Remember that episode of Hannah Montana when Hannah Montana told Jake Ryan that he should date Miley? Except Jake Ryan had no idea that Hannah Montana actually WAS Miley, so he was just hearing good things about Miley from Miley herself? Yeah, that same thing happened in real life. Except it happened with our President, so it’s about a million times more serious.

According to Jonathan Greenberg, who used to write for Forbes, a man named John Barron used to call the Forbes office to try to convince Greenberg that Trump was rich enough to be named on the Forbes 400 list.

The plot twist? John Barron was Trump’s alter ego. Hannah Montana-style. (Oh, and he was also lying; Trump was NOT rich enough to be on that list. But we’ll get to that later.)

Let’s start from the beginning. A couple years ago, before Trump had even been elected president, The Washington Post told, "the amazing story of Trump’s old spokesman, John Barron — who was actually Donald Trump himself."

Basically, they explained that back in the 1980s, when reporters called the Trump Organization for an interview, they were told that Trump was too busy. Instead, they would be connected with John Barron, Trump’s spokesman. For almost a full decade, reporters frequently quoted John Barron in their work. In actuality, John Barron did not exist. Everything he said was actually just Donald Trump with a slightly heavier New York accent.

The jig was up in 1990, when, during a lawsuit, he testified under oath, “I believe on occasion I used that name.”

Now back to the lying part. In 1984, Jonathan Greenberg was reporting for the Forbes 400, which is Forbes’ annual ranking of America’s richest people. The year before, Forbes had valued Trump at $200 million, which was only one-fifth of what he claimed to own.

This year, Trump’s spokesman, AKA John Barron, AKA Donald Trump, called Greenberg to convince him that Trump was much richer than Forbes was valuing him.

Greenberg still has the tapes of his phone conversation with “Barron”, and you can listen to them yourself in Greenberg’s Washington Post article. In it, “Barron” claims that Trump owns “in excess of 90 percent” of his family’s business, and should be valued at over a billion dollars.

Eventually, Greenberg and the rest of the team at Forbes realized how much Trump had been lying. Apparently, in their first list in 1982, they had valued Trump at $100 million, but he was actually only worth $5 million.

According to CNN, “Trump's name appeared on the Forbes 400 list off and on for several years and has been on it since 1996. During the campaign, he claimed to have a personal fortune of $10 billion, but Forbes most recently listed his wealth at $3.1 billion.”

This whole story is pretty wild, but we’re just glad Forbes did their own reporting instead of taking Barron’s word for it!

Living the college life of being young, wild and free definitely has its advantages and disadvantages. Whether you moved on campus, out of state, got your own place or decided to stay at home, there’s a huge transition from being in college to entering the adult life after graduation.

One big difference being the relationship you have with your parents. A lot of changes can happen after college graduation, and the relationship you have with your parents could be affected. Many factors in life can affect if your relationship changes for the better or worse. Here are a few examples of how life after college can bring you closer or bring distance in your relationship with your parents.

1. You’re forced to move back home

Moving is arguably the biggest change after college graduation that could be helpful or hurt the relationship with your parents. Whether you decide to move back home or move away, these conversations could be positive or negative. Some parents are happy to assist their new college graduate by letting them move back home. Finding a job that will be enough to support having your own place is very hard in today’s economy, so moving back home to save is a great way to keep the relationship close. Have a positive and responsible conversation with your parents about moving back home, and set any boundaries that will make it comfortable for the both of you.

Moving back home can also have negative effects on your relationship with your parents. The transition of having the freedom to do what you want in college to having rules again could be hindered once you’re back under your parents’ roof. Arguments and misunderstandings are quite likely to happen if an initial conversation was not had, or if moving back home wasn’t fully accepted.

“I went away for college, and when I came back my relationship with my mother was very distant,” says Tabia Robinson, a current graduate student of CUNY Graduate School of Journalism. “I was so used to being on my own, being by myself and taking care of myself, and I think my mother felt like I didn’t need her anymore. Going back to living under her rules is kind of annoying and I’m taking necessary steps to move out and be on my own again.”

Moving back home is definitely a big transition and sometimes really uncomfortable, but use this time to be productive, save money and try to keep the peace with your parents in the meantime.

Related: The Pros and Cons of Moving Back Home After College

2. There’s physical distance between you

For some graduates, moving away and not going back home could affect the relationship as well. In some situations, the phrase “absence makes the heart grow fonder” turns out to be true and could help create a different type of relationship with your parents than if you were closer in distance.

Abbey Williams, a student from University of Wyoming says, “When I visit them I can hang out with them all day long and catch up, and they remind me that they're always around and they care. After leaving and not getting to see them very often, it's so nice to know I have two built-in best friends for life whenever things get rough and I have no one to turn to.”

Having physical distance between does not have to be a bad thing, it can help you to build a long distance relationship that is strong, supportive, and even become a lot closer. Your parents will see  that you can take care of yourself and be a responsible young adult.

3. You depend on them financially again

Along with moving, going back home because of certain financial reasons also has its positives and negatives. Parents understand that being on your own right after college is hard, and you may not get that amazing, full-time position right away. Most college graduates stay at home because they can’t afford to pay rent just yet, and having that safety net helps ease the stress of adulthood a little. However, issues come about when parents can’t assist as much as time goes on, there’s a time limit on how long you’re able to stay at home before you have to move out, or achieving financial stability takes longer than expected. Communicating with your parents on how you can return the favor while they are assisting you financially will help your parents and the relationship.

4. You become closer or grow distant

You will finally have more time to do things you’ve always wanted to do and spend time with friends and family after you graduate. Some will use this time be physically closer to their parents, while others will move away but still maintain a healthy relationship with each other.

Lauren, a graduate of Marymount University, says, “I graduated in spring of 2016 and have been living with my parents since August 2016. I thought I was going to take a job in downtown DC, but the job got moved closer to my parents' home. After I graduated, I kept my apartment in Arlington but after the loss of both of my grandfathers, I was still reeling from that happened to me in my last semester, I decided to go home one day and I never left. My mother welcomed me with open arms and we have never been closer.”

While some parents would like to see their child more often after college by having them move back home or being in the same city or state, being physically apart does not have to have a negative effect on the relationship. It could actually help the relationship between you and your parents and bring you all closer because it will allow you to talk more often. A lot happens after you take off the cap and gown and replace it with your brand new business casual wardrobe, but it doesn’t all have to be negative or stressful. Sometimes your parents will be your number one supporters, and yes, things will change within the relationship, but they are still there to help you. Keeping the communication open, honest and respectful will help solve any problems that will come along after college.

After months of laying low, Ariana Grande has definitely used the last 24 hours to let us know that she's *back*. Yesterday morning, Ari debuted a new single, "No Tears Left to Cry," her first since the tragic bombing at her Manchester, U.K. tour date that left 22 people dead and 500 wounded. And just as we were all hitting replay on the song for the 54th time yesterday (not that I know from personal experience or anything), the singer continued her comeback with a surprise performance at Coachella.

Grande joined Kygo on the stage at the first night of weekend two of Coachella to give a quick (yet fabulous) performance of "No Tears Left to Cry" along with Marvin Gaye's classic, "Sexual Healing." Of course, the crowd collectively lost it.

"No Tears Left to Cry" wasn't the only new thing Ari was debuting at Coachella either — it looks like she's swapped her natural brunette locks for a super bright, almost-lavender platinum new 'do, which is also featured on the song's album art.

Her boyfriend, rapper Mac Miller, has been adorably supportive as Ariana has made her way back into the public eye — he tweeted an sweet message of support for her following the release of her new song, and according to Grande's Instagram story, was by her side before she took the stage at Coachella.

Check out her full performance below — no, I'm not crying, there's just something in my eye.

Well this is terrifying: on Friday evening, a man broke into Taylor Swift's New York City apartment, showered and slept there before police eventually found him and arrested him several hours later.

As TMZ reports, thankfully, Taylor wasn't home when the incident happened — but that doesn't exactly make it less scary. According to law enforcement, the 22-year-old man, who has been identified as Roger Alvarado, was reportedly seen by one of Tay's neighbors, who noticed him climbing the fire escape and smashing a window in the apartment with his hand (ouch.) before climbing in.

Alvarado then proceeded to shower and fall asleep in one of the beds in the apartment before the NYPD arrived and arrested him for stalking, burglary and criminal mischief. To make matters worse, this is the second time Alvarado has been arrested at this address — back in February he was caught attempting to break down the door to the brownstone apartment with a shovel. So while it hasn't been confirmed whether he's aware of the apartment's famous owner, it definitely seems like he might be.

Sadly, this is also not the first time this year that Taylor has had to deal with some pretty scary stuff. Earlier this year, a man was arrested after trying to scale a wall outside her house in Beverly Hills — the same residence where yet another stalker had previously tried to break in wearing a mask and rubber gloves. She wasn't home for either of these attempted break-ins either, luckily.

It might be the first thing a person asks you on a blind date. It may be what you worked towards during your whole college career. It may be what you spend the majority of your time doing. But it is so important to remember that you are not just your job. If you’ve been feeling like how you value yourself is too tied up in your position, what your boss thought of your latest assignment or how your co-workers see you, it may be time to step back and re-assess how you judge yourself. Incorporating some of these tips into your daily life will help you start appreciating your own feelings, thoughts, desires and values that have nothing to do with your work and everything to do with who you are as a person.

Appreciate your job for what it is.

Many of us fall pray to the idea that we are a failure because we are not in the field we really want to be in, or our job is in no way the “dream job” we envisioned we’d have.

Darlene Johnson, the Director of External Relations in the Career Center at Hofstra University who received her master’s degree in career development, recommends recent graduates remember that each job is a stepping stone to the next opportunity. “Look at what you can gain from your current position, even if it is just that you have made one important networking connection," she says. "Then, while you are at that position, do what you can do learn new skills, or make connections that will help you get to where you would rather be.” Talk to your fellow co-workers about why they enjoy their jobs, update your resume often to include new achievements you’ve made at your job and attend any networking events offered!

Related: Why It’s Okay to Never Settle for Less Than Your Dream Job 

Let go of the “shoulds,"“coulds” and “oughts.”

Everywhere we look, society is telling us how we are suppose act, behave and believe. This can lead to constant second-guessing that leads to doubting our self-worth and wondering if we are “enough."

Jess Lively, the writer and host of The Lively Show podcast, also facilitates several online classes for woman about living a life full of intention, and defining your own happiness. Lively likes to remind people struggling that “There is no such thing as doing ‘enough’ or ‘not enough.' There is only ‘what is.' Allowing what is to be the perfect unfolding at this moment in time, and then seeing what comes next, is the best way to navigate the uncertain waters of the future- without the stress and ‘shoulding’ that comes when we decide what our reality ‘must be.' This is particularly true when the current situation does not match out expectations.” By rejecting societal norms that tell us at certain age we should hit a certain personal or career-related milestone, we are choosing to accept and value exactly who we are.

Next time you find yourself saying, “I should have been chosen to go to that week-long conference in another state," ask yourself if that conference is something you actually wanted to go to and would have enjoyed deep down, or is it more that you feel like you should want to go to? Identify and silence your inner critic that tells you want you think and do is not right or enough. 

When you start doubting that your self-worth isn’t tied to your work, make a list of three things you love about yourself, or ask “Would you ever say what you say to yourself to a friend?" The answer is probably no. 

Keep up with your hobbies.

You would never cancel on a meeting with your boss or conference call with a client, so don’t cancel on yourself either! Treat your outside-of-work hobbies as a priority, just as much as you would something for work.

Johnson explains how being a professional and mother of two can mean a hectic schedule, but she still finds ways to be a part of the organizations that mean the most to her. “I volunteer with MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) because that is a cause that I feel strongly about, and I previously sang in a band as a hobby.  It’s important to have interests outside of your job.  For me, it’s especially important to show my daughters the value of giving back to the community in a way that makes sense for you.”

Whether it be going to a kickboxing class after work, or spending a Saturday taking photographs around your neighborhood, don’t give up your passions that aren’t related to your occupation.

Practice being happy for others.

So much of our self-worth comes from comparing ourselves to others. It’s hard to feel good about where you are career-wise when it seems every time you log onto Facebook someone is working at their dream job, or just landed a competitive position overseas.

Johnson likes to remind newly working professionals that life is not a competition: “Just because someone seems like they have 'the perfect job,' maybe that job is not, in reality, perfect for them.  Finally, learn from others, especially those who have positions that you would like to have later on.  Having a mentor is always a good idea.” Try to remember that others’ successes do not take away from your own, and there is no timeline to when you should be reaching certain milestones. Talk to your closest friends to see if they are having any of the same struggles as you and, if necessary, just delete that “everything’s-great-my-life-is-perfect” acquaintance you went to high school with from Facebook already!

Put the work away when you leave the office.

The temptation to check your email one last time at night can be overwhelming, but when you really never turn work “off," two things can happen: You end up just being mildly productive all day, instead of extremely focused when you’re actually at work or you start to put work over other things that matter. It’s easy to feel like your job is taking over your whole life when you don’t remember to leave business at the office. Make sure to spend your time outside of work pursuing the other priorities in your life and giving your attention to the people who matter most.

Learn how to accept rejection.

It’s easy to feel worthless if you don’t get that promotion, raise or interview you were so hoping for. However, it’s important to remember even when things in your career are not going where you want or the pace you want them to, you are still you. You have the same skills, interests and experiences you had before the rejection. The people who cared about you before still do, and the other positive things in your life, whether that be a developing relationship or exciting personal event coming up, are still present.

Appreciate who you are, and where you are in your life, right now.

Every day you show up to work you are learning something new and gaining valuable experience that will help you down the road. “Have people in your life that can remind you of your accomplishments,” Darlene suggests. “Keep a journal of your successes so you can refer to them when needed.” With so much constantly changing in your young adulthood, it’s easy to get caught up in planning and wishing for the future, but remember the only moment you can really live in is the present one. So, give yourself credit even for the smallest victories, both in your career and outside the office. If you spoke up and made a valuable contribution at work that day, cook a nice dinner for you and your SO that night to celebrate.

Associating your career status too closely with your self-worth is a dangerous game, especially right out of college when the chances you are working your dream job with a company you’ll be with for the rest of your life is small. Your position is the work hierarchy does not translate to your position in life, because each one of us brings a unique combination of skill, experience and perspective to the table that no one else can offer. Define yourself by you beliefs, opinions, what you love to do and who you love to be around during your 24 hours and not just what you do for your 9 to 5.

Each year, the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival brings us the craziest fashion statements, good and bad. People either look hippie chic and fabulous, or downright weird and/or offensive. Aside from the legendary performers and hipster food stands, fashion is what makes Coachella one of the most popular festivals ever. Check these awesome Coachella outfits for inspiration:

2012

Beyoncé

Queen Bey slays all day!

Rosie Huntington-Whitely 

Can you even handle this blouse?

Melanie Griffith

Those pants are everything!

Lauren Conrad & Lea Michele

The best sunglasses! So cute.

Street Style

Living for this Indio-chic outfit!

2013

Vanessa Hudgens

How cute is this?

Alessandra Ambrosio

Yes girl! Alessandra kills it every year!

Rob Pattinson & Kristen Stewart

Good Old Twilight saga days. *sigh*

2014

Beyoncé

Rocking her two-piece.

Emma Roberts

Throwing it back to the mesh days!

2015

AnnaSophia Robb

These colors are amaze!

Shanina Shaik

Gorgeous!

Rihanna

Very Coachella and very RiRi.

Chanel Iman

Yes honey!

2016

Kendall Jenner

OMG!

Kylie Jenner

Nice, uh, eyes.

Gigi Hadid

Adorable!

Jasmine Tookes

So beautiful!

Amandla Sternberg

Literally what a babe.

Kendall & Kylie Jenner

These looks are literally goals, per usual.

Zoë Kravitz

THIS. DRESS.

Taylor Hill

I love this so much, I can't.

So exited to see what people wear this year!

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A Columbine survivor shares her story with her daughter. [Glamour]

Cute and comfortable wedges. [Women's Health]

When I go shopping as a black woman. [Hello Giggles]

Walmart just launched a unicorn beauty line! [PopSugar]

The best macaroni and cheese recipes on the planet. [The Huffington Post]

A college dorm fire becomes one man's obsession. [The New York Times]

Cardi B's high school performance of this Lady Gaga song is everything. [BuzzFeed]

Glitter sunscreen is here. [Elite Daily]

The worst cereals you can eat. [Spoon University]

What science knows about cannabis. [The Washington Post]

At least four people are dead and four others injured after a man, who authorities say is 29-year-old Travis Reinking, entered a Waffle House in Tennessee and opened fire.

Reinking was reportedly naked from the waist down and "wielding an assault-style rifle,"ABC News reported. He arrived at the restaurant at 3:30 a.m. on Sunday, and later fled the scene after a patron, James Shaw Jr., wrestled the gun away from him. 

As of early Sunday afternoon, police were still looking for Reinking around Nashville, though they suspect he's from Morton, Illinois. "Keep your doors locked, keep your eyes open. If you see this individual -- if you see a nude guy walking around this morning -- call the police department immediately," said Metro Nashville police spokesman Don Aaron.

Police are also seeking murder warrants against Reinking.

The restaurant tweeted about the incident. "This is a very sad day for the Waffle House family. We ask for everyone to keep the victims and their families in their thoughts and prayers."

Sure, sex is only one aspect of a relationship—but it’s a pretty huge aspect. If you like or love your partner, but the sex is falling short, we really feel for you. While it doesn’t necessarily have to be a deal-breaker in a relationship, it very well can be.

So, how do you distinguish between sex that is fixable and sex that might be a sign of incompatibility? Before you consider walking away from your relationship, read on. We spoke with sex and relationship expert Annabelle Knight and creator of the Sexual Pro Series Webinar videos Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, as well as current collegiettes to find out the truth about mediocre sex with someone you like.

1. It might not be about the sex

You might find yourself struggling with a new partner once that initial attraction starts to fade, or even struggling with your long-term SO. As a relationship ages and you and your partner get to know more about each other, you could find that you aren’t as compatible as you once thought. Any lukewarm feelings toward your partner can easily transfer over into the bedroom, and sometimes, you might not even realize what’s happening.

Brianna*, a student at Georgia State University, thought she had feelings for one of her guy friends until he told her he was sexually attracted to her, which threw her off completely. What’s her advice for unexpectedly bad sex with someone you thought you were interested in? “If your woman intuition is telling you something, listen to it,” she says. “Be honest with yourself and your feelings.”

Dr. O'Reilly says that it all comes down to how much each of you care about the relationship at hand. "If you value the relationship and you're both willing to put some effort into your sex life, it's worth trying to fix," she says. "If, however, one of you refuses to talk about it or make changes, you may not be compatible. Compatibility is rooted in each partner being willing to put in a similar amount of effort."

So, how do you put in this effort if you believe the compatibility is there?

2. Find out if your partner is unhappy too

This is so important. If both you and your partner are unhappy, you may be able to work with each other to improve things. However, if you’re unhappy and your partner thinks everything is fine (or vice versa), there could be a bigger issue at play.

Knight recommends you discuss what’s going on right away. “The longer you put off speaking about your concerns, the more likely the ramifications will be more serious when you eventually do speak about them,” she says. “The best thing to do is just be honest. Conversations like these should be seen as a chance to learn, not just about what your partner wants in bed, but other equally important relationship skills such as joint problem solving, active listening, and mature conflict resolutions.” By speaking up, you increase intimacy levels with your partner, and that fact alone can improve your sexual performance.

Approach the situation in a non-judgmental way, but be straight up about how you feel. After all, everyone deserves the sex (and relationship) they’ve always dreamed of.

3. Communicate about what you like (and don’t like)

If you find that you are both unhappy, don’t be upset—this could actually be a good thing. It allows you the space to learn about each other sexually. It is a common misconception that sex should be effortless with the person you love.

"Research shows that good sex requires work," Dr. O'Reilly says. "Those who believe in sexual destiny are worse off than those who believe in sexual growth. That is, if you believe that a relationship takes work, you’re more likely to have a satisfying relationship — and you’re better able to face challenges when they arise. If you believe fate determines the outcome of a relationship (or sex life), then you’re less likely to be satisfied." This is a great (and rational) way to think about things. 

Knight reiterates this point. “Even those in long-term relationships may find that over time their sexual appetite changes,” she says. “They discover new things they prefer and cast old sexual habits aside in favor of something else.” It’s normal for your sexual needs to grow as you grow.

And this is a great thing, according to Knight. “The wonderful thing about sex is that you can have a different experience every time, even with the same person,” she adds. “This means that, in effect, sex is never effortless. In order to have a happy and healthy sex life, you need to put in the effort.”

Think about it this way: If you plan to be with your partner long-term, you’re going to be having sex with them for a very long time. So, you need to be able to communicate openly, whether this means sharing your desires, trying new things or compromising. Dr. O'Reilly agrees, and provides three tips of her own for how to communicate with your partner: first, start with the positive; second, ask if there is anything they'd like to try or change; and third, ask for what you want more or less of.

On the other hand, if the not-so-great sex is happening with a new love interest, you can still try to communicate with him or her about your desires, but it might not always work.

For Courtney, a senior at Marist College, her expectations fell short with someone she met (and liked) studying abroad. “Maybe he was nervous? Maybe I was nervous? Mediocre sex regardless, I still liked him,” she says. “We vibe effortlessly to this day, even if the serious relationship I once hoped we would have never came about.”

“I tried telling him things that I like (why am I the only one giving oral sex?), but nothing changed," Courtney adds. "I don’t know ladies, if the spark isn’t there, maybe it’s just not meant to be.” Make the effort, ladies, because you’ll never know unless you try.

4. Take control in the bedroom

When the sex is mediocre, you have to be able to ask yourself if you’re part of the issue too. This doesn’t mean getting down on yourself. Instead, ask yourself if you’re willing to change some things in order to work on improving your sexual relationship with your partner.

“If [your sex life] is substandard, it’s up to you to do something about it,” Knight says. “If you’ve tried talking and it’s not had the desired effect, then now is the time to take action. Start by telling your partner exactly what you want––lots of partners find it extremely sexy when their other half takes control, and for many women, being in the driving seat can be extremely liberating.”

Keep in mind that your sex life is your sex life, and the only one who can really make a change when it comes down to it is you. Sometimes, it might be necessary to stop talking and start acting. If still nothing changes, then you need to take an honest look at your relationship. You don’t want to (or deserve to) hang onto an unfulfilling relationship that may have ran its course.

Related: 5 Signs You & Your SO Just Aren’t Meant to Be

5. Understand that no one is bad at sex

The first few times you have sex with a new partner, it might be a little uncomfortable—and understandably so. After all, you each have your previous experiences, which have influenced your desires in the bedroom. Don’t jump ship right away.

“Bad sex is the result of both parties involved, and the blame shouldn’t be laid entirely at one person’s door,” Knight says. “Substandard sex is born from a range of factors, inexperience and a lack of communication being the primary culprits.”

If this blossoming romance is strong in every other element besides the sex, try to improve things before you throw in the towel.

6. Bring effort back into your relationship

If you’ve been in a committed relationship with your partner for a long time, this one’s for you. You might be at the point in your relationship where it seems like you and your partner have lost some spark––and it’s simply because sex is not some concrete thing. It requires effort to keep things fresh, even with someone you very much love.

According to Knight, you and your partner have probably gotten a little too comfortable with one another. “Comfort is a wonderful thing and is a strong building block for any committed relationship,” she says. “However, too much comfort can mean that you no longer make the effort you once did.”

Dr. O'Reilly agrees that losing that initial spark is totally normal. "Passionate love inevitably fades after six to 18 months," she says. "It's a chemical change (from dopamine and adrenaline boosts to oxytocin and vasopressin boosts)." 

Take the time to prioritize your relationship again. “When it comes to long-term sex, it’s important to keep things fresh, which is why many couples look to lingerie, sex toys, and role-play to save the day,” Knight says. These things enable you to spice things up and expand your horizons.

When it comes to mediocre sex with your long-term partner, don’t stress. Talk it out, take some space if you need it, and work on finding your flow again.

Related: What To Do When You Feel Self-Conscious During Sex

Relax, ladies, bad sex is fixable—especially when it’s with someone you really like, as long as you’re both honest and on the same page. Bear in mind, though, that sex is a crucial part of any relationship. It doesn’t have to be the deal-breaker of your relationship, but it can be. The choice is yours.

*Name has been changed

Avicii, whose real name is Tim Bergling, passed away at age 28 on Friday, April 20. Known for a slew of hits, including "Wake Me Up,""Levels,""You Make Me," and "Hey Brother," he was loved by fans and fellow celebrities alike. 

Numerous stars mourned the Swedish DJ after the news broke. 

In addition to tweeting about Avicii, Zedd also paid tribute to the DJ at a Las Vegas performance.

Kygo did the same at Coachella. 

Part of what makes Coachella such an iconic music festival is that celebrities aren't just on stage performing — they're also in the audience and gallivanting around. It's definitely cool to see *~stars~* enjoying the festival like everyone else, and their outfits are ALWAYS on-point. Here's who's made appearances this year. 

Weekend Two

Ariana Grande & Mac Miller

Normani

Cardi B & SZA

Katy Perry & Sia

Jennifer Hudson

Weekend One

Kylie Jenner

...who was also spotted with her sister Kourtney Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, Chance The Rapper, Quavo from Migos, and Travis Scott

...and Nicki and Quavo were later seen with Shania Twain, The Weeknd, and Timothée Chalamet

Kendall Jenner and Hailey Baldwin

Camila Mendes

Shay Mitchell

Justin Bieber

Rihanna

Paris Hilton

Vanessa Hudgens

Lauren Jauregui

Millie Bobby Brown

We'll keep updating this list as more celebrities make appearances, so you can live vicariously through them like I am.

Something is thought to be taboo when it’s not considered a societal norm. However, a lot of taboos are actually tied to sexual guilt because people feel like what they’re doing sexually is wrong. Newsflash: Nobody can tell you that what you’re doing in bed is wrong or gross as long as everything is consensual, and you shouldn’t be telling anyone that either. We’re hitting on topics people specifically get judgy about in the college atmosphere. It’s 2018, and we as a group of powerful AF babes should support each other and start a conversation to normalize these common sexual experiences.

1. Anal

Why is this even considered taboo anymore? For some reason we’re still complaining about it. Sure, you may not want something in your butt, but if other women (or men) do, then just let them. The problems college students have with anal sex arise because we really don’t understand it. We either think it hurts, it’s dirty, it’s slutty or that it’s all our partners want and we shouldn’t give it to them. Sure, it’s definitely not everybody’s cup of tea, and if you don’t do it carefully you’ll definitely have a very bad first experience with anal. However, for both men and women, it can produce a lot of pleasure.

Jordan, a senior at San Francisco State University, pretty much says it all. “Guess what everyone! I love anal sex! Get over it!” she says. “Me and my friend group are very vocal about our sex lives, and even then I know sometimes I’m being looked at funny if I talk about my positive experiences with anal.”

In 2010, The Journal of Sexual Medicine released a study that found that more than 40 percent of women in their early twenties had tried anal sex. If that many young women are doing it, why are we still acting squeamish about it? Men and women both confess that it’s deeply pleasurable if you have a good experience, and it also grows intimacy. Butt play is pretty common practice, but by not talking about it we’re making it taboo and shameful.

If anal is something you want to try and you explore it in a safe and healthy way, do it! And don’t be afraid to talk about it either. Sharing your best butt tips with your friends during your late-night Sex and the City-esque gossip is going to be spreading a positive anal environment.

2. Period sex

If you’re ashamed of your period or think you’re gross because of it, you need to conquer that way of thinking. Our patriarchal system taught you that, but we here at Her Campus are here to tell you that your period is normal and nothing to be sheepish about. If your partner thinks your period is gross too, you need to sit them down for a real talk conversation. Your uterus is going to shed once a month for most of your life, so it’s time accept that. More importantly we need to learn that period sex is okay. Not everyone goes faint at the sight of blood, and if you’re feeling horny, then being on your period doesn’t have to be a sexual barrier.

Avery, a senior at Purdue University, shares her take on the taboo of period sex. “I’ve had sex a few times on my period and I honestly think it feels better,” she says. “I usually want sex way more when I’m on my period. Also, if you’re not into period sex, then no pressure, but don’t turn your nose up at people who do it.”

If you’re in the mood to spice up that time of the month with some pleasure, enjoy yourself! Tbh, we have a lot more to worry about in college than freaking out about period sex.

Related: What Every Woman Should Know About Period Sex

3. Body hair

We’ve shaved body hair out of our lives because apparently “sexy” in our society means looking like a hairless cat. However, as body positive college women, can we please end this? Whether the hair is in your pubic area or in your armpits, by the time you get to college, body hair is something you need to get comfortable with, especially in terms of sex.

When you’re trying to study for finals, work, feed yourself and fit in an hour each day to watch Gossip Girl, shaving gets rightly pushed to the back of the priority list. While we totally back up our girls who feel sexier clean-shaven, know that feeling pressure to be constantly as smooth as a Barbie doll should be considered more taboo than having stubble like a normal person. Shaving is a behavior ingrained in us, but it doesn’t have to be the rule for everyone.

Michael, a sophomore at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, weighs in on how guys really feel about hair. “Believe me, guys talk about it, and from what I know and my experience, most of us don’t care. If hair comes off in your mouth it can be kind of weird, but hair doesn’t make a difference for actually having sex. It’s confusing why there’s so much scandal around being hairy.”

Did you know you actually have hair down there for a reason?It’s more hygienic to have pubic hair because it protects your parts from friction and infection. The bush around the house isn’t something you should be feeling insecure about because it’s literally there to keep you safe. It’s society that says you should be hairless, and to overcome that taboo we need to reject sexual shame related to body hair. Women should have the choice to make body hair sexually empowering.

4. Not having an orgasm

If you’re not having an orgasm during sex, join the club. A lot of things can feel great that won’t make you come. It’s not anyone’s fault, and it shouldn’t be a secret you have to keep. By now, sex researchers have pretty much figured out that having an orgasm from penetrative sex alone is slim, so let’s bring this topic out of the shadows.

Be confident, and vocalize what works and doesn’t work about sex to your partner. Both of you are going to feel anxious about it, so using gentle vocabulary like "I know it feels different to talk about orgasms, but I’m excited to explore this with you," or "I learned I like this from masturbation, want me to show you how to do it?" are great ways to start. If your partner is dismissive of your concerns, reconsider hooking up with them, because they’re probably not worth your time or going to treat your right sexually.

There’s a negative stigma associated with women who don’t swoon and orgasm as soon as their partner is inside them. Now, we feel embarrassed to discuss it (especially in college when we’re already insecure about ourselves enough), but it needs to be talked about, or how else can the situation be improved?

Related: How to Have the Most Pleasurable, Not-Awkward, Safest Oral Sex Ever

5. Having multiple partners

Sex between two people exclusively may be the only acceptable option for you, but it isn’t for everyone. Unless you’re in a committed relationship in college, it’s realistic that you could be having sex with different people in the same month or even the same week.

In college, it’s easy to let someone’s sex life characterize them. If a girl hooks up with a person one night and a new person the next night, it doesn’t mean she’s “loose” or that her sexual experience is any less meaningful. With our current college hookup culture, we should be the first to accept having multiple partners as not being taboo. If you’re two (or more) consenting adults, then do whatever you want.

None of these things we really talked about above are as uncommon as you think, they’re just in the dark because we’ve put them there. That can change by being open-minded and accepting. Expanding your experiences past what you’re used to helps your understanding of the world, and on that journey, you might find that you like something taboo you weren’t expecting to.

Whether you have mental illness or just need someone to talk to, therapy is a great solution with endless health benefits. That said, it can be a really stressful, anxiety-inducing process to try and find the right person and therapy type for you and your needs, especially if it’s your first time searching for a therapist. It’s really important to make sure that your therapist is someone you feel comfortable with; if not, your treatment might not be as impactful and beneficial. You don’t want to add to any mental health strains, so we’re here to help you avoid any of the potential obstacles in the therapist search!

1. Consider what kind of therapy and therapist you want

There are many different factors to be considered when you’re determining what kind of therapy you need and want. A few questions to keep in mind might be: how often do you want to go? What specialty would you like your therapist to have? Do you prefer any sort of method of therapy? Suzy Johnson*, junior at UC Davis, says, “Something that made a huge difference was understanding the type of psychologist that was right for me,” because she was not well versed in the vast world of therapy.

Two particularly popular types of therapy, according to the National Institute of Mental Health, are cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and psychodynamic therapy. CBT combines two schools of thought (cognitive and behavioral therapy, respectively) into a comprehensive practice that addresses personal thoughts and beliefs as well as explicit actions. This therapy can be used to address depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder and eating disorders.

Related: Should I Go To Therapy? 4 Collegiettes Who Are Glad They Did

Psychodynamic therapy is a more traditional form of therapy that has its roots in psychoanalytic therapy, though contemporary therapists don't rely on this methodology anymore. The focus here is on subconscious feelings and how these affect one's actions. This kind of therapy is often used in combination with other types. 

Many different kinds of therapies exist, a detailed list of which you can find on the National Institute of Mental Health’s website. Making sure you practice the one that can be most effective for you is vital. Becoming familiar with different types only increases your chances of finding what’s right for you, and, therefore, improving your mental health! This might require some trial and error, and “most people won’t find the right therapist for them after the first time,” in Suzy’s experience.

It might be important for you to consider the gender of your therapist. Dr. Carole Lieberman M.D., psychiatrist and author, says, “For example, if a woman has had an abusive father, she might not feel comfortable with a male therapist.” There are a lot of reasons that gender might impact the success of your therapy, and if you think this might be the case, you might want to narrow your search. Dr. Roy Stefanik D.O., a psychiatrist and clinical assistant professor at the Georgetown University School of Medicine, says, “If you feel you would be much more comfortable with one particular gender or another, start there.” Trust your instincts when it comes to searching for a therapist, as these should guide you in the right direction!

Additionally, if you identify as LGBTQ+, you might want to take care to ensure that your therapist is friendly to your identity, or that they have special experience and knowledge in these areas. The Gay and Lesbian Medical Association has an online directory of inclusive therapists, and it is also probably a good idea to check when you make an appointment or have an initial consultation with a therapist that your identity will be respected and considered.

2. Start with your school’s resources

If you don’t have any idea how to begin the search for a therapist, your college’s health center should have a mental health office that can be helpful to you. Check their website, walk in or make an appointment to ask for a referral or to see if their therapists and psychiatrists can suit your needs. As a part of your enrollment at the school, it might even be the case that there are a number of free counseling sessions you have access to, right on campus!

Tori, a senior at DePaul University, found her therapist at the school’s counseling center. After taking advantage of the free counseling sessions, her counselor was able to refer her to another therapist, off campus. “It was nice to have that counselor to launch off from,” Tori says. “He knew me and had met with me and recommended people based on my needs and what he thought was best.” Going through the counseling center will really ease your stress in the therapy search because they are more aware of methods as well as more familiar with you and your needs.

3. Check websites for reviews

Psychology Today has listings for thousands of licensed medical professionals who others have reviewed. This site is useful because it allows you to look for a therapist you know by name or practice, as well as search just by your location if you are starting from scratch. Dr. Stefanik says, “Reviews can be very difficult to interpret—people are much more likely to write a bad review if they've had a bad experience than a good review for a positive one.” He suggests looking for patterns in the reviews that paint a more holistic figure of the therapist you’re researching. Doctor reviews can be very helpful in steering you in the right direction, but take them with a grain of salt.

You should also be aware of whether or not the therapist you are interested in has been the subject of any malpractice lawsuits. If this bothers you, you might not want to see this therapist. The state medical board keeps track of this information, so if you check the website for the state in which you are looking for a therapist, you will find listings of those individuals who have been involved in such cases.

It’s also good to check the therapist’s or practice’s own website to get a feel for their methodology and overall approach. There you will probably find doctor bios and backgrounds on the type of care they offer. Dr. Stefanik also says to keep in mind whether the description written for the therapist is “sincere or thoughtful.” How the therapist chooses to represent themselves online can be a good tell of their in-person conduct!

Related: 17 College Women Get Real About Depression

4. Prepare for your first appointment

Avoid any anxiety about what your first appointment may or may not hold by getting extra prepared. Take stock of how you are feeling the night before your appointment and how you expect to feel after. Why not make a list of goals or things you are looking to get out of your therapy? Dr. Stefanik suggests that individuals “write some notes beforehand and bring them to the session with you if you're concerned you might forget to discuss something you feel is important.” You should also remember to make a list of any medications you take, so that whoever you’re seeing is fully aware of your situation.

Dr. Lieberman adds that you should focus on the most important issues you’d like to discuss with a therapist, in order to give them an idea of what they are going to be working on with you. She says that a therapist should be able to help you with issues big and small, but it might be easier to get the big goals out on the table just for the sake of mental organization!

The American Psychological Association (APA) suggests asking your therapist several questions at the time of your first appointment, including those about their specific methodoligies as well as their credentials. How long have they been practicing psychology for? What are their specific focuses? Do they have any specific experience with issues such as your own?

Don't forget to inquire about their prices and the types of insurance they accept. "Many insurance companies provide coverage for mental health services," according to the APA. Whether it be through your parents or your own employer, it is best to check on these logistics before starting therapy to make sure it is financially feasible, or if you might have a restriction on exactly how much therapy you can partake in. 

5. Evaluate your progress

Checking in with yourself at different stages in your therapy is imperative to make sure you are receiving the best possible care.  You might not feel like your problems are entirely solved after your first few sessions or weeks of therapy, but you should have a handle on whether or not the therapist if for you. At this point, it makes sense to ask yourself if your visits have been helpful and if you feel like you have made progress or are feeling better.

Even if progress is not the case, Dr. Lieberman says therapy is “not about making you happy every session.” Dealing with personal, deep-rooted issues is likely going to cause some serious frustration, but you should feel like it's getting you somewhere and helping you confront and deal with your obstacles. She recommends that, after your first couple of sessions with a therapist, ask yourself a simple question: “Does this therapist seem to get me?” Just be honest with yourself, as that is the only way you can hope to get anywhere with your therapy.

Nathalie, a junior at SUNY Old Westbury, says that looking for a connection with her therapist was crucial in her process, and later with regard to the effectiveness of her actual therapy. “If the connection is not there, there is no point in staying because I won't feel comfortable with the therapist,” Nathalie says. The comfort factor is super important; if you do not feel okay with your therapist, it’s going to be difficult or impossible to talk to them and discuss your obstacles and fix what you’re interested in fixing. “I need to be able to talk to that therapist effortlessly,” Nathalie also adds—a very good rule of thumb!

“Therapy is healthy and normal and I genuinely think that everybody can benefit from therapy, even if they’re neurotypical,” says Suzy. Therapy is tied up in social stigma that prevents people from getting the help that they need, whether or not they have a mental condition of some kind. It is certainly not the case that you need to have a diagnosed mental illness to be receiving therapy. Therapy is just like working out and getting enough sleep—a necessary way to take care of one’s body! We all go through difficult times and face extraordinary obstacles, and sometimes we cannot work through these without the help of others. Therapy is a great option, and if you are willing to put in the effort, it can only help you!

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Name: Nadja Giramata
Job Title and Description: International Model
College Name/Major: University of Strasbourg and Manchester University
Twitter Handle:@giramatanadja
Instagram Handle:@nadjagiramata

What does your current job entail? Is there such a thing as a typical day?

My current job consists of posing in front of a camera to sell products that are mostly clothing, but also cosmetics. I sell dreams and an idea of beauty. Ironically, modeling is seen as a very glamorous job, whereas a model is looking for a job every day of her career. So, imagine going for an interview about every day of the week...

Where a lot of confidence is expected, a lot of rejection is feared. A casting means that you're competing against other people who have as many qualities and flaws as you do, but you have to make that one difference and be the chosen one.

What is the best part of your job?

The best part is definitely the travel, meeting new people, and discovering new cultures. As a model, in every situation, you learn. You have to quickly understand how to work in a team. Plus, every job is with a different team and may have different requirements, so you need to know how to quickly adjust, behave, speak, express yourself, and understand what's needed from you. All of that makes it thrilling! Hence, as much as being glamorous, you also must be intelligent.

What was your first entry-level job in your field and how did you get it?

My first entry-level job was my worldwide Topshop campaign shot by Alasdair McLellan. It was all very new for me. Coming from France I barely knew Topshop and its popularity, but I remember my sister bringing me there to shop and telling me, “One day you will be on these walls, you will be one of these girls”. And about two weeks later I was shooting it in the English countryside... And her words became reality: my pictures were pinned in every bus stop on every bus and in stores. It was unbelievable.

What words of wisdom do you find most valuable?

This always resonates with me when I feel anxiety trying to settle in: “Worrying won’t add a day to your life”. Then I calm down, because how true...

What is one mistake you made along the way and what did you learn from it?

The very first mistake I made would be to think that I had to be or look a certain way to succeed. But along the way, I noticed that just being myself with my beliefs, my values, my style, wouldn’t please everyone but would be more rewarding in many ways for my own self and even for my career.

What has been the most surreal moment of your career thus far?

The moment I certainly cherish the most from my years working as an international model was when I got that one opportunity that I had always promised myself I would grab: talking about being black in a very color-minded society through my story as a child orphaned by the war. Being an orphan, and having the path I had in life, did not disable me, but made me very aware of my luck, and even being incredibly thankful for all of it. I know that the ones who see themselves as lucky as I do are very few. Therefore, we must speak up, because unfortunately we don’t all have the same chances in life. In the end, children – the first victims – won’t remember the noise of guns and screams, the hatred, the insults, but they will remember the public’s silence.

And I was even more thankful that I got to fulfill this dream with people that would understand me and wouldn’t try to pity me, but would just give me a loving ear. David Lipman, who directed and shot my story for The Impression, was so caring and easy to work with. He gave my friend Kenza Fourati and me a complete freedom on how to conduct the interview, and we were all on the same page: we wanted to share a real message of hope and love despite the reality we live in, because there's still hope no matter what.

Everyone was so easy and kind that I might not have realized the importance of it straight away, nor even who I was working with. I couldn't believe that Kenneth Richard, through The Impression magazine, would give us such a grand space to address such a critical issue that is racism and still showing the beauty and platform that fashion can give. All these people are all part of my story in a way or another, and for me, that is another present from life.

What advice would you give to a 20-something with similar aspirations?

If anyone wants to be a model, I think that I would tell him or her to make sure that they understand what it's all about. I think that most of them (and even more with the use of social media now) think that it's a very easy job—not even a job for some, but “a very glamorous lifestyle.” Yes, but that’s not enough...

Be ready to work hard and go through more rejection and moments of failure than we actually see in the pictures. And I truly believe that hard work always pays off! The question is, are you physically and emotionally willing and able to take it?

Good morning Her Campus! With a break-neck news cycle, there is no possible way for you to stay on top of every story that comes across your feeds—we’re all only human, after all.

But, life comes at you fast. So grab a cup of coffee and settle in for this quick and dirty guide to stories you might’ve been sleeping on (like, literally. It’s early.)

At Least 57 People Are Dead After A Suicide Attack in Afghanistan

As people in the Afghan capital of Kabul were lining up at a government office to register to vote on Sunday, a suicide bomber detonated explosives that killed at least 57 people. 119 others were injured. According to The New York Times, the attack is "raising new concerns about the potential for violence to undermine Afghanistan's long-delayed parliamentary elections." 

The Islamic State claimed responsibility for the bombing, reports the NYT. There was also a separate explosion near another voting registration center, which killed five people and wounded four others. 

Kellyanne Conway Lashed Out At CNN For Talking About Her Husband's Tweets

In an appearance on CNN's State of the Union, the White House counselor berated the network for asking about her husband's criticism of President Trump on Twitter (he's since deleted the tweets). According to The Hill, Conway insisted that her husband "writes a lot of things that are also supportive" of Trump.

"It's fascinating to me that CNN would go there, but it's very good for the whole world to have just witnessed ... that it's now fair game how people's spouses and significant others may differ with them," Conway said to CNN's Dana Bash.

Bash said that the question about her husband still would've been asked, even if she were a man — to which Conway replied, "No you wouldn't."

Actor Verne Troyer Died At 49

Troyer, best known for his role as "Mini-Me" in the Austin Powers films, passed away at the age of 49, according to posts on his social media accounts Saturday. No cause of death has been announced, though he was hospitalized in early April, CNN reported. 

"Verne was an extremely caring individual. He wanted to make everyone smile, be happy, and laugh," said a statement posted to Troyer's social media. "Anybody in need, he would help to any extent possible. Verne hoped he made a positive change with the platform he had and worked towards spreading that message every day."

Troyer's Austin Powers co-star Mike Myers released a statement on Saturday, calling him the "consummate professional and a beacon of positivity."

What to look out for...

Today marks National Movie Theater Day. Certain theaters around the U.S. are celebrating by offering discounted or free showings!

In what is probably the most exciting year for English Royal enthusiasts, The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge welcomed their third child this morning—about one month before Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s wedding. 

Prince William and Kate Middleton's baby boy was born at 11:01 AM U.K. time, and weighed 8 pounds, 7 ounces. According to Kensington Palace, “Her Royal Highness and her child are both doing well.”

The new baby joins big brother George, 4, and big sister Charlotte, 2. According to People, Prince George was at school, and Princess Charlotte was at home at Kensington Palace when the Duchess gave birth. They will reportedly meet their new sibling later today. 

And even though the new addition to the Royal Family is getting much of the attention, little Princess Charlotte is making history herself. Due to a change in the line of succession, this is the first time a royal daughter does not lose her spot to her younger brother. Princess Charlotte is fourth in line to the throne behind grandfather Prince Charles, father Prince William, and brother Prince George.  

The next question on everyone’s mind is what will the new little prince be named? CNN is reporting that the favorite names are Arthur, Albert, and James, though it could be a few days until we find out the little guy’s official name. 

Congrats to the Duke and Duchess! I can’t wait to see newest royal! 

ABC’s Grey’s Anatomy is beloved by many, and those passionate fans are in luck because Shonda Rimes’s long-running drama has been renewed for a 15th season. 

According to E News, Channing Dungey, the ABC Entertainment president, has said “Grey’s Anatomy has a special place in my heart and millions of viewers feel the same way. Thanks to fiercely loyal fans who have been on this journey since the beginning, and new generations of viewers who continue to discover the joy and drama of Grey Sloan Memorial, the show is as strong as ever.” 

While the numbers show that fans are obviously excited (Grey’s is ABC’s number one drama among adults 18-49), is Grey’s really as good as it once was? 

Over the course of 14 seasons, we have said good-bye to many beloved characters—and two more actors, Sarah Drew and Jessica Capshaw, will be departing after the current season. Additionally, plot points are continuously recycled (I mean how many disastrous events can occur in the Seattle area?). What started as a unique and interesting take on the medical drama, Grey’s has quickly gone from must-see-TV to a mundane hour of weekly television.

Shonda Rimes is a force to be reckoned with in the world of television, though, but instead of her constantly trying to breathe new life into Grey’s Anatomy, I would rather see her use her skills to develop new works. 

Let’s look towards the future of Shondaland and TGIT and enjoy the Golden Years of Grey’s Anatomy on Netflix, shall we?

Do you love books? Do you love movies? What about movies based on books? 

If that's you, get ready, because the trailer for Crazy Rich Asians was just released and it looks amazing!

Crazy Rich Asians follows Rachel (played by Constance Wu) and her longtime boyfriend Nick (played by Henry Golding) as they head to Singapore for Nick's best friend's wedding. Rachel is excited to meet his super elusive family, only to learn before they even leave New York, that he's crazy rich. Nick is also one of Singapore's most eligible bachelors! Now she has to contend with not only tons of women and hungry socialites who are looking to steal him away from her, but also his mother who doesn't approve of their relationship.

With Nick being one of the most eligible bachelors and his family being extremely wealthy, that makes for a trailer that is overflowing with opulence. Crazy parties, diamonds, designer clothes, private jets—the trailer has it all! And it ends, as Teen Vogue reports, "with a face-off between Rachel and Eleanor, and viewers are left wondering if the couple gets their happily ever after."

While the movie looks absolutely incredible, it's important to note how vital this film is to its audience. Instead of doing what Hollywood tends to do with whitewashing a film adaptation or remake, the cast of Crazy Rich Asians is comprised entirely of Asian actors. The Ringer points out that "Crazy Rich Asians will be the first non-period-piece Hollywood movie with an Asian-majority cast in 25 years." 

This is a step in the right direction for more inclusive films and we absolutely cannot wait for this gem! 

Crazy Rich Asians hits theaters August 17th.

The age old saying, “It’s not what you know, it’s who you know,” does bear more truth than you may think. But how do you get to know people? And how do you make sure that your newest connection isn’t just another dead end? Tom Dezell, career advisor and author of “Networking for the Novice, Nervous, or Naïve Job Seeker”, and Danny Rubin, author of "Wait, How Do I Write This Email?", weigh in on what you’re probably doing wrong and what you should be doing instead to make your networking emails a success.

Get specific

You need to know what you want to get out of making this connection before writing anything down. Are you looking for a mentor? Do you simply admire this person professionally and want to get to know them? Put yourself in his or her shoes, what would make you open a random email from a stranger? That’s what he or she thinks when they see an email titled “networking” or “connect.” Dezell notes that you want to establish a connection the other person, thus giving them a reason to read your email. “On an email, the subject line is very important in determining whether it’s read or not,” he says. “If a friend or colleague referred you, or you’re a fellow alum or share another common professional group, mention this.” Don’t wait until the body of your email to try and make a connection. Start with the subject to get the reader more interested.

Show your passion

To make a connection with someone you need to show your interest in the person and company. Specifically, you need to be able to say what about this company or person interests you. Research the company and learn about their new projects and office culture to establish some interesting talking points. Dezell suggests showing in your email what projects attracted you to the company and how it connects to your career. “Employers will see many people looking for an internship or entry-level job and know that the more engaged worker will be one who knows more particulars about why the work helps them as well as the company,” he says. Don’t let your email be a fan letter. Let it be a representation of your passion for the company and the work they do.

Know that this isn't a job application

A common mistake that people make is making their email all about needing a job or internship. Appearing desperate can turn off your prospective connection. Keep this in mind when writing your email and when sending it. Dezell notes not to wait for an open job to be posted before reaching out. “If you have a particular company of interest, reach out to an individual there in position to help or hire you and ask to meet before any openings are announced,” he says. A good first impression goes a long way and if you’re successful that means you now have a supporter in the company.

A thought-out compliment goes a long way

The content of your email should be balanced and, as mentioned earlier, not a fan letter. With that being said, however, a well thought out compliment goes a long way. Rubin knows that you must "give before you get." Meaning you need to devote time to earning someones respect and trust via email. "It's not enough to write, 'Looks like your doing great stuff with your career!'" he says. "That's empty rhetoric because you could use the line but never do any research." You have to prove that you made the time to learn about someone else's career. This shows that your interest is authentic and will give the person a tiny ego boost. 

Related: The Lazy Girl’s Guide To Networking

Ask smart questions

This seems like a no-brainer, but you really have to think before you type when it comes to asking questions. If you can find the answer to the question you're asking from a simple Google search, then you should re-think it. Rachel Petty, a senior at James Madison University, has found success with networking emails after asking strategic questions. "I've found that it's always good to ask questions," she says. "If you leave it open-ended, the person you're emailing will be more likely to reply!" Rubin agrees and mentions that this will make the other person feel valued. "Even the busiest people will stop in their tracks when someone asks for their knowledge or instruction," he says. Asking questions also gives the other person an opportunity to email you back. It's easier to ignore an email when there isn't anything specific to respond to.

Successful networking emails mean your newest connection isn't just another number on your LinkedIn account. To get to that point you must start with a killer email that will not only impresses the reader, but also compliment them, show your personality and give the other person an opportunity to start a dialogue. Networking emails won't be so daunting after practice, patience and some thoughtful editing.

Spencer and Aria had some of the most dramatic storylines on Pretty Little Liars. Who can forget those two weeks where everyone was sure that Ezra was A? Oh, and what about that whole twin thing? Not to mention they always seemed to be serving unique looks, from Aria's over-the-top earrings to Spencer's extensive blazer collection. Now, both girls might be coming back to TV—and that's no lie!

Actress Sofia Carson just dropped a major hint during an interview with Entertainment Tonight that OG Liar Squad members, Troian Bellisario and Lucy Hale, might actually be involved in the upcoming PLL spinoff, Pretty Little Liars: The Perfectionists. Carson revealed that she's heard both of them would be interested in working on the show, and that "as much as they would want to, [the current cast] will have them." When questioned about whether Troian and Lucy would get involved onscreen or offscreen, she replied "hopefully both!" Same, Sofia! 

It definitely sounds like Lucy is ready to slip right back into Aria’s chunky-heeled vintage boots. She told Entertainment Tonight that she would "absolutely" love to return to her iconic role. Troian, on the other hand, has already started the process of potentially directing an episode—such a Spencer move.

Freeform first announced that a new Pretty Little Liars spinoff, based on Sara Shepherd's book series The Perfectionists, was in the works, this past September. Previously confirmed cast members include returning fan favorites Sasha Pieterse and Janel Parrish, who played frenemies Alison DiLaurentis and Mona Vanderwaal respectively, in the original series. Newcomer Sofia Carson will take on the role of trendsetting blogger Ava, according to Teen Vogue.

Officially, the series still hasn’t been picked up–which means its totally unconfirmed whether or not this epic PLL reunion will actually happen. But, according to a casting notice, a Pretty Little Liars spinoff series was filmed in Oregon this March. What could it mean? You don’t need to be a Rosewood detective to figure that one out…