day with a neutral shade, such as a light gold or beige. When 5 o'clock arrives, pat on a darker shade (deep golds, browns, and metal tones work best) on the outer corners of your lids for a two-toned smokey eye.

4. A Popping Pout

You might not be able to get away with a bold lip in the office, but when it's time to head out, nothing is stopping you from glossing on that magenta lipstick you've been daydreaming about. Since the rest of your face will be kept simple, feel free to experiment with some unusual shades: oranges, fuchsias, and purples are all game when the sun sets! After prepping your pout with a moisturizing lip balm all day (try Vaseline Lip Therapy Lip Balm Rosy Lips, $1.79 at Walgreens), your lip shade is bound to glide on silky smooth. After all, nothing's worse than realizing your lips are too chapped for color when it's too late to fix them!

5. The Multitasker 

If you're looking for one step with double the transformation capability, try this handy multitasking trick. Take your creamy nighttime lipstick (in a pink or beige shade) and use it as impromptu blush. Spread it on your lips and cheeks for a rosy finish. The color will highlight your cheekbones, giving you a sleek and subtle look for a night on the town.

Alternatively, use an earthy cream lipstick for some quick contouring! Add dramatic definition to your features and a sexy shade to your smile simultaneously.

How do you transitition your look from professional to party-ready, collegiettes?

Satisfy Every Craving with (Free!) Cookie Dough

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If you’ve got as serious of a sweet tooth as we do, you know that there’s nothing more thrilling than sneaking a scoop (or several) of cookie dough when you’re baking. There just isn’t anything that can replace that doughy, melt-in-your-mouth texture, are we right?

So, dessert lovers, rejoice: We’re giving away a custom 4-pack of goodness from Cookie DŌ! Choose from flavors like chocolate chip, sugar cookie, cake batter and confetti to eat right out of the cup, mix into ice cream, or bake (if you wish). Oh—and just about anybody can get in on the deliciousnes—with gluten-free, vegan and grain-free options, they’re fit for any dietary restriction.

Mouth watering yet? Enter here for your chance to win—and be sure to share an Insta-worthy snap of how you enjoy your cookie dough!

DO Cookie Dough Giveaway

Millenial Women Prefer Granny Panties to Thongs

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Haters of thongs, rejoice! It appears that you’re not alone. According to the New York Times, comfy granny panties are in and skimpy G-strings are so out.

There seems to be a trend that more young women are choosing underwear with more coverage instead of traditional thong styles. Research from the NPD Group shows that thong sales went down 7 percent in 2014, while sales of briefs, boy shorts and high-waist briefs (collectively labeled as “fuller styles”) have increased 17 percent.

This preference for more comfortable underwear suggests that more women are dressing for themselves rather than trying to appear “sexy” for someone else.

“Most lingerie is designed to appeal to a man,” says Julia Baylis, co-founder of Me and You, a boutique clothing label. Along with Mayan Toledano, Baylis designs underwear for women to wear “totally for themselves.” One of Me and You’s most popular items, the “Feminist” brief, has even inspired “belfies” (or back selfies) of women showing off their more conservative underwear. “What’s sexy for us is being natural and comfortable,” Toledano says.

Me and You is just one of many clothing lines dedicated to creating underwear that women can feel comfortable in. Hello Beautiful and Ten Undies are two other notable brands that exclusively sell fuller-coverage styles.

Whether women prefer thongs or not, the bottom line is that more of them are choosing what makes them feel comfortable over what society says is sexy. “There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be more traditionally sexy and wearing a thong,” Toledano says. “This is a step toward embracing more variety in what’s offered.”

10 Thoughts You Have On the First Day of a New Job

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Starting a new job as a post-collegiette is always tough, especially if it’s your first one. You don’t know anyone at the company and you’re thrown into learning a lot very quickly—and it’s nothing like college. In the real world, you don’t have orientation icebreakers or bonding games. Your first day will be a blur of names and figuring out the floor plan. It would be great to flash forward a month to when you’re settled in, have made a few friends, know your job and your role in the company, but unfortunately it doesn’t work like that. Here are the thoughts that every girl has on the first day of a new job (so you can be prepared):

1. Who do I eat with?

Because crunching on a bag of potato chips alone in a cubicle doesn’t sound fun.

2. Where is the closest bathroom?

Um, this is kind of urgent.

3. How do I make friends?

Where is my work BFF?!

4. What’s your name again?

I wonder how long I can get away with not using names…

5. Is it bad that I think my co-worker is really cute?

Let me double check what the employee handbook says about office relationships.

6. I have no idea what I’m doing…

Send help.

7. When is IT coming?!

I’ve only been waiting for my network password for two hours.

8. Can I go home yet?

It’s 5 o’clock somewhere, right?

Phew. You made it! And it wasn’t so bad... was it? 
 

How She Got There: Vicki Zhou, Co-Founder of WiseBanyan

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Name: Vicki Zhou

Job Title and Description: Co-Founder and Co-CEO of WiseBanyan, the world’s first free financial advisor

College Name/Major: Dual Bachelor’s Degree in Applied Math and Biomedical Engineering/Johns Hopkins University

Website: www.wisebanyan.com
Twitter: @vickizhou1 

 
What does your current job entail? Is there such a thing as a typical day?

Vicki Zhou: I have the same mission everyday (grow WiseBanyan!), but each day itself is different. Here are three main things I am consistently focused on: Learning, doing and teaching.

“Learning” can entail a session with our strategy and product team to gain deeper insight into our evolving landscape in order to craft an updated product roadmap. “Doing” means execution; if there is a roadblock keeping a team from finishing a project, or if they are struggling to stick to the timeline, I can help my teams to clear any hurdle and complete any task. “Teaching “means sharing our culture and mission with the team in order to clearly communicate our vision.

In addition to our current internal mission, we also endeavor to teach and educate people outside of our company about WiseBanyan and how they can better save and invest for the future.

What is the best part of your job?

VZ: The amazing team I work with is hands down the best part of the job. We’re working on something big, and that means disrupting a large and entrenched industry. It’s almost an understatement to say that it’s an incredible challenge, certainly one of the biggest problems I’ve ever tackled. This can’t be solved by one person alone, and the team I work with every day is filled with some of the smartest, most passionate people I’ve ever met.
 
What was your first entry-level job in your field and how did you get it?

VZ: I work in the fintech (finance and technology) [industry] now, but my first experience in the financial services industry was at GE’s FMP program and later investment banking at Citigroup, both of which I got by applying to as many programs while in school as I could.

My first adventure into entrepreneurship was offering viola and violin lessons. Since I was not old enough to drive, I did this out of my parents’ living room. As I look back, I realize that I learned a lot about customer acquisition, time management and the importance of scalability (which this was not!). For example, I found students by putting up flyers in schools and libraries and giving info sessions at neighborhood schools. My educational background is in biomedical engineering, and many years after this first adventure, I co-invented a surgical device for open abdominal surgery and co-founded a medical device company.

What is one thing you wish you knew about your industry when you first started out that you know now?

VZ: Personal finance is extremely important. It’s rarely taught in schools, but as an adult it affects every part of your life. If you are better at managing your money and income, you will have more financial freedom and security for example, being able to buy a house sooner or retiring earlier).

Who is one person who changed your professional life for the better?

VZ: Oh, this one is hard! There are almost too many people. I’ve been incredibly lucky to work with some downright amazing individuals and mentors, who I still learn from everyday. My grandparents have greatly influenced both my personal and professional lives. They immigrated here right before I was born. Before they came to the States, they were highly-educated professionals working office jobs similar to my jobs in finance. However, once here, they had to start all over, often time working long hours earning minimum wage. They taught me the value of hard work and to never give up.

What words of wisdom do you find most valuable?

VZ: Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity. Another one: “There’s no substitute for hard work. Always be humble and hungry.”

What is one mistake you made along the way and what did you learn from it?

VZ: Not asking enough questions. While I was working on the medical device startup, there were many areas about the industry, like how to complete the FDA approval process, that we did not understand or have experience with. We spent a lot of time and resources trying to figure it out ourselves because we thought that was what we were supposed to do. After all, we were building the product and company from the ground up.

Now, I know better. This is why my co-founder and I have been able to build such an amazing team. We are always asking questions and when we do not have the answers, we work to find people with the experience and expertise to answer them. This is how we’ve built and continue to grow our team.

What has been the most surreal moment of your career thus far?

VZ: Signing the lease for our second office last year. Now we’re (nearly) bicoastal in New York City and Las Vegas. It’s been incredible growing our team and both offices. We’ve nearly doubled in size and we’re building and creating at an incredible pace.
 
What do you look for when considering hiring someone?

VZ: Someone who is driven, self-motivated and a problem solver. We’re creating and building solutions that haven’t been built before. Our team is filled with people who are great learners, thinkers and problem solvers who are ready to tackle big, unsolved challenges. We know if we do this right, millions of people will be on their way to a better financial future.
 
What advice would you give to a 20-something with similar aspirations?

VZ: Hustle and be hungry. Work hard. Always be learning. Make mistakes and fail (and learn from those too). Find good people, and do all the above with them too.

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If You Add Anything to Your Summer Wardrobe, Make it These Items

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Summer can easily be one of the toughest seasons to shop for. After all, when it’s swelteringly hot out, it can be nearly impossible to find pieces that look on-trend while still beating the heat. So what’s a fashionista to do? Luckily for you, we’ve rounded up 7 of the summer’s hottest pieces (and all of them totally work in the rising temps)! If you do any shopping for your summer wardrobe, add one of these to your closet to majorly up your summer style game!

1. A-line skirt

Faux Suede A-Line Skirt ($40, ASOS)

ICYMI, the '70s are back in a major way. The fashion set’s favorite way to wear the decade? The universally flattering A-line skirt, preferably in faux suede or corduroy!

2. Flat sandals

Studded Sandals ($79.90, Zara)

Because there’s nothing more comfortable than slipping into a pair of flat sandals. The studs on these make them super fashion-forward, too!

3. Culottes

Leather Look Culottes ($68, Topshop)

Culottes: the only pair of comfy leather pants you’ll ever own. Wear them with a printed cami or crop top for a simple summer outfit!

4. Shirtdress

Multi-Stripe Shirt Dress ($27.90, Forever 21)

The easy, casual vibes of a shirtdress make it the perfect piece to slip on when you have zero idea what to wear (and absolutely no time to think about it).

5. Body chain

Draped Ladder Body Chain ($6, Charlotte Russe)

Equally perfect over your favorite summer sundress and your bikini, a statement-making body chain is a summer style must.

6. Fringe crop top

Fringe Sleeveless Top ($52, Nordstrom)

You don’t actually need to be headed to a music festival this summer to dress the part—we love a fringe crop top for any occasion.

7. Off-the-shoulder top

Awning Cold Shoulder Top ($19.99, Urban Outfitters)

Remember when we said the '70s were back? This breezy off-the-shoulder top looks great paired with that A-line skirt.

What pieces will you be wearing this summer, collegiettes?

Vee Parker Could Return for Season 3 of ‘Orange is the New Black’

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Warning: spoilers!

Orange is the New Black returns to Netflix on June 12, and we've marked our calendars for a full day of binge-watching. Season three promises just as much drama as the previous two, if not more. The season two finale ended with Vee (presumably) left for dead, courtesy of Rosa and the prison van. But is Vee really gone for good?

At the Critics' Choice TV Awards Sunday night,OITNB actress Lorraine Toussaint (Yvonne "Vee" Parker) teased fans with the possibility of her return. When asked if she'd missed the women when they shot season three, Toussaint replied, "I miss the girls enormously, but did I say I'm not back?" Talk about a game changer!

Toussaint won the Critics' Choice TV Award for Best Supporting Actress in a Drama Series for her role in Netflix's OITNB. Perhaps we haven't seen the last of the show's villain!

The Ultimate High School Graduation Gift Guide

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Happy high school graduation! It’s an exciting time of year; you’re moving on to the next chapter of your life – possibly to a college far from home – where you’ll meet new people and discover whole new sides of yourself. Whether you’re searching for gifts for friends or sending inspiration and ideas to your own family, you’ll find all the perfect graduation presents right here!

With everything you need to tackle college and celebrate all your hard work in high school, our Ultimate High School Graduation Guide is your one-stop shop to prepare for the next big adventure!


Editor: Kate Moriarty
Designer: Kelsey Thorn
Curators: Kate Moriarty, Alicia Thomas, Maya Devereaux & Elizabeth Huebsch

21 Awesome High School Graduation Gifts for Guys

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Here’s to the next big adventure! Celebrate his high school accomplishments (and his future collegiate successes) with a memorable grad gift. Make it something he’ll keep forever, something that’ll help him handle the college transition or something that’s uniquely him. Need ideas? Look no further!

UNDER $25

Stuff Every College Kid Should Know, $9.95 at Paper Source

From dealing with dorm room drama to doing your own laundry, this must-have how-to book covers all the tips and tricks he needs to survive and thrive in college.

Pinch Provisions Minimergency® Kit for Him, $14 at Sephora

You can’t be there with him at college to solve all of life’s little problems, but you can prepare him with all the tools he needs to solve them. This Minimergency kit comes complete with essentials like a bandage, pain reliever, extra buttons, a mending kit, dental floss and more.

The Prop Laptop Stand, $16.95 on Canopy

Keep his laptop from overheating while it’s working overdrive during late-night study sessions or Netflix binge-watching sessions. This sleek laptop stand is all he needs to keep his tech running smoothly.

Archi Desk Accessories Pen Cup, $18 at MoMA Store

His dorm room needs to be organized, yes. But why not organize in style? We’re obsessed with this architectural pen cup from the MoMA Store!

UNDER $50

Cards Against Humanity, $25 on Canopy

Best. Game. Ever. Trust us, this is the easiest way to make friends in college.

The Art of Shaving Starter Kit – Unscented, $25 at Macy’s

Keep his scruff at bay while he’s away at college! This gift not only helps him get rid of the scruff itself, but also serves as a gentle reminder that he does still need to groom, even when he’s away at school.

3-in-1 Charging Cord for Various Devices, $26.95 at Paper Source

Saves space, saves time, saves headaches. It’s a must-have!

Cube Clock, $38 at MoMA Store

Remember what we said about organizing in style? Sure, a clock doesn’t qualify as an organizer, but it sure has style – plus, it’s functional. And yes, we’re going to say it (we can’t help ourselves): it puts the ‘fun’ in ‘functional.’

Portable Table Tennis Set, $39.95 at Uncommon Goods

Game on! This portable table tennis will transform any ordinary table into a ping pong arena, and the college freshman in your life will love to get the competition going with his friends.

Kenneth Cole Reaction Cutout Cufflinks, $45 at Macy’s

It’s an old and valued tradition – gift a young man a set of cuff links for his entrée into adulthood. High school graduation is no different, and that’s why it’s the perfect time to give him this cool pair.

Sony Noise-Canceling Over-the-Ear Headphones in Black, $49.99 at Best Buy

If there’s one thing every college student needs come study time, it’s silence. These noise-canceling headphones will help him get work done anywhere, anytime, whether he’s hanging in the library with friends or working while his roommates play Xbox.

UNDER $100

Polo Ralph Lauren Vaughn Leather Sneakers in Tan, $69 at Macy’s

These shoes will last him all four years and beyond, and he’ll look awesome every step of the way.

Crosley Radio ‘Crusier’ Turntable, $80 at Nordstrom

So he’s an old soul. He likes classic rock or considers himself a ‘60s child, so give him a throwback gift that lets him enjoy his favorite records in style!

Herschel Supply Co. Little America Backpack, $89 at Urban Outfitters

College may be a lot different than high school, but that doesn’t mean he won’t need the old school essentials anymore. Essential #1: an awesome backpack. This one does the trick, plus it has plenty of storage for lugging his laptop and textbooks around campus.

JBL Flip 2 Portable Bluetooth Speaker, $99.99 at Best Buy

Want to make friends? Play music! It’s the most basic principle of dorm life.

OVER $100

Wooden Watch, $135 at Uncommon Goods

We’re not trying to knock the old “watch for graduation” tradition, but let’s be honest here: it can get a little tired. That’s why we’re spicing things up this year with a wooden watch. Prepare to make all the other watches jealous.

Coca Cola Retro Vending Cooler 18L – 10 Can Capacity, $169.95 at Target

Every dorm room needs a mini fridge, and this is the coolest one on the market. Help him store his cold ones in style!

VIZIO E-Series 32” Class LED 720p Smart HDTV, $239.99 at Best Buy

At the end of a long day of classes and study sessions, all any college freshman wants is to unwind in peace. This awesome smart TV is exactly what he needs to watch the big game, have his friends over for movie night or sit back and relax with Netflix.

GoPro HERO 3: Black Edition, $375 on Canopy

A must-have for every adventurer! Seriously, he’ll want to capture every cool angle and snapshot of his flips and tricks and sights passed along the way, whether he’s an avid mountain biker or a California surfer.

Apple MacBook Air 13.3”, $999 at Intel

Meet the ultimate tool for college students: a light, reliable, durable laptop that’ll help him get through every term paper and lab report. Hello, flawless GPA!


 

21 Must-Have High School Graduation Gifts for Girls

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Is it really already time to leave high school behind? With college on the horizon, the high school grad in your life is facing a whole new world where she can make a fresh start. Give her the gifts that’ll help her start those four years off right – and thrive every step of the way!

UNDER $25

Dream Big Art Print, $6.95 at Paper Source

If there’s one thing every college-bound high school grad needs, it’s dorm room décor. Brighten up the walls of her new place with an inspirational poster like this gem from Paper Source. Dare to dream big!

The Her Campus Guide to College Life: How to Manage Relationships, Stay Safe and Healthy, Handle Stress,
and Have the Best Four Years of Your Life
, $11.40 on Amazon

College is full of unknowns. It’s all about facing challenges, meeting new people and finding yourself. So yeah, we know that college can seem scary, and that’s why we’ve made it easy with the official Her Campus book. Give the grad in your life a leg up on all things college with this insider info and must-have advice!

Garance Doré Leopard Weekly Desk Pad, $12 at Catbird

Help that college freshman you know stay on top of everything; this weekly desk calendar will do the trick! Plus, its cute pattern makes it more than a calendar – it’s a statement piece of dorm décor.

Les Notebooks, $12.95 at Anthropologie

You don’t have to be a Francophile to fall in love with these notebooks and planners from Anthropologie (though fans of the French will certainly fall the hardest). Organized? Oui. Très chic? Oui.

I Am Malala: The Girl Who Stood Up for Education and Was Shot by the Taliban, $14.44 at Barnes & Noble

Give your grad an extra dose of inspiration – motivate her to stand up for what she believes in and stand up for what’s right. The incredible story of Malala Yousafzai is one of a heroine any recent high school grad can look up to.

‘Hello Beautiful’ Glass Trinket Tray, $16 at Nordstrom

Sure, she needs a place to put all of her trinkets (no more lost rings!). But she also might need a daily dose of affirmation. Send her a ‘hello beautiful’ message every day.

The Happy Family, $28 at The Her Campus Shop

Note-taking at its finest! This set covers everything she’ll need for her first day of classes (and beyond). Plus, it’s got all the spirit and positive vibes she needs for that extra boost of confidence in the classroom.

UNDER $50

Golden Glam Desk Accessories, $12-29 at PB Teen

We’re all about the metallics these days, and these golden desk organizers are hitting the spot.

Gridart 16-Opening Picture Frame, $29.99 on Amazon

You make tons of memories in college – but it’s even more important to hold onto the good times from your high school days, too. This frame lets a college freshman keep all her favorites memories in one place, brightening up her dorm room and reminding her of the people who know her through and through.

S’well Bottle in Gold, $35 at MoMA Store

Like we said, we’ve got a gold addiction this year, and that’s why we’re beyond obsessed with this S’well bottle. S’well is basically the coolest thing in water bottle trends since, well, ever, and our jaws dropped when we saw this new gilded version. Wish list status, achieved!

Goccia Studs in Rose, $38 at Anthropologie

Ooh la la, rose gold! Every girl deserves a gift that’ll help her remember her high school graduation day forever, and these gorgeous earrings are the perfect pick.

Bead + Chain Multi-Wrap Bracelet, $42 at Chloe + Isabel

Meet the friendship bracelet’s grown-up, college-aged sister: this sophisticated Chloe + Isabel wrap bracelet. It has all the comfort and color of her old camp bracelets, but enough sophistication to take her into the big college pond.

Magical Thinking Odette Medallion Tapestry, $49 at Urban Outfitters

Every dorm room needs a tapestry, period. After your college apps, essays and tuition payments, this is college requirement #1.

UNDER $100

Be Your Own Kind of Beautiful Triangle Earrings, $68 at Dogeared

The best gifts are the ones that have thought behind them – and this pair of earrings from Dogeared have just that. The brand’s positive message and self-love reminders are just what a recent grad needs to take the leap into her next chapter.

GLAMGLOW Get Glowing Set, $69 at Sephora

Help her put her best face forward in college – literally! This must-have skincare set gives you a fresh start and a glam glow to get going on your new adventure.

Vera Bradley Large Duffel Bag, $85 at Macy’s

It’s no secret that most college girls don’t pack light. But when she does need to pack, whether for a weekend away or a visit home during break, this colorful Vera Bradley pick will be her new best friend.

OVER $100

Fujifilm Instax Mini 8 Instant Camera, $100 at Urban Outfitters

Here’s to making marvelous memories in college! Forget Facebook and Instagram – take pictures you can actually keep. This instant camera is cute and compact, and we’re loving the idea of a dorm room decorated with an instant photo collage!

Bose SoundLink Color Bluetooth Speaker, $129.99

Let her play her music in style. This Bluetooth speaker is exactly what she needs for her calm study music and her fun, impromptu dance parties with friends (spoiler alert: Taylor Swift will be on that playlist).

Kate Spade New York Cedar Street Monday Cross Body Bag, $148 at Shopbop

Calm, cool and collected – this Kate Spade bag embodies all three. It’s the little black bag every college girl needs in her accessory arsenal, and it makes a major style statement.

Ray-Ban Aviator Sunglasses in Gold/Blue, $170 at Lord & Taylor

Her future’s so bright, she needs shades (But seriously, she’ll actually need these shades for sunny days on campus).

Apple iPad Mini 16GB $249 at Target

This is a big-budget gift, but it’s also a tool that she’ll use every day in college, whether she’s researching her assignments or getting some much-needed R&R from a night in with Netflix. It’s the present she wants and needs, so it’s the ultimate winner.
 


 

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